I Fell Out of Love with My Husband
Unfortunately after being married for only nine years, I fell out of love with my husband. Although I never intended for this to happen, I found myself in this extremely hurtful predicament. I wanted to be happy in my marriage, yet at the time it seemed like this was impossible. I didn’t think I would ever be able to love my husband in the same way again and almost gave up hope on my marriage. My name is Lucy and I am writing my marital success story as a guest blogger for Marriage Fitness. My marital journey can show you how my husband and I were able to fix our marriage and fall back in love with each other.
Came as a Shock
It was our seventh year of marriage when I realized that I fell out of love with my husband. Everything happened so gradually that I was unaware of the drastic changes in our marriage. Therefore, it came as a complete shock to me when I noticed the distance between my husband and me. We used to have certain ways that we showed each other affection which were no longer there. We stopped kissing each other before we left the house, we didn’t hold hands anymore, we stopped eating dinner together, and we rarely went on dates together. Yes, some of the changes are small, however with all of our affection absent it was extremely difficult to be sexually active with each other. With one thing leading to the next, the distance between my husband and me was only growing larger.
With the distance, came hostility. We barely even communicated with each other anymore. Everything was so unfamiliar that I felt as if I was in a different marriage. I wasn’t sure when I fell out of love with my husband but I was sure that I didn’t want to stay married to a man who I wasn’t in love with anymore. It was the hardest decision I ever had to make, but I told my husband that I wanted to get divorced. My husband was in agreement that we were no longer in love, but he was not willing to get divorced. He believed that we could work through this issue and begged me to give our marriage one last shot.
The Last Shot
With the majority of our marriage being great, I felt that it was only fair to give my marriage one last chance. I owed this to my husband and I wowed it to myself. We began Marriage Fitness Tele Boot Camp and immediately, I knew that I made the right decision to work on my marriage. It is never easy fixing a marriage, but Marriage Fitness made it possible for my husband and I to turn our marriage around. We have fallen back in love and now we have a bond that cannot be broken. We owe all of our thanks to Marriage Fitness.