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"
I feel I can breath again. This was the single most best
choice I have made to help myself and my marriage."
"I really blew
it! I knew I needed to change. The
reality was crystal clear but the path
critical and hard. I started by
acknowledging dysfunctions within and the devastation my
behavior inflicted on my spouse, but what I needed
was functional, expert, proven, solid advice and support from
a trusted and professional outside source that really
cared. Whew, tall order! I
found Marriage Fitness staring at me one day on my
computer. Intrigued, I checked it out and
tried the free email advice for weeks. Just when I needed
that very piece of information, it came, faithfully and right on
target. Who knew? This was right on, what I
needed AND accessible from home, so I
finally just clicked the button. I committed
my efforts to fixing me and stopped waiting for my husband to come
around to what I had found. The best way to help my marriage
was to work on myself and to apply the principles of marriage fitness
to my life. There is great transforming power here
and the guidance comes from a source that lives these
principles daily. I chose the Home Flex Program
because once I decided, I wanted to start immediately and guess
what? There is was the very next day! This
is REAL and I have no doubt I am on the right path for
life. There are answers to hard questions and ways to make
change, not temporary quick fixes but life transforming
changes. I feel I can breath again. This was the
single most best choice I have made to help myself and my
marriage. No matter what my outcome, I have a new
outlook and can love myself again. And guess what else? My
husband IS coming around!"
~KC
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"...the
miracle I prayed for did materialize and
it happened because of you and your Marriage
Fitness program "
Dear
Mort,
Lisa
and I want to thank you, once again, for
giving us such valuable advice.
As I mentione d , my personal goal over
the past 6 months was to somehow find
a resource that would catalyze a miracle
to help us reconcile and restore our marriage
of 32 years. The Marriage Fitness
program together with the insightful
communications you regularly send by email
made all the difference in our lives …
We have more work ahead of us but from
my perspective, the miracle I prayed for
did materialize and it happened because
of you and your Marriage Fitness program.
Thank
you from the bottom of my heart.
Sincerely,
Richard
C
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"He
gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told
me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting"
Dear Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed you asking if your program would work for
my situation. I bought the Marriage Fitness Home-Flex program
out of desperation with the thought, "If this doesn't work at least I
tried." My husband was already looking for a roommate and
telling me who will get what in the divorce. We went to four marital counseling sessions before he said, "I don't know why we are
going, I am done with you." I am not sure why we went either,
we just ended up fighting the whole time. So long story short
I followed your program (in the Lone Ranger Track), signed up for your
emails, and started applying your ideas. There were many days
I felt like why bother, he is done with me, but I kept following the
program. Ten days ago he told me he was leaving. I
almost gave up but didn't. I kept following the
program. Two days ago my husband came home from hiking
(alone). He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either
in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been
acting. He said he is ready to work on our
marriage. I know we are on a long journey now but at least
now we are on that journey together. I know you probably hear
it all the time but you once again saved a marriage that would have
dissolved without you. Thank you so much for all of your
help.
Thanks again,
KS
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"I did the lone ranger track and
within two weeks my husband ended his affair "
Dear
Mort,
I
know you have heard it before, but I want to say it again.... You saved
my marriage. My husband said he "loved me but was not in love
with me anymore". He was having an affair, during a very hard
pregnancy which I later miscarried. I was not very nice when
I was pregnant and I was depressed so he turned to someone
else. Needless to say losing a baby and a marriage in a two
week time-span was unbearable. So I turned to you.
Counseling had been a joke just telling us how to
communicate. Your program told me what to
do. I followed the program exactly. I did the lone
ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair and
"rededicated his life to me".
Thanks
so much,
Lisa Blank
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"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we
didn't do this sooner. "
Dear
Mort,
Thank you for your program. I was driving into my driveway
finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.
Upon arriving home, your program had come as well. Rather
than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a
disk. Long story short, we'll be working this out together,
getting connected, completing your action steps. I can't wait
to continue connecting. After 30 years, I'm only sorry we
didn't do this sooner. Thank you.
Greg Burke
Denver, CO
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"I would strongly recommend this
program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"
Dear mort,
I was reluctant to
begin the lone ranger program. Wondering how I
would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program
alone. Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new
habbits used in your program, it is proven to work. I could
not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my
husband. Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program
with me he felt it would not help. So I did not tell him and
I started the program. After a few weeks, my husband had
commented he seen a change in me. I then took the
opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness
program. He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference
call scheduled and how things are going. Even though he has
not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued
efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our
marriage. I would strongly recommend this program to everyone
who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to
improve how to be a better you!
Thank you Mort for
making us matter...
Sincerely &
God Bless
JoAnn S.
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"I keep pinching myself to
see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly
amazing"
Dear
Mort,
Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered
your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my
marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out
that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a
divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could
say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could
not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it
addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my
husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm
checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to
be true, but I gave it a shot.
I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not
have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected
now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been.
After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night
and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what
was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that
point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really
liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me
touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to
spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last
night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that
we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I
cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to
you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has
changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK
YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!
Sincerely,
Melissa K.
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"Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple"
Mort,
I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was
outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in
detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories
work, but they do!
I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To
do my job I couldn't always attend the Q & A’s live,
but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were
a lifesaver.
Keep up the good work
Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois
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"Mort gives you the tools you need to
rebuild your relationship"
It is
certain that his program works.
When we started the program, we only did it
to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the
marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was
desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point,
started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There
was no intimacy at all.
Mort's program stopped the battles and
taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt
like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we
barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha
t s trength.
We both gained new insight to who we were
individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we
were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's
need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed
to grow.
Our children have learned that marriage is
not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us.
As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first
time in yrs the lines of marriage communication are open so we can solve
situations rationally.
Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild
your relationship. Thanks so much mort.
Justin
and Jan C.
Elgin , SC
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Hi.
I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office
all the time and ask, “Does this program really
work?” Well, it's easy for me to say
“yes” because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other
assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received
all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut
and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how
these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr.
Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families
back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you
one day. Good luck!
"I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT
TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS"
Dear Mort,
MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES
IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND
HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY
(OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO
CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE
THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED
TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS
LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN
BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS!
THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL
COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK
WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME
TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD
BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO
THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH
BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF
NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR
HELP.
SINCERELY,
KARIN SHELDON
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"Your
program had a great impact not only on
my marriage, but also improved me as an
individual..."

Dear
Mort,
I
was thinking day after day in order to
find proper words to appreciate you for
the new window which you opened in my
life. While I am in the beginning of reconciling
my marriage, but your program had a great
impact not only on my marriage, but also
improved me as an individual and I see
its effect in my work as well. At the
beginning, I was wondering if your program
will apply to my life since I am from
middle east with different culture, but
now I believe that the truth is truth
and will apply in each and every case.
God
bless you.
Best
Regards
Jaber
"Marriage
Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required
reading before getting married.
It is really that powerful!"
I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track
that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and
family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort
Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching
for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .
Mort taught me how to transform my perception of
love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an
active process of consistently giving in small ways among other
good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is
something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge
difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.
It is really hard for a person to understand how
dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in.
Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to
Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't
hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.
I still have work to do to win back my obstinate
wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program
I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my
wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency
in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely
key but without his Q&A sessions
and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.
Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible
program that should be required reading in high school or at least
before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have
found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so
compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other
product or person's services in my entire life.
Stephen B.
Fenwick, ON Canada
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" After going through your program we
are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team."
Dear Mr. Fertel,
Prior to
starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were
divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and
pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my
own emotional neglect, not to mention the years of financial distress,
the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse
after all this we thought that it was over.
I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for
something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it
hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the
first week, things changed. After going through your program we are
closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very
much for your great program, it saved us and our family.
T.F.
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"WE have both seen
improvement"
Although my husband
initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it,
and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the
program (not just in "theory" but in practice). We are just
now starting to gather momentum. When Jim and I drive to work
he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car,
we take a CD of Mort's to listen to. Mort is right, IT IS NOT
EASY. But we are not giving up. WE have both seen
improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get
the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.
Bonnie and Jim R.
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"We
are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our
searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"
Dear Mort,
If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's
hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with
a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By
some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband
RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we
both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true
love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are
no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our
searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to
be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been
closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we
are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope
for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling:
Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold
river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for
somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the
light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape
doom. From GP and JG
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"Marriage
fitness is a working miracle for us"
Hi Mort:
I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage
Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.
We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of
issues mostly about our blended families. We even been
seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were
at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our
energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it
apart.
Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been
the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection
and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have
been a blessing to us and our marriage!
Wes & Irma

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"... and we have slowly recovered the
remnants of a lost family"
Good morning Mort,
I want you to know we would be honored to
serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our
marriage has been saved.
I had the opportunity to speak with you on
the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was
destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on
Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and
betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have
learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage
Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family.
My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.
I too... like many others... owe you and
your wife a debt of gratitude.
God Bless!
MAJ Sven
O.
ADC
Section Chief, RAOC
AZ Army
National Guard
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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your
emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it
was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do.
Thanks)
(Jennifer: Yes!
Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people!
Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)
"We
credit you for helping save our marriage
every
chance we get!"


Dear
Mort,
We
are 2 of your success stories and we credit
you for helping save our marriage every
chance we get!
We've
continued in the Marriage Fitness program
and thank you from the bottom of our hearts
for your great work. We were married 28
years, separated 18 months, worked your
program 6 of those months, had phone sessions
with you, and now are back under the same
roof for three months. It isn't easy,
but we are determined to make our love
work for us.
We
just had to invite you to the party, knowing
you can't be here, but you get positive
feedback!
THANK
YOU MORT!
Penny
and Jeff Mazin
"After
the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and
thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back"
In all the years that we have been together I can
honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of
roommates.
We just couldn't understand where things went
wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship
because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together,
we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it,
even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments
that were no longer.
I found Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I
was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to
understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us
find our way back to falling in love with each other again.
No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because
one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a
difference, but we started and continued working with the program after
four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things
again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day
we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we
don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .
Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there
when we were searching for that help.

Peter
& Ruby – Long Beach, CA.
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"You have helped [my husband] and
myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage
that we both want to last forever. "
Dear Mort,
I just wanted to write you and tell you
that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage
counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.
I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't
getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband
whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is
still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get
over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last
forever.
Thank you,
M.S. and J.M.
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"Our marriage has never been better.
I am so happy and grateful that I received your
advice..."
From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .
Dear Mort,
I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful
reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are
undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.
I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of
applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort,
my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real
communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been
better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and
that it has really worked.
To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer,
because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife
did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself
and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen.
Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in
Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty
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"I
wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I
followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn
the
skills you advocate in your program."
Dear Mort,
I wanted to thank you for your program and your
support during our 1 on 1session. Just wanted you to know
that my husband and I are getting back
together. It has been a long road and at
one point I almost gave up and started to move on with my life without
him. Funny how that letting go was
just what he needed to find me again.
Anyways, we are making plans for our future and I will continue with
your plugged in sessions since they have become
so valuable to me. To be honest I wasn't
sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed
your advice and gave myself the time to learn
the skills you advocate in your program.
Without that, I may have been hurtful and cruel, behaviours that
benefit no one. Thankfully I was able to stay loving to my
husband throughout our difficulties and now I can see that our
relationship will be stronger for it.
Thank you for
being there.
Melody M.
Alberta Canada
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"I
just wanted you to know that everything
has turned 180 degrees"
Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:05 AM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: God and Your program are awesome
I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your
suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery.
I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from
“I love you but I'm not in love with you and my wife wanting
a separation to see below:
- Last night my wife bought me flowers and
double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)
-
She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had
not contributed her share to the relationship
-
She told me I was a wonderful man
-
She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to
her
Is God not awesome!!!!!
Thank you for everything.
If you ever need a testimony let me know!
T.E.
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"
I cant believe it was as simple as it really was. "
Mort,
Having recently
completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for
more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule
and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the
quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to
communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.
To
have our teenage kids advise us that we're "creeping them
out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving each
other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a date"), we
must be doing something right.
Celebrating our 20th
wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning,
considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up
to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once
had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple
as it really was.
Heartfelt thanks.
Tom & Lil
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"My
husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary …
thanks to this program. "
First and foremost Thank god for Mr.
Fertel because his program was exactly what I needed! This program was
a last resort for me because I had done the talking and begging with my
husband and it was not working. I was not reaching him. I sign
up on The Lone Ranger Track as a last resort. At first, I was
skeptical because I had never done anything like this before and did
not believe this could really work. Once I read through the book and
listen to audios I realized where I was going wrong and that I was not
the only person going through this. I started implementing Mr.
Fertel's concepts and advice, with great difficulty. I had
zero hope, out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I
began to see a slow change in my husband and myself.
My husband and I have just celebrated
our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 … thanks to this
program. I have and still am implementing the process with my
husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him
see me as an exceptional wife. I look forward to reviewing what you
have taught me everyday and to make that loving close connection with
my husband. I can't thank you enough. THANK YOU THANK YOU!!
Forever grateful,
Lillian H.
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"In less than a week my husband was
looking thru the material and willing to listen to the
CD's."
Dear
Mort,
I
would like to first commend you on your patients, understanding, and
clarity. I was looking for the ultimate answer to my problem marriage. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I
started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD
and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into
motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material
and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but
you did it.
Your
program is a no brainer if you just think about it…the
CD's explain in full color what we have been doing
to each other. I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can
work together again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes
the tv doesn't even get turned on. I thank God every day that
I found you. It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives
forever. Thanks again.
Sincerely,
Pam
W.
P.S.
My husband even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even
folded the clothes. BIG STEP.
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"Thank
you for being a shining example of
excellence and integrity."
Dear Mort,
I just want to
say thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wisdom and
straightforwardness. Your answer lifted a huge weight off of
my heart. I asked you about my husband watching pornography
and feeling uncomfortable that he still watches it especially after
he'd tried several times in the past to get me interested in engaging
in sex with other people, etc. I just want to relate to you
that previous counselors we've had would say things like its ok to
fantasize about other people, it's harmless. I never felt
this was ok, but felt outnumbered when a respected
female counselor sided with my husband and told me that it was healthy
to fantasize about other people... I started feeling that
maybe I wasn't being open-minded enough. I was so pleased to
hear you say that its not something that I need to accept and that this
is one area that you don't relate to the average person in - that
pornography doesn't have a place in any marriage. Thank you
so much. I know that I have the right to feel and believe
what I want regardless of what other people may think and believe, but
it really is nice to know there is someone out there whose opinion I
respect that also feels this way. It gives me strength and it
just validates for me even more that I've found the right
resource in you and the Marriage Fitness
program. Thank you for being a shining example of excellence
and integrity. I appreciate so much the work you are doing.
Z.B.
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"It
is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore
love in your marriage, even if you're on
the brink of divorce (as we were)."
The Marriage Fitness program
by Mort Fertel has been a
truly transformative experience. If you are
looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your
marriage all that you knew it could be - look no
further. It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he
can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink
of divorce (as we were). This program has even
inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort
and to our journey to marital success:
Together
There once was a couple named Robyn
and Jeff
Their souls knew each other
before they ever met.
They walked down the road of life's
path
On their way from a distant and
troubled past...
They started along their journey
together and
Somehow lost their way - But with
Mort, love and
Pat ience they began a whole new
day...
In making their dreams they
always knew
Together - would come true...
And so now the journey of healing
begins
Back to the path of love where their
souls
Have always been...Together!"
Thank you Mort!!
Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski
- Members of The Marriage Fitness
Program.
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" Thank you Mort Fertel !!!"
Hello Mr. Fertel,
Your program has helped the two of us so
much we wanted to thank you. We went from apartment hunting
and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life
together all because of your program. Thank you Mort Fertel
!!!
Marianne
and Scott B.
Cherry Hill
, NJ
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"
I am blown away with how far we have
come in just 10 weeks. "
Mort,
I'm at a loss for words. How do you thank
someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this
computer screen and give you a big hug (not that you'd let me, LOL).
Mort, you didn't just help our marriage but
you changed our whole family. We've been married for 15 years, have
four children and were on the brink of divorce. The emotional pain I
had inside was so bad it was almost a physical pain. The worst part is
that you can't go through pain like that without it having an effect on
your children. We tried to shield them as much as possible, but they
knew something was wrong. To think of what we were putting them through
emotionally, breaks my heart.
We too, tried everything from traditional marriage counceling to Venus and Mars and everything in between.
Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our problems were
just too big to overcome.
Then we found you. Mort, you honestly were
our last ditch effort. I personally thought it was too much money to
spend but you offered a money back guarantee and I had full intentions
on collecting it. My husband and I decided to give your program a try
but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't work and I continued to
make plans for a new life without my husband. Then something happened.
Not overnight, but it happened. I'm not even 100% sure of what it was,
but it was working. I am blown away with how far we have come in just
10 weeks. Everything is different. My husband and I are more in love
now than we were on our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn' t s tand
being in the same room with him and today I know with all my heart that
we will be together forever. Divorce will never be an option for us.
Were gonna make it.
I've heard i t s aid that people don't
change. What a bold faced lie. My husband was the mos t s tubborn
person I knew. He hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every
single program we ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once
he wasn't being blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to
create an environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You
totally impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in
15 years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was
working. He did a complete 180. We both did.
Knowing what I know now, I would have paid a
million dollars for this program and I can't believe you charge so
little for what you offer. You literally have every base covered and I
know you put your heart and soul into it. This is not just a profession
for you. It's not about making a buck. You have a God given gift and
you're changing lives.
A few months ago I asked God for help. I
didn't know what to do; there was nothing left to try so I left it in
his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God, and thank you Mort.
Michelle
Vancouver ,
BC
P.S. Remember that hug I mentioned earlier?
When you go home tonight, please give it to your wife. Tell her that
Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks for helping you to
become the man that you are. She should know tha t s he played a huge
role in saving a family she doesn't even know.
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"...If
you want to save your marriage, he's the
ONLY person who can help you do it."

"I am only in Phase 5 of your
program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your
invaluable information has found a place in my
heart."
Mr. Fertel,
Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and
your program.
Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our
marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a
matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional
counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the
therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to
leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the
internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be
invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.
Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus
Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on
business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have
you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on
the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally
an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending
divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further
personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave
me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply
trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was
the right path to follow.
I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet
one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed
daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to
hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all
whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that
amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop
the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love
First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out",
my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and
willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young
girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't
know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a
drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both
down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to
me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr.
Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging
in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to
transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night
my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of
each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She
gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets
his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his
son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her
son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They
call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to
work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"
I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all
that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my
heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to
connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or
conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true
unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I
made a covenant with God to love forever.
It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those
couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to
experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or
as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope
this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital
redemption.
Sincerely Grant
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"[My
husband] is arranging his whole life to make time for
the program… we are closer and more involved in
each other's lives than we EVER have been."
Hi Mort,
Durward and I are excited and pleased
with the program, and I am SO impressed with Durward's attitude, AND
his complete co operation with attending the sessions.
He gave up ANY contact with the woman
with whom he was having the affair, and has had NO contact of any sort
with her since Dec. 22nd, when he told her that he would not
contact her, and asked her NOT to contact him.
Durward is arranging his whole life to
make time for the program… We are closer and more
involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been. Our
sex life is more deep and frequent and satisfying than it has been
since the first days of our marriage. And for the FIRST time EVER,
Durward seems to be awake and aware of the life keeping services I have
always provided, and which he always took for granted. I am stunned by
the wonderful things he has done. He is headed home from California ,
and will be here Monday, and BOTH of us are missing each other, and can
hardly wait to see one another. Thank you for helping us.
Barbara Anne
Ashley
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"Your program is so versatile it
allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the
privacy of their own home."
Hi Mort.
It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my
husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from
different back grounds and had different expectations from one another
which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't
getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other.
Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense,
the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and
the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is
not enough when there is so much to resolve.
One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible
credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work
with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven
track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice-
needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would
have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so
versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of
it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio
tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal
dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your
program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when
something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable
than the actual dollars spent.
What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your
program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and
wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s
background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also
sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to
treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a
beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship
habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new
beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate
in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be
generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for
healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle
so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you
exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your
help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program
are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I
will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of
love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each
other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only
dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of
hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.
Valerie Kemmer
I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to
him. Here are his words:
"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things
for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30
years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer
All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you
can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is
struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to
us. VK
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"Now
I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my
husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling
paranoid, foolish or obligated..."
Mort Fertel is a man
blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and has chosen to
share with the world. He is compassionate, versatile, humble,
real and wise.
When I
first purchased the program I was desperate for help but I knew just
anything would not work. Mort's approaches are so none
offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and
inspirations. I adore how Mort approaches the answers with
out history; that way you know the answer is not tainted or miss guided
in the results. And that is exactly what you get RESULTS . My
husband is immature, stubborn, insensitive, etc (human). My
husband is also spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what
he wants, focused, etc (perfect man for me). And I truly
believe without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for
me. We both came from single parent home and
obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to
function. With three girls there love life was
looking doomed. But now we all have hope for
tomorrow.
I was living in a TV
Romance Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called
Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help and What Am I Doing
Wrong; What the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a
promise of never ending drama. Now I live in a world were I
can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses,
smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or
obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated
sources. I can now freely give and appreciate everything I
receive. And believe me my husband is the type of man that
only listens to other men. No matter what they
said. If a man told him eating grass was manly he
would want it for dinner every night. So by the grace of God
I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge
impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and
genuine concern (Mort). While also teach me how to
love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get
a lot more. This program pulled
me back from legal separations. I was going to
court in the morning and listening to Mort in the evening and then one
morning I dismissed everything (a breakthrough). Of
course my marriage is not perfect yet but that is the great thing
because now we have so much to look forward to and strive
for. LOVE is really obtainable and really can be kept for a
life time. I would say to anybody that wants to
keep there marriage or are not sure if you want to be married you owe
yourself the opportunity to try this program. If you know you
are going to lose you spouse because of your mistakes and/or theirs why
not try it. Worst case scenario you are able to walk from
your marriage knowing you did all you can do to be the best spouse you
can be if you do everything Mort asks you to do.
T.
Mitchell
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"While each marital situation is different,
re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort
teaches them well"
What meant the most to us was that Mort has been
through a difficul t s ituation in his own marriage and practices the
techniques he teaches. They worked…and i t s hows
in the way he talks about his own marriage.
It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite
another when someone has walked in your shoes. While each marital
situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal
principles and Mort teaches them well. I highly recommend his program
for any marriage in need of an awakening.
ST in Altanta
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"Here
is hope for all you lone rangers out there..."

"My
husband even passed me a compliment "
Dear
Mort: I joined as the Lone Ranger because I felt I needed to
do something .. .
I didn't realize what I was getting myself into but became
addictive after reading your daily emails. The
teleconferences, books, cds are of the utmost quality. I
found myself listening to the teleconferences over and over at the
office instead of the local radio station. While driving,
your cd has been plugged in. The workbook
replaced Dr. Phil McGraw. I'm achieving positive results … with the
tools that you have made available …
After seven weeks, I feel
great! My husband even passed a compliment "Wow you look
great! Is that a new outfit" I just said "Thanks, I
feel like I look...great!". Inside joke, I've had the outfit
for years and he never acknowledged it before but what's inside the
outfit is different! I feel better now than I felt prior to
taking your course. Mort, your sincere approach is so felt
when listening to these conferences. For seven weeks, you've
been my best friend. I thank you for you! I will be
continuing with your next program. Many thanks-Vicki M. , Petaluma,
California
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"This
program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if
you are not married yet"
You won't find a better Marriage counseling program
for the money anywhere.
This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help
any relationship, even if you are not married yet. The reason is this
program comes from the heart of someone who understands loss and the
value of relationshiips, someone who is sincere and genuinely cares
about the people he is tring to help.
John B.
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"You have turned me and my life
around."
Dear Mort,
I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as
a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my
life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice.
My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!
Julia Z.
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"Things now are on the mend..."
I never
imagined myself resorting to an internet self help program. But I tried
everything else with my failing marriage and Mort's program seemed
promising. I realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits that were killing
my relationship and I was totally pushing my husband
away. Things now are on the mend and on the upswing and my relationship
is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive.
VBL
New York
City
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"[Mort] gave us the proper
guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction"
Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt
that we had no other options and the Divorce process was already
started. He gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in
the right direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our
Marriage.
B.O.
New Jersey
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"...then it seemed I found an answer
to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel"
My husband left me 5 ½ months ago
after being very unhappy in our marriage for many years. He said I was
a good person and friend but that he didn't love me anymore. We have
been married for 17 years and like all marriages there were the ups and
downs.
Needless to say, this has been the most
devastating experience of my life. We have two beautiful children, 14
and 11, and it has been very difficult on them as well. My husband has
always a wonderful father and husband but over the years, he started to
work more and more and withdraw emotionally from me. We did not take
the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me now we were just
roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said because sometimes
roommates don't like each other and he still considers me a friend.
I desperately tried to search for answers
and solutions to this horrible situation. For the first three months I
hardly talked to him; I was in so much pain. He, on the other hand,
still wanted to help out with the house chores like shovelling snow,
helping with the children and so on. It was very painful for me to be
near him so I rejected any help at all. I knew I couldn't go for too
much longer as it was affecting my whole life, my work, and my
children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on
the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web site which said I
could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness. I thought it
couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some wonderful and
inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of reconciliation
because my husband did not want that.
By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly
felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel
alone. I became interested in trying his boot camp as a Long Ranger. I
felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked the money back guarantee if he
couldn't help me. I felt that I could always get my money back. It
didn't take long for me to realize that I was receiving help
immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions to talk personally
with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had changed and was
different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain that he has
gone through and it was a very moving experience for both of us.
I listen to tapes everyday to and from work
and every time I drive anywhere. …we are talking and taking
part in family activities together. We went to play pool for the first
time ever this past Friday night and it was fun. Whenever I get
impatient and want things to move faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's
words. I am speaking to my husband from a place deep in my heart for
perhaps the very first time in our married life. My husband hugs me
when he leaves from our visits and his heart is slowly opening up to me
again.
All of this would not have been possible,
had I not found Mr. Fertel's program. Everything makes so much sense
that I cannot get enough of this help.
Thank you, Mort. I thank God I found you.
Sincerely,
Nelda
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"I
went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"
We have been married 42 years, but after my husband
retired and we spent more time together, our home
became a battleground. My husband seemed to be more
satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so
I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's
suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love
with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the
program, he responded so positively that the difference in our
relationship is almost unbelievable. Now I believe that by
following through with Mort's program our "golden
years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by
arguments, resentments and anger..
Gillian S .
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"I
have been to traditional therapy before and
never have I seen so much offered!"
Hi Mort,
I have found your program to be most helpful
for the following reasons:
1. You can participate at your own pace in
the privacy of your own home.
2. Your personal and professional experience
is radiant and gets results.
3. You're very well versed with
intercultural barriers and traditions because you believe that
ultimately "LOVE" is spoken in only one language!
4. You provide tools that work and that can
be used immediately.
5. Your program is unique in that it is
SAFE, provocative, inspiring, and inspires and best of all it gives you
tools to GROW.
I have been to traditional therapy before
and never have I seen so much offered!
Thank you.
Sheela K.
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"Our
house is a home once again but a better
one than before"
Hello Mort,
I don't know if you'll be reading this or if your very nice assistant
will.(Sorry, I forgot her name)
I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD news since I'm sure you like to
hear about marriages that have been saved. My husband Curt had wanted a
separation, got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation. Two months
to the day before I could have been receiving divorce papers from his
lawyer, Curt asked to move back home instead.
Our house is a home once again but a better one than before.
Communication is more open, honest and we speak and listen lovingly to
each other. What a testimony of God's faithfulness for us, our children
and others who watched us through the past year's storm! You can even
find us all together every Sunday at church! (A new church that is
uplifting and offers hope instead of warnings of fire and brimstone).
I still have notes from our discussions. Looking back, many suggestions
you made were just what our relationship needed.
Thank you again for your encouraging words.
Sincerely, a survivor and new person,
Samia B
Charlotte, NC
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"Within less than three weeks he
broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our
relationship"
Dear Mort,
One year ago I contacted you via your web site for help. My marriage
had been marginal to say the least for several years. My husband told
me the day before Thanksgiving that he didn't love me any more and
thought I should move into our vacation house in another state. He was
sure I would be happier there. I was in such horrific shock I just did
what he asked. Once there I realized this was not what I wanted and I
was going to do everything I could to save our marriage of 32 years. To
add to the pain I discovered the day after Christmas he was seeing an
old High School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately came back home.
I had to give it one more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness program
in the lone ranger track and began doing the things your program
suggested. Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the
girlfriend and began working on our relationship. He refused to go to
any kind of counseling, so I just continued by myself in the Lone
Ranger Track. As I worked the program he seemed to respond in kind and
it wasn't long before things were better than ever.
Thank You Mort!
This past year has been the best year of our entire relationship. I
would recommend this program to anyone who is having problems in their
marriage.
It works!!!!!!!!!
Linda
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"I purchased Mort's program as a Lone
Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together my shattered
life."
As Mort Fertel would say "listen
carefully.”
I was at
a total loss in my marriage…spinning without a compass. My
wife said she wanted out but I wanted to save the marriage. I could
hardly function on a daily basis because of the stress. I t s eemed
like my whole world was crumbling at the foundation and I was watching
it fall apart. I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the
tools I needed to put back together my shattered life. His writings and
talks helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to the kind of attitude
I knew I needed to succeed in my situation.
Daniel
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"Thank you for being there for me."
Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger
Track. Your program is outstanding and truly a god sent for me. I owe
it all to Mort! Thank you for being there for me. You are the best.
Keep up the great work that you are doing everyday.
DMK
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"Just like that, he moved back in,
started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date
night --- I see a beautiful future again!"
Please pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded
to say that after working the program…my husband caved and
said he's seen how amazing I still am and it's always been me that he
wanted. Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves
me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful
future again!
Thank you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional
therapy!
Best,
Liz
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"Once I started the program, my anger
began to soften."
Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's
Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.
During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom
child, my husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the
family together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced
divorce with four kids under the age of 10!
I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and
decided to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope,
as I thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel
love toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, trying to decide when to divorce,
but I did this program as a last resort jus t s o that I could say that
I "tried.”
Once I started the program, my anger began
to soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding,
rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!
Thank you, Mort!!
A.P.
Illinois
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" Your program has made me a new man"
Hi Mort
Your program has made me a new man...and in return
feeling so much better we still have work to do but it is amazing how
you feel When you let go of past stuff I'm doing this as a lone ranger
and I'm having a positive affect on my wife thanks Mort I've told so
many people to go to your web site.
Chris W.
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"
Your
insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't
dwell on either
communication
skills or hashing out the past."
Hi Mort,
I recently ordered
and received your program. My husband and I are amazed at
your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long road trips.
Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that
doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the
past. We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge
change in our relationship after implementing some of your
ideas!
Thank you,
Mort. We will definitely recommend your course to friends and
family who are struggling with their marriages. It is the
best we have found.
Best regards,
Sandra L. H.
Mammoth
Lakes , CA 93546
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"Between
our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the first three steps
of the program, we quickly got back
on track and remain so."
Mort,
Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill and I did not completely make
it through all the program; we did complete all the tele conferences
and the Q&A's and basically got through step 3 of the 4 part
program. Our Notebook suffered as during the last 2 weeks of our
program Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer so our focus
completely changed.
The program did wonders and continues to do wonders. We fixed what we
had broken due to lack of focus on each other and continue to practice
everything we learned.
The program was fantastic as I could not - without your Q&A's
make Bill understand what he was doing wrong without appearing
extremely selfish. By the timie I received the program, I thought I was
going crazy, then I went through all th Q&A's looking for
answers and found them. I marked the one's he should difenetely listen
to and explained that if these do not address our problems, nothing
will. Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the
first three steps of the program, we quickly got back on track and
remain so.
Now to get through our next test! Thanks a million times over for
getting us on the right track and for your help.
Natty & Bill B.
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"You have taught me the values and
principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want."
September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial
Dear Mr. Fertel,
Your Marriage Fitness program was absolutely phenomenal.
First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give
testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what
you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now
look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and
realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and
principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My
life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to
progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the
eyes of God as well.
Thank you for everything!
Anthony Schiro
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"Every method [Mort] suggested was
helpful. "
I would recommend this program to anyone who
want to enrich their marriage and especially if they are having marital
problems. Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital
problems. Every method he suggested was helpful. This program was hard
but very useful. It is a whole new way of looking at things.
I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.
Barbara Harrison
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" ...renewed marriage, love affair,
romance, intimacy, etc"
Mr. Fertel,
I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.
Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage.
After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with
problems, etc., we were very tired.
I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the
marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a
change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the
pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.
We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the
other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective,
not providing any real advice.
I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at
then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to
separate.
The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our
honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same
fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as
I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she
wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I
would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't
allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the
Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings
were real.
We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other
than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a
great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair,
romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the
future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and
agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.
I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation
would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at
this point.
I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if
someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that
not much more could be done.
I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they
are learning what we have...
Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and
look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.
D. Scott Martin
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"Mort
taught me how to single-handedly
save my marriage."
Mort,
I would be more than happy to share my testimonial! Hope it helps, I
would like my privacy protected so I will sign my testimonial with
initials.
I discovered my husband was having an affair after 18 years of
marriage. I confronted him about it and he denied it. Even after I gave
him proof of the affair he still denied it. The more I spied on him,
the more I confronted him, the more I confronted him,the more defensive
he would get! I had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he own up to the
affair and end it???
I asked him to end the affair and he said he did, I later found out
that he was lying, he had not ended the affair. I asked him to leave
our home but he refused. I told him that if he did not end the affair I
would file for divorce. The affair continued! I did not know what to
do!!! I prayed alot.
I finally got a lawyer and had the initial paperwork completed. I was
devastated because I loved my husband and even with this affair going
on he said he loved me and did not want a divorce. A divorce was the
last thing I wanted.
I searched the internet for help. I prayed for guidance, I came across
"Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed up for his emails first. I
wanted to make sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and they did.
Mort taught me how to re become a woman of moral character. He was
encouraging, hard at times and motivating. I thought prior to the
affair my marriage was save and in a good place but after going through
the homework assignments I found many opportunities to first, fix
myself and second, to restore my marriage. My husband and I have good
days and bad days but things are much better because of the boot camp.
I was in the Lone Ranger Track and at first I did not understand why I
had to change if I was not the one having the affair! Mort taught me
how to single-handedly save my marriage. I never thought I could do it,
but I did.
Thanks Mort,
TS
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"The
way I feel everyday now,
could never happened with out you."
Hi Mort,
I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth
every penny and more.
My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left.
We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling,
instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was
an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never
happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so
much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me
growing.
Thank you
Malissa Olveda
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"I
hope that this letter will help others to find that
extra effort to purchase your course"
Mort,
I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared
into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me
into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it
get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get
it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I
really wish I could have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal
and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear
necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I
hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to
purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and
I've lost all.
I held dear.
Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio
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"There's a much better energy in our
household."
Dear Mort,
The minute I found your website I knew that
it was what I was looking for, yet it took me several more months to
sign up for the program.
My husband and I have tried all the usual
methods to "fix" our marriage – marriage counseling, (with
some very good compassionate and expensive counselors,) communication
techniques, Free Online Marriage Counseling, reading books and listening to tapes on Mars and Venus,
etc) and very little changed in our marriage except that our
dissatisfaction level with each other increased. I think both of us had
basically decided to do time in our marriage for our daughter's sake
and just ignore each other as much as we could. We had come close to
divorce several times over the seven years we've been married.
The tools
and insights you have shared have changed my life. I started thinking
there's got to be something that will work for my marriage - I just
haven't found it yet. Well I
finally
found "it" - Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness.
I
jokingly thought to myself when I started your program - this will be
my summer of love. Now I am seeing how it is possible to make this a
lifetime of love. There's a much better energy in our household. Thank
you and your wife for sharing this life-saving information.
Sincerely,
Zoe Banks
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"I followed your lone ranger program
and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me"
Dear Mort,
I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.
Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I
followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me
that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program
herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after
that she will want to do the program with me.
Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of
prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be
restored.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho
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"THANK YOU for our second chance! "
Hi Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you know that my husband and I have
reconciled. I owe everything to you and your program. I did the lone
ranger track and with sharing things with my husband we are more in
tuned to each other than we ever were---even when we were dating. I
learned a lot about myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect. I'm also
doing your plug in program and WE are working real hard at our
marriage. THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.
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"We have the soul mate love
that we never had before! Mort is the real thing! "
Rick and I were separated and headed for divorce
this past November. Rick held strong to the possiblity of
reconciliation in our marriage. I felt that it was time to
give up, but still agreed to go to a marriage counselor here in our
community. He was kind, but we only focused on our problems
in every session. Rick had researched online some other
possible methods of help for our marriage. He found a website
and began receiving emails from Mort Fertel. Rick asked me to
join him in a "Tele conference Marriage Boot Camp" led by Mort
Fertel. This opportunity gave us a marriage which is better
than when we first said "I do" 21 years ago. We are having
the time of our lives. Before Mort, we were two people living
in the same home. We are both so happy to have each other and
our Church pastor used us as his example Easter Sunday. He
said we look like teenagers giving each other affection and attention
every day. I have shared the CD's with other friends in need
and they are so thankful for the gift. We are firm believers
that with Mort Fertel, any marriage can not only be saved, but made
better than ever before. We have the soul mate love that we
never had before! Mort is the real thing!
Thank you Mort Fertel for your guidance and support of our
family. We just came back from a ski trip in Colorado as a
family. There is no other greater feeling than to have your
family together and love your spouse as much as I love Rick.
-Suzanne A.
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"...really transformed my marriage
and now my wife and I are better connected with each other"
Dear Mort
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for
the valuable lessons. I was on the Lone Ranger Track, the instructions
really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better
connected with each other which is the key element in a happy
marriage. Minor things still remain and we are working on them.
I believe Marriage Fitness is a very effective
program .. .
And the best part is that most of the time what appears to be a problem
in life turns out to be a very positive thing.
Marriage Fitness Program provided that it is based
on strong belief in God, is very helpful in repairing the damage to
emotional feelings through misunderstanding or ignoring your spouse' s
needs as the closest person to you.
Yours truly
K.C.
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"My wife has moved back home 2 weeks
ago, and we are heading in a better direction. "
My wife moved out in April and wanted a divorce:
married 18+ years: wasn't like I didn't see it
coming
In June, my 15 year old son left me this note one
morning:
Dad:
Now that you are reading this, I might be on my way
to go skating, but I felt like I needed to remind you
that the measure of a man is not how he conducts
himself when life is good, but rather how he is when life is hell.
I love you and always will. We will get through
this.
Much love,
Jake
I knew I need professional help if I was to be the
man he needed to see, and I needed to be.
The Old Testament says" God hates
divorce".
I broke that down:
God: the greatest power in the universe
Hates: the worst emotion I can imagine
Divorce: The end of a marriage, and the end of a
family, as I have known it.
I figures if He hates, it, He would make a
way OUT of it.
A lot of prayers and a lot of
fasting by others changed her attitudes.
A lot of prayers and Marriage Fitness
changed mine.
My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are
heading in a better direction.
My son reminded me that when
life is hell: still do the right thing!
There is a lot of marriage "fixing" info out
there;
Your's caught my eye when you explained " the best
thing you can give your children is a great marriage"
I'd say "thanks" but that would be not nearly
sufficient.
Neil
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"...the best thing we ever did"
The
marriage fitness program is the best thing we ever did and while we
realize we will never stop going through the marriage renewal process
we credit our current happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.
Sincerely,
T & C
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"You
have taught us how to reconnect and rekindle our relationship and we
are grateful for that."
Dear Mort,
It was amazing
how, from the very beginning of reading your website, ordering
and receiving Marriage Fitness materials, participating in the boot
camp program, hearing all that you had to say, participating in the Q
& A's, reading everything that we read, and doing the
exercises in the work book, pertained to exactly what we have
gone through and are currently going
through. Brian described it like "Mort was
reading my mind"!
We tried
a few sessions of marriage counseling about 4 years ago and it
was as you described. We came out angrier than we went in and
at that time the decision was made that counseling wasn't for
us. We have struggled tremendously for these
last 4 years, trying to do the best that we knew how
to do with some improvement, until we came to the "final
straw" in July of 2007. This, as far as Lisa was concerned,
was the breaking point and she was thinking divorce was the only
answer.
In July of 2007, we
reached out to the Internet and found your program. What a
God send! Through Marriage Fitness, you helped
us remember that we do have a deep passionate love for each
other. We just needed to figure out how
to find that lost love and make it evident to each other
again. We lost our "connection" and we needed to
learn to re-connect once again. In our 23 years of marriage,
we had 13 moves in a 17 year span, job
changes, raising children, both of us traveling with
our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc. We were unable to
show our love for each other in an effective manor any
longer. Over time, this pushed us further and further
apart.
We thank you so much
for your program as it has shown us how to get back to where we were
before "Life" got in the way.
Mort, we can't thank
you enough for the hard work and effort which you have put
into your program. You have taught us how to reconnect and
rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for
that. We look forward to a long and healthy
relationship in our marriage and a long relationship with
Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness program.
Sincerely,
Brian & Lisa
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"We are getting there..."
My husband and I; everything we did got on
each other's nerves. Just the sight of him made me mad. We decided to
get a divorce and we were waiting for the right time to tell the
children.
As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew that I didn't want the
typical counseling, dredging through the past -- because I know that it
will always be there, but the fact of the matter is you can't change it
and it really doesn't help to muddle through it over and over and try
to change your feelings about it.
I can't tell you how much it meant to us to have a guideline through it
all, we started changing our behavior. My husband's changes started
immediately. My changes have been and still are developing much slower.
We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.
Shannon and Greg
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"
I am going to make it! And I am confident
that my marriage will too. "
Hi Mort,
Although I haven't taken any opportunity to personally contact you, use
any of my one-on-ones or dial in live to the tele-seminars, you are
truly a HUGE part of my every day life! I listen to you every morning
and every afternoon on my 45 minutes commute! I have signed up for the
after program, and will continue to stay plugged in. I am beginning to
see the positive response from the love of my life. I am in this for
the long haul and I am doing what I am doing for a life change - not a
quick fix to my marriage. I understand everything you say, ask of me
and believe in your concept. I do worry sometimes about being a doormat
but I am slowly getting some great responses back from my love and I
feel this door mat feeling will pass. I am committed for a year, as I
change my ways and look to see the positive and at the end of the day,
I will know I did the right thing - and at the end of the day - that is
all I have, right?
I have never spoken to you, or interacted with you, but I feel very
close to you and your world! Thank you for the gifts you have given me
with your ideas and ways. I am going to make it! And I am confident
that my marriage will too. God willing :-)
Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong
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"My marriage has come alive again. "
Dear Mort,
I am so glad I signed up for the Marriage
Fitness program. I didn't have the money and I was very
unsure about signing up. But I am soooooooooooo glad I did.
It was a great decision. It was worth every
penny. My marriage has come alive again.
Thanks to you Mort.
Sincerely,
TL
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" I am sure everyone that looks at
your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches
when one of the most important things in your life is in
peril. "
Dear Mort,
I can't tell you how important this experience has been in my
life. The most helpful part for me was the calm, focused,
consistent way in which you addressed every issue at the exact time I
needed it. I am sure everyone that looks at your website will
understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most
important things in your life is in peril. I have been on the
Lone Ranger Track since October and I am not done with the program
yet. I have restarted a couple of times because I needed to
hear the lessons again and again. One restart was recommended
by you on our Laser session. Again, at the exact time that I
needed it.
To the people in need who are reading this....Just get one of the
programs. If you didn't know in your heart that you needed it
you wouldn't be here right now.
Thank you so much Mort. I am forever
grateful.
Amy S.
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"I learned that simple
changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens
the heart of the even the world's toughest critic."
Mort Fertel gives very
effective and thought provoking presentations that pertain to any
couple facing marital challenges. Even as a Lone Ranger,
Mort's program provides tools that make it easy to achieve positive
relationship results immediately. I learned that simple
changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens
the heart of the even the world's toughest critic. I highly
recommended the "Marriage Fitness Program” it encouraged me
to focus on the positive aspects of my relationship and carved years of
“couple therapy” spent rehashing old issues out of
my life … a novel concept that really works!
Regards,
Linda
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"It saved my marriage."
I would recommend the Marriage Fitness
program to anyone. It saved my marriage. We still
have a lot of work ahead of us; however, at least now I know what is
ahead of us, instead of wondering if it would be divorce.
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"We
were on the brink of divorce again.
Then I surfed the net and found you. "
Hi Mort
My wife and I have been married 3 years and
it was hard from the start. We've both been divorced before so this was
not our first time trying to make a marriage work. This time was not
going well either. My wife had 2 affairs, she left 4 times, and
marriage counseling was a disaster and so was Free Marriage Counseling Online from some other bimbo. We were on the brink of divorce
again. Then I surfed the net and found you.
I ordered Marriage Fitness, hired you for
some 1-on-1 coaching, and then registered for the Marriage Fitness
Program. In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more
importantly, taught us how to build love on our own.
If anyone is reading this who needs marriage
help or online marriage help, get it from Mort. You won't be sorry.
Thank you again Mort for saving our marriage
and teaching us how to create love in our relationship.
Martin
Rosedale ,
Indiana
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"I
liked your mix of the philosophical,
religious, and practical life."
Thank you Mort.
I really
enjoyed your Marriage Fitness Program and found your approach to be
very realistic and dead-on!!! The points you make during your seminars
are great - I liked your mix of the philosophical, religious, and
practical life. It was a refreshing departure from much of the reading
materials and the approaches of other therapists.
I thank you very much for tha t s upport and
encouragement.
Vince
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"
I believe you will absolutely at least gain back
your sanity and self-confidence"
As a graduate student, I didn't think I
could afford the Marriage Fitness Program. I went to the
library and literally checked out and read about a quarter of the way
through about twenty books on marriage. After contemplation,
I realized that I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's
Program...my marriage and my sanity were too important to me!
I signed up thinking that I might take advantage of the money-back
guarantee, but with the sanity I gained in my own soul
(I am on the Lone Ranger track), I wouldn't take a penny
back. Mort's multi-dimensional program to
this day continues to strengthen my sanity when life throws me not only
loops but roller coasters. I have recommended Mort's program
to many people going through everything from pre-nuptial to
post-divorce situations. If you don't gain anything else from
his program, I believe you will absolutely at least gain back your
sanity and self-confidence. The most important thing I have learned is
that although you may have NO control over the other person, you have,
with God's help, COMPLETE control over your reactions to
situations. Thank you, Mort!
Jessica.A.
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"We continue to have fun and laugh at things now
instead of letting everything consume us"
Mort, just wanted you to know things are
great with Justin and me. Our relationship has improved so much. We are
spending time together and enjoying each other's company. Learning that
it is more important to pay attention to ourselves has made all the
difference in the relationship. I sure have changed a lot of things I
say and how I react to certain things. This whole 2 yrs has shown
Justin and me a lot. He thanks you also. There was really no other way
that he could have shown us both that he needed to grow. He didn't know
how and just kept it all in until he exploded. He is such a wonderful
person. I wish we could have known these things ahead of time. I have
referred so many people to you. We continue to have fun and laugh at
things now instead of letting everything consume us. Thanks for saving
my family. Jan and Justin
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" Your program makes so much sense
and is presented in such an organized and complete way."
Dear Mort,
I have
spent just about every free moment that I had over the past 2 1/2
months listening, reading and thinking about your program. I am in the
Lone Ranger track and it has been a hard period for me. However, your
program has been a comfort to me. It has helped me to see mistakes that
I made in my marriage. It has also encouraged me and made me feel
validated because there were things that I intuitively recognized, but
was not sure if I was on the right path. After reading and hearing the
materials my spirit would be encouraged and lifted. I have been able to
remain calm and do what is right. Your program makes so much sense and
is presented in such an organized and complete way. It has just been a
real help to me. Thank you.
Sincerely,
Vicky
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"It is such a POSITIVE,
common sense approach to rebuilding or
sustaining ANY marriage. "
My wife and I were high schools sweethearts
and have been married for almost twenty-one years. After two
kids, separate jobs and the ever-increasing pace of life, we found
ourselves totally frustrated with each other and on the verge of
divorce. No infidelity or anything; our relationship
jus t s eemed "stale" and "more work than what it was worth.”
I spent over $250 on various marriage "help"
books and we even attended professional marriage "counseling" to help
resolve our conflicts and problems. It wasn't
working…we had become masters at blaming each other and
resolving conflict by ignoring each other.
I then came across Mort Fertel 's Marriage
Fitness program. I purchased the program and decided to take
the CD's with me to listen to while driving on a b usiness
trip. When I left for my trip, my wife and I gave each other
the robotic, "Drive careful" and "see you soon" rhetoric, but we both
could still feel the immense strain between us. In actuality,
I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving for the weekend.
Anyways, after the listening to the first
CD, I found myself contemplating my role in our marriage.
I began to actually re-discover what we "used" to
have. Instead of feeling like I was in competition with my
wife, I actually started remembering all the things that used to make
her feel special...that I was no longer doing. I
called her immediately on the cell phone and told her my
revelation. I told her I couldn't wait to get back to see her
and was already missing her. She began to cry and told me how
much she loved me and tha t s he was looking forward to my
return. That reaction alone had been a long time coming.
Upon my return, we listened to the CD's
together. Within a week, our marriage improved
immensely. Mort's perspective on concentrating on the
marriage and each other; rather than the "problems"; was the most
profound, yet common sense, solution…many of our
"unsurmountable" problems simply dissolved. It was our
perspectives and lack of focus on each other that were
actually "causing" the problems in our marriage.
Unfortunately, these bad habits had been
learned over the last 10-15 years. We also found if we were
not diligent about practicing or focusing on the Marriage Fitness
program, our bad habits would resurface (avoiding, ignoring, etc.) and
our marriage would begin to slide. "Plugging-in" each week
with Mort gave us that "commitment" we were lacking. After
several weeks, we are not perfect, but "DIVORCE" is not even in our
vocabulary. I look forward to coming home. My wife
looks forward to my coming home. We enjoy being with each
other again.
How much do I believe in Mort Fertel 's
approach?
For Christmas, I purchased 10-15 of Mort's
materials for my family and friends. I have already heard
from a handful who wanted to express their gratitude for my thinking of
them. A co-worker, who has been through three marriages, told
me he wished he'd had seen Mort's materials before his last
divorce. It is such a POSITIVE, common
sense approach to rebuilding or
sustaining ANY marriage.
Rob & Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR
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"Our love for one another has never
been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one another and
the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the day."
Hi there Mort, I want to thank you for a
wonderful job you have done for my marriage. My husband was having an
affair about four months ago, which was going on for abour four months.
I confronted him in the beginning of February and he admitted to me
that he was having an affair. What broke my heart was that he said that
he did not love me anymore and that he loved this other woman. We were
married for twenty five years and I thought to myself that I am not
going to throw that away and that I am going to fight for my marriage.
My husband and I had a lot of tough years behind us and we also had
money problems and there was always something there that kept us
togethere in those hard times, so I was not going to let this problem
break up our marriage and I was going to fight with all the strength
that I had in my body to keep my marriage together. My husband had had
many affairs before and I had always forgiven him, but this time it was
different, because he had never told me that he had loved these other
women, he also told me that he had no more feelings for me and that he
sometimes wonders if he had ever loved me. Well, let me tell you, I
fought and it was very tiring and stressful; I went through all the
emotions; I was very insecure. We had sat down and had a very long talk
and I told him that I do not believe him when he says that he does not
love me anymore and that I know that he does not love this woman, it is
only infatuation and he will still find out that he does love me. I do
not know how long it will take I said to him, but it will happen. We
started going away for the weekends, just the two of us and there was a
time that he was still in contact with this other woman and then we
would have a long talk again and so life went on. AND YES, HE DID FIND
HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER
BEFORE. Just last night he told me that his love for me gets stronger
by the day and that when he is at work, he will send me a sms via cell
phone, telling me that he cannot wait to hold me in his arms tonight
and that he misses me when we are at work. Our love for one another has
never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one
another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the
day. On the 19th of July this year, we will be celebrating our 26th
wedding anniversary. I know that the Lord is the one that did the most
work in our marriage, because I was forever asking the Lord to help us
and he answered my prayers. I never told him that I told you so, but
deep in my heart I say that to myself, that I knew all along that his
love for me was always there, he just had to find that out for himself
and I thank the lord every day for the love that we have for each other.
God Bless you.
Sheree
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"I
cannot express how valuable your course has
been to my life and happiness."
The
advice and the concepts you asked us to apply for marriage renewal has
changed my life, and even though I did the lone ranger track, I can say
that your course saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage, our
relationship had become unbearable for me, in the way we related on
almost every level, both with regard to actions and "no action." I knew
that I cared for my wife, but the relationship had become almost too
difficult for me to continue. Even though we discussed what we each
wanted from the relationship, we were not able to get our relationship
back onto a course of treating eachother decently, much less
romantically. Now, in just two months, there has been significant
benefits, and a real opening up by each of us to each other's needs and
desires, and I have not been this happy and content in years. I had
gone to counseling, and invested substantial sums to try to solve our
marriage problems, but the counseling was of little benefit, especially
compared to the changes that were effected by your advice to learn how
to love another, and I cannot express how valuable your course has been
to my life and happiness. I have no doubt that I will review what you
taught, and look forward to a very loving and close relationship with
the companion I love.
J.B.
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"your
program very seriously was the only thing that
supported me in my efforts to save my marriage"
Hello, Mort!
Just talked with
Adina to pass along the fantastic news...my husband this past Friday
asked if he could move back to our home and is committed to reconciling
our relationship and marriage! He even has agreed, although
we're both still a little tentative and "getting to know each other
again", to in the coming months take a vacation somewhere
tropical/exotic (we like those kinds of places) and - in a very private
ceremony with only me, him, and our 6 y.o. daughter - renew our
marriage vows. We'll either do it there or at the church we
got married in, although I would love it to be on a warm beach under an
arch of flowers at sunset!
Thank you SO
MUCH...your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me
in my efforts to save my marriage and gave me the tools to work with as
well as the understanding of why my husband was acting the way he did
and why my "gut feel" was actually making the situation
worse. I will always be in your debt and will continue to
strongly recommend the program to any friends or acquaintances who are
in a period of marital difficulty or just want to make their marriage
the best it can be!
Warm regards and huge
thanks,
Christine V.
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"The way the program is designed, it
was easy to “just do it” and the results quickly
followed."
Hi
Mort,
Marriage fitness is
exactly what we needed at exactly the right time. We have
been married 25 years and like many couples moved away from each other
through the years. We were ready to separate. The
issues and relationship problems seemed so big that we didn't know wha t s tep to take first to begin to fix
things. I felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I
didn't have the equipment and I was already so tired I couldn't think
of how to take the firs t
s tep.
Marriage
fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start
on a different path. This program is positive and builds the
relationship from day one. I knew that if things were going
to change we would have to begin to see each other differently and
start to build the relationship again. The way the program is
designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the
results quickly followed. Somewhere in my heart I knew this
was the answer, marriage fitness put it into action.
Thanks!
Lisa
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"You tell it as you see it and the
amazing thing is that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I
still find myself feeling better for having taken your advice."
What I
have learned from you and your program can not be measured. I
feel like I am finally learning how to be the person and the spouse
that I really want to be. Your course is not just a marriage
course. It's a LIFE course. I wish I could find a
way to convince everyone I know to take your course just so they could
benefit from the life values that you teach … I find myself wanting to
share what I've learned from you and yet I have a difficult time
articulating myself because I can't describe the magnitude of what I've
learned.
I've
been and still am in the Lone Ranger track of your program … things are
improving. And I'm optimistic that there is a light at the
end of our tunnel. I would and do recommend this program to
anyone. Thank you so much for your wisdom, insight, and
constant sensitivity to such difficult and heart breaking
issues. You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is
that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself
feeling better for having taken your advice. Now that's
constructive!
I look forward to continually learning
more from you and your experience. Thank you so much for such
a wonderful program. I surely would have been in a divorce by
now if it weren't for Marriage Fitness!
Most Sincerely,
Susan
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"What we really find
appealing is that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like."
Dear
Mort,
The
Marriage Fitness Program was a great experience for myself and my
husband. I don't know where our relationship would be right
now if we hadn't signed up. I don't really believe in divorce
but the way things were going, I was starting to consider it!
Today, we are both working together to fix our relationship and we are
very glad we ran into this program when we did. We have a son
and we want what's best for him too, and nothing can make him happier
than seeing his parents happy. We know we have just begun to
make changes, but we are grateful for your support and
knowledge. What we really find appealing is that you were
once in our boat so you know what it's like. Thank you for
sharing your life story with us and allowing us to see where our
marraige can be if we both make some simple changes.
Thanks again,
I.F.
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" It was a whole different approach to solving our
marital problem"
After going to a marriage counselor and feeling we
were not getting much accomplished, we decided to try your Marriage
Fitness Program. After participating in the 7-week Tele-Boot Camp,
listening to the CDs, doing the recommended exercises etc, we have found it
all to be extremely helpful and effective. It was a whole different
approach to solving our marital problems and we feel we have made
tremendous strides as a result of participating in your wonderful
program. Thanks for your help in improving our marriage and for also
giving us the valuable tools that were so desperately needed to make it
all happen.
Nancy & Brian M
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"I still have a
long road ahead but I look forward to the work, the break
through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and
myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage"
Dear
Mort,
I am writing to you for all
of the couples out there that are wondering whether or not this would
be beneficial program for them. I found myself wondering the same thing
about 8 weeks ago when I read about the Marriage Fitness
program. My marriage of 25 years was over, my husband had a 3
week affair and had left the house, our 2 daughters and me. He was
unwilling to work on anything and had decided he wanted a divorce. I
felt completely out of control, the counseling didn't seemed
to be helping. All I could see was everything I thought I new
to be true about our marriage was wrong. I didn't know what to do, all
I was sure of was I still loved my husband and I didn't want a
divorce. I found Mort's program on the Internet and was sure nothing
was going to help me or my situation. I joined the Program in
the "Lone Ranger Track" meaning I did the program
without my husband. I figured I had nothing to lose and everything to
gain. I wasn't sure how this stranger was going to help when I
couldn't, and I lived with this man for 25 years, WOW, was I
surprised!
I
listened to the Cd's, read the book, did the homework and followed the
guidance that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences. I wasn't
sure if this was going to work, but the amazing thing I started to
notice was I no longer was feeling out of control, I found I
was calmer, more focused and very excited at the subtle little changes
that would periodically occur. At our final question
and answer seminar I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that I had a
positive yet small break through with my husband. I had invited him out
to a movie and he went, then 2 days later he called to talk
and later that day he invited me to go for a ride with him. This was so
encouraging, the Memorial weekend was coming up and the best news was
about to come. My husband and I spent very day together, boating,
fishing, just being together!
I still have a long road
ahead but I look forward to the work, the break through's and
hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and
myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage. Thank
you Mort for the guidance, the encouragement and all of the support. I
hope my story helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful about the
program, I would recommend the Mariiage Fitness Program to all!!
Sincerely,
R.L. Michigan
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"After a four month separation in
different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family"
Mort,
Just wanted to take a minute and
thank you for the inspiration and the success on repairing my
marriage. After a four month separation in different locations, I
am now living back at the house with my family. I would love
to say it is peachy and rosy, but the fact of the matter is we have a
long way to go. I have you in my corner that can help the
forward progression that I
believe
is most important in the healing process. I was doing the
lone ranger track and by the end of the program my wife was not only
listening to the teleconferences she was participating in the Q and
A. Thanks again.
Randy and Stacy C.
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"I have to say this series
has recharged my hope in my relationship. You simply have spelled it
out."
For my husband, who has not had the opportunity of seeing, knowing,
experiencing, or learning the tools and skills of a positive
relationship, you have provided an easy to understand program and "To
Do" list. I can't wait for him to get started.
Yes, I got through the series first, and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were
my issues, and I cannot ask more of someone else than I am willing to
do myself, and do first.
My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb". It made me think of everyone
in my life from our children to co workers and how I interact with
them. Am I sending them a clear message of my definition of our
relationship? Some should be getting more, some need to be receiving
less.
Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing your wisdom with us.
R.P.
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"All I can say is Thank
You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU."
I
don't know who gets these emails, but I surly hope someone can express
my appreciation to Mort.
Today I got the second email Talk & Touch. I just had to share
this. My wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been going through hell with
the separation. Probably because I was doing all the wrong things!
This evening, I called my wife and we had a conversation. WOW was it
wonderful. Just a very simple conversation, yes I slipped a couple of
time and told her how much I love and miss her and wanted her to come
back home but for the most part we just talked about things.
Because I honestly cannot remember the last time this happened, and I'm
sure she cannot either, I'm betting that her jaw was on the floor. I
didn't do this to put her jaw on the floor but I think she was shocked.
When I could tell that she was ready
to end the conversation, I let her know that I understood and I tried
to say goodnight. Rather than just ending it right then and there as
she would have before, she took time to explain to me that she didn't
rest well last night, the time change affects her in a negative way and
she was tired. I told her no problem, good night, sweet dreams and I
did slip in another "I Love You!"
All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU. I'm learning so much
David
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"This program allowed us to
stop and start back at the beginning."
Mort,
your marriage fitness program was amazing. It made us aware of what was
really important. We were trying to fix things that were draining to us
emotionally and you showed us that those things were not the issues.
They were the result of what we had forgotten to do. This program
allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning. This truly is the
way. Everyday is a new day and now we have the neccessary tools to
rebuild our marriage and do it the right way this time.
J & J
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"(Your program) helped us see what was
the real problem in our marriage"
Hi Mort,
My Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage
Fitness Program to couples having problems in their marriage whether
being because of emotional or physical infidelity. My husband was
emotionally unfaithful, and when I first found out about it I was
devastated. I was very confused and thought this was the end of our
marriage after being married for almost twenty five years. I found out
about your program and decided that if we were going to try to save our
marriage we needed to try out your marriage fitness
program. It helped us see what was the real problem in our
marriage, and how to handle our problems. We have reconnected in many
ways and do not take each other for granted anymore. We both
thank God for your help and insight and we wish
you the best in helping others with their
marital problems.
Regards,
MB
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"it was great to see that
we still had that sparkle in both of our
eyes."
Hey
Mort... We just got off the phone for this months Q&A. I wanted
to share this with you during the call but seems like a lot more people
needed to talk than we did. We have been in your program for over a
year and we are doing fantastic. Things don't or didn't happen all at
once and things will not stop happening ..This is our way of life now.
Here is an example of some things that are happening - Our family was
on a trip this past weekend in the mountains (this was a
business/pleasure trip mixed) . 2 things happened that I hope I never
forget. The first was that we stopped to get a hot beverage (tea and
coffee) and before I knew what was happening he was fixing my tea the
way I liked it and I was fixing his coffee the way he liked it. We were
both thinking of the other person....That was a great feeling... The
second thing that happened was that we were talking to one of his co
workers ( this is the first time I had met him) and the conversation
turned to how long each one of us had been married. We told him almost
15 for us. He said it was great to see that we still had that sparkle
in both of our eyes.
Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help you have given us, the support
and the knowledge that you are there for us. We are loving this...
T.M.
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"Because of the information you have
given …we are both happier in just one short week! "
Thursday, December 21, 2006
To: mortfertel@marriagemax.com
Subject: Thank-you/on
the road to success
Dr. Mort,
Your site is the only
site that appealed to me as far as valuable information. Because of the
information you have given…we are both happier in just one
short week!
We used to be
uninhibited when it came to sex and fulfilling each others desires and
pleasuring one another was a real turn on. We talked about
how it used to be. We did need to bring some change into our
relationship. The change was not just the toys, or the
experience. The time we spent together, the plan and
discussing our desires for each other and also our marriage came into
play.
God Bless You
abundantly!
E and
D
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"We now are excited about
what our marriage can be if we continue to "do" the work and keep
creating love... "
I
am more than happy to offer a testimony for the Marriage Fitness
Program! In my opinion it is the best marriage course I've
heard of or read about. This course was my last ditch effort
to stay in my marriage. I've had one foot out the door for the past 2-3
years, but because of two young children, I have been holding out and
looking for miracles. My marriage has been a huge disappointment b/c we
have developed horrific habits and treat each other badly. In
the 7 week course I have seen my husband make huge changes and
he says the same about me. We are now at a point where we
kind of "like" each other again which is amazing. The course
and listening to Mort's phone conferences work so well because he is SO
non-judgemental and only looks for solutions. You are
expecting to hear "i can't believe your husband does that" or "You
realize what you did was wrong,....".... Instead the Marriage Fitness
Program deals w/ NOW and w/ moving forward which is something you CAN
do... you can't change the past so why make people feel guilty which is
what a lot of counselors do.
I
am also surprised at how much my husband took to Mort's
advice. He can be very difficult, judgemental and close
minded... but he got into the course and actually did the assignments.
We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to
"do" the work and keep creating love... there's a light at the end of
the tunnel. We are both committed to better ourselves for our marriage,
our self-dignity and our children.
We
just went out w/ another couple last weekend and when they started
bickering we just said www.marriagemax.com
... then we laughed so hard b/c we know how
ridiculous we used to look always bickering ourselves! We've come a
long way and have a long way to go but at least we are speaking,
connecting and are hopeful. We went from threatening divorce
every week to making plans to join a tennis league. We could
NOT have done this alone. There was way too much animosity
and resistance.
Another
huge plus is my kids are more relaxed... they changed as much
and as fast as we did. They went from uptight and anxious to
happier and more peaceful......AND a girlfriend of mine wants to know
what pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen me this positive (about
everything) in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote down the Marriage
Fitness website before she left my house! She was very suspicious that
I was giving her a website but that it was just a pill I was taking!
To
be honest my husband and I only put in about 40% effort and saw HUGE
results..(like I said we were almost enemies so it was quite difficult
to go from 0 to a 100). now we are excited to keep putting in more and
more effort and take our marriage to the highest level possible.
So,
thanks Mort for everything you have been a God-send to us and our
children...No matter what happens I know I now have the information,
skills and concepts to create love in my relationship. My husband and I
are at a point where we are not as needy or desparate. We
are becoming 2 adults who would like to stay together for the right
reasons and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre marriage anymore.
We have raised the bar and now both are more aware and
accountable for our words and actions. I thought our marriage would
just be mediocre at best and now am unwilling to accept that.
I'm striving for awesome and won't stop till I get there!
GS
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"You walk your talk. You are
personally involved."
Dear Mr. Fertel:
Please share with others how you give people, especially in the Lone
Ranger Track, the strength and endurance to go on to reconcile their
marriages. For the right reasons.
So many people, including therapists and well-meaning friends, have
advised me to leave my marriage. I almost feel ridiculed by others in
my dedication to my marriage and my spouse. Until I encountered you and
your program.
Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give
me hope. For the right reasons. You are helping me learn from this
painful experience. When every one else almost "derails" me in my
vision to learn the most I can about myself and reconcile my marriage.
I feel inspiration and motivation from you to continue in my efforts.
I have to admit your amount of personal dedication is impressive. You
provide an abundance of material that requires much effort to
assimilate in a relatively short amount of time. But that is in accord
with your belief in how hard one should work in their labors of love to
protect their marriage.
You walk your talk. You are personally involved. I never imagined I'd
have opportunities to actually speak with you. And you provide ongoing
follow-up after the initial program.
Yours truly,
Dianne DF
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"...we have a changed
marital environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook
for a happy future"
Are
you thinking about registering for the Marriage Fitness Program? Here's
my story.
We had been married for 17 years and
our marriage was falling apart. We couldn't get through a conversation
without criticism or attack. I heard Mort Fertel on the radio speaking
about the principles of Marriage Fitness. After almost a year of
traditional marriage counseling and making no improvement in our
marriage, we decided to buy his book and try his program. What a
difference in just a few short weeks. Then we heard about the Marriage
Fitness Program. My husband and I signed up and very much looked
forward to each session. Through Mort's guidance, we were able to make
considerable progress. The weekly workbooks were especially helpful in
helping give us ideas to reconnect and infuse positive energy into our
marriage. For me, the program also taught me how my actions and
behaviors were sabotaging our relationship. I had always thought that
if only my husband changed, our marriage would improve. I now see that
no progress could be made until I recognized and made an effort to
change my behavior toward my spouse. Mort was always available to
answer questions and held us accountable to our own behaviors. Six
months ago, I was counting the days until the kids were grown to leave
my marriage, I no longer do that. Even though every day is not perfect,
I can now see a hopeful future with my husband. We still have alot of
work to do, but we have a changed marital environment in which to do
the work and have a bright outlook for a happy future.
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"Within hours, I obtained
many insights into my contribution to our marital dilemma that were
based on my past attitudes"
Hi Mort ,
I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Within
hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital
dilemma that were based on my past attitudes. I instituted changes to
my outlook and behaviour that have improved our relationship, but have
more importantly resulted in more self-discovery and self-improvement.
My sense of purpose is much stronger, as is my understanding of our
situation. I highly recommend full participation in the Boot Camp for
anyone!
Thx
mj
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"...your approach provides
a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and
measured way"
Mort,
Your program is the most constructive and poignant
course for Marriage and personal development I have ever seen. After
considerable time and research including reading or attending
counseling from well respected names such as John Gottman, Gary
Chapman, David Wood, and others, your approach is simply the best… your
approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a
respectful and measured way and, perhaps most importantly, gives hope
that reconciliation is possible. I know the personal growth and
understanding I have achieved could not have been done without your
course.
Thank you.
M.U.
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"I see changes in him on a
daily basis. I feel as though we are more connected than ever..."
Dear
Mort,
I
have learned so much from your program that I consider you my Life
Coach after God! I listen to your CDs on a daily basis in attempts to
memorize every strategy. Your philosophies have helped me at many
levels. I feel as though I have a more thorough understanding of the
psychology behind all interpersonal relationships. My husband has not
participated in the program but I see changes in him on a daily basis.
I feel as though we are more connected than ever, even though we have
many of the same challenges. I am not worried anymore, though.
I know we will get to that place that we both want to be one
day.
Sincere
thanks for helping God save our lives…..
Zee
Pancreatic
Cancer Survivor, back home in Puerto Rico….. where I need to
be……..
PS:
You should develop a course to be taught to children around the world
as part of the social studies curriculum!
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"My husband and I are now seeing each
other three times a week and talking to each other daily. "
I would certainly recommend this program to
others. My husband moved out of our home 3 days prior to our
8th wedding anniversary. Even though I went through the lone
ranger Marriage Fitness program, my husband and I are now seeing each
other three times a week and talking to each other daily.
Using a slow and steady pace I am implementing new behaviours that are
demonstrating to my husband commitment, sincerity and
consistency. I am taking this day by day. It is
hard but this program has helped me …
This support has been invaluable!
Thank you
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"I feel secure in my marriage, and my
husband says he's never been happier"
Please cancel my
subscription to the plugged in program. It's just amazing
that I can no longer relate to the callers! Results from
implementing the Marriage
Fitness instructions got us living together again, and
the continuation
program kept me going during trying times. I feel secure in
my marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier.
Marriage Fitness is effective. Mort Fertel is a genius. Thank
you, Mort!
O.G.
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"Life lessons I plan to never forget"
Mort -
My husband and I have been married for 13
years. I became resentful, had high expectations,
we stopped communicating, we stopped putting forth extra
effort in our marriage. We tried to be friends, we tried to
be content, we tried to have more...but never were in sync and one
day...he decided to move out, it was a shock, I was hurt. And
then I found your program online. I signed up for your free marriage counseling emails. The day he moved out, I signed up for your tele-boot
camp. Your program is so thorough. Each step is
outlined and every question is answered. Reading, listening,
completing the workbook and calling in re-energized me. Each
step seemed to keep me going and as much as I doubted pushing that
flywheel....you were right....fast is slow and slow is fast.
I have your quotes tacked up in my house, in my calendar, on the fridg,
in the car, as reminders.
I am in the lone ranger track and have seen a
tremendous change …t
hat change has calmed me, my children,
my other relationships and most importantly my connection with my
husband. You are so right that one person can transform a
marriage …we have
learned to enjoy each others company again. I am confident
that the lessons I have learned, the process of keeping our connection
new and exciting.
I want to thank you for helping me with my marriage
.. .
These are life lessons I plan to never forget.
Thank you.
Mary
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"She made her choice, and
because of Marriage Fitness Program, she chose me! "
Hi
Mort,
I just wanted to let you know that my
wife has made a complete turn around and is starting to not only work
on our marriage but really make some amazing changes.
Thank you for all your help and
insight. If it was not for you helping me through this and
teaching me how to be the husband that me wife deserves then I
may have never been able to bring her back to this marriage and our
family. She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness Program,
she chose me!
Keep up the good work and keep saving
marriages.
Thanks
again.
AP
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"We learned to put love
first and to make our spouse and our marriage our highest
priority. "
Dear
Mort,
Today makes one month that my wife has been home after three months of
separation. Thank you so much for your coaching and the Marriage
Fitness Program. Not only did it change our marriage,it
changed our entire way of life. After two affairs and an
emotional affair, I thought I had lost my wife forever, but thanks be
unto God, we "found" Mort Fertel. Just as when one becomes a new
creature in Christ, old things pass away and all things become new;
such was the case when we completed the Marriage Fitness
Program. Our old habits, fears, insecurities, and the manner
in which we treated each ther passed away; All things became
NEW ! We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and
our marriage our highest priority. We strongly urge anyone
needing help in any way with their marriage to enroll in the Marriage
Fitness Program.
It will change your life forever. It did ours!
Forever grateful,Mort
R.M. & D.M.
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"He
gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems"
Mr. Fertel ,
I have thought long and hard about writing a
testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program. The problem was
where to begin and when to stop writing about the success I
have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:
If the term “obstinate spouse”
were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the
whole page!!
We fit the pattern of couples married for a very
long time, 24 years. In these days odds are against
that. And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into
a rut. Same old routine day in and day out.
Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each
other. My husband started filling his time with church work 4
to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday
and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days). I
think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that
was only after I complained and complained about never seeing
him. This was the real problem: he was so used to spending
time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the
me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to
6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common
interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage
mechanic. No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank
goodness. I am not blameless either. I
spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some
reason it took priority over what little time my husband was
home. So we tried regular marriage counselling.
After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor
about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship
(chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of
financial reasons around Christmas time. My husband has not
mentioned anything about going back. Imagine spending your 24
th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out
to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day
with his father! No “Happy Anniversary”
card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always
remembered the date.
So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I
Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.
I read through the whole site. And I couldn't believe how
much sense his approach to marital problems made. Yes, it
would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but
traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us. Within
the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track. I have read
his book, am on the second reading now; listened to all the
CDs, poured through the notebook. I can honestly say that
there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the
materials.
He gave the best advice I have ever heard about
marriage problems . It's
been three full months. And guess what? My husband
has started joking with me again! I don't remember how long
it's been since that happened. We talk! He even is
starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest
not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).
Hope is a wonderful thing; it's worth all
the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.
Susan D.
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"The program is simple but brilliant."
I just finished up with the teleboot camp and I
have to say it works. I was in the lone ranger track yet my
actions definitely impacted my spouse and of course our
marriage. My spouse has severe unresolved issues from the
past, but once Mort taught me to temporarily put that aside, I got to
see the good side in my man once again. It takes real
personal work but it's well worth it. The program is simple but
brilliant. If you don't end up changing your marital
situation, you still would've changed yourself - and that's
the best success!!
thanx Mort
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"I am moving forward to a happier, healthier
marriage one small step at a time."
Before I registered for your program, my husband
and I were thinking of divorce especially I was. I had planned to at
least separate for one year first and break off slowly because I have
been a house wife for 26 years and I need to reestablish my ability to
earn money. ..
The first week that I was listening to
your teleconference, I got it. I have
been doing small things that you
suggested. ..Ever since that time he is
no longer fighting to me. We are not
intimate yet but civil and respect one
another. The dynamic has changed to a
positive one. He recently gives me my
50th b'day present. .. I am making
myself stronger everyday and trying to
make our marriage stronger a little at a time.
Thanks to your message and help of many of my friends and my church I
am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a
time. One day I called him to come home to eat lunch and he came.
Before that time he would say he is too busy no matter what I cooked
for him. I was so glad he come home and eats. He seems to stay home a
lot longer than before. We do a lot of small talk.
Thanks to your program. I am grateful
that I sighed up, all your advice works.
Sometime one person can make a
different. I can see my future because I got the
right tools that work on my belt and support from my family, and my
church and your techniques.
I am ready to face our marriage toward
happier for all of us. I am ready to
fight for our lives for the rest of my
life to stay strong, for us as a unity.
Please do not use my name but you can
use my initial. Thanks again.
JT
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"He
came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce"
Dear Mr. Fertel,
…My husband
of 12years had renewed a "friendship" with a college friend(a girl)
back in December. This quickly went from a facebook contact, to
continuous calls and text, emails, to a planned visit back to
his hometown to visit her and his highschool buddies. He asked for a
divorce on March 3rd stating that he just didnt want to be married
anymore, and that he probably did want to date other people. I knew
exactly who he wanted to date(he had a crush on this girl back in
college and now she wanted to be more than friends since her recent
divorce). I was devastated and at first became clingy, and smothering.
Then I started your advice…Well, he went on his trip on the
6th of April. He arrived there about 530pm and immediately went to her
house, took her to dinner and visited with her(he called me for about 1
minute to tell me he had arrived safely). The next day he hung out with
friends until about 11pm(he called me at 1030pm to tell me how his
night had been and sounded so excited and happy). He talked for about 3
minutes that time…At 0300am I recieved a call from him. He
wanted to tell me that he had gone to his friends house after hanging
with his friends. He said that it felt so wrong being there with her
and that he just had to leave. He wanted me to know that he loved me,
wished he was home with me and he missed me. He stopped being in
contact with her the next morning, called me and texted constantly over
the next 6 days. He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he
didnt want a divorce,didnt want an open marriage, didnt want to be with
anyone but me, and wanted me to have a new wedding ring. I
wanted to let you know that your advice worked and I want to thank you
for giving me the strength to save my marriage and the instructions on how to save a marriage. I thought you would
like to know you saved another marriage. Thanks again.
Anonymous wife
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"I'm more successful in all
areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program"
To all who are considering the Marriage Fitness
program, do it. There is nothing more important in life than
to have a successful marriage but there's been no guide to proactively
do it. No "before-you-buy-into-it" program that can help you
in advance. And until Mort Fortel, no comprehensive
"after-market" program either. To be honest, his program
should be modified and then purchased for all pre-nuptial preparation
classes. A raw, honest owners manual for future
couples. You're porbably reading this because your marriage
is in trouble. Mort's program taught me that I could change,
and gave me concrete ways to do it. I knew that no matter
what became of my marriage, I would become a better
me, not a different person ,
a better me.
I was able to implement change
immediately. I was ACOA, ADD and a terribly innattentive
husband. I was able to discover things about myself, through
serious self-reflection that enbaled me to discover that ACOA can be
overcome and the ADD was a misdiagnosis. I was depressed and
feeling lost for years, not knowing how to turn my marriage
around. I learned, from Mort's non-judgemental
truth, not that I needed to change, I already knew
that, I learned that I COULD IN FACT CHANGE, and he offered
easy and concrete ways to do so.
I'm self-confident in ways I never was
before. I know a better me today, I'm more successful in all
areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program.
For me, it's been more of a "Person Fitness Program". IF your
spouse doesn't want you at the end of the program, somebody
will, because you will have learned all of the skills that make you
someone anyone would love to spend more time around.
Thanks Mort.
Sincerely,
Michael C
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"
By listening and applying the marriage
fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting … "
Dear Mr. Fertel,
Words cannot express my gratitude I have for your
help and the Marriage Fitness program. Less then 6 months ago my wife
was ready to ask for a separation and we probably were headed for
divorce after 30 years of marriage. I heard the: "I need my
space" and "I love you but I am not in love with you".I am not saying
we are completely out of the woods yet, but we are now on the right
trail to repair and in time create a more loving marriage then we ever
had before.
Prior to getting the free emails and then the
course I was doing all of the wrong things, the begging, pleading,
trying to be right and justifying my actions and condemning
hers. Our "problems" were both our faults and
though neither one of us wanted to first admit it
we came to that realization in phase 2 of the workbook. … By
listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to
start working on re-connecting …
This is not a quick fix or easy program. It
requires time and effort and makes you look at yourself as much as what
you think your problems are. I found the reflection I seen in the
mirror was not a happy one so how could my wife. By reading, listening
and doing the exercises in the workbook I was able to change that
reflection and it has become evident to my wife and we have been
working more on rebuilding our marriage then tearing it apart. That
reflection is starting to look happy and enjoyment has returned to
the time we spend together rather then tolerance.
Thank you Mr. Fertel, you have no idea the
desperation I was in when I found your program, it truly has made a
difference in both my life and our marriage.
Warm Regards
Don E
Virginia
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"If anyone wants to turn their
marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take"
Mort,
I would like to thank you for creating the Marriage Fitness
Progam, I did the Lone Ranger in
February and before starting I was skeptical as to how much
this program would help my marriage. As
I went through the program I realized that my way of behaving
had a lot to do with the deterioration of my marriage.
I started listening to the CD's and once I started doing the exercises
is when I realized that changes needed to be made.
If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is
the program to take, it really does help you see what you need to fix
in yourself and teaches you how to approach your spouse in a
loving way.
Thank you for giving me the tools to see what a great marriage I could
have.
IAR
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"He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN!"
I just want to
start off by thanking Mort for all of his help! Thank you is not even
enough, how do you thank someone for changing your life?! I don't know
what I would have done if I didn't find his web site. He is amazing and
has a talent for working with you and being caring about what he does.
His tips and advice are not that hard to follow, it actually has made
me a happier and a more positive person. Knowing he has been where we
all are makes it easy to trust in him and his program.
A little background about my situation: We have both been married
before, each of our spouses cheated on us and made it hard for us to
trust others in relationships. Even though we have gone through that
and so much more, we still have so much trust and love for each other.
We both have children, mostly grown. (He also had a child with his
ex-wife that died a month after he was born). He has three children, I
have one. About a year after we met …
we started to have some problems and
couldn't get over them, or didn't know how to 'fix' them… always
had a hard time understanding each other or learning to fight in the
'right way', our biggest problem being the silent treatment.
I just finished the boot camp and was on the lone ranger track. There
are a couple of CD's that actually brought me to tears because they fit
my situation SO wel l…
He started dating awhile ago and told me
later on after one of our trips together, that he was 'seeing someone'.
I cried for three days …
Over the years we started to take each
other for granted. I had an epiphany before I ordered Mort's program,
my life passed before my eyes and I realized that he was the most
important person in my life. I prayed for help (This I don't do often
at all), but the next day I found Mort Fertel online. After being in
his program and implementing the steps I needed to, he is now not
seeing this other person! ...
He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN! I
loved hearing this, we are going out more often now and talking more, I
think things are on the right track to being together again, maybe
more. I just hope that down the road I can go through the workbook and
CD's again...this time with our new found relationship. I've also
learned to be more positive and act on those feelings.
Thank you Adina for being patient and answering all of my emails. I
appreciate your help!
Thank you Mort for renewing the relationship that I knew, but didn't
realize that I wanted!
Jody
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" Marriage Fitness Program
was worth both our time and money"
We
thought the Marriage Fitness Program was worth both our time and money
we invested and we recommend it to our friends.
Alan
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"I would recommend his
product to anyone in crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage. "
From:
John T. Lowe II
Sent:
Monday, February 05, 2007 12:06 PM
To:
MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Mort,
I would say with all honesty that your
product is great. It's easy to use, very down to earth, and a great
tool that you can use anytime even if times aren't bad. My wife and I
went through Counseling and it was thousands of dollars. Marriage is
the most important agreement you will ever have in your life, and
Mort's program shows you how to treat it that way even if you don't
feel like i t s ometimes. I would recommend his product to anyone in
crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage.
John Lowe, Haslet, TX
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"My husband changed his
moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with Mort."
I
highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness Program.
I joined the program as the lone
ranger about 8 weeks ago. My husband was very firm about moving out and
filing for divorce without giving me much of specific reasons. In my
sorrow and desperation, I contacted Mort and joined the Marriage
Fitness Program.
What did I get out of the program?
Real hope to my family: My husband
changed his moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with
Mort.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart
for your extraordinary impact on my life and my family's life.
H.E.
California
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"Your inspiration with the
material provided has been a serious God send to both of us."
Hi
Mort,
I'm
happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing
experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was
over. I have been married four times and really wanted this
to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone
out. We decided that we were done and divorce was the only
answer. Then my husband came across your program and signed
up without telling me. He then started talking about the
program and got one of your CD's that I listened to
half-heartedly. When the program began I listened to your
firs t s eminar and was so blown away by what I was
hearing. I couldn't believe all the things that I could
relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent
thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each
session. Only to leave angrier and
angrier. But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never
loved my husband more and know that we are going to
work through these things and stay on the track that
we were always meant to be on. I know that we
will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh
because we are worth it. Your inspiration with the material
provided has been a serious God send to both of us. I thank
you profusely for having the desire to help those that can' t s eem to
help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order
to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together. I can'
t say thank you enough!
Jennifer
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"It
was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a
relationship this good, even in the beginning. "
Mort,
John and I are more
than happy to give our testimony and I would recommend your program to
anyone having relationship difficulties.
We've been married 30
years and have 4 children. All of them are on their own now, but our
marriage has been going downhill for at least that last 25 years. Your
program has made us feel like newlyweds again! Neither of us have been
this happy. And with the knowledge that we have gained through the
years, applying your techniques and following your program, we are
probably more happy than we were even when we first got married. We
make love several times a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's good,
and we enjoy doing things together that we never did before. It's even
difficult to be around others because we don't want to miss a second
apart.
We've been going
fairly slow in the workbook, but we are getting things done! Counseling
would have cost us so much more money and a divorce (which was
imminent the day we ordered your program). It was well worth
the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this
good, even in the beginning.
All I can do is say
thank you and your wife for the insight and ideas you have given us.
Blessed Be,
Linda A.
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"
Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.
I am astounded by its clarity. "
I
have got to say that I must be ready for the principles that your
program is built upon, because your program "appeared" to me over the
internet when I was looking for some marital relationship
guidance. Everything you have said and sent me hits a core
truth to me. I am astounded by its clarity.
I think between the CD's from the 7
weeks worth of teleconferences and Q&A sessions, we can find
our way to a "put Love first" marriage, with time and consistent effort
on our parts. I know I am willing to "do" what it takes to
create this environment in our relationship.
Thank you for your principles and
teaching.
DL
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"The 7
week fitness program changed...my perspective on how I could
better my marriage and myself. "
Mort,
Your
Marriage Fitness program gave me a new perspective for my failing
marriage. I registered as a last ditch effort to save my
marriage. My husband wanted a divorce. I
was out of hope, out of ideas, and searching for a way change
my situation. I registered for the lone ranger track, which
in the beginning even brought heartache. There I was wanting
to save my marriage and my husband could care less. I wondered how a
marriage could be saved when only one partner was unwilling to
participate. The 7 week fitness program changed not
only that thought, but my perspective on how I could better my marriage
and myself. I have become a better wife and I can
even say that my marriage is no longer failing. There is
laughter, love, jokes, and time spent together
again. My thoughts and my actions have changed my marriage's
momentum, and I would encourage any couple to participate in
the program. Mort has valuable insights, and proven
methods to restore love in a marriage.
LDW
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"Mort had given me the
tools to stay connected."
Hi
Mort
Here is what my wife, Delores, wrote
in a notebook after our last teleconference with you. I thought you'd
like to read it. Ralph
As I listened to the final
teleconference I cried uncontrollably. I had the same feeling at age
nine when I left the courthouse when my father and mother divorced. As
I clasped my mothers hand I knew I would not be able to
stay connected to my father in the way I wanted to; which
proved to be true. I never saw him again for 20 years. I spent 53 years
of my life trying to connect to someone. For the first time someone had
told me how I could connect. Mort had given me the tools to
stay connected. If I would have let my spouse know how bad I needed to
connect with him instead of shaming, belittling, and attacking his
character, I am sure he would have turned around and connected with me
years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one
else could do in 53 years. Delores
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"my husband finally opened
his heart to me and told me what went wrong in our marriage"
Mort:
I
am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has an emotional affair with another
woman. When I was told by my husband about his affair, I was so
shocked. I found Marriage Fitness from internet and signed in January.
After attending the live seminars and Q-A conferences, all of sudden, I
found out there are lots of small things that I never pay attention to
that have done big damage on my marriage. I tried the ways you
taught in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts and when I almost gave
up, my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me
what went wrong in our marriage and what lead him to
seek comfort from outside of marriage.
Thanks you for everything. Now there
is hope.
Jane
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"[Marrige Fitness] really
has made me see things more clearly than ever before. "
Dear
Mort,
I would like to tell you how helpful
your program was for me.
I was in the lone ranger track. My
husband said he didn't love me or feel an emotional connection with me.
He also said divorce would be our only option.
I sought therapy, read your book, and
joined the Marriage Fitness Program. You gave me advice that I
sometimes didn't want to follow, but I did it anyway because I made a
commitment to follow the program. I went from being a hysterical,
scared woman, whose husband was having a year long affair to a
confident wife whose husband has asked for a new beginning.
I would recommend this program to
anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before.
I am so grateful. Thank you and keep working with people like us!
D.B.D
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"It truly has changed my life!"
Dear Mort,
I write you this
letter the day before our 25th wedding anniversary. Three
months ago I would have thought we would surely have been in the
process of a divorce on this day. On December 29 after
receiving your emails for over two months, I finally decided
that I would enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger
Track. It truly has changed my life!
I have found that my husband responds even though he is reluctant to
the thought of renewing our marriage. I have completed the
boot camp and look forward to the continuing support through the
Plugged-In program. Showing patience that I didn't know I
had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate many anniversaries to
come. Thank you!
Sincerely,
Amy
Littleton, CO
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"It is clear to me that men
and women will always think differently from each other, but in spite
of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in the
program and improve our relationship."
When
we signed up for the Marriage Fitness Program, our relationship was not
going well. I lacked trust in my partner and optimism about
the future. He, uncharacteristically, agreed to do this
program with me with the hope of turning things
around. I honestly can' t say how much our
improvement is due to the content of the Marriage Fitness Program, how
much is due to us simply going through the process together, to the
exercises or simply the change from focusing on our problems to
focusing on strengths and improving those. It is clear to me
that men and women will always think differently from each other, but
in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in
the program and improve our relationship. It isn't perfect,
but it is so much better. It is kind of amazing to
me how great it feels to do positive things for each other, and how
that morphs into greater richness in the relationship. Its
like DAH, but it really does work so simply. I'm very glad we
did it. Thanks, Mort!
TW
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"Practicing
“marriage fitness” is a way of life for us now. We
are very optimistic about our future together"
Dear
Mort,
It is hard to find the words to
describe the impact that you and the Marriage Fitness Program had on
our marriage. Our marriage was on its last breath. We hadn't talked,
wanted to touch or felt close in years. But the Marriage Fitness
Program turned our marriage around. It breathed life into our
relationship. It saved our marriage!
You helped me see that there was hope
when things seemed hopeless. I can honestly say I do not know where Don
and I would be today without your help.
Practicing “marriage
fitness” is a way of life for us now. We are very optimistic
about our future together. Thanks so much for giving us the tools we
need to make our marriage and lives happier than we could ever imagine.
Sincerely,
Laurie
S.
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"We are making progress."
Dear
Mort,
We're only in the 3 rd week of your
Marriage Fitness Program and I already have exciting news to share with
you. See the email below that my husband sent me. He hasn't sent
anything nice like this in a very long time. Thank you Mort.
-----
Original Message -----
From:
B.H.
To:
Doris
Sent:
July 26, 2005 3:36 PM
Subject:
Thank you
I do want you to know that I have
noticed the little and bigger things you've been doing to help our
relationship. I do know you're sincere in your feelings and
what you want from me.
I feel a lot better about
things and hope my attitude has shown as much. I know I do
love you and I want things to work as well.
We are making progress.
Brian
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"With
Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make
our relationship work"
We ordered Marriage Fitness, even though we are not
married yet, because we have been in our relationship for 3
½ years and were unsure if we wanted to be with each other
or not. We figured love was just supposed to be there for us. With
Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make
our relationship work. All of the ideas we have learned and all of the
stories we have heard, brought us closer together. We are very excited
what tomorrow will bring. We vowed to each other to use this all of the
time . This was
well worth the time and effort. We communicate in a much more positive
way. This program has opened up our eyes on how important we are to one
another. Without Marriage Fitness, we would both be single
today. Thanks Mort!!
Patty and Shane
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"This program saved my marriage.
Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my
marriage around."
My husband told me he
wanted a divorce. He basically blurted it out one night, then
started sleeping in the guest room. I was completely shocked
and surprised. He wanted to separate right away-- I didn't
understand the urgency, why the push to leave "all the sudden" when
we'd been married for 12 years. He said he felt no urgency,
that he'd been thinking about it for months, even years. He said he had
no feelings for me anymore and was just "done". The problem
was, he kept it all inside. He didn't share his thoughts and
feelings with
me .
Completely
devastated, I started searching for answers, fixes, anything to put my
marriage back together. I found Mort Fertel's marriage
fitness website. I showed it to my husband. He said
it all sounded like some marketing scheme and he wasn't interested in
"fixing" anything. So, I signed up anyway-- for the Lone
Ranger track.
The day I received my
kit in the mail, my husband was talking about actually filing for
divorce. I began implementing the techniques immediately.
After being in the
program two weeks, he stopped talking about the separation.
He was being nice back. After four weeks, he agreed
not to file, and to try to work things out. But he refused to
do the Marriage Fitness thing and he was against counseling.
He said he was going to read a couple books on marriage that
his mom gave him. By the sixth week he told me he wanted to
stay married to me, but wasn't ready to be intimate or move back into
our bedroom.
We're getting to know
each other again... slowly. We're building a friendship that
perhaps wasn't there in the beginning. He thinks we got
married too young, too fast. This program saved my marriage.
Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my
marriage around.
Thank you Mort.
Thank you.
~ TS
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"Honestly,
I never would have believed it myself. I thought for sure by
now my marriage would be over."
I found you exactly how you said I might, scanning the internet for
help. I needed a focus because I was drowning in
the pain of what I thought was the inevitable. You
helped me see a new vision of what I wanted in my
marriage. Within 2 weeks of starting your program, my husband
said he wasn't sure about a divorce and he wasn't sure about what he
was doing. I hung in there, just as you said and things are on
a positive track now. Honestly, I never would have believed
it myself. I thought for sure by now my marriage would be
over.
My next vision is to complete the program again, this time with my
husband. Thank you Mort, for everything! I still
love getting your inspirational emails and hope to see you in a
workshop in person someday. Your perspective and program are
right on; putting love first makes all the difference.
Teri R .
Gilbert, Az
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"I believe implementing
those practices truly saved our marriage."
Mort,
I really can't thank you enough
for the wisdom, support and guidance your program provided us.
It's been a whirlwind of a year
starting horribly and ending on a definite up-swing. We
continue to practice the principles you set forth in M arriage Fitness
and taught us in the Marriage Fitness Program and I believe
implementing those practices truly saved our marriage.
Keep up the excellent work!
Christine P.
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"You were able to
accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed
to do in 2 years"
Dear
Mort,
We
just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do. My wife and I have
been together for 7 years, spent the past 4 years in constant turmoil,
and the past 2 years with 3 different marriage counselors. We have
spent literally thousands of dollars trying to get a grip on our
relationship, only to watch it plummet faster.
I
found your website after a tremendous argument during which she and I
both agreed that it was over and we were wasting our time. I have been
married twice and she has been married 4 times, so failed relationships
are nothing new to us. Somehow, practice doesn't make it any easier.
You were able to accomplish in 1 1/2
hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed to do in 2
years. Your assessments made us realize that maybe it wasn't ALL
"their" fault after all, and your straight-forward but
gentle approach in the tele-conferences lit the path to a
recovery that we didn't think was possible.
There is no way that we can
begin to express to you all that you have done for us,
so we will only tell you "thank you". We will
continue to tell friends and family in relationship trouble about your
programs.
JL
& GL.
Martinsville
, IN
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"This
program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no
where else"
Dear Mort Fertel and
Marriage Max,
I joined the Marriage
Max program a little over two months ago with huge apprehension. The
cost seemed very high compared to other web sites cost and my situation
seemed hopeless at best. Realizing the Steven Covey Principles
were integrated through your teachings got my attention quickly. Steven
is a hero of mine. As convincing as that was, it was
your own battles you, our teacher, actually went through yourself. That
made is personable for me. I first learned that Mort Fertel
is an extrodianary man, intelligent, thoughtful and wise. But
it is the presense of YOU, the student that makes or brakes your
success. Mort gives you work to do, but it is work you WANT
to do and have to do…I've learned to
love in an action sense, not as a noun. My personal
integrity has improved, my work performance went to a
new level. My character is still being developed and always will,
but I now have the tools to know how. I
also have learned that love is a process, not just something
that happens, Rather, it's something that you DO. My long term
happiness is on the rise because my new found wisdom has
been sewn into my fabric of life. I won't take things for
granted, I'll have a better marriage, relationship with my kids, my
family and my work. There is not one single thing about this program
that you don't need. This program is brain
food for the sole. You will find this information no where else. One
word of warning. If you really don't want to change yourself and your
relationships, this is not for you.
John
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"You helped to put laughter
back into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be
responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each
other again even after we had reason to never trust again."
Dear
Mort,
Thank you so much for all you've done
over the past 7 weeks by investing your time, personal energy &
creative talents into our marriage. You not only helped save our
marriage, but you showed us what we were missing in our lives to make
our marriage incredible! We know now what it takes to make it work and
have realized, it's actually fun & exciting to behave in this
alternative manner! We thank god for leading us to your
website & connecting us with you. You are truly blessed with an
awesome talent!
7 weeks ago my husband and I were
through . We had a huge fight in the car in the M cDonald's parking lot
as we were waiting in the drive thru to have our order taken.
Being that there have been many more arguments and close calls to our
marriage that have built over the 19 years we've been
together, he screamed at me in a manner I've never seen in him
before, got out of the car, and told me he had had
enough! He exclaimed we're through, that he was DONE! And he
slammed the door in my face.
With the baby in the back seat and me
left in the drive thru, i pulled out of line and to the side of the
parking lot and just cried as he started walking up the thru-way away
from me. After finally getting in the car so I could take
him to work, We both talked and cried all the way there (30
min) of how I was wrong, he was wrong, still making each other
extremely mad. Hours went by, no phone calls, no
emails. As I waited for his call, email, text
message, whatever...I researched marriage counseling online and found
your website. Finally I gave in and I emailed
him at work and I told him about you & sent
him the link to your site. I told him I loved him and that I
didn't want to end our marriage, no matter how mad we we're
and explained that I wanted to give it once last shot. He Instant
messaged me on the computer and told me to hold on, he'd check out the
website. He came back and said. He didn't want to spend the
money, we didn't have it! We made the decision that WE WE'RE
WORTH IT!, Plus you're money back guarantee helped to instill
in him that if he didn't think it was working, we had nothing to
lose. So he messaged me back and said "Fine. Sign us up."
Within
1 week we had had the most incredible connection. Something I swear we
hadn't felt in over 10 years!.....The 2nd week had even more great
ideas. Neither of us was wrong, come to find out!
We we're BOTH just not meeting each other's needs. I honestly
didn't think I was part of the problem, however, This program helped me
realize that not only did my husband have a problem that was believe it
or not "somewhat easy" to get started to correct but I too had things
that we're sabotaging our marriage. We both put forth the
effort 110% because you made it fun and non-threatening, no one was
getting blamed, there was no finger pointing! No matter how
wrong one of us was about any particular marital issue, we we're made
to take responsibility for ourselves ! You helped to put laughter back
into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be
responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each
other again even after we had reason to never trust again. I
couldn't believe how helpful you could be in the 10 minute laser
coaching sessions! Those 10 minutes each week were a new way to
rejuvenate last minute problems, you may not have covered yet
& I couldn't believe how much you put behind each persons
questions & concerns on the Q&A, you made
everyone's questions have answers that would benefit all of us! I felt
like every single teleconference was catered for us like you had hidden
camera's within our household all week and then tailored the
teleconference for us. It covered EVERYTHING!.....God has
given you such an incredible talent. You have no idea, how
thankful we are that he created you!
Thanks,
DL & JL
Buffalo, NY
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"it helped me to get beyond
this mountain of hurt."
Hi
Mort,
I
was involved in your Marriage Fitness Program a few months ago. I was
in the lone ranger track. At the time I joined I thought, "What am I
doing. This is crazy! Now I am joining a bunch of strangers on some
online thing!" But I was searching for answers. I was in individual
therapy, I was buying books, and my husband and I were separated with
no communication and lack of any motivation on either side. I was
devastated and had no where to turn. I really felt we were on our way
to a divorce. My husband moved out, he was having an affair, and our
life was spiraling out of control.
Anyway, after being in your program
for almost 7 weeks, you and I had a 10 minute phone conversation and
you said something that really helped me break my wall. You said that
you had pegged me as someone who was a very capable business person,
strong personality, but very hurt and confused. When
one has a capable and strong personality they are
really thrown for a loop because they are usually in control and now
they are so out of control that they can't understand anything that is
going on because it makes no sense to them. You said to me, "Nancy,
you're RIGHT, your husband has done a horrible thing, something he
should not have ever done, he is not communicating with you, you don't
know what is going on with him, but are YOU going to
be RIGHT and live the rest of your life on your own with your
family broken up or are YOU going to do the RIGHT THING and
try to save your marriage and your family?"
I think I actually laughed for the
first time, believe it or not, but I was so hurt and lonely and
confused and you reached through the phone to give me a swift kick in
the rear! Here I wanted hugs and sympathy but you knew at that time to
shake me up and get to the core of what I needed to do.
I finally realized that I had
to find a way to get over the pain and the hurt and
the betrayal such an act does to your soul and find someplace to start
to heal myself and my family. I was ready at that moment to give it one
more try and to really and truly start using some of your methods.
Long story short, after 6 months of
separation, little or no communication and being ready to finally file
for divorce, my husband and I are back together, he is living at home
once again and he seems truly remorseful and is starting to change
himself. I see a different look in his eyes that was not there before
and a willingness to try on his part. I am now in great hopes
that we can save our marriage and our family.
I know you read hundreds of emails a
day, and you may not read this one, but thats OK, I just wanted to take
a moment and thank you for your program and your persistence. Just know
that it helped me to get beyond this mountain of hurt.
Thank
you.
Best
wishes,
Nancy A.
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"I have hope and your
program has given me the information and motivation to be
patient. It is working."
Mort,
Although I am using guidance and
assistance from several sources to work on changing myself and to
attempt to establish a great marriage, your philosophy and program has
been extremely helpful and important in my efforts.
After the last 27 years of a
progressively dying relationship, I nearly finished its destruction in
trying to change Mary and using problem solving counseling over the
past 4 years. Your program provided critical information and
advice.
Prior to your program, I had great
intent in my past efforts but ultimately ended up reacting to Mary's
negativity and my intent and efforts ended in failure. Your
program provides detailed action steps.
Mary separated, filed for divorce
including consent to divorce and for months was completely adverse to
any contact except for the briefest phone discussions limited to
logistics matters as to our daughter. As bleak as that
picture is, due mainly to steps that I have been able to implement from
your program, we have begun regular talking and sharing times and these
beginnings have allowed us to have some pleasant experiences together
again.
Although Mary is still very volatile
and hostile at times, insight from your program allows me to
recognize and accept that as a natural result of the harm I caused in
misguided/unguided prior renewal efforts. I have
hope and your program has given me the information and motivation to be
patient. It is working.
I
only regret that I did not know of your program far sooner.
It almost certainly would have prevented the worst errors in my prior
renew marriage efforts that now are greatly delaying the great
marriage. Seeing where things are now compared to where they
started, however, I am confident that our marriage will survive and
become great.
Thank
you for undertaking this calling and recognizing the need for a new
approach for marriage renewal. I am humbled in hearing and
realizing how troubled so many other marriages are. I do not
know how you can bear dealing with the pain of so many desperate and
wounded souls but I am grateful that you do.
Paul
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"This program is life changing and I am
so happy to have been able to participate."
Hi Mort,
I just wanted to give you some feedback on how this program has worked
for me.
I did the lone ranger track of the boot camp as my husband and I are
separated. It has been amazing for me. My
husband is having an affair and I was just so hurt and betrayed by it
all. Until I started this program I was depressed (and that resulted in my spouse being depressed) all the
time and really hating life. I didn't think there could ever
be any way to fix my marriage ever. One night after
a fight with my husband I did a search on the internet
for online marriage counseling. I came across the
Marriage Fitness website. I signed up immediately.
What did I have to lose since there was a money back
guarantee. After the first week I started to feel
better. As I went through the program my relationship with my
husband has changed also. We are learning to communicate
better and slowly falling back in love again. I have learned
so much from this program and I feel I am finally fixing myself and
becoming the person I used to be …
This program is life changing
and I am so happy to have been able to participate. I
complete the entire program and even signed up for the Plugged In (continuation) program.
It has been so worthwhile. Thank you Mort!!!!
Sincerely,
Joy W.
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"In just seven weeks my
focus changed to be more positive, loving and self-aware."
Dear
Mort,
I feel the Marriage Fitness Program was exactly the support I needed to
start up
what I learned by reading Marriage Fitness.
Your motivating seminars were full of inspiration and guidance, they
gave us the knowledge and skills we needed to turn our marriage around
in the right direction.
In just seven weeks my focus changed to be more positive, loving and
self-aware. The results exceeded my expectations; I now look forward to
my marriage growing stronger.
I know the journey is just beginning but I have the Marriage Fitness
Program and your dedication to thank for getting our marriage this far,
the rest is up to us.
Sincerely,
J.B., Toronto, Canada
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"It breaks down the
barriers too remind you "why & how" you fell in love with each
other in the first place"
Not
only was the program absolutely worth while, it was fun to do !
It breaks down the barriers too remind you "why & how" you fell
in love with each other in the first place, and shows you how to
recapture those momnets and feelings, and most importantly, to take it
forward.
M.A.C.
Ft.Lauderdale,
FL
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"I found the marriage
fitness program gave us the support we needed"
Dear
Mort
When my wife started to read Marriage
Fitness it was sort of in disguise
and then opened up to me what she was reading and linked me to your
website
and the marriage fitness program and what I thought. After briefly
looking over I
was interested in trying it out.
I thought the weekly seminars were informative and motivating and the
post reports the following day were a good recap or review for those
who
need a second chance.
The homework assignments were really good for the reason that it got
you
to read and use the book in many different ways and forced us to really
work
out our differences right from week one.
I found the marriage fitness program gave us the support we needed, the
Q & A sessions
helped people open up and direct you in the right way to a positive
way. But
that is just the beginning and their is alot more work ahead of us ,
with
all your help and support.
thank you for putting our marriage in the right direction and its nice
to
know you are their for some support if needed
Thank you
J.S. , Toronto, Canada
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"We have been to 3
different therapists together. None of them has helped me as much as
your book alone."
Mort,
I am finding your book and the
marriage fitness program to be eye-opening and extremely helpful in me
making positive changes. My wife has noticed a change for the better.
We have been to 3 different therapists
together. None of them has helped me as much as your book alone.
Thanks so much.
RR
Ellicott
City , MD
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"I truly believe that I
have won back my marriage. "
Dear
Mort,
I am writing to say thank you.
Long story short, I was convinced
(basically on "my gut feelings") that my husband was having at least an
emotional affair with an ex girlfriend. I never tried to kid myself; I
knew that we had problems in the marriage, and that I was at least
partly to blame. But because my husband "turned outside of
the marriage” instead of “inside" seeking
"emotional support" the distance between us was growing by the
minute. But thanks to your advice, our marriage is stronger
than ever before. He has "come clean" and told me the truth
(enough of the truth anyway).
At my request, he ha s c alled the
"girlfriend" (with me on the other end of the phone), and explained to
her that in order to make his marriage work, he will no longer be able
to talk to or see her.
So, in closing, thanks to your
wonderful advice my marriage is not only going to survive, we are
stronger because of what we have gone through, and I truly believe that
I have won back my marriage.
Thank you so very much for helping me
get through this very trying time, and allowing me to learn how to save my marriage,
and keep the love of my life, in my life.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Sincerely, Joan G.
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"Mort's program has helped
me gain strength, understanding, wisdom, and most of all renewed hope. "
I
found Mort's program 8 months after learning my husband was having an
affair.
We had been married 22 years with 2
beautiful children and what I thought was a happy marriage. I
was evidently wrong.
I began counseling and
reading EVERYTHING I could find about affairs, but
nothing spoke of how to rebuild a marriage the way Mort does.
My husband is still seeing the other
woman, and while it kills me, I always knew that the only solution is
for us to repair what was broken in our relationship. No one
could help with that until I found Mort. My only wish has been that I
found him MUCH earlier!!!!!
Mort's
program has helped me gain strength, understanding, wisdom, and most of
all renewed hope.
If
your marriage is in ANY trouble at all, try Mort's program.
You will benefit beyond belief! Leave your heart
and soul open for his help. Mort has been a godsend,
one I wish had happened sooner!
T.A.
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"Our marriage issues were infidelity
by my husband and we are now on track to renewing our relationship with
the help of Marriage fitness."
Mort,
I can't express the impact Marriage fitness has had on our Marriage.
Getting back to the Basics of a relationship has been overwhelmingly
rewarding. Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are
now on track to renewing our relationship with the help of Marriage
fitness. The trust is starting to come back,This program has given me
hope that we can survive this and the struggles of what that type of
stress and issues that it bring s…
With the help of your program it has
brought us back together,I thought it was over because of his affair .. . That he was not
sure he wanted to give up he has chosen to stay with me and work out
our issues. He has chosen to stay with me and rekindle what we once
had. It has not been an easy task to start trusting and forgiving him
for the infidelity,But he has great qualities as a person that I LOVE
VERY MUCH and I know in our hearts we are now on the right track to
becoming soul mates once again. I started out jus t receiving free
e-mails and then 3 weeks into that we signed up for the boot
camp and it was the one thing that has really helped in so many ways. I
have already recommended this program to a few couples and feel very
strongly that your program has helped me save what is very dear to me
My Marriage and my soul mate and can not tell you how greatly this has
impacted our lives. My gratitude is overwhelming and we can't thank you
enough for giving us the tools to save our marriage
Ricki
"When we joined the
Marriage Fitness Program things started clicking."
Scott
and I just completed the Marriage Fitness Program and I would highly
recommend the experience for every marriage, not just those
“in trouble”. We have been married 18 years and for
the most part things have gone well. About a year ago, I started
feeling the “blahs” in our marriage. Nothing was
really wrong. I just felt like I had lost that loving feeling. I felt
that there should be more. We were adequate room mates, but we were no
longer soul mates. We had conversations about what we were doing wrong,
about going to therapy and even about getting divorced. We then bought Marriage
Fitness and tried to work through it ourselves. We applied
about as much effort as we had been applying to our relationship
– very little. When we joined the Marriage Fitness Program
things started clicking. We worked together on the homework. We worked
together on loving each other and showing that love to each other. We
now place our relationship and our time together as the number one
thing in our lives. We have had a lot of fun doing this program and we
got out relationship and marriage back. And I got my best friend back.
My life works so much better now. Thanks Scott – oh! And
thanks Mort!
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"You were a God given gift
to my marriage"
Mort,
You can't imagine how you have helped
me in my marriage. You have reduced the number of cups flying towards
my head of late.
We are improving real fast and most
fences have been mended. Thank you so much.
You were a God given gift to my
marriage.
God Bless You
H.K.
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"Our
daily actions are proof positive that your approach can work miracles"
Mort,
My husband and I want you to know that
your book and teleconferences have strengthened our communication
skills and positively changed our attitude towards one
another.
We
now both share the same perspectives on:
•
Why WE are so important
•
How to navigate through (a work in progress) the martial journey
•
Where positive actions and outlooks will take us
•
What to do
•
Who benefits besides us
•
Our family.
We are grateful beyond words which is
best because our daily actions are proof positive that your approach
can work miracles. We have decided to reconcile.
The timing of my husband moving back home is still
undetermined due to the many details that are entailed.
I have personally spoken of your book
and marriage coaching with everyone that asks, "Why would you want to
get back together with your husband?" My first response is-
"I did not have to throw the baby out with the bath water! I
had to drastically change the temperature of the bath and hold on tight
to my baby."
Respectfully,
DC
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"Your program was very insightful - the
CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me"
Dear
Mort……
I
am not sure where to begin. Everything you have taught me seems so
practical but something we forget over time. Today I am
applying the techniques even though I am a lone ranger, and I can se e change … I am a better man, a better Dad and a
better spouse than I ever was before. Your program was very
insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me.
Your advice is absolutely right on the mark and has helped me
tremendously. And it seems that when I am struggling I get
that one email or piece of advice from you that makes me think it all
through a little more clearer. Thanks for helping
me out.
G
.
O
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"The
steps have also refreshed a general feeling of wellness"
Hi
Mort,
Marriage
Fitness has been helpful to the rebuilding of our marriage because
of
its step-wise implementation. The steps have also refreshed a general
feeling
of wellness; perhaps a reflection of the way things once were in our
marriage.
Best
wishes to you,
KG
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" Thanks for your help. "
Dear
Mort,
I just got home from work. (Don had
today off). Laying on the table when I walked into the kitchen was an
envelope with my name on it. My first thoughts are he bought a card and
plans to tell me to buy something for my birthday while we're away next
week.
When I pull the card from the
envelope, I see it is a romantic type card (he's more of the
humor card person) so I am thinking ...Wow he actually stood
in Hallmark and read cards to find one for me.
Then when I opened the card, a busines
s c ard from a local jeweler falls out and on it a gift description of
a birthstone necklace that he ordered for me.
He went on his own and picked
something out! I am so happy it makes me cry when I am typing
this. And it's not because I am getting a necklace it is
because I feel understood. He hit it right on!
You said things like thi s c ould
happen....And they do! Thanks for your help.
Laurie
P.S. If I didn't know better, I would
think you were secretly having coaching sessions with Don!
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"He
moved back in"
Mort,
It's been two years since I joined the Marriage Fitness Program (it's like an online marriage retreat) as a lone ranger and then
continued with plugged in. I then retreated
and sort of gave up on my marriage when
we became legally separated and he moved
in with the other women! But just as you
had predicted, things don't grow in dirty
soil and the rational "lies"
crept up to haunt them both. He moved
back in but did not reconcile with me.
Here is hope now for all you lone rangers
out there. Two years and guess what he
is listening to your tapes and paid for
me to become plugged in. He keeps repeating
everything you have said on the tapes
so its absorbing. Of course same issues
and yes he has not taken action on what
he is learning but this is a miracle nevertheless.
Thank you and I hope I have encouraged
someone out there in the same position
as I!
M.S.
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"There
is nothing about the program that makes
you feel badly about yourself or your
spouse"
I
found the Marriage Fitness program online
and after thinking about it for a while,
then experiencing two counseling sessions
with a marriage counselor and walking
out of the session, I decided to give
this a try. There is nothing about the
program that makes you feel badly about
yourself or your spouse. It is filled
with common sense and gives you the feeling
that you will just be a better person
no matter what the outcome of your marriage.
I'm happy to say that my situation has
improved greatly and I am happier. But
I really believe that if my relationship
had not improved I would still be in a
better place because the focus is on loving
– yourself and others and how to go about
that. And you can't lose when you tackle
life in this manner. Thanks, Mort!
cjm
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" We
learned so much, and with your help were able to
reconnect"
Hi Mort
Alex and I
have completed the marriage fitness program last week.
We are
implementing your secrets, we found the program very
fulfilling.
We are
celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary August
16. I was 18 and he was 21 years old when we got
married. We have twin boys 23 and
a daughter 25 years old and we are proud
grandparents 3 times. Both grandaughters are just over 2
years old and a grandson 3 weeks old.
I'm glad I
found your program back in
February, for us it was a matter
of reconnecting, yes we were roommates with not much
conversation. Alex and I did the dual track.
Alex signed up for the program, I received all of your
e-mails which I couldn't wait to read.
We learned
so much, and with your help were able to reconnect.
We read
our marriage mission statement every day, and do the
7 secrets. and I love the poem "The Beauty of Love" yes there
is a more beautiful thing than young love, Old love, I want to be Old
Love with my husband.
I'm hoping
someday to have the opportunity to thank you in person.
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"We have been back together
for over two years now"
Mort I just
wanted you to know my husband and I where separated for 6 months. I got
your cds by myself and listened to them. When I knew who I was my
husband came home. He listened to the cds and it related a lot to him
and his feelings. We have been back together for over two years now.
Thank you for such wonderful advice :) God Bless
DKM
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"With the instruction Mort
provided I have faith that my marriage has a chance. "
I
was lonely and feeling isolated. So I typed “separation
pain” into Google and found Mort. After doing one of the
Marriage Fitness assessments, I realized that there was hope for my
marriage. And prompt personal responses from Mort assured me of his
integrity. Since reading Marriage Fitness and doing the Marriage
Fitness Program, I have accepted responsibility for my situation and no
longer feel like a helpless victim. I also learned to empathize with my
husband. I now have the strength to persevere. The support and
encouragement Mort gave me provided a steadying effect when I might
have otherwise reacted negatively and ruined any chance of reconciling
with my husband. Mort taught me that there is no quick fix and that I
have much pain to overcome, but with the instruction Mort provided I
have faith that my marriage has a chance.
JD,
Toronto, Canada
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"You realize that you are
not alone in your quest (even if you are a Lone Ranger in your
marriage)"
Dear
Mort,
I thank you wholeheartedly for your
book and the Marriage Fitness Program. I do offer you my
gratitude for your wisdom borne of your own experience, your
compassion, your ability to see to the heart of the matter in problem
marriages, and your practical guidelines that mark the path
back to each other and make it so clear and simple, though not
necessarily easy.
You've
done such a beautiful job with your book, which is easy to read and
understand. It's like having an "ah-hah" moment, when you
suddenly see something that seems so clear that you wonder how you
could have missed seeing it before. But the real beauty of it
is that you don't leave the reader wondering how to implement the
concept. So I read your book, found some validation and
reinforcement for the hope I had ... but didn't follow through with
implementation; it was kind of hit or miss with some of your exercises.
The
Marriage Fitness Program is absolutely the perfect follow-up for the
book or the perfect accompaniment to the book. It is the book
brought to life and action. It's energizing to hear your
voice and the voices of the other participants. You realize
that you are not alone in your quest (even if you are a Lone Ranger in
your marriage) and as a participant you can learn from the live answers
that you are giving to questions about real-life problems.
How many times have I seen our issues reflected in someone else's
problems and come away with wisdom from your answer to that
person that I can apply to my own marriage.
The live conferences, the Q&A
sessions, the workbook, the CDs are remarkable tools that give
a person chance after chance to access the material and implement your
techniques. The program takes into account the pressures and
schedules of busy couples in today's world, but you never veer from the
central them of "Put Love First" and your marriage must be your
priority.
The future of our marriage remains
unclear, but I count myself as the recipient of untold benefits in my
own life from having come into contact with you via a newspaper article
first, then your book, the marriage fitness program, and coaching
sessions. I believe you to be a person of
remarkable wisdom and insight, a person of
impeccable integrity, and a man who truly has found
his life's work in service to others.
C.L.
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"We
are more in love now than we were
when we got married! "
Hey Mort,
My husband and I
hit rock bottom over the summer.
He has Chron's
Disease and was misdiagnosed for years (15 to be exact). I begged and
pleaded with him to go to another doctor but he refused since his
mother and sister found the doctor he was going to.
Daily I would
fix 3 meals a day for him and daily he would throw them out. As if that
wasn't frustrating enough he was EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful to me
yet would call his mom and sister daily and would ALWAYS end the call
with “I LOVE YOU” then be a jerk to me. I had it!
I would sit and
think of all the times that he would leave me and go running to be with
his mom and sister including the day after we got married. He waited
for me to jump in the shower and left to go on vacation with them,
without ever saying a word to me. Needless to say there's a real bad
history between me and his mom and sister. That issue is what drove me
to my breaking point.
Confused and
frustrated I turned to the internet looking for some kind of answer.
Should I stay miserable or should I try to rebuild a totally destroyed
marriage that I did. I e-mailed Mort and his response was that there is
always hope. So, I signed up for the lone ranger course knowing that my
husband wouldn't be on board with me. He thinks he's perfect. I started
the program and followed the suggestions. I learned how to fix a marriage.
We are more in love now than we were when we got
married! I know that it's a process that needs to continue to be worked
on and we will but it TRULY saved us. I'm so happy that I made two very
important decisions 1) Did Mort's program and 2) Decided to rebuild our
marriage, I can't imagine my life with anybody else but Patrick.
Sincerely,
Lori
A.
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