To succeed in marriage, you have to "move from me to we."

List below nine decisions YOU are responsible for making on a regular basis. For example: vacations, family diet, children’s schooling, children’s play dates, investments, insurance coverage, entertainment plans, holiday plans, and work related decisions.

Next to each decision, rank the extent to which you include your spouse in those decisions based on the following scale.

0—don’t include at all
1—include a little
2—include a lot

Add your score and measure it against the scale below.

ASSESSMENT SCALE

0-9: OUT OF SHAPE. You’re missing the mark on this one big time.

10-14: AVERAGE. Okay, but if you're trying to restore your marriage, you'll have to do better.

15-18: MARRIAGE FITNESS CHAMPION. Excellent!

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