Seeing Your Marriage Problems Coming
About 100 years ago I played on my
high school baseball team (okay, I’m exaggerating a little,
but it feels like 100 years). Anyway, there was a pitcher who had a
nasty curve ball. It was the best curve ball in the league. But it was
actually easy to hit. Why? Because you knew it was coming.
The pitcher who threw this amazing
curve ball did something different in his wind-up when he threw the
curve. So you expected it, which made it easy to hit.
There are certain signs in a marriage
that "curve balls" are coming. I call them, "Famous Last Words." If you
hear (or say) any of the following, look out!
"We’re just friends."
"I only read it for the articles."
"It only happened once, honestly!"
"It didn’t mean anything."
"It was a wrong number."
"I can stop anytime I want."
"I found it at work." (referring to a
new piece of jewelry)
"I have a headache." (for the 10th
time)
"I’m tired." (for the 10th
time)
"What other bank account?"
If you’re reading this
email, you can probably add to the above list. In fact, feel free to
email me your contribution to my "Famous Last Words" list.
But most importantly,
I don’t want your last words to be, "I should have gotten
help."
The above are not really LAST words;
they’re WARNING words. They’re signs that a "curve
ball" is coming. If you prepare, if you TAKE ACTION, you can maintain
your marriage. If you ignore the signs and do nothing, they may be
famous LAST words.
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Bottom line is this:
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you the warmth it brings to my heart to hear from them how the boot
camp helped transformed their marriage situation. I’d like to
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Depending on your circumstances, you
may also benefit from private sessions. I do phone sessions and
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Let me know if you have any questions
and what I can do to help.
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