Restoring a marriage can be a frustrating experience. Confronting issues, facing past hurt, trying to communicate...ouch!

And to make matters worse, these traditional methods of dealing with marriage problems usually don't work. So you end up with the worst of both worlds...a miserable experience and bad results. 

Hi. I'm Mort Fertel and here's an alternative to marriage counseling that does work:

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™

A 7-week, closed-door, at-home (you don't have to go anywhere), PRIVATE online marriage retreat that uses a results-proven step-by-step relationship changing system to shift the momentum of your marriage and restore intimacy between you.

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is a revolutionary, transformational, and cost-effective marriage-saving program. It's like an online marriage retreat...there's nothing else like it. And the best news is--you don't have to dig into your past, dredge up your problems, or practice communication techniques. This is not marriage counseling; it's Marriage Fitness.

But before I get into the details, check here to make sure the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is right for YOU.

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is designed for marriages suffering from:

Infidelity

Broken trust

The threat of divorce

An obstinate spouse

Emotional Neglect

Money conflicts

Addictive Behaviors

Separation

Midlife Crisis

Emotional infidelity

Boredom

Poor Communication

No Sex

Lack of Appreciation

No Affection

Controlling Personality

(Please note: This program is NOT appropriate in cases of consistent physical abuse.)

Are any of these your problems?

There are hundreds of stories like this one (see testimonials below) from people in all sorts of situations, but first there's one story in particular I'd like to share with you...my story.

Unlike other relationship experts who approach this topic from a clinical perspective, for me saving marriages is very personal.

 

My wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being connected? That was us.

But then something happened that destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was just one week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.

Your situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was it? How did you lose each other? Or maybe you can't put your finger on why things aren't the same anymore. That's common too.

 

For us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted of screaming matches and silent treatments.

Somewhere deep in our heart though, like you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we tried to work it out. Sometimes I tried and my wife didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and I didn't. Sometimes we tried together. We went through different stages of "trying."

What did we try?

We tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies. My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing changed. Nothing worked.

 

Because all the advice we got (books, counselors, marriage retreats...whatever) asked us to confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight more.

 

As long as the "right" way wasn't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we tried to convince each other of our way. You tried that too, right? Obviously, that doesn't work.

 

Finally, we had a breakthrough.

 

We decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS. We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once. Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to our marriage.

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This is the solution to most marital situations—to "step away" from your problems and spend your time and energy building your relationship through positive actions. If you do this RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go away, and the other people invading your marriage will become irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will come closer together again.

Now you're probably wondering, “How do I stay away from the very problems that plague me? What healthy habits or relationship techniques can bring us closer together? And what if my spouse doesn't cooperate?”

That's EXACTLY what I'll teach you. I'll answer those questions and more so you get the results you want. Let me be more specific. Here's what you'll learn when you join the The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™:

How to snap out of destructive patterns of behavior (week 1)

How to stop dwelling on the past and start moving forward (week 2)

How to get over old hurt

How to restore trust (week 2)

How to deal with a stubborn spouse (“Lone Ranger” track--see below)

What to do if your spouse is trying to control you

7 daily acts that will rebuild love in your marriage

5 weekly habits that will soften your marital environment

2 monthly acts that will restore romance between you

How to get your spouse to change

How to resolve money conflicts

How to fight amicably

The 4 primary principles of LASTING love

How to survive (and thrive) after an affair (weeks 1 & 5)

How to become a team rather than 2 individuals (week 4)

How to make decisions together (week 5)

How to get YOUR needs met (week 3)

How to connect with an emotionally absent spouse

How to keep the small things small (week 7)

How to relieve anger and resentment

How to tickle your spouse’s soul (week 3)

How to avoid pointing fingers and reciprocal blame

How to avoid dredging up the past and what to do if your spouse does it

What to do if you’re being ignored

What to do if your spouse shows you no affection

How to know if your marriage can be saved (week 5)

How to know when it’s time to give up (week 6)

What to do if you’re being pushed away

How to deal with a spouse who won’t listen

How to break the silence

What to do if you’re not spending enough time together

How to get and give the right affection

What to do if you find yourself attracted to another man/woman (week 6)

What to do if your spouse has intimate internet friends

How to end a separation

What to do if your spouse is friends with their X (week 6)

How to say "I'm sorry."

How to forgive and be forgiven

How to restore honor to your marriage

How to talk so your spouse will listen

How to listen so your spouse will talk

How to bring your past to its knees

How to control your emotions

How to restore physical intimacy

When NOT deciding is the best decision

How to endure until things change

How to replace efficiency with intimacy

It would have been nice to know how to do all this years ago, right? Well, it's NOT too late. In my experience, it's never too late. Andrew would agree. Who's Andrew? Listen:

The MIRACLE STORIES go on and on (see more stories below), but the bottom line is this: if you're willing to learn new ways of relating to your spouse and if you're willing to apply what you learn to your situation, then the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp can work for you. Not only because of WHAT you'll learn, but because of HOW you'll learn it. Let me explain.

There's an old saying:

When I hear, I listen

When I watch, I see

When I do, I know . . .

I think that understates the value of reading and listening and overstates the value of doing, but it does make an important point . . . which is that the BEST WAY TO CHANGE is to apply ALL your senses.

And that's why in the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is a multi-sensory experience. You will hear, see, and do. You will read, write, and listen.

You'll get everything you need, in all the ways you need it;

24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for 7 weeks!

Here's WHAT YOU GET when you join
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™:

• 7 Tele-Seminars

  A sequential delivery of marriage-transforming insights and skills so relevant you’ll feel I designed them for YOUR marriage. You'll learn exactly what to do to turn your marriage around and how to apply the Marriage Fitness approach of relationship renewal to your situation. (These seminars take place on a TELEconference. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're traveling during one of the tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can make the call from anywhere in the world. No internet connection is required. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
  
  

• A 1-on-1 Private Session with me, Mort Fertel

  I'll be your very own personal marriage advisor. I'll answer your questions, counsel you every step of the way, and hold you accountable to your goals. Your session is conducted via telephone and scheduled at a mutually convenient time.
  
  

• A Complete 15 CD Audio Learning System

  Listen in your car, at home, while you're traveling or exercising. Pop in the CD's or download them to your iPod. These CD's will answer every question you have about how to transform your marriage. And they'll give you step-by-step instructions about how to turn your marriage around. This is the most comprehensive Audio CD program on the topic of marriage renewal available anywhere.
  
  

• The Complete Marriage Fitness Workbook & Personal Journal

  This is where the rubber meets the road (or pen meets paper)...where you'll learn to put ideas into practice. Roll up your sleeves each week and dive into assessments, assignments, and "to-do" exercises. You'll be amazed at what you'll learn about yourself, your spouse, and your relationship. There's almost 200 pages of insights, practices, and journal entries that serve as the perfect companion to the 15 CD Audio Learning System. This workbook can be completed with or without your spouse (see "Lone Ranger Track" below).
  
  

• 3 Open-Mike Q&A Teleconferences

  Every other week I’ll conduct a live open teleconference during a pre-scheduled hour. You can call in with questions or just listen for answers. This is where YOU set the agenda and get to determine what issues get addressed and which circumstances get explored in depth. Here you'll get personal access to my counsel...and this is in addition to your 1-on-1 private session with me. (These are TELEconferences. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're traveling during one of the tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can make the call from anywhere in the world. No internet connection is required. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
  
  

• An Autograph Copy of Marriage Fitness

  Three printings and thousands of copies sold. Endorsed by Dr. John Gray (Mars/Venus) and Dr. Stephen Covey (7 Habits) as well as literally hundreds of counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, PhD's, social workers, relationship experts, authors, and, most importantly, readers who have renewed their marriage. You'll get a personally autographed copy to read as you go through the program.
  
  

• 7 “Homework” Assignments

  These assignments will help you LIVE what you learn and establish new relationship habits. You'll be amazed at how much progress you'll make each week.
  
  

• A Complete 7-Week Implementation Schedule

  This schedule gives you a clear step-by-step path that will transport you to a renewed marriage. You'll have DAILY assignments to complete.
  
  

• 5 Marriage Assessments.

  These assessments reveal the areas of your marriage that require special attention.
  
  

• Members-only Web Site

  What if you miss one or any of the teleconferences? No problem. All the teleconferences are recorded and a simple audio file is available for you to listen to at your convenience from your members-only web site. You just click and listen, or download them to your iPod. You can get caught-up at your convenience. You'll never miss anything.
  
  

• Lone Ranger Track

  This special track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for people with an uncooperative spouse who are participating ALONE. (see below for more information)
  
  

• Duo Track

  This track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for couples taking the Tele-Boot camp TOGETHER. (see below for more information)
  

If this program doesn't work for you, NOTHING will.

Marriage counseling once each week just isn't enough (not to mention fiercely expensive).

A marriage retreat is expensive, you have to travel, it takes days, and you have no privacy.

You could buy a book or CD's, but then you don't get personal attention. And most people don't change by only reading or listening. If you have marriage problems, you need more than information. You need personal guidance, a detailed and structured plan, and CONSISTENT REINFORCEMENT of the right message. When you join the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp, you get it all...everything you need to turn your marriage around.

And remember, it all happens from the PRIVACY OF YOUR HOME.

All you need is a telephone and a CD player or an iPod.

Now I want to CAUTION YOU about one thing and be totally upfront. The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is NOT a quick fix program. I'm not going to promise that if you register today you'll be healed tomorrow (don't believe anyone who makes such a promise). I need 7 weeks to really help you. But if you give me 7 weeks and if you put forth the proper effort, then I'll show you step-by-step how to transform your situation. It's not overnight, but the results will last you a lifetime.

This is not just me talking. The Marriage Fitness approach to saving marriages has been featured in the media nationwide:

Television

NBC

ABC

CBS

PBS

The FOX Morning Show

Magazines & Newspapers

New York Times

USA Today

LA Times

Chicago Tribune

Family Circle

Glamour Magazine

Women's Health

Fitness Magazine

Washington Post

Baltimore Sun

Toronto Sun

Radio

WDLB-AM 1450, Marshfield, WI

WEAA 88.9, Baltimore, MD (Day break with Anthony McCarthy)

WIOD-AM (610), Miramar, FL (South Florida First News)

WKES-FM (91.1), St. Petersburg, FL

WLPO Radio, LaSalle, IL

WNOO, Chattanooga, TN

WRBS-FM, Baltimore, MD

KYXY-FM, San Diego, CA

WZBA 100.7, Baltimore, MD

KTLO Radio, Mountain Home, AR

KVJY-AM 840, Austin, TX

KWRE Radio, Warrenton, MO

NPR with Dr. Barton Goldsmith

WIYY 98, Baltimore, MD

WZBT-AM, West Palm Beach, FL

KUTR-AM, Salt Lake City, Utah

WEAG, Jacksonville, FL

KAHI-AM, Sacramento

CAWOCA-AM, Ocala, FL

WSCF-FM, West Palm Beach, FL

In addition to media attention, the Marriage Fitness approach to saving marriages has received expert endorsements from John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus, and Dr. Stephen Covey, author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

But the most important endorsements are from people like you whose marriages have been transformed because they joined the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp. Here's a story from a recent boot camp participant:  

What would you want your letter to say? Think about it. What's the happy ending to your story? If you want that story to be written, then join this program. It'll work for you and I guarantee it. But before I tell you about that, you'll need to decide which "track" is right for you.

• The Lone Ranger Track

  Does your spouse have one foot out the door? Is your spouse frozen? Obstinate? Cold as ice? Has your spouse “checked-out” emotionally? Unwilling to get help? Involved with another person?

  The Lone Ranger track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse and who are doing the program ALONE.

  

  If you take the right steps, you can draw your spouse back in and begin to restore your marriage TOGETHER.

  It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you'll learn how to single-handedly improve your marital situation AND inspire your spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage. And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track (see below) at anytime during the boot camp for no additional cost.

If this is your situation, please listen: I know you would rather do the program with your spouse and I know it's hard to understand how you alone can make a difference in your situation. But the longer YOU wait before getting proactive the worse your situation is going to get. I can't tell you how many emails I get from people who tell me, "Mort, I wish I had just joined your program last month in the Lone Ranger Track. Now it's too late. It's over." YOU can make a difference in your marriage. Don't wait...it'll only get worse. Take action now and let me help you change your situation.

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• The Duo Track

  The Duo Track is designed for couples taking the boot camp together.

  (If you and your spouse are both participating in the program, you should register for the Duo Track regardless of your marital situation. If you're separated, you can still do the Duo Track, pay only one price, and call-in for the teleconferences from different phone lines.)

What if I don't know which track to sign-up for?

You should NOT pressure your spouse to do the boot camp with you. Simply INVITE them to join you. If they say "no," then sign-up for the Lone Ranger Track. Once you're in the Lone Ranger Track, I'll teach you how to motivate your spouse to join you. You can switch to the Duo Track at anytime during the program for no additional cost.

Regardless of which track you choose, if you want to improve your marriage...if you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this is your opportunity! The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is more effective AND less costly than counseling, significantly more comprehensive and personal than any self-help book, and more convenience and private than an on-site marriage retreat. Are you ready?

If so, then take note of the teleconference schedule (both tracks):

DATE	TIME	EVENT
Tuesday, May 28	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 1
Monday, June 3	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 2
Monday, June 10	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 3
Thursday, June 13	9-10:30PM E.T.	Q & A 1
Monday, June 17	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 4
Thursday, June 20	9-10:30PM E.T.	Q & A 2
Monday, June 24	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 5
Wednesday, June 26	9-10:30PM E.T.	Q & A 3
Monday, July 1	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 6
Monday, July 8	9-10:30PM E.T.	Tele-Seminar 7

All the teleconferences are conducted over the telephone. It's a simple call and you never have to go anywhere. And there's no extra charge.

QUESTION: "What if I miss a tele-seminar?"

ANSWER: If you miss one of the tele-seminars, it's not a problem. You can listen to an unabridged audio CD of any of the tele-seminars, which is included with your registration. Also, all the teleconferences are recorded and you can listen to an audio file of the recording from your members-only web site. You just click and listen from your computer, or download the audio file to your iPod. So you have 2 "catch up" options if you miss a teleconference.

QUESTION: "What if I can't make one of the live Q&A teleconferences?"

ANSWER: Also not a problem. If you have a question, simply email it to me in advance of the teleconference, I'll answer it during the teleconference, and then you can listen to an unabridged recording of the entire teleconference from an audio link on your members-only web site.

QUESTION: "Do I need to receive my materials before the first teleconference?"

ANSWER: No. You do not need to receive your materials before the first teleconference. Immediately after you register, you will receive an email with the call-in instructions for the first teleconference and you do not need the materials in order to participate.

QUESTION: "Teleconferences over a 7 week period is too long. What if I need help now?"

ANSWER: The teleconferences are only one part of the program. All the other components of the program (the workbook, CD's, private sesssions with me, etc.) are shipped to you and available to you immediately. You'll have more than enough marriage help resources now. You can get right to work changing your situation and the teleconference schedule protects you from fading out and will ensure that you continue to apply everything you learn.

That's the schedule and the story with the teleconferences. Now for the fee.

You probably expect a program like this to cost a few thousand dollars. Well you're correct about what it's WORTH.

But the Marriage Fitness Tele- Boot Camp™
is only $399 plus $16.99 shipping & handling (U.S. customers).

(payment plan available. see below)

Your registration includes:

7 Tele-Seminars ($399 VALUE)
The Complete 15 CD Home Learning System ($369 VALUE)

The Marriage Fitness Workbook & Personal Journal ($199 VALUE)

3 Open Mike Q&A Teleconferences ($279 VALUE)

Autographed Copy of Marriage Fitness ($20 VALUE)
7 “Homework” Projects (FREE BONUS)
Complete 7-Week Implementation Schedule (FREE BONUS)
5 Marriage Assessments (FREE BONUS)
Members-only Web Site, includes downloadable audio files (FREE BONUS)
The “Lone Ranger” or the “Duo” track (same price for either track)
A 1-on-1 5-minute private phone session with me, Mort Fertel. ($79 VALUE)

 

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THAT'S $1345 IN VALUE

PLUS 4 FREE BONUSES

FOR ONLY $399 plus $16.99 shipping & handling (U.S. customers).

100% Money-Back Guarantee

Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to me in resalable condition received anytime within 30 days of ordering, and as long as you've used me for your private 1-on-1 session (included with your registration) by then, I'll gladly refund your money. I can't be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this program works and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way to make sure you succeed.

Consider what your marital mess is costing you. I don't mean in dollars; I'm talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights, and the tension in your life. Your marriage right now, rather than being a source of joy, is destroying your quality of life. You have to do something about that...for yourself...and for your children. 

You've probably heard the saying:

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."

If you keep doing the same things, you're likely to continue to have the same marriage. But if you want to change your situation, you need to learn new ways. You need to begin to do things different. And if you don't, you may look back one day on a marriage that spiraled out of control or even ended and wonder how it could have been different if you had simply gotten the right guidance at the right time. This is the time. I am your guide.

REGISTER NOW

All materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.

Payment Plan Option:

After you register:

• Your materials will be shipped next business day so you can begin immediately.
• Your materials will be shipped in plain unmarked packaging.
• Detailed instructions of how to call in for the first tele-seminar will be emailed to you immediately.
• Instructions to schedule your 1-on-1 private session will be emailed to you immediately.
• You will receive access to your members-only web site immediately.

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™!

7-weeks to the relationship you really want

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All materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.

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Warm regards,

Mort Fertel

Author & Founder of Marriage Fitness

P.S. If you didn't register, feel free to email me if you have a question I didn't answer. Also, if you have any doubts, check out the stories from past boot camp participants, click here.

P.S.S. If you still didn't register, here's an extra incentive. Register now and then send me an email with “bonus” as the subject line telling me you registered and I'll send you a free copy of “Put Love First,” an unabridged live audio recording of my most popular mini-seminar.

P.S.S.S. This program is like a private marriage retreat you do from your home or office.

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™!

7-weeks to the relationship you really want

REGISTER NOW

All materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.

Payment Plan Option:

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• How to get over the past (and past the hurt) 
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• How to avoid a separation
• How to spoil their affair
• How to increase your marriage IQ
• How to forgive and be forgiven
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