Monthly Archives: September 2010

Soul Mates

Do you hide things from your spouse? Do you feel inhibited? Are you hesitant to really be yourself? If you answered “yes,” you have a symptom of a marriage based on compatibility. You’re hesitant to be yourself because you feel … Continue reading

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Connect at Your Core

When you and your spouse connect at your cores and become soul mates, you experience life very differently than if your marriage is based on compatibility. Let’s explore some significant ways life can be different for you. Earlier we discussed … Continue reading

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How to Reconnect with Your Spouse

In order to save your marriage, you have to reconnect with your spouse. But what do you connect? Do you connect your characters or your souls (see last post for definitions)? If you try to connect your characters, you’re “looking … Continue reading

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Saving Your Marriage Alone

Creating love between you and your spouse is the key to saving your marriage alone and having a fulfilling life. But in order to understand the depth of that idea, you have to know what I mean when I say … Continue reading

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Summary of previous posts

Love is the most awesome experience in life because it fulfills our most basic need—the need to connect with another person. But falling in love is a gift from Mother Nature which doesn’t last forever. When ecstatic love fades from … Continue reading

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How to Change Your Marriage

How do you change your marriage? Connecting with your spouse changes your marriage. Why? Because love has transformative power. Imagine yourself as a piece of a jigsaw puzzle with each protrusion and indentation representing a different aspect of your personality. … Continue reading

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How to have a Great Marriage

When the original connection with your spouse fades, you have several options. One option is to accept the situation, scale down your expectations, and try to navigate an arrangement that “works.” Other than divorce, most couples choose this option. How … Continue reading

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Problems in Marriage? Love is the Answer.

Do you have problems in your marriage? Let’s set the stage for the solution. Falling in love is the most euphoric experience in life. Love is a bond that quenches your primal need for connection. Falling in love is like … Continue reading

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The most basic need in your marriage

To get what you want, you have to know what you need. You experience longing and desire in life, but for what? You want—but what do you really want? Did you ever get a food craving you couldn’t satisfy? You … Continue reading

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Marriage Problems – The Secret Solution

I want to share with you the secret to solving all your marriage problems. But in order to understand the solution, you first have to hear a story. Stay with me during the story. The punchline is worth the wait. … Continue reading

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Saving Your Marriage – Saving Your Life

Your marriage is the lead domino in your life. Whichever way it falls is the way everything else in your life goes too. That’s one reason why it’s so important to focus on saving your marriage. Not only because it’s … Continue reading

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Marriage Communication – It’s NOT the Problem

The transformation of my marriage and my disappointment with traditional marriage counseling inspired my exploration into the topic of marriage success and marriage communication. I read virtually every relationship book on the market. I discovered that relationship success literature focuses … Continue reading

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Marriage Seminar – Now Online

The wisdom in Marriage Fitness is a result of years of study and research, coaching couples, and conducting marriage seminars. But unlike other relationship experts who approach marriage from a clinical perspective, for me the topic of relationship success is … Continue reading

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Marriage Therapy? No! A Better Alternative.

We all have a story about how we fell in love. Do you remember your story? Unfortunately, most of us have a story about how we fell out of love too. For some couples the impetus was financial stress, a … Continue reading

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Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel – Expert Endorsements

“A breakthrough for the institution of marriage. This should be required for every spouse in America.” –David J. Lieberman, Ph.D. New York Times Bestselling Author, Make Peace with Anyone “Deeply rooted in psychology, theology, and the pragmatic realities of day-to-day … Continue reading

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