A marriage without intimacy is not a marriage at all.
If you and your spouse are in a sexless marriage, letting it go on without doing something about it can lead to much more than a continued lack of sex.
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Without intimacy in your relationship, you run the risk of a divide growing between you and your spouse. One that will be harder to repair the longer it’s allowed to continue.
Whether the root cause behind the lack in intimacy in your marriage is something that you are able to control or not, it’s important that the two of you work through the issue before it really begins to take its toll and cause both of you undue stress and resentment that could fracture the relationship.
On this page, I’ll give you some tips to help you deal with your sexless marriage so that you and your spouse are able to enjoy a renewed sex life.
In figuring out how to fix a marriage without intimacy, it’s important that you and your spouse work together.
Repairing a relationship, whether it’s because of a lack of sex or any other marriage problems, is something that takes effort from both husband and wife, so there are things that each of you can do to make sure you lay down the foundation for a healthy, long lasting relationship.
1. Perform a Self Assessment
It could be that you have been working a lot lately. It could be that something else in your personal life occupies much of your time these days. It could be that your sex drive isn’t the same as it used to be.
There a number of possible reasons why sex has dwindled in your marriage and, in order to get to the root of the issue, you’ll need to start by looking inward.
Ask questions about yourself and the relationship to see if something has changed in your own life. It may be something that your spouse might not necessarily know about, but it could be what’s behind you and your partner not having sex as much as you used to.
All strong relationships, intimate or not, are built on strong communication between everyone involved. When there is a problem that leads to marriage without intimacy, the best way to deal with it is to start by talking it over with your spouse.
You want to be open-minded and respectful of what the other person has to say.
By keeping a civil open line of communication in the marriage and making sure that each person has their say, you can ensure that you will be able to find common ground and work the issue of a marriage without intimacy.
3. Spend Time with Each Other
Take the time to be with your spouse and try to rekindle what may have been lost as you unwittingly entered a sexless marriage.
Do what it takes to rediscover your relationship.
That could mean taking fifteen minutes a day to talk about things atypical of what you usually talk about. It could mean that you and your spouse dedicate one uninterrupted night a week to being together.
Spending time together, in the case of a couple that is in a marriage without intimacy, could reestablish bonds that have long been lost as the years have gone by. Making sure that you dedicate even a little time to your spouse can go a long way.
Restoring What Was Lost
When trying to revitalize your marriage it helps to get the kind of counseling that can see you and your spouse as a happy, healthy couple like you once were.
As a professional marriage counselor, I will be able to help you come up with a way to work through your marriage without intimacy so that you can put the past behind your and look forward to a bright future together.
It’s important to remember that intimacy in a relationship is both physical and emotional, so the path to having a marriage that will last involves engaging the mind as well as the body. I can help you get there.
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