Restoring a marriage can be a
frustrating experience. Confronting issues, facing past hurt, trying to
communicate...ouch!
And to make matters worse, these
traditional methods of dealing with marriage problems usually don't
work. So you end up with the worst of both worlds...a miserable
experience and bad results.
Hi. I'm
Mort Fertel and here's an alternative to marriage counseling that does
work:
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot
Camp™
A 7-week, closed-door,
at-home (you don't have to go anywhere), PRIVATE relationship
make-over program that uses a results-proven step-by-step
relationship changing system
to shift the momentum of your marriage and restore intimacy between you.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™
is a revolutionary,
transformational, and cost-effective marriage-saving program. There'snothing else like it. And the best news is--you
don't have to dig into your past, dredge up your problems, or practice
communication techniques. This is not marriage counseling; it's Marriage
Fitness.
But before I get into the details, check here to
make sure the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™
is right for YOU.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is
designed for marriages suffering from:
Infidelity
Broken trust
The threat of divorce
An obstinate spouse
Emotional Neglect
Money conflicts
Addictive Behaviors
Separation
Midlife Crisis
Emotional infidelity
Boredom
Poor Communication
No Sex
Lack of Appreciation
No Affection
Controlling Personality
(Please note: This
program is NOT appropriate in cases of consistent physicalabuse.)
Are any of these your problems?
If
so, then the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ can be a BREAKTHROUGH
for your relationship. It doesn't
matter if you're separated or if you've heard the words "I'm not in
love with you anymore" or "I need space." If you want to re-connect
with your spouse, I can show you how to do it. I'll walk you through
every step of the process . . . and I guarantee (see
below) you'll get there. How can I be sure? Because I've
helped thousands of men and women whose marriages were in serious
trouble do what I call a "Marriage180." Here's just one of those
stories:
Dear Mort,
7 weeks ago my husband was firm about moving out and filing for
divorce. In my sorrow and desperation, I signed up for your Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp in the Lone Ranger Track.
What did I get out of the program? My husband decided NOT to move out
and is now working on our marriage with me.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the extraordinary impact
you've had on my life and my family's life.
H.E.
California
There are hundreds of stories like this one
(see testimonials below) from people in all sorts of
situations, but first there's one story in particular
I'd like to share with you...my story.
Unlike
other relationship experts who approach this topic from a clinical
perspective, for me saving marriages is very personal.
My
wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night
talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to
each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being
connected? That was us.
But then something happened that
destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was just one
week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.
Your
situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was
it? How did you lose each other? Or maybe you can't put your finger on
why things aren't the same anymore. That's common too.
For
us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of
talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of
using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted
of screaming matches and silent treatments.
Somewhere deep in our heart though, like
you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we tried to work it
out. Sometimes I tried and my wife didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and
I didn't. Sometimes we tried together. We went through different stages
of "trying."
What did we try?
We
tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure
I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies.
My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to
counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing
changed. Nothing worked.
Because
all the advice we got (books, counselors...whatever) asked us to
confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight
more.
As
long as the "right" way wasn't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we
tried to convince each other of our way. You tried that too, right?
Obviously, that doesn't work.
Finally,
we had a breakthrough.
We
decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS.
We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once.
Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain
relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we
resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by
dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by
establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to
our marriage.
.
This
is the solution to most marital situations—to "step away"
from your problems and spend your time and energy building your
relationship through positive actions. If you do this
RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go
away, and the other people invading your marriage will become
irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will come closer together again.
Now you're probably
wondering, “How do I
stay away from the very problems that plague me? What healthy habits
or relationship techniques can bring us closer together? And what if my
spouse doesn't
cooperate?”
That's EXACTLY what I'll teach you. I'll
answer those questions and more so you get the results you want. Let me
be more specific. Here's what you'll learn when you join the TheMarriage Fitness Tele-Boot
Camp™:
How to snap out of
destructive patterns of behavior (week 1)
How to stop dwelling
on the past and start moving forward (week 2)
How to get
over old hurt
How to restore trust
(week 2)
How to deal with a stubborn
spouse (“Lone Ranger” track--see
below)
What to do if your spouse is
trying to control you
7 daily
acts that will rebuild love in your
marriage
5 weekly
habits that will soften your marital
environment
2 monthly
acts that will restore romance between
you
How to get your spouse
to change
How to resolve money
conflicts
How to fight amicably
The 4 primary
principles of LASTING love
How to survive
(and thrive) after an affair (weeks 1
& 5)
How to become a team rather
than 2 individuals (week 4)
How to make
decisions together (week 5)
How to get YOUR needs met
(week 3)
How to connect with an
emotionally absent spouse
How to keep the small things
small (week 7)
How to relieve
anger and resentment
How to tickle your
spouse’s soul (week 3)
How to avoid pointing fingers
and reciprocal blame
How to avoid
dredging up the past and what to do if your spouse does
it
What to do if
you’re being ignored
What to do if your spouse
shows you no affection
How to know if your marriage
can be saved (week 5)
How to know when
it’s time to give up (week 6)
What to do if
you’re being pushed away
How to deal with a spouse who
won’t listen
How to break
the silence
What to do if
you’re notspending enough time
together
How to get and give the right
affection
What to do if you find
yourself attracted to another man/woman (week 6)
What to do if your spouse has
intimate internet friends
How to end a separation
What to do if your spouse is
friends with their X (week 6)
How to say "I'm sorry."
How to forgive
and be foregiven
How to restore honor to your
marraige
How to talk so your spouse will
listen
How to listen so your spouse will
talk
How to bring your past to its knees
How to control your emotions
How to restore physical
intimacy
When NOT deciding is the best
decision
How to endure until things change
How to replace efficiency with
intimacy
It
would have been nice to know how to do all this years ago, right? Well,
it's NOT too late. In my experience, it's never too late. Andrew would
agree. Who's Andrew? Listen:
Hi Mort,
I just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn
around. Not only is she working on our marriage but she's also made
some amazing changes.
Thank you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you
helping me through this and teaching me how to be the
husband that my wife wanted then I may have never been able to bring
her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and
because of your Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp, she chose me!
Keep up the good work and keep saving marriages.
Thanks again.
Andrew R. Pulley
The
MIRACLE
STORIES go on and on (see more stories below), but the
bottom line is this: if you're willing to learn new ways of relating to
your spouse and if you're willing to apply what you learn to your
situation, then the Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp can work for you.
Not only because of WHAT you'll learn, but because of HOW you'll learn
it. Let me explain.
There's an old saying:
When I hear, I listen
When
I watch, I see
When
I do, I know . . .
I think that understates the value of
reading and listening and overstates the value of doing, but it does
make an important point . . . which is that the BEST WAY
TO CHANGE is to apply ALL your senses.
And that's why
in the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is a multi-sensory
experience. You will hear,
see, and do. You will read,
write, and listen.
You'll
get everything you need, in all the ways you need it;
24
hours a day, 7 days a week, for 7 weeks!
Here's WHAT YOU GET when you join
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™:
7 Tele-Seminars
A sequential delivery of marriage-transforming insights and
skills so relevant you’ll feel I designed them for
YOUR marriage. You'll learn exactly what to do to turn your marriage
around and how to apply the Marriage Fitness approach of relationship
renewal to your situation. (These seminars take place on a
TELEconference. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And
there's no extra charge. If you're traveling during one of the
tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can make the call from anywhere in
the world. No internet connection is required. If you're doing the
program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from
2 different locations.)
A 1-on-1 Private Session with me,
Mort Fertel
I'll be your very own personal marriage advisor. I'll answer your
questions, counsel you every step of the way, and hold you accountable
to your goals. Your session is conducted via telephone and scheduled
at a mutually convenient time.
A Complete 15 CD Audio Learning System
Listen in your car, at home, while you're traveling or exercising.
These CD's will answer every question you have about how to transform
your marriage. And they'll give you step-by-step instructions about how
to turn your marriage around. This is the most comprehensive Audio CD
program on the topic of marriage renewal available anywhere.
The Complete Marriage Fitness Workbook &
Personal Journal
This is where the rubber meets the road (or pen meets paper)...where
you'll learn to put ideas into practice. Roll up your sleeves each week
and dive into assessments, assignments, and "to-do" exercises. You'll
be amazed at what you'll learn about yourself, your spouse, and your
relationship. There's almost 200 pages of insights, practices, and
journal entries that serve as the perfect companion to the 15 CD Audio
Learning System. This workbook can be completed with or without your
spouse (see "Lone Ranger Track" below).
3 Open-Mike Q&A Teleconferences
Every other week I’ll conduct a live open teleconference
during a pre-scheduled hour. You can call in with questions or just
listen for answers. This is where YOU set the agenda and get to
determine what issues get addressed and which circumstances get
explored in depth. Here you'll get personal access to my counsel...and
this is in addition to your 1-on-1 private sessions with me. (These are
TELEconferences. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And
there's no extra charge. If you're traveling during one of the
tele-seminars, it's no problem, you can make the call from anywhere in
the world. No internet connection is required. If you're doing the
program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from
2 different locations.)
An Autograph Copy of Marriage Fitness
Three printings and thousands of copies sold. Endorsed by Dr. John Gray
(Mars/Venus) and Dr. Stephen Covey (7 Habits) as well as literally
hundreds of counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists,
PhD's, social workers, relationship experts, authors, and, most
importantly, readers who have renewed their marriage. You'll get a
personally autographed copy to read as you go through the program.
7 “Homework” Assignments
These assignments will help you LIVE what you learn and establish new
relationship habits. You'll be amazed at how much progress you'll make
each week.
A Complete 7-Week Implementation Schedule
This schedule gives you a clear step-by-step path that will transport
you to a renewed marriage. You'll have DAILY assignments to complete.
5 Marriage Assessments.
These assessments reveal the areas of your marriage that require
special attention.
Members-only Web Site
What if you miss one or any of the teleconferences? No problem. All the
teleconferences are recorded and a simple audio file is available for
you to listen to at your convenience from your members-only web site.
It's just one click of your mouse and you're caught up. You'll never
miss anything.
Lone Ranger Track
This special track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is
customized for people with an uncooperative spouse who are
participating ALONE. (see below for more information)
Duo Track
This track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is
customized for couples taking the Tele-Boot camp TOGETHER. (see below
for more information)
If this program doesn't work for
you, NOTHING will.
Marriage
counseling once each week just isn't enough (not to
mention fiercely expensive).
You could buy
a book or CD's, but then you don't get
personal attention. And most people don't change by only
reading or listening. If you have marriage problems, you need more than
information. You need personal guidance, a detailed and
structured plan, and CONSISTENT
REINFORCEMENT of the rightmessage. When you join the Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp, you get it all...everything you
need to turn your marriage around.
And
remember,
it all happens from the PRIVACY OF YOUR HOME.
All you need is a telephone
and a CD player.
Now I want to CAUTION YOU
about one thing and be totally upfront. The Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is NOT a quick fix
program. I'm not going to promise that if you register today you'll be
healed tomorrow (don't believe anyone who makes such a promise). I need
7 weeks to really help you. But if
you give me 7 weeks and if you put forth the proper effort, then I'll
show you step-by-step how to transform
your situation. It's not overnight, but the results will last you a
lifetime.
This is not just me talking. The Marriage Fitness
approach to saving marriages has been featured in the media nationwide:
Television
NBC
ABC
CBS
PBS
The
FOX Morning Show
Magazines &
Newspapers
New York Times
USA Today
LA Times
Chicago Tribune
Family Circle
Glamour Magazine
Women's Health
Fitness Magazine
Washington Post
Baltimore Sun
Toronto Sun
Radio
WDLB-AM 1450, Marshfield, WI
WEAA 88.9, Baltimore, MD (Day
break with Anthony McCarthy)
WIOD-AM (610), Miramar, FL
(South Florida First News)
WKES-FM (91.1), St. Petersburg,
FL
WLPO Radio, LaSalle, IL
WNOO, Chattanooga, TN
WRBS-FM, Baltimore, MD
KYXY-FM, San Diego, CA
WZBA 100.7, Baltimore, MD
KTLO Radio, Mountain Home, AR
KVJY-AM 840, Austin, TX
KWRE Radio, Warrenton, MO
NPR with Dr. Barton Goldsmith
WIYY 98, Baltimore, MD
WZBT-AM, West Palm Beach, FL
KUTR-AM, Salt Lake City, Utah
WEAG, Jacksonville, FL
KAHI-AM, Sacramento
CAWOCA-AM, Ocala, FL
WSCF-FM,
West Palm Beach, FL
In addition to media attention, the Marriage
Fitness approach to saving marriages has received expert endorsements
from John Gray, Ph.D., author ofMen Are from
Mars and Women Are from Venus, and
Dr. Stephen Covey, author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
But the most important endorsements are from
people like you whose marriages have been transformed because they
joined the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp. Here's a story from a
recent boot camp participant:
"Scott and
I just completed the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp and I would highly
recommend the experience. About a year ago, I started feeling the
“blahs” in our marriage. Nothing was really wrong.
I just felt like I had lost that loving feeling. I felt that there
should be more. We were adequate room mates, but we were no longer soul
mates. We had conversations about what we were doing wrong, about going
to therapy or a marriage retreat and even about getting divorced. When
we joined the Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp things started clicking. We worked together on
the homework. We worked together on loving each other and showing that
love to each other. We now place our relationship and our time together
as the number one thing in our lives. We have had a lot of fun doing
this program and we got out relationship and marriage back. And I got
my best friend back. My life works so much better now. Thanks Scott
– oh! And thanks Mort!"
What would you want your
letter to say? Think about it. What's the happy ending to your story?
If you want that story to be written, then join this program. It'll
work for you and I guarantee it. But before I tell you about that,
you'll need to decide which "track" is right for you.
The Lone Ranger Track
Does your spouse have one foot out the door? Is your
spouse frozen? Obstinate? Cold as ice? Has your spouse
“checked-out” emotionally? Unwilling to get help?
Involved with another person?
The Lone
Ranger track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative
spouse and who are doing the program ALONE.
If you take the
right steps, you can draw your spouse back in and begin to restore your
marriage TOGETHER.
It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be
transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you'll learn how
to single-handedly improve your marital situation AND inspire your
spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage.
And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track
(see below) at anytime during the boot camp for no additional cost.
If
this is your situation, please listen: I know you would rather do
the program with your spouse and I know it's hard to understand how you
alone can make a difference in your situation. But the longer YOU wait
before getting proactive the worse your situation is going to get. I
can't tell you how many emails I get from people who tell me, "Mort, I
wish I had just joined your program last month in the Lone Ranger
Track. Now it's too late. It's over." YOU can make a difference in your
marriage. Don't wait...it'll only get worse. Take action now and let me
help you change your situation.
.
The Duo Track
The Duo Track is designed for couples taking the
boot camp together.
(If you and your spouse are both participating in
the program, you should register for the Duo Track regardless
of your marital situation. If you're separated,
you can still do the Duo Track, pay only one price, and call-in for the
teleconferences from different phone lines.)
What if I don't know which
track to sign-up for?
You should NOT pressure your spouse
to do the boot camp with you. Simply INVITE them to join you. If they
say "no," then sign-up for the Lone Ranger Track. Once you're in the
Lone Ranger Track, I'll teach you how to motivate your spouse to join
you. You can switch to the Duo Track at anytime during the program for
no additional cost.
Regardless
of which track you choose, if you want to improve your marriage...if
you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this is your opportunity! The Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is more effective AND less costly
than counseling and significantly more comprehensive and personal than
any self-help book, kit, or other program. And, it's a completely
private experience! Are you ready?
If so, then
take note of the teleconference schedule (both tracks):
DATE
TIME
EVENT
Thursday, February 11
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar
1
Thursday, February 18
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar 2
Wednesday, February 24
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar 3
Monday, March 1
10:30-11:45PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar 4
Thursday, March 4
9-10:30PM
E.T
Q&A 1
Monday, March 8
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar 5
Thursday, March 11
9-10:30PM
E.T
Q&A 2
Monday, March 15
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar 6
Thursday, March 18
9-10:30PM
E.T
Q&A 3
Monday,
March 22
9-10:30PM
E.T
Tele-Seminar
7
All the teleconferences are conducted over the
telephone. It's a simple call and you never have to go anywhere. And
there's no extra charge.
QUESTION:
"What if I miss a tele-seminar?"
ANSWER:
If you miss one of the tele-seminars, it's not a problem. You can
listen to an unabridged audio CD of any of the tele-seminars, which is
included with your registration. Also, all the teleconferences are
recorded and you can listen to an audio file of the recording from your
members-only web site. You just click and listen. So you have 2 "catch
up" options if you miss a teleconference.
QUESTION:
"What if I can't make one of the live Q&A teleconferences?"
ANSWER:
Also not a problem. If you have a question, simply email it to me in
advance of the teleconference, I'll answer it during the
teleconference, and then you can listen to an unabridged recording of
the entire teleconference from an audio link on your members-only web
site.
QUESTION:
"Do I need to receive my materials before the first teleconference?"
ANSWER:
No. You do not need to receive your materials before the first
teleconference. Immediately after you register, you will receive an
email with the call-in instructions for the first teleconference and
you do not need the materials in order to participate.
QUESTION:
"Teleconferences over a 7 week period is too long. What if I need help
now?"
ANSWER:
The teleconferences are only one part of the program. All the other
components of the program (the workbook, CD's, private sesssions with
me, etc.) are shipped to you and available to you immediately. You'll
have more than enough marriage help resources now. You can get right to
work changing your situation and the teleconference schedule protects
you from fading out and will ensure that you continue to apply
everything you learn.
That's the schedule and the story with the
teleconferences. Now for the fee.
You probably expect a program like this to cost a few
thousand dollars. Well you're correct about what it's WORTH.
But the Marriage Fitness
Tele-Boot Camp™
is only $399 plus $16.99 shipping & handling (U.S.
customers).
(payment plan
available. see below)
Your registration includes:
7 Tele-Seminars ($399 VALUE) The
Complete 15 CD Home Learning System ($369 VALUE)
The Marriage Fitness Workbook
& Personal Journal ($199 VALUE)
3 Open Mike Q&A
Teleconferences ($279 VALUE)
Autographed Copy of Marriage Fitness ($20
VALUE) 7
“Homework” Projects (FREE BONUS) Complete
7-Week Implementation Schedule (FREE BONUS) 5
Marriage Assessments (FREE BONUS) Access
to the Members-only Web Site (FREE BONUS) The
“Lone Ranger” or the “Duo”
track (same price for either track) A
1-on-1
10-minute private phone sessions with me, Mort Fertel. ($59
VALUE)
.
THAT'S
$1325 IN VALUE
PLUS
4 FREE BONUSES
FOR ONLY $399
plus $16.99
shipping & handling (U.S. customers).
100%
Money-Back Guarantee
Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not
satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to me in resalable
condition received anytime within 30 days of ordering, and as long as
you've
used me for your private 1-on-1 session (included with your
registration) by then and can honestly say that the program is not
worthwhile
for you, then I'll gladly refund your money. I can't be any fairer than
that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this
program works and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way
to make sure you succeed.
Consider what your marital mess is costing you. I don't
mean
in dollars; I'm talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights,
and the tension in your life. Your marriage right now, rather than
being a source of joy, is destroying your quality of life. You have to
do something about that...for yourself...and for your
children.
You've probably heard the saying:
"Insanity
is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."
If you keep doing the same things, you're likely to
continue to have the same marriage. But if you want to change your
situation, you need to learn new ways. You need to begin to do things
different. And if you don't, you may look back one day on a marriage
that spiraled out of control or even ended and wonder how it could have
been different if you had simply gotten the right guidance at the right
time. This is the time. I am your guide.
REGISTER NOW
All
materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.
Payment
Plan Option:
Payment Plan Details
1) First payment is due upon
registration (now).
2) Second payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days.
3) Third payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.
After you register:
Your materials will be shipped next business day so
you can begin immediately.
Your materials will be shipped in plain unmarked
packaging.
Detailed instructions of how to call in for the first
tele-seminar will be emailed to you immediately.
Instructions to schedule your 1-on-1 private
session will be emailed to you immediately.
You will receive access to your members-only web site
immediately.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot
Camp™!
7-weeks to the relationship you really
want
REGISTER NOW
All
materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.
Payment
Plan Option:
Payment Plan Details
1) First payment is due upon
registration (now).
2) Second payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days.
3) Third payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.
Warm regards,
Mort
Fertel
Author & Founder
of Marriage Fitness
P.S. If you
didn't register, feel free to email me if you have a question I didn't
answer. Also, if you have any doubts, check out the
stories from past boot camp participants, click
here.
P.S.S.
If you
still didn't register, here's an extra incentive.
Register now and then send me an email with “bonus”
as the subject line telling me you registered and I'll send you a free
copy of “Put Love First,” an unabridged live audio
recording of my most popular mini-seminar.
P.S.S.S.
This program is like a private marriage retreat you do from your home
or office.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot
Camp™!
7-weeks to the relationship you really
want
REGISTER NOW
All
materials are shipped next business day in plain unmarked packaging.
Payment
Plan Option:
Payment Plan Details
1) First payment is due upon
registration (now).
2) Second payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 30 days.
3) Third payment is automatically
billed to the credit card you provide in 60 days.