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Just Say YES

 

I want to share with you a little about my kids. Bear with me, ultimately my point will help you solve your marriage problems.

Each year, I take each of my children on a short

2 day/1 night trip. It's a chance for me to get

quality 1-on-1 time with each of them away from

the family dynamics. They don't have to compete

for my attention. There are no siblings vying for

my time, no appointments, no teleconferences, no

meetings, I'm not working to solve people's marriage problems;

they get 2 days of my undivided attention.

 

On our way home traveling south on I95, my son

said to me, "Daddy, you said YES to everything on

this trip. Thank you."

 

I realized how often I have to say "no" to him

during a normal day.

 

It's not unusual for my kids to ask me in the

middle of a work day, "Daddy, will you play ball

with me? Daddy, will you read me a story? Daddy,

can you help me with this? Daddy, can you help me

with that?"

 

I'm not a stay at home dad. More often than not,

the answer to these questions is "No." I can't. I

have a schedule. I have commitments.

Don't get me wrong, I spend time with my kids

everyday. We have dinner together every night.

But when you have three 6 year olds and a 10 year

old, dinner plus an hour or two is not nearly

enough time to be able to say "Yes" to all their

requests. I find that I just have to say "No" a

lot. It's hard.

 

That's one of my goals on these 2 day private

trips with each kid: to say YES.

 

"Daddy, can we go to the exercise room?"

 

"Sure. Let's do it."

 

"Daddy, can I show you how I can read?"

 

"Absolutely."

"Daddy, can you not work on problem marriages

today?"

"Okay, no marriage problems work today."

 

"Daddy, can I get a souvenir (we went to the

United States Mint in Philadelphia)?"

 

"You can. What do you want? I'll buy it for you."

 

"Daddy, will you snuggle with me in bed tonight?"

 

"You bet. I got us a room with one king bed

only."

 

You know kids...the requests just keep coming. And

for 2 days I just kept saying "Yes."

 

A typical spouse is not as demanding as a 6 year

old child; however, we have to say "No" to our

spouse sometimes too.

 

"Honey, can you fix my computer?"

 

"I can't do that tonight. I have a teleconference

tomorrow night but maybe I can look at it

Wednesday night."

 

"Honey, can you pick the kids up at the Smith's

at 3pm?"

 

"Sorry, I'll be in session."

 

How about a day of YES for your spouse? Your

assignment this week is to pick 1 day this week

and say YES all day long. Say YES to your kids,

but especially say YES to your spouse. You might

also consider sharing with your spouse that today

is YESday. That way, you'll get more requests.

 

"Can we go out for dinner tonight?"

 

"Sure. Where do you want to go?"

 

"Can you get me a drink from the frig?"

 

"Yes. What would you like?"

 

At the end of your YESday, maybe you'll hear from

your spouse, "Honey, you said YES to everything

today. Thank you."

I'm not saying that a YESday will solve all your marriage problems or that it can fix any marriage. But it's a start to shifting the momentum in your marriage. Small hinges swing big doors. Start small. 

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