My Marriage is Boring
I have recently come to the realization that my marriage is boring and that is why I am unhappy. I went on a search for ways to better my marriage. My name is Jessica and I am sharing my success story as a guest blogger for the Marriage Fitness website. My story will show you how I found out how to completely alter my marriage into the fun healthy marriage that I have been dreaming of.
No Desire for Excitement
Originally, when my husband and I got married, we were so in love. I never thought I would be able to say my marriage is boring. My husband and I could have fun no matter what we were doing. We used to go out with friends all the time and we always made sure to have at least one date night a week. We would always come up with new and creative ideas of ways to have fun. In my opinion, my husband and I had the ideal picture perfect marriage. I remember always smiling and laughing even on lazy days around the house. Unfortunately, the excitement did not last long. My husband began working longer hours which cut back on our together time. The longer hours began to take a toll on my husband’s emotional well-being too. We no longer did all of the activities we used to and I felt that my husband had no desire for the excitement I wanted.
Losing Our Spark
We were no longer spending large amounts of time together which really impacted our relationship. I didn’t feel the same closeness as I used to. It was as if we had lost our spark. One of the things that brought us close to each other was that my husband and I used to go to bed together every night. Yet, this was not the case anymore. This really hurt me which prompted me to address my husband about my concerns. He did not seem as concerned and told me that he was still really happy and in love with me. This is when I realized that I was not in a loveless marriage but that my marriage is boring. However, did this mean that we could work it out? I needed to weigh my options but felt that I needed guidance.
Alternative to Marriage Counseling
After much consideration, I found the perfect solution to my situation. I found an alternative to marriage counseling which my husband agreed to give a try. Marriage Fitness Tele Boot Camp helped show my husband and me how to re-create the spark that had been missing in our marriage. After finishing the entire boot camp two years ago, it still feels like I am married to the young, fun man I married so many years ago. Thank You Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness for giving me back my happy marriage. I would like to recommend this program to any marriage that is in need of help!