My Wife Loves Me But Is Not In Love With Me
Hearing that my wife loves me but is not love with me was the most painful experience I have ever encountered. I was aware that our marriage was in need of help, but I did not know to what extent. My name is Carl and I am a guest blogger for the Marriage Fitness website. I am sharing my story in hopes of inspiring any couple in a marriage that is in need of assistance. Although it hurt me to know that my wife loves but is not in love with me, it also gave me the motivation I was lacking to better my marriage. Continue reading to see how I was able to turn my marriage around and get my wife to fall back in love with me.
Brenda and I met in our senior year of college and were instantly in love. We had the most perfect relationship and I knew that we would always be together. However, as many couples do, we began drifting apart emotionally after being married for many years. We lost the special connection that was once holding our marriage together. It was clear to both my wife and I that we were losing touch so we did talk about the concerns in our marriage. However, it wasn’t until my wife told me that she wasn’t in love with me anymore that I actually made an effort to work on our marriage.
Best and Worst Feeling
I was completely lost when I first found out that my wife loves me but is not in love with me anymore. I didn’t know where to turn to. Did this mean that she did not want to stay married to me anymore? I felt like my life was over. However, when I came to the realization that I still felt like I was in love with my wife but it wasn’t the same feeling we used to have, I knew that this was the best thing that happened. Even though I was crushed, knowing how much we used to be in love made me believe that we could get back to those feelings again. There was only one issue, my wife was not willing to work on our marriage with me. This left me with both the best and worst feelings I have ever had.
Winning My Wife Back
I was not ready to give up yet. I loved my wife so much that I couldn’t let her leave me. I was willing to do anything to get my wife back. I began Marriage Fitness’ boot camp by myself as my wife wanted to take no part in fixing our marriage. Marriage Fitness not only taught me how to win my wife back, but it instructed me on how to get my wife to join me in completing the boot camp. Thanks to Marriage Fitness, my wife love each other and are in love with each other.