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I Have A Dream


Today my family and I were having one of our 2

hour Saturday lunches (A weekly family tradition.

Something you might consider too) when we came

across some beautiful poetry by Langston Hughes.

Here's one I wanted to share with you:


Bring me all of your dreams,

You dreamers,

Bring me all your

Heart melodies

That I may wrap them

In a blue cloud-cloth

Away from the too-rough fingers

Of the world.


What a powerful message, especially from an

African American poet born in 1902.



What's your dream? Whatever it is the "too-rough

fingers" of the world probably got their hands on

your dream and squelched it. That happens in

life, doesn't it?


Your assignment this week is twofold.


First, share the poem above with your spouse

and in marriage therapy if you go.

Allow it to spark a meaningful discussion about

something other than the usual. This is one of

the challenges of save marriage; to stimulate the

kinds of discussions that take place in new

relationships. In new relationships, everything

is new. Saving your marriage means you have to work 

at it to keep things fresh. In my personal experience,

sharing poetry and talking about it is an example

of one way to bring new conversation to a mature



Second, talk to your spouse about your dreams and

ask them about theirs. Again, you can do it in marriage therapy

if you're going regularly. Get back in touch with

those dreams before the "too-rough fingers" of

the world got their hands on them. Support each

other in the possibility of pursuing again those

dreams. Ask for help to achieve your dreams. And

offer support to your spouse in achieving theirs.



If you have the time and energy, here's a bonus

assignment: learn about the life of Langston

Hughes. In addition to another interesting

subject for discussion, I think you'll find his

life an inspiration. When you see what this man

accomplished against all odds, it's hard to not

believe that you can achieve your dreams too.


Warm regards,


Mort Fertel

Author & Founder of Marriage Fitness

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