How to Seek Forgiveness in Marriage
Starting
with how to say "I'm Sorry"
Have
you ever heard the expression, "Love is never having to say
you're sorry?"
Sometimes I
wonder how such utterly ridiculous expressions
become commonly accepted. If you're close to someone, you're going to
step on
their toes occasionally. And when you hurt
someone,
ESPECIALLY YOUR SPOUSE,
it's
important to say, "I'm sorry." Otherwise, how will you ever
achieve forgivenss in your marriage.
Not only is
it important to say "I'm sorry," but
it's important to say it well. Usually the words alone are not enough.
You have
to get inside your spouse's heart, feel their pain, and in order for
them to
forgive you, they have to feel COMPLETELY understood. Otherwise, you
might say,
"I'm sorry," and your spouse might
say, "It's okay," but nothing will
change. You could be stuck in that hurt for years never getting to
ultimate forgiveness.
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