My Husband Loves Me But Is Not In Love With Me
When I found out that my husband loves me but is not in love with me, I was devastated. I was completely torn apart. I felt as if my entire world had been turned upside down. Through all of my hurt and anguish I found a part of me that was determined to get my husband to fall in love with me again. Nothing was going to get in the way of me being able to fix my marriage. My name is Alice and I am sharing my story as a guest blogger for the Marriage Fitness website. My story will show you how I was able to work through my wounded emotions in order to keep my marriage and family together.
Finding Out The Truth
Finding out that my husband loves me but is not in love with me was one of the hardest things that I have ever gone through. Aside from my devastation, I was also astonished. I was living in a bubble where I thought that I was in a healthy and happy marriage. My husband bought me flowers each week, which I though meant he was in love with me. He called me every day to check in and see how I was doing, which also indicated his interest in me. Plus, he always made sure that I was happy, making me believe that he was happy with me as well. When my husband came forward, I didn’t want to believe that this was actually happening.
When I first heard that my husband loves me but is not in love with me, I was so afraid of losing my husband. I didn’t want to do or say anything to make the situation worse, so I instead I kept a large distance from my husband. I was secretly praying that my husband would change his mind and fall back in love with me. Not a day would go by that I would not cry and feel extremely hurt. Days went by and I didn’t eat or sleep. This was the toughest situation; however the hurt in my heart only made me more determined to get my husband to fall back in love with me. I was going to do anything in my power to win my husband back and make my marriage great again.
An Alternative To Marriage Counseling
I didn’t think that my husband would ever fall back in love with me but I knew that it was my responsibility to do whatever it takes to fix my marriage. When I found Marriage Fitness Boot Camp, I knew that this was the perfect fix for my situation. My husband and I were on the same page thankfully. We had the same goal of keeping our family whole. Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness made this possible. My husband and I are now back in love and our family is as happy as ever.