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"The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage."

DO NOT waste one more moment contemplating enrolling in Mort's program!  The time you wait will not only extend your agony, but you risk depression and serious mistakes in your marriage.  I admit I had strong reservations about joining Marriage Fitness.   Boy was I wrong...  The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage.  Eventhough I completed Mort's program without my wife's participation our situation has improved drastically.  It is really true that one person in a marriage can make a difference.

 

In my experience the effort required to renew my marriage is the hardest thing I've ever done.  Like any other tough endeavor in life you need the best advice and council you can get to succeed.  Mort is the best I've seen...and I've enrolled in other programs.  Mort has the credibility, insights and practical solutions that will put you in the best position to succeed. 

Chris Craft

 

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"JUST DO IT!!!!"

If you are unsure whether to sign up for the Bootcamp programme . . . . . . . JUST DO IT!!!! You won't regret it. You will come out of this a stronger and better person. My husband was adamant that he wanted a divorce and didn't love me anymore. Last week he told me he loved me :)
Thank you Mort and God bless you. You are officially invited to England!! I hope that someday I will get to meet you and say thank you in person. I am a better wife, mother and person because of you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.  AS, England, UK

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"Thanks to your program... my husband has come home for good."

 

Dearest Mort!

Thank-you so much for having such a wonderful program available for people like my husband, Ray and I.

I ordered your program using the lone ranger track. I had come home from a vacation with my daughter back in July and on that day my husband told me that he would always love me but was no longer in love with me. He did not wish to discuss things any further and wanted me to just release him from our marriage and move on with life.We have been married for 22 years and I was so blind I didn't even realize our problems were so life altering for our family.

That night I went on line seeking out anything I could find to help "fix" our marriage. I stumbled on to your Marriage Fitness Program and signed up for the emails that you send out every few days. I read these emails and realized how wonderful your program is.

In the mean time my husband was pulling further and further away. He had moved out of the house and into another woman's home.

The day after he moved out I ordered the Teleboot camp. I started using your techniques and advise immediately. Without your good advise and guidance I don't believe I would have found the strength and courage to hold on.

Thanks to your program and the ideals that make a lasting relationship so much more than attainable, my husband has come home for good. Although I completed the teleboot camp using solely the lone ranger track, my husband and I are beginning the program from the beginning together. We have a lot of fixing left to do, but I have every faith that we now will be the fabulous couple we always dreamed we would be.

Our eternal gratitude to you,

Brenda Bennett


 P.S. Please feel free to use our names and photo to help anyone that may need the strength and courage to rebuild thier marriage.

 

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"I have said to my wife many times that I believe Mort is the smartest person I have ever come across"

I would recommend this program.  I would even recommend this program to my worst enemy. 
You often said that a relationship does not find itself in a mess overnight but is the takes several years.  I believe that my relationship was somewhat soured very early on.  However, we both saw the potential in each other and our relationship and fought to hang on.  Rarely did a week go by without there being  at least two to three fights.  Our relationships was full of anxiety, hurt, frustration, and misery.  I believe we had love for each other we just didn’t know how to show it.   Finally, after seven years, my wife had had enough and moved out.  We both had made threats about doing so but she actually followed through.   Obviously this was very upsetting and I told her that we should not throw our relationship away just yet and that we should at least try some counseling.  She told me she would but that It was going to take an amazing counselor to keep us together.   So I searched for several weeks for this amazing counselor I really didn’t think existed or would not be amazing enough to help us save our marriage.  Finally I came across marriagemax.com and signed up for the free newsletter.  I was very impressed with the first newsletter.  So impressed I signed my wife up for it also.  She quickly pointed out to me that Mort said not to that.   To find out more about the Marriage Fitness Program I ordered the Audio Learning Program which is a less expensive alternative.  I listen to all the cd’s and came to the realization that I had found the “Amazing” counselor I was looking for.  I told my wife about Mort and asked her if she would do the Tele Boot Camp with me.  She agreed!  I knew when she agreed that I had her back!  I should warn you that it has not always been easy following the program – it takes a lot of work and as Mort would say discipline.  I have found the hardest part of the program for me is not being selfish and not focusing on myself.  The program is teaching me how to do that.  Our results have been incredible and it has only been 10 weeks. I know it may sound like no big deal but my wife and I have not had a fight in over three weeks.   As I like to say now “Mort has taken the fight out of us.” We spend more quality time together, we talk more, we’re inseparable.  It’s like we are newlyweds.   A Big bonus, which I wasn’t able to see at the time I signed up for the program, was how it would affect so many other parts of my life and interactions with others.   When you learn to be a kinder person to your spouse and not be selfish you are also learner to be kinder and less selfish person with everyone in your life.  It just your spouse trumps all.   I have said to my wife many times that I believe Mort is the smartest person I have ever come across.
 
 
Bests,
 
Kerry M.

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" I feel I can breath again. This was the single most best choice I have made to help myself and my marriage."

"I really blew it!  I knew I needed to change. The reality was crystal clear but the path critical and hard.  I started by acknowledging dysfunctions within and the devastation my behavior inflicted on my spouse, but what I needed was functional, expert, proven, solid advice and support from a trusted and professional outside source that really cared.  Whew, tall order!  I found Marriage Fitness staring at me one day on my computer.  Intrigued, I checked it out and tried the free email advice for weeks.  Just when I needed that very piece of information, it came, faithfully and right on target. Who knew?  This was right on, what I needed AND accessible from home, so I finally just clicked the button. I committed my efforts to fixing me and stopped waiting for my husband to come around to what I had found. The best way to help my marriage was to work on myself and to apply the principles of marriage fitness to my life. There is great transforming power here and the guidance comes from a source that lives these principles daily.  I chose the Home Flex Program because once I decided, I wanted to start immediately and guess what?  There is was the very next day!  This is REAL and I have no doubt I am on the right path for life. There are answers to hard questions and ways to make change, not temporary quick fixes but life transforming changes.  I feel I can breath again. This was the single most best choice I have made to help myself and my marriage.  No matter what my outcome, I have a new outlook and can love myself again.  And guess what else? My husband IS coming around!" 

 

~KC

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"...we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home."

I wanted to thank you for your support during my recent separation from my husband of 30 years.  I wanted to share my happy ending with you.
 
We have always had what everyone thought was the "perfect marriage" and so did I.  We had our ups and downs, but we were caring, giving, and loving with each other. My husband, however, after turning 50 seemed to think he had missed out on something, and left me for another woman.  I was devastated, and did not see it coming as we had always been best friends, had a great sex life, and had worked together in our family medical office.  He had become unhappy in life, and our children had recently moved away from our small town, so we moved to a larger city.  He had gastric bypass, lost 150 pounds, and for the first time in a long time had more female attention than he was used to.  I was stressed with the move, a new job, had taken on 17 UC and FM offices as Medical Director, and we were living in an apartment with our college age children trying to figure out where we wanted to buy a home.  He met a woman during this vulnerable time, and despite a wonderful 2 weeks in Maui, when we returned, he moved out to live with her.  That is when I found your program.
 
I started it on my own, and then got him to listen to some of the CD's.  We talked.  We e-mailed.  We worked together at an UC and no one there ever knew we had separated.  We love each other, and he was miserable and sad, and felt very guilty for his actions, but due to that, he did not attend our counseling session with you either.  I did not give up.  You kept my faith up that things could get better.  I loved him through his crisis, and reminded him of our strengths and history. I gave him cards, brought him Starbucks when he was working, made him treats with notes left on his desk at work, and sent him a postcard to the office (didn't want to send it to her house) when I went to visit my brother in CA saying I wish you were here.  He would call me on the phone and we would talk for hours, and he would e-mail me jokes or funny things to read.  And so it began.  
 
After 2 1/2 months, he begged my forgiveness, I begged his, and we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home.  The children were angry with him, but we loved them through this and talked openly with them about how all relationships have problems, but it is how we handle those problems that make us who we are, and allow us to reap the benefits of our efforts.  We told them that the most important thing is that we did not give up on each other, and now we were stronger than before.
 
My husband and I have been back together for 5 months.  We renewed our vows with our children officiating at our 30th anniversary 8/9/10, we have purchased our dream home, have coordinated our schedules to have 3 days off per week together when we rock climb, ski, hike, or relax.  We have finished our medical thriller, "The Clones of Harvest Home," and Catherine Coulter and her agent are assisting us with the publishing process.  We have taken a 2 1/2 week vacation to Maui, and have been even closer than before we split up.  As I said, we have been each other's best friend since we were 19, and continue to be, but our trials have taught us so much about each other.  We are very in love, and know that we will have some ups and downs, but know that we are soul mates, and will be together forever.
 
Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time.  I am not sure I could have done it without you.  I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else that we were done.  If I had not reached out to him, his pride would not have let him come back I am sure.  So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful philosophy and program.  We are forever indebted.
 
I have recommended your program to several of my patients, and co-workers, and I hope they will take advantage of what you offer, and reap the benefits as well.  Happy holidays.
 
Gratefully,
 
Debby Salter, M.D.  
 
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"...my husband now says he is in love with me!"

Dear Mort,

 

I just wanted to thank you for helping me save my marriage. 

 

We have been married 6 ½ years.  My husband travels for work.  As a result, more than 50% of our married life has been spent apart.  This has really taken a toll on us.  I have to wonder if any two people have been as hateful and volatile as we became!  We've been to marriage counseling 4 times in the last 6 years, and it didn't help a bit.  We were the couple that made others jealous, but behind closed doors we could be worst enemies.  When we weren't fighting, we were ignoring and avoiding each other, which was easy to do with him gone so much. 

 

Three months ago my husband told me he was done.  He couldn't handle the fighting anymore and wanted to move out.  He said he didn't love me like a husband should love his wife.  He said he just didn't care enough to try anymore.  He said he wanted a divorce.  Normally I was the one in our marriage who threw that word around.  But when he said it, my world came crashing down.  It was the first time he had ever said something like that and I knew he was serious. 

 

After the initial shock wore off, I decided not to just give up and let the divorce happen.  I got online and found your program.  With the money back guarantee I figured I had nothing to lose.  My husband had made it clear that he was done trying so I went with the Lone Ranger program. 

 

It was really difficult, especially in the beginning.  For all the positive things I did, he was still very negative.  I would drive 5 hours to see him, take him homemade food, and he would kick me out.  But I persevered.  It has been 3 months, and my husband now says he is in love with me!  He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores. We are making plans for the future!

 

I owe it all to you.  Thanks for everything!

 

HMD

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"The Marriage Fitness Program has saved my marriage too!"

      

The Marriage Fitness program has saved my marriage too! Me and my husband have been separated for 5 months and were heading to a divorce. Then I had the chance to do Mr Fertel's brilliant program which can change what everyone else thinks is impossible to change! I can honestly say that I feel privileged for living in the same era with him and for being able to do his program from Greece where I live. I wouldn't have been able to save my marriage without his help.

 

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"Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing."

Dear Mort,

 

I want to thank you for developing the

tele-fitness boot camp and making it so

accessible both in cost and ease of use.

My marriage had been on a downward

trajectory for a year and despite my

needs, wants and intentions, I couldn't

seem to turn it around. My husband and I saw two marriage counselors together, and each saw individual counselors and again things just got progressively worse. Over the year, my husband moved out of our marital bed, eventually moved out of the house, and had an affair.

 

I started the tele-boot camp the week my husband moved out. Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing. I learned to change my focus from my feelings and my reaction to my husband's behavior to of my intentions and my desired outcome.

Your program helps you stay focused

despite the results that you initially

get. Conventional wisdom and advice

tells you to use tough love to get what

you want, to make demands, to not accept bad behavior. The problem is that this

advice is ineffective. You taught me

how to love unconditionally, how to

become the person I wanted to become so

that my spouse would be crazy not to

love me. By changing myself despite

what my husband was doing, I learned how to become lovable again instead of being cold, disappointed, bitter and disillusioned.

 

Within two months my husband moved back

in, ended the affair, and is working on

building our marriage. He has

re-engaged with family life, reached out to our extended family to build bridges and is focusing on meeting my needs.

 

The reason your program is so different

from anything that is out there is

because you help people achieve their

desired outcome. In addition to not

judging them for wanting their desired

outcome, you encourage them and admire

them for their strength of conviction

and moral compass.

 

Once I started your program, I blocked

out all other noise with regards to

rebuilding my marriage. You are my

mentor and my support system. Whenever

I have a bad day with my husband and

lose focus, I re-read your book, listen

to your CDs, or tune into a

tele-conference. I would have spent

thousands of dollars with my therapist

and I still would not have achieved my

desired outcome.

 

From the bottom of my heart - thank you.

YOUR PROGRAM turned my marriage around.

I know I would have survived had my

marriage failed, but I didn't want to

survive - I wanted to stay married. I

wanted my old, loving, kind and caring

husband back, and he's coming.

 

I couldn't recommend your program more.

 

Sincerely,

 

jw

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"...the miracle I prayed for did materialize and it happened because of you and your Marriage Fitness program "

Dear Mort,

Lisa and I want to thank you, once again, for giving us such valuable advice.  As I mentione d , my personal goal over the past 6 months was to somehow find a resource that would catalyze a miracle to help us reconcile and restore our marriage of 32 years.  The Marriage Fitness program together with the insightful communications you regularly send by email made all the difference in our lives … We have more work ahead of us but from my perspective, the miracle I prayed for did materialize and it happened because of you and your Marriage Fitness program.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Sincerely,

Richard C

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"He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting"

Dear Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed you asking if your program would work for my situation.  I bought the Marriage Fitness Home-Flex program out of desperation with the thought, "If this doesn't work at least I tried."  My husband was already looking for a roommate and telling me who will get what in the divorce.  We went to four marital counseling sessions before he said, "I don't know why we are going, I am done with you."  I am not sure why we went either, we just ended up fighting the whole time.  So long story short I followed your program (in the Lone Ranger Track), signed up for your emails, and started applying your ideas.  There were many days I felt like why bother, he is done with me, but I kept following the program.  Ten days ago he told me he was leaving.  I almost gave up but didn't.  I kept following the program.  Two days ago my husband came home from hiking (alone).  He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting.  He said he is ready to work on our marriage.  I know we are on a long journey now but at least now we are on that journey together.  I know you probably hear it all the time but you once again saved a marriage that would have dissolved without you.  Thank you so much for all of your help. 

Thanks again,
KS

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"I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair "

Dear Mort,

I know you have heard it before, but I want to say it again.... You saved my marriage.  My husband said he "loved me but was not in love with me anymore".  He was having an affair, during a very hard pregnancy which I later miscarried.  I was not very nice when I was pregnant and I was depressed so he turned to someone else.  Needless to say losing a baby and a marriage in a two week time-span was unbearable.  So I turned to you.  Counseling had been a joke just telling us how to communicate.   Your program told me what to do. I followed the program exactly.  I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair and "rededicated his life to me". 

Thanks so much,

Lisa Blank

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"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "

Dear Mort,


Thank you for your program.  I was driving into my driveway finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.  Upon arriving home, your program had come as well.  Rather than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a disk.  Long story short, we'll be working this out together, getting connected, completing your action steps.  I can't wait to continue connecting.  After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner.  Thank you.

Greg Burke
Denver, CO

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"I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"

Dear mort,

 

I was reluctant to begin the  lone ranger program.  Wondering how I would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program alone.  Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new habbits used in your program, it is proven to work.  I could not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my husband.  Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program with me he felt it would not help.  So I did not tell him and I started the program.  After a few weeks, my husband had commented he seen a change in me.  I then took the opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness program.  He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference call scheduled and how things are going.  Even though he has not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our marriage.  I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to improve how to be a better you!

 

Thank you Mort for making us matter...

 

Sincerely & God Bless

 

JoAnn S. 

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"I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing"

Dear Mort,

Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to be true, but I gave it a shot.

I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been. After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!



Sincerely,

Melissa K.

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"We are more in love than we have ever been!"

Dear Mort:

At the time that I started getting your emails, my husband and I had been
split up six months. In that period, we had tried twice to reconcile, and failed.
I didn't hold much hope of us reconciling at that point...But I cried myself
to sleep at night because I was still so much in love with my husband. We are
in our fifties Mort, we are not spring chickens. I must have burned the good
Lord's ears with all of my tears and my pleas for my marriage. Anyway, I
found you on the internet, and started reading intently, shouldering my own part
in our break up, and doing some deep thinking.

Then you began making suggestions...To make a long story short, it took one
month following your suggestions, and my husband called me up for a date on
my birthday!! He stayed with me for three days. In a week, he was back here
again, and he told me he didn't want to live without me anymore. Two months
later and we are more in love than we have ever been. Your advice worked for us.

...by the way, my husband never knew about your program. So you're right:
one person in the marriage can follow the advice, and the love it inspires reaches
both people.

I am one thankful woman. I love my husband more than my own life. We lost a
business, our house, but we did not lose each other.

Thank you so much for being inspired, I believe, by God!! bettyann

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"I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your program"

Dear Mort:

Thank you so much for your program!

I was very unsure initially, but my desperation overcame my skepticism. I clung to the Marrige Boot Camp Program and when we had a rough day, I'd listen to a disk again... I've memorized some of them!

Your program gave me something to think about, something to do, and a practical, common-sense approach to an area of life that I had always found capricious and confusing.

I started on the Lone Ranger Track, but my husband has noticed such significant changes in me and my behaviour, that he is now joining in, so I m starting the Program over on the Duo Track with him.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your Program; at least, not happily.

But now, thanks to you, we are rediscovering "us".

Take care,

R+G

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"Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple"

Mort,

I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories work, but they do!

I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To do my job I couldn't always attend the Q & A’s live, but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a lifesaver.

Keep up the good work

Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois

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"Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship"

 

It is certain that his program works.

When we started the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.

Mort's program stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.

We both gained new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed to grow.

Our children have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of marriage communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.

Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.

Justin and Jan C.

Elgin , SC

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Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes” because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you one day. Good luck!

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"The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs"

Dear Mort,

 

You asked for a testimonial from me and I am happy to provide one:

 

  I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program in the Lone Ranger track.  My husband, after nearly thirty years together, told me he was no longer happy in the marriage and 'wanted out'.  Only someone who has experienced this would understand the shock and pain this kind of situation creates.  I did everything I could think of to change his mind, and for some brief moments, I believed I had succeeded, only to have my heart broken again and again.  After six months I gave up hope, bought a condo and moved out.  I was convinced he was going to move out if I didn't, and the idea of living alone in our family home was more than I could bear.  

 

Things got worse after I moved out.  he wanted to be 'friends' and I wanted to curl up and die.  Our children, adults themselves, were damaged by our breakup.  Other family members were upset, and our friends were confused and feeling awkward.  I felt like I was living in a nightmare that I couldn't wake up from.  That's when I searched the internet for help and found Mort and his Marriage Fitness Program.

 

My relationship with my husband started to change after the first tele-seminar.  Mort made me realize I was behaving contrary to what I was wanting and feeling After that, instead of arguing with him, I took Morts advice and put our issues aside.  I practiced behaviors that  I learned in the Marriage fitness program and my husband and I became closer.  Instead of being combative, we started to enjoy each others company again.  

 

Currently, my husband and I are working toward a complete reconciliation.  The process is sometimes very difficult and I have to admit, I backslide sometimes. Mort warns that it won't be easy, and he wasn't kidding!   Rebuilding trust is very difficult, but I believe my marriage is worth the pain and effort it's going to take to save it.  The best news is that my husband is now 'on board' and eager to reconcile!

 

 Many times when I've felt hopeless, I receive an e-mail from Mort, or listen to a CD or a tele-seminar, and I feel my resolve return The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs, and sooner rather than later.  I waited almost 10 months before I sought help and finally signed up, and during that time I made some decisions that only made things worse.  Had I signed up sooner, I could have saved myself a lot of grief

 

Leslie S.

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"I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of

my life"

It is with great appreciation that I write this testimonial! My marriage has been saved thanks to the lessons I have learned from this program. I was also motivated by this program to become a better person and live up to my potential. How many programs offer two for one?! In all seriousness I am doing the things in my relationship I should have done all along and either wasn't mature enough, confident enough or simply didn't know.

Perhaps equally important, I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of my life and I have this program to thank. When things go wrong many people decide to give up but I was motivated to fight for what was important and my efforts are being rewarded. I am not a religious person but I am still counting my blessing in many areas of my life. Thank you so much for the guidance I needed and the encouraging words needed to persevere.

Sincerely,

Kolleen D.

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"It is life changing"

Just wanted to send you an e-mail to say THANK YOU for your marriage fitness program.  It is life changing.  I can't even wait to get to the next CD, the next teleseminar or the next chapter in my workbook.  Every time I think I have my question to ask you on the laser appointment, it gets answered in some way in the materials I have from you.  Looking forward to a new life, a new marriage and great things to happen.

I appreciate YOU!!!

Lisa Bird

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"your Marriage Fitness program...had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately"

Dear Mort,
   After 32 years of marriage, my wife told me that she had found a man whom she loves and wanted a divorce and was leaving immediately.  I was stunned.  Fortunately I read about your program and signed up for the lone ranger course.  It is two months later and we have not yet separated
I can attribute the fact that there is a chance  at reconciliation directly to your Marriage Fitness program.  It had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately.  Just as important, it pointed out the attitudes in both of us  that almost guaranteed us going from soul mates to roommates to the very edge of divorce.  Your one on one consultations have been simply invaluable  Your help has been invaluable.

 

                                                        Gratefully, BB

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"My husband came back home permanently"

Hi Mort

 

I would really like to take this opportunity to thank you very very much from the deepest place in my heart for all your emails, the Audios and the Marriage Fitness program. Yor really helped me save my marriage and keeping the momentum to make sure we do not get back from where we were.

 

My husband came back home permanently in March 2011, 9 months after our major fight. It was a long wait but like you say that we expect quick fixes to our problems and it does not work as it took some time for our marriage problems to be at a  state where it looks like nothing will ever work.

 

It was a long wait but it was worth it. He kept on coming to see the kids and will sleep over and leave again and it really used to tear me into pieces. I kept all your emails (even to date) and would read them all over again each time I felt down or thought things will never get better.

 

Its been 6 months since he has been back, and we handle our differences much better than we used to and they are far and far in between. I still apply your teachings in order to keep the momentum of our marriage. We are so happy now, he brings me to work and fetches me almost every day, something he last did in 2003. We go out almost every Friday night. My children are also themselves now as the separation was affecting them very badly and their teachers were noticing that they were affected and things might not be well back home.

 

You are right in that you can single handedly change your marriage situation and get to see the chances you what to see in your partner. But the most important thing is to be patient and it can take longer than expected

 

Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you. I have been telling my friends about you and one of my friends recently subscribed to your website and is now receiving your emails.

 

Kind Regards

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"Thank you for your program.  When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily"

Mr. Fertel,

My husband told me he was leaving me for a woman he had fallen in love with, that we were never meant to be together, and that he had never felt the way with me that he felt with her. I obviously had little hope for my marriage… I begged my counselor to tell me how to act.  I didn't know which end was up. For the entire summer, I found myself going from angry and bitter to kind and pleasant daily. I was miserable and part of that was because I had all of these feelings and didn't know what to do with them.  Then I found your program. My counselor kept telling me that I needed to separate from my husband (which was hard because he was still living with us) physically within the home and emotionally. I was a mess simply because I felt so conflicted.  What you did for me was teach me how to act at a time when I was so lost and felt so alone. Your program gave my life purpose again. I began to look forward to the day when I had a plan for what to do. My pastor gave me the kick in the pants to start, but you taught me how to make my way back to my husband's heart. While I could see your program working, I never really believed he would come back. I still felt like I needed to try for myself.  About a month, or a little less, after beginning the program, my husband told me that he wanted to reconcile. While it took some time for my husband to break off completely from this other woman, the affair did stop.  He no longer is in contact with her and we are doing better that we ever have. he felt all of the resentment and anger he had built up over the years go away. I believe God played a huge part in that, but I believe he used your  program to help me get to that point. Thank you for your program.  When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily.  It truly helped me get through the day.

Name Withheld Upon Request

 

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"I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS"

 

Dear Mort,

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY (OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS! THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR HELP.

SINCERELY,

KARIN SHELDON

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"Your program had a great impact not only on my marriage, but also improved me as an individual..."

Dear Mort,

I was thinking day after day in order to find proper words to appreciate you for the new window which you opened in my life. While I am in the beginning of reconciling my marriage, but your program had a great impact not only on my marriage, but also improved me as an individual and I see its effect in my work as well. At the beginning, I was wondering if your program will apply to my life since I am from middle east with different culture, but now I believe that the truth is truth and will apply in each and every case.

God bless you.

Best Regards

Jaber

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" You saved me! "

I would like to personal thank you!!!! You saved me!!!
My relationship with my wife was over It was done!
It has now been rekindled . slowly
One chip at a time.
I have been never felt so thankful and. reclaimed as I do right now
On behalf of my Wife Nadia, my Children Ronnie, and Analiese.
Myself.
I thank You from the bottom of my heart!

If there is anything I can do for you, You just need to ask, and if it's in
by power to give, I will!

Chris Morand
Kakabeka Falls, Canada

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"Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own"

I just had to thank you and express how grateful I am to have had your extremely effective advice.  I've been in your program for a couple of months now and went from having no hope to feeling like I have the perfect marriage!   Your perspective has made me realize I CAN fix my marriage on my own.  I'm amazed that by changing myself, my husband has changed as well!  I didn't have to force him or even tell him, it just worked!  You are truly a marriage genius!  Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own.  It just took those changes for it to be this good again.  We're both much happier than we've ever been in years and I owe it all to you!  I'll recommend you to anyone I know that wants help with their marriage.  Thanks again. 

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"Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading before getting married.

It is really that powerful!"

 

I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .

 

Mort taught me how to transform my perception of love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an active process of consistently giving in small ways among other good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.

 

It is really hard for a person to understand how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in. Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.

 

I still have work to do to win back my obstinate wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely key but without his Q&A sessions and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.

 

Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading in high school or at least before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other product or person's services in my entire life.

 

Stephen B.

Fenwick, ON Canada

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" After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team."

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Prior to starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my own emotional neglect, not to mention the years of financial distress, the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse after all this we thought that it was over. I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the first week, things changed. After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very much for your great program, it saved us and our family.

 

T.F.

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"WE have both seen improvement"

 

Although my husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice).  We are just now starting to gather momentum.  When Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to.  Mort is right, IT IS NOT EASY.  But we are not giving up.  WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.

Bonnie and Jim R
.

              

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"We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"

 

 

 

Dear Mort,

 

If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG

 

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"Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us"

Hi Mort:

I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.


We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of issues mostly about our blended families. We  even been seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it apart.


Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have been a blessing to us and our marriage!

Wes & Irma

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"... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family"

Good morning Mort,

I want you to know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.

I had the opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.

I too... like many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.

God Bless!

MAJ Sven O.

ADC Section Chief, RAOC

AZ Army National Guard

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Check out our Facebook testimonials!

 

(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do. Thanks)

(Jennifer: Yes! Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people! Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)


"We credit you for helping save our marriage

every chance we get!"

 

 

Dear Mort,

We are 2 of your success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every chance we get!

We've continued in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18 months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.

We just had to invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get positive feedback!

THANK YOU MORT!

Penny and Jeff Mazin


 

"After the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back"

In all the years that we have been together I can honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of roommates.

 

We just couldn't understand where things went wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together, we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it, even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments that were no longer.

 

I found Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again.

 

No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a difference, but we started and continued working with the program after four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .

 

Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there when we were searching for that help.

 


Peter & Ruby – Long Beach, CA.

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"You have helped [my husband] and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever. "

 

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.

I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever.

Thank you,

M.S. and J.M.

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"Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice..."

From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .

Dear Mort,

I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.

I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort, my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and that it has really worked.

To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer, because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen. Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty

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"I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program."

Dear Mort,

I wanted to thank you for your program and your support during our 1 on 1session.  Just wanted you to know that my husband and I are getting back

together.  It has been a long road and at one point I almost gave up and started to move on with my life without him.  Funny how that letting go was

just what he needed to find me again.  Anyways, we are making plans for our future and I will continue with your plugged in sessions since they have become

so valuable to me.  To be honest I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program.  Without that, I may have been hurtful and cruel, behaviours that benefit no one.  Thankfully I was able to stay loving to my husband throughout our difficulties and now I can see that our relationship will be stronger for it.

Thank you for being there.

Melody M.

Alberta Canada

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"one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home"

My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 9 years. In early August he decided he was done.  He began staying at a friend’s house and he refused to do any therapy or even talk to a mediator.  He was “no longer in-love,” “things could never change” and “I have feelings for someone else” so he moved out of our house in October.   

I found Marriage Fitness and was hesitant to try because, my life was spiraling in the wrong direction and wasn’t sure if this would really work. My therapist was telling me to move on because my husband had chosen his path.  As I began to receive emails about the little things being said, it made sense to try.  Luckily, we have two children, so I did get to see my husband almost every day.  After my husband responded in a positive way, I thought this was the path I needed to go.

There were many times I felt that this program was not going to work, especially in the lone-ranger track but then I would listen to the conference calls and question and answer sessions being inspired by MortThen one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home and six weeks later, my world changed again.  We were able to have a wonderful family Christmas!! This program worked for me and showed me what really matters in my life. 

I knew that I needed to reconnect with my husband, but did not know how.  Thank you Mort for leading me in the right direction!

Sincerely,

L. S.

Louisville, Ky

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"I just wanted you to know that everything

has turned 180 degrees"


Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:05 AM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: God and Your program are awesome

I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery. I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from “I love you but I'm not in love with you and my wife wanting a separation to see below:

- Last night my wife bought me flowers and double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)

- She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had not contributed her share to the relationship

- She told me I was a wonderful man

- She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to her

Is God not awesome!!!!!

Thank you for everything.

If you ever need a testimony let me know!

T.E.

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" I cant believe it was as simple as it really was. "

Mort,

Having recently completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.

To have our teenage kids advise us that we're "creeping them out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving each other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a date"), we must be doing something right.

Celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning, considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple as it really was.

Heartfelt thanks.

Tom & Lil

 

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"My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary … thanks to this program. "

 

 

First and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel because his program was exactly what I needed! This program was a last resort for me because I had done the talking and begging with my husband and it was not working. I was not reaching him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger Track as a last resort. At first, I was skeptical because I had never done anything like this before and did not believe this could really work. Once I read through the book and listen to audios I realized where I was going wrong and that I was not the only person going through this. I started implementing Mr. Fertel's concepts and advice, with great difficulty. I had zero hope, out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I began to see a slow change in my husband and myself.

 

My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 … thanks to this program. I have and still am implementing the process with my husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him see me as an exceptional wife. I look forward to reviewing what you have taught me everyday and to make that loving close connection with my husband. I can't thank you enough. THANK YOU THANK YOU!!

 

Forever grateful,

 

Lillian H.

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"In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's."

Dear Mort,

I would like to first commend you on your patients, understanding, and clarity.  I was looking for the ultimate answer to my problem marriage. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but you did it.

Your program is a no brainer if you just think about it…the CD's  explain  in full color what we have been doing to each other. I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can work together again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes the tv doesn't even get turned on.  I thank God every day that I found you. It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives forever. Thanks again.

Sincerely,

Pam W.

P.S. My husband even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even folded the clothes. BIG STEP.

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"Thank you for being a shining example of

excellence and integrity."

Dear Mort,

I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wisdom and straightforwardness. Your answer lifted a huge weight off of my heart.  I asked you about my husband watching pornography and feeling uncomfortable that he still watches it especially after he'd tried several times in the past to get me interested in engaging in sex with other people, etc.  I just want to relate to you that previous counselors we've had would say things like its ok to fantasize about other people, it's harmless.  I never felt this was ok, but felt outnumbered when a respected female counselor sided with my husband and told me that it was healthy to fantasize about other people... I started feeling that maybe I wasn't being open-minded enough.  I was so pleased to hear you say that its not something that I need to accept and that this is one area that you don't relate to the average person in - that pornography doesn't have a place in any marriage.  Thank you so much.  I know that I have the right to feel and believe what I want regardless of what other people may think and believe, but it really is nice to know there is someone out there whose opinion I respect that also feels this way.  It gives me strength and it just validates for me even more that I've found the right resource in you and the Marriage Fitness program.  Thank you for being a shining example of excellence and integrity.  I appreciate so much the work you are doing.

Z.B.

 

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'I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations"

After being married 25 years (with the normal ups and downs) I had just thought we were in another 'down' period and was waiting for my husband's mood and interest to pick back up. Then I found out from a misdirected text message that he had a mistress - and I was in shock. I didn't talk to him about his affair because I really didn't know whether I wanted to get out of the marriage or stay in. When the two of us were alone, he hadn't been very nice to me for months. So I went into research mode and  spent days on the internet and  learned that he had all the symptoms of a midlife crisis including dramatic weight loss... I also went into tremendous soul-searching and decided that my life WITH him would be better than my life WITHOUT him. So I decided to do what I could to save my marriage. But I hadn't a clue what to do - until I found the Mort Fortel website and signed up for the Lone Ranger track. Things got worse before they got better. My husband was definitely trying to provoke our becoming even further apart emotionally by constant criticism, eye rolling, avoiding all physical contact except occasional hand-holding, asking me to start sleeping in another bed room due to snoring. My only comfort was the fact that he was still hiding… his cheating My greatest comfort through this pain has been Mort Fortel's advice  because it gave me an action plan. It forced me to soul search and realize that I had contributed to our problems and needed to fix myself  in order to fix 'us'. I'm changing myself into a much more attractive and caring wife  by following Mort's advice on a daily basis and slowly but surely it seems to be working! The eyeballs have stopped rolling, my husband is actually talking to me again and occasionally mentions something we'll be doing together a few months from now - which he hadn't done for months. If not for Mort Fortel's program, I know I would have done and said all the wrong things that would have driven my husband further away and right into her arms... I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations step-by-step. Thank you, Mort!

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"It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink of divorce (as we were)."

 

The Marriage Fitness program by Mort Fertel has been a truly transformative experience.  If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further.  It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink of divorce (as we were). This program has even inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort and to our journey to marital success:

 

                                              Together 

                                 

There once was a couple named Robyn and Jeff

Their souls knew each other before they ever met.

They walked down the road of life's path

On their way from a distant and troubled past...

They started along their journey together and

Somehow lost their way - But with Mort, love and

Pat ience they began a whole new day... 

In making their dreams they always knew

Together - would come true...

And so now the journey of healing begins

Back to the path of love where their souls

Have always been...Together!"

Thank you Mort!!  Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski

- Members of The Marriage Fitness Program. 

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 "Thank you!

Thank you very much! Once again I would like to thank Mort for the fantastic program, I am seeing amasing changes in our relationship already, without
god and Mort's help it was impossible.
 
Kind regards

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"...the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new directionbegan to alter and uplift my morale and outlook"

After reading almost every article and book on marriage issues, I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program on the Lone Ranger Track without much of an expectation. I seemed to have identified all the issues impeding my relationship with my spouse but motivating her to engage had become impossible. However the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new directionbegan to alter and uplift my morale and outlook. We have not reached a point of true connection but the ice is beginning to melt.

GB

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" Thank you Mort Fertel !!!"

Hello Mr. Fertel,

Your program has helped the two of us so much we wanted to thank you.  We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program.  Thank you Mort Fertel !!!

Marianne and Scott B.

Cherry Hill ,  NJ

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"God used you to help me"


J.M.J.

Dear Mort,

Where do I start?  I should have written this months ago, forgive me.  Although I ordered the Lone Ranger track…My husband and I were separated over the summer and we had no contact (this was after we were together for 1 year and separated for 2 before that) We have been married 29 years.  My husband and I saw each other for the first time on October 4th and together as a family on October 6th ( I remembered your advice as meeting in a neutral place.)  That day he said "I can't believe how different you are, you've changed!" He had no idea that I had been doing your program since August.  I can't believe the change in myself, my relationship with my children, my husband, my friends, and with God.  

Very quickly he became receptive to the changes I was making and began coming over more and within a few weeks was back home.  Although we had a lot of issues to work on (trust for one) he said to me the other day, "I always thought I  loved you, but realized selfish I have been (I never even tried to get to know you), but I have fallen deeply, deeply in love with you and I cannot imagine being without you!"  He started your program in March and said that he wanted to do everything possible to make sure the I and the children know he loves us in action and not in words alone! 

Mort, you don't know how many years I have waited to hear these precious words, how many nights of heartache I have been through and the peace and happiness you have given us!  

When I decided that I wanted to make this work this summer (and realized that I was to blame for the breakdown in our marriage as much as he was) I typed in "God" save my marriage and your program pulled up!

That's exactly what God did he saved my marriage and my family.  My husband is working on his relationships with his children (which was absent for way to many years) God used you to help me and words cannot express my undying gratitude.

Take a moment today to give your family a few extra hugs and kisses!

God Bless you and your family as you will always be in my prayers.

Lisa R.

*PS I have already passed your information onto several of my friends that needed help in their marriages too!

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"I have an obstinate spouse but in weeks we are already connecting"

Dear Mort, we have made so much progress as a couple since I began the Marriage Fitness course... I am in the Lone Ranger track but we have gone from no contact hardly and barely speaking to each other to meeting regularly and speaking on the phone most days to scheduling date nights. My spouse has shown a great interest I the course and wants now to seek professional help. I have also scheduled in private one to one sessions and these have really helped me to focus on my goal and vision. I am so much more optimistic now and my love for my spouse has grown as I am fixing myself and creating new habits.

I would recommend the marriage fitness course to anyone whose marriage is in disarray.

I have an obstinate spouse but in weeks we are already connecting and developing intimacy.
I cannot thank Mort and his team enough.

Cathy C.

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"You saved my life!"

Mort! You completely saved my life and transformed my whole way of living. I
talk about your program with just about everyone I know and everyone I meet.
I instill this way of living in my children and I feel so strongly about it
so I think it should be a prerequisite before even dating let alone
marriage. Mort, when I say you transformed me... I mean you literally
transformed me, mentally and physically. I lost 88 pounds.

JR
Elverta, CA

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"my husband moved back in!!!"

It would be my pleasure to share our story and how your teachings helped
saved our marriage! I do not require anonymity, but maybe prefer just to use
our first names, I'll double check with my husband though! 

Brief Summary:  Married in 2010, pregnant in Jan 2013.  Things were not
going great at the time of pregnancy but my husband figured he would work it
through.  While I was pregnant we did see a marriage counselor, but the
results were not good.  My husband didn't want to be that guy who left his
pregnant wife, but decided to stick it through until after the baby was
born.  The tensions were high, our emotional love banks were running on
empty!  I was really not a nice wife, not a happy mother, and a real pain to
be around!  I kept trying to tell my husband what he needed to do to make
things better, rather than working on what I needed to do to make things
better.  It was really tough after the baby was born, lots of tears on my
end, a lot of resentment on my husband's.  We tried another marriage
counselor.  This one basically tried to push for a happy divorce "for the
sake of the child" and focused more on the happiness of the individual
rather than helping our marriage!  It was horrible!  Shortly after, my
husband moved out.  He did come over every day to help with our son after
work, and was really still an excellent father.  I was desperate to save our
marriage, and when I say desperate, I was DESPERATE! Around Spring 2014 I
found Marriage Fitness online after many many attempts to seek advice for
fixing a marriage, how to stop a divorce, etc.    I started off receiving
the free emails Mort offers.  Then quickly thereafter I ordered the entire
boot camp program and tackled it under the lone ranger track.  This was such
a unique program, giving me clear direction and tips on how to salvage and
re-start our relationship.  I listened to the cds over and over again.  I
had generally been going about saving our marriage all wrong!  Others
thought I was crazy and were urging me to seek a lawyer to "save me assets,
assure custody, etc," obviously not moves that Mort would suggest!   I would
use every opportunity I had face to face with my husband to put Mort's
teachings into practice.  Although I would have set backs and moments of
anger, over emotion, I really tried to follow what he would say...After
months of implementing the process, and not giving up hope (Mort suggest to
give it one year of full on trying) my husband agreed to listen to some of
the cds.  Shortly after my son's first birthday, my husband moved back in!!!
 It is not easy and requires very disciplined work to keep the marriage
healthy, but I still implement the strategies and suggestions of Mort in
everyday interaction with my husband, and others!  This program is not high
tech, nor really fancy!  But it is to the point, and if the user really
dedicates him/herself to it, I believe there will be success more often than
failure.  There is so much praise I could share about this program!
I'm also so excited to share that we have been going strong since November
2014 and are expecting a little daughter this October!!!!  I guarantee this
would not have happened if I had not found Mort's program! 
Kind Regards,
Kara C.
North Bay Village, FL

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"The most powerful, humbling
experience of my life"


Your program helped my marriage from ending. I would be happy to share.
I would like to be anonymous.

My marriage was going to end, as I was choosing it to. I had felt ignored,
alone, misunderstood, taken for granted, tired, and more like a roommate who
did EVERYTHING, so of course he'd want to stay with me. But did he love me?
I was sure not. Was there "romance"? My telling him what to do to make it
romantic surely couldn't constitute romance, and instead had me feeling more
like his MOM than his wife who he should be madly in love with and wildly
attracted to. I wasn't sure how and when things changed from the days of
dating and romance, but I then began to question even those days, whether I
was a prize because of my money making skills and intelligence rather than
my soul. When I cried and questioned him, I felt he didn't care, or couldn't
be bothered with my OVER sensitivity. Of course he loved me, was the reply.
But then, how come nothing ever changed? Why did I still feel like his
mother or roommate? Why was there no connection? Feeling unattractive,
overworked, under-appreciated and empty, I turned to others to fill the
void. I spoke with my mom, sister, friends, co-workers. Only those closest
knew the marriage woes, and my sister told me to go to marriage counseling.
To everyone else, we were the ideal family. And with attention on child
rearing and professional duties, the cycle continued. Then, my seeking
validation and friendship turned outside my marriage and I was "rewarded"
with validation, compliments, and the promise of "true love". I thought I
should no longer keep doing something that "didn't work", and I made the
choice to explore something that might. I tragically tore apart the very
fundamentals of the marriage, the trust, the  vows, the friendship . . .
everything. That's when God spoke to me, ever so clearly, in my moment of
need. HE said it's not about ME, it's about Him, and He loves me, and He
loves marriage, and He wants me to have the "love of my youth" my husband.
And I sought forgiveness, and reconciliation and God's word on the subject.
My husband didn't want me, my lies, my selfishness, my ugliness. And it was
then that I realized I didn't get to decide if I was forgiven by my husband,
but I was forgiven by my God and I would do what He wanted. But what was
that? God is for marriage and forgiveness. Was there anyone with a sound
plan to reconcile a marriage? I went to counselling and to my pastors, but I
needed a daily plan, a road map, a focus, a daily reminder, a way to be the
person I should be! That is where Mort Fertel came in, and he helped me see
I wasn't alone, and that I needed to put love first, and how to do that with
someone who wanted nothing to do with me, or love. I know God put him and
his program right where I needed it. This had everything to do with making
myself right in God's eyes, not changing my husband one bit.  I love my
husband, he loves me, forgave me, and it was the most powerful, humbling
experience of my life. Mort gave me the tools to use to keep going, to give,
to show love, to be trustworthy and consistent and to do this in an ongoing
way - even 4 years later.

K.R.
Yucaipa, CA

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"Thank you again for the program and the impact it has had on our lives"

Mort, 
I am deeply indebted to you for the assistance I received in the Marriage Fitness program.  Applying the practices and principles contained in the program, we have transformed a failed marriage into a joyous and lasting one.  It has also given me life skills that have allowed me to address other challenges and disappointments in my professional and personal life with calmness, grace and clarity. 
 
I went through the program as a Lone Ranger. To this day, my wife does not know anything about the Marriage Fitness program - other than asking “Whose Mort Fertel? when CD’s arrived in the mail.
 
However, my debt, admiration, and appreciation for you and the program requires me to heed the call.  I am willing to provide a testament to how the program assisted me in transforming my marriage and my life.  It would need to be done in a manner that is completely anonymous.  I am a public figure and we would need to do it in a manner that a viewer could not ascertain that I was the subject. 
 
The details:
 
My wife, a very successful attorney, had a client where the lines between our professional and personal lives became blurred.  We attended events together.  Both of my daughters worked at his firm at times during their high school and summers during college.  Both of his future son-in-laws worked for my company.  
 
Their business meetings began to be scheduled later and later in the day and, more often than not, had alcohol involved.  I grew increasingly sullen as I was waiting around in the evenings wondering whether my wife and I we were going to have dinner together and her frequently falling asleep on the couch upon her arrival home.  My response to all of this was unproductive, making our home less inviting for her and ultimately culminated in their affair. 
 
All of the cliche’s, expertly documented by your materials, ensued.
 
We began planning the amicable dissolution of our marriage - and were getting along reasonably well in that process.  I was searching for assistance in how to do that and encountered Marriage Fitness.  It changed the course that we were on - and changed our lives. Our marriage is happier and healthier than it had ever been (glow of the Honeymoon aside). 
 
I can attest to the following: It is possible for someone enrolled in the program as a Lone Ranger to change the course of their marriage. 
 
I am happy to help if you can abide by my condition of anonymity.  Thank you again for the program and the impact it has had on our lives.  I apply the principals and practices every day. 
 
With gratitude. 
 
Anonymous
                Tempe, Arizona

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"your course...saved our marriage"

Your course was what we needed and helped save our marriage. I have shared a
lot of what you taught us to our children!

CL

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"We both know that Mort was a huge reason our marriage didn't end"

My story is probably pretty typical.  Husband fell into an affair with a woman at work and after some time left me and my young boys (2 year old twins).  I got the marriage fitness program in the mail 2 weeks before he moved out.  I fully dedicated myself to the program and even though it was very difficult, I practiced all the concepts religiously.  Husband was very obstinate at first, but after 6 long months he showed up in my bedroom at 2:00 am and we never looked back…and now are happier than we have ever been.  We both know that Mort was a huge reason our marriage didn't end and is now so amazing and full of love.  We are now 4 years out from our crisis and continue to use the marriage fitness practices…
 
Lindsey

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"SUCCESS!"

YES – absolutely a SUCCESS !    We took our time and advanced a little more
“methodically” and slowly through the Boot Camp……and LOVED every minute of it.  We always looked forward to the weekly call, workbook exercises,
audio’s, and chapters in the book.  We often listened to the audio clips
(and calls) multiple times and read chapters more than once.  We took the
tools and concepts “out of the classroom” and applied them to our daily
lives...
 
We are doing well and place a tremendous amount of value on Mort’s program. 
 
Phil Marchun
Hurricane, WV

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"Changing many lives"

Thank you! 

We have had amazing progress in our marriage due to the MF Boot Camp!  What I thought was practically hopeless at the time, God has redeemed. We are so thankful for Mort's insights and we pray for him, his family and his marriage. I believe God is using this program to change many lives!  Thank you!

Blessings,
 
  Melissa A.

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" I am blown away with how far we have

come in just 10 weeks. "

Mort,

I'm at a loss for words. How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug (not that you'd let me, LOL).

Mort, you didn't just help our marriage but you changed our whole family. We've been married for 15 years, have four children and were on the brink of divorce. The emotional pain I had inside was so bad it was almost a physical pain. The worst part is that you can't go through pain like that without it having an effect on your children. We tried to shield them as much as possible, but they knew something was wrong. To think of what we were putting them through emotionally, breaks my heart.

We too, tried everything from traditional marriage counceling to Venus and Mars and everything in between. Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our problems were just too big to overcome.

Then we found you. Mort, you honestly were our last ditch effort. I personally thought it was too much money to spend but you offered a money back guarantee and I had full intentions on collecting it. My husband and I decided to give your program a try but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't work and I continued to make plans for a new life without my husband. Then something happened. Not overnight, but it happened. I'm not even 100% sure of what it was, but it was working. I am blown away with how far we have come in just 10 weeks. Everything is different. My husband and I are more in love now than we were on our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn' t s tand being in the same room with him and today I know with all my heart that we will be together forever. Divorce will never be an option for us. Were gonna make it.

I've heard i t s aid that people don't change. What a bold faced lie. My husband was the mos t s tubborn person I knew. He hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every single program we ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once he wasn't being blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to create an environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You totally impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in 15 years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was working. He did a complete 180. We both did.

Knowing what I know now, I would have paid a million dollars for this program and I can't believe you charge so little for what you offer. You literally have every base covered and I know you put your heart and soul into it. This is not just a profession for you. It's not about making a buck. You have a God given gift and you're changing lives.

A few months ago I asked God for help. I didn't know what to do; there was nothing left to try so I left it in his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God, and thank you Mort.

Michelle

Vancouver , BC

P.S. Remember that hug I mentioned earlier? When you go home tonight, please give it to your wife. Tell her that Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks for helping you to become the man that you are. She should know tha t s he played a huge role in saving a family she doesn't even know.

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"...If you want to save your marriage, he's the ONLY person who can help you do it."


"I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my heart."

Mr. Fertel,

Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and your program.

Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.

Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was the right path to follow.

I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out", my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr. Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"

I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I made a covenant with God to love forever.

It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital redemption.

Sincerely Grant

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"We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer."

Mort,

I have been meaning to write this email to thank you for your program My husband was feeling unloved and he turned to someone else. Instead of playing the victim,God showed me forgiveness and you gave me the tools to really grow and change . Being manipulative would not have made this marriage work and perseverance was what I really needed. When my husband moved in with the other woman he expected me to really hate him and treat him terrible. Instead you made me feel like it was okay to have him over the house. I didnt use the kids against him, I used the talk and touch charges, I took care of myself, got into a closer relationship with God,lost weight, and my husband started to fall in love with me again. We were seperated for the entire summer which gave me a chance to see how much I wanted to be married to this man. By the end of the summer, he broke off the affair and moved back in. We utilized your worksheets and eventually found a counselor who could help us deal with some of the issues we could finally discuss. Traditional counseling drove us apart and was leading us to divorce.

We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer.  Thank you Mort for your program and for helping to save my marriage. God lead me to your program. I will continue to recommend you to others.

Tracey B

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"NEVER IN A MILLION
YEARS"

My husband left me last June (2015). We had a one year old son and lots of
plans in the coming year, including building a brand new house together. I
knew we weren't doing well and I knew we weren't as happy as we had been, or
could be; but, the separation utterly surprised and devastated me.
Especially since he was very vocal about our separating being the first step
to divorce. We both signed 12-month leases in separate apartment buildings
and, while I gave him the space and time to work through things, my message
remained very consistent: I believe in us and I believe in marriage. I was
willing to do just about anything to fight for us.
Long story short, I randomly came across your program while googling
marriage advice. Your emails had me absolutely hooked; I knew I needed to be
apart of the bootcamp. Three months into our separation, with us feeling
even more distant and un-married, I casually asked him if he'd like to join
with me. Fully assuming he would say no and I would do the Lone Ranger
track, he actually agreed...reluctantly. As the weeks progressed I noticed
changes in his attitude towards me-towards us. After 41/2 months of
separation, we reconciled. Looking back on our journey, NEVER IN A MILLION
YEARS would I have believed anyone if they'd told me we would reconcile and
 have a better marriage than we've ever had before. We truly have an
unbelievable marriage. We closed on our brand new home in November, and we
are expecting our second child this summer. I truly owe it all to you and
your program. Not just for the help with my marriage and my husband, but,
how much your advice changed me: as a wife and as a person.
Separating was the most humbling and lonely experience Ive ever been
through, and, while I will never advocate for leaving a spouse as a solution
to one's problems, how you helped us come back together, has made our
journey worth it.

J.J.
Denver, CO

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"Life Tools"

“Ignorance is bliss”, and in my case “Ignorance” almost destroyed my
marriage.
Let me start by saying that I married the woman of my dreams. We had been
married for 23 years and over the course of that time, our marriage had
vacillated between “great” and “good”.  I qualify these adjectives because
prior to meeting Mort, I was ignorant of what a great marriage really was. I
didn’t know real intimacy, I thought that if I didn’t commit physical
adultery I was being a good husband, I didn’t know about zipping. Within
that ignorance, I found my version of marital bliss. Because of Mort, both
my wife and I now know what it means to be truly zipped with each other, we
equally define intimacy as “in-to-me-see”, and we consciously are each
other’s soulmate. We live our lives purposefully for each other and as a
result, we now truly have a GREAT marriage.
My wife and I are both smart and logical. We are college educated in highly
technical fields. Over the course of our 23 year marriage, we learned to
live our lives effectively and with emotional efficiency. We didn’t fight or
argue much – if at all – and we overcame adversity very well together. We
were supportive and understanding of each other. Things were “good”.
However, that does not mean that we did not have needs that were not being
met – far from it. We both did have needs. We just both developed great
coping skills. Unknowingly, this ability to cope was actually driving us
apart. In my case in particular, it was destroying my marriage.
My coping skill entailed building a protective layer around my inner-most
feelings of insecurity. After all, how could I divulge my fears and failings
to the woman of my dreams, and still be her hero? I would not allow her to
see the real me. By keeping these feelings bottled up, I was
gradually feeling worse about myself. Over time, these feelings led me to
create an alter-ego and seek out the admiration of other women. .
After all, it was just innocent flirting - I’m gregarious and its part of my
culture. . The more this continued, the more insecure I felt
about myself. Insecurity is a hungry beast, and I fed it through emotional
infidelity. In November of 2014, our marriage was in a crisis.
We started Mort’s program and with each exercise, the veil of ignorance was
slowly removed. It was not easy, nor was it quick. Most meaningful things
aren’t. But what we learned, transformed our marriage and transformed our
lives. I learned that emotional infidelity is not innocent or insignificant.
Together we learned the powerful concept of zipping, and that you can only
zip with one person. (This was a major “aha” moment for me). From there, we
discovered at a deeper level, what about our personalities, our past, our
upbringing was at the root of our issues. We learned how to trust each
other, I learned how to open up. I learned how to be intimate. I no longer
thought that “soulmate” was a cliché on a greeting card, but rather it was a
true, desired identity that I wanted to achieve with my wife. I wanted to be
mated with her, down to my soul.
Mort taught us all of these concepts and then laid out exercises and
provided us with life tools, to work them out for ourselves. He taught us
that a true meaningful relationship is not about being emotionally
efficient.
By eliminating our ignorance, Mort did not return our marriage to when it
was “good” or even “great”, Mort took our marriage to a level that I never
knew was even possible. He transformed our marriage into one that is
intimate and zipped. He gave me my soulmate for life.
 
F.P.
Austin, TX

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"Guidance when I needed it most"


On July 14th of 2013 my wife of 18 years said that she no longer wanted to be married to me.  I was completely devastated.  There were never any fidelity issues and both of us had financial resources.  I was running a family business and she was a homemaker.
 
After a week of crying and begging for another chance (at the time I had no idea what I was begging for) I began the search online for a marriage councilor.  I stumbled upon the Marriage Fitness CD program and ordered it shipped ASAP.
 
I became a student of the program.  I tried to have my wife listed to some of the CD's but she would have nothing to do with it.  I began the lone ranger program.  I remember .... "give this one full year of effort." I took to the program like a fish to water.  It was cleansing.  It was eyeopening.  It was a strategy that helped make married life worth living. 
 
Unfortunately for our marriage we could not be saved.  However, after one year of living life the Marriage Fitness way I was fully prepared for the next chapter in my life.  I left Marlissa on June 28th of 2014.  After a year of effort, self change and examination and finally clarity.  I am now in an amazing relationship with a woman who shares the intensity and importance of connection and I am forever grateful for the lessons learned with this program.
 
On another positive note - I attended a business conference in Las Vegas in 2014.  I met a fellow business person at the bar one night (by chance) and we shared a few drinks.  Somehow we got into the discussion about woman, marriage and how he had been estranged from his wife for many, many years and his hope has always been that they would someday get back together.
 
I told him that night that there was an answer.  I explained the whole philosophy of Marriage Fitness.  How life is about taking responsibility for what you can change, not trying to change anyone else.  I told him that I would send him a copy of the CD's.  To his astonishment I did so.  A month later Daren called me and told me that he had taken my gift to heart.  He had spent the time to listen to the Marriage Fitness program and and already had a lunch date with his estranged wife.  Last year - they were back together - buying a house and living a married life that could only come from the lessons learned from Marriage Fitness.  We just about cry every time we see each other - words don't do justice to the experience.
 
He asked me if he could pay for the program which I had given him.  I told him absolutely not.  All I asked is that if he had a chance to give the gift to another then to do so.  Last year he texted me - excited to have had the opportunity to purchase the Marriage Fitness program for someone else.
 
Finally - after participating in the Marriage Fitness program I had the opportunity to work with Mort personally - one on one.  His insights, clarity of thought and experiences gave me guidance when I needed it most.
 
I wish all the best for Mort, his family and his cause of saving not only marriages but helping others to discover great ways to live.
 
Sincerely
 
MG

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"Our family has been restored
and our future has never looked brighter"

"Thank you" just doesn't seem a strong enough sentiment to someone who
helped us transform a broken marriage to a relationship that neither of us
could have even imagined.  Corey and I have been married 22 years, raised 3
great kids and were super involved in EVERYTHING except each other.  I felt
a serious crisis - disconnection- and found your program through a good
friend.  We had done marriage counseling 2 other times in the past 15 years
when we were feeling disconnected, but the effects were short lived. Corey
was not willing to do the boot camp so I proceeded with the Lone Ranger
track in June of 2013. The program was the hardest thing I ever did.  Corey
was cruel, condescending and difficult, but I followed your discipline
advice and kept going. After Christmas in 2013 I learned that Corey had
become involved with a co-worker (text book emotional relationship that
turned physical).  This relationship had been going on for the past year and
because she worked for him, he found it impossible to end the relationship
without either #1. losing his job/damaging his career or #2. losing his
wife/family.  I never suspected his infidelity and if I had I could have
easily found out through emails and texts.  I just never thought he would
ever be unfaithful.  He regretted getting involved with her, but said he
felt like he was in the mob and saw no way out - fear kept him stuck.

As devastated as we were to learn this news (our children were home from
college during the holidays were in the thick of it), I was able to take a
deep breath and lean on the teachings that I studied during the boot camp.
 One of the first things Corey said to me after the discovery was "I want to
do the Marriage Fitness Program together."  Within 5 days of finding out my
marriage was a lie, we began the hard work of putting the pieces back
together and began the dual track program.  Mort, that was over 2 years ago
and nothing short of a miracle has happened.  We are more in love, connected
and committed to making our marriage the highest priority in our life.
 Corey was able to navigate a successful end to the relationship. She took
another job with a different law firm and signed a document stating that the
affair was consensual so there were no legal ramifications. We were able to
focus on healing, repairing and renewing our marriage and we have never been
happier.  It is true that we needed to hit rock bottom.  We both believe
that if he had ended the affair without me finding out, we would not have
been motivated to do the transformative work necessary to see true change.
 God does give the problems we need in order to fix the things that need
fixing. (A wise man once said that).

Thank you again for your wonderful program.  Our family has been restored
and our future has never looked brighter.  It would not have been possible
without your help.

Karen and Cory
Gahanna, OH

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"Life Changing"


I have used your program first as a Lone Ranger track, when my husband was living out of the house and was involved with another woman, an old friend from high school....and he has since returned home and after a long six months and one false connection with the other woman, he is now the one that realizes he wants to work on our marriage. 
 
In addition, we had tried traditional marriage counseling several times during the first 23 years of our marriage and it was totally ineffective just as you said in your program.  
 
Your Q & A recordings literally carried me through the worst four months of my life on the Lone Ranger track.  I would listen to the questions callers asked and hear your answers over and over.  They gave me strength and they gave me the answers...
 
Your program changed my life and is currently changing my marriage.
 
Marcie
Somerville, NJ

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"One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic"

Hi Mort,

I am grateful for the opportunity to give feedback. I began the Marriage Fitness Teleboot Camp in the single track as I was separated from my husband for two weeks (this was after 6 mths of separation a year earlier, and was told just before xmas he was never coming back, though he wanted to stay married but live seperately?). He had left because of long standing issues that he couldn't see being resolved, in spite of being a practicing psychologist, who is well regarded, a conference speaker, author of four books, lecturer and speaker at conferences.  He had diagnosed himself as a narcissist and myself as borderline personality disorder, both according to him, being mild.  I had been working on the issues about myself that he had problems with and was making progress, though it wasn't fast enough for him and he could only see me as a problem/disorder.  I had also attempted for two years to get on his wave length and so read psychology books/internet sites/blogs on narcissism and codependancy/personality disorders. He seemed not interested in dealing with issues in himself.  I found the more I looked at the issues we both had (especially after two years of trying to understand him from a psychological perspective) the more negative I felt.  We had also spent six months with a marriage counsellor without things changing much (I think because we were still focussing on the problems).

I realised I needed to have a more positive/different approach and discovered your program on the internet.  I began with the teleconferences as the materials arrived later, my thinking changed and I had hope that things could be turned around.  Seeing the change in me, my husband decided to come back, though no guarantees of staying.  He was intrigued with the material and also found it positive.  We have really only listened to the teleconferences and some CD's but they have had a huge impact.  We are both going to do the workbook and we are following your practical suggestions of putting love first by connecting through regular activities such as date night, talking etc.

I believe you have a program that is full of wisdom which anyone can follow and understand.  It is sensible, practical, hopeful and solid.  It does require commitment and work but it is all doable. One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic.  I thank God and you for your commitment, wisdom and work in bringing such a well developed/comprehensive program to those who are struggling in their marriage. I highly recommend it. JS, Australia

 

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"[My husband] is arranging his whole life to make time for the program… we are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been."

 

Hi Mort,

 

Durward and I are excited and pleased with the program, and I am SO impressed with Durward's attitude, AND his complete co operation with attending the sessions.

 

He gave up ANY contact with the woman with whom he was having the affair, and has had NO contact of any sort with her since Dec. 22nd, when he told her that he would not contact her, and asked her NOT to contact him.

 

Durward is arranging his whole life to make time for the program… We are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been.  Our sex life is more deep and frequent and satisfying than it has been since the first days of our marriage. And for the FIRST time EVER, Durward seems to be awake and aware of the life keeping services I have always provided, and which he always took for granted. I am stunned by the wonderful things he has done. He is headed home from California , and will be here Monday, and BOTH of us are missing each other, and can hardly wait to see one another. Thank you for helping us.

Barbara Anne Ashley    

          

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marriages"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks."

Mort,

I can't say enough about your program.  My spouse had moved out, was not speaking to me or answering my calls, and was beginning a relationship with another man.  I was convinced we were through.  Using the principles I learned in your lone ranger program, I was able to reconnect with her.  Matter of fact, she is laying beside me right now as I type this.  I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks.

Bryan

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"IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised"

Mr. Mort

 

I thank you so much again for your program, this is the second email that i have sent you it has worked wonders with my husband.. as I told you in my last email,  My husband does not even know that I am doing your program.  However again he is saying things yesterday and today, that.. did I know that he was crazy about me, and missed me so very much (we have had to be apart because he is in California and i am in Colorado as I also told you in my last email to you.   I needed to come here to take care of some business, and because of some unforeseen matters, I need to stay here until i find a job to save enough money to go back to California to get a home for just my  husband and I.   its a long story but would be happy to tell you one day if your were interested.  I just want to shout it out to all the world about your program,  its DOES work with only one spouse taking the program, it doesn't require both husband and wife for the program to work.  Did you hear me... :)_  IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised.   My husband just told me tonight that he thinks the time apart from each other has been good for him to realize that he was ''getting to comfortable with me'' as far as things like sex, hugs, kisses and just paying attention to me.  Hallelujah! Praise God,..  I am on my knees praising God and being thankful that I found and was given your program.!   

Thank you and God bless you Mort.   I have a lot more to my success story if you ever want to know it..  

Thank you ,,, thank you ..thank you... blessings to you Mr. Mort..

 

My marriage is become a success...! just like you promised

 

I want the whole world to know that it is never, ever too late to help your marriage....!

 

Thank you Jesus!♥♥

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"Your program is so versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the privacy of their own home."

 

Hi Mort.

It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from different back grounds and had different expectations from one another which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other. Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense, the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is not enough when there is so much to resolve.

One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice- needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent.

What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.

Valerie Kemmer

I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to him. Here are his words:

"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30 years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer

All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to us. VK

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"Now I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or obligated..."

Mort Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and has chosen to share with the world.  He is compassionate, versatile, humble, real and wise.

When I first purchased the program I was desperate for help but I knew just anything would not work.  Mort's approaches are so none offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations.  I adore how Mort approaches the answers with out history; that way you know the answer is not tainted or miss guided in the results.  And that is exactly what you get RESULTS .  My husband is immature, stubborn, insensitive, etc (human).  My husband is also spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what he wants, focused, etc (perfect man for me).  And I truly believe without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for me.   We both came from single parent home and obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to function.   With three girls there love life was looking doomed.  But now we all have hope for tomorrow. 

I was living in a TV Romance Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help and  What Am I Doing Wrong; What the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a promise of never ending drama.  Now I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated sources.  I can now freely give and appreciate everything I receive.  And believe me my husband is the type of man that only listens to other men.  No matter what they said.   If a man told him eating grass was manly he would want it for dinner every night.  So by the grace of God I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and genuine concern (Mort).   While also teach me how to love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get a lot more.  This program pulled me back from legal separations.   I was going to court in the morning and listening to Mort in the evening and then one morning I dismissed everything (a breakthrough).  Of course my marriage is not perfect yet but that is the great thing because now we have so much to look forward to and strive for.  LOVE is really obtainable and really can be kept for a life time.   I would say to anybody that wants to keep there marriage or are not sure if you want to be married you owe yourself the opportunity to try this program.  If you know you are going to lose you spouse because of your mistakes and/or theirs why not try it.  Worst case scenario you are able to walk from your marriage knowing you did all you can do to be the best spouse you can be if you do everything Mort asks you to do.

           T. Mitchell

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"While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well"

 

What meant the most to us was that Mort has been through a difficul t s ituation in his own marriage and practices the techniques he teaches.  They worked…and i t s hows in the way he talks about his own marriage.  

It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes. While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well. I highly recommend his program for any marriage in need of an awakening.

ST in Altanta

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"My husband even passed me a compliment "

Dear Mort:  I joined as the Lone Ranger because I felt I needed to do something .. .  I didn't realize what I  was getting myself into but became addictive after reading your daily emails.  The teleconferences, books, cds are of the utmost quality.  I found myself listening to the teleconferences over and over at the office instead of the local radio station.  While driving, your cd  has been plugged in. The workbook  replaced Dr. Phil McGraw.  I'm achieving positive results with the tools that you have made available After seven weeks, I feel great!  My husband even passed a compliment "Wow you look great!  Is that a new outfit"  I just said "Thanks, I feel like I look...great!".  Inside joke, I've had the outfit for years and he never acknowledged it before but what's inside the outfit is different!  I feel better now than I felt prior to taking your course.  Mort, your sincere approach is so felt when listening to these conferences.  For seven weeks, you've been my best friend.  I thank you for you!  I will be continuing with your next program.  Many thanks-Vicki M. , Petaluma, California 

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"I feel really connected to you and your passion to “fix” what I broke. "

Hi Mort

 

I am thrilled at how much your program has helped me and turned things around. I have been a “lone ranger” and it really has worked for me.

 

Thank you from the bottom of my heart– I feel really connected to you and your passion to “fix” what I broke.

 

Kind regards

Darrell

 

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" I won with Mort's plan"

I never thought I would be in that situation being married for 3 in a half years, and then I was there. It was friends, in laws, other women, and everything and anything. I was like how can this be. Did I marry the right person? When we rehash everything like everyone told me it only made it worse like reliving a bad dream.
I googled marriage counselor and Mort came up. I put in my email. I thought all hope was lost. I got the emails step by step. I was in a marriage where I was sad and didn't want it to end in divorce. I could not keep up with everything that was going on outside or compete, but what Mort showed was how to make my home a place we both wanted to be. I won with Mort's plan because I never quit. I focused on each part of his program one at a time. I kept working .. . I saw the layers of coldness just peel off. Mort's way is different and that's why it works! I always felt the traditional way didn't work, but I didn't know anything else. As I was going through the process, in a couple of weeks I noticed I began to feel better about myself. The program was working us. We are in sync again, and We make love!!! Do you hear me? I can say I thought it was over before, but my marriage was worth fighting for. Don't focus on all the outside interferences if you follow the program they disappear. I thank God and I thank Mort for restoring my life.

J.L.

 

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"We are close again. We laugh, have fun , talk for hours, hold each other, share in each other's daily lives, emotions,and passions"

Dear Mort

 

I am happy to write a testimony, since

the program turned our lives around. I believe God is using Mort's program to help us.

 

We've been married for 14 years. In the last three years things started to go wrong.

It became unbearable in the last year. There was constant

fighting,the smallest thing would get a snappy

remark, there was a huge emotional distance, and no spending any fun time together. He felt

controlled, I felt left out and overwhelmed. Over time, it got worse. He was spending almost all his time on hobbies, tv, computer. I was complaining,

felt left out. I made discussions without him, controlling our budget tightly, thinking I was responsible, but I was selfish and controlling.

 

Then came the heart breaking experience when he said he does not love me anymore.

Through all this, I knew that I loved him deeply, but I was not willing to live an empty life without love and full of negativity. Then I found Mort Fertel,signed up in the lone ranger track and started to apply the new habits, started growing personally. It was hard.

I learned about myself and improved and grew as a person.

I had my doubts that I could make a big

difference

all alone, since he had no interest to participate

in the program or any other.  

I am happy to report that we are doing very well now. We are connecting daily. We spend time

together, enjoy each other. We are close again. We laugh, have fun , talk for hours, hold each other, share in each other's daily lives, emotions,and passions.

The emotional and physical distance is gone. He is responding to the new relationship habits and applying most of the steps in the program,

without even doing the program formally!

( I don't know how , but he does!)

I grew personally.I am a better person.

I am now also the wife he deserves, and he is responding

very positively to that! We still have a long way to go, but now

both of us are happier, there is momentum in our relationship and we have a loving marital environment.

There is still some big challenges ahead, but I know we will get through that too, with God's help and Mort Fertel.

Now we are connecting, we are happy,we build our Marriage and our love daily, and our children will get the greatest gift: Happily married parents and a model for how to be successful in their own future relationships.

I recommend this program...

 

Thank you

U.B

 

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"This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet"

You won't find a better Marriage counseling program for the money anywhere.

This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet. The reason is this program comes from the heart of someone who understands loss and the value of relationshiips, someone who is sincere and genuinely cares about the people he is tring to help.

 

John B.

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"You have turned me and my life around."

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice. My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!

Julia Z.

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"Things now are on the mend..."

I never imagined myself resorting to an internet self help program. But I tried everything else with my failing marriage and Mort's program seemed promising. I realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits that were killing my relationship and I was totally pushing my husband away. Things now are on the mend and on the upswing and my relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive.

VBL

New York City

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"[Mort] gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction"

Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that we had no other options and the Divorce process was already started. He gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage.

B.O.

New Jersey

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing                           problems in their marraige"

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principleshas actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"...then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel"

My husband left me 5 ½ months ago after being very unhappy in our marriage for many years. He said I was a good person and friend but that he didn't love me anymore. We have been married for 17 years and like all marriages there were the ups and downs.

Needless to say, this has been the most devastating experience of my life. We have two beautiful children, 14 and 11, and it has been very difficult on them as well. My husband has always a wonderful father and husband but over the years, he started to work more and more and withdraw emotionally from me. We did not take the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me now we were just roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said because sometimes roommates don't like each other and he still considers me a friend.

I desperately tried to search for answers and solutions to this horrible situation. For the first three months I hardly talked to him; I was in so much pain. He, on the other hand, still wanted to help out with the house chores like shovelling snow, helping with the children and so on. It was very painful for me to be near him so I rejected any help at all. I knew I couldn't go for too much longer as it was affecting my whole life, my work, and my children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web site which said I could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness. I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some wonderful and inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of reconciliation because my husband did not want that.

By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone. I became interested in trying his boot camp as a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked the money back guarantee if he couldn't help me. I felt that I could always get my money back. It didn't take long for me to realize that I was receiving help immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions to talk personally with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had changed and was different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain that he has gone through and it was a very moving experience for both of us.

I listen to tapes everyday to and from work and every time I drive anywhere. …we are talking and taking part in family activities together. We went to play pool for the first time ever this past Friday night and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient and want things to move faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my husband from a place deep in my heart for perhaps the very first time in our married life. My husband hugs me when he leaves from our visits and his heart is slowly opening up to me again.

All of this would not have been possible, had I not found Mr. Fertel's program. Everything makes so much sense that I cannot get enough of this help.

Thank you, Mort. I thank God I found you.

Sincerely,

Nelda

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"I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"

We have been married 42 years, but after my husband retired and we spent more time together, our home became a battleground.   My husband seemed to be more satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the program, he responded so positively that the difference in our relationship is almost unbelievable.  Now I believe that by following through with Mort's program our "golden years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by arguments, resentments and anger..

Gillian S .

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"I have been to traditional therapy before and

never have I seen so much offered!"

Hi Mort,

I have found your program to be most helpful for the following reasons:

1. You can participate at your own pace in the privacy of your own home.

2. Your personal and professional experience is radiant and gets results.

3. You're very well versed with intercultural barriers and traditions because you believe that ultimately "LOVE" is spoken in only one language!

4. You provide tools that work and that can be used immediately.

5. Your program is unique in that it is SAFE, provocative, inspiring, and inspires and best of all it gives you tools to GROW.

I have been to traditional therapy before and never have I seen so much offered!

Thank you.

Sheela K.

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"Our house is a home once again but a better

one than before"

Hello Mort,

I don't know if you'll be reading this or if your very nice assistant will.(Sorry, I forgot her name)

I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD news since I'm sure you like to hear about marriages that have been saved. My husband Curt had wanted a separation, got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation. Two months to the day before I could have been receiving divorce papers from his lawyer, Curt asked to move back home instead.

Our house is a home once again but a better one than before. Communication is more open, honest and we speak and listen lovingly to each other. What a testimony of God's faithfulness for us, our children and others who watched us through the past year's storm! You can even find us all together every Sunday at church! (A new church that is uplifting and offers hope instead of warnings of fire and brimstone).

I still have notes from our discussions. Looking back, many suggestions you made were just what our relationship needed.

Thank you again for your encouraging words.

Sincerely, a survivor and new person,

Samia B

Charlotte, NC

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"Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship"

Dear Mort,

One year ago I contacted you via your web site for help. My marriage had been marginal to say the least for several years. My husband told me the day before Thanksgiving that he didn't love me any more and thought I should move into our vacation house in another state. He was sure I would be happier there. I was in such horrific shock I just did what he asked. Once there I realized this was not what I wanted and I was going to do everything I could to save our marriage of 32 years. To add to the pain I discovered the day after Christmas he was seeing an old High School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately came back home. I had to give it one more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness program in the lone ranger track and began doing the things your program suggested. Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship. He refused to go to any kind of counseling, so I just continued by myself in the Lone Ranger Track. As I worked the program he seemed to respond in kind and it wasn't long before things were better than ever.

Thank You Mort!

This past year has been the best year of our entire relationship. I would recommend this program to anyone who is having problems in their marriage.

It works!!!!!!!!!

Linda

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"I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together my shattered life."

As Mort Fertel would say "listen carefully.”

I was at a total loss in my marriage…spinning without a compass. My wife said she wanted out but I wanted to save the marriage. I could hardly function on a daily basis because of the stress. I t s eemed like my whole world was crumbling at the foundation and I was watching it fall apart. I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together my shattered life. His writings and talks helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to the kind of attitude I knew I needed to succeed in my situation.
 

Daniel

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"Thank you for being there for me."

Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Your program is outstanding and truly a god sent for me. I owe it all to Mort! Thank you for being there for me. You are the best. Keep up the great work that you are doing everyday.

DMK

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"Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!"

Please pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded to say that after working the program…my husband caved and said he's seen how amazing I still am and it's always been me that he wanted. Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!

Thank you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional therapy!
Best,
Liz

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"Once I started the program, my anger began to soften."

Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.

During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child, my husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the family together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced divorce with four kids under the age of 10!

I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and decided to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope, as I thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel love toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, trying to decide when to divorce, but I did this program as a last resort jus t s o that I could say that I "tried.”

Once I started the program, my anger began to soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding, rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!

Thank you, Mort!!

A.P.

Illinois

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" Your program has made me a new man"

Hi Mort

Your program has made me a new man...and in return feeling so much better we still have work to do but it is amazing how you feel When you let go of past stuff I'm doing this as a lone ranger and I'm having a positive affect on my wife thanks Mort I've told so many people to go to your web site.

Chris W.

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" Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't dwell on either

communication skills or hashing out the past."

Hi Mort,

I recently ordered and received your program.  My husband and I are amazed at your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long road trips. Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past.  We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge change in our relationship after implementing some of your ideas!

Thank you, Mort.  We will definitely recommend your course to friends and family who are struggling with their marriages.  It is the best we have found.

Best regards,

Sandra L. H.

Mammoth Lakes , CA  93546

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"Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the first three steps of the program, we quickly got back

on track and remain so."

Mort,

Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill and I did not completely make it through all the program; we did complete all the tele conferences and the Q&A's and basically got through step 3 of the 4 part program. Our Notebook suffered as during the last 2 weeks of our program Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer so our focus completely changed.

The program did wonders and continues to do wonders. We fixed what we had broken due to lack of focus on each other and continue to practice everything we learned.

The program was fantastic as I could not - without your Q&A's make Bill understand what he was doing wrong without appearing extremely selfish. By the timie I received the program, I thought I was going crazy, then I went through all th Q&A's looking for answers and found them. I marked the one's he should difenetely listen to and explained that if these do not address our problems, nothing will. Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the first three steps of the program, we quickly got back on track and remain so.

Now to get through our next test! Thanks a million times over for getting us on the right track and for your help.

Natty & Bill B.

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"Without your program we would be divorced now"

Hi Mort,
 
I would like to thank you for your exceptional program. My wife and I have been married for 32 years. We married very young, started having children within a year of getting married. As time went by we grew apart, lost the loving feeling as many couples do. The past 10 years felt as though we were room mates more than a loving couple. Our children are all grown and out of the house, and my wife and I were very active in our 3 boys lives. The empty nest syndrome set in and I felt like I was in a vacuum. I strayed from my marriage and had an affair with a co-worker. The affair lasted over 2 years before my wife found out. We seeked counseling to try to save our marriage. Which turned into separate counseling and never got us anywhere. I moved out of the house, my wife filed for a divorce. We were within one month of divorce, and something felt so wrong. I contacted my wife and I searched the internet for a program to help us and found yours. My wife and I were madly in love when we met. Life got busy and we lost our focus. I want to tell you that your program made a difference and got us back to enjoying each other again. Without your program we would be divorced now wondering what happened and moved on to new relationships and probably have failed in those because we were each others first true love. your course taught us how to bring the spark back into our marriage, and my wife Donna and I want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
 
Sincerely John

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"Our family has been restored and our future has never looked brighter"

Dear Mort -

"Thank you" just doesn't seem a strong enough sentiment to someone who helped us transform a broken marriage to a relationship that neither of us could have even imagined.  Corey and I have been married 22 years, raised 3 great kids and were super involved in EVERYTHING except each other.  I felt a serious crisis - disconnection- and found your program through a good friend.  We had done marriage counseling 2 other times in the past 15 years when we were feeling disconnected, but the effects were short lived. Corey was not willing to do the boot camp so I proceeded with the Lone Ranger track in June of 2013. The program was the hardest thing I ever did.  Corey was cruel, condescending and difficult, but I followed your discipline advice and kept going. After Christmas in 2013 I learned that Corey had become involved with a co-worker (text book emotional relationship that turned physical).  This relationship had been going on for the past year and because she worked for him, he found it impossible to end the relationship without either #1. losing his job/damaging his career or #2. losing his wife/family.  I never suspected his infidelity and if I had I could have easily found out through emails and texts.  I just never thought he would ever be unfaithful.  He regretted getting involved with her, but said he felt like he was in the mob and saw no way out - fear kept him stuck.

As devastated as we were to learn this news (our children were home from college during the holidays were in the thick of it), I was able to take a deep breath and lean on the teachings that I studied during the boot camp.  One of the first things Corey said to me after the discovery was "I want to do the Marriage Fitness Program together."  Within 5 days of finding out my marriage was a lie, we began the hard work of putting the pieces back together and began the dual track program.  Mort, that was 5 months ago and nothing short of a miracle has happened.  We are more in love, connected and committed to making our marriage the highest priority in our life.  Corey was able to navigate a successful end to the relationship. She took another job with a different law firm and signed a document stating that the affair was consensual so there were no legal ramifications. We were able to focus on healing, repairing and renewing our marriage and we have never been happier.  It is true that we needed to hit rock bottom.  We both believe that if he had ended the affair without me finding out, we would not have been motivated to do the transformative work necessary to see true change.  God does give the the problems we need in order to fix the things that need fixing. (A wise man once said that).

Thank you again for your wonderful program.  Our family has been restored and our future has never looked brighter.  It would not have been possible without your help.

Sincerely,


Karen C.
private@gmail.com

P.S.  Please cancel our plugged-in monthly subscription.  We don't feel it necessary anymore as we are truly on the right track.  We are headed out the door right now on our weekly date...haven't missed one yet!

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"my feedback is all positive…"

What a great program. About 7 months ago my wife hit me with a brick regarding our marriage. I was quite lost. I searched the internet, signed up for Mort’s free emails and then finally pulled the trigger and joined the program I think in January. The program educated me tremendously. It gave me structure to deal with the emotions that I was going through…my feedback is all positive…my marriage has improved and I continue to focus on the things I learned in his program already. 

BL

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"We are planning our future together"

From Marsha;
My husband & I after 36 yrs of marriage have been seperated for 1-1/2 yrs. I had no feelings for him & did not want to get back together., but I promised I would give him a chance, so when he asked me to do your program I didnt think it would make a difference. Boy was I wrong! You said so many things that hit home for me,and as I saw changes in him I felt changes in me. Now we work every day to put love first. We are planning our future together which for me, is amazing.

From Russell:
Hi Mort
As Marsha stated we have been married for quite a while. High school sweet hearts in fact. I am a very outgoing problem solving person and over time started to be very controlling of  Marsha. I never meant to be that way. I always figured out the best solution to the problem and kept talking till she just gave up and did it my way. I always just thought my idea was finally making good sense to her.Marsha was always very quiet and did not want to cause any waves.( We are going to have buisiness meetings to keep our minds open)  When she told me she was leaving me, it was like I was an old dog on the porch naping and someone kicked the poop out of me. I searched the net trying to find help, and found you. I am so happy that I did and am working every day to put Marsha first in my mind and life. I feel kinda like a teenager again. At first I thought $400.00 was a lot to pay, but in fact it is a very very small price to pay for the road that you have put us on.
 Thanks so much for your help,and I look foward to the plugged in program soon.
We have already told people about your program and feel that even people who think they have a good marriage would benefit from the program.
Russ  


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"You have taught me the values and principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want."

September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Your Marriage Fitness program was absolutely phenomenal.

First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the eyes of God as well.

Thank you for everything!

Anthony Schiro

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"Every method [Mort] suggested was helpful. "

I would recommend this program to anyone who want to enrich their marriage and especially if they are having marital problems. Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems. Every method he suggested was helpful. This program was hard but very useful. It is a whole new way of looking at things.

I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.

Barbara Harrison

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" ...renewed marriage, love affair, romance, intimacy, etc"

Mr. Fertel,

I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.

Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage. After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with problems, etc., we were very tired.

I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.

We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective, not providing any real advice.

I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to separate.

The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings were real.

We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair, romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.

I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at this point.

I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that not much more could be done.

I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they are learning what we have...

Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.

D. Scott Martin

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"Mort taught me how to single-handedly

save my marriage."

Mort,

I would be more than happy to share my testimonial! Hope it helps, I would like my privacy protected so I will sign my testimonial with initials.

I discovered my husband was having an affair after 18 years of marriage. I confronted him about it and he denied it. Even after I gave him proof of the affair he still denied it. The more I spied on him, the more I confronted him, the more I confronted him,the more defensive he would get! I had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he own up to the affair and end it???

I asked him to end the affair and he said he did, I later found out that he was lying, he had not ended the affair. I asked him to leave our home but he refused. I told him that if he did not end the affair I would file for divorce. The affair continued! I did not know what to do!!! I prayed alot.

I finally got a lawyer and had the initial paperwork completed. I was devastated because I loved my husband and even with this affair going on he said he loved me and did not want a divorce. A divorce was the last thing I wanted.

I searched the internet for help. I prayed for guidance, I came across "Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed up for his emails first. I wanted to make sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and they did. Mort taught me how to re become a woman of moral character. He was encouraging, hard at times and motivating. I thought prior to the affair my marriage was save and in a good place but after going through the homework assignments I found many opportunities to first, fix myself and second, to restore my marriage. My husband and I have good days and bad days but things are much better because of the boot camp. I was in the Lone Ranger Track and at first I did not understand why I had to change if I was not the one having the affair! Mort taught me how to single-handedly save my marriage. I never thought I could do it, but I did.

Thanks Mort,

TS

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"The way I feel everyday now,

could never happened with out you."

Hi Mort,

I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth every penny and more.

My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left. We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling, instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me growing.

Thank you
Malissa Olveda

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"I hope that this letter will help others to find that

extra effort to purchase your course"

Mort,

I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I really wish I could have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and I've lost all.

I held dear.

Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio

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"There's a much better energy in our household."

 

Dear Mort,

The minute I found your website I knew that it was what I was looking for, yet it took me several more months to sign up for the program.

My husband and I have tried all the usual methods to "fix" our marriage – marriage counseling, (with some very good compassionate and expensive counselors,) communication techniques, Free Online Marriage Counseling, reading books and listening to tapes on Mars and Venus, etc) and very little changed in our marriage except that our dissatisfaction level with each other increased. I think both of us had basically decided to do time in our marriage for our daughter's sake and just ignore each other as much as we could. We had come close to divorce several times over the seven years we've been married.

The tools and insights you have shared have changed my life. I started thinking there's got to be something that will work for my marriage - I just haven't found it yet. Well I

finally found "it" - Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness.

I jokingly thought to myself when I started your program - this will be my summer of love. Now I am seeing how it is possible to make this a lifetime of love. There's a much better energy in our household. Thank you and your wife for sharing this life-saving information.

Sincerely,

Zoe Banks

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"I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me"

Dear Mort,

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.

Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after that she will want to do the program with me.

Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be restored.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho

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"...still together and enjoying a relationship like we haven't had in many many years"

Hi Rebecca,
I have very much enjoyed the program and am happy to say that the Marriage Fitness program has saved my marriage. In Feb of 2012 my husband told me that he thought we should divorce when we were just shy of our 25 yearn anniversary. I was fortunate to find Mort's book, then the main program.
Here we are now in almost July of 2013 ...still together and enjoying a relationship like we haven't had in many many years. I can't thank Mort enough!
 
Michele C.


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"THANK YOU for our second chance! "

Hi Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you know that my husband and I have reconciled. I owe everything to you and your program. I did the lone ranger track and with sharing things with my husband we are more in tuned to each other than we ever were---even when we were dating. I learned a lot about myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect. I'm also doing your plug in program and WE are working real hard at our marriage. THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.

 

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"We have the soul mate love that we never had before!  Mort is the real thing! "

Rick and I were separated and headed for divorce this past November.  Rick held strong to the possiblity of reconciliation in our marriage.  I felt that it was time to give up, but still agreed to go to a marriage counselor here in our community.  He was kind, but we only focused on our problems in every session.  Rick had researched online some other possible methods of help for our marriage.  He found a website and began receiving emails from Mort Fertel.  Rick asked me to join him in a "Tele conference Marriage Boot Camp" led by Mort Fertel.  This opportunity gave us a marriage which is better than when we first said "I do" 21 years ago.  We are having the time of our lives.  Before Mort, we were two people living in the same home.  We are both so happy to have each other and our Church pastor used us as his example Easter Sunday.  He said we look like teenagers giving each other affection and attention every day.  I have shared the CD's with other friends in need and they are so thankful for the gift.  We are firm believers that with Mort Fertel, any marriage can not only be saved, but made better than ever before.  We have the soul mate love that we never had before!  Mort is the real thing!
Thank you Mort Fertel for your guidance and support of our family.  We just came back from a ski trip in Colorado as a family.  There is no other greater feeling than to have your family together and love your spouse as much as I love Rick.

-Suzanne A.

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"...really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better connected with each other"

Dear Mort

 

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the valuable lessons. I was on the Lone Ranger Track, the instructions really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better connected with each other which is the key element in a happy marriage. Minor things still remain and we are working on them.

 

I believe Marriage Fitness is a very effective program .. . And the best part is that most of the time what appears to be a problem in life turns out to be a very positive thing.

 

Marriage Fitness Program provided that it is based on strong belief in God, is very helpful in repairing the damage to emotional feelings through misunderstanding or ignoring your spouse' s needs as the closest person to you.

 

 

Yours truly

K.C.

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"Using your program to make me a better husband and person I reconciled things with my wife"


Dear Mort Fertel,
I want to thank you for your program. At first I thought it was expensive and that it would be almost like a magic pill to make my problems go away. I had even lest hope because my wife didn't want to participate, she only wanted a divorce. In fact she was upset that I even spent the money on the program. Using your program to make me a better husband and person I reconciled things with my wife, except at one point we had an argument and she left me again. At that point I had lost all hope, but I kept doing what you said to do. My wife and I didn't get a divorce,and have reconciled our marriage. So I wanted to thank you and your team for putting the program together that taught me how to fix my marriage, and to say that though it was a lot of hard work I became a better husband and father for it.
BL


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" I deeply thank you"

Dear Mr. Fertel,
It has been very comforting to receive your emails and a benefit to participate in the 7-week teleconference calls.
Your messages have been an affirmation of things I already knew, encouragement to take difficult action steps toward establishing peace within my marriage and reassurance that no matter the outcome I will grow as an individual from the lessons on how to form healthy connections.  
With that said, I have experienced moments of closeness with my husband since implementing your program.  Now that I completed the teleconference calls, it is my plan to take my time to finish the lone ranger track work book exercises (finished units 1-4 and most of unit 5) as well as review the FAQ audio files.  Fortunately for me, I had what I would call a divine intervention occur almost simultaneous to beginning your program.  In October, I received a friendly call from the reverend that married my husband and I over six years ago.  When she asked how we were doing, the flood gates of emotions opened about the challenges we were facing.  She offered to meet with us, which my husband agreed to and since then we have had three appointments with her where she has guided us in prayer so we can safely lower our defenses and discuss our desires.  The work we have done with the reverend has been complementary to your philosophy of restoring and strengthening goodwill between couples FIRST.
Growing up in a chaotic family life, I did not know how to feel safe within a relationship nor what to do to fortify a relationship.  Therefore, I am getting a kick out of doing the talk and touch charges, using other tools learned from the work book plus meeting with the reverend.  The small results have been motivating me to stay focused on living my values :-)
I deeply thank you and may God continue to bless you in living your purpose!
M.M.

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"We can't thank you enough"

“I didn’t know anything about how to fix a marriage in crisis i.e mine  and absolutely no knowledge of what my next steps should be.”
I was alone and had no one I wanted to talk to about it
I googled the internet and found Mort and I signed up  
Mort Fortels work with marriage fitness was beyond my expectations in terms of notable small changes and the speed with which we  could accomplish our goal of staying together when it seemed hopeless .
What I  appreciated most about working through the programme  was this ability to cut through the predictable  scenarios and outcomes and steer me toward the goals not the problems and  deliver the expected results and then some.
I started to look at things differently. The mailings you sent helped enormously , along with your website, teleconferences and work book  After many years of marriage and raising a family it nearly all came to an end!  You're  years of experience in this market so to speak and having been through it all yourself - your fitness programme really came into play. Your knowledge of the principles of marriage  construction, and  your attention to  focusing on each other's needs was so valuable  helping  guide us in making the right decisions.
We can't thank you enough for your professionalism, expertise, and hard work in helping create love in our home .
I did this all on the Lone Ranger track although my husband was aware of my signing up to the programme.
F low

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"The program is fantastic. All of Mort's work is"

The program is fantastic. All of Mort's work is. Kimberly has significant issues with me continuing.
In the meantime, I'm going through the Boot camp materials again.
Last, puzzling as it may sound, Kimberly and I are doing better than, perhaps we've ever been. Huge part of that is Mort's work. It really saved our marriage.
 
Thank You!

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"The path has been bumpy, but I am starting to notice change"

My husband and I have been together 27 years. We have had our share of ups and downs and had become like roommates. In September, my husband told me he was going to get an apartment, to give himself "options" and he would stay around until our youngest graduates in 2 years. I was devastated and blindsided. He has thrown out the word divorce a couple of times over the years, but that has always been during an argument. This was different. I didn't know where to turn. I did the typical begging and pleading. In December, I found Mort's program. I was skeptical and yet figured at this point what could I lose?
I won't lie, it is not easy, especially as a "Lone Ranger". I had to restart the program several times, because I fell into the same traps. To complicate things, my husband's "friend" had become his confidant and his behavior changed. Security codes on computer, phone, etc. He was no longer intimate with me. He has always been faithful, but at this point, I am not sure where it is at. Still, I have kept plugging forward.
The biggest change has been in me. I realized my "fixing". I became complacent in the marriage and I avoided dealing with some major financial issues. Everyday life took over and I was not happy with myself. I have listened to Mort's programs over and over. They keep me on the path I need to go to fix me and to make my marriage a priority.
The path has been bumpy, but I am starting to notice changes. Initially, he was obstinate and his some of the things he said were clearly advice from his "confidant". I have not mentioned that I know and trying to act from a loving, understanding place is a challenge. I decided, if nothing else, I was not going to allow her to make me a victim and give her ammunition. I still love my husband and in the past couple of weeks, I have noticed some big changes. He is contacting me. He has allowed me to take him out on a couple of "dates". He is letting me do nice things for him. He has been intimate a couple of times. She is still in the picture, but I am not sure to what extent. I have hope. I am still fearful sometimes, but I just pull up one of the program cds and push forward.
The Marriage Fitness program has been a life-saver. I felt like I wasn't going at this "on my own" and it has made me a stronger person. I feel like I am now operating in a better place, one of love. I feel better about myself and know I am doing what is right for my marriage and by owning up to the things I did failed at during our marriage. I have hope, which is more than I had a couple of months ago.

Andrea

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"I could not have made it without Mort"

Hi Adina,
Yes you can use my testimonial but I mentioned my spouses infidelity so I wouldn’t want my name used as it would hurt my wife.
The time following the infidelity was the most painful experience of my life and I was so devastated I didn’t know what to do.  To add insult to this pain my wife didn’t want to reconcile our marriage.  Mort’s tapes helped me focus on being the best man and husband I could be regardless of the pain and rejection I was feeling from my wife’s affair and rejection of our marriage.  Mort said in the tapes/book/emails to not stop trying to save the marriage; my wife didn’t say she wanted to try and reconcile until 8 hours prior to the final court hearing on our divorce.  Rebuilding our marriage is still a daily process of work and commitment but we are 1.5 years post the destruction of our marriage  and our relationship is growing.  I could not have made it without Mort.

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"I think this should be obligatory before you actually get
 married"


Hello Adina,
 First of all, I would like to thank Mr. Fertel for his wonderful
 program. I think this should be obligatory before you actually get
 married. The course material is so basic, common sense, yet so easy to
 forget and get carried away by our personalities.
 I decided to terminate the plugged in program for several reasons.
 Although, I am responsible for my fixing, and am in the process of
 working on my issues, and how I perceive things and handle situations,
 I find that my husband also has his issues that he needs to deal with.
 He is not anywhere near this, in fact he does not want to see things.
 I can be a light to him, and an example, which I try to be, as I try
 to live a life of integrity, but he also has his issues (fixing), and
 he will do that as Mr. Fertel says, only when and if he decides.
 As for myself, I listen to the CDs every day both the Q&A and the
 other CDs that describe the program. I listen to them regularly as
 there are so many details and I need to go back and catch what I
 missed or gain a new insight or understanding of what I already heard.
 The recordings are a great amount of inspiration and support, without
 them I would have not been able to get through.
 I do find that the plugged in program is a little repetitious of what
 was said in the whole 7 weeks of the lone ranger program. Ideally, I
 would love to have new CDs, recordings, of more Q&A, as they really do
 help. They really are the biggest support.
 I'm not really sure about letting the program go, as it has been my
 companion throughout these past couple of months, a real friend to me,
 when no one else was able to comfort me, and I have seen really dark
 moments.
 However, I'm not sure I want to continue as well because as I said,
 the weekly conferences are repetitive of the recordings i already
 have. My issues right now are infidelity, although it is not perceived
 this way, because he wants his freedom and likes being a free man,
 issues of finances, which I'm trying to resolve, and how to deal with
 his putting me down and making me feel incompetent as in his own words
 "our problems stem from me not hearing him, or listening"....So maybe
 I would need more of a personal mediator approach.
 These are my thoughts for now...
 Thank you,
 Anonymous

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"My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are heading in a better direction.  "

My wife moved out in April and wanted a divorce: married 18+ years:  wasn't like I didn't see it coming

 

In June, my 15 year old son left me this note one morning: 

 

Dad:

 

Now that you are reading this, I might be on my way to go skating, but I felt like I needed to remind you

that the measure of a man is not how he conducts himself when life is good, but rather how he is when life is hell.

 

I love you and always will. We will get through this. 

 

Much love,

Jake

 

I knew I need professional help if I was to be the man he needed to see, and I needed to be.

 

 

The Old Testament says" God hates divorce".

 

I broke that down:

 

God: the greatest power in the universe

 

Hates: the worst emotion I can imagine

 

Divorce: The end of a marriage, and the end of a family, as I have known it.

 

 

I figures if He hates, it, He would make a way OUT of it.

 

A lot of prayers and a lot of fasting by others changed her attitudes.

 

A lot of prayers and Marriage Fitness changed mine.

 

My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are heading in a better direction. 

  

My son reminded me that when life is hell: still do the right thing!

 

 

 

There is a lot of marriage "fixing" info out there; 

 

Your's caught my eye when you explained " the best thing you can give your children is a great marriage"

 

I'd say "thanks" but that would be not nearly sufficient.

 

Neil  

 

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"... our kids that have their family back together"

Dear Mort, I rarely believe the things I read on the internet, so when I found you in a google search for marriage advice, I was skeptical.  Then, I figured… what have I got to lose?  So, I signed up...  My husband wanted nothing to do with it, so I took your advice and just stayed on the path on my own, working on mending what I had all but given up on.  I had moved out of the house and was starting to move on with my life, but something kept pulling me back to my ex and our 15 year marriage.  We reconciled almost a year ago, after we had both gone outside our marriage and we have never been stronger.  Thank you so much for your help.  You took things that should have been obvious to us, but had been forgotten along the way and made us refocus on those things that we needed to do.  It started with him saying, “No, it is over.  There is nothing we can do. I do love you, but I cannot do this anymore”...  It was tough because, at first, he didn’t respond.  Because you told me to expect that, it was easier to deal with, easier for me to keep going.  I don’t know if it would have worked without that guidance you provided.  I am certainly glad I gave it a shot and that you gave me the courage to keep working at it and believing I could turn it around.  So are our kids that have their family back together.  Thanks again and again!

Thanks so much!
Heather

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" [Marriage Fitness] empowered me when I was weak"

I started the program in November or December 2011, after I found out about my husband's infidelity (which had been going on since 2009, first with different women, and since 2010 with a "steady" mistress, who divorced her own husband to be with mine). I've worked on saving my marriage all this time using the Marriage Fitness program…

I appreciate the program because it empowered me when I was weak, and it encouraged me when I was down. The insights I've gained from the program have helped me get through the pain.

You may use any portion of this email that you find suitable for advertising purposes, but please don't use my last name.

Thank you.

Victoria

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"... very much worth my time and effort "

I decided on the program after the wife had confessed to me that she had a few affairs 0ver the last few years, and that she didn'T WANT TO BE MARRIED anymore.  The news hit me like a ton of bricks because I still love her, and realized I did not want to lose her.. It was a wake-up call for me, as I realized that I had been neglecting her for years and I made my mind up to do anything possible to win her love back. Im started on marriage fitness about 7 weeks ago, and commited myself to become the best possible husband... I am beginning to make some progress on reconnecting with my spouse, and restoring our marriage, and I am feeeling confident that we will again feel profouund love that has been missing for several years. I still have a long ways to go, and I know that I must be persistant in applying all of the principals I have learned in Marriage Fitness. In the end it will be very much worth my time and effort.  JPS.

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" [I] encourage anyone I know who is getting married to seek this program"

My husband and I seperated at the end of October 2010. There wasn't any drugs, alcohol or infidelity in our marriage. We just became like roommates. We had felt distant from each other for quite some time. He became extremely shut down in June of last year. I got scared and the more we talked and I pushed for counseling the more he shut down and pushed away. I was scared that this was the end. He just didn't even seem to care. So I made my mind up to try everything possible to "get him back" so to speak and nothing seemed to work. I reached out and got nothing back from him. He said he knew I was trying but he wasn't and he didn't know why. He said he didn't think he loved me the way he should. Finally in October, I just didn't know what else to do. Felt as though I had done all I could do without him wanting to go to counseling. So after one of our many uncomfortable talks, I asked him if he wanted to leave. He didn't say no and he didn't say yes. But I could tell he wanted out. So I asked him to leave. He came home that night from work, we told the kids, and he left and said he was done. I assumed we would try to work things out after he left and he repeatedly said he was done. It wasn't until about a month later that I was online looking up info on separation, divorce etc. as I had done many times but this time came across Mort Fertel. At first I was hesitant to order the Cd's. Money has been extremely tight and we were going into Christmas and just didn't think I should spend the money. I thought about it for a day or two and decided my marriage was worth ordering the CD's and they could be returned if I didn't feel they fit our situation. Well, I couldn't wait to get the CD's. When I received the materials and cd's through email, I literally sat and read/listened the whole thing. I knew that this was great info and it all made sense. I just didn't know how to get my husband to listen to them. He was still very shut down and distant. We did things together because of the kids and we were always respectable to each other. I listened to these CD's as well as went to counseling for myself. I believe the combination of both helped me become stronger and work on myself. I ordered the lone ranger package and worked through it on my own. I still wasn't seeing hope from my husband but felt as though I needed to everything possible for my marriage and if it was truly over, I could say I did everything I could to work things out. I had to be able to walk away from my marriage if it came to that with a sense that I tried. After going through the holidays my husband seemed to have a hard time with the holidays. He was breaking down a lot which is extremely rare. It wasn't until my daughter and him talked and he broke down. She asked him if he would go to the counselor that I have been seeing and he said he would, he promised. He made the appt. and went. He still didn't open up to me about the appt. except to say the counselor was a nice guys, easy to talk to, and that it wasn't so bad. I also at this point talked to him about these CD's and asked him if he would at least listen to the first one. I knew if he listened to the first one he would listen to them all. When he came to the house after his appt. with the counselor he took the CD's with him when he left. I still felt like I didn't have anything left to do at this point. My hope was gone. I made the decision to make an appt. with an attorney to see what my options were. It was very upsetting because I didn't want the marriage to get to this point but didn't know what else to do. I called on Monday and had an appt for Thursday of that week. I was crying when I got off the phone and then my counselor called me to tell me about the appt. with my husband. He said he was sorry that he didn't have good news. He said my husband wanted the marriage over. I was a mess. But I felt as though I saw it coming and was glad at that point that I had made the appt. with the attorney. I text my husband and told him I had talked to the counselor and he basically said he was done and that I needed to move on. I asked him to not come by the house that night to see the kids because I emotionally couldn't handle it at that point. I told him I could see he was done and it was time for me to move on and take the next step. He text back and said he dumped his anger and resentments at the counselors office. Then he said he had listened to the first CD. I was furious. I thought why are you even bothering to listen to the CD's if he was done. I text back and said let me clarify what the counselor said. I listed everything he said....my husband didn't want marriage counseling. He didn't want to work things out. etc. After I listed everything the doctor said, I said, I have reached out to you and have gotten nothing in return. I said I can see you are done. I will let you go. He never responded. I took it as I was right. He was done. It was until the next day around noon, he text me and asked if we could talk. I text back very bitter and said there isn't anything to talk about. He is done. He text back and said he really wanted to sit down and talk to me. He also said he had been listening to these CD's and they made sense. He said we were only doing, maybe, 15% of what Mort was saying to do. He said it was all doable things. He said it was worth giving it a try to work on our marriage. That was last week. I canceled my appt. with the attorney and my husband and I sat down and talked on Saturday. We are going to work through this program and seek counseling one on one and together. I am further along in the healing process then he is because I have been doing this program and seeking counseling but he has seen the changes in me and says he likes what he sees. He is still very guarded and has walls up so to speak but I think we will be able to work through our differences. Thank you Mort for making this program. Every person entering marriage should be given this CD's. I think we all go into marriage thinking our marriage is different and we will never get to "this" point. We were on cruise control in our marriage. His biggest complaint was I didn't put him first. The kids, house, family friends, house all came before him. I see now that you have to work at your marriage and nurture you marriage and spouse regardless of your kids. I see that without our relationship we wouldn't have kids or be where we are with our house, jobs, life in general. You have to put your spouse first and "work" on your marriage. I have told all of my married friends about this program and I will encourage anyone I know who is getting married to seek this program so they have the tools and maybe won't get to this point in their marriage. Thank you Mort Fertel for a wonderful program!!!

 

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" [Marriage Fitness] had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately"


After 32 years of marriage, my wife told me that she had found a man whom she loves and wanted a divorce and was leaving immediately.  I was stunned.  Fortunately I read about your program and signed up for the lone ranger course.  It is two months later and we have not yet separated…I can attribute the fact that  there is a chance  at reconciliation directly to your Marriage Fitness program.  It had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately.  Just as important, it pointed out the attitudes in both of us  that almost guaranteed us going from soul mates to roommates to the very edge of divorce.  Your one on one consultations have been simply invaluable… 
Your help has been invaluable.

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"Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you."

Hi Mort

I would really like to take this opportunity to thank you very very much from the deepest place in my heart for all your emails, the Audios and the Marriage Fitness program. Yor really helped me save my marriage and keeping the momentum to make sure we do not get back from where we were.

My husband came back home permanently in March 2011, 9 months after our major fight. It was a long wait but like you say that we expect quick fixes to our problems and it does not work as it took some time for our marriage problems to be at a  state where it looks like nothing will ever work.

It was a long wait but it was worth it. He kept on coming to see the kids and will sleep over and leave again and it really used to tear me into pieces. I kept all your emails (even to date) and would read them all over again each time I felt down or thought things will never get better.

Its been 6 months since he has been back, and we handle our differences much better than we used to and they are far and far in between. I still apply your teachings in order to keep the momentum of our marriage. We are so happy now, he brings me to work and fetches me almost every day, something he last did in 2003. We go out almost every Friday night. My children are also themselves now as the separation was affecting them very badly and their teachers were noticing that they were affected and things might not be well back home.

You are right in that you can single handedly change your marriage situation and get to see the chances you what to see in your partner. But the most important thing is to be patient and it can take longer than expected

Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you. I have been telling my friends about you and one of my friends recently subscribed to your website and is now receiving your emails.

Kind Regards
M.N.


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"Mr Fertel's Marriage Fitness Program has given me a Step by Step path of guidance"

Dear Miriam,
 
How are you?
I listened to the audio file for Q&A Seminar 2 and would like to thank Mr Fertel for picking my Question in my email to him to be discussed. I listened through the audio file twice to make sure I didn't miss anything. The discussion on 'Trust' (Question raised by John) was excellent too.
 
I have been on your Marriage Fitness Program since Early December 2012. I have learnt so much about my marriage and also about myself for the past one month. I was lost for about 8 months since I found out about my husbands' affair but Mr Fertel's Marriage Fitness Program has given me a Step by Step path of guidance and the confidence which I needed so much, to know that I am doing the right thing to improve my marriage and hopefully to end the affair.
 
Please convey my thanks to Mr Fertel and you have a great weekend.
 
Regards,
Sharon

 

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"I greatly appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on to us for a happy relationship"

Hello Mort,

Sorry for the late reply due to the holiday.
I want to wish you a 2013 full of good things for your family and yourself.

I believe the Marriage Fitness course has been extremely helpful for me and for my wife as well.
Speaking for myself, I can tell you that I am spending more time with her since listening in on your calls.
I have a better sense of what is really important for me and how appreciating her is part of that reality.
I have become more patient and now I dedicate most of my free time to her and my son.
Before I had been too distracted with social media, tv, music, etc. as a supposed outlet from everyday pressures.
Now those things have become secondary and spending time with her is primary and especially quality time.

I will continue to review your lessons as you always go to the point and have a vast understanding of possible issues and solutions.

I wanted to be brief for now. However, I want to say that I greatly appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on to us for a happy relationship.

Best Regards,
RR

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"I am finally seeing after several months my efforts beginning to pay off"

Mort,
      Its been a LONG road for me in the loan ranger track. While my wife and I are still separated and I have yet to get her to join me in renewal, I am starting to see subtle changes in her. She seems more open to conversations with me, is doing nice things for me to reciprocate my kindness towards her. I have a long way to go, but I am finally seeing after several months my efforts beginning to pay off, and am finally feeling hopeful of a reconciliation whereas before I felt hopeless. Thank you again for all you do, and hopefully you will be seeing me soon in a Duo Track.
 
-Matt

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"I am more thankful than words can express."

I am more than happy to give a testimonial.  Out of desperation and a last ditch effort, in March,  I started searching the Internet for help to save my marriage. I happened upon The Marriage Fitness program, and it has been nothing short of a God send to me, and for my marriage. I am doing the program as a lone ranger.
 
 For the last few years, our marriage has been, at best, sharing the same address, and at worst, we were enemies.  In February, we had gotten to a point I think we both felt, was a point of no return.  We did nothing but fight, and we hadn't really spent time together in literally, years.  Our marriage needed more than to be rebuilt, it needed complete renovation. 
 
Our relationship never had true intimacy, and the principles of Marriage Fitness have not only stopped us from talking about separation, and or divorce, but we are building intimacy for the first time in our nearly 34 year marriage.  When I found the program, I knew I had issues that needed to be fixed, and that had contributed to my husband's desire to seek relationship outside of the marriage, three times, in as many years, and his gambling problem.  I was critical, angry and controlling, and though I was aware of that, this program even helped me change those things.
 
As a Christian, I believed anything is possible, and that love is the most powerful force on earth.  Mr. Fertel's  program is teaching me how to practically love, unconditionally.  Though we still have some of the bigger issues to deal with, practicing love toward my husband has brought back compassion and feeling toward him, and he is no longer talking about leaving, and is coming back toward me, and starting to talk about dealing with his own issues.  The climate has turned from a constant storm, to one of peace, calm, and the ability to talk and spend time together!
 
I am finding that love is also a great motivator, for a spouse who wants to leave, or has addiction or affair issues, to change their mind, and want to work on their own fixing.  Mr. Fertel said, it was my job to change my role as villain, in my husband's mind, to someone he'd be crazy to leave.  My husband looked at me a few weeks ago, and said, I love you, babe; how could I not?  I knew then, that Mort was exactly right, and he had given me the tools to change my role to someone I'd be crazy to leave.
 
Though we still have much work to do, I know that we are finally, as my husband said, "better", and I can't even tell you how huge that is.  I believe my husband said better, because this is a process.  The things that I've learned, and am employing, are becoming a way of life, not just a temporary fix.  I am more thankful than words can express.  I literally studied the information in this program, at night, and would listen over and over again to the questions and answers and teleconferences, just to be encouraged, and to ingrain these principles into my mind.  I would recommend this program to anyone, whether their marriage is fairly ok, or on life support, like mine.   Thank you, thank you!
 
Susan B

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"We recommend your program to everyone who asks"

Debbie and I benefited tremendously from the course and follow up.  We appreciated the exercises especially the marriage statement.  We recommend your program to everyone who asks. In fact, we know a counselor friend has used your materials with his clients. Ralph

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"...that's when I found this program. Gosh am I glad I did."

Hello,
I want to begin by thanking you and your team,especially your leader. I
am a Lone Ranger. I signed up on May 4 th for the Tele-boot camp. I was
a mess. My marriage was a mess. Pure despair was the emotion writing
the theme for my life. My wife had taken my children and moved out. She
was adamant about getting divorced. She didn't hear my words of reason
and mocked my pain in disgust. I felt like I had been beaten! I had
prayed for truth. I had begged in my sob filled prayers for help.
That's when I found this program. Gosh am I glad I did. It gave me
hope. It told me what was happening when my wife Tina was lashing out
and how I needed to change me instead of trying to blame her. This idea
was profound! The best part is it worked!
 My wife is back in my arms again. She has decided to reconcile! It
feels new like in the beginning when we first met. We are planning on
changing the way we live. We run a residential real estate development
company and have our entire marriage.
Now we are going to run a relationship based on putting LOVE first
instead of a dollar. Your program has been life changing for me and my
family. I couldn't be happier with the information and of coarse the
results. I believe it was a God send!
 I tell you our story out of appreciation for the work you all have
done. I would like to share that work with my wife. What do I need to
do in order to change my status from Lone Ranger to the duo tract?
Tina, my wife, is ready to join in the program.
Deepest appreciation for you all,
R.H.

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"Your program really does work, and without it, I don't think 
I would still have my family."

This is the 2nd time I am writing you a testimonial as my first one didn't cover the gratitude I feel you deserve.

It has been almost 5 months since my wife and I separated. About 1 month after completing your program and sticking to your teachings she came to me out of nowhere. She hugged me, kissed me, told me she loved me, and was willing to stick it out and fix the marriage together. The sigh of relief I felt was like no other. I finally have the tools, and knowledge to make a successful reconciliation and it's all thanks to you. I hope to soon be in your program doing the duo track. Your program really does work, and without it, I don't think I would still have my family. Thank you very much for everything Mort.
 
You may use the above paragraph as a testimonial on your page. You have my permission, but please keep the name anonymous. Thanks again

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"Marriage Fitness is outstanding"

Hi Mort,

I appreciate all the good work you do.

Your program gave me the insight and tools to save my marriage. You may use my words to inspire others to join your program but if you attribute the words to a name, I’d appreciate it if you would withhold my last name.

Marriage Fitness is outstanding.
Sean

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"For what your program has done to me personally I am extremely grateful"

Hello Mort,

I write this testimonial with a mixture of emotions. I too, like most people, was caught off guard when my wife told me she was no longer happy. She has been in my life for nearly 13 years and I consider her my soul mate. I am no perfect man, but I like to think that I can place myself in the higher percentile of good people. However, I have learned that simply being a good person isn't enough. Her and I have been through so much together. We went through years of In vitro fertilization TOGETHER to have our two wonderful sons who are now nearly 7 and 4. Mort I used to give my wife the injections myself while we went through this process. It was our way of going at it together. She is an amazing woman that I have been blessed to have in my life. I found your program several months ago while researching. Since day 1 of this I have been on a mission to save my family. I am exhausted from the energy that I have put into my marriage, but my wife is worth it. I have had to go it alone in the Lone Ranger track as my wife is not open to any outside advice at this time. Your program opened my eyes to many things that I saw that may have been wrong in our marriage. It guided me to own up to my faults, my mistakes, and it brought me to a level of peace from the advice that I was given. I have such a great amount of knowledge from your program, that I feel like I can coach friends and family who may be in tough situations. Your ideas of Interdependence, forcing new habits, discipline and putting love first really stand out to me…For what your program has done to me personally I am extremely grateful, and in somewhat of a better place with myself. This comes after I was on the brink of anxiety and depression from my life being turned upside down. I had a script from my doctor to start medication for anxiety that I did not need to turn in due to how positive your program made me feel.

My wife seems to have shut most people out, even her friends and family who just want to help her. We even saw a typical counselor for a short time, and they did nothing for us. In fact that experience has made me want to switch careers to be a marriage counselor as someone who helps spread the knowledge of your program in my own hometown

I have already suggested your program to others. Thanks for your help Mort. Let me know if you ever want someone teach your program in Northeast Ohio. It could be a new business opportunity for your life's work if you wish to open Mort Fertel Counseling Centers. I would be the first to volunteer to gain the proper education to operate the Mort Fertel center in my area to counsel those in need. There is no program like yours out there.


Sincerely,
M.J.

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"...my husband and I are better"

I am truly impressed with Mort. He has helped me so very much, and even though I have done it alone-- my husband and I are better.


I truly mean what I said. Mort inspires me to write too. He said during one of his boot camps that he hopes he inspires others to write a book.
 And I have been writing for many years but recently because of Mort I wrote my 2 inspiring ones about love and optimism.

Thank you Mort

Doris

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"The information is great and very informative"

The program,  I am employing and it is working.   I am so grateful to Mr. Fertel for all the insight that his program has given me.  I will always be grateful. The information is great and very informative.  My future looks extremely bright because of the Marriage Fitness program and Mr. FERTEL.  This was the best money that I have ever spent.
Noe P.

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"what important life changing work [Mr. Fertel] does for many people"

Please pass on to Mr. Fertel that he and his program have been a lifesaver for me. Not only for the help with dealing with the marital issues that brought me to him, but for the advice to take a look in the mirror and address MY OWN FIXINGS! I thank the Lord everyday in my prayers for allowing me to find Marriage Fitness and it's blessings... thankfully with Mr. Fertel's Marriage Fitness program helping me take that long look at Cher, I have worked tirelessly to get back to the wife I always thought I was and who God expects me to be. Now my husband tells me how wonderful I have been through all of this .
 
Forgive my taking so much of your time, but thanks for reading it and please pass it on to Mr. Fertel. I don't expect anything from him, but would like to let him know what an important life changing work he does for many people.
 
Thanks again and God bless you all. Have a great week ahead and a blessed Easter. Sincerely,
Cher B

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"This program and your counsel ... have enabled me to break through with her and it gets better daily"

Mort,
 
    This is a note to update you about Brenda and me.  Really, this is a note of appreciation for you and the work you do.  When I began the program, it was really an act of faith and I didn't see how she and I could make it; though I desperately wanted our marriage to survive and thrive.  After going through the boot camp and later with sessions with you, I was able to get really focused on my fixing.  Boy did I need fixing.
 That has been the key as well as just doing what the program calls for.  As you are aware, Brenda is one who requires a more subtle approach and isn't open to these kinds of programs.  That said, she is way open to love!  This program and your counsel along with tremendous amounts of prayer and soul searching have enabled me to break through with her and it gets better daily.  Honestly our marriage, our closeness and yes, even our romance are better than they've ever been.  I attribute so much of this to the well laid out program you've created.
Thanks so much for all you do!  I hope all is well with you and your family.
sincerely,
L. A.

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"This program has been a God sent to me!"

I started your program in the Lone Ranger track back in Feb. 2015 after my husband moved out to live with his mistress and filed for divorce. This program has been a God sent to me!! I needed to fix me and with your help I believe I am on my way... I see improvement of my marriage...I really don't know how this is going to turn out only God does but I am giving it all I have with your guidance and support. I can't thank you enough for the nights you have helped me get through. I recommend the Marriage Fitness Boot Camp to anyone regardless if you have problems or not, very insightful!

T. Courtney

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"...using the Marriage Fitness program to learn 

how to live happily ever after"

It appears my wife was fascinated by this program after seeing the changes I put in before she was just to move out into her own place after I said, "if you really want to go, you can but do it short and sweet".  She prayed to make a choice and she felt this was a sign to give it a try and after 1 week she wants to do it together and we've set aside Tuesday night as our "putting love first night"!  Using the Marriage Fitness program to learn how to live happily ever after.  Instead of just hearing it at the end of every love story and not knowing how to do it by learning to love one another with lasting effects.  Giving that I can learn to love with structure and effectivity, It now becomes clearer that I can be efficient with my time as I juggle my career and home life which includes my faith and spiritual growth. 
Thank you for allowing yourself to be the best you can be by helping others to do the same through knowledge sharing. 
L.H.

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" Thank you to your wonderful staff"

Mort,

I understand that you don't respond to emails. However, I do want you to know how much I appreciate your service and your staff (Miriam, Adina and Rebecca) are amazing. Incredibly helpful, pleasant, polite and incredibly prompt with responses.

Thank you.

Catherine C.

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"don't take anything for granted"

Dear Mort,

 

      I bought your program about half a year ago and before I had I felt so hopeless.  My husband Matt and I had been together for about 3 years and married 1 and he was already wanting a divorce.  I didn't understand how in December he and I were trying to have a baby and then when he had to go back to CT for Sub school he had decided in mid Jan that he didn't want to be married to me anymore. I was just getting use to the idea of being a military wife and as hard has it was to be away from him for so long I knew we could do it.  From Jan. to December of 2011 he told me he didn't love me he told me so many hurtful things and was so mad at me because no matter what he told me no matter that he used a girl to hurt me I still showed him that I loved him and when I got your program it gave me hope and it even showed me how to love him in ways he would understand.  Last year I learned so much from myself and him.  I learned that sometimes when you love someone you never give up, that it isn't always better to let the person you love go to show them that you love them.  I never gave up I kept showing him I loved him that we could make it through anything and for Christmas he spent it at home and I spent it here at our home alone, but on that night I told him that all I wanted for Christmas was him, and that I thought it was sorta funny that last Christmas that is just what he told me.  That he didn't want anything but me and that one thing was what held me on for the year he told me all those hurtful things.  I hope more people get your program and more people don't give up.  Don't forget to tell you spouse how much you love the little things they do, don't take anything for granted.  I'm so happy to say that my husband and I had our two year anniversary and we had a date! Not only that we are making plans for our future together and not apart! Thanks so much Mort!  We are still working on things and I'm trying so hard to put that year behind us and its getting easier everyday and I never truely thought I would be able to get to this point and I'm so happy we did.

 

Love,

Matt and Amanda

 

P.S. this is a photo of us this command Christmas Party and it's one of my favorite of us.

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"...a program of profound substance that will transform yourr outlook forever"

The marriagemax program should come with a warning "This is not a gimicky infommercial made in china product, but a program of profound substance that will transform yourr outlook forever"
I am currently in the lone ranger track and this program has given me the tools and most importantly the wisdom to see that I can transform myself and save my marriage.  The program will shake you to the core.  It will put you in charge of your own destiny and with some hard work and patience hopefully lay the foundation for a future life that rests on firm ground.  I'm  not out of the woods yet but I can now see and Ican now hope and I now know that i'm going to get there.
Thanks Mort.  
J.W.

 

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"...the best thing we ever did"

The marriage fitness program is the best thing we ever did and while we realize we will never stop going through the marriage renewal process we credit our current happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.

Sincerely,

T & C

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"You have taught us how to reconnect and rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for that."

Dear Mort,

It was amazing how, from the very beginning of reading your website, ordering and receiving Marriage Fitness materials, participating in the boot camp program, hearing all that you had to say, participating in the Q & A's, reading everything that we read, and doing the exercises in the work book, pertained to exactly what we have gone through and are currently going through.  Brian described it like "Mort was reading my mind"! 

We tried a few sessions of marriage counseling about 4 years ago and it was as you described.  We came out angrier than we went in and at that time the decision was made that counseling wasn't for us.  We have struggled tremendously for these last 4 years, trying to do the best that we knew how to do with some improvement, until we came to the "final straw" in July of 2007.  This, as far as Lisa was concerned, was the breaking point and she was thinking divorce was the only answer.

In July of 2007, we reached out to the Internet and found your program.  What a God send!  Through Marriage Fitness, you helped us remember that we do have a deep passionate love for each other.  We just needed to figure out how to find that lost love and make it evident to each other again.  We lost our "connection" and we needed to learn to re-connect once again.  In our 23 years of marriage, we had 13 moves in a 17 year span, job changes, raising children, both of us traveling with our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc.  We were unable to show our love for each other in an effective manor any longer.  Over time, this pushed us further and further apart. 

We thank you so much for your program as it has shown us how to get back to where we were before "Life" got in the way. 

Mort, we can't thank you enough for the hard work and effort which you have put into your program.  You have taught us how to reconnect and rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for that.  We look forward to a long and healthy relationship in our marriage and a long relationship with Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness program. 

Sincerely,

Brian & Lisa

 

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"We are getting there..."

My husband and I; everything we did got on each other's nerves. Just the sight of him made me mad. We decided to get a divorce and we were waiting for the right time to tell the children.

As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew that I didn't want the typical counseling, dredging through the past -- because I know that it will always be there, but the fact of the matter is you can't change it and it really doesn't help to muddle through it over and over and try to change your feelings about it.

I can't tell you how much it meant to us to have a guideline through it all, we started changing our behavior. My husband's changes started immediately. My changes have been and still are developing much slower. We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.

Shannon and Greg

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" I am going to make it! And I am confident

that my marriage will too. "

Hi Mort,

Although I haven't taken any opportunity to personally contact you, use any of my one-on-ones or dial in live to the tele-seminars, you are truly a HUGE part of my every day life! I listen to you every morning and every afternoon on my 45 minutes commute! I have signed up for the after program, and will continue to stay plugged in. I am beginning to see the positive response from the love of my life. I am in this for the long haul and I am doing what I am doing for a life change - not a quick fix to my marriage. I understand everything you say, ask of me and believe in your concept. I do worry sometimes about being a doormat but I am slowly getting some great responses back from my love and I feel this door mat feeling will pass. I am committed for a year, as I change my ways and look to see the positive and at the end of the day, I will know I did the right thing - and at the end of the day - that is all I have, right?

I have never spoken to you, or interacted with you, but I feel very close to you and your world! Thank you for the gifts you have given me with your ideas and ways. I am going to make it! And I am confident that my marriage will too. God willing :-)

Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong

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"My marriage has come alive again. "

Dear Mort,

I am so glad I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program.  I didn't have the money and I was very unsure about signing up.  But I am soooooooooooo glad I did. It was a great decision.   It was worth every penny.   My marriage has come alive again.

Thanks to you Mort.

Sincerely,
TL

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" I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril. "

Dear Mort,

I can't tell you how important this experience has been in my life.  The most helpful part for me was the calm, focused, consistent way in which you addressed every issue at the exact time I needed it.  I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril.  I have been on the Lone Ranger Track since October and I am not done with the program yet.  I have restarted a couple of times because I needed to hear the lessons again and again.  One restart was recommended by you on our Laser session.  Again, at the exact time that I needed it. 

To the people in need who are reading this....Just get one of the programs.  If you didn't know in your heart that you needed it you wouldn't be here right now.

Thank you so much Mort.  I am forever grateful.   

Amy S.

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"I learned that simple changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens the heart of the even the world's toughest critic."

Mort Fertel gives very effective and thought provoking presentations that pertain to any couple facing marital challenges.  Even as a Lone Ranger, Mort's program provides tools that make it easy to achieve positive relationship results immediately.  I learned that simple changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens the heart of the even the world's toughest critic.  I highly recommended the "Marriage Fitness Program” it encouraged me to focus on the positive aspects of my relationship and carved years of “couple therapy” spent rehashing old issues out of my life … a novel concept that really works! 

 

Regards,

Linda

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"Even if you are the only one working on your marriage, you can make the difference "

Hi Mort,

 

When I realized my marriage was in real trouble I desperately began my search to fix it. I came across the Marriage Fitness program on the Internet. What really stood out to me is that I could do it on my own, as my husband was not going to be a willing participant. After reading the testimonials and what you had to offer, I signed up for the Lone Ranger track. I was skeptical at first, as the idea of putting love first, was much different then the concept I had been approaching my marriage with, which was love must be tough. I have to say that the program has been eye opening and nothing like any other concept I have been taught. It really is true that one person can make the difference in their marriage.

  

Thank you Mort for all the great advice, words of wisdom, and for teaching me… . Thank you for helping me to become a better person, and wife. I am truly grateful.

 

I would highly recommend Marriage Fitness for anyone needing to repair and restore their marriage or even for those who may just need a marriage boost.  Even if you are the only one working on your marriage, you can make the difference.

 

Sincerely,

 

Christine (Please just use my first name)

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"...our kids that have their family back together"

Dear Mort, I rarely believe the things I read on the internet, so when I found you in a google search for marriage advice, I was skeptical.  Then, I figured… what have I got to lose?  So, I signed up...  My husband wanted nothing to do with it, so I took your advice and just stayed on the path on my own, working on mending what I had all but given up on.  I had moved out of the house and was starting to move on with my life, but something kept pulling me back to my ex and our 15 year marriage.  We reconciled almost a year ago, after we had both gone outside our marriage and we have never been stronger.  Thank you so much for your help.  You took things that should have been obvious to us, but had been forgotten along the way and made us refocus on those things that we needed to do.  It started with him saying, “No, it is over.  There is nothing we can do. I do love you, but I cannot do this anymore”...  It was tough because, at first, he didn’t respond.  Because you told me to expect that, it was easier to deal with, easier for me to keep going.  I don’t know if it would have worked without that guidance you provided.  I am certainly glad I gave it a shot and that you gave me the courage to keep working at it and believing I could turn it around.  So are our kids that have their family back together.  Thanks again and again!

Thanks so much!
Heather 


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"Both of us speak highly of your program to others"

Mort,

Our marriage was "good" for everyone to look at, we did things together, helped others, volunteered, etc ; but, it was completely falling apart - He drank entirely too much, developed health problems, worked out of town every week and did hurtful & unmoral things.  I hurt and tried to not care, but it didnt work and  by that time I was having to travel for work and wishing i could put all of me into everything  else.  Needless to say, I knew i loved him, (he knew he loved me too, but, ashamed & not knowing how to fix things)  We decided to try one more time, we agreed to go to a counselor for 3 times to decide,  before we even went to first appt, i had found your site & signed up for emails.  We had to cancel counseling twice, and so the actual 2nd time we went, I was determined she wasnt "good".  Then I showed him your emails, told him your idea of NOT talking about our problems…then he agreed to do "marriage fitness"  Now, we aren't exactly all "caught up"  we have very hectic life styles that needed calmed down, however, we did listen to the weekly seminars (wasnt doing workbook as needed - which would have helped much more i think) and things began to change, we were getting along and enjoying each other again.  He got a different job, working on his drinking, and we are kind of "restarting the program"  in the correct order now.  Both of us speak highly of your program to others and thank God for you and what you do to help others.  You just know how to make everyone understand what we need to understand.  I am so glad the counselor put off "bad vibes" and we decided to do your program cause even though we arent through the whole program yet, our relationship is improving daily.

Thank you,

Jason & Edy

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"It saved my marriage."

I would recommend the Marriage Fitness program to anyone.  It saved my marriage.  We still have a lot of work ahead of us; however, at least now I know what is ahead of us, instead of wondering if it would be divorce.

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"We were on the brink of divorce again.

Then I surfed the net and found you. "

Hi Mort

My wife and I have been married 3 years and it was hard from the start. We've both been divorced before so this was not our first time trying to make a marriage work. This time was not going well either. My wife had 2 affairs, she left 4 times, and marriage counseling was a disaster and so was Free Marriage Counseling Online from some other bimbo. We were on the brink of divorce again. Then I surfed the net and found you.

I ordered Marriage Fitness, hired you for some 1-on-1 coaching, and then registered for the Marriage Fitness Program. In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us how to build love on our own.

If anyone is reading this who needs marriage help or online marriage help, get it from Mort. You won't be sorry.

Thank you again Mort for saving our marriage and teaching us how to create love in our relationship.

Martin

Rosedale , Indiana

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"I liked your mix of the philosophical,

religious, and practical life."

Thank you Mort.

  

I really enjoyed your Marriage Fitness Program and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!! The points you make during your seminars are great - I liked your mix of the philosophical, religious, and practical life. It was a refreshing departure from much of the reading materials and the approaches of other therapists.

I thank you very much for tha t s upport and encouragement.

Vince

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" I believe you will absolutely at least gain back

your sanity and self-confidence"

As a graduate student, I didn't think I could afford the Marriage Fitness Program.  I went to the library and literally checked out and read about a quarter of the way through about twenty books on marriage.  After contemplation, I realized that I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Program...my marriage and my sanity were too important to me! I signed up thinking that I might take advantage of the money-back guarantee, but with the sanity I gained in my own soul (I am on the Lone Ranger track), I wouldn't take a penny back.  Mort's multi-dimensional program to this day continues to strengthen my sanity when life throws me not only loops but roller coasters.  I have recommended Mort's program to many people going through everything from pre-nuptial to post-divorce situations.  If you don't gain anything else from his program, I believe you will absolutely at least gain back your sanity and self-confidence. The most important thing I have learned is that although you may have NO control over the other person, you have, with God's help, COMPLETE control over your reactions to situations.  Thank you, Mort! 

Jessica.A.

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"We continue to have fun and laugh at things now instead of letting everything consume us"

Mort, just wanted you to know things are great with Justin and me. Our relationship has improved so much. We are spending time together and enjoying each other's company. Learning that it is more important to pay attention to ourselves has made all the difference in the relationship. I sure have changed a lot of things I say and how I react to certain things. This whole 2 yrs has shown Justin and me a lot. He thanks you also. There was really no other way that he could have shown us both that he needed to grow. He didn't know how and just kept it all in until he exploded. He is such a wonderful person. I wish we could have known these things ahead of time. I have referred so many people to you. We continue to have fun and laugh at things now instead of letting everything consume us. Thanks for saving my family. Jan and Justin

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" Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way."

Dear Mort,

I have spent just about every free moment that I had over the past 2 1/2 months listening, reading and thinking about your program. I am in the Lone Ranger track and it has been a hard period for me. However, your program has been a comfort to me. It has helped me to see mistakes that I made in my marriage. It has also encouraged me and made me feel validated because there were things that I intuitively recognized, but was not sure if I was on the right path. After reading and hearing the materials my spirit would be encouraged and lifted. I have been able to remain calm and do what is right. Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way. It has just been a real help to me. Thank you.

Sincerely,
Vicky

 

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"It is amazing how quickly things have turned around "

Hi Mort,
I just wanted to let you know that since our last conversation, my marriage situation has improved remarkably.   Thank you for your book, CD’s, teleconferences, and your 1-on-1 sessions.  During those 8 months when my husband was having an emotional affair and I was so lost and angry and frustrated, you and your staff (David) helped me to stay the course and continue to work on my marriage.   Without your help, I am sure I would not be where I am today—happily married.   After 8 long months, my husband finally admitted to the affair and ended it.  It is amazing how quickly things have turned around.  

For everyone out there having marital troubles, listen to Mort and follow his advice.  It really works—it is hard but doable, and with results. 

Thank you

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"It is such a POSITIVE, common sense approach to rebuilding or sustaining ANY marriage. "

My wife and I were high schools sweethearts and have been married for almost twenty-one years.  After two kids, separate jobs and the ever-increasing pace of life, we found ourselves totally frustrated with each other and on the verge of divorce.  No infidelity or anything; our relationship jus t s eemed "stale" and "more work than what it was worth.”

I spent over $250 on various marriage "help" books and we even attended professional marriage "counseling" to help resolve our conflicts and problems.  It wasn't working…we had become masters at blaming each other and resolving conflict by ignoring each other. 

I then came across Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness program.  I purchased the program and decided to take the CD's with me to listen to while driving on a b usiness trip.  When I left for my trip, my wife and I gave each other the robotic, "Drive careful" and "see you soon" rhetoric, but we both could still feel the immense strain between us.  In actuality, I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving for the weekend.

Anyways, after the listening to the first CD, I found myself contemplating my role in our marriage.  I began to actually re-discover what we "used" to have.  Instead of feeling like I was in competition with my wife, I actually started remembering all the things that used to make her feel special...that I was no longer doing.  I called her immediately on the cell phone and told her my revelation.  I told her I couldn't wait to get back to see her and was already missing her.  She began to cry and told me how much she loved me and tha t s he was looking forward to my return.  That reaction alone had been a long time coming.

Upon my return, we listened to the CD's together.  Within a week, our marriage improved immensely.  Mort's perspective on concentrating on the marriage and each other; rather than the "problems"; was the most profound, yet common sense, solution…many of our "unsurmountable" problems simply dissolved.  It was our perspectives and lack of focus on each other that were actually "causing" the problems in our marriage.

Unfortunately, these bad habits had been learned over the last 10-15 years.  We also found if we were not diligent about practicing or focusing on the Marriage Fitness program, our bad habits would resurface (avoiding, ignoring, etc.) and our marriage would begin to slide.  "Plugging-in" each week with Mort gave us that "commitment" we were lacking.  After several weeks, we are not perfect, but "DIVORCE" is not even in our vocabulary.  I look forward to coming home.  My wife looks forward to my coming home.  We enjoy being with each other again.

How much do I believe in Mort Fertel 's approach?

For Christmas, I purchased 10-15 of Mort's materials for my family and friends.  I have already heard from a handful who wanted to express their gratitude for my thinking of them.  A co-worker, who has been through three marriages, told me he wished he'd had seen Mort's materials before his last divorce.  It is such a POSITIVE, common sense approach to rebuilding or sustaining ANY marriage.

Rob & Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR

 

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"Our love for one another has never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the day."

Hi there Mort, I want to thank you for a wonderful job you have done for my marriage. My husband was having an affair about four months ago, which was going on for abour four months. I confronted him in the beginning of February and he admitted to me that he was having an affair. What broke my heart was that he said that he did not love me anymore and that he loved this other woman. We were married for twenty five years and I thought to myself that I am not going to throw that away and that I am going to fight for my marriage. My husband and I had a lot of tough years behind us and we also had money problems and there was always something there that kept us togethere in those hard times, so I was not going to let this problem break up our marriage and I was going to fight with all the strength that I had in my body to keep my marriage together. My husband had had many affairs before and I had always forgiven him, but this time it was different, because he had never told me that he had loved these other women, he also told me that he had no more feelings for me and that he sometimes wonders if he had ever loved me. Well, let me tell you, I fought and it was very tiring and stressful; I went through all the emotions; I was very insecure. We had sat down and had a very long talk and I told him that I do not believe him when he says that he does not love me anymore and that I know that he does not love this woman, it is only infatuation and he will still find out that he does love me. I do not know how long it will take I said to him, but it will happen. We started going away for the weekends, just the two of us and there was a time that he was still in contact with this other woman and then we would have a long talk again and so life went on. AND YES, HE DID FIND HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER BEFORE. Just last night he told me that his love for me gets stronger by the day and that when he is at work, he will send me a sms via cell phone, telling me that he cannot wait to hold me in his arms tonight and that he misses me when we are at work. Our love for one another has never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the day. On the 19th of July this year, we will be celebrating our 26th wedding anniversary. I know that the Lord is the one that did the most work in our marriage, because I was forever asking the Lord to help us and he answered my prayers. I never told him that I told you so, but deep in my heart I say that to myself, that I knew all along that his love for me was always there, he just had to find that out for himself and I thank the lord every day for the love that we have for each other.

God Bless you.
Sheree

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"It's all because of this program my marriage is headed for better places"

Mort I would like to thank you for a fantastic program. Having been married one month short of 26 years, I thought I new a lot about relationships. Oh boy was I wrong. Too many times you hear people making comments like, 'it happens, people grow apart'. Married couples don't grow apart, they just stop trying.  After going through your program and actually doing the assignments, reading the material, listening in on the tele-conferences I learned that people just don't have the tools to try and make their marriage work. It does take work. I thought I was headed for divorce,but I knew deep inside I needed to continue towards change. My wife and I had become roommates and it didn't just happen overnight, much of it had to do with me.

Within the first week of getting into the material, I was able to apply some of the teachings. It was only the beginning to what has become a transformation of myself that I am well aware of is not anywhere completed! I became more aware of who I had become and it was hard accepting that I could make a difference myself, I always thought it took 2 but using the Lone Ranger track, I became engrossed in learning more.

Fast forward,my wife and I are treating each other with kindness. We have become aware of the needs of one another. We are even finishing each others thoughts and sentences which was non-existent just a few short months ago. I used the talk charges, the touch charges, the intimacy interview, all of which I contribute to the change we are both feeling towards one another. I even wrote at the end of one of the chapters how I was recalling the feelings I had towards my wife when we first met and how those feelings were creeping into my daily thoughts, AGAIN!

I recommend this program to all, it makes you go hmm! Its all because of this program my marriage is headed for better places. Oh by the way, my anniversary is Feb 14, Valentines Day and we are planning a great special night.

Truly thankful,

D.R.
New Lenox, Illinois

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"I cannot express how valuable your course has

been to my life and happiness."

The advice and the concepts you asked us to apply for marriage renewal has changed my life, and even though I did the lone ranger track, I can say that your course saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage, our relationship had become unbearable for me, in the way we related on almost every level, both with regard to actions and "no action." I knew that I cared for my wife, but the relationship had become almost too difficult for me to continue. Even though we discussed what we each wanted from the relationship, we were not able to get our relationship back onto a course of treating eachother decently, much less romantically. Now, in just two months, there has been significant benefits, and a real opening up by each of us to each other's needs and desires, and I have not been this happy and content in years. I had gone to counseling, and invested substantial sums to try to solve our marriage problems, but the counseling was of little benefit, especially compared to the changes that were effected by your advice to learn how to love another, and I cannot express how valuable your course has been to my life and happiness. I have no doubt that I will review what you taught, and look forward to a very loving and close relationship with the companion I love.

J.B.

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"your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage"

Hello, Mort!

 

Just talked with Adina to pass along the fantastic news...my husband this past Friday asked if he could move back to our home and is committed to reconciling our relationship and marriage!  He even has agreed, although we're both still a little tentative and "getting to know each other again", to in the coming months take a vacation somewhere tropical/exotic (we like those kinds of places) and - in a very private ceremony with only me, him, and our 6 y.o. daughter - renew our marriage vows.  We'll either do it there or at the church we got married in, although I would love it to be on a warm beach under an arch of flowers at sunset!

 

 

Thank you SO MUCH...your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage and gave me the tools to work with as well as the understanding of why my husband was acting the way he did and why my "gut feel" was actually making the situation worse.  I will always be in your debt and will continue to strongly recommend the program to any friends or acquaintances who are in a period of marital difficulty or just want to make their marriage the best it can be!

 

Warm regards and huge thanks,

Christine V.

 

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"The way the program is designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the results quickly followed."

Hi Mort,

Marriage fitness is exactly what we needed at exactly the right time.  We have been married 25 years and like many couples moved away from each other through the years.  We were ready to separate.  The issues and relationship problems seemed so big that we didn't know wha t s tep to take first to begin to fix things.  I felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I didn't have the equipment and I was already so tired I couldn't think of how to take the firs t s tep. 

Marriage fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start on a different path.  This program is positive and builds the relationship from day one.  I knew that if things were going to change we would have to begin to see each other differently and start to build the relationship again.  The way the program is designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the results quickly followed.  Somewhere in my heart I knew this was the answer, marriage fitness put it into action. 

Thanks!

Lisa

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"She has agreed to move back home!"

Dear Mort,

I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for all your help, guidance and support over the last 17 months.  I had found you during an internet search after my wife had told me she was “done” and our marriage was over.  I was devastated and began looking for support and help to cope with my emotions and to try and save my marriage.  I was fortunate to find the marriage fitness program and after reading many reviews, I joined the tele-boot camp.  There began my journey where I learned so much about myself, about relationships and about life.  I truly transformed myself and believe that I am a much better person, a better husband and a better parent thanks to the program.  It wasn’t easy.  It was a very difficult journey much like a rollercoaster ride for those like myself who don’t enjoy the ups and downs, sharp turns, twist, etc.  I have listened to the initial CDs purchased with the boot camp plus all the subsequent Q&A audio files so many times, over and over again.  My journey (probably not unlike most who join your program) saw slow steady improvements and many setbacks.  I thought my wife and I had reconciled on three different occasions only to find out that she wasn’t quite ready yet.   With each set back, I had your program, the cds and audio files to keep me focused, providing me with guidance and hope.  I didn’t quit, I kept consistently following the program.  My story involved my wife moving out of our home with our 8 year old son, settling into a nice condo, buying all new furniture, etc.  Thanks to your program I was able to reconcile “despite the separation” because although we made progress with our relationship over the last 17 months, she always had a place to easily escape to if we had any disagreements.  The strange thing is that when I requested to have my membership cancelled it was because I felt it was time for me to move forward without my wife and without a reconciliation.  Three weeks ago, we (my wife, my now 9 year old son, and myself) went on a nice family vacation in Florida.  Things were great, we had a wonderful time and my wife informed me that she truly wanted our family to be together permanently, that she loved me, etc, etc.  One week after returning home, I found a letter from my wife when I stopped home for lunch.  She always kept her key to the house and frequently stopped over to walk the dog, get our son off the school bus, etc.   This letter shook me to the core as my wife informed me that she couldn’t see us together after all and that she needed closure from the up and down, together then separate relationship that we had over the last 17 months.  She informed me that she wanted to legally separate (not the first time this topic came up) and that she wanted me to move on...We proceeded to have a long open and honest conversation that has led us to reconciliation.  She has agreed to move back home and we have pledged our commitment to our marriage and our family.  I know my work is not done (it never will be) and I will continue to follow all I have learned from the marriage fitness program. The program is now a part of me.

Thank you for helping me through such a difficult period in my life and for helping me to become a better husband, a better father and a better person in general.  Your program was a life changer.

Best Regards

Frank P.
Baiting Hollow, NY

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"I couldn't have done this without you"


I just wanted to thank you for saving my marriage with some of the best advice anybody has ever given me.
 
My Wife left me in February and wasn't coming back, by reading everything that you sent to me and using your advice my Wife came back to me and our relationship is now better than it had been in years and we are closer than ever before.
 
No need for anonymity, I am a firm believer in your product and it saved my marriage. If you want to use my message and it can lead to help save someone's relationship then by all means go for it.
 
I couldn't have done this without you
 
Thanks
Graham Minter

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"The essence of a marriage"

Hi Mort,
 
I really never can thank you enough for your timely help, after listening to your first audio I've already have grasp a great deal.... You are right, what changes is not really me or Vion... It's the LOVE we had, and it's really inspiring to know that with your training , we don't have to rely on the God/nature given two years of fizz like love that is perishable. With the empowerment to "exercise/make love", everyday she can be the queen of my life! And that's the essence of a marriage.

Regards,
Ken Tay
Singapore

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"You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself feeling better for having taken your advice."

What I have learned from you and your program can not be measured.  I feel like I am finally learning how to be the person and the spouse that I really want to be.  Your course is not just a marriage course.  It's a LIFE course.  I wish I could find a way to convince everyone I know to take your course just so they could benefit from the life values that you teach … I find myself wanting to share what I've learned from you and yet I have a difficult time articulating myself because I can't describe the magnitude of what I've learned.

 

I've been and still am in the Lone Ranger track of your program … things are improving.  And I'm optimistic that there is a light at the end of our tunnel.  I would and do recommend this program to anyone.  Thank you so much for your wisdom, insight, and constant sensitivity to such difficult and heart breaking issues.  You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself feeling better for having taken your advice.  Now that's constructive!

I look forward to continually learning more from you and your experience.  Thank you so much for such a wonderful program.  I surely would have been in a divorce by now if it weren't for Marriage Fitness!

Most Sincerely,
Susan

 

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"What we really find appealing is that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like."

 

Dear Mort,

The Marriage Fitness Program was a great experience for myself and my husband.  I don't know where our relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up.  I don't really believe in divorce but the way things were going, I was starting to consider it!  Today, we are both working together to fix our relationship and we are very glad we ran into this program when we did.  We have a son and we want what's best for him too, and nothing can make him happier than seeing his parents happy.  We know we have just begun to make changes, but we are grateful for your support and knowledge.  What we really find appealing is that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like.  Thank you for sharing your life story with us and allowing us to see where our marriage can be if we both make some simple changes.

Thanks again,
I.F.

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"Thank you for saving my marriage – you are a miracle worker"

Dear Mort,

 

As you know, when I first contacted you I was in a desperate state.  I had been in a bad marriage for 27 years and several weeks ago my husband and I had yet another horrible fight that proved to be “the last straw” in our relationship.  Although the next day when things calmed down and I could see and think more clearly, re-evaluate the previous night's events and apologize, my husband was “done” and had completely shut down.  The situation was so bad that he actually sought out an attorney to file for divorce and was planning to move out.  I did all the things I knew I shouldn't do – I begged, I pleaded, I cried; I wrote letters and e-mails and tried to “talk” but this just pushed my husband further away.  I was facing losing the man I love and didn't know what else to do.  And then I found your program.

 

Mort, after just over one week on your program I am ecstatic to say that my husband and I are back together and completely committed to making our marriage work.  He is no longer moving out and divorce proceedings have been halted.  I couldn't believe it!  After following your advice and implementing the tools you gave me, I saw an amazing transformation and have re-connected with my husband on a much deeper level.  I know this is just the first step, and am looking forward to completing your program and making my marriage better, happier and more loving.

 

Thank you for saving my marriage – you are a miracle worker!

 

With heartfelt thanks,

 

Ann A .

 

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" It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problem"

After going to a marriage counselor and feeling we were not getting much accomplished, we decided to try your Marriage Fitness Program. After participating in the 7-week Tele-Boot Camp, listening to the CDs, doing the recommended exercises etc, we have found it all to be extremely helpful and effective. It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problems and we feel we have made tremendous strides as a result of participating in your wonderful program. Thanks for your help in improving our marriage and for also giving us the valuable tools that were so desperately needed to make it all happen.

Nancy & Brian M

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"Inspiration"

I cannot tell you how you inspired me. My husband and I are back together and we know we are going to make it. We have been married for 35 years this year and another four. We are in love and have realized how to communicate again and loving to listen to each other. Thank you.

Leona

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"It is because of your unremitting vision of how to be loving in a marriage that makes your program so successful"

Thank you for saving my marriage.  My wife and I are closer than ever.  We look forward to our RG's and DN's.  We have fun ALWAYS! Thank you for opening my eyes to a new world, a new way of seeing, a new birth if you will.  I wake up counting blessings, I have over 300 written gratitude blessings in my journal and can honestly say that gratitude, goodness and generosity permeate my cells.  I appreciate the work that you have placed in front of me!  It is because of your unremitting vision of how to be loving in a marriage that makes your program so successful, and I really admire you for that.  Thank you MORT FERTEL --- A.A

 

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"you guys helped me to turn my life around"

Very good program, you guys helped me to turn my life around.  Going through the program and implementing the positive changes got my family back together.  I still keep reviewing the material...  I  recommend this program strongly to all my friends.  Thanks again for all your help.

H.H

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"we appreciate what you do"

Dear Mort,
Words can't begin to describe my appreciation and the positive impact you've had on my marriage.  My wife and I have reconnected in ways that we haven't in years.  Not only did we find your advice insightful and honest, we also found your self-paced Marriage Fitness Program easy to follow yet profoundly effective.  And you offer so many marriage counseling options and various price ranges that you've effectively eliminated any excuse not to get started.  What I like most about your program, Mort, is YOU. After reading your book, listening to countless CD's while driving to and from work, and dialing into your teleconferences over the past seven weeks it's more than evident that you truly and sincerely care about people, their marriages, and their happiness. There's a reason your successful - - you honestly want to help.  My wife and I would love to meet you and thank you in person some day (we live only an hour away), but until that happens, please know how much we appreciate what you do and how thankful we are for the marriage program you established.

My best to you and your family.

Sincerely,

Bill

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"Mort's course gave me hope and direction"

I found the program was very helpful to me.  When my family was facing certain breakup, I felt helpless and desperate.  Mort's course gave me hope and direction -- and for that alone, I am profoundly grateful.  My relationship has definitely improved and I'm hopeful it will make a complete recovery.  Fingers crossed.  D.B."

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 "I'm happy to say we will be celebrating our ten year anniversary next month"

Dear Mort,

The below text was written in the shipping deliver comments of Christine Slaughter ‘s order:

Thank you so much for this great gift book.  My husband and I seperated after 8 years of marriage.  We both ended up doing the Lone Ranger Track and working with MaryAnn (one of your great counselors) to figure out where we went wrong.  I'm happy to say we will be celebrating our ten year anniversary next month and are happier than ever. This book is a gift to my husband for our 10 year anniversary!  :)
CS

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"I am extremely grateful to you and your team as I never thought we would be where we are today"

Dear Mort,

After receiving your email, my husband Kevin Ringrose agreed to try your programme and to my delight it changed our relationship for the best within
weeks. I am extremely grateful to you and your team as I never thought we would be where we are today.

Thank you so so much

Warmest wishes

Sherry r.

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"I just wish I would have came across this program years ago"

Dear Mort,
I think that more than two months went by since I send you my first testimony.  I wanted to write a second one because I am just amazingly overwhelmed by the transformation that occurred and keeps on occurring in Yves and I’s relationship.  When I started the program, I kept being persistent even though at times I would cry my heart out because of the hurt and rejections.  But I kept fighting by acknowledging my feelings and then refocusing and acting towards my values: regaining love and a connection at the core with my husband (which honestly I was very skeptical of regaining).  I kept loving and giving to hopefully feel real love again for my husband.  And boy, for a while did I have to fake it to make it (like you advise in your program).  It is actually true that eventually, the more I kept giving, the more I would feel It was the right thing to do because it would make me feel good about myself.  It took a load of persistence but we made it through.  Everything I wrote in my marriage statement (another of your strategy) is actually happening!!!  I can now let go of the past and all the hurt because each day we are strengthening our connection and becoming more and more soul mates. (I still can’t believe that we are achieving this).  I found back my gift from heaven: my husband.  Our kids are noticing the changes and its having a wonderful influence on them.  My eldest son (15) is also connecting with his father in a wonderful way.  Last night, he, who is not the affectionate type, gave my husband and I a goodnight kiss on the forehead.  I feel that we seriously gave the best gift ever to our sons.  We showed them that by choosing to make good changes about ourselves, we can greatly influence the ones we love to do so.  We are also showing winning habits for maintaining love in a relationship.  The most important: we are teaching them that the best thing you can do in your marriage is to put your partner first; even before your kids!- that was a big part of my fixing.  I just wish I would have came across this program years ago.  I could have been a better wife a long time ago and would have saved lots of hurt and despair.  I am happy to say that I have the most wonderful husband and a marvelous father for choosing to do his own fixing and being the best model he can be for his sons.
I sincerely thank you for creating this unique program that really differs from original counseling.  It should be presented to every couple that gets married.  Lots of separation and divorce could be avoided.
Thanks a million times
Christel

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"I cannot begin to express the love and connection we have both felt again."

Dear Mort,
I am writing to thank you for your wonderful Marriage Fitness program and to extend a testimonial of my experience.  My precious, beautiful wife and I recently completed the program and I cannot begin to express the love and connection we have both felt again.  She has provided her testimonial as well in a separate email.  We were planning on surprising the other with the testimonial when we discovered that we both had the same idea- I suppose that just part of our connection now! 
 
So, to Mort - Thank you so very much  and to my amazing wife....I love you with all my soul.
 
Sincerely,
 
Brian

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"I still have a long road ahead but I look forward to the work, the break through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage"

 

Dear Mort,

I am writing to you for all of the couples out there that are wondering whether or not this would be beneficial program for them. I found myself wondering the same thing about 8 weeks ago when I read about the Marriage Fitness program. My marriage of 25 years was over, my husband had a 3 week affair and had left the house, our 2 daughters and me. He was unwilling to work on anything and had decided he wanted a divorce. I felt completely out of control,  the counseling didn't seemed to be helping. All I could see was everything I thought I new to be true about our marriage was wrong. I didn't know what to do, all I was sure of was I still loved my husband and I didn't want a divorce. I found Mort's program on the Internet and was sure nothing was going to help me or my situation. I joined the Program in the "Lone Ranger Track" meaning I did the program without my husband. I figured I had nothing to lose and everything to gain. I wasn't sure how this stranger was going to help when I couldn't, and I lived with this man for 25 years, WOW, was I surprised!


I listened to the Cd's, read the book, did the homework and followed the guidance that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences. I wasn't sure if this was going to work, but the amazing thing I started to notice was I no longer was feeling out of control, I found I was calmer, more focused and very excited at the subtle little changes that would periodically occur. At our final question and answer seminar I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that I had a positive yet small break through with my husband. I had invited him out to a movie and he went, then 2 days later he called to talk and later that day he invited me to go for a ride with him. This was so encouraging, the Memorial weekend was coming up and the best news was about to come. My husband and I spent very day together, boating, fishing, just being together!

I still have a long road ahead but I look forward to the work, the break through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage. Thank you Mort for the guidance, the encouragement and all of the support. I hope my story helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful about the program, I would recommend the Mariiage Fitness Program to all!!

Sincerely,

R.L. Michigan

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"Your program guided us and inspired me"

Thank you so much.
 
Please let Mort know I am canceling because the program was very successful for me.  And I still refer back to it.  I share about the program all the time. 
 
My husband and I reconciled in July 2012.  Your program guided us and inspired me through the journey.  It truly has been a process.  Our daughter had cancer in 2009. He had an affair for many months in 2011-2012.  Because of your program I never gave up on our marriage even when he put us $45,000 in debt in to a ugly divorce. He came to me and asked for forgiveness and started working very hard to put us back together.  We have a 10&8 year old girls and a 2 year old boy.  And last June we went to Europe and we came back pregnant with another boy.  My husband feels like he's been given a extra gift from God.  Since he had basically kicked me our girls and our 6 week old baby out in 2011. 
 
We work hard everyday towards meeting each other's needs.  We date every week and have instituted your other programs to our daily life.  We have been married almost 16 years friends for 23 since we were 17.  

Thank you for everything. Please let me know if I can offer anything else.

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"We are in love again!"

Dear Mort

I would like to thank you for your CD’s and email assistance.  I don’t know where to start but would really be able to recommend your CD and support to any couple.  I was the lone ranger, as you call it, and started off alone.  It was amazing to see how everything just fell into place.  My husband starting to love me again and started to neglect the  other women at the office.  It was not an easy journey, a learned a great deal of myself, and of our marriage.  I had neglected my spouse, I was so busy with my own personal studies and heart patient child that I only did the basics around the house.

We are in love again, I am listening to him, we support each other with things around the house, we cycle together, we have date nights. It is just amazing.

Thank you for your help, I thought being in South Africa, far from America,  would be shooting in the dark, requesting a CD.  I was wrong, and can only say thank you for much, for giving my marriage a second chance.

Kind regards

Nicky

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"positive changes in my marriage"

The Marriage Fitness Program saved my marriage and made me a better person. I signed up for the Lone-Ranger-Program and it is amazing that it only takes one person to change the marriage around. By applying the suggested principles I saw positive changes in my marriage. I recommend this program to all.  Thank you Mort Fertel.    

D.H.

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"After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family"

Mort,

Just wanted to take a minute and thank you for the inspiration and the success on repairing my marriage.  After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family.  I would love to say it is peachy and rosy, but the fact of the matter is we have a long way to go.  I have you in my corner that can help the forward progression that I believe is most important in the healing process.  I was doing the lone ranger track and by the end of the program my wife was not only listening to the teleconferences she was participating in the Q and A.  Thanks again.

Randy and Stacy C.

 

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"The divorce process has stalled for now and our relationship has improved"

I would highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness program.  I was very skeptical after reading about 20 different marriage books, attending counseling for a year and having countless unproductive conversations about how me and/or my wife could communicate better with each other.  My marriage wasn't the greatest and divorce was just a matter of time because we did not have an intimate connection.  Even though I have a tremendous amount of love for my wife, I didn't always know how to show it.  It was frustrating, leading to regrettable actions, endless fighting and bickering over little things.  Then it happened.  I came home to an empty house with my entire family gone.  My wife said it was over and I should get an attorney because she had already filed for divorce.  Shortly after, I found Mort's program and started to diligently implement everything he suggested.  While it's a tremendous amount of work and at first, it seemed like I wasn't making any progress, I found I was at peace with my situation because I can rest at night knowing I'm honoring my commitment and becoming a better person.  The divorce process has stalled for now, our relationship has improved and I'm hopeful we can reconcile, but more importantly, I have more respect for myself, my wife and marriage itself.  I appreciate all that Mort has done to change my life and hopefully help me FINALLY have a fulfilling marriage and relationship with my children.
WBH

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"You've empowered me to save what I love most"

Hello Mort, I just wanted to take minute to tell you and your staff how great your programs have been for me. First, your staff is fantastic. No funny business, always there to assist, and to help a stressful time in my life go stressless.
      My wife and I had been married 25 years when I started this process with you and Im proud to say its now 26years. Never has our anniversary meant more. I have grown to be more patient and understanding of my wife and have stopped assuming that my actions and comments were acceptable. My wife never jumped into the program with me with both feet but I believe the changes I chose to make have helped her to be more tolerant and careful of the words she chooses as well. We now seem to check in on one another just to make sure we are in our happy place and respect is shared in both directions. The small gifts were a huge hit. I have always given her gifts but I guess they had less meaning than they do today. I could go on for hours......

Mort. Thank you. You've empowered me to save what I love most. My marriage. I know the hard work isnt over. This is a lifesyle change. I've decided I need to go on my own and carry what I've learned. Your program is amazing. If I ever lose my way again, I know where to go.

Thanks again,  GR

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"I feel indebted to you for helping us with our marriage."

Hello Mort

 I've been married 23 years now with four children (13-21 years of age).
My wife and I both have only been married once (to each other)with a
very successful marriage for the most part.  However about 10 years ago
a few things happened that continued to fester until we both found our
marriage falling apart.  We were both attending marriage counselling
for about three months prior to me accidentally discovering the
listening version of "Marriage Fitness" book which promised to help our
marriage situation.  I was skeptical about the book but being desperate
to save our marriage I decided to go ahead with the purchase.
 The "Marriage Fitness" book almost instantly started to change things
for me.  It was a source of answers I was looking for.  It was like the
book was written just for me.
 I felt relieved as our situation made sense now and I knew what to do.
 A week later I attended another appointment with our marriage
 councillor (who liked to be referred to as "Doctor").  I explained to him what
happened in the past week and how discovering your book changed my
situation. This also turned out to be my last session with the doctor.
 One of your emails was more helpful and informative than all  six of
 my sessions with the Doctor.  I was surprised that someone who calls
themselves a doctor and is the business as a marriage counsellor was
ignorant of the Marriage Fitness book.
 Two weeks after discovering Marriage  Fitness I decided to also
 purchase the Lone Ranger program to ensure greater success.  About a week after
purchasing the Lone Ranger program our marriage situation improved to a
point where my wife decided to join me on the marriage fitness program
and read the "Marriage Fitness" book.  At this point we also mutually
agreed not to proceed with our previously scheduled marriage
counselling.
 Our marriage has steadily grown since even though we are not yet
finished or fully implemented the program.
 This book saved our marriage! Don't know how or who would of answered
all our questions otherwise.
We found the Tele-Boot program to be a very valuable extensive
resource which not only answered all our questions but provided explanations and
examples to get the point across.  I feel indebted to you for helping us with our marriage.
 Thank-you for everything!

 Harold Wanke
 Northern Manitoba,
 Canada

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"I have to say this series has recharged my hope in my relationship. You simply have spelled it out."


For my husband, who has not had the opportunity of seeing, knowing, experiencing, or learning the tools and skills of a positive relationship, you have provided an easy to understand program and "To Do" list. I can't wait for him to get started.

Yes, I got through the series first, and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were my issues, and I cannot ask more of someone else than I am willing to do myself, and do first.

My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb". It made me think of everyone in my life from our children to co workers and how I interact with them. Am I sending them a clear message of my definition of our relationship? Some should be getting more, some need to be receiving less.

Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing your wisdom with us.

R.P.

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"All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU."

 

I don't know who gets these emails, but I surly hope someone can express my appreciation to Mort.

Today I got the second email Talk & Touch. I just had to share this. My wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been going through hell with the separation. Probably because I was doing all the wrong things!

This evening, I called my wife and we had a conversation. WOW was it wonderful. Just a very simple conversation, yes I slipped a couple of time and told her how much I love and miss her and wanted her to come back home but for the most part we just talked about things.

Because I honestly cannot remember the last time this happened, and I'm sure she cannot either, I'm betting that her jaw was on the floor. I didn't do this to put her jaw on the floor but I think she was shocked.

When I could tell that she was ready to end the conversation, I let her know that I understood and I tried to say goodnight. Rather than just ending it right then and there as she would have before, she took time to explain to me that she didn't rest well last night, the time change affects her in a negative way and she was tired. I told her no problem, good night, sweet dreams and I did slip in another "I Love You!"

All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU. I'm learning so much

David

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"...sure enough my husband and I started spending more and more 

time together as a couple and talking freely"

When I found Mort and his marriage fitness program, I knew it was a blessing.
My husband and I have been married for 21 years and have 3 children.
Several years ago my husband joined a fitness club to lose weight and get healthy. As the weight came off, he grew more and more distant, frequenting singles establishments and people. ( I was unaware of this life) he did the obligatory family functions, excellent dad to the children individually and somewhat attentive to me.  Over the years the one day he was away, turned to two, three… To the point that he asked for a divorce to pursue his single life.
 
We were in a mediocre marriage, rapidly deteriorating with negative actions and people. That is when I started doing research and found Mort. I told my husband about it and he refuse to do the duo track, therefore I ended doing the lone ranger track.  I listen to the podcasts every day and apply the principles every day.  The one I believe was the
pivotal advice was the question “what is your fixing?”  Once I started working on fixing my issues, I tabled our discussion of the problems, resentments as per Mort’s advice and started to just have fun every day.  Happiness is contagious and sure enough my husband and I started spending more and more time together as a couple and talking freely.  At our last date night, he said to me, “We should go forward together. I do not want to fight. The way I see it we do things together and apart.”  It is a good start after 4 months on the program.  I highly recommend it, apply the program every day, the advice is like no other.   Do not give up or conform to what other people tell you. Divorce is not necessary, what is necessary is recommitment and acting with love just like the day you knew he was the one.  
I.M.
Brooklyn, NY

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"...my life has changed"

Please tell Mr. Fertel my success story:
6 years  ago, I almost walked away.  Then  after few weeks with Mr.
Fertel's boot camp program, I still had a hope.
I followed all Mort's advises and listened to the audio files at least
5 times each.
Mr. Fertel tough me: endurance and consistency are key words to achieve
my goal: save my marriage.
..., I found my life has changed .
My marriage turned around slowly but solid .  I could positively say
the bad time is over.
It worked for me 100%.
Now, time for me to enter a new chapter : keep working on my
consistencies by reading books, joining other program (religious) You
can share my success story  if you wish I would like to thank  Mr.
Fertel and all his staffs.
Regards,
Van

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"This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning."

Mort, your marriage fitness program was amazing. It made us aware of what was really important. We were trying to fix things that were draining to us emotionally and you showed us that those things were not the issues. They were the result of what we had forgotten to do. This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning. This truly is the way. Everyday is a new day and now we have the neccessary tools to rebuild our marriage and do it the right way this time.

J & J

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"My husband and I reconciled…"

I benefitted from Mr. Fortel's counsel very much. I bought his books and the CD's to listen to in the car as well. I found his advice practical and easy to apply. My husband and I reconciled… and I have incorporated the principles I learned into our daily lives. I will defintely continue to refer to the materials that I have!
 
Thank you,
Diana

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"(Your program) helped us see what was the real problem in our marriage"

Hi Mort,

 

My Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness Program to couples having problems in their marriage whether being because of emotional or physical infidelity. My husband was emotionally unfaithful, and when I first found out about it I was devastated. I was very confused and thought this was the end of our marriage after being married for almost twenty five years. I found out about your program and decided that if we were going to try to save our marriage we needed to try out your marriage fitness program. It helped us see what was the real problem in our marriage, and how to handle our problems. We have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for granted anymore. We both thank God for your help and insight and we wish you the best in helping others with their marital problems.

Regards,
MB

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"I have my SELF CONFIDENCE back and the LIGHT is shining back in my marriage of 25yrs"

Thank you for opening my mind to allow my eyes to see what has been there but invisible; there is HOPE for my marriage, actually there is stability. I have my SELF CONFIDENCE back and the LIGHT is shining back in my marriage of 25yrs, Thank You Mort Fertel!
Regards
Agnes

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"I thank you for your gifts to all of us who struggle in

our marriages "

Dear Mort,

 

…your program worked!!  Thank you!

 

I have deep appreciation for the Marriage Fitness system.  It has saved our marriage.  I thank you for your gifts to all of us who struggle in our marriages. 

 

Mort, you mentioned something in one of the call in sessions that I believe is key…  and that is the importance of faith in a marriage.   As I went through this crisis in our lives, I started to depend more and more on prayer.  I believe that the Marriage Fitness system was one of the tools  that came to me.

 

Thank you again for your help!

 

C.H.

 

You can use my words above…. But please don't use my name.  Thanks…   

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"This sixty year old woman thanks you from the bottom of my heart"

I wanted to take this time to say thank you for the work you do. My husband and myself are back together and stronger than ever before. Life gets in the way with busy work schedules and I found my life in shambles after my husband saying ( I love you, but I'm not in love with you  ) after eighteen years together. Another woman had stolen his heart. After what I think was eleven months of an affair with six months of separation with him moving out of our home. The other woman tormented me with detailed information of their affair. I stayed steady and worked the Lone Ranger Track of your program. I did not always agree with the program but I will admit that it worked. This sixty year old woman thanks you from the bottom of my heart. Feel free to use my comment as my words are true.
N. J. Texas Gal

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"a tremendous help"

Hi Mort:

Thank you, all the information I've received has been a tremendous help and my husband didn't know I was receiving any of it but he has noticed a change which in fact caused him to change.

Again thank you and may God continue blessing you to bless others work this valuable information.

Sharon

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"...it works for a stubborn Bi-Polar man"

Mort, I apologize for the unforgivable delay,  I would like to tell you a little about how the program has affected my marriage.  I have graduated from an obstinate spouse to someone who sees a genuine change in me.  From "Not in love with me" to loving me.  Things are not perfect but we get along very well, we go hiking and sightseeing together How has the program helped me, it has shown me how I can change the way things are going, how to improve myself.  There is a song I like which sums it up: "To find someone you love, you've gotta be someone you love" this program has shown me how to be someone I love.  My wife likes this.  Give this program a try, I mean really give it a try.  Put your heart into it - it works for a stubborn Bi-Polar man, it will work for you!
TLD

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"Now, my wife and I both know we are on the right track"

Dear Mort,

 

Here is my testimonial.

 

            My wife had brought to my attention that things were not feeling right in our marriage for some time. I floundered around not clear on how to go about fixing our relationship. By 2010 we had clearly reached the room mate stage. I was doing some things that worked, but overall I experienced our connection as harsh, unfulfilling and tenuous. I was still not clear on how to improve the connection.

            I came across Mort Fertel's marriage fitness link online while looking for marriage therapists and out of curiosity opened it.

From the free advice emails I received last January, I realized that Mort had good ideas that resonated with me. I tried the program and began implementing the changes in behavior that Mort recommended.

            I noticed some improvement in my wife's behaviour and in how I felt about her. She was away during March, but I continued to listen to the discs . During April we grew closer although we had some intense temporary setbacks along the way.

            Now, my wife and I both know we are on the right track and are very much enjoying and appreciating our lives together. The catalyst for change for me was to make my wife the most important person and our connection the most important thing in my life. Getting my priorities straight and beginning to do small positive things for my wife consistently has renewed our love for each other. 

            Thank you Mort for providing a simple, uncomplicated, practical plan for me to follow to develop my love for my soul mate.

 

JS

 

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"it was great to see that we still had that sparkle in both of our eyes."

Hey Mort... We just got off the phone for this months Q&A. I wanted to share this with you during the call but seems like a lot more people needed to talk than we did. We have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic. Things don't or didn't happen all at once and things will not stop happening ..This is our way of life now. Here is an example of some things that are happening - Our family was on a trip this past weekend in the mountains (this was a business/pleasure trip mixed) . 2 things happened that I hope I never forget. The first was that we stopped to get a hot beverage (tea and coffee) and before I knew what was happening he was fixing my tea the way I liked it and I was fixing his coffee the way he liked it. We were both thinking of the other person....That was a great feeling... The second thing that happened was that we were talking to one of his co workers ( this is the first time I had met him) and the conversation turned to how long each one of us had been married. We told him almost 15 for us. He said it was great to see that we still had that sparkle in both of our eyes.

Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help you have given us, the support and the knowledge that you are there for us. We are loving this...

T.M.

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"Because of the information you have given …we are both happier in just one short week! "

 

Thursday, December 21, 2006
To: mortfertel@marriagemax.com
Subject: Thank-you/on the road to success

 

Dr. Mort,

 

Your site is the only site that appealed to me as far as valuable information. Because of the information you have given…we are both happier in just one short week!

 

We used to be uninhibited when it came to sex and fulfilling each others desires and pleasuring one another was a real turn on.  We talked about how it used to be. We did need to bring some change into our relationship. The change was not just the toys, or the experience. The time we spent together, the plan and discussing our desires for each other and also our marriage came into play. 

 

God Bless You abundantly!

E and D          

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"We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to "do" the work and keep creating love... "

I am more than happy to offer a testimony for the Marriage Fitness Program!  In my opinion it is the best marriage course I've heard of or read about.  This course was my last ditch effort to stay in my marriage. I've had one foot out the door for the past 2-3 years, but because of two young children, I have been holding out and looking for miracles. My marriage has been a huge disappointment b/c we have developed horrific habits and treat each other badly.  In the 7 week course I have seen my husband make huge changes and he says the same about me.  We are now at a point where we kind of "like" each other again which is amazing.  The course and listening to Mort's phone conferences work so well because he is SO non-judgemental and only looks for solutions.  You are expecting to hear "i can't believe your husband does that" or "You realize what you did was wrong,....".... Instead the Marriage Fitness Program deals w/ NOW and w/ moving forward which is something you CAN do... you can't change the past so why make people feel guilty which is what a lot of counselors do.


I am also surprised at how much my husband took to Mort's advice.  He can be very difficult, judgemental and close minded... but he got into the course and actually did the assignments. We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to "do" the work and keep creating love... there's a light at the end of the tunnel. We are both committed to better ourselves for our marriage, our self-dignity and our children.


We just went out w/ another couple last weekend and when they started bickering we just said www.marriagemax.com ... then we laughed so hard b/c we know how ridiculous we used to look always bickering ourselves! We've come a long way and have a long way to go but at least we are speaking, connecting and are hopeful.  We went from threatening divorce every week to making plans to join a tennis league.  We could NOT have done this alone.  There was way too much animosity and resistance. 


Another huge plus is my kids are more relaxed... they changed as much and as fast as we did.  They went from uptight and anxious to happier and more peaceful......AND a girlfriend of mine wants to know what pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen me this positive (about everything) in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote down the Marriage Fitness website before she left my house! She was very suspicious that I was giving her a website but that it was just a pill I was taking!


To be honest my husband and I only put in about 40% effort and saw HUGE results..(like I said we were almost enemies so it was quite difficult to go from 0 to a 100). now we are excited to keep putting in more and more effort and take our marriage to the highest level possible.


So, thanks Mort for everything you have been a God-send to us and our children...No matter what happens I know I now have the information, skills and concepts to create love in my relationship. My husband and I are at a point where we are not as needy or desparate.   We are becoming 2 adults who would like to stay together for the right reasons and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre marriage anymore. We have raised the bar and now both  are more aware and accountable for our words and actions. I thought our marriage would just be mediocre at best and now am unwilling to accept that.  I'm striving for awesome and won't stop till I get there!

GS

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"You walk your talk. You are personally involved."

Dear Mr. Fertel:

Please share with others how you give people, especially in the Lone Ranger Track, the strength and endurance to go on to reconcile their marriages. For the right reasons.

So many people, including therapists and well-meaning friends, have advised me to leave my marriage. I almost feel ridiculed by others in my dedication to my marriage and my spouse. Until I encountered you and your program.

Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give me hope. For the right reasons. You are helping me learn from this painful experience. When every one else almost "derails" me in my vision to learn the most I can about myself and reconcile my marriage. I feel inspiration and motivation from you to continue in my efforts.

I have to admit your amount of personal dedication is impressive. You provide an abundance of material that requires much effort to assimilate in a relatively short amount of time. But that is in accord with your belief in how hard one should work in their labors of love to protect their marriage.

You walk your talk. You are personally involved. I never imagined I'd have opportunities to actually speak with you. And you provide ongoing follow-up after the initial program.

Yours truly,

Dianne DF

 

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"...we have a changed marital environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook for a happy future"

Are you thinking about registering for the Marriage Fitness Program? Here's my story.

We had been married for 17 years and our marriage was falling apart. We couldn't get through a conversation without criticism or attack. I heard Mort Fertel on the radio speaking about the principles of Marriage Fitness. After almost a year of traditional marriage counseling and making no improvement in our marriage, we decided to buy his book and try his program. What a difference in just a few short weeks. Then we heard about the Marriage Fitness Program. My husband and I signed up and very much looked forward to each session. Through Mort's guidance, we were able to make considerable progress. The weekly workbooks were especially helpful in helping give us ideas to reconnect and infuse positive energy into our marriage. For me, the program also taught me how my actions and behaviors were sabotaging our relationship. I had always thought that if only my husband changed, our marriage would improve. I now see that no progress could be made until I recognized and made an effort to change my behavior toward my spouse. Mort was always available to answer questions and held us accountable to our own behaviors. Six months ago, I was counting the days until the kids were grown to leave my marriage, I no longer do that. Even though every day is not perfect, I can now see a hopeful future with my husband. We still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook for a happy future.

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"Within hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital dilemma that were based on my past attitudes"

Hi Mort ,

 

I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Within hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital dilemma that were based on my past attitudes. I instituted changes to my outlook and behaviour that have improved our relationship, but have more importantly resulted in more self-discovery and self-improvement. My sense of purpose is much stronger, as is my understanding of our situation. I highly recommend full participation in the Boot Camp for anyone!

 

Thx

mj

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"I am so very grateful to Mort for the work that he does for all of us troubled souls."

My testimonial is that Marriage Fitness is the only way to reconcile a bad marriage.  I tried for the last 12 years to win my husband back and failed every time.  I can honestly say that this time it is working!  I am so excited, we are getting closer every week and I hope and pray he will move back in soon.  I am so very grateful to Mort for the work that he does for all of us troubled souls.  Please accept my sincere thanks and praise for a wonderful program.  I really can’t say thank you enough times.
Angela

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"This guy's message is the most sound advise I have received in years"

Hi Mort,  a number of weeks ago,  I received an email from you asking me what I thought of your program.  I was not able to respond at the time because I could not find the words.  Last night ,  a friend of mine mentioned the unexpected separation of her brother and sister-in-law,  and I found myself suggesting your program to her,  to suggest to her brother.  Below is the email i just sent out to her.  For the purpose of you wanting to know what I think of your program,  this email says it just about as best as I can ,  at this point in time in my life. 

Life has been difficult on a number of different fronts,  my marriage being the most critical.  Your message has helped me find the strength, patience ,  and fortitude to carry on

Thank you Mort.  Your message has helped point me in the right direction,  and hopefully,  will also help influence my 5 teenage daughters lives as well. 

Sincerely,

Nancy N. 
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Hi Antonette,  nice to see you last night.  I am sorry to hear about your brother.   Here is a link to that guy I was talking about…

I can not do the program justice by trying to describe it.   All I can say is  I have learned a lot listening to this program.  It has helped me learn and grow,  and look at my own "fixings".  This program has taught me some valuable life lessons ,  that I now share with my  5 girls…

This guy's message is the most sound advise I have received in years,   and for the comparatively insignificant cost of ... I think $400.00,   when you REALLY think of what is at steak when a marriage fails,  one would be very irresponsible not to do this bare minimum.   It certainly is a lot less painful,  and , in my opinion,  much more effective,  than going to marriage counselling where you pay anywhere from $100 - $400 an hour.    Anyone in a marriage crisis should be responsible enough to get  some help,  and in my opinion,  most people in a marriage crisis do not need to VENT about all their troubles.   What they need to hear is..... What exactly they need to be doing to be a good spouse!!  What does a good marriage look like?  What are they doing wrong?.   They need to download the information into their heads that they are missing. 

And , this program ,  the very least,  it might not save your marriage,  but it makes you a better person.  It helps you work on your own failings.  It encourages you to be the better person you are suppose to be.  And ,  at the end of the day.....no matter what happens,  you will be able to move on with a clearer conscience because  you will know that you have tried,  you have made a "herculean" effort to save the most important thing in your life,  your marriage and your family.  

Below ,  is one of his weekly emails he sends out.  This is just the one I received this morning so I thought ,  in light of our conversation last night,  I would forward it on to you.  I hope this might help...even getting the small version of 6 tapes is good....i think about $100.  please feel free just to forward this email on to your brother , if you think it might help.  Also,  it in case you were wondering, it is not a religious based program.

Love ya Antonette,  wish you and your family a wonderful and safe holiday,    xoxo  

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"...your approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and measured way"

Mort,

 

Your program is the most constructive and poignant course for Marriage and personal development I have ever seen. After considerable time and research including reading or attending counseling from well respected names such as John Gottman, Gary Chapman, David Wood, and others, your approach is simply the best… your approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and measured way and, perhaps most importantly, gives hope that reconciliation is possible. I know the personal growth and understanding I have achieved could not have been done without your course.

 

Thank you.

 

M.U.

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"I see changes in him on a daily basis. I feel as though we are more connected than ever..."

Dear Mort,

 

I have learned so much from your program that I consider you my Life Coach after God! I listen to your CDs on a daily basis in attempts to memorize every strategy. Your philosophies have helped me at many levels. I feel as though I have a more thorough understanding of the psychology behind all interpersonal relationships. My husband has not participated in the program but I see changes in him on a daily basis. I feel as though we are more connected than ever, even though we have many of the same challenges. I am not worried anymore, though.  I know we will get to that place that we both want to be one day.

 

Sincere thanks for helping God save our lives…..

 

Zee

Pancreatic Cancer Survivor, back home in Puerto Rico….. where I need to be……..

 

PS: You should develop a course to be taught to children around the world as part of the social studies curriculum!

 

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"My husband and I are now seeing each other three times a week and talking to each other daily. "

I would certainly recommend this program to others.  My husband moved out of our home 3 days prior to our 8th wedding anniversary.  Even though I went through the lone ranger Marriage Fitness program, my husband and I are now seeing each other three times a week and talking to each other daily.  Using a slow and steady pace I am implementing new behaviours that are demonstrating to my husband commitment, sincerity and consistency.  I am taking this day by day.  It is hard but this program has helped me  
This support has been invaluable!
Thank you

 

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 "I am indebted to your marriage fitness plan"


Our marriage had deteriorated to where we barely spoke to each other.   I acknowledge that I had my issues; I can testify to my spouse’s.  My spouse filed for divorce.  I  wanted to save our marriage.  I went on the internet and found your MarriageMax website.  I immediately purchased your materials and implemented your practices…After my efforts, I was shocked when my spouse continued to question our marriage and when I heard this I felt brokenhearted and despair.  As you advised, this was a critical “Be Different” stage of the process ...   I stayed in the game while “thinking” that I was losing and feeling brokenhearted.   For me this was the hardest part of your program (and well worth it)…

You advised being a transition spouse.  I took quiet time to think about my parents’ marriage.  I realized that one of my parents had harmful marital behaviors and I acknowledged that I had carried these behaviors over into my marriage and I became watchful to end these behaviors.  I put effort into being a “transition spouse” as you call it.   

As you advised, I could not “microwave” my marriage back into shape.  The key was to outlast my spouse’s resistance.  Eventually my spouse began to warm consistently.   My spouse began to ask me how my day went.  Then my spouse permitted and then suggested sex with me.  Then my spouse cancelled the divorce proceedings.   

Your marriage fitness plan has both the above practice skills and a Policy  -  Put my marriage first, above children, above work and above any thing or person.  This Policy reminded me of a line from a movie:  “[For inner peace,] you need to figure out what’s number one in your life.”  I thought about it in quiet and realized that for me it was my marriage.  As you advised, I began to act with a level of care toward my marriage as I would a cherished artifact.  I now perform tasks requested by my spouse before other tasks.  I now listen to her rather than hear her.  I now provide my spouse emotional support.   I learned to love the person that I married.   

My spouse and I still have the same issues and now they are outweighed by our care for each other.  As one of your students said, our issues dissolved rather than were resolved.    As you said, love after the honeymoon is a “system”, interdependent parts.   A person of religious position told me “A marriage may be made in heaven and for certain it is maintained on earth.”  You have an “earth maintenance/fitness” plan.  I am grateful for and remember exactly where I was that day when I found your MarriageMax website.  I am indebted to your marriage fitness plan!   

Signed:  Grateful

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"Marriage and Myself"

Hi,

 

I ordered the small cd package first to just try things out.  Well, within the first 10 min. I knew that you had an original and new perspective on marriage and relationships that I could understand and do successfully.

 

You also won my trust by sending the daily email.

That was so encouraging.

I finally ordered the entire program to do by myself and I'm getting to it slowly due to all the divorce paperwork etc.  But, I do like the program so far and combined with my faith in God I am learning a lot about marriage and myself. I'm glad you created this for people. It really is the key and your honesty is refreshing.

By the way, I really like your staff. They are amazing. I appreciate the quick responses to emails and the kind tone in each reply. It really means so much during this difficult time.

Lisa

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" I feel great and I'm confident"


Dear Mort,
 
First of all thank you for the work you do.
Second I want to provide you a testimonial. I started Marriage Fitness out of desperation to save my marriage. My wife of 9 years had an affair and was well into the divorce process when I discovered your program. I began in the lone ranger track and started implementing your instructions right away. It wasn't easy and some days I wanted to just give up but I pressed on because I know it's what God wanted me to do... Well just recently my wife has decided to "put the divorce on hold" until she decides if the changes she has seen in me are permanent (I guarantee they are). She has also started taking the course with me so we are both starting it together. I feel great and I'm confident that we will stay on track and have a marriage that will be an inspiration to our kids and too other couples we meet.
 
Sincerely,
KW

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"I feel secure in my marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier"

 

Please cancel my subscription to the plugged in program.  It's just amazing that I can no longer relate to the callers!  Results from implementing the Marriage Fitness instructions got us living together again, and the continuation program kept me going during trying times.  I feel secure in my marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier.  Marriage Fitness is effective.  Mort Fertel is a genius. Thank you, Mort!

O.G.

 

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"Life lessons I plan to never forget"

Mort -

 

My husband and I have been married for 13 years.  I became resentful, had high expectations, we stopped communicating, we stopped putting forth extra effort in our marriage.  We tried to be friends, we tried to be content, we tried to have more...but never were in sync and one day...he decided to move out, it was a shock, I was hurt.  And then I found your program online.  I signed up for your free marriage counseling emails.  The day he moved out, I signed up for your tele-boot camp.  Your program is so thorough.  Each step is outlined and every question is answered.  Reading, listening, completing the workbook and calling in re-energized me.  Each step seemed to keep me going and as much as I doubted pushing that flywheel....you were right....fast is slow and slow is fast.  I have your quotes tacked up in my house, in my calendar, on the fridg, in the car, as reminders.

 

I am in the lone ranger track and have seen a tremendous change …t hat change has calmed me, my children, my other relationships and most importantly my connection with my husband.  You are so right that one person can transform a marriage …we have learned to enjoy each others company again.  I am confident that the lessons I have learned, the process of keeping our connection new and exciting.

 

I want to thank you for helping me with my marriage .. .  These are life lessons I plan to never forget. 

  

Thank you.

Mary

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"She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness Program, she chose me!  "

 

Hi Mort,

I just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn around and is starting to not only work on our marriage but really make some amazing changes. 

Thank you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you helping me through this and teaching me how to be the husband that me wife deserves then I may have never been able to bring her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness Program, she chose me!   

Keep up the good work and keep saving marriages.

Thanks again.

AP

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"We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and our marriage our highest priority. "

Dear Mort,

Today makes one month that my wife has been home after three months of separation. Thank you so much for your coaching and the Marriage Fitness Program.  Not only did it change our marriage,it changed our entire way of life.  After two affairs and an emotional affair, I thought I had lost my wife forever, but thanks be unto God, we "found" Mort Fertel. Just as when one becomes a new creature in Christ, old things pass away and all things become new; such was the case when we completed the Marriage Fitness Program.  Our old habits, fears, insecurities, and the manner in which we treated each ther passed away;  All things became NEW !  We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and our marriage our highest priority.  We strongly urge anyone needing help in any way with their marriage to enroll in the Marriage Fitness Program.

It will change your life forever. It did ours!

Forever grateful,Mort

R.M. & D.M.

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"He gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems"

 

Mr. Fertel ,

 

I have thought long and hard about writing a testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program.  The problem was where to begin and when to stop writing about the success  I have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:

 

If the term “obstinate spouse” were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the whole page!!

 

We fit the pattern of couples married for a very long time, 24 years.  In these days odds are against that.  And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into a rut.  Same old routine day in and day out.  Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each other.  My husband started filling his time with church work 4 to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days).  I think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that was only after I complained and complained about never seeing him.  This was the real problem: he was so used to spending time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to 6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage mechanic.  No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank goodness.   I am not blameless either.  I spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some reason it took priority over what little time my husband was home.  So we tried regular marriage counselling.  After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship (chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of financial reasons around Christmas time.  My husband has not mentioned anything about going back.  Imagine spending your 24 th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day with his father!  No “Happy Anniversary” card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always remembered the date.

 

So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.  I read through the whole site.  And I couldn't believe how much sense his approach to marital problems made.  Yes, it would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us.  Within the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track.  I have read his book, am on the second reading now;  listened to all the CDs, poured through the notebook.  I can honestly say that there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the materials.

 

He gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems . It's been three full months. And guess what?  My husband has started joking with me again!  I don't remember how long it's been since that happened.  We talk!  He even is starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).

 

Hope is a wonderful thing;  it's worth all the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.

  

Susan D.

 

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"The program is simple but brilliant."

I just finished up with the teleboot camp and I have to say it works.  I was in the lone ranger track yet my actions definitely impacted my spouse and of course our marriage.  My spouse has severe unresolved issues from the past, but once Mort taught me to temporarily put that aside, I got to see the good side in my man once again.  It takes real personal work but it's well worth it. The program is simple but brilliant.  If you don't end up changing your marital situation, you still would've changed yourself - and that's the best success!!

thanx Mort

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"I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time."

Before I registered for your program, my husband and I were thinking of divorce especially I was. I had planned to at least separate for one year first and break off slowly because I have been a house wife for 26 years and I need to reestablish my ability to earn money. ..

The first week that I was listening to

your teleconference, I got it. I have

been doing small things that you

suggested. ..Ever since that time he is

no longer fighting to me. We are not

intimate yet but civil and respect one

another. The dynamic has changed to a

positive one. He recently gives me my

50th b'day present. .. I am making

myself stronger everyday and trying to

make our marriage stronger a little at a time. Thanks to your message and help of many of my friends and my church I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time. One day I called him to come home to eat lunch and he came. Before that time he would say he is too busy no matter what I cooked for him. I was so glad he come home and eats. He seems to stay home a lot longer than before. We do a lot of small talk.

Thanks to your program. I am grateful

that I sighed up, all your advice works.

Sometime one person can make a

different. I can see my future because I got the right tools that work on my belt and support from my family, and my church and your techniques.

I am ready to face our marriage toward

happier for all of us. I am ready to

fight for our lives for the rest of my

life to stay strong, for us as a unity.

 

Please do not use my name but you can

use my initial. Thanks again.

 

JT

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"He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce"

 

Dear Mr. Fertel,

 

…My husband of 12years had renewed a "friendship" with a college friend(a girl) back in December. This quickly went from a facebook contact, to continuous calls and text, emails, to a  planned visit back to his hometown to visit her and his highschool buddies. He asked for a divorce on March 3rd stating that he just didnt want to be married anymore, and that he probably did want to date other people. I knew exactly who he wanted to date(he had a crush on this girl back in college and now she wanted to be more than friends since her recent divorce). I was devastated and at first became clingy, and smothering. Then I started your advice…Well, he went on his trip on the 6th of April. He arrived there about 530pm and immediately went to her house, took her to dinner and visited with her(he called me for about 1 minute to tell me he had arrived safely). The next day he hung out with friends until about 11pm(he called me at 1030pm to tell me how his night had been and sounded so excited and happy). He talked for about 3 minutes that time…At 0300am I recieved a call from him. He wanted to tell me that he had gone to his friends house after hanging with his friends. He said that it felt so wrong being there with her and that he just had to leave. He wanted me to know that he loved me, wished he was home with me and he missed me. He stopped being in contact with her the next morning, called me and texted constantly over the next 6 days. He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce,didnt want an open marriage, didnt want to be with anyone but me, and wanted me to have a new wedding ring. I wanted to let you know that your advice worked and I want to thank you for giving me the strength to save my marriage and the instructions on how to save a marriage. I thought you would like to know you saved another marriage. Thanks again.

 

Anonymous wife

 

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"I'm more successful in all areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program"

To all who are considering the Marriage Fitness program, do it.  There is nothing more important in life than to have a successful marriage but there's been no guide to proactively do it.  No "before-you-buy-into-it" program that can help you in advance.  And until Mort Fortel, no comprehensive "after-market" program either.  To be honest, his program should be modified and then purchased for all pre-nuptial preparation classes.  A raw, honest owners manual for future couples.  You're porbably reading this because your marriage is in trouble.  Mort's program taught me that I could change, and gave me concrete ways to do it.  I knew that no matter what became of my marriage,  I would become a better me,  not a different person , a better me.

 

I was able to implement change immediately.  I was ACOA, ADD and a terribly innattentive husband.  I was able to discover things about myself, through serious self-reflection that enbaled me to discover that ACOA can be overcome and the ADD was a misdiagnosis.  I was depressed and feeling lost for years, not knowing how to turn my marriage around.  I learned, from Mort's non-judgemental truth,  not that I needed to change,  I already knew that,  I learned that I COULD IN FACT CHANGE, and he offered easy and concrete ways to do so.

 

I'm self-confident in ways I never was before.  I know a better me today, I'm more successful in all areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program.  For me, it's been more of a "Person Fitness Program".  IF your spouse doesn't want you at the end of the program,  somebody will, because you will have learned all of the skills that make you someone anyone would love to spend more time around.

Thanks Mort.

 

Sincerely,

 

Michael C

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"Mort Fertel's program was exactly as he advertised and both my husband and I gained much"

 Your program turned our marriage around. We have stopped the divorce proceedings and we have agreed to stay married and continue to work on ourselves and our marriage. We are still living in separate states but a house, two teenagers, and jobs dictate that situation right now. Presently, we fly back and forth to spend time together, but are working on a way to reunite our family permentantly. Back in July, I was desperate to find the right program and I hoped it to be true and not a sales pitch program. Mort Fertel's program was exactly as he advertised and both my husband and I gained much insight about ourselves and our marriage that we never thought of previously.

Thank you for being a person of integrity and sharing your passion for saving relationships with this program.
 
Best Regards,
Cheryl B. 

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"Mort's program helped me envision what I could do to try to create positive energy"

I went through the Lone Ranger track of the Tele-Boot Camp and it really helped me take a personal inventory and understand the actions that led to problems in our marriage. I would recommend Mort's programs in a heartbeat to anyone wanting to improve their relationship with the spouse, especially those who aren't yet "in trouble." If I had only known about Mort's program a few years ago, my wife and I might not have had the difficulty we had. We're on the path now to reconciliation and connection, and that is all I ever hoped for. Mort's program helped me envision what I could do to try to create positive energy that leads to a better environment in which to discuss the why's of our marriage breaking down. It gave me hope and courage to try to fix things and helped me see how I contributed to the state of our relationship.
 
Things are not perfect but are much better than they were, and I'm more hopeful than ever that we will work through the remaining issues. Thank you, Mort and MarriageMax.
 
Sincerely,
A Friend
( I would prefer to remain anonymous, but Mort is welcome to use my comments as a testimonial as long as my name is not used)

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"Things are like they were when we were newlyweds!"

The Marriage Fitness program saved my marriage. My husband had left me, got an apartment and gave a divorce lawyer a retainer. Thanks to Mort Fertel I was able to learn what to do and was able to get my husband back within 4 months!!! He literally saved me!

My husband and I are working the Marriage Fitness program together. We have read the book together but are only halfway through the program. We are behind right now because of a promotion at my husbands job but we will get back on track in the next few weeks when things settle down at his job.

Things are like they were when we were newlyweds and I could not be happier finding Mort!!!

God Bless you all!!

Debbie G.

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"I am confident that without this program my wife and I would be divorced and unhappy"

I have been on the lone ranger track for over a year and had gone thru the program 3 1/2 times and just wanted some more. I am happy to report that the program worked for me and my wife and we have reconciled our marriage, moved back in the house together and renewed our vows on our 20th wedding anniversary in our church on September 6th. We are a marriage fitness success story. My wife and I are now going through the Marriage Fitness Home Study Course together and don’t need the Marriage Max program at this moment, we may sign up later. I have had some other men/couples come and ask me “what changed?” My church has even asked if I am willing to speak to some other couples. Recently I have an emerging passion to help other couples and would like to find out some more information on how I might be able to get some additional resources to help other couples BEFORE things drive them to separation. Our church does a variety of 12 week Life Development classes every fall and spring. I would like to be in a position to lead a Marriage Fitness course this next spring or fall in my church that we could offer to strengthen the marriages in our church and community. Please let me know what process or support, if any, Mort would be willing to provide.

Please thank Mort from the bottom of my heart for this program. I am confident that without this program my wife and I would be divorced and unhappy. Thanks to Marriage Fitness and Mort Fertel, my wife and I’s marriage is a 1%’er.

Sincerely,
Shane P.

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" Things are excellent"

This is Michael Machelle's husband it appears that both of us expressed our appreciation to you I don't have a problem with you using anything I said you helped our marriage is a great deal your words and your suggestions pushed us in the right direction and I appreciate so much the help that we got from the emails that we received from you my wife and I are on the right track now and we're doing better than ever and I don't see us going back at all things are excellent so was sincere thanks and gratitude you can do what you need with our words.

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"My wife and I are doing awesome!!"

I'm so grateful for all your helpful advice!!
My wife and I are doing awesome!!
 We have found a whole new love for each other
Once again thank you!!!
Sent from iPhone

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"Your program is absolutley brilliant"

Hello Mort...
 
I am overwhelmed with gratitude today which I would like to express it to you..
 
Your program is truly my answer to prayer.  I am on the Lone Ranger program.  Last night I had dinner with my husband after several weeks of his anger and his absence.   I have learned so much about myself that I had no idea was there.  I would have handled this separation in all the wrong ways if I was not on your program, which I'm sure would have pushed him away even further.   These past few weeks have been really intense, as I've pressed in!
 
Your program is absolutely brilliant and as you mention; a multi-sensory experience.  Over the years, I have taken several personal growth courses as well as many trips the the "counsellor"   The information you teach is so opposite to what I've been taught in the  past, but I trusted it and I have now dealt with re-occurring issues that I needed to fix.
 
Thank you from my heart for this precious gift that you share. 
May you and your family be blessed.
 
With my appreciation,
Nicky

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"Mort is awesome!!"

Mort is awesome!! Everything I read touches, inspires, encourages and has strengthened my marriage. Thank him for me, please!
 
 Lots going on in my life, moving, changes, mostly for the good. Just need to concentrate on things at hand for now. Always, working on my marriage which is my most important asset on earth!  Again, thank you!

JE

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"The Marriage Fitness
Program is our blueprint to stay on
track through our lifetime together."

We are so grateful to Mort for helping
save our marriage. The Marriage Fitness
Program is our blueprint to stay on
track through our lifetime together.
We plan to continue counseling; all is
going extremely well. We are continuing
to review Mort's book & workbook and we
feel that Plugged-in is basically a
repetition of this material (no
offense).
Happy Holidays and Blessings to Mort,
his family, and staff. You can be
certain that we will be recommending you
to anyone in need.
Gratefully,
EMM

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"...anyone seeking to fix or enhance their marriage"

Mort Fertel's system for dealing with marriage problems is truly exceptional. There are too many clinicians who subscribe to a particular theory or belief and they actually get lost in their own philosophy. Mort's wisdom is clearly a product of his own thinking and his powerful empathy. His words emanate from his heart and they will ring true to you in a powerful way. At first you may just have to trust him, but you will soon experience the truth of his advice. I am so happy that I found him and I would recommend his program to anyone seeking to fix or enhance their marriage. You will see the fruits of this program spill over into all of your relationships and really improve your quality of life.
Forever grateful,
HW

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" No longer lonely in Louisiana"

Mort,
Last year at this time I was hopeless in my marriage.  I didn't think my husband and I would make it together another month let alone a year. 
I hesitantly signed up for your marriage fitness course in January 2013 and hoped for the best. Mort, I just want to let you and everyone else  know how much your program has truly saved my marriage.  It has been tough, but slowly - day by day, month by month -- it has transformed into a beautiful, fulfilling, friendship, and relationship.  We have grown together in more ways than I ever imagined but had always longed for.  Thank you Mort for your guidance that has saved my marriage and family.  I strongly recommend
your program to anyone looking to save or enrich their marriage.   THANK
YOU! Mort!

H. Gardner, No longer lonely in Louisiana Sent from my iPhone

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"I appreciate the support"


The Marriage Fitness Program have been excellent and have been a wonderful experience for myself and my wife.  My wife and I have reconciled and have been back together…have put many of the principles from marriage fitness into practice and find them to be beneficial, especially the section on understanding personal traits that may be attractive that over time can exhibit in a negative manner and how to handle that situation.  This has been a long journey…and I appreciate the support that has been there along the way.  The program dovetails very well with my Catholic faith and other reading and support I have done from that area as well. I continue to work on personal development from my faith life.
 
Best Regards,
Bruce R.

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"our marriage is really improving!"

Rebecca,

I thought Mort’s program was SUPERB and would highly recommend it to anyone having problems with their marriage.  I went through the original course and then the follow on… I use many of the techniques ALL of the time!  Yes, it’s much better than counseling (something I have tried with NO success).

Again, a phenomenal program!

Sincerely,

Vince

p.s. BTW…our marriage is really improving!  That is the ultimate barometer to the course, in my opinion.  Tell Mort that he has really made a difference in our lives!

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" By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting "

Dear Mr. Fertel,

 

Words cannot express my gratitude I have for your help and the Marriage Fitness program. Less then 6 months ago my wife was ready to ask for a separation and we probably were headed for divorce after 30 years of marriage.  I heard the: "I need my space" and "I love you but I am not in love with you".I am not saying we are completely out of the woods yet, but we are now on the right trail to repair and in time create a more loving marriage then we ever had before.

 

Prior to getting the free emails and then the course I was doing all of the wrong things, the begging, pleading, trying to be right and justifying my actions and condemning hers. Our "problems" were both our faults and though neither one of us wanted to first admit it we came to that realization in phase 2 of the workbook. By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting

 

This is not a quick fix or easy program. It requires time and effort and makes you look at yourself as much as what you think your problems are. I found the reflection I seen in the mirror was not a happy one so how could my wife. By reading, listening and doing the exercises in the workbook I was able to change that reflection and it has become evident to my wife and we have been working more on rebuilding our marriage then tearing it apart. That reflection is starting to look happy and enjoyment has returned to the time we spend together rather then tolerance.

 

Thank you Mr. Fertel, you have no idea the desperation I was in when I found your program, it truly has made a difference in both my life and our marriage.

 

Warm Regards

Don E

Virginia

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"If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take"

Mort,

I would like to thank you for creating the Marriage Fitness Progam,  I did the Lone Ranger in February and before starting I was skeptical as to how much this program would help my marriage.   As I went through the program I realized that my way of behaving had a lot to do with the deterioration of my marriage.

I started listening to the CD's and once I started doing the exercises is when I realized that changes needed to be made. 

If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take, it really does help you see what you need to fix in yourself and teaches you how to approach your spouse in a loving way.

Thank you for giving me the tools to see what a great marriage I could have.

IAR

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"He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN!"

I just want to start off by thanking Mort for all of his help! Thank you is not even enough, how do you thank someone for changing your life?! I don't know what I would have done if I didn't find his web site. He is amazing and has a talent for working with you and being caring about what he does. His tips and advice are not that hard to follow, it actually has made me a happier and a more positive person. Knowing he has been where we all are makes it easy to trust in him and his program.

A little background about my situation: We have both been married before, each of our spouses cheated on us and made it hard for us to trust others in relationships. Even though we have gone through that and so much more, we still have so much trust and love for each other. We both have children, mostly grown. (He also had a child with his ex-wife that died a month after he was born). He has three children, I have one. About a year after we met we started to have some problems and couldn't get over them, or didn't know how to 'fix' them… always had a hard time understanding each other or learning to fight in the 'right way', our biggest problem being the silent treatment.

I just finished the boot camp and was on the lone ranger track. There are a couple of CD's that actually brought me to tears because they fit my situation SO wel l… He started dating awhile ago and told me later on after one of our trips together, that he was 'seeing someone'. I cried for three days Over the years we started to take each other for granted. I had an epiphany before I ordered Mort's program, my life passed before my eyes and I realized that he was the most important person in my life. I prayed for help (This I don't do often at all), but the next day I found Mort Fertel online. After being in his program and implementing the steps I needed to, he is now not seeing this other person! ... He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN! I loved hearing this, we are going out more often now and talking more, I think things are on the right track to being together again, maybe more. I just hope that down the road I can go through the workbook and CD's again...this time with our new found relationship. I've also learned to be more positive and act on those feelings.

Thank you Adina for being patient and answering all of my emails. I appreciate your help!

Thank you Mort for renewing the relationship that I knew, but didn't realize that I wanted!

Jody

 

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" Marriage Fitness Program was worth both our time and money"

We thought the Marriage Fitness Program was worth both our time and money we invested and we recommend it to our friends.

Alan

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"I would recommend his product to anyone in crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage. "

From: John T. Lowe II

Sent: Monday, February 05, 2007 12:06 PM

To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com

Mort,

I would say with all honesty that your product is great. It's easy to use, very down to earth, and a great tool that you can use anytime even if times aren't bad. My wife and I went through Counseling and it was thousands of dollars. Marriage is the most important agreement you will ever have in your life, and Mort's program shows you how to treat it that way even if you don't feel like i t s ometimes. I would recommend his product to anyone in crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage.

John Lowe, Haslet, TX

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"My husband changed his moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with Mort."

 

I highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness Program.

I joined the program as the lone ranger about 8 weeks ago. My husband was very firm about moving out and filing for divorce without giving me much of specific reasons. In my sorrow and desperation, I contacted Mort and joined the Marriage Fitness Program.

What did I get out of the program?

Real hope to my family: My husband changed his moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with Mort.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your extraordinary impact on my life and my family's life.

H.E.

California

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"I recommend your program to all of my clients... because it works!!!"

Thank you so much for doing what you do! It is divinely inspired!

Last year my husband and I weren't speaking. We had resigned ourselves to co-habitating. When I read your first few emails I was in the state of mind that I wasn't going to be the one to make the first move because I was tired of always being the one to initiate the "fence mending"! I purchased the CDs, listened intently to every word and the lights went on!! I believed everything you were saying and have always believed it but somewhere along the line, things had gone off the rails. Then I asked him if he'd like to go to Starbucks. I think he was expecting to have a big "problem" conversation but instead I followed your guidelines. …The next morning, it was a Sunday, the flood gates opened. We had a beautiful conversation and we connected and cried together. We are more connected than ever. We still have to focus on each other and we do get distracted - 2 businesses, 4 kids and so on but we are prioritizing each other, we recognize when things have slipped a little and get back on track.

I am so thankful for your program because I don't know where we'd be without it.

I recommend your program to all of my clients experiencing distance or debacle in their relationships because it works!!

Do you offer training for people looking to practice your approach? I am a Life Coach and I would LOVE to be able to offer your programs and strategies to my clients in a comprehensive way.

Thanks so much!

Putting love first,

Sherri P.

 

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"We will celebrate 34 years this May, thanks to you and this great program!"

Dear Mort,

I really do not know where to begin.  We have never spoke or had any one on one counseling with you. When our marriage was falling apart this past holiday season, I was looking for someone or something to help answer all those awful questions that were filling my head.  I found your website while scanning the internet for answers. I found hope in those first words I read and really thought that I could get my husband to sit down with a book and a teleconference instead of regular counseling. I was also ready to try the Lone Ranger program. He agreed to give us 7 weeks to turn things around.  I ordered your program and I think I read the whole book that first night.  We began meeting to work on the material  in the program two times a week.  He had moved out and works out of town most weeks.  By  week 4 we were back in the same house and by week 7 we were on the road to recovery.  Everything is not fixed but everything is much better and we both are working on things everyday.  We will celebrate 34 years this May, thanks to you and this great program.  While I was scared we could not put things back together in 7 weeks, I really needed to focus on each day we did have together.  As we went through the program we both learned a lot about ourselves and even though we had been married for a very long time we really did not know much about each other now.  Our busy lives, jobs, responsibilities, our grown children and grand children took away from us. Well, we are back on track!!!    Oh, it is work everyday not to let the old stuff creep back in but the new stuff is so much better.  Thanks again for having such a great program.  Thank you for the everyday common sense approach to making a relationship work.  Thank you for making it affordable.  We will use what we learned for the rest of our lives.  When we celebrate our 50th, I'll drop you another line of thanks!

Sincerely, Kim and Mark

 

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"Your inspiration with the material provided has been a serious God send to both of us."

Hi Mort,

I'm happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was over.  I have been married four times and really wanted this to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone out.  We decided that we were done and divorce was the only answer.  Then my husband came across your program and signed up without telling me.  He then started talking about the program and got one of your CD's that I listened to half-heartedly.  When the program began I listened to your firs t s eminar and was so blown away by what I was hearing.  I couldn't believe all the things that I could relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each session.  Only to leave angrier and angrier.  But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never loved my husband more and know that we are going to work through these things and stay on the track that we were always meant to be on.  I know that we will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh because we are worth it.  Your inspiration with the material provided has been a serious God send to both of us.  I thank you profusely for having the desire to help those that can' t s eem to help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together.  I can' t say thank you enough! 

Jennifer

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"I have the confidence now that I did not have before"

I just wanted you to know that my husband and I were going through a very difficult time.  I reached out to you...and to my amazement you were there with some great advise.  I never told him about your email's to me and I followed your advise to the letter.  I am happy...very happy to tell you that our marriage is back on track and I will continue throughout my life with him to follow your advise.  There are still hurt feelings and some things to over come, but I have the confidence now that I did not have before....YOU!  Thank you very much…I will certainly pass your name along to whom ever needs you in the future.  God Bless you..and thanks.
 
A very grateful Sheila!

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"It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning. "

Mort,

 

John and I are more than happy to give our testimony and I would recommend your program to anyone having relationship difficulties.

 

We've been married 30 years and have 4 children. All of them are on their own now, but our marriage has been going downhill for at least that last 25 years. Your program has made us feel like newlyweds again! Neither of us have been this happy. And with the knowledge that we have gained through the years, applying your techniques and following your program, we are probably more happy than we were even when we first got married. We make love several times a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's good, and we enjoy doing things together that we never did before. It's even difficult to be around others because we don't want to miss a second apart.

 

We've been going fairly slow in the workbook, but we are getting things done! Counseling would have cost us so much more money and a divorce (which was imminent the day we ordered your program). It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning.

 

All I can do is say thank you and your wife for the insight and ideas you have given us.

 

Blessed Be,
Linda A.

 

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'I am very delighted and overwhelmed for the positive response"

I would like to thank you for the generous support and encouragement since the first day I requested for your help.  I am very delighted and overwhelmed for the positive response I received from you, I must say again thank you for helping me save my perishing marriage.  Each day brings joy into my life again like the old times, you helped me realize that to be in the best and healthy marriage I need to go through rough times, feel the pain in the process.

Thank you a million times, may you live for many and many years to help all those who think on divorcing their wives/husbands to help them realize what incredible think they are missing by doing that.

Regards,
MARIA

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" Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.  I am astounded by its clarity. "

 

I have got to say that I must be ready for the principles that your program is built upon, because your program "appeared" to me over the internet when I was looking for some marital relationship guidance.  Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.  I am astounded by its clarity.

I think between the CD's from the 7 weeks worth of teleconferences and Q&A sessions, we can find our way to a "put Love first" marriage, with time and consistent effort on our parts.  I know I am willing to "do" what it takes to create this environment in our relationship.

Thank you for your principles and teaching.

DL

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"The 7 week fitness program changed...my perspective on how I could better my marriage and myself. "

 

Mort,

Your Marriage Fitness program gave me a new perspective for my failing marriage. I registered as a last ditch effort to save my marriage.  My husband wanted a divorce.  I was out of hope, out of ideas, and searching for a way change my situation.  I registered for the lone ranger track, which in the beginning even brought heartache.  There I was wanting to save my marriage and my husband could care less. I wondered how a marriage could be saved when only one partner was unwilling to participate.  The 7 week fitness program changed not only that thought, but my perspective on how I could better my marriage and myself.  I have become a better wife and I can even say that my marriage is no longer failing.  There is laughter, love, jokes, and time spent together again.  My thoughts and my actions have changed my marriage's momentum, and I would encourage any couple to participate in the program.  Mort has valuable insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage.

LDW

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"Mort had given me the tools to stay connected."

 

Hi Mort

Here is what my wife, Delores, wrote in a notebook after our last teleconference with you. I thought you'd like to read it. Ralph

As I listened to the final teleconference I cried uncontrollably. I had the same feeling at age nine when I left the courthouse when my father and mother divorced. As I clasped my mothers hand I knew I would not be able to stay connected to my father in the way I wanted to; which proved to be true. I never saw him again for 20 years. I spent 53 years of my life trying to connect to someone. For the first time someone had told me how I could connect. Mort had given me the tools to stay connected. If I would have let my spouse know how bad I needed to connect with him instead of shaming, belittling, and attacking his character, I am sure he would have turned around and connected with me years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. Delores

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"my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me what went wrong in our marriage"

 

Mort:

I am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has an emotional affair with another woman. When I was told by my husband about his affair, I was so shocked. I found Marriage Fitness from internet and signed in January. After attending the live seminars and Q-A conferences, all of sudden, I found out there are lots of small things that I never pay attention to that have done big damage on my marriage. I tried the ways you taught in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts and when I almost gave up, my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me what went wrong in our marriage and what lead him to seek comfort from outside of marriage. 

Thanks you for everything. Now there is hope.

Jane

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"[Marrige Fitness] really has made me see things more clearly than ever before. "

 

Dear Mort,

I would like to tell you how helpful your program was for me.

I was in the lone ranger track. My husband said he didn't love me or feel an emotional connection with me. He also said divorce would be our only option.

I sought therapy, read your book, and joined the Marriage Fitness Program. You gave me advice that I sometimes didn't want to follow, but I did it anyway because I made a commitment to follow the program. I went from being a hysterical, scared woman, whose husband was having a year long affair to a confident wife whose husband has asked for a new beginning.

I would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before. I am so grateful. Thank you and keep working with people like us!

D.B.D

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"we are living happily together"

Mort,

Thank you so much! 

My wife and I had been to at least 10 different marriage counselors individual therapists since 2008 and our relationship continually deteriorated, ultimately culminating in our separation.  We always found ourselves asking "How can we solve this with one hour of talking per week?" and "Why doesn't anyone have any practical advice for us?"  Neither one of us thought we could get over the hurt caused over 15 years that could best be summarized as "Marriage: you're doing it wrong!" 

We complete the course with our last teleconference tonight and are happy to report that we are living happily together with our four children, who I'm sure would thank you too if they knew the good you have done.  One day, before they marry, we'll make sure they take your course first!

Thanks again.

- T.E.

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"There are no words of Thanks that could be enough"

Mr. fertel, i have been following your cds and listening to everything you have told me and I wanted you to know that as I type this I am in south dakota, where I have spent a wonderful weekend with my husband. we found that we love each other dearly and are going to work things out. We know it is gooing to take work on both of our parts, but we agreed to leave the past behind us and just move forward. I will keep following your teachings and let you know how it goes. THANK YOU. There are no words of Thanks that could be enough. Robbie B.

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"...he moved back home this weekend!!"

I can't tell you how grateful I am to this program.  My husband moved out in February and after listening to the seminars and applying the lessons, he moved back home this weekend!!  Mort has truly transformed our lives.  I have recommended his program to several others who are having marital problems.  I hope they find the same strength that we did.

-R.I

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"Marriage Fitness is what enabled us to get out of our downward spiral"

Mort, my wife and I have been married for 30 years. We have had our struggles in the past few years, and I recently found
out she had an affair 4 years ago with a neighbor. The shock, hurt, etc., was devastating to me and I confronted her with the
'news" and my knowledge of her affair. Was not a good time to say the least. I searched for where to turn next and wanted
to save our marriage. My wife agreed to the Duo- Track program and we began the journey.
 
I can not say it has been all wonderful, yet we have made significant progress in renewing our relationship…We were diligent with the tele-seminasr to keep us focused, read your book as we went along, completed CD's, and only
have the workbook to complete. By far the best start to fixing what has taken years to erode, to put the problems aside and
to implement the simple habits to mend challenges.
 
My wife and I remain extremely optimistic with our continued journey and although there are always bumps along the way, I strongly
believe Marriage Fitness is what enabled us to get out of our downward spiral and ignite the changes needed…and
enjoy our relationship again.
 
I would highly recommend your program for couples struggling with their relationships......
 
Many sincere thanks,
 
Jim (please do not use my last name)

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"It no longer feels like WORK. It feels like LOVE!!"

Mort,
Let me tell you our story.
My husband and I had been together for 16 years.  Most of those years were mediocre to poor.  We didn't really fight, but we also didn't really love. 
We had been going to the same counselor on and off for several years.  We began seeing her again last August when we decided that we would give it one last try before throwing in the towel.  We actually discussed that we should move on while we were both still young enough to have other 'options'. 
Not much changed over the next few months until one day I got home early and witnessed my husband NOT answer his cell phone when there was an unusual ring tone.  Without too much detail, after asking many times and becoming quite the snoop, I did find out 3 months later that he was having an emotional affair since June with an old girlfriend.
We continued going to counseling, but separately.  Most of the time I actually felt worse after leaving her office.  She encouraged us to separate and he moved out in February.
Our therapist continued to encourage us to have little to no contact, but the longest we could go without any communication was 3 days and it was a very LONG 3 days.
In early September I came across your website when looking for marriage help online. I began forwarding them to my husband and something clicked for us. It turns out that we had both been copying your emails into one file so that we could read them all together over and over.
We began to spend more time together and implemented some of your exercises. We soon canceled our future appointments with our therapist and decided to try your program.
The result - he moved back home this past weekend after living away from home for 9 1/2 months.  We're only one week into committing to share our lives together but we can really see a transformation in our relationship. For the first time in a long time we are truly SHARING our lives.
I asked him recently ,"what if things start getting crappy again?" He replied, "That means that we need to try harder." That was the best thing I've heard in a long time.
Mort, my husband and I are now truly CONNECTING our lives. Probably more than ever before. I thank God that I came across your website and you for touching our hearts in a way that made sense to us. I beleive we would not be where we are today if not for you.
I have passed the link to your site onto several people that are having marital problems. They all seem to be inspired by our success and were happy to have some hope for a new approach to their old problems.
Our next steps will be to continue working through the workbook and signing up for the Plugged In program. We know that we still have some work to do, but we're doing it with open hearts and open minds. It no longer feels like WORK. It feels like LOVE!!
 
R.I.

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"It truly has changed my life!"

Dear Mort,

 

I write you this letter the day before our 25th wedding anniversary.  Three months ago I would have thought we would surely have been in the process of a divorce on this day.  On December 29 after receiving your emails for over two months, I finally decided that I would enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger Track.  It truly has changed my life!   I have found that my husband responds even though he is reluctant to the thought of renewing our marriage.  I have completed the boot camp and look forward to the continuing support through the Plugged-In program.  Showing patience that I didn't know I had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate many anniversaries to come. Thank you!

 

Sincerely,

 

Amy

Littleton, CO

 

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"We are working on the relationship that everyone wants but does not know how to get it. "

Your program gave me hope when I had lost it. After going to a marriage counselor and a pastor, your program was what kept us together and gave us the tools to make the changes in ourselves that we needed to improve our marriage. After 39 years together, I can truthfully say that I am happier in my relationship with my husband than I have ever been due to the tools of your program. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I know that there still will be rough roads and disagreements, but I feel that we can get through them. We are working on the relationship that everyone wants but does not know how to get it.   I have referred your program to several other friends and hope that they take the chance to a great program. THANK YOU!  CJ

(I would prefer to use my initials only thanks)

 

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"Mort's program completely helped"

I think the program is great, I have just gotten my marriage to a point now where I feel I utilize the principles and use the workbooks/books instead of the plugged-in.   So I am in a good place/back on track--  Mort's program completely helped get me there.
thanks!

JB

 

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"It is clear to me that men and women will always think differently from each other, but in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in the program and improve our relationship."

 

When we signed up for the Marriage Fitness Program, our relationship was not going well.  I lacked trust in my partner and optimism about the future.  He, uncharacteristically, agreed to do this program with me with the hope of turning things around.   I honestly can' t say how much our improvement is due to the content of the Marriage Fitness Program, how much is due to us simply going through the process together, to the exercises or simply the change from focusing on our problems to focusing on strengths and improving those.  It is clear to me that men and women will always think differently from each other, but in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in the program and improve our relationship.  It isn't perfect, but it is so much better.   It is kind of amazing to me how great it feels to do positive things for each other, and how that morphs into greater richness in the relationship.  Its like DAH, but it really does work so simply.  I'm very glad we did it.  Thanks, Mort!

TW

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"Practicing “marriage fitness” is a way of life for us now. We are very optimistic about our future together"

 

Dear Mort,

It is hard to find the words to describe the impact that you and the Marriage Fitness Program had on our marriage. Our marriage was on its last breath. We hadn't talked, wanted to touch or felt close in years. But the Marriage Fitness Program turned our marriage around. It breathed life into our relationship. It saved our marriage!

You helped me see that there was hope when things seemed hopeless. I can honestly say I do not know where Don and I would be today without your help.

Practicing “marriage fitness” is a way of life for us now. We are very optimistic about our future together. Thanks so much for giving us the tools we need to make our marriage and lives happier than we could ever imagine.

Sincerely,

Laurie S.

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"We are making progress."

 

Dear Mort,

We're only in the 3 rd week of your Marriage Fitness Program and I already have exciting news to share with you. See the email below that my husband sent me. He hasn't sent anything nice like this in a very long time.  Thank you Mort.

----- Original Message -----

From: B.H.

To: Doris

Sent: July 26, 2005 3:36 PM

Subject: Thank you

I do want you to know that I have noticed the little and bigger things you've been doing to help our relationship.  I do know you're sincere in your feelings and what you want from me.

I feel a lot better about things and hope my attitude has shown as much.  I know I do love you and I want things to work as well.

We are making progress.

Brian

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"Heaven on earth in our home"

We are both happy to give permission to use our letter as you see fit.
We truly cannot express our gratitude for the help we were given to
make marriage heaven on earth in our home!!

Will & Di

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" I decided to make it work"

My husband and I grew apart based on little differences in our relationships.  Our spending methods are different, our saving methods are different, our choices for our children are different. And eventually, our relationship started showing signs of it being broken.  We never celebrated my birthday or our anniversary, or valentines day, due to the fact that those were unnecessary expenses.  I started pulling away, and my husband actually started seeking some of his marital needs outside of our marriage.  Then one day, he entirely rejected me and any advances I made towards him.  I was wondering what was going on and I found out eventually, that he was hanging out with a coworker at the same time that he promised to spend the time with me.
I was and still am hurt.  But my reactions led to us fighting endlessly.  All our relatives told us to go counseling, which my husband did not ever believe in.  But he still went.  And the outcome was worse.  So then I went to speak with divorce lawyers.  I spoke with two different lawyers and they both advised me to go back and make my marriage work.  I really did not want a divorce, but that was the mantra my husband repeated to me all the time.  So, I decided to make it work one final time.  But I did not know how.  And trying to talk to my husband about our problems made matters worse.  It was really bad, to the point where I then asked for a separation and my husband challenged me to take him to court and he would prove me wrong.  Not only that, he would kick me out of our house and take both my children away from me.  I was so scared at that time.
That is when I sat down and prayed and prayed and searched for answers and stumbled upon Marriage Fitness.  The first two weeks of the program started turning things around and now after seven weeks, at least, I have not heard the word "Divorce" from my husband's mouth.  It is not easy to reflect and be honest about ourselves.  It is very easy to judge others and be critical of them.  But since I have started doing the things that this program has taught me to do, I have turned things around.  And I am in the lone ranger track.  We really have to make an honest effort.  I am not saying, that I have reached my goal.  But at least, I know now, that I have nothing to loose.
What I found toughest, was to be good to someone, when times are rough and especially when the other person is being a jerk.  But, if we are consistent, it pays off.
I feel like going back to the lawyers and telling them, not to suggest counseling to your clients, but to suggest this program.  And I will, once my husband joins me in this program.
Thanks,
M.V.

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"...it was a perfectly natural feeling that occurred instantly"

Mort,
 
I am currently in week one of your marriage fitness boot camp. I can tell you it has been awesome already! I want to share my successes with you and everyone in your program (feel free to share it with anyone you like).
I did what you recommended and set aside the issues in my marriage and towards my wife. For the past few months, I have had trouble looking at my wife and only seeing all the negative personality traits. I saw her the day after your first session and would you believe in the first nanosecond of that encounter I saw beauty and everything good about her. She looked like the first day I met her when it was love at first site. I wasn't even forcing myself to think in that way, it was a perfectly natural feeling that occurred instantly. It was the same way, in our next encounter as well. It really worked! I hope the feelings remain the same, because it makes it really easy to be loving towards her. I just wanted to share the success and feel free to share with anyone in your program. Thank you so much!
T.S.

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"You are an invaluable resource"

Hi Mort
 
I haven't spoken to you for some time and I had to stop subscribing due to personal reasons, however I carry with me every day the lessons I took from the programme I thought you might be interested in an update. I have stuck to the discipline and now my husband says we are officially back together. We have some distance to go still but my heart and soul stay strong in the belief that we have come through the worst and are growing stronger every day. When the time is right for both of us he wants to move back home which I thought was impossible. I have really valued the advice you have given and am very grateful I was guided to you as an invaluable resource (not meaning to sound impersonal).
He knows I had support from somewhere and who knows he may want to know more one day. In the meantime we have moved to the duo track without him even realising and that's what works for us. It is very true how effect much one person on the lone track can make if they honestly believe in what they are doing for the right reasons.
If you need or would like to use this please do, however, for his privacy please do not use my name or location.
Thank you Mort for all you allowed me to learn about myself.
 
My very kindest regards
A.T.

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"I can now see a brighter furture ahead!"

I just wanted to say thank you for your efforts into your program. You have developed an amazing program! I continue to use it and my wife and I are sleeping in the same bed. Spending quality time with each other (no kids lol). Going on dates and cuddling on the couch. I am in the middle of setting up work so that i can be home every night instead of being gone for 2 weeks and home for 2 weeks. It has been a very challenging duration but going in the right direction. I have been working on myself to fix what needs fixing with me and have recognized many of my faults. I gotta say i found many as i looked deeper into myself. I plan to keep doing what i have been and I am taking my time. I have been going through the program slowly a relistening to many parts several times and yes it truely has been a huge help. I am understanding more each time I go through every part. I can now see a brighter future ahead which is Awesome!!
Thank you
Dana

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"Your program saved both myself and my husband"

I contacted Mort Fertel at the lowest point in my marriage. I could see no way of improving things and with no expectations set out on the Lone Ranger programme. I discovered things about myself that helped me, in the first instance, to cope with a marriage breakup and later on to develop a fresh and new relationship with my husband. I kept going with the advice, finding ways that were personal to us to implement the simple advice I was being given by Mort. The programme took me back to the beginning and without it I truly believe i would have allowed myself to be filled with rage and hurt. By doing this programme I was empowered to remain calm, believe in what I knew was right, control my emotions and grow new and stronger roots based on who we really are rather than who we had become because of betrayal and mistrust. As I write this we are back together and my husband had joined me in growing a new, refreshed relationship that will take us into the next stages of our lives together. Thank you Mort - we are guided to things we never thought we would need and I am grateful I found the strength to dive in and use your programme to save both myself and my husband. to anyone that is doubtful I would say give it a go, it is honest, challenging at times but forget all the usual advice and start with yourself. this programme and the personal support allows you to do that.
Anna

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"With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work"

We ordered Marriage Fitness, even though we are not married yet, because we have been in our relationship for 3 ½ years and were unsure if we wanted to be with each other or not. We figured love was just supposed to be there for us. With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work. All of the ideas we have learned and all of the stories we have heard, brought us closer together. We are very excited what tomorrow will bring. We vowed to each other to use this all of the time . This was well worth the time and effort. We communicate in a much more positive way. This program has opened up our eyes on how important we are to one another. Without Marriage Fitness, we would both be single today.  Thanks Mort!!
 

Patty and Shane

 

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"This program saved my marriage. Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my marriage around."

My husband told me he wanted a divorce.  He basically blurted it out one night, then started sleeping in the guest room.  I was completely shocked and surprised.  He wanted to separate right away-- I didn't understand the urgency, why the push to leave "all the sudden" when we'd been married for 12 years.  He said he felt no urgency, that he'd been thinking about it for months, even years. He said he had no feelings for me anymore and was just "done".  The problem was, he kept it all inside.  He didn't share his thoughts and feelings with me .

 

Completely devastated, I started searching for answers, fixes, anything to put my marriage back together.  I found Mort Fertel's marriage fitness website.  I showed it to my husband.  He said it all sounded like some marketing scheme and he wasn't interested in "fixing" anything.  So, I signed up anyway-- for the Lone Ranger track.

 

The day I received my kit in the mail, my husband was talking about actually filing for divorce.  I began implementing the techniques immediately.

 

After being in the program two weeks, he stopped talking about the separation.  He was being nice back.  After four weeks, he agreed not to file, and to try to work things out.  But he refused to do the Marriage Fitness thing and he was against counseling.  He said he was going to read a couple books on marriage that his mom gave him.  By the sixth week he told me he wanted to stay married to me, but wasn't ready to be intimate or move back into our bedroom.

 

We're getting to know each other again... slowly.  We're building a friendship that perhaps wasn't there in the beginning.  He thinks we got married too young, too fast.  This program saved my marriage. Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my marriage around.

 

Thank you Mort.  Thank you.

 

~ TS

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"Honestly, I never would have believed it myself.  I thought for sure by now my marriage would be over."

        I found you exactly how you said I might, scanning the internet for help.  I needed a focus because I was drowning in the pain of what I thought was the inevitable.  You helped me see a new vision of what I wanted in my marriage.  Within 2 weeks of starting your program, my husband said he wasn't sure about a divorce and he wasn't sure about what he was doing. I hung in there, just as you said and things are on a positive track now.  Honestly, I never would have believed it myself.  I thought for sure by now my marriage would be over.

   My next vision is to complete the program again, this time with my husband.  Thank you Mort, for everything!  I still love getting your inspirational emails and hope to see you in a workshop in person someday.  Your perspective and program are right on; putting love first makes all the difference.

 

Teri R .

Gilbert, Az

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"I believe implementing those practices truly saved our marriage."

 

Mort,

I really can't thank you enough for the wisdom, support and guidance your program provided us.

It's been a whirlwind of a year starting horribly and ending on a definite up-swing.  We continue to practice the principles you set forth in M arriage Fitness and taught us in the Marriage Fitness Program and I believe implementing those practices truly saved our marriage. 

Keep up the excellent work!

Christine P.

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"You were able to accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed to do in 2 years"

 

Dear Mort,

We just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do. My wife and I have been together for 7 years, spent the past 4 years in constant turmoil, and the past 2 years with 3 different marriage counselors. We have spent literally thousands of dollars trying to get a grip on our relationship, only to watch it plummet faster.

     

I found your website after a tremendous argument during which she and I both agreed that it was over and we were wasting our time. I have been married twice and she has been married 4 times, so failed relationships are nothing new to us. Somehow, practice doesn't make it any easier.

You were able to accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed to do in 2 years. Your assessments made us realize that maybe it wasn't ALL "their" fault after all, and your straight-forward but gentle approach in the tele-conferences lit the path to a recovery that we didn't think was possible.

There is no way that we can begin to express to you all that you have done for us, so we will only tell you "thank you". We will continue to tell friends and family in relationship trouble about your programs.

JL & GL.

Martinsville , IN

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 "We are working on our relationship every day and I see my husband putting more enthusiasm and vigor into meeting my needs"

I wanted to leave. Or I wanted him to leave. My husband was so neglectful, mean, harsh, overbearing, never happy, nagging.....exactly the way most men would describe their wives, that was my husband. … we hit some very hard times. I was raped in our home by someone I knew, with my husband just outside in the back yard. That in itself took a mighty toll on our relationship, then add the addictions, loss of work, moving across the country, and the mental state I was in, and you've got a lot of work to do to save a marriage.  
 

I was going to move out the next morning, when I  came across the MF information online. I opened the email and read the information. Then I read it again. I decided Momma is always right with the statement that you will never have to ask yourself "what if" if you exhaust all of your resources, try everything you can. So, this was my last ditch effort. I didn't have much hope as I had asked my husband to read a couple of books five years ago and he hadn't even cracked open one yet. I had even bought the books for him, twice!
 
Our marriage is now back on track. Our communication lines are more open and clearer. We share much more intimate, quality time together. He is willing to meet my needs in the ways I need them met and not how he thinks they should be met. I have been able to become completely dedicated to our relationship and devoted to him, BECAUSE he is meeting my needs. We have a level of intimacy that goes beyond, I believe, what others have. When we are "in sync" there is a sence of euphoric peacefulness, blissful freedom, and the passion goes far beyond the bedroom.
 
We didn't go through the program "together" however, and it wasn't easy to get him to listen to the information. He didn't do the exercises in the workbook either. I would leave the door to my office open and the volume just loud enough he could turn the tv down and hear it. I would work on the exercises in the workbook in the same room, writing as he watched TV, and I would leave it where he could easily find it. I knew he couldn't resist finding out what I wrote in that workbook!  I kept on with the gift giving...one night I brought home a bucket with various hand tools and "man" things, all from the dollar store. I think I spent less than $15 including the bucket. I presented it to him and said that I was crazy in love with him still, I woulod do anything for him and I was trying to sweep him off his feet with this romantic gesture. I explained that the bucket of tools was the equivelant of  him bringing me a boquet of flowers.
 
We are working on our relationship every day and I see my husband putting more enthusiasm and vigor into meeting my needs. We are thankful for the MF program and for Mort for putting it all together and sharing it! Bobbi O

 

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"Your program is amazing"

Mort - 
I’d like to tell you that my personal journey in your program has changed my life in so many ways.  Not only is my marriage on it’s way to recovery, my other relationships are showing improvement as well.  You are right that when you have love and it’s going well, everything else around you will fall into place.
I actually just completed the program, so I am a “newbie”, however, I was pleasantly surprised to start seeing some results recently.  Now, it took a lot of patience and a lot of change on my part, but I am getting what I want from my spouse....  Naturally, I am a very positive, up-beat person, but I had become a naggy, negative Nancy  that was making his life miserable.  I had begun to despise him and everything he did upset me.  We were very hateful to one another and it was beginning to affect our girls (they are 10 & 5). Neither of us wanted to affect them, but we were both stubborn and unwilling to change.  When I was searching the web for answers because it had gotten to the point that we were through, I came across your website and signed up to receive your daily emails.  These were very encouraging and I tried to implement them, but wasn’t really willing to just overlook all our problems and start to be nice (this is not easy when someone is not giving you the same in return).  It was about a month or so when those emails stopped and I really thought I needed to look into it further.  I’m a financial advisor, so the cost concerned me, but the emails had already proved this was different, so I went for it and got my workbook, book and CD’s really quick.  I dove right in because I needed answers and I really took to the heart the information in the CD’s.  I listened to them every day going to and from work (even throughout the day between meetings), then I would do the workbook throughout the day and in the evenings when the kids were in bed.  My husband was curious what I was doing, but never wanted to join me (and that’s OK)…
I have listened to all the CD’s twice (including the bonus CD), I’ve read the book and completed the workbook.  It is only now that I can truly say that I am seeing some changes.  I am going to therapy once a week (again this is by myself) and I am focused on fixing me.  I feel it in my heart, I can see it in my husband’s eyes and my girls are so thankful that our home is no longer hostile.  My husband and I have always been in love, but we have never in our 14 years together put love first.  We still have a long way to go before it’s always first for both of us, but I have patience, Will and hope for our future together.  Thank you, Mort!  Your program is amazing and I look forward to plugging in to continue our progress.

K. Yates

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"Your advice about choices, integrity and moving slowly are incredibly valuable"

Dear Mort,

I can’t tell you how helpful your program has been.  It has made a huge impact in my life.  You have guided me back to the person and wife I always was before the stresses of life, work, raising children, helping aging parents, etc had gotten in the way.  

Your advice is not only good for marriages – good or bad – but it has also given me the wisdom I have always prayed for that allows me to guide those I love through their turmoils. You have made me a stronger and more confident person, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. 

My efforts seem to be having a huge affect on my relationship and things, for the most part, are looking up.  I come to my 24th wedding anniversary this coming month with a bit of apprehension but also with a renewed sense of hope.  I know now that I will be ok with whatever God has in store for us.  I have made good, positive choices, and I have no regrets.

Although I know it is going to take my husband some more time to get over whatever it is that is still keeping him from giving 100% to our marriage, I am willing to keep going on my path.  Life without my husband is simply unfathomable to me. 

Your advice about choices, integrity and moving slowly are incredibly valuable.  But the most important thing I learned is this:  I am not trying to get my husband to fall back in love with me, I am not trying to make this situation go away, I am giving him the space he needs to decide that the vows he took 24 years ago were real and permanent. 
 
Thank you again for your guidance and wisdom.  You have been a blessing during a very dark time.

Sincerely,
Jean M. 

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"Mort has a heart for this, give him your ear"

I found Mort on line when I was in a lot of pain from my husband leaving me. I thought I have to learn something about myself, why this would happen to me again in yet another marriage. Mort helped me think about things in a different way. In some ways what God or Jesus would do and how they would think of marriage and its importance. Evil is in this world and the one thing that is not wanted by evil is two people to be joined by God there is power in loving someone, anyway evil can it will try destroy a marriage. Listening to Mort not only opened my eyes to a different view but also gave me peace I didn't have before just in his voice. If your looking for answers Mort might have some for you if you still have question Mort keeps trying. I know he has heard all our stories over and over again and he has his own but Mort has a heart for this give him your ear.

Tanis R.

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"This program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no where else"

Dear Mort Fertel and Marriage Max,

 

I joined the Marriage Max program a little over two months ago with huge apprehension. The cost seemed very high compared to other web sites cost and my situation seemed hopeless at best. Realizing the Steven Covey Principles were integrated through your teachings got my attention quickly. Steven is a hero of mine. As convincing as that was, it was your own battles you, our teacher, actually went through yourself. That made is personable for me. I first learned that Mort Fertel is an extrodianary man, intelligent, thoughtful and wise. But it is the presense of YOU, the student that makes or brakes your success. Mort gives you work to do, but it is work you WANT to do and have to do…I've learned to love in an action sense, not as a noun. My personal integrity has improved, my work performance went to a new level. My character is still being developed and always will, but I now have the tools to know how. I also have learned that love is a process, not just something that happens, Rather, it's something that you DO. My long term happiness is on the rise because my new found wisdom has been sewn into my fabric of life. I won't take things for granted, I'll have a better marriage, relationship with my kids, my family and my work. There is not one single thing about this program that you don't need.  This program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no where else. One word of warning. If you really don't want to change yourself and your relationships, this is not for you.

 

John

 

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"You helped to put laughter back into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each other again even after we had reason to never trust again."

Dear Mort,

Thank you so much for all you've done over the past 7 weeks by investing your time, personal energy & creative talents into our marriage. You not only helped save our marriage, but you showed us what we were missing in our lives to make our marriage incredible! We know now what it takes to make it work and have realized, it's actually fun & exciting to behave in this alternative manner!  We thank god for leading us to your website & connecting us with you. You are truly blessed with an awesome talent!

7 weeks ago my husband and I were through . We had a huge fight in the car in the M cDonald's parking lot as we were waiting in the drive thru to have our order taken.  Being that there have been many more arguments and close calls to our marriage that have built over the 19 years we've been together, he screamed at me in a manner I've never seen in him before, got out of the car, and told me he had had enough!  He exclaimed we're through, that he was DONE! And he slammed the door in my face. 

With the baby in the back seat and me left in the drive thru, i pulled out of line and to the side of the parking lot and just cried as he started walking up the thru-way away from me.  After finally getting in the car so I could take him to work, We both talked and cried all the way there (30 min) of how I was wrong, he was wrong, still making each other extremely mad.  Hours went by, no phone calls, no emails.  As I waited for his call, email, text message, whatever...I researched marriage counseling online and found your website.  Finally I gave in and I emailed him at work and I told him about you & sent him the link to your site.  I told him I loved him and that I didn't want to end our marriage, no matter how mad we we're and explained that I wanted to give it once last shot. He Instant messaged me on the computer and told me to hold on, he'd check out the website.  He came back and said. He didn't want to spend the money, we didn't have it!  We made the decision that WE WE'RE WORTH IT!, Plus you're  money back guarantee helped to instill in him that if he didn't think it was working, we had nothing to lose.  So he messaged me back and said "Fine. Sign us up."

Within 1 week we had had the most incredible connection. Something I swear we hadn't felt in over 10 years!.....The 2nd week had even more great ideas.  Neither of us was wrong, come to find out!  We we're BOTH just not meeting each other's needs.  I honestly didn't think I was part of the problem, however, This program helped me realize that not only did my husband have a problem that was believe it or not "somewhat easy" to get started to correct but I too had things that we're sabotaging our marriage.  We both put forth the effort 110% because you made it fun and non-threatening, no one was getting blamed, there was no finger pointing!  No matter how wrong one of us was about any particular marital issue, we we're made to take responsibility for ourselves ! You helped to put laughter back into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each other again even after we had reason to never trust again.  I couldn't believe how helpful you could be in the 10 minute laser coaching sessions! Those 10 minutes each week were a new way to rejuvenate last minute problems, you may not have covered yet  & I couldn't believe how much you put behind each persons questions & concerns on the Q&A, you  made everyone's questions have answers that would benefit all of us! I felt like every single teleconference was catered for us like you had hidden camera's within our household all week and then tailored the teleconference for us.  It covered EVERYTHING!.....God has given you such an incredible talent.  You have no idea, how thankful we are that he created you!

Thanks,

DL & JL
Buffalo, NY

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"it helped me to get beyond this mountain of hurt."

 

Hi Mort,

 

I was involved in your Marriage Fitness Program a few months ago. I was in the lone ranger track. At the time I joined I thought, "What am I doing. This is crazy! Now I am joining a bunch of strangers on some online thing!" But I was searching for answers. I was in individual therapy, I was buying books, and my husband and I were separated with no communication and lack of any motivation on either side. I was devastated and had no where to turn. I really felt we were on our way to a divorce. My husband moved out, he was having an affair, and our life was spiraling out of control.

Anyway, after being in your program for almost 7 weeks, you and I had a 10 minute phone conversation and you said something that really helped me break my wall. You said that you had pegged me as someone who was a very capable business person, strong personality, but very hurt and confused. When one has a capable and strong personality they are really thrown for a loop because they are usually in control and now they are so out of control that they can't understand anything that is going on because it makes no sense to them. You said to me, "Nancy, you're RIGHT, your husband has done a horrible thing, something he should not have ever done, he is not communicating with you, you don't know what is going on with him, but are YOU going to be RIGHT and live the rest of your life on your own with your family broken up or are YOU going to do the RIGHT THING and try to save your marriage and your family?"

I think I actually laughed for the first time, believe it or not, but I was so hurt and lonely and confused and you reached through the phone to give me a swift kick in the rear! Here I wanted hugs and sympathy but you knew at that time to shake me up and get to the core of what I needed to do.

I finally realized that I had to find a way to get over the pain and the hurt and the betrayal such an act does to your soul and find someplace to start to heal myself and my family. I was ready at that moment to give it one more try and to really and truly start using some of your methods.

Long story short, after 6 months of separation, little or no communication and being ready to finally file