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"The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage."

DO NOT waste one more moment contemplating enrolling in Mort's program! The time you wait will not only extend your agony, but you risk depression and serious mistakes in your marriage. I admit I had strong reservations about joining Marriage Fitness. Boy was I wrong... The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage. Eventhough I completed Mort's program without my wife's participation our situation has improved drastically. It is really true that one person in a marriage can make a difference.

In my experience the effort required to renew my marriage is the hardest thing I've ever done. Like any other tough endeavor in life you need the best advice and council you can get to succeed. Mort is the best I've seen...and I've enrolled in other programs. Mort has the credibility, insights and practical solutions that will put you in the best position to succeed.

Chris Craft

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"Thanks to your program... my husband has come home for good."

Dearest Mort!

Thank-you so much for having such a wonderful program available for people like my husband, Ray and I.

I ordered your program using the lone ranger track. I had come home from a vacation with my daughter back in July and on that day my husband told me that he would always love me but was no longer in love with me. He did not wish to discuss things any further and wanted me to just release him from our marriage and move on with life.We have been married for 22 years and I was so blind I didn't even realize our problems were so life altering for our family.

That night I went on line seeking out anything I could find to help "fix" our marriage. I stumbled on to your Marriage Fitness Program and signed up for the emails that you send out every few days. I read these emails and realized how wonderful your program is.

In the mean time my husband was pulling further and further away. He had moved out of the house and into another woman's home.

The day after he moved out I ordered the Teleboot camp. I started using your techniques and advise immediately. Without your good advise and guidance I don't believe I would have found the strength and courage to hold on.

Thanks to your program and the ideals that make a lasting relationship so much more than attainable, my husband has come home for good. Although I completed the teleboot camp using solely the lone ranger track, my husband and I are beginning the program from the beginning together. We have a lot of fixing left to do, but I have every faith that we now will be the fabulous couple we always dreamed we would be.

Our eternal gratitude to you,

Brenda Bennett

P.S. Please feel free to use our names and photo to help anyone that may need the strength and courage to rebuild thier marriage.

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" I feel I can breath again. This was the single most best choice I have made to help myself and my marriage."

"I really blew it! I knew I needed to change. The reality was crystal clear but the path critical and hard. I started by acknowledging dysfunctions within and the devastation my behavior inflicted on my spouse, but what I needed was functional, expert, proven, solid advice and support from a trusted and professional outside source that really cared. Whew, tall order! I found Marriage Fitness staring at me one day on my computer. Intrigued, I checked it out and tried the free email advice for weeks. Just when I needed that very piece of information, it came, faithfully and right on target. Who knew? This was right on, what I needed AND accessible from home, so I finally just clicked the button. I committed my efforts to fixing me and stopped waiting for my husband to come around to what I had found. The best way to help my marriage was to work on myself and to apply the principles of marriage fitness to my life. There is great transforming power here and the guidance comes from a source that lives these principles daily. I chose the Home Flex Program because once I decided, I wanted to start immediately and guess what? There is was the very next day! This is REAL and I have no doubt I am on the right path for life. There are answers to hard questions and ways to make change, not temporary quick fixes but life transforming changes. I feel I can breath again. This was the single most best choice I have made to help myself and my marriage. No matter what my outcome, I have a new outlook and can love myself again. And guess what else? My husband IS coming around!"

~KC

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"...we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home."

I wanted to thank you for your support during my recent separation from my husband of 30 years. I wanted to share my happy ending with you.

We have always had what everyone thought was the "perfect marriage" and so did I. We had our ups and downs, but we were caring, giving, and loving with each other. My husband, however, after turning 50 seemed to think he had missed out on something, and left me for another woman. I was devastated, and did not see it coming as we had always been best friends, had a great sex life, and had worked together in our family medical office. He had become unhappy in life, and our children had recently moved away from our small town, so we moved to a larger city. He had gastric bypass, lost 150 pounds, and for the first time in a long time had more female attention than he was used to. I was stressed with the move, a new job, had taken on 17 UC and FM offices as Medical Director, and we were living in an apartment with our college age children trying to figure out where we wanted to buy a home. He met a woman during this vulnerable time, and despite a wonderful 2 weeks in Maui, when we returned, he moved out to live with her.  That is when I found your program.

I started it on my own, and then got him to listen to some of the CD's. We talked. We e-mailed. We worked together at an UC and no one there ever knew we had separated. We love each other, and he was miserable and sad, and felt very guilty for his actions, but due to that, he did not attend our counseling session with you either. I did not give up. You kept my faith up that things could get better. I loved him through his crisis, and reminded him of our strengths and history. I gave him cards, brought him Starbucks when he was working, made him treats with notes left on his desk at work, and sent him a postcard to the office (didn't want to send it to her house) when I went to visit my brother in CA saying I wish you were here. He would call me on the phone and we would talk for hours, and he would e-mail me jokes or funny things to read. And so it began.

After 2 1/2 months, he begged my forgiveness, I begged his, and we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home. The children were angry with him, but we loved them through this and talked openly with them about how all relationships have problems, but it is how we handle those problems that make us who we are, and allow us to reap the benefits of our efforts. We told them that the most important thing is that we did not give up on each other, and now we were stronger than before.

My husband and I have been back together for 5 months. We renewed our vows with our children officiating at our 30th anniversary 8/9/10, we have purchased our dream home, have coordinated our schedules to have 3 days off per week together when we rock climb, ski, hike, or relax. We have finished our medical thriller, "The Clones of Harvest Home," and Catherine Coulter and her agent are assisting us with the publishing process. We have taken a 2 1/2 week vacation to Maui, and have been even closer than before we split up. As I said, we have been each other's best friend since we were 19, and continue to be, but our trials have taught us so much about each other. We are very in love, and know that we will have some ups and downs, but know that we are soul mates, and will be together forever.

Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time. I am not sure I could have done it without you. I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else that we were done. If I had not reached out to him, his pride would not have let him come back I am sure. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful philosophy and program. We are forever indebted.

I have recommended your program to several of my patients, and co-workers, and I hope they will take advantage of what you offer, and reap the benefits as well. Happy holidays.

Gratefully,

Debby Salter, M.D.

(you may use this testimonial if you would like to - I would be honored)

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"...my husband now says he is in love with me!"

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to thank you for helping me save my marriage.

We have been married 6 ½ years. My husband travels for work. As a result, more than 50% of our married life has been spent apart. This has really taken a toll on us. I have to wonder if any two people have been as hateful and volatile as we became! We've been to marriage counseling 4 times in the last 6 years, and it didn't help a bit. We were the couple that made others jealous, but behind closed doors we could be worst enemies. When we weren't fighting, we were ignoring and avoiding each other, which was easy to do with him gone so much.

Three months ago my husband told me he was done. He couldn't handle the fighting anymore and wanted to move out. He said he didn't love me like a husband should love his wife. He said he just didn't care enough to try anymore. He said he wanted a divorce. Normally I was the one in our marriage who threw that word around. But when he said it, my world came crashing down. It was the first time he had ever said something like that and I knew he was serious.

After the initial shock wore off, I decided not to just give up and let the divorce happen. I got online and found your program. With the money back guarantee I figured I had nothing to lose. My husband had made it clear that he was done trying so I went with the Lone Ranger program.

It was really difficult, especially in the beginning. For all the positive things I did, he was still very negative. I would drive 5 hours to see him, take him homemade food, and he would kick me out. But I persevered. It has been 3 months, and my husband now says he is in love with me! He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores. We are making plans for the future!

I owe it all to you. Thanks for everything!

HMD

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"The Marriage Fitness Program has saved my marriage too!"

The Marriage Fitness program has saved my marriage too! Me and my husband have been separated for 5 months and were heading to a divorce. Then I had the chance to do Mr Fertel's brilliant program which can change what everyone else thinks is impossible to change! I can honestly say that I feel privileged for living in the same era with him and for being able to do his program from Greece where I live. I wouldn't have been able to save my marriage without his help.

P . Vlasi

"Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing."

Dear Mort,

I want to thank you for developing the

tele-fitness boot camp and making it so

accessible both in cost and ease of use.

My marriage had been on a downward

trajectory for a year and despite my

needs, wants and intentions, I couldn't

seem to turn it around. My husband and I saw two marriage counselors together, and each saw individual counselors and again things just got progressively worse. Over the year, my husband moved out of our marital bed, eventually moved out of the house, and had an affair.

I started the tele-boot camp the week my husband moved out. Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing. I learned to change my focus from my feelings and my reaction to my husband's behavior to of my intentions and my desired outcome.

Your program helps you stay focused

despite the results that you initially

get. Conventional wisdom and advice

tells you to use tough love to get what

you want, to make demands, to not accept bad behavior. The problem is that this

advice is ineffective. You taught me

how to love unconditionally, how to

become the person I wanted to become so

that my spouse would be crazy not to

love me. By changing myself despite

what my husband was doing, I learned how to become lovable again instead of being cold, disappointed, bitter and disillusioned.

Within two months my husband moved back

in, ended the affair, and is working on

building our marriage. He has

re-engaged with family life, reached out to our extended family to build bridges and is focusing on meeting my needs.

The reason your program is so different

from anything that is out there is

because you help people achieve their

desired outcome. In addition to not

judging them for wanting their desired

outcome, you encourage them and admire

them for their strength of conviction

and moral compass.

Once I started your program, I blocked

out all other noise with regards to

rebuilding my marriage. You are my

mentor and my support system. Whenever

I have a bad day with my husband and

lose focus, I re-read your book, listen

to your CDs, or tune into a

tele-conference. I would have spent

thousands of dollars with my therapist

and I still would not have achieved my

desired outcome.

From the bottom of my heart - thank you.

YOUR PROGRAM turned my marriage around.

I know I would have survived had my

marriage failed, but I didn't want to

survive - I wanted to stay married. I

wanted my old, loving, kind and caring

husband back, and he's coming.

I couldn't recommend your program more.

Sincerely,

jw

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"...the miracle I prayed for did materialize and it happened because of you and your Marriage Fitness program "

Dear Mort,

Lisa and I want to thank you, once again, for giving us such valuable advice. As I mentione d , my personal goal over the past 6 months was to somehow find a resource that would catalyze a miracle to help us reconcile and restore our marriage of 32 years. The Marriage Fitness program together with the insightful communications you regularly send by email made all the difference in our lives … We have more work ahead of us but from my perspective, the miracle I prayed for did materialize and it happened because of you and your Marriage Fitness program.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Sincerely,

Richard C

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"He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting"

Dear Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed you asking if your program would work for my situation. I bought the Marriage Fitness Home-Flex program out of desperation with the thought, "If this doesn't work at least I tried." My husband was already looking for a roommate and telling me who will get what in the divorce. We went to four marital counseling sessions before he said, "I don't know why we are going, I am done with you." I am not sure why we went either, we just ended up fighting the whole time. So long story short I followed your program (in the Lone Ranger Track), signed up for your emails, and started applying your ideas. There were many days I felt like why bother, he is done with me, but I kept following the program. Ten days ago he told me he was leaving. I almost gave up but didn't. I kept following the program. Two days ago my husband came home from hiking (alone). He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting. He said he is ready to work on our marriage. I know we are on a long journey now but at least now we are on that journey together. I know you probably hear it all the time but you once again saved a marriage that would have dissolved without you. Thank you so much for all of your help.

Thanks again,
KS

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"I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair "

Dear Mort,

I know you have heard it before, but I want to say it again.... You saved my marriage. My husband said he "loved me but was not in love with me anymore". He was having an affair, during a very hard pregnancy which I later miscarried. I was not very nice when I was pregnant and I was depressed so he turned to someone else. Needless to say losing a baby and a marriage in a two week time-span was unbearable. So I turned to you. Counseling had been a joke just telling us how to communicate. Your program told me what to do. I followed the program exactly. I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair and "rededicated his life to me".

Thanks so much,

Lisa Blank

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"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "

Dear Mort,

Thank you for your program. I was driving into my driveway finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving. Upon arriving home, your program had come as well. Rather than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a disk. Long story short, we'll be working this out together, getting connected, completing your action steps. I can't wait to continue connecting. After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. Thank you.

Greg Burke
Denver, CO

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"I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"

Dear mort,

I was reluctant to begin the lone ranger program. Wondering how I would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program alone. Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new habbits used in your program, it is proven to work. I could not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my husband. Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program with me he felt it would not help. So I did not tell him and I started the program. After a few weeks, my husband had commented he seen a change in me. I then took the opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness program. He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference call scheduled and how things are going. Even though he has not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our marriage. I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to improve how to be a better you!

Thank you Mort for making us matter...

Sincerely & God Bless

JoAnn S.

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"I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing"

Dear Mort,

Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to be true, but I gave it a shot.

I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been. After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

Sincerely,

Melissa K.

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"We are more in love than we have ever been!"

Dear Mort:

At the time that I started getting your emails, my husband and I had been
split up six months. In that period, we had tried twice to reconcile, and failed.
I didn't hold much hope of us reconciling at that point...But I cried myself
to sleep at night because I was still so much in love with my husband. We are
in our fifties Mort, we are not spring chickens. I must have burned the good
Lord's ears with all of my tears and my pleas for my marriage. Anyway, I
found you on the internet, and started reading intently, shouldering my own part
in our break up, and doing some deep thinking.

Then you began making suggestions...To make a long story short, it took one
month following your suggestions, and my husband called me up for a date on
my birthday!! He stayed with me for three days. In a week, he was back here
again, and he told me he didn't want to live without me anymore. Two months
later and we are more in love than we have ever been. Your advice worked for us.

...by the way, my husband never knew about your program. So you're right:
one person in the marriage can follow the advice, and the love it inspires reaches
both people.

I am one thankful woman. I love my husband more than my own life. We lost a
business, our house, but we did not lose each other.

Thank you so much for being inspired, I believe, by God!! bettyann

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"I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your program"

Dear Mort:

Thank you so much for your program!

I was very unsure initially, but my desperation overcame my skepticism. I clung to the Marrige Boot Camp Program and when we had a rough day, I'd listen to a disk again... I've memorized some of them!

Your program gave me something to think about, something to do, and a practical, common-sense approach to an area of life that I had always found capricious and confusing.

I started on the Lone Ranger Track, but my husband has noticed such significant changes in me and my behaviour, that he is now joining in, so I m starting the Program over on the Duo Track with him.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your Program; at least, not happily.

But now, thanks to you, we are rediscovering "us".

Take care,

R+G

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"Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple"

Mort,

I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories work, but they do!

I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To do my job I couldn't always attend the Q & A’s live, but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a lifesaver.

Keep up the good work

Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois

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"Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship"

It is certain that his program works.

When we started the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.

Mort's program stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.

We both gained new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed to grow.

Our children have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of marriage communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.

Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.

Justin and Jan C.

Elgin , SC

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Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes” because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you one day. Good luck!

"The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs"

Dear Mort,

You asked for a testimonial from me and I am happy to provide one:

I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program in the Lone Ranger track. My husband, after nearly thirty years together, told me he was no longer happy in the marriage and 'wanted out'. Only someone who has experienced this would understand the shock and pain this kind of situation creates. I did everything I could think of to change his mind, and for some brief moments, I believed I had succeeded, only to have my heart broken again and again. After six months I gave up hope, bought a condo and moved out. I was convinced he was going to move out if I didn't, and the idea of living alone in our family home was more than I could bear.

Things got worse after I moved out. he wanted to be 'friends' and I wanted to curl up and die. Our children, adults themselves, were damaged by our breakup. Other family members were upset, and our friends were confused and feeling awkward. I felt like I was living in a nightmare that I couldn't wake up from. That's when I searched the internet for help and found Mort and his Marriage Fitness Program.

My relationship with my husband started to change after the first tele-seminar. Mort made me realize I was behaving contrary to what I was wanting and feeling … After that, instead of arguing with him, I took Morts advice and put our issues aside. I practiced behaviors that I learned in the Marriage fitness program and my husband and I became closer. Instead of being combative, we started to enjoy each others company again.

Currently, my husband and I are working toward a complete reconciliation. The process is sometimes very difficult and I have to admit, I backslide sometimes. Mort warns that it won't be easy, and he wasn't kidding! Rebuilding trust is very difficult, but I believe my marriage is worth the pain and effort it's going to take to save it. The best news is that my husband is now 'on board' and eager to reconcile!

Many times when I've felt hopeless, I receive an e-mail from Mort, or listen to a CD or a tele-seminar, and I feel my resolve return … The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs, and sooner rather than later. I waited almost 10 months before I sought help and finally signed up, and during that time I made some decisions that only made things worse. Had I signed up sooner, I could have saved myself a lot of grief …

Leslie S.

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"I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of

my life"

It is with great appreciation that I write this testimonial! My marriage has been saved thanks to the lessons I have learned from this program. I was also motivated by this program to become a better person and live up to my potential. How many programs offer two for one?! In all seriousness I am doing the things in my relationship I should have done all along and either wasn't mature enough, confident enough or simply didn't know.

Perhaps equally important, I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of my life and I have this program to thank. When things go wrong many people decide to give up but I was motivated to fight for what was important and my efforts are being rewarded. I am not a religious person but I am still counting my blessing in many areas of my life. Thank you so much for the guidance I needed and the encouraging words needed to persevere.

Sincerely,

Kolleen D.

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"It is life changing"

Just wanted to send you an e-mail to say THANK YOU for your marriage fitness program. It is life changing. I can't even wait to get to the next CD, the next teleseminar or the next chapter in my workbook. Every time I think I have my question to ask you on the laser appointment, it gets answered in some way in the materials I have from you. Looking forward to a new life, a new marriage and great things to happen.

I appreciate YOU!!!

Lisa Bird

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"your Marriage Fitness program...had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately"

Dear Mort,
After 32 years of marriage, my wife told me that she had found a man whom she loves and wanted a divorce and was leaving immediately. I was stunned. Fortunately I read about your program and signed up for the lone ranger course. It is two months later and we have not yet separated…I can attribute the fact that there is a chance at reconciliation directly to your Marriage Fitness program. It had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately. Just as important, it pointed out the attitudes in both of us that almost guaranteed us going from soul mates to roommates to the very edge of divorce. Your one on one consultations have been simply invaluable… Your help has been invaluable.

Gratefully, BB

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"My husband came back home permanently"

Hi Mort

I would really like to take this opportunity to thank you very very much from the deepest place in my heart for all your emails, the Audios and the Marriage Fitness program. Yor really helped me save my marriage and keeping the momentum to make sure we do not get back from where we were.

My husband came back home permanently in March 2011, 9 months after our major fight. It was a long wait but like you say that we expect quick fixes to our problems and it does not work as it took some time for our marriage problems to be at a state where it looks like nothing will ever work.

It was a long wait but it was worth it. He kept on coming to see the kids and will sleep over and leave again and it really used to tear me into pieces. I kept all your emails (even to date) and would read them all over again each time I felt down or thought things will never get better.

Its been 6 months since he has been back, and we handle our differences much better than we used to and they are far and far in between. I still apply your teachings in order to keep the momentum of our marriage. We are so happy now, he brings me to work and fetches me almost every day, something he last did in 2003. We go out almost every Friday night. My children are also themselves now as the separation was affecting them very badly and their teachers were noticing that they were affected and things might not be well back home.

You are right in that you can single handedly change your marriage situation and get to see the chances you what to see in your partner. But the most important thing is to be patient and it can take longer than expected

Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you. I have been telling my friends about you and one of my friends recently subscribed to your website and is now receiving your emails.

Kind Regards

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"Thank you for your program. When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily"

Mr. Fertel,

My husband told me he was leaving me for a woman he had fallen in love with, that we were never meant to be together, and that he had never felt the way with me that he felt with her. I obviously had little hope for my marriage… I begged my counselor to tell me how to act. I didn't know which end was up. For the entire summer, I found myself going from angry and bitter to kind and pleasant daily. I was miserable and part of that was because I had all of these feelings and didn't know what to do with them. Then I found your program. My counselor kept telling me that I needed to separate from my husband (which was hard because he was still living with us) physically within the home and emotionally. I was a mess simply because I felt so conflicted. What you did for me was teach me how to act at a time when I was so lost and felt so alone. Your program gave my life purpose again. I began to look forward to the day when I had a plan for what to do. My pastor gave me the kick in the pants to start, but you taught me how to make my way back to my husband's heart. While I could see your program working, I never really believed he would come back. I still felt like I needed to try for myself. About a month, or a little less, after beginning the program, my husband told me that he wanted to reconcile. While it took some time for my husband to break off completely from this other woman, the affair did stop. He no longer is in contact with her and we are doing better that we ever have. he felt all of the resentment and anger he had built up over the years go away. I believe God played a huge part in that, but I believe he used your program to help me get to that point. Thank you for your program. When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily. It truly helped me get through the day.

Name Withheld Upon Request

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"I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS"

Dear Mort,

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY (OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS! THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR HELP.

SINCERELY,

KARIN SHELDON

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"Your program had a great impact not only on my marriage, but also improved me as an individual..."

Dear Mort,

I was thinking day after day in order to find proper words to appreciate you for the new window which you opened in my life. While I am in the beginning of reconciling my marriage, but your program had a great impact not only on my marriage, but also improved me as an individual and I see its effect in my work as well. At the beginning, I was wondering if your program will apply to my life since I am from middle east with different culture, but now I believe that the truth is truth and will apply in each and every case.

God bless you.

Best Regards

Jaber

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"Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own"

I just had to thank you and express how grateful I am to have had your extremely effective advice. I've been in your program for a couple of months now and went from having no hope to feeling like I have the perfect marriage! Your perspective has made me realize I CAN fix my marriage on my own. I'm amazed that by changing myself, my husband has changed as well! I didn't have to force him or even tell him, it just worked! You are truly a marriage genius! Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own. It just took those changes for it to be this good again. We're both much happier than we've ever been in years and I owe it all to you! I'll recommend you to anyone I know that wants help with their marriage. Thanks again.

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"Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading before getting married.

It is really that powerful!"

I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .

Mort taught me how to transform my perception of love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an active process of consistently giving in small ways among other good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.

It is really hard for a person to understand how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in. Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.

I still have work to do to win back my obstinate wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely key but without his Q&A sessions and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.

Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading in high school or at least before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other product or person's services in my entire life.

Stephen B.

Fenwick, ON Canada

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" After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team."

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Prior to starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my own emotional neglect, not to mention the years of financial distress, the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse after all this we thought that it was over. I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the first week, things changed. After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very much for your great program, it saved us and our family.

T.F.

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"WE have both seen improvement"

Although my husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice). We are just now starting to gather momentum. When Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to. Mort is right, IT IS NOT EASY. But we are not giving up. WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.

Bonnie and Jim R.

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"We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"

Dear Mort,

If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG

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"Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us"

Hi Mort:

I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.

We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of issues mostly about our blended families. We even been seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it apart.

Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have been a blessing to us and our marriage!

Wes & Irma

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"... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family"

Good morning Mort,

I want you to know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.

I had the opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.

I too... like many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.

God Bless!

MAJ Sven O.

ADC Section Chief, RAOC

AZ Army National Guard

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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do. Thanks)

(Jennifer: Yes! Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people! Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)

"We credit you for helping save our marriage

every chance we get!"

Dear Mort,

We are 2 of your success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every chance we get!

We've continued in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18 months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.

We just had to invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get positive feedback!

THANK YOU MORT!

Penny and Jeff Mazin

"After the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back"

In all the years that we have been together I can honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of roommates.

We just couldn't understand where things went wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together, we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it, even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments that were no longer.

I found Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again.

No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a difference, but we started and continued working with the program after four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .

Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there when we were searching for that help.

Peter & Ruby – Long Beach, CA.

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"You have helped [my husband] and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever. "

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.

I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever.

Thank you,

M.S. and J.M.

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"Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice..."

From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .

Dear Mort,

I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.

I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort, my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and that it has really worked.

To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer, because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen. Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty

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"I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program."

Dear Mort,