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Revolutionary Marriage Counseling Alternative Helps Couples and
Saves Thousands of Marriages.


Did you know that over 75% of people that go to marriage counseling report that they're WORSE off or divorced less than a year later?

Imagine spending all that time and money in marriage counseling trying to solve your problems and learning communication techniques only to find that nothing worked and that at best you're in the same place as when you started.

 

Now there's an ALTERNATIVE to marriage counseling—it's called Marriage Fitness, and it's a proven system for saving and restoring marriages.

 

Are you ready to get your marriage back on track?

 

Mort Fertel Hi. I'm Mort Fertel. Marriage Fitness is a ground-breaking systematic relationship-changing program that teaches you to neutralize your problems and implement a program of positive relationship habits that change the way you and your spouse relate. Those changes in turn “stop the bleeding” in your relationship and restore the connection you and your spouse once had. And the best news is—you don't have to talk about the past, hash out your problems, or practice communication strategies. This is not marriage counseling; it's Marriage Fitness.

 

Whether you've tried marriage counseling or not, Marriage Fitness works for relationships suffering from:

 

Infidelity • Lost Trust • Emotional Neglect • Addictive Behaviors

Emotional Abuse • the Brink of Divorce • Boredom • Separation

A Stubborn Spouse • Emotional Infidelity • Silent Treatments

You can do the program together, but one of the unique features about Marriage Fitness, as opposed to marriage counseling, is that it works even when only one spouse does it!

A woman named Patty who used Marriage Fitness after a bad experience in marriage counseling wrote me as follows:

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Dear Mort,

 

I did your program alone in April after months of a horrible experience in marriage counseling that ended with my husband moving out.  After following your advice my husband moved back home in June (on my birthday!).  We're now doing Marriage Fitness together and he says he's totally committed to making our marriage work. And it IS working!

 

Thanks for your help.

 

Patty D.

Pittsburg , PA

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I've been helping people like Patty save their marriages for years. Because Marriage Fitness has been profiled in Family Circle, Psychology Today, the Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, and on national TV including NBC, CBS, and Fox News. And it's endorsed by John Gray, Ph.D., the famed author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. But if you're just now having marriage problems you may not have noticed. So here's an opportunity to find out what Marriage Fitness is all about and get some FREE MARRIAGE HELP. Sign up in the box below and I'll send you my FREE report "7 Secrets for Fixing Your Marriage." There're no strings attached. The principles and practices advised in the report have helped heal thousands of marriages. In fact, there are now over 50,000 subscribers! Again, it's FREE, so go ahead and type in your first name and email address and I'll send you my free counsel immediately.

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Okay, now let's look further into the matter of marriage counseling.

Have you ever considered (or are you in) marriage counseling? If your marriage is in trouble, the answer is probably YES.

But will marriage counseling help you? Will marriage counseling be a healing experience, or will it make your situation WORSE?

As you know, Marriage Fitness is an ALTERNATIVE to marriage counseling. Why do we need an alternative to marriage counseling? What's wrong with marriage counseling?

I'd like to share with you some insights about marriage counseling and how to go about restoring your relationship.

Most marriage counselors who work with couples are trained to do INDIVIDUAL counseling. They view their marriage counseling work as an extension of individual psychotherapy. This is ridiculous. It's like asking a private tutor to take over a classroom. Let me explain.

Individual counseling is a laidback experience. The counselor asks questions and empathizes patiently as the client tells their story. Wherever the story goes the counselor follows and makes sure the client feels heard. Together, the client and the counselor discuss available options.

This method will NOT work for restoring a marriage.

Work on a marriage requires STRUCTURE, DIRECTION, and GUIDELINES. And the role of the professional in session is to be assertive and provide LEADERSHIP. Otherwise, a couple will simply move the battle ground from their house to their therapist's office. The therapist may feel that a lot has been clarified, but that's because it's the first time the therapist heard the fight. For the couple, nothing was accomplished. In fact, the couple leaves the session feeling hopeless that not even marriage counseling can make a difference.

Helping a couple heal a relationship is a completely different process than helping an individual "find themselves." If you want help with your marriage, you don't just want a professional to listen; you want someone with the confidence and the ability to provide a clear path to healing and who isn't shy about holding you and your spouse accountable to it. In short, you want LEADERSHIP. You want direction. You want someone to tell you what to do...what's worked for other couples. Marriage counseling usual fails in this regard. Marriage Fitness, on the other hand, provides a clear and proven step-by-step system for renewing your marriage.

Another problem with marriage counseling is that it unnecessarily demands that both parties get in touch with their FEELINGS.

Picture this: one day Brian gets a wake-up call from his wife and realizes he better shape up or he's going to lose his family. Finally, Brian agrees to go to marriage counseling. Early in the first marriage counseling session the counselor asks Brian, "How do you FEEL about being here?"

Brian says, "I just want to save my marriage."

"No Brian, that's not a feeling," says the counselor, "that's a thought. How do you FEEL?"

"I don't know," says Brian, "I thought we could talk abou t solutions to..."

"Brian, you need to work on yourself first before you can work on your marriage."

But Brian is NOT interested in individual counseling. He's not looking for insight into himself; he wants to fix his marriage. He doesn't care about his psyche right now; he cares about his wife. And there's nothing wrong with that!

Unfortunately, marriage counselors sometimes advise spouses to separate into individual sessions when they really want to work on their marriage. But individual counseling is NOT a prerequisite for marital work!

Let me be clear about this point. I'm NOT saying that there's anything wrong with self discovery. In fact, understanding yourself can only be positive AND it will certainly help you succeed with your marriage. However, it's not necessary. You CAN transform your marriage without entering individual therapy.

I want to share with you one more very important point about marriage counseling, but before I do let me again invite you to receive "7 Secrets for Fixing Your Marriage." It's FREE and I promise that it will get you on your way to saving and restoring your marriage. Go ahead and opt-in now. You can come back and read the below afterwards. Also, let me mention that you can unsubscribe at anytime and I will NEVER share or sell your contact information. Your privacy is important to me.

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Here's another big problem with traditional marriage counseling.

Many marriage counselors would describe themselves as "neutral" therapists; meaning that they aren't in favor of marriage or divorce. Instead, their job in the marriage counseling process is to guide you through a cost-benefit analysis. In other words, would you gain more by staying married or getting divorced?

If you should happen to meet a marriage counselor with this approach, while you're at it, ask them if you should buy or rent. (Ha Ha!)

Our society has become very consumer oriented. Unfortunately, this consumer mentality has seeped into marriage counseling. But deciding about your marriage is NOT akin to a purchasing decision. Relationships and family values do NOT lend themselves to charts listing pros and cons. That would be like trying to grasp an idea with your hand; it's the wrong approach. And it won't work.

The other thing worth noting about this cost-benefit approach which is typical amongst "neutral" therapists (by now you can see that they're not really neutral) is that it "favors" the more self-oriented spouse. But in a troubled marriage, it's that selfishness that needs to be tamed not freed.

I want you to know that I am NOT neutral. Except where there is physical abuse or danger, my job is to support the POSSIBILITY that you can restore your marriage. I'm pro-marriage. I'm not on your side or your spouse's side. I'm on the side of your marriage. And I think that's what most people need when they're having marital problems; someone to show them hope and offer them a clear path to restoring their relationship.

Recently I helped a woman named Julie save her marriage. After a failed experience in marriage counseling, she went through the Lone Ranger Track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp and I had a number of private sessions with her and eventually with her husband too. She said something to me after she felt safe in her marriage that I'm really proud of and that I think marks the distinction between Marriage Fitness and marriage counseling. Julie said, "You know Mort, when we went to marriage counseling, the counselor just kept asking us questions. But I got sick of being asked questions. I wanted answers. You gave me answers. And for that I'm thankful."

If you'd like answers too, then click on the link below to learn more about the various Marriage Fitness products and services that can help you save and restore your marriage.

Marriage Fitness Home-Flex ($399)

Everything you need to transform your marriage in your hands TOMORROW

Includes:

- 15 CD Home Learning System

- the Complete Marriage Fitness Workbook

- Autographed copy of Marriage Fitness

- Private PHONE Sessions with Mort Fertel

- Express Mail Delivery

- And more

 

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp ($399)

7 Weeks to the marriage you REALLY want

Includes:

- 7 Live Tele-Seminars given by Mort Fertel

- 3 Live Interactive Q&A Teleconferences hosted by Mort Fertel

- Private Phone Sessions with Mort Fertel

- Autographed copy of Marriage Fitness

- And more

Marriage Fitness Audio Starter Program (under $100)

Includes 5 CD's. DVD also available.

One last important point. I want to be clear that I'm not against marriage counseling. There are some very good counselors who truly understand how to help a couple succeed with their marriage. My comments about marriage counseling above are generalizations. Generalizations, by definition, are generally true. Of course, there are exceptions.

I wish you well. And please let me know how I can help you.

Warm regards,

Mort Fertel

Founder of Marriage Fitness

An Alternative to Marriage Counseling

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