How would you like to have
ALL the Secrets to Fixing YOUR Marriage
in your hands TOMORROW?
Did you notice
that no matter where you turn for help you just don't get what you need
to fix your marriage?
An e-book you get instantly, but let's be real; no
download can repair years of relationship damage.
If you've been to counseling week after week, then
you know how it drags-out and adds-up ($).
What about CD's? Well, CD's can be informative,
but what do you do after you listen? How do you implement what you
learned? What if you have a question? And how does it all apply to YOUR
circumstances?
If your relationship is in trouble and you're
ready to do something about it, then why not get ALL THE
MARRIAGE-TRANSFORMING RESOURCES you need delivered to
your doorstep in one shot? That way you could
learn what you need to know and do what you need to do at your pace, on
your time, and from the convenience of your home.
Hi. I'm Mort
Fertel and here's an alternative to marriage counseling and an
alternative to those modern-day internet marriage solutions. It's
called...
Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™
Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™
is a 9-Phase interactive multi-sensory relationship-changing
self-guided system that gives you everything you need
to transform your relationship. And the best news is...you get it all
TOMORROW!
Are you anxious about your situation? Do you want
answers NOW? When you get Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™, you can stay up all night and get
answers to your questions, solutions to your problems, and a
step-by-step plan for reconciling your marriage.
No rush? That's fine. Put aside a little time each
day and slowly but surely work through your issues and rebuild
your relationship.
You can work on your marriage at whatever pace is
comfortable for you. Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™ gives you everything you need all
at once. There's really nothing else like it.
If you get my emails, then you know that my knowledge
and experience helping to renew marriages can help you. That's why
you're reading this, right?Well, with Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ you get all of me.
It's everything that's NOT in the emails. There's almost nothing I
haven't written--almost nothing I haven't said--that you don't get with
Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™.
It includes every strategy, tool, tip, technique, exercise, insight,
idea, case study, and secret I have to transforming a marriage. Other
than hiring me to come to your house and coach you every day, this
is it!
But before I explain exactly what Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ is and how it works, you
should make sure thatit'sright
for YOUR situation.
Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is designed for
relationships suffering from:
Infidelity
Broken trust
The threat of divorce
An obstinate spouse
Emotional Neglect
Money Conflicts
Addictions Behaviors (including porn)
Separation
Midlife Crisis
Emotional Infidelity
Boredom
Poor Communication
No Sex
Lack of Appreciation
No Affection
Controlling Personalities
Are any of these your problems?
If so, then Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ could be the answer you're
looking for.
If you go through the
program systematically, you'll create a BREAKTHROUGHthat opens the door to reconciliation with your
spouse. The methods for achieving "breakthrough" in Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ prove effective time and
again in every possible marital situation. The program is designed to
create "breakthrough" in
your marriage even if:
Your spouse is in love with another man/woman
Your spouse says, "It's over. I'm done."
You're separated
You're in the middle of a divorce
You've been at each other's throats for years
Your spouse won't talk to you
Your spouse says, "I love you, but I'm not in
love with you."
There's no trust between you
You haven't been physically intimate in years
Communication is painful
Your spouse has turned ice cold
There's baggage from the past
There's been infidelity
Your spouse says, "I need space."
Nothing else has worked
You don't know what's going on with your spouse
Do you want to CHANGE
THE MOMENTUM in your marriage? It's not easy.It's a tricky matter. Your instinctive efforts
have probably been counterproductive. That's
because there's nothing intuitive about doing a 180 in a relationship.
In fact, if you follow your impulses, you'll ruin every chance you ever
had and make a mess of your situation. But if you follow the
instructions in Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™,
you'll see how EVERY relationship
is governed by certain core principles. And if you learn those
principles and learn to align your actions with them, you'll SHIFT
the energy in your relationship and get a NEW MOMENTUM!
But CHANGING THE ENERGY
in your marriage is just the beginning. Then, Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ will guide you step-by-step
through a complete rebuilding of your
relationship.
This is a good time to warn you. This is NOT a
quick-fix program. If you're looking for a quick and an easy way, this
is not it. Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™ will help you reform
the roots of your relationship, move through old hurt, and finally
implement new habits that will secure your love for a lifetime.
But you have to be willing to pay the price. And I'm not talking about
the price you pay to me. I'm talking about the price of your time and
effort. Are you willing to really try? If not,
don't waste your time and money. But if you're willing to commit
yourself to the 9 phases of the program AND to implement the Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ system, you'll succeed.
There are a
few exceptions you should know about. The program will
NOT work in cases of physical abuse or severe mental illness.
If you're dealing with those problems, you or your spouse
should seek psychiatric assistance. But if that's not
your situation, then this is something that can help you.
How can I be sure? How do I know that Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ will help you? Because I've
helped hundreds of men and women whose marriages were in serious
trouble do what I call a "Marriage180." Here's just one of those
stories:
Dear Mort,
A few weeks ago my husband was firm about moving out and filing for
divorce. In my sorrow and desperation, I ordered your program.
What did I get out of it?
My husband decided NOT to move out and is now working on our marriage
with me.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the extraordinary impact
you've had on my life and my family's life.
H.E.,
California
There are hundreds of stories like this one
from people in all sorts of situations,
but first there's one story in particular I'd like to share with
you...my story.
Unlike
other relationship experts who approach the topic from a clinical
perspective, for me saving marriages is very personal.
My
wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night
talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to
each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being
connected? That was us.
But then something happened that
destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was one
week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.
Your
situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was
it? How did you lose each other? Or maybe you can't put your finger on
why things aren't right anymore. That's common too.
For
us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of
talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of
using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted
of screaming matches and silent treatments.
Somewhere deep in our heart though,
like you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we made a
commitment to work on our marriage. Sometimes I tried and my wife
didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and I didn't. Sometimes we tried
together. We went through different stages of "trying."
What did we try?
We
tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure
I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies.
My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to
counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing
changed. Nothing worked.
Because
all the advice we got (books, counselors...whatever) asked us to
confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight
more.
As
long as
the "right" way wasn't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we tried
to convince each other of our way. You tried that too, right?
Obviously, that doesn't work.
Finally,
we had a breakthrough.
We
decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS.
We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once.
Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain
relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we
resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by
dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by
establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to
our marriage.
.
This
is the solution to most marital situations—to "step away"
from your problems and spend your time and energy building your
relationship through positive actions.
If you do this
RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go
away, and the other people invading your marriage will become
irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will come
closer together again.
Now you're probably wondering, “How do I
stay away from the very problems that plague me? What healthy habits
or relationship techniques can bring us closer together? And what if my
spouse doesn't
cooperate?”
That's EXACTLY what
I'll teach you. I'll answer those
questions and more so you get the results you want. Let me be more
specific. Here's what you'll learn when you order Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™:
How to snap out of
destructive patterns of behavior
How to stop dwelling
on the past and start moving forward
How to get
over old hurt
How to restore trust
How to deal with a stubborn
spouse (“Lone Ranger” track--see
below)
What to do if your spouse is
trying to control you
7 daily
acts that will rebuild love in your
marriage
5 weekly
habits that will soften your marital
environment
2 monthly
acts that will restore romance between
you
How to get your spouse
to change
How to resolve money
conflicts
How to fight amicably
The 4 primary
principles of LASTING love
How to survive
(and thrive) after an affair
How to become a team rather
than 2 individuals
How to make
decisions together
How to get YOUR needs met
How to connect with an
emotionally absent spouse
How to keep the small things
small
How to relieve
anger and resentment
How to tickle your
spouse’s soul
How to avoid pointing fingers
and reciprocal blame
How to avoid
dredging up the past and what to do if your spouse does
it
What to do if
you’re being ignored
What to do if your spouse
shows you no affection
How to know if your marriage
can be saved
How to know when
it’s time to give up
What to do if
you’re being pushed away
How to deal with a spouse who
won’t listen
How to break
the silence
What to do if
you’re notspending enough time
together
How to get and give the right affection
What to do if you find
yourself attracted to another man/woman
What to do if your spouse has
intimate internet friends
How to end a separation
What to do if your spouse is
friends with their X
How to say "I'm sorry."
How to forgive
and be foregiven
How to restore honor to your
marraige
How to talk so your spouse will
listen
How to listen so your spouse will
talk
How to bring your past to its knees
How to control your emotions
How to restore physical
intimacy
When NOT deciding is the best
decision
How to endure until things change
How to replace efficiency with
intimacy
It
would have been nice to know how to do all this years ago, right? Well,
it's NOT too late. In my experience, it's never too late. Andrew would
agree. Who's Andrew? Listen:
Hi
Mort,
I just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn
around. Not only is she working on our marriage but she's also made
some amazing changes.
Thank you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you
helping me through this and teaching me how to be the
husband that my wife wanted then I may have never been able to bring
her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and
because of your Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp, she chose me!
Keep up the good work and keep saving marriages.
Thanks again.
Andrew R. Pulley
The
MIRACLE
STORIES go on and on, but the bottom line is this: if
you're willing to learn new ways of relating to your spouse and if
you're willing to apply what you learn to your situation, then Marriage Fitness Home-Flex can
work for you. Not only because of WHAT you'll learn, but because of HOW
you'll learn it. Let me explain.
There's an old saying:
When I hear, I listen
When
I watch, I see
When
I do, I know . . .
I think that understates the value of
reading and listening and overstates the value of doing, but it does
make an important point . . . which is that the BEST WAY
TO CHANGE is to apply ALL your senses.
And that's why
Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is a multi-sensory experience.
You will hear, see,
and do. You will read,
write, and listen.
You get everything
you need in all the ways you need it!
Here's WHAT YOU GET
with Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™:
A Complete 15 CD Audio Learning System
Listen in your car, at home, while you're traveling or exercising.
These CD's will answer every question you have about how to transform
your marriage. And they'll give you step-by-step instructions about how
to turn your marriage around. This is the most comprehensive Audio CD
program on the topic of marriage renewal available anywhere.
A 1-on-1 Private Session with me,
Mort Fertel
I'll be your very own personal marriage advisor. I'll answer your
questions, counsel you every step of the way, and hold you accountable
to your goals. Your session is conducted via telephone and scheduled
at a mutually convenient time.
The Complete Marriage Fitness Workbook &
Personal Journal
This is where the rubber meets the road (or pen meets paper)...where
you'll learn to put ideas into practice. Roll up your sleeves each week
and dive into assessments, assignments, and "to-do" exercises. You'll
be amazed at what you'll learn about yourself, your spouse, and your
relationship. There's almost 200 pages of insights, practices, and
journal entries that serve as the perfect companion to the 15 CD Audio
Learning System. This workbook can be completed with or without your
spouse (see "Lone Ranger Track" below).
3 Open-Mike Q&A Teleconferences
Every other week I’ll conduct a live open teleconference
during a pre-scheduled hour. You can call in with questions or just
listen for answers. This is where YOU set the agenda and get to
determine what issues get addressed and which circumstances get
explored in depth. Here you'll get personal access to my counsel...and
this is in addition to your 1-on-1 private sessions with me. (These are
TELEconferences. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And
there's no extra charge. If you're traveling during one of the
tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can make the call from anywhere in
the world. No internet connection is required. If you're doing the
program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from
2 different locations.)
An Autograph Copy of Marriage Fitness
Three printings and thousands of copies sold. Endorsed by Dr. John Gray
(Mars/Venus) and Dr. Stephen Covey (7 Habits) as well as literally
hundreds of counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists,
PhD's, social workers, relationship experts, authors, and, most
importantly, readers who have renewed their marriage. You'll get a
personally autographed copy to read as you go through the program.
7 Tele-Seminars
A sequential delivery of marriage-transforming insights and
skills so relevant you’ll feel I designed them for
YOUR marriage. You'll learn exactly what to do and how to apply the
Marriage Fitness approach to relationship renewal to your situation.
(These seminars take place on a teleconference. You don't have to go
anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're
traveling during one of the tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can
make the call from anywhere in the world. No internet connection is
required. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in
from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
7 “Homework” Assignments
These assignments will help you LIVE what you learn and establish new
relationship habits. You'll be amazed at how much progress you'll make
each week.
A Complete 7-Week Implementation Schedule
This schedule gives you a clear step-by-step path that will transport
you to a renewed marriage. You'll have DAILY assignments to complete.
5 Marriage Assessments.
These assessments reveal the areas of your marriage that require
special attention.
Members-only Web Site
What if you miss one or any of the teleconferences? No problem. All the
teleconferences are recorded and a simple audio file is available for
you to listen to at your convenience from your members-only web site.
It's just one click of your mouse and you're caught up. You'll never
miss anything.
Lone Ranger Track
This special track of Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is
customized for people with an uncooperative spouse who are
participating ALONE. (see below for more information)
Duo Track
This track of Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is customized for
couples doing the program TOGETHER. (see below for more information)
Express Mail Delivery
Are you ready to change your circumstances? Are you tired of waiting
for an appointment? Is your situation urgent? Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™ is shipped Express Mail (anywhere in the
continental USA). If you order before 2PM EST, you'll have it tomorrow!
(some zip
codes in very rural areas: 2 days).
If this program doesn't work for
you, NOTHING will.
Marriage
counseling once each week just isn't enough (not to
mention fiercely expensive).
You could buy
a book or CD's, but then you don't get
personal attention. And most people don't change by
reading or listening. If you have marriage problems, you need more than
information. You need personal guidance, a detailed and
structured plan, and CONSISTENT
REINFORCEMENT of the rightmessage. When you order Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex, you get it all...everything you need
to turn your marriage around.
This is not just me talking. The Marriage Fitness
approach to to saving marriages has been featured in the media
nationwide:
.
Television
NBC
CBS
PBS
The
FOX Morning Show
The
Greg Behrendt Show (nationally syndicated)
Life
& Style (nationally syndicated)
Magazines &
Newspapers
Family Circle
Ladies
Home Journal
Psychology
Today
Glamour
Magazine
Women's Health
Fitness Magazine
Washington Post
Baltimore Sun
Toronto Sun
Orlando Sentinel
Rocky Mountain News
Buffalo News
Charlotte
Post
Radio
Radio
Love Talk (syndicated)
WDLB-AM
1450, Marshfield, WI (Insight)
WEAA
88.9, Baltimore, MD (Day break with Anthony McCarthy)
WIOD-AM
(610), Miramar, FL (South Florida First News)
WKES-FM
(91.1), St. Petersburg, FL
WLPO
Radio, LaSalle, IL
WNOO,
Chattanooga, TN
WRBS-FM,
Baltimore, MD
KYXY-FM,
San Diego, CA
LA
Insight Clear Channel (STAR 98.7)
WZBA
100.7, Baltimore, MD
KTLO
Radio, Mountain Home, AR
Your
Mental Health Talk Radio
KVJY-AM
840, Austin, TX
The
Richard Kaffenberger Show
KWRE
Radio, Warrenton, MO
Shalom
Radio, Baltimore, MD
Life
Style Talk Radio, The Debbie Nigro Show (syndicated)
WBCR
NPR
with Dr. Barton Goldsmith
WIYY
98 Rock, Baltimore, MD
WZBT-AM,
West Palm Beach, FL
KUTR-AM,
Salt Lake City, Utah
WEAG,
Jacksonville, FL
KAHI-AM,
Sacramento, CA
WOCA-AM,
Ocala, FL
WSCF-FM,
West Palm Beach, FL
WVON-
Chicago, IL
In addition to media attention, the Marriage
Fitness approach to saving marriages has received expert endorsements
from John Gray, Ph.D., author ofMen Are from
Mars and Women Are from Venus, and
Dr. Stephen Covey, author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
But the most important endorsements are from
people like you whose marriages have been transformed because they used
the program. Here's a story from a recent customer:
"Scott and
I just completed the Marriage Fitness program and I would highly
recommend the experience. About a year ago, I started feeling the
“blahs” in our marriage. Nothing was really wrong.
I just felt like I had lost that loving feeling. I felt that there
should be more. We were adequate room mates, but we were no longer soul
mates. We had conversations about what we were doing wrong, about going
to therapy and even about getting divorced. When we ordered the
Marriage Fitness program things started clicking. We worked together on
the homework. We worked together on loving each other and showing that
love to each other. We now place our relationship and our time together
as the number one thing in our lives. We have had a lot of fun doing
this program and we got out relationship and marriage back. And I got
my best friend back. My life works so much better now. Thanks Scott
– oh! And thanks Mort!"
What would you want your
letter to say? Think about it. What's the happy ending to your story?
If you want that story to be written, then you've come to the right
place. There are no accidents in life. There's a saying:
"When the
student is ready, the teacher will appear."
The fact that you're searching means you're a ready
student. Your teacher has appeared. I can help you. I guarantee it. But
before I tell you about that, I want to tell you about the 2 tracks
available in your Marriage Fitness Home-Flex program.
The Lone Ranger Track
Does your spouse
have one foot out the door? Is your spouse frozen? Obstinate? Cold as
ice? Has your spouse “checked-out” emotionally?
Unwilling to get help? With another person?
The Lone
Ranger track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative
spouse and who are doing the program ALONE.
If you take the right steps, you can draw your
spouse back in and begin to restore your marriage TOGETHER.
It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be
transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you'll learn how
to single-handedly improve your marital situation AND inspire your
spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage.
And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track
(see below) at anytime for no additional cost. It's all right there in
your package included with your kit.
The Duo Track
The Duo Track is designed for couples taking the
boot camp together.
Regardless of
which track you do, if you want to improve your marriage…if
you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this
is your opportunity! Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ is more effective AND less costly than
counseling and significantly more comprehensive and personal than any
self-help book, kit, or other program. And, it's a completely private
experience! And you get it TOMORROW.
You probably expect a
program like this to cost a few thousand dollars. Well you're correct
about what it's WORTH (think about the cost of months of counseling),
but here's the good news . . .
Marriage
Fitness Home-Flex™ is only $399.
(payment plan available. see
below)
Your registration includes everything:
7
Tele-Seminars ($399 VALUE) The Complete
15 CD Home Learning System ($369 VALUE)
The
Marriage Fitness Workbook & Personal Journal ($199
VALUE)
3
Open Mike Q&A Teleconferences ($229 VALUE)
Autographed
Copy of Marriage Fitness ($20 VALUE) 7
“Homework” Projects (FREE BONUS) Complete
7-Week Implementation Schedule (FREE BONUS) 5 Marriage
Assessments (FREE BONUS) Access to the
Members-only Web Site (FREE BONUS) The
“Lone Ranger” or the “Duo”
track (same price for either track) One 10-minute
private phone session with me, Mort Fertel. ($59
VALUE)
Express
Mail Delivery ($49 VALUE)
THAT'S
$1324 IN VALUE
PLUS
4 FREE BONUSES
FOR ONLY $399
100%
Money-Back Guarantee
Ordering is RISK FREE. In
short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just return the
materials to me in resalable condition received within 30 days of ordering, and
as long as you've used me for your private 1-on-1 session
(included with your registration) by then and can honestly say that the program
was not worth your while, then I'll gladly refund your money. I can't
be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen
because this program works and I'm going to be there for you every step
of the way to make sure you succeed.
Consider what your marital mess is costing you. I don't
mean
in dollars; I'm talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights,
and the tension in your life. Your marriage right now, rather than
being a source of joy, is destroying your quality of life. You have to
do something about that...for yourself...and for your
children.
You've probably heard the saying:
"Insanity
is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."
If you keep doing the
same things, you're likely to continue to have the same marriage. But
if you want to change your situation, you need to learn new ways. You
need to begin to do things different. And if you don't, you may look
back one day on a marriage that spiraled out of control or even ended
and wonder how it could have been different if you had simply gotten
the right guidance at the right time. This is the time. I am your guide.
REGISTER NOW
Payment
Plan Option:
Payment Plan Details
1) First payment is due upon
registration (now).
2) Second payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days.
3) Third payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.
All
orders shipped in PLAIN packaging.
Thank you for visiting.
I've enjoyed sharing with you my story and how Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex™ can help you restore your marriage.
P.S. Are you hesitant
about ordering? Do you have a question? Feel free to email me. All my
contact information is below my signature.
P.S.S.
If you're still hesitant, here's an extra incentive.
Order now and then send me an email with "Home-Flex Bonus" as the
subject telling me you ordered and I'll send you a free copy of
“Put Love First,” an unabridged live audio
recording of my most popular mini-seminar. If you register now and
email me with “Home-Flex Bonus” in the subject line
I'll send it to you FREE as a special bonus!
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Payment
Plan Option:
Payment Plan Details
1) First payment is due upon
registration (now).
2) Second payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days.
3) Third payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.