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"The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage"

DO NOT waste one more moment contemplating enrolling in Mort's program!  The time you wait will not only extend your agony, but you risk depression and serious mistakes in your marriage.  I admit I had strong reservations about joining Marriage Fitness.   Boy was I wrong...  The Marriage Fitness program provided me with principles and practices that helped me to avoid mistakes that could have cost me my family and marriage.  Eventhough I completed Mort's program without my wife's participation our situation has improved drastically.  It is really true that one person in a marriage can make a difference.

 

In my experience the effort required to renew my marriage is the hardest thing I've ever done.  Like any other tough endeavor in life you need the best advice and council you can get to succeed.  Mort is the best I've seen...and I've enrolled in other programs.  Mort has the credibility, insights and practical solutions that will put you in the best position to succeed. 

 

Chris Craft

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"JUST DO IT!!!!"

If you are unsure whether to sign up for the Bootcamp programme . . . . . . . JUST DO IT!!!! You won't regret it. You will come out of this a stronger and better person. My husband was adamant that he wanted a divorce and didn't love me anymore. Last week he told me he loved me :)
Thank you Mort and God bless you. You are officially invited to England!! I hope that someday I will get to meet you and say thank you in person. I am a better wife, mother and person because of you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.  AS, England, UK

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"I have said to my wife many times that I believe Mort is the smartest person I have ever come across"

I would recommend this program.  I would even recommend this program to my worst enemy. 
You often said that a relationship does not find itself in a mess overnight but is the takes several years.  I believe that my relationship was somewhat soured very early on.  However, we both saw the potential in each other and our relationship and fought to hang on.  Rarely did a week go by without there being  at least two to three fights.  Our relationships was full of anxiety, hurt, frustration, and misery.  I believe we had love for each other we just didn’t know how to show it.   Finally, after seven years, my wife had had enough and moved out.  We both had made threats about doing so but she actually followed through.   Obviously this was very upsetting and I told her that we should not throw our relationship away just yet and that we should at least try some counseling.  She told me she would but that It was going to take an amazing counselor to keep us together.   So I searched for several weeks for this amazing counselor I really didn’t think existed or would not be amazing enough to help us save our marriage.  Finally I came across marriagemax.com and signed up for the free newsletter.  I was very impressed with the first newsletter.  So impressed I signed my wife up for it also.  She quickly pointed out to me that Mort said not to that.   To find out more about the Marriage Fitness Program I ordered the Audio Learning Program which is a less expensive alternative.  I listen to all the cd’s and came to the realization that I had found the “Amazing” counselor I was looking for.  I told my wife about Mort and asked her if she would do the Tele Boot Camp with me.  She agreed!  I knew when she agreed that I had her back!  I should warn you that it has not always been easy following the program – it takes a lot of work and as Mort would say discipline.  I have found the hardest part of the program for me is not being selfish and not focusing on myself.  The program is teaching me how to do that.  Our results have been incredible and it has only been 10 weeks. I know it may sound like no big deal but my wife and I have not had a fight in over three weeks.   As I like to say now “Mort has taken the fight out of us.” We spend more quality time together, we talk more, we’re inseparable.  It’s like we are newlyweds.   A Big bonus, which I wasn’t able to see at the time I signed up for the program, was how it would affect so many other parts of my life and interactions with others.   When you learn to be a kinder person to your spouse and not be selfish you are also learner to be kinder and less selfish person with everyone in your life.  It just your spouse trumps all.   I have said to my wife many times that I believe Mort is the smartest person I have ever come across.
 
 
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Kerry M.

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"Thanks to your program... my husband has come home for good."

Dearest Mort!

Thank-you so much for having such a wonderful program available for people like my husband, Ray and I.

I ordered your program using the lone ranger track. I had come home from a vacation with my daughter back in July and on that day my husband told me that he would always love me but was no longer in love with me. He did not wish to discuss things any further and wanted me to just release him from our marriage and move on with life.We have been married for 22 years and I was so blind I didn't even realize our problems were so life altering for our family.

That night I went on line seeking out anything I could find to help "fix" our marriage. I stumbled on to your Marriage Fitness Program and signed up for the emails that you send out every few days. I read these emails and realized how wonderful your program is.

In the mean time my husband was pulling further and further away. He had moved out of the house and into another woman's home.

The day after he moved out I ordered the Teleboot camp. I started using your techniques and advise immediately. Without your good advise and guidance I don't believe I would have found the strength and courage to hold on.

Thanks to your program and the ideals that make a lasting relationship so much more than attainable, my husband has come home for good. Although I completed the teleboot camp using solely the lone ranger track, my husband and I are beginning the program from the beginning together. We have a lot of fixing left to do, but I have every faith that we now will be the fabulous couple we always dreamed we would be.

Our eternal gratitude to you,

Brenda Bennett


 P.S. Please feel free to use our names and photo to help anyone that may need the strength and courage to rebuild thier marriage.

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"He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting"

Dear Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed you asking if your program would work for my situation.  I bought the Marriage Fitness program out of desperation with the thought, "If this doesn't work at least I tried."  My husband was already looking for a roommate and telling me who will get what in the divorce.  We went to four marriage counseling sessions before he said, "I don't know why we are going, I am done with you."  I am not sure why we went either, we just ended up fighting the whole time.  So long story short I followed your program (in the Lone Ranger Track), signed up for your emails, and started applying your ideas.  There were many days I felt like why bother, he is done with me, but I kept following the program.  Ten days ago he told me he was leaving.  I almost gave up but didn't.  I kept following the program.  Two days ago my husband came home from hiking (alone).  He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting.  He said he is ready to work on our marriage.  I know we are on a long journey now but at least now we are on that journey together.  I know you probably hear it all the time but you once again saved a marriage that would have dissolved without you.  Thank you so much for all of your help. 

Thanks again,
KS

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"The Marriage Fitness Program has saved my marriage too!"

      

The Marriage Fitness program has saved my marriage too! Me and my husband have been separated for 5 months and were heading to a divorce. Then I had the chance to do Mr Fertel's brilliant program which can change what everyone else thinks is impossible to change! I can honestly say that I feel privileged for living in the same era with him and for being able to do his program from Greece where I live. I wouldn't have been able to save my marriage without his help.

 

P . Vlasi


 

"I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair "

Dear Mort,

 

I know you have heard it before, but I want to say it again.... You saved my marriage.  My husband said he "loved me but was not in love with me anymore".  He was having an affair, during a very hard pregnancy which I later miscarried.  I was not very nice when I was pregnant and I was depressed so he turned to someone else.  Needless to say losing a baby and a marriage in a two week time-span was unbearable.  So I turned to you.  Counseling had been a joke just telling us how to communicate.   Your program told me what to do. I followed the program exactly.  I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his affair and "rededicated his life to me". 

 

Thanks so much,

Lisa Blank

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"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "

Dear Mort,


Thank you for your program.  I was driving into my driveway finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.  Upon arriving home, your program had come as well.  Rather than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a disk.  Long story short, we'll be working this out together, getting connected, completing your action steps.  I can't wait to continue connecting.  After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner.  Thank you.

Greg Burke
Denver, CO

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"I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"

Dear mort,

 

I was reluctant to begin the  lone ranger program.  Wondering how I would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program alone.  Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new habbits used in your program, it is proven to work.  I could not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my husband.  Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program with me he felt it would not help.  So I did not tell him and I started the program.  After a few weeks, my husband had commented he seen a change in me.  I then took the opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness program.  He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference call scheduled and how things are going.  Even though he has not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our marriage.  I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to improve how to be a better you!

 

Thank you Mort for making us matter...

 

Sincerely & God Bless

 

JoAnn S

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"I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly,

it is truly amazing. "

Dear Mort,

Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to be true, but I gave it a shot.

I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been. After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

Sincerely,

Melissa K.

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In just the short amount of time we have been part of the Marriage Fitness Program, we have seen a dramatic impact on our marriage.  We have already told others, who have informed us in one way or another they are having marital issues, about the program.  The information we received makes so much sense and is not difficult to apply to day to day life.  It is comforting to know we are not alone with the problems we have experienced and we are being taught by someone who has been through the same issues and is living the principles being taught.  The teacher walks the walk.  Thank you for helping us start the process of saving our marriage, family, and our future.

Stephanie & Mike - Jarrettsville, MD


"Your information was outstanding and actually very simple!"

Mort,

I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories work, but they do!

I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To do my job I couldn't always attend to Q & A's live, but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a lifesaver.

Keep up the good work

Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois

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"We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"

 

 

 

Dear Mort,

 

If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG

 

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"We are more in love than we have ever been!"

Dear Mort:

At the time that I started getting your emails, my husband and I had been
split up six months. In that period, we had tried twice to reconcile, and failed.
I didn't hold much hope of us reconciling at that point...But I cried myself
to sleep at night because I was still so much in love with my husband. We are
in our fifties Mort, we are not spring chickens. I must have burned the good
Lord's ears with all of my tears and my pleas for my marriage. Anyway, I
found you on the internet, and started reading intently, shouldering my own part
in our break up, and doing some deep thinking.

Then you began making suggestions...To make a long story short, it took one
month following your suggestions, and my husband called me up for a date on
my birthday!! He stayed with me for three days. In a week, he was back here
again, and he told me he didn't want to live without me anymore. Two months
later and we are more in love than we have ever been. Your advice worked for us.

...by the way, my husband never knew about your program. So you're right:
one person in the marriage can follow the advice, and the love it inspires reaches
both people.

I am one thankful woman. I love my husband more than my own life. We lost a
business, our house, but we did not lose each other.

Thank you so much for being inspired, I believe, by God!! bettyann

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"WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight"

Although my husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice).  We are just now starting to gather momentum.  When Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to.  Mort is right, IT IS NOT EASY.  But we are not giving up.  WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.

Bonnie and Jim R.

 

                      

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"[Mr. Fertel] gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems"

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I have thought long and hard about writing a testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program.  The problem was where to begin and when to stop writing about the success  I have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:

 

If the term “obstinate spouse” were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the whole page!!

 

We fit the pattern of couples married for a very long time, 24 years.  In these days odds are against that.  And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into a rut.  Same old routine day in and day out.  Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each other.  My husband started filling his time with church work 4 to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days).  I think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that was only after I complained and complained about never seeing him.  This was the real problem: he was so used to spending time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to 6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage mechanic.  No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank goodness.   I am not blameless either.  I spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some reason it took priority over what little time my husband was home.  So we tried regular marriage counselling.  After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship (chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of financial reasons around Christmas time.  My husband has not mentioned anything about going back.  Imagine spending your 24 th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day with his father!  No “Happy Anniversary” card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always remembered the date.

 

So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.  I read through the whole site.  And I couldn't believe how much sense his approach to marital problems made.  Yes, it would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us.  Within the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track.  I have read his book, am on the second reading now;  listened to all the CDs, poured through the notebook.  I can honestly say that there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the materials.

 

He gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems . It's been three full months. And guess what?  My husband has started joking with me again!  I don't remember how long it's been since that happened.  We talk!  He even is starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).

 

Hope is a wonderful thing;  it's worth all the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.

  

Susan D.

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"We credit you for helping save our marriage

every chance we get!"

 

 

Dear Mort,

We are 2 of your success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every chance we get!

We've continued in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18 months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.

We just had to invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get positive feedback!

THANK YOU MORT!

Penny and Jeff Mazin

 

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"one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home"

My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 9 years. In early August he decided he was done.  He began staying at a friend’s house and he refused to do any therapy or even talk to a mediator.  He was “no longer in-love,” “things could never change” and “I have feelings for someone else” so he moved out of our house in October.   

I found Marriage Fitness and was hesitant to try because, my life was spiraling in the wrong direction and wasn’t sure if this would really work. My therapist was telling me to move on because my husband had chosen his path.  As I began to receive emails about the little things being said, it made sense to try.  Luckily, we have two children, so I did get to see my husband almost every day.  After my husband responded in a positive way, I thought this was the path I needed to go.

There were many times I felt that this program was not going to work, especially in the lone-ranger track but then I would listen to the conference calls and question and answer sessions being inspired by MortThen one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home and six weeks later, my world changed again.  We were able to have a wonderful family Christmas!! This program worked for me and showed me what really matters in my life. 

I knew that I needed to reconnect with my husband, but did not know how.  Thank you Mort for leading me in the right direction!

Sincerely,

L. S.

Louisville, Ky

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"Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading before getting married.

It is really that powerful!"

 

I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .

 

Mort taught me how to transform my perception of love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an active process of consistently giving in small ways among other good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.

 

It is really hard for a person to understand how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in. Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.

 

I still have work to do to win back my obstinate wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely key but without his Q&A sessions and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.

 

Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading in high school or at least before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other product or person's services in my entire life.

 

Stephen B.

Fenwick, ON Canada

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"My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary … thanks to this program. "

    First and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel because his program was exactly what I needed!  This program was a last resort for me because I had done the talking and begging with my husband and it was not working.  I was not reaching him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger Track as a last resort.  At first, I was skeptical because I had never done anything like this before and did not believe this could really work. Once I read through the book and listen to audios I realized where I was going wrong and that I was not the only person going through this.  I started implementing Mr. Fertel's concepts and advice, with great difficulty.  I had zero hope, out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I began to see a slow change in my husband and myself.

   My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 thanks to this program.  I have and still am implementing the process with my husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him see me as an exceptional wife.  I look forward to reviewing what you have taught me everyday and to make that loving close connection with my husband. I can't thank you enough.  THANK YOU THANK YOU!!   

 

Forever grateful,

Lillian H.

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"You have helped my husband and myself learn how to get over the pain"

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.

I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever.

Thank you,

M.S. and J.M.

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"It's time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. "

Thank you Mort! I got into the program because of the testimonies of those who took it and saved their marriages. I also got in when I read that it was highly recommended by Stephen R. Covey, so I thought what do I have to lose? I love Mr. Covey's ideals, so if he thinks it's a good buy, then I can trust that.

I was a lone ranger in the program…I can honestly tell you that I'm a much more loving person now. I'm so much happier now and I have peace of mind most of the time. I'm less stressed. … This program not only helped restore and renew my marriage, but it has also helped me raise my children with love. I'm a better mom now … I'm so much a better person because of it. …And your program has helped me make a HUGE difference and turn around in our marriage. My husband has returned home and he said that my happiness and our children's happiness will be his and he will never leave again. I also like that you remind us over and over about the most powerful hand in a marriage....God. You are right. My husband said he prayed and fasted that day he listened to the audios of teleseminar 2 and 3 and liked what he heard and decided he wanted to do it with me. So, we're doing the duo track slowly but surely.

Thank you for your gift. I know that God put you on the earth at a time when I need you and your talents. I truly believe that. I was led to your website and I felt in my heart the need to order the materials. It was expensive for my means, but my marriage was more important than that. It is worth every penny I pay you.

Thank you again. Keep saving souls, marriages, families, children and generations. The world has had enough selfishness and divorces. It's time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. I highly recommend your program to anyone who is willing to try.

Sincerely yours,
SL

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"don't take anything for granted"

Dear Mort,

 

      I bought your program about half a year ago and before I had I felt so hopeless.  My husband Matt and I had been together for about 3 years and married 1 and he was already wanting a divorce.  I didn't understand how in December he and I were trying to have a baby and then when he had to go back to CT for Sub school he had decided in mid Jan that he didn't want to be married to me anymore. I was just getting use to the idea of being a military wife and as hard has it was to be away from him for so long I knew we could do it.  From Jan. to December of 2011 he told me he didn't love me he told me so many hurtful things and was so mad at me because no matter what he told me no matter that he used a girl to hurt me I still showed him that I loved him and when I got your program it gave me hope and it even showed me how to love him in ways he would understand.  Last year I learned so much from myself and him.  I learned that sometimes when you love someone you never give up, that it isn't always better to let the person you love go to show them that you love them.  I never gave up I kept showing him I loved him that we could make it through anything and for Christmas he spent it at home and I spent it here at our home alone, but on that night I told him that all I wanted for Christmas was him, and that I thought it was sorta funny that last Christmas that is just what he told me.  That he didn't want anything but me and that one thing was what held me on for the year he told me all those hurtful things.  I hope more people get your program and more people don't give up.  Don't forget to tell you spouse how much you love the little things they do, don't take anything for granted.  I'm so happy to say that my husband and I had our two year anniversary and we had a date! Not only that we are making plans for our future together and not apart! Thanks so much Mort!  We are still working on things and I'm trying so hard to put that year behind us and its getting easier everyday and I never truely thought I would be able to get to this point and I'm so happy we did.

 

Love,

Matt and Amanda

 

P.S. this is a photo of us this command Christmas Party and it's one of my favorite of us.

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Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes” because I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you one day. Good luck!


"Because of you we have slowly recovered the remnants of our lost family"

Good morning Mort,

I want you to know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.

I had the opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.

I too... like many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.

God Bless!

MAJ Sven O.

ADC Section Chief, RAOC

AZ Army National Guard

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"From the first week, things changed"

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Prior to starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my own emotional affair, not to mention the years of financial distress, the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse after all this we thought that it was over. I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the first week, things changed. After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very much for your great program, it saved us and our family.

 

T.F.

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"Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us"

Hi Mort:

I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.


We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of issues mostly about our blended families. We  even been seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it apart.


Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have been a blessing to us and our marriage!
 
Wes & Irma

 

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"My relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive"

 

I never imagined myself resorting to an internet self help program. But I tried everything else with my failing marriage and Mort's program seemed promising. I realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits that were killing my relationship and I was totally pushing my husband away. Things now are on the mend and on the upswing and my relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive.

VBL

New York City

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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do. Thanks)

(Jennifer: Yes! Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people! Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)

 


" Thank you to your wonderful staff"

Mort,

I understand that you don't respond to emails. However, I do want you to know how much I appreciate your service and your staff (Miriam, Adina and Rebecca) are amazing. Incredibly helpful, pleasant, polite and incredibly prompt with responses.

Thank you.

Catherine C.

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"After the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again. "

In all the years that we have been together I can honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of roommates.

 

We just couldn't understand where things went wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together, we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it, even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments that were no longer.

 

I found Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again.

 

No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a difference, but we started and continued working with the program after four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .

 

Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there when we were searching for that help.

 


Peter & Ruby – Long Beach, CA.

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"It is certain that his program works"

When we started the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.

Mort's program stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.

We both gained new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed to grow.

Our children have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.

Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.

Justin and Jan C.

Elgin , SC

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"We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer."

Mort,

I have been meaning to write this email to thank you for your program My husband was feeling unloved and he turned to someone else. Instead of playing the victim,God showed me forgiveness and you gave me the tools to really grow and change . Being manipulative would not have made this marriage work and perseverance was what I really needed. When my husband moved in with the other woman he expected me to really hate him and treat him terrible. Instead you made me feel like it was okay to have him over the house. I didnt use the kids against him, I used the talk and touch charges, I took care of myself, got into a closer relationship with God,lost weight, and my husband started to fall in love with me again. We were seperated for the entire summer which gave me a chance to see how much I wanted to be married to this man. By the end of the summer, he broke off the affair and moved back in. We utilized your worksheets and eventually found a counselor who could help us deal with some of the issues we could finally discuss. Traditional counseling drove us apart and was leading us to divorce.

We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer.  Thank you Mort for your program and for helping to save my marriage. God lead me to your program. I will continue to recommend you to others.

Tracey B

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"One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic"

Hi Mort,

I am grateful for the opportunity to give feedback. I began the Marriage Fitness Teleboot Camp in the single track as I was separated from my husband for two weeks (this was after 6 mths of separation a year earlier, and was told just before xmas he was never coming back, though he wanted to stay married but live seperately?). He had left because of long standing issues that he couldn't see being resolved, in spite of being a practicing psychologist, who is well regarded, a conference speaker, author of four books, lecturer and speaker at conferences.  He had diagnosed himself as a narcissist and myself as borderline personality disorder, both according to him, being mild.  I had been working on the issues about myself that he had problems with and was making progress, though it wasn't fast enough for him and he could only see me as a problem/disorder.  I had also attempted for two years to get on his wave length and so read psychology books/internet sites/blogs on narcissism and codependancy/personality disorders. He seemed not interested in dealing with issues in himself.  I found the more I looked at the issues we both had (especially after two years of trying to understand him from a psychological perspective) the more negative I felt.  We had also spent six months with a marriage counsellor without things changing much (I think because we were still focussing on the problems).

I realised I needed to have a more positive/different approach and discovered your program on the internet.  I began with the teleconferences as the materials arrived later, my thinking changed and I had hope that things could be turned around.  Seeing the change in me, my husband decided to come back, though no guarantees of staying.  He was intrigued with the material and also found it positive.  We have really only listened to the teleconferences and some CD's but they have had a huge impact.  We are both going to do the workbook and we are following your practical suggestions of putting love first by connecting through regular activities such as date night, talking etc.

I believe you have a program that is full of wisdom which anyone can follow and understand.  It is sensible, practical, hopeful and solid.  It does require commitment and work but it is all doable. One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic.  I thank God and you for your commitment, wisdom and work in bringing such a well developed/comprehensive program to those who are struggling in their marriage. I highly recommend it. JS, Australia

 

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"Such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past"

Hi Mort,

I recently ordered and received your program.  My husband and I are amazed at your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long road trips. Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past.  We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge change in our relationship after implementing some of your ideas!

Thank you, Mort.  We will definitely recommend your course to friends and family who are struggling with their marriages.  It is the best we have found.

Best regards,

Sandra L. H.

Mammoth Lakes , CA  93546

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"To couples everywhere: believe in the advice that Mort has to offer"

From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .

Dear Mort,

I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.

I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort, my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and that it has really worked.

To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer, because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen. Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty

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"My wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum

change made to our relationship"

Mort,

Having recently completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.

To have our teenage kids advise us that we're "cree ping them out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving each other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a date"), we must be doing something right.

Celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning, considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple as it really was.

Heartfelt thanks.

Tom & Lil

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"It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes."

What meant the most to us was that Mort has been through a difficult situation in his own marriage and practices the techniques he teaches.  They worked…and it shows in the way he talks about his own marriage.  

It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes. While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well. I highly recommend his program for any marriage in need of an awakening.

ST in Altanta

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"In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's"

Dear Mort,

I would like to first commend you on your patients, understanding, and clarity.  I was looking for the ultimate answer to my marriage problems. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but you did it.

Your program is a no brainer if you just think about it…the CD's  explain  in full color what we have been doing to each other. I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can work together again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes the tv doesn't even get turned on.  I thank God every day that I found you. It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives forever. Thanks again.

Sincerely,

Pam W.

P.S. My husband even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even folded the clothes. BIG STEP.

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"It now seems so simple"

I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery. I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from I love you but I'm not in love with you” and my wife wanting a separation to see below:

- Last night my wife bought me flowers and double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)


- She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had not contributed her share to the relationship


- She told me I was a wonderful man


- She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to her


Is God not awesome!!!!!

Thank you for everything.

If you ever need a testimony let me know!

T.E.

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"Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time.  I am not sure I could have done it without you. "

I wanted to thank you for your support during my recent separation from my husband of 30 years.  I wanted to share my happy ending with you.
 
We have always had what everyone thought was the "perfect marriage" and so did I.  We had our ups and downs, but we were caring, giving, and loving with each other. My husband, however, after turning 50 seemed to think he had missed out on something, and left me for another woman.  I was devastated, and did not see it coming as we had always been best friends, had a great sex life, and had worked together in our family medical office.  He had become unhappy in life, and our children had recently moved away from our small town, so we moved to a larger city.  He had gastric bypass, lost 150 pounds, and for the first time in a long time had more female attention than he was used to.  I was stressed with the move, a new job, had taken on 17 UC and FM offices as Medical Director, and we were living in an apartment with our college age children trying to figure out where we wanted to buy a home.  He met a woman during this vulnerable time, and despite a wonderful 2 weeks in Maui, when we returned, he moved out to live with her.  That is when I found your program.
 
I started it on my own, and then got him to listen to some of the CD's.  We talked.  We e-mailed.  We worked together at an UC and no one there ever knew we had separated.  We love each other, and he was miserable and sad, and felt very guilty for his actions, but due to that, he did not attend our counseling session with you either.  I did not give up.  You kept my faith up that things could get better.  I loved him through his crisis, and reminded him of our strengths and history. I gave him cards, brought him Starbucks when he was working, made him treats with notes left on his desk at work, and sent him a postcard to the office (didn't want to send it to her house) when I went to visit my brother in CA saying I wish you were here.  He would call me on the phone and we would talk for hours, and he would e-mail me jokes or funny things to read.  And so it began.  
 
After 2 1/2 months, he begged my forgiveness, I begged his, and we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home.  The children were angry with him, but we loved them through this and talked openly with them about how all relationships have problems, but it is how we handle those problems that make us who we are, and allow us to reap the benefits of our efforts.  We told them that the most important thing is that we did not give up on each other, and now we were stronger than before.
 
My husband and I have been back together for 5 months.  We renewed our vows with our children officiating at our 30th anniversary 8/9/10, we have purchased our dream home, have coordinated our schedules to have 3 days off per week together when we rock climb, ski, hike, or relax.  We have finished our medical thriller, "The Clones of Harvest Home," and Catherine Coulter and her agent are assisting us with the publishing process.  We have taken a 2 1/2 week vacation to Maui, and have been even closer than before we split up.  As I said, we have been each other's best friend since we were 19, and continue to be, but our trials have taught us so much about each other.  We are very in love, and know that we will have some ups and downs, but know that we are soul mates, and will be together forever.
 
Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time.  I am not sure I could have done it without you.  I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else that we were done.  If I had not reached out to him, his pride would not have let him come back I am sure.  So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful philosophy and program.  We are forever indebted.
 
I have recommended your program to several of my patients, and co-workers, and I hope they will take advantage of what you offer, and reap the benefits as well.  Happy holidays.
 
Gratefully,
 
Debby Salter, M.D.  
 
(you may use this testimonial if you would like to - I would be honored)

 

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"He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores.

We are making plans for the future! "

Dear Mort,

 

I just wanted to thank you for helping me save my marriage. 

 

We have been married 6 ½ years.  My husband travels for work.  As a result, more than 50% of our married life has been spent apart.  This has really taken a toll on us.  I have to wonder if any two people have been as hateful and volatile as we became!  We've been to marriage counseling 4 times in the last 6 years, and it didn't help a bit.  We were the couple that made others jealous, but behind closed doors we could be worst enemies.  When we weren't fighting, we were ignoring and avoiding each other, which was easy to do with him gone so much. 

 

Three months ago my husband told me he was done.  He couldn't handle the fighting anymore and wanted to move out.  He said he didn't love me like a husband should love his wife.  He said he just didn't care enough to try anymore.  He said he wanted a divorce.  Normally I was the one in our marriage who threw that word around.  But when he said it, my world came crashing down.  It was the first time he had ever said something like that and I knew he was serious. 

 

After the initial shock wore off, I decided not to just give up and let the divorce happen.  I got online and found your program.  With the money back guarantee I figured I had nothing to lose.  My husband had made it clear that he was done trying so I went with the Lone Ranger program. 

 

It was really difficult, especially in the beginning.  For all the positive things I did, he was still very negative.  I would drive 5 hours to see him, take him homemade food, and he would kick me out.  But I persevered.  It has been 3 months, and my husband now says he is in love with me!  He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores. We are making plans for the future!

 

I owe it all to you.  Thanks for everything!

 

HMD

 

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"Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing."

Dear Mort,

 

I want to thank you for developing the

tele-fitness boot camp and making it so

accessible both in cost and ease of use.

My marriage had been on a downward

trajectory for a year and despite my

needs, wants and intentions, I couldn't

seem to turn it around. My husband and I saw two marriage counselors together, and each saw individual counselors and again things just got progressively worse. Over the year, my husband moved out of our marital bed, eventually moved out of the house, and had an affair.

 

I started the tele-boot camp the week my husband moved out. Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing. I learned to change my focus from my feelings and my reaction to my husband's behavior to of my intentions and my desired outcome.

Your program helps you stay focused

despite the results that you initially

get. Conventional wisdom and advice

tells you to use tough love to get what

you want, to make demands, to not accept bad behavior. The problem is that this

advice is ineffective. You taught me

how to love unconditionally, how to

become the person I wanted to become so

that my spouse would be crazy not to

love me. By changing myself despite

what my husband was doing, I learned how to become lovable again instead of being cold, disappointed, bitter and disillusioned.

 

Within two months my husband moved back

in, ended the affair, and is working on

building our marriage. He has

re-engaged with family life, reached out to our extended family to build bridges and is focusing on meeting my needs.

 

The reason your program is so different

from anything that is out there is

because you help people achieve their

desired outcome. In addition to not

judging them for wanting their desired

outcome, you encourage them and admire

them for their strength of conviction

and moral compass.

 

Once I started your program, I blocked

out all other noise with regards to

rebuilding my marriage. You are my

mentor and my support system. Whenever

I have a bad day with my husband and

lose focus, I re-read your book, listen

to your CDs, or tune into a

tele-conference. I would have spent

thousands of dollars with my therapist

and I still would not have achieved my

desired outcome.

 

From the bottom of my heart - thank you.

YOUR PROGRAM turned my marriage around.

I know I would have survived had my

marriage failed, but I didn't want to

survive - I wanted to stay married. I

wanted my old, loving, kind and caring

husband back, and he's coming.

 

I couldn't recommend your program more.

 

Sincerely,

 

jw

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"Mr Fertel's Marriage Fitness Program has given me a Step by Step path of guidance"

Dear Miriam,
 
How are you?
I listened to the audio file for Q&A Seminar 2 and would like to thank Mr Fertel for picking my Question in my email to him to be discussed. I listened through the audio file twice to make sure I didn't miss anything. The discussion on 'Trust' (Question raised by John) was excellent too.
 
I have been on your Marriage Fitness Program since Early December 2012. I have learnt so much about my marriage and also about myself for the past one month. I was lost for about 8 months since I found out about my husbands' affair but Mr Fertel's Marriage Fitness Program has given me a Step by Step path of guidance and the confidence which I needed so much, to know that I am doing the right thing to improve my marriage and hopefully to end the affair.
 
Please convey my thanks to Mr Fertel and you have a great weekend.
 
Regards,
Sharon

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"I greatly appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on to us for a happy relationship"

Hello Mort,

Sorry for the late reply due to the holiday.
I want to wish you a 2013 full of good things for your family and yourself.

I believe the Marriage Fitness course has been extremely helpful for me and for my wife as well.
Speaking for myself, I can tell you that I am spending more time with her since listening in on your calls.
I have a better sense of what is really important for me and how appreciating her is part of that reality.
I have become more patient and now I dedicate most of my free time to her and my son.
Before I had been too distracted with social media, tv, music, etc. as a supposed outlet from everyday pressures.
Now those things have become secondary and spending time with her is primary and especially quality time.

I will continue to review your lessons as you always go to the point and have a vast understanding of possible issues and solutions.

I wanted to be brief for now. However, I want to say that I greatly appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on to us for a happy relationship.

Best Regards,
RR

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" Thank you from the bottom of my heart"

Hi Mort

 

I am thrilled at how much your program has helped me and turned things around. I have been a “lone ranger” and it really has worked for me.

 

Thank you from the bottom of my heart– I feel really connected to you and your passion to “fix” what I broke.

 

Kind regards

Darrell

 

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"I thank God and I thank Mort for restoring my life "

I never thought I would be in that situation being married for 3 in a half years, and then I was there. It was friends, in laws, other women, and everything and anything. I was like how can this be. Did I marry the right person? When we rehash everything like everyone told me it only made it worse like reliving a bad dream.
I googled marriage counselor and Mort came up. I put in my email. I thought all hope was lost. I got the emails step by step. I was in a marriage where I was sad and didn't want it to end in divorce. I could not keep up with everything that was going on outside or compete, but what Mort showed was how to make my home a place we both wanted to be. I won with Mort's plan because I never quit. I focused on each part of his program one at a time. I kept working .. . I saw the layers of coldness just peel off. Mort's way is different and that's why it works! I always felt the traditional way didn't work, but I didn't know anything else. As I was going through the process, in a couple of weeks I noticed I began to feel better about myself. The program was working us. We are in sync again, and We make love!!! Do you hear me? I can say I thought it was over before, but my marriage was worth fighting for. Don't focus on all the outside interferences if you follow the program they disappear. I thank God and I thank Mort for restoring my life.

 

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"I am happy to report that we are doing very well now. We are connecting daily. We spend time together, enjoy each other."

Dear Mort

 

I am happy to write a testimony, since the program turned our lives around. I believe God is using Mort's program to help us.

 

We've been married for 14 years. In the last three years things started to go wrong. It became unbearable in the last year. There was constant fighting,the smallest thing would get a snappy remark, there was a huge emotional distance, and no spending any fun time together. He

felt controlled, I felt left out and overwhelmed. Over time, it got worse. He was spending almost all his time on hobbies, tv, computer. I was complaining, felt left out. I made discussions without him, controlling our budget tightly, thinking I was responsible, but I was selfish and controlling.

 

Then came the heart breaking experience when he said he does not love me anymore. Through all this, I knew that I loved him deeply, but I was not willing to live an empty life without love and full of negativity. Then I found Mort Fertel,signed up in the lone ranger track and started to apply the new habits, started growing personally. It was hard. I learned about myself and improved and grew as a person. I had my doubts that I could make a big difference all alone, since he had no interest to participate in the program or any other.

 

I am happy to report that we are doing very well now. We are connecting daily. We spend time together, enjoy each other. We are close again. We laugh, have fun , talk for hours, hold each other, share in each other's daily lives, emotions,and passions. The emotional and physical distance is gone. He is responding to the new relationship habits and applying most of the steps in the program, without even doing the program formally! ( I don't know how , but he does!) I grew personally.I am a better person.

I am now also the wife he deserves, and he is responding very positively to that!

We still have a long way to go, but now both of us are happier, there is momentum in our relationship and we have a loving marital environment.

 

There is still some big challenges ahead, but I know we will get through that too, with God's help and Mort Fertel. Now we are connecting, we are happy,we build our Marriage and our love daily, and our children will get the greatest gift: Happily married parents and a model for how to be successful in their own future relationships.

I recommend this program...

 

Thank you

U.B

 

 

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" By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting "

Dear Mr. Fertel,

 

Words cannot express my gratitude I have for your help and the Marriage Fitness program. Less then 6 months ago my wife was ready to ask for a separation and we probably were headed for divorce after 30 years of marriage.  I heard the: "I need my space" and "I love you but I am not in love with you".I am not saying we are completely out of the woods yet, but we are now on the right trail to repair and in time create a more loving marriage then we ever had before.

 

Prior to getting the free emails and then the course I was doing all of the wrong things, the begging, pleading, trying to be right and justifying my actions and condemning hers. Our "problems" were both our faults and though neither one of us wanted to first admit it we came to that realization in phase 2 of the workbook. By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting

 

This is not a quick fix or easy program. It requires time and effort and makes you look at yourself as much as what you think your problems are. I found the reflection I seen in the mirror was not a happy one so how could my wife. By reading, listening and doing the exercises in the workbook I was able to change that reflection and it has become evident to my wife and we have been working more on rebuilding our marriage then tearing it apart. That reflection is starting to look happy and enjoyment has returned to the time we spend together rather then tolerance.

 

Thank you Mr. Fertel, you have no idea the desperation I was in when I found your program, it truly has made a difference in both my life and our marriage.

 

Warm Regards

Don E

Virginia

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"If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further."

The Marriage Fitness program by Mort Fertel has been a truly transformative experience.  If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further.  It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink of divorce (as we were). This program has even inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort and to our journey to marital success:

 

                                              Together 

                                 

There once was a couple named Robyn and Jeff

Their souls knew each other before they ever met.

They walked down the road of life's path

On their way from a distant and troubled past...

They started along their journey together and

Somehow lost their way - But with Mort, love and

Pat ience they began a whole new day... 

In making their dreams they always knew

Together - would come true...

And so now the journey of healing begins

Back to the path of love where their souls

Have always been...Together!"

Thank you Mort!!  Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski

- Members of The Marriage Fitness Program.  

 

 

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"It's all because of this program my marriage is headed for better places"

Mort I would like to thank you for a fantastic program. Having been married one month short of 26 years, I thought I new a lot about relationships. Oh boy was I wrong. Too many times you hear people making comments like, 'it happens, people grow apart'. Married couples don't grow apart, they just stop trying.  After going through your program and actually doing the assignments, reading the material, listening in on the tele-conferences I learned that people just don't have the tools to try and make their marriage work. It does take work. I thought I was headed for divorce,but I knew deep inside I needed to continue towards change. My wife and I had become roommates and it didn't just happen overnight, much of it had to do with me.

Within the first week of getting into the material, I was able to apply some of the teachings. It was only the beginning to what has become a transformation of myself that I am well aware of is not anywhere completed! I became more aware of who I had become and it was hard accepting that I could make a difference myself, I always thought it took 2 but using the Lone Ranger track, I became engrossed in learning more.

Fast forward,my wife and I are treating each other with kindness. We have become aware of the needs of one another. We are even finishing each others thoughts and sentences which was non-existent just a few short months ago. I used the talk charges, the touch charges, the intimacy interview, all of which I contribute to the change we are both feeling towards one another. I even wrote at the end of one of the chapters how I was recalling the feelings I had towards my wife when we first met and how those feelings were creeping into my daily thoughts, AGAIN!

I recommend this program to all, it makes you go hmm! Its all because of this program my marriage is headed for better places. Oh by the way, my anniversary is Feb 14, Valentines Day and we are planning a great special night.

Truly thankful,

D.R.
New Lenox, Illinois

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"I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your program"

Dear Mort:

Thank you so much for your program!

I was very unsure initially, but my desperation overcame my skepticism. I clung to the Marrige Boot Camp Program and when we had a rough day, I'd listen to a disk again... I've memorized some of them!

Your program gave me something to think about, something to do, and a practical, common-sense approach to an area of life that I had always found capricious and confusing.

I started on the Lone Ranger Track, but my husband has noticed such significant changes in me and my behaviour, that he is now joining in, so I m starting the Program over on the Duo Track with him.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your Program; at least, not happily.

But now, thanks to you, we are rediscovering "us".

Take care,

R+G

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"How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug"

Mort,

I'm at a loss for words. How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug (not that you'd let me, LOL).

Mort, you didn't just help our marriage but you changed our whole family. We've been married for 15 years, have four children and were on the brink of divorce. The emotional pain I had inside was so bad it was almost a physical pain. The worst part is that you can't go through pain like that without it having an effect on your children. We tried to shield them as much as possible, but they knew something was wrong. To think of what we were putting them through emotionally, breaks my heart.

We too, tried everything from traditional marriage counseling to Venus and Mars and everything in between. Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our problems were just too big to overcome.

Then we found you. Mort, you honestly were our last ditch effort. I personally thought it was too much money to spend but you offered a money back guarantee and I had full intentions on collecting it. My husband and I decided to give your program a try but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't work and I continued to make plans for a new life without my husband. Then something happened. Not overnight, but it happened. I'm not even 100% sure of what it was, but it was working. I am blown away with how far we have come in just 10 weeks. Everything is different. My husband and I are more in love now than we were on our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn' t s tand being in the same room with him and today I know with all my heart that we will be together forever. Divorce will never be an option for us. Were gonna make it.

I've heard it said that people don't change. What a bold faced lie. My husband was the most stubborn person I knew. He hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every single program we ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once he wasn't being blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to create an environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You totally impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in 15 years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was working. He did a complete 180. We both did.

Knowing what I know now, I would have paid a million dollars for this program and I can't believe you charge so little for what you offer. You literally have every base covered and I know you put your heart and soul into it. This is not just a profession for you. It's not about making a buck. You have a God given gift and you're changing lives.

A few months ago I asked God for help. I didn't know what to do; there was nothing left to try so I left it in his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God, and thank you Mort.

Michelle

Vancouver , BC

P.S. Remember that hug I mentioned earlier? When you go home tonight, please give it to your wife. Tell her that Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks for helping you to become the man that you are. She should know that she played a huge role in saving a family she doesn't even know.

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"...If you want to save your marriage, he's the ONLY person who can help you do it."

 


 

"...and of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent"

 

Hi Mort.

It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from different back grounds and had different expectations from one another which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other. Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense, the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is not enough when there is so much to resolve.

One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice- needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent.

What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.

Valerie Kemmer

I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to him. Here are his words:

"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30 years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer

All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to us. VK

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"You have turned me and my life around."

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice. My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!

Julia Z.

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"I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"

We have been married 42 years, but after my husband retired and we spent more time together, our home became a battleground.   My husband seemed to be more satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the program, he responded so positively that the difference in our relationship is almost unbelievable.  Now I believe that by following through with Mort's program our "golden years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by arguments, resentments and anger..

Gillian S .

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"The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there."

 

September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial

Dear Mr. Fertel,

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was absolutely phenomenal.

First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the eyes of God as well.

Thank you for everything!

Anthony Schiro

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"We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program."

Hello Mr. Fertel,

Your program has helped the two of us so much we wanted to thank you.  We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program.  Thank you Mort Fertel !!!

Marianne and Scott B.

Cherry Hill ,  NJ

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"We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage."

Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that we had no other options and the Divorce process was already started. He gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage.

 

B.O.

New Jersey

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"As I began to change, he did, too!"

 

Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.

 

During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child, my husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the family together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced divorce with four kids under the age of 10!

 

I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and decided to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope, as I thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel love toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, but I did this program as a last resort just so that I could say that I "tried".”

 

Once I started the program, my anger began to soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding, rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!

 

Thank you, Mort!!

 

A.P.

Illinois

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"Here is hope for all you lone rangers out there..."


"Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems."

I would recommend this program to anyone who want to enrich their marriage and especially if they are having marital problems. Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems. Every method he suggested was helpful. This program was hard but very useful. It is a whole new way of looking at things.

I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.

Barbara Harrison

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"Your program nailed down exactly what

was going wrong in our marriage"

Mr. Fertel,

I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.

Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage. After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with problems, etc., we were very tired.

I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.

We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective, not providing any real advice.

I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to separate.

The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings were real.

We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair, romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.

I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at this point.

I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that not much more could be done.

I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they are learning what we have...

Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.

D. Scott Martin

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"Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own"

I just had to thank you and express how grateful I am to have had your extremely effective advice.  I've been in your program for a couple of months now and went from having no hope to feeling like I have the perfect marriage!   Your perspective has made me realize I CAN fix my marriage on my own.  I'm amazed that by changing myself, my husband has changed as well!  I didn't have to force him or even tell him, it just worked!  You are truly a marriage genius!  Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own.  It just took those changes for it to be this good again.  We're both much happier than we've ever been in years and I owe it all to you!  I'll recommend you to anyone I know that wants help with their marriage.  Thanks again. 

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'I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations"

After being married 25 years (with the normal ups and downs) I had just thought we were in another 'down' period and was waiting for my husband's mood and interest to pick back up. Then I found out from a misdirected text message that he had a mistress - and I was in shock. I didn't talk to him about his affair because I really didn't know whether I wanted to get out of the marriage or stay in. When the two of us were alone, he hadn't been very nice to me for months. So I went into research mode and  spent days on the internet and  learned that he had all the symptoms of a midlife crisis including dramatic weight loss... I also went into tremendous soul-searching and decided that my life WITH him would be better than my life WITHOUT him. So I decided to do what I could to save my marriage. But I hadn't a clue what to do - until I found the Mort Fortel website and signed up for the Lone Ranger track. Things got worse before they got better. My husband was definitely trying to provoke our becoming even further apart emotionally by constant criticism, eye rolling, avoiding all physical contact except occasional hand-holding, asking me to start sleeping in another bed room due to snoring. My only comfort was the fact that he was still hiding… his cheating My greatest comfort through this pain has been Mort Fortel's advice  because it gave me an action plan. It forced me to soul search and realize that I had contributed to our problems and needed to fix myself  in order to fix 'us'. I'm changing myself into a much more attractive and caring wife  by following Mort's advice on a daily basis and slowly but surely it seems to be working! The eyeballs have stopped rolling, my husband is actually talking to me again and occasionally mentions something we'll be doing together a few months from now - which he hadn't done for months. If not for Mort Fortel's program, I know I would have done and said all the wrong things that would have driven my husband further away and right into her arms... I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations step-by-step. Thank you, Mort!

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 "Thank you!

Thank you very much! Once again I would like to thank Mort for the fantastic program, I am seeing amasing changes in our relationship already, without
god and Mort's help it was impossible.
 
Kind regards

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"I want to say that it was worth every

penny and more."

Hi Mort,

I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth every penny and more.

My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left. We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling, instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me growing.

Thank you
Malissa Olveda

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"...the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new directionbegan to alter and uplift my morale and outlook"

After reading almost every article and book on marriage issues, I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program on the Lone Ranger Track without much of an expectation. I seemed to have identified all the issues impeding my relationship with my spouse but motivating her to engage had become impossible. However the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new directionbegan to alter and uplift my morale and outlook. We have not reached a point of true connection but the ice is beginning to melt.

GB

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"I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks."

Mort,

I can't say enough about your program.  My spouse had moved out, was not speaking to me or answering my calls, and was beginning a relationship with another man.  I was convinced we were through.  Using the principles I learned in your lone ranger program, I was able to reconnect with her.  Matter of fact, she is laying beside me right now as I type this.  I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks.

Bryan

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"IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised"

Mr. Mort

 

I thank you so much again for your program, this is the second email that i have sent you it has worked wonders with my husband.. as I told you in my last email,  My husband does not even know that I am doing your program.  However again he is saying things yesterday and today, that.. did I know that he was crazy about me, and missed me so very much (we have had to be apart because he is in California and i am in Colorado as I also told you in my last email to you.   I needed to come here to take care of some business, and because of some unforeseen matters, I need to stay here until i find a job to save enough money to go back to California to get a home for just my  husband and I.   its a long story but would be happy to tell you one day if your were interested.  I just want to shout it out to all the world about your program,  its DOES work with only one spouse taking the program, it doesn't require both husband and wife for the program to work.  Did you hear me... :)_  IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised.   My husband just told me tonight that he thinks the time apart from each other has been good for him to realize that he was ''getting to comfortable with me'' as far as things like sex, hugs, kisses and just paying attention to me.  Hallelujah! Praise God,..  I am on my knees praising God and being thankful that I found and was given your program.!   

Thank you and God bless you Mort.   I have a lot more to my success story if you ever want to know it..  

Thank you ,,, thank you ..thank you... blessings to you Mr. Mort..

 

My marriage is become a success...! just like you promised

 

I want the whole world to know that it is never, ever too late to help your marriage....!

 

Thank you Jesus!♥♥

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"Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations."

Mort Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and has chosen to share with the world.  He is compassionate, versatile, humble, real and wise.

When I first purchased the program I was desperate for help and I knew just anything would not work.  Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations.  I adore how Mort approaches the answers with out history; that way you know the answer is not tainted or miss guided in the results.  And that is exactly what you get RESULTS .  My husband is immature, stubborn, insensitive, etc (human).  My husband is also spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what he wants, focused, etc (perfect man for me).  And I truly believe without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for me.   We both came from single parent home and obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to function.   With three girls there love life was looking doomed.  But now we all have hope for tomorrow. 

I was living in a TV Romance Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help and  What Am I Doing Wrong; What the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a promise of never ending drama.  Now I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated sources.  I can now freely give and appreciate everything I receive.  And believe me my husband is the type of man that only listens to other men.  No matter what they said.   If a man told him eating grass was manly he would want it for dinner every night.  So by the grace of God I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and genuine concern (Mort).   While also teach me how to love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get a lot more.  This program pulled me back from legal separations.   I was going to court in the morning and listening to Mort in the evening and then one morning I dismissed everything (a breakthrough).  Of course my marriage is not perfect yet but that is the great thing because now we have so much to look forward to and strive for.  LOVE is really obtainable and really can be kept for a life time.   I would say to anybody that wants to keep there marriage or are not sure if you want to be married you owe yourself the opportunity to try this program.  If you know you are going to lose you spouse because of your mistakes and/or theirs why not try it.  Worst case scenario you are able to walk from your marriage knowing you did all you can do to be the best spouse you can be if you do everything Mort asks you to do.

           

T. Mitchell

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"...your invaluable information has

found a place in my heart"

Mr. Fertel,

Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and your program.

Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.

Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was the right path to follow.

I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out", my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr. Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"

I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I made a covenant with God to love forever.

It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital redemption.

Sincerely Grant

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"I really wish I would have purchased your course."

Mort,

I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I really wish I would have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and I've lost all.

I held dear.

Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio

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"By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone"

My husband left me 5 ½ months ago after being very unhappy in our marriage for many years. He said I was a good person and friend but that he didn't love me anymore. We have been married for 17 years and like all marriages there were the ups and downs.

Needless to say, this has been the most devastating experience of my life. We have two beautiful children, 14 and 11, and it has been very difficult on them as well. My husband has always a wonderful father and husband but over the years, he started to work more and more and withdraw emotionally from me. We did not take the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me now we were just roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said because sometimes roommates don't like each other and he still considers me a friend.

I desperately tried to search for answers and solutions to this horrible situation. For the first three months I hardly talked to him; I was in so much pain. He, on the other hand, still wanted to help out with the house chores like shovelling snow, helping with the children and so on. It was very painful for me to be near him so I rejected any help at all. I knew I couldn't go for too much longer as it was affecting my whole life, my work, and my children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web site which said I could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness. I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some wonderful and inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of reconciliation because my husband did not want that.

By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone. I became interested in trying his boot camp as a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked the money back guarantee if he couldn't help me. I felt that I could always get my money back. It didn't take long for me to realize that I was receiving help immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions to talk personally with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had changed and was different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain that he has gone through and it was a very moving experience for both of us.

I listen to tapes everyday to and from work and every time I drive anywhere. …we are talking and taking part in family activities together. We went to play pool for the first time ever this past Friday night and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient and want things to move faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my husband from a place deep in my heart for perhaps the very first time in our married life. My husband hugs me when he leaves from our visits and his heart is slowly opening up to me again.

All of this would not have been possible, had I not found Mr. Fertel's program. Everything makes so much sense that I cannot get enough of this help.

Thank you, Mort. I thank God I found you.

Sincerely,

Nelda

 

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"I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she

had seen a change in me"

Dear Mort,

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.

Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after that she will want to do the program with me.

Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be restored.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho

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"The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs"

Dear Mort,

 

You asked for a testimonial from me and I am happy to provide one:

 

  I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program in the Lone Ranger track.  My husband, after nearly thirty years together, told me he was no longer happy in the marriage and 'wanted out'.  Only someone who has experienced this would understand the shock and pain this kind of situation creates.  I did everything I could think of to change his mind, and for some brief moments, I believed I had succeeded, only to have my heart broken again and again.  After six months I gave up hope, bought a condo and moved out.  I was convinced he was going to move out if I didn't, and the idea of living alone in our family home was more than I could bear.  

 

Things got worse after I moved out.  he wanted to be 'friends' and I wanted to curl up and die.  Our children, adults themselves, were damaged by our breakup.  Other family members were upset, and our friends were confused and feeling awkward.  I felt like I was living in a nightmare that I couldn't wake up from.  That's when I searched the internet for help and found Mort and his Marriage Fitness Program.

 

My relationship with my husband started to change after the first tele-seminar.  Mort made me realize I was behaving contrary to what I was wanting and feeling After that, instead of arguing with him, I took Morts advice and put our issues aside.  I practiced behaviors that  I learned in the Marriage fitness program and my husband and I became closer.  Instead of being combative, we started to enjoy each others company again.  

 

Currently, my husband and I are working toward a complete reconciliation.  The process is sometimes very difficult and I have to admit, I backslide sometimes. Mort warns that it won't be easy, and he wasn't kidding!   Rebuilding trust is very difficult, but I believe my marriage is worth the pain and effort it's going to take to save it.  The best news is that my husband is now 'on board' and eager to reconcile!

 

 Many times when I've felt hopeless, I receive an e-mail from Mort, or listen to a CD or a tele-seminar, and I feel my resolve return The best advice I could offer anyone whose marriage is in trouble is to sign up for one of Morts Marriage fitness programs, and sooner rather than later.  I waited almost 10 months before I sought help and finally signed up, and during that time I made some decisions that only made things worse.  Had I signed up sooner, I could have saved myself a lot of grief

 

Leslie S.

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"I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of

my life"

It is with great appreciation that I write this testimonial! My marriage has been saved thanks to the lessons I have learned from this program. I was also motivated by this program to become a better person and live up to my potential. How many programs offer two for one?! In all seriousness I am doing the things in my relationship I should have done all along and either wasn't mature enough, confident enough or simply didn't know.

Perhaps equally important, I have found such comfort in the midst of the darkest times of my life and I have this program to thank. When things go wrong many people decide to give up but I was motivated to fight for what was important and my efforts are being rewarded. I am not a religious person but I am still counting my blessing in many areas of my life. Thank you so much for the guidance I needed and the encouraging words needed to persevere.

Sincerely,

Kolleen D.

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"It is life changing"

Just wanted to send you an e-mail to say THANK YOU for your marriage fitness program.  It is life changing.  I can't even wait to get to the next CD, the next teleseminar or the next chapter in my workbook.  Every time I think I have my question to ask you on the laser appointment, it gets answered in some way in the materials I have from you.  Looking forward to a new life, a new marriage and great things to happen.

I appreciate YOU!!!

Lisa Bird

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"Thank you for your program.  When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily"

Mr. Fertel,

My husband told me he was leaving me for a woman he had fallen in love with, that we were never meant to be together, and that he had never felt the way with me that he felt with her. I obviously had little hope for my marriage… I begged my counselor to tell me how to act.  I didn't know which end was up. For the entire summer, I found myself going from angry and bitter to kind and pleasant daily. I was miserable and part of that was because I had all of these feelings and didn't know what to do with them.  Then I found your program. My counselor kept telling me that I needed to separate from my husband (which was hard because he was still living with us) physically within the home and emotionally. I was a mess simply because I felt so conflicted.  What you did for me was teach me how to act at a time when I was so lost and felt so alone. Your program gave my life purpose again. I began to look forward to the day when I had a plan for what to do. My pastor gave me the kick in the pants to start, but you taught me how to make my way back to my husband's heart. While I could see your program working, I never really believed he would come back. I still felt like I needed to try for myself.  About a month, or a little less, after beginning the program, my husband told me that he wanted to reconcile. While it took some time for my husband to break off completely from this other woman, the affair did stop.  He no longer is in contact with her and we are doing better that we ever have. he felt all of the resentment and anger he had built up over the years go away. I believe God played a huge part in that, but I believe he used your  program to help me get to that point. Thank you for your program.  When I was lost, I craved your words and advice daily.  It truly helped me get through the day.

Name Withheld Upon Request

 

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"...he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!"

Please pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded to say that after working the program…my husband caved and said he's seen how amazing I still am and it's always been me that he wanted. Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!

Thank you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional therapy!
Best,
Liz

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"We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness"

My husband and I; everything we did got on each other's nerves. Just the sight of him made me mad. We decided to get a divorce and we were waiting for the right time to tell the children.

As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew that I didn't want the typical counseling, dredging through the past -- because I know that it will always be there, but the fact of the matter is you can't change it and it really doesn't help to muddle through it over and over and try to change your feelings about it.

I can't tell you how much it meant to us to have a guideline through it all, we started changing our behavior. My husband's changes started immediately. My changes have been and still are developing much slower. We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.

Shannon and Greg

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"I am beginning to see the positive response from the love of my life."

Hi Mort,

Although I haven't taken any opportunity to personally contact you, use any of my one-on-ones or dial in live to the tele-seminars, you are truly a HUGE part of my every day life! I listen to you every morning and every afternoon on my 45 minutes commute! I have signed up for the after program, and will continue to stay plugged in. I am beginning to see the positive response from the love of my life. I am in this for the long haul and I am doing what I am doing for a life change - not a quick fix to my marriage. I understand everything you say, ask of me and believe in your concept. I do worry sometimes about being a doormat but I am slowly getting some great responses back from my love and I feel this door mat feeling will pass. I am committed for a year, as I change my ways and look to see the positive and at the end of the day, I will know I did the right thing - and at the end of the day - that is all I have right?

I have never spoken to you, or interacted with you, but I feel very close to you and your world! Thank you for the gifts you have given me with your ideas and ways. I am going to make it! And I am confident that my marriage will too. God willing :-)

Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong

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"You can participate at your own pace in the

privacy of your own home."

Hi Mort,

I have found your program to be most helpful for the following reasons:

1. You can participate at your own pace in the privacy of your own home.

2. Your personal and professional experience is radiant and gets results.

3. You're very well versed with intercultural barriers and traditions because you believe that ultimately "LOVE" is spoken in only one language!

4. You provide tools that work and that can be used immediately.

5. Your program is unique in that it is SAFE, provocative, inspiring, and inspires and best of all it gives you tools to GROW.

I have been to traditional therapy before and never have I seen so much offered!

Thank you.

Sheela K.

 

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"I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together

my shattered life."

As Mort Fertel would say "listen carefully.”

I was at a total loss in my marriage…spinning without a compass. My wife said she wanted out but I wanted to save the marriage. I could hardly function on a daily basis because of the stress. It seemed like my whole world was crumbling at the foundation and I was watching it fall apart. I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together my shattered life. His writings and talks helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to the kind of attitude I knew I needed to succeed in my situation.
 

Daniel

 

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"I am soooooooooooo glad I did"

Dear Mort,

I am so glad I signed up for the tele-boot camp.  I didn't have the money and I was very unsure about signing up.  But I am soooooooooooo glad I did. It was a great decision.   It was worth every penny.   My marriage has come alive again.

Thanks to you Mort.

Sincerely,
TL

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MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!!

Dear Mort,

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY (OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS! THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR HELP.

SINCERELY,

KARIN SHELDON

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"It saved my marriage."

I would recommend the Tele Boot Camp to anyone.  It saved my marriage.  We still have a lot of work ahead of us; however, at least now I know what is ahead of us, instead of wondering if it would be divorce.

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"In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us

how to build love on our own."

Hi Mort

My wife and I have been married 3 years and it was hard from the start. We've both been divorced before so this was not our first time trying to make a marriage work. This time was not going well either. My wife had 2 affairs, she left 4 times, and marital counseling was a disaster. We were on the brink of divorce again. Then I surfed the net and found you.

I ordered Marriage Fitness, hired you for some 1-on-1 coaching, and then registered for the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp!. In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us how to build love on our own.

If anyone is reading this who needs marriage help, get it from Mort. You won't be sorry.

Thank you again Mort for saving our marriage and teaching us how to create love in our relationship.

Martin

Rosedale , Indiana

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"Mort taught me how to single-handedly

save my marriage"

Mort,

I would be more than happy to share my testimonial! Hope it helps, I would like my privacy protected so I will sign my testimonial with initials.

I discovered my husband was having an affair after 18 years of marriage. I confronted him about it and he denied it. Even after I gave him proof of the affair he still denied it. The more I spied on him, the more I confronted him, the more I confronted him,the more defensive he would get! I had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he own up to the affair and end it???

I asked him to end the affair and he said he did, I later found out that he was lying, he had not ended the affair. I asked him to leave our home but he refused. I told him that if he did not end the affair I would file for divorce. The affair continued! I did not know what to do!!! I prayed alot.

I finally got a lawyer and had the initial paperwork completed. I was devastated because I loved my husband and even with this affair going on he said he loved me and did not want a divorce. A divorce was the last thing I wanted.

I searched the internet for help. I prayed for guidance, I came across "Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed up for his emails first. I wanted to make sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and they did. Mort taught me how to re become a woman of moral character. He was encouraging, hard at times and motivating. I thought prior to the affair my marriage was save and in a good place but after going through the homework assignments I found many opportunities to first, fix myself and second, to restore my marriage. My husband and I have good days and bad days but things are much better because of the boot camp. I was in the Lone Ranger Track and at first I did not understand why I had to change if I was not the one having the affair! Mort taught me how to single-handedly save my marriage. I never thought I could do it, but I did.

Thanks Mort,

TS

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"I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!!"

Thank you Mort.

  

I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!! The points you make during your seminars are great - I liked your mix of the philosophical, religious, and practical life. It was a refreshing departure from much of the reading materials and the approaches of other therapists.

I thank you very much for tha t s upport and encouragement.

Vince

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"I owe it all to Mort!"


From: DMK
Sent: Friday, August 31, 2007 2:35 PM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: My experience with Marriage Fitness

Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Your program is outstanding and truly a god sent for me. I owe it all to Mort! Thank you for being there for me. You are the best. Keep up the great work that you are doing everyday.

DMK

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"I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp"

As a graduate student, I didn't think I could afford the Marriage Fitness bootcamp.  I went to the library and literally checked out and read about a quarter of the way through about twenty books on marriage.  After contemplation, I realized that I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp...my marriage and my sanity were too important to me! I signed up thinking that I might take advantage of the money-back guarantee, but with the sanity I gained in my own soul (I am on the Lone Ranger track), I wouldn't take a penny back.  Mort's multi-dimensional program to this day continues to strengthen my sanity when life throws me not only loops but roller coasters.  I have recommended Mort's program to many people going through everything from pre-nuptial to post-divorce situations.  If you don't gain anything else from his program, I believe you will absolutely at least gain back your sanity and self-confidence. The most important thing I have learned is that although you may have NO control over the other person, you have, with God's help, COMPLETE control over your reactions to situations.  Thank you, Mort! 

Jessica.A.

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" It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning. "

Mort,

 

John and I are more than happy to give our testimony and I would recommend your program to anyone having relationship difficulties. I'm including a picture too. Taken today.

 

We've been married 30 years and have 4 children. All of them are on their own now, but our marriage has been going downhill for at least that last 25 years. Your program has made us feel like newlyweds again! Neither of us have been this happy. And with the knowledge that we have gained through the years, applying your techniques and following your program, we are probably more happy than we were even when we first got married. We make love several times a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's good, and we enjoy doing things together that we never did before. It's even difficult to be around others because we don't want to miss a second apart.

 

We've been going fairly slow in the workbook, but we are getting things done! Counseling would have cost us so much more money and a divorce (which was imminent the day we ordered your program). It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning.

 

All I can do is say thank you and your wife for the insight and ideas you have given us.

 

Blessed Be,
Linda A.

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"We have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for granted anymore"

Hi Mort,

 

My Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness Program to couples having problems in their marriage whether being because of emotional or physical infidelity. My husband was emotionally unfaithful, and when I first found out about it I was devastated. I was very confused and thought this was the end of our marriage after being married for almost twenty five years. I found out about your program and decided that if we were going to try to save our marriage we needed to try out your marriage fitness program. It helped us see what was the real problem in our marriage, and how to handle our problems. We have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for granted anymore. We both thank God for your help and insight and we wish you the best in helping others with their marital problems.

Regards,
MB

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"Thanks for saving my family"

Mort, just wanted you to know things are great with Justin and me. Our relationship has improved so much. We are spending time together and enjoying each other's company. Learning that it is more important to pay attention to ourselves has made all the difference in the relationship. I sure have changed a lot of things I say and how I react to certain things. This whole 2 yrs has shown Justin and me a lot. He thanks you also. There was really no other way that he could have shown us both that he needed to grow. He didn't know how and just kept it all in until he exploded. He is such a wonderful person. I wish we could have known these things ahead of time. I have referred so many people to you. We continue to have fun and laugh at things now instead of letting everything consume us. Thanks for saving my family. Jan and Justin

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"I thank you for your gifts to all of us who struggle in

our marriages "

Dear Mort,

 

…your program worked!!  Thank you!

 

I have deep appreciation for the Marriage Fitness system.  It has saved our marriage.  I thank you for your gifts to all of us who struggle in our marriages. 

 

Mort, you mentioned something in one of the call in sessions that I believe is key…  and that is the importance of faith in a marriage.   As I went through this crisis in our lives, I started to depend more and more on prayer.  I believe that the Marriage Fitness system was one of the tools  that came to me.

 

Thank you again for your help!

 

C.H.

 

You can use my words above…. But please don't use my name.  Thanks…   

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"...it works for a stubborn Bi-Polar man"

Mort, I apologize for the unforgivable delay,  I would like to tell you a little about how the program has affected my marriage.  I have graduated from an obstinate spouse to someone who sees a genuine change in me.  From "Not in love with me" to loving me.  Things are not perfect but we get along very well, we go hiking and sightseeing together How has the program helped me, it has shown me how I can change the way things are going, how to improve myself.  There is a song I like which sums it up: "To find someone you love, you've gotta be someone you love" this program has shown me how to be someone I love.  My wife likes this.  Give this program a try, I mean really give it a try.  Put your heart into it - it works for a stubborn Bi-Polar man, it will work for you!
TLD

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"Now, my wife and I both know we are on the right track"

Dear Mort,

 

Here is my testimonial.

 

            My wife had brought to my attention that things were not feeling right in our marriage for some time. I floundered around not clear on how to go about fixing our relationship. By 2010 we had clearly reached the room mate stage. I was doing some things that worked, but overall I experienced our connection as harsh, unfulfilling and tenuous. I was still not clear on how to improve the connection.

            I came across Mort Fertel's marriage fitness link online while looking for marriage therapists and out of curiosity opened it.

From the free advice emails I received last January, I realized that Mort had good ideas that resonated with me. I tried the program and began implementing the changes in behavior that Mort recommended.

            I noticed some improvement in my wife's behaviour and in how I felt about her. She was away during March, but I continued to listen to the discs . During April we grew closer although we had some intense temporary setbacks along the way.

            Now, my wife and I both know we are on the right track and are very much enjoying and appreciating our lives together. The catalyst for change for me was to make my wife the most important person and our connection the most important thing in my life. Getting my priorities straight and beginning to do small positive things for my wife consistently has renewed our love for each other. 

            Thank you Mort for providing a simple, uncomplicated, practical plan for me to follow to develop my love for my soul mate.

 

JS

 

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"I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril."

Dear Mort,

I can't tell you how important this experience has been in my life.  The most helpful part for me was the calm, focused, consistent way in which you addressed every issue at the exact time I needed it.  I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril.  I have been on the Lone Ranger Track since October and I am not done with the program yet.  I have restarted a couple of times because I needed to hear the lessons again and again.  One restart was recommended by you on our Laser session.  Again, at the exact time that I needed it. 

To the people in need who are reading this....Just get one of the programs.  If you didn't know in your heart that you needed it you wouldn't be here right now.

Thank you so much Mort.  I am forever grateful.   

Amy S.

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"Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way."

Dear Mort,

I have spent just about every free moment that I had over the past 2 1/2 months listening, reading and thinking about your program. I am in the Lone Ranger track and it has been a hard period for me. However, your program has been a comfort to me. It has helped me to see mistakes that I made in my marriage. It has also encouraged me and made me feel validated because there were things that I intuitively recognized, but was not sure if I was on the right path. After reading and hearing the materials my spirit would be encouraged and lifted. I have been able to remain calm and do what is right. Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way. It has just been a real help to me. Thank you.

Sincerely,
Vicky

 

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" It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problem"

After going to a marriage counselor and feeling we were not getting much accomplished, we decided to try your Marriage Fitness Program. After participating in the 7-week Tele-Boot Camp, listening to the CDs, doing the recommended exercises etc, we have found it all to be extremely helpful and effective. It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problems and we feel we have made tremendous strides as a result of participating in your wonderful program. Thanks for your online marriage help in improving our marriage and for also giving us the valuable tools that were so desperately needed to make it all happen.

Nancy & Brian M

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"I began to actually re-discover what

we "used" to have."

My wife and I were high schools sweethearts and have been married for almost twenty-one years.  After two kids, separate jobs and the ever-increasing pace of life, we found ourselves totally frustrated with each other and on the verge of divorce thinking about when to divorce.  No infidelity or anything; our relationship just seemed "stale" and more work than what it was worth.”

I spent over $250 on various marriage "help" books and we even attended professional marriage "counseling" to help resolve our conflicts and problems.  It wasn't working …we had become masters at blaming each other and resolving conflict by ignoring each other. 

I then came across Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness program.  I purchased the program and decided to take the CD's with me to listen to while driving on a business trip.  When I left for my trip, my wife and I gave each other the robotic, "Drive careful" and "see you soon" rhetoric, but we both could still feel the immense strain between us.  In actuality, I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving for the weekend.

Anyways, after the listening to the first CD, I found myself contemplating my role in our marriage.  I began to actually re-discover what we "used" to have.  Instead of feeling like I was in competition with my wife, I actually started remembering all the things that used to make her feel special...that I was no longer doing.  I called her immediately on the cell phone and told her my revelation.  I told her I couldn't wait to get back to see her and was already missing her.  She began to cry and told me how much she loved me and tha t s he was looking forward to my return.  That reaction alone had been a long time coming.

Upon my return, we listened to the CD's together.  Within a week, our marriage improved immensely.  Mort's perspective on concentrating on the marriage and each other; rather than the "problems"; was the most profound, yet common sense, solution…many of our "unsurmountable" problems simply dissolved.  It was our perspectives and lack of focus on each other that were actually "causing" the problems in our marriage.

Unfortunately, these bad habits had been learned over the last 10-15 years.  We also found if we were not diligent about practicing or focusing on the Marriage Fitness program, our bad habits would resurface (avoiding, ignoring, etc.) and our marriage would begin to slide.  "Plugging-in" each week with Mort gave us that "commitment" we were lacking.  After several weeks, we are not perfect, but "DIVORCE" is not even in our vocabulary.  I look forward to coming home.  My wife looks forward to my coming home.  We enjoy being with each other again.

How much do I believe in Mort Fertel 's approach?

For Chris tmas, I purchased 10-15 of Mort's materials for my family and friends.  I have already heard from a handful who wanted to express their gratitude for my thinking of them.  A co-worker, who has been through three marriages, told me he wished he'd had seen Mort's materials before his last divorce.  It is such a POSITIVE, common sense approach to rebuilding or sustaining ANY marriage.

Rob & Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR

 

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"your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage"

Hello, Mort!

 

Just talked with Adina to pass along the fantastic news...my husband this past Friday asked if he could move back to our home and is committed to reconciling our relationship and marriage!  He even has agreed, although we're both still a little tentative and "getting to know each other again", to in the coming months take a vacation somewhere tropical/exotic (we like those kinds of places) and - in a very private ceremony with only me, him, and our 6 y.o. daughter - renew our marriage vows.  We'll either do it there or at the church we got married in, although I would love it to be on a warm beach under an arch of flowers at sunset!

 

 

Thank you SO MUCH...your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage and gave me the tools to work with as well as the understanding of why my husband was acting the way he did and why my "gut feel" was actually making the situation worse.  I will always be in your debt and will continue to strongly recommend the program to any friends or acquaintances who are in a period of marital difficulty or just want to make their marriage the best it can be!

 

Warm regards and huge thanks,

Christine V.

 

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"THANK YOU for our second chance! "

Hi Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you know that my husband and I have reconciled. I owe everything to you and your program. I did the lone ranger track and with sharing things with my husband we are more in tuned to each other than we ever were---even when we were dating. I learned a lot about myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect. I'm also doing your plug in program and WE are working real hard at our marriage. THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.

 

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"...the best thing we ever did"

The marriage fitness program is the best thing we ever did and while we realize we will never stop going through the marriage renewal process we credit our current happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.

Sincerely,

T & C

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"I have my SELF CONFIDENCE back and the LIGHT is shining back in my marriage of 25yrs"

Thank you for opening my mind to allow my eyes to see what has been there but invisible; there is HOPE for my marriage, actually there is stability. I have my SELF CONFIDENCE back and the LIGHT is shining back in my marriage of 25yrs, Thank You Mort Fertel!
Regards
Agnes

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"With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work"

We ordered Marriage Fitness, even though we are not married yet, because we have been in our relationship for 3 ½ years and were unsure if we wanted to be with each other or not. We figured love was just supposed to be there for us. With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work. All of the ideas we have learned and all of the stories we have heard, brought us closer together. We are very excited what tomorrow will bring. We vowed to each other to use this all of the time . This was well worth the time and effort. We communicate in a much more positive way. This program has opened up our eyes on how important we are to one another. Without Marriage Fitness, we would both be single today.  Thanks Mort!!
 

Patty and Shane

 

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"He did find his love for me again and it had come back even stronger than every before"

Hi there Mort, I want to thank you for a wonderful job you have done for my marriage. My husband was having an affair about four months ago, which was going on for abour four months. I confronted him in the beginning of February and he admitted to me that he was having an affair. What broke my heart was that he said that he did not love me anymore and that he loved this other woman. We were married for twenty five years and I thought to myself that I am not going to throw that away and that I am going to fight for my marriage. My husband and I had a lot of tough years behind us and we also had money problems and there was always something there that kept us togethere in those hard times, so I was not going to let this problem break up our marriage and I was going to fight with all the strength that I had in my body to keep my marriage together. My husband had had many affairs before and I had always forgiven him, but this time it was different, because he had never told me that he had loved these other women, he also told me that he had no more feelings for me and that he sometimes wonders if he had ever loved me. Well, let me tell you, I fought and it was very tiring and stressful; I went through all the emotions; I was very insecure. We had sat down and had a very long talk and I told him that I do not believe him when he says that he does not love me anymore and that I know that he does not love this woman, it is only infatuation and he will still find out that he does love me. I do not know how long it will take I said to him, but it will happen. We started going away for the weekends, just the two of us and there was a time that he was still in contact with this other woman and then we would have a long talk again and so life went on. AND YES, HE DID FIND HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER BEFORE. Just last night he told me that his love for me gets stronger by the day and that when he is at work, he will send me a sms via cell phone, telling me that he cannot wait to hold me in his arms tonight and that he misses me when we are at work. Our love for one another has never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the day. On the 19th of July this year, we will be celebrating our 26th wedding anniversary. I know that the Lord is the one that did the most work in our marriage, because I was forever asking the Lord to help us and he answered my prayers. I never told him that I told you so, but deep in my heart I say that to myself, that I knew all along that his love for me was always there, he just had to find that out for himself and I thank the lord every day for the love that we have for each other.

God Bless you.
Sheree

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"We are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been"

Hi Mort,

 

Durward and I are excited and pleased with the program, and I am SO impressed with Durward's attitude, AND his complete co operation with attending the sessions.

 

He gave up ANY contact with the woman with whom he was having the affair, and has had NO contact of any sort with her since Dec. 22nd, when he told her that he would not contact her, and asked her NOT to contact him.

 

Durward is arranging his whole life to make time for the program… We are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been.  Our sex life is more deep and frequent and satisfying than it has been since the first days of our marriage. And for the FIRST time EVER, Durward seems to be awake and aware of the life keeping services I have always provided, and which he always took for granted. I am stunned by the wonderful things he has done. He is headed home from California , and will be here Monday, and BOTH of us are missing each other, and can hardly wait to see one another. Thank you for helping us.

Barbara Anne Ashley              

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"Your course saved our marriage"

The advice and the concepts you asked us to apply for marriage renewal has changed my life, and even though I did the lone ranger track, I can say that your course saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage, our relationship had become unbearable for me, in the way we related on almost every level, both with regard to actions and "no action." I knew that I cared for my wife, but the relationship had become almost too difficult for me to continue. Even though we discussed what we each wanted from the relationship, we were not able to get our relationship back onto a course of treating eachother decently, much less romantically. Now, in just two months, there has been significant benefits, and a real opening up by each of us to each other's needs and desires, and I have not been this happy and content in years. I had gone to counseling, and invested substantial sums to try to solve our marriage problems, but the counseling was of little benefit, especially compared to the changes that were effected by your advice to learn how to love another, and I cannot express how valuable your course has been to my life and happiness. I have no doubt that I will review what you taught, and look forward to a very loving and close relationship with the companion I love.

J.B.

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" We learned so much,  and with your help were able to reconnect"

Hi Mort

 

Alex and I have completed the marriage fitness program last week. 

 

We are implementing your secrets, we found the program very fulfilling. 

 

We are celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary  August 16.  I was 18 and he was 21 years old when we got married. We have  twin boys 23  and a daughter 25 years old and  we are proud grandparents  3 times. Both grandaughters are just over 2 years old and a grandson 3 weeks old.

 

I'm glad I found your program back in February,    for us it was a matter of reconnecting, yes we were roommates with not much conversation.   Alex and I did the dual track.   Alex signed up for the program, I received all of your e-mails which I couldn't wait to read.

 

 We learned so much,  and with your help were able to reconnect.

 

We read our marriage mission statement every day, and do the 7 secrets. and I love the poem "The Beauty of Love" yes there is a more beautiful thing than young love, Old love, I want to be Old Love  with my husband. 

 

 

I'm hoping someday to have the opportunity to thank you in person.

 

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"We have been back together for over two years now"

Mort I just wanted you to know my husband and I where separated for 6 months. I got your cds by myself and listened to them. When I knew who I was my husband came home. He listened to the cds and it related a lot to him and his feelings. We have been back together for over two years now. Thank you for such wonderful advice :) God Bless

 

DKM

 

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"What I have learned from you and your program can not be measured"

What I have learned from you and your program can not be measured.  I feel like I am finally learning how to be the person and the spouse that I really want to be.  Your course is not just a marriage course.  It's a LIFE course.  I wish I could find a way to convince everyone I know to take your course just so they could benefit from the life values that you teach … I find myself wanting to share what I've learned from you and yet I have a difficult time articulating myself because I can't describe the magnitude of what I've learned.

 

I've been and still am in the Lone Ranger track of your program … things are improving.  And I'm optimistic that there is a light at the end of our tunnel.  I would and do recommend this program to anyone.  Thank you so much for your wisdom, insight, and constant sensitivity to such difficult and heart breaking issues.  You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself feeling better for having taken your advice.  Now that's constructive!

I look forward to continually learning more from you and your experience.  Thank you so much for such a wonderful program.  I surely would have been in a divorce by now if it weren't for Marriage Fitness!

Most Sincerely,
Susan

 

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"God used you to help me"


J.M.J.

Dear Mort,

Where do I start?  I should have written this months ago, forgive me.  Although I ordered the Lone Ranger track…My husband and I were separated over the summer and we had no contact (this was after we were together for 1 year and separated for 2 before that) We have been married 29 years.  My husband and I saw each other for the first time on October 4th and together as a family on October 6th ( I remembered your advice as meeting in a neutral place.)  That day he said "I can't believe how different you are, you've changed!" He had no idea that I had been doing your program since August.  I can't believe the change in myself, my relationship with my children, my husband, my friends, and with God.  

Very quickly he became receptive to the changes I was making and began coming over more and within a few weeks was back home.  Although we had a lot of issues to work on (trust for one) he said to me the other day, "I always thought I  loved you, but realized selfish I have been (I never even tried to get to know you), but I have fallen deeply, deeply in love with you and I cannot imagine being without you!"  He started your program in March and said that he wanted to do everything possible to make sure the I and the children know he loves us in action and not in words alone! 

Mort, you don't know how many years I have waited to hear these precious words, how many nights of heartache I have been through and the peace and happiness you have given us!  

When I decided that I wanted to make this work this summer (and realized that I was to blame for the breakdown in our marriage as much as he was) I typed in "God" save my marriage and your program pulled up!

That's exactly what God did he saved my marriage and my family.  My husband is working on his relationships with his children (which was absent for way to many years) God used you to help me and words cannot express my undying gratitude.

Take a moment today to give your family a few extra hugs and kisses!

God Bless you and your family as you will always be in my prayers.

Lisa R.

*PS I have already passed your information onto several of my friends that needed help in their marriages too!

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"I have an obstinate spouse but in weeks we are already connecting"

Dear Mort, we have made so much progress as a couple since I began the Marriage Fitness course... I am in the Lone Ranger track but we have gone from no contact hardly and barely speaking to each other to meeting regularly and speaking on the phone most days to scheduling date nights. My spouse has shown a great interest I the course and wants now to seek professional help. I have also scheduled in private one to one sessions and these have really helped me to focus on my goal and vision. I am so much more optimistic now and my love for my spouse has grown as I am fixing myself and creating new habits.

I would recommend the marriage fitness course to anyone whose marriage is in disarray.

I have an obstinate spouse but in weeks we are already connecting and developing intimacy.
I cannot thank Mort and his team enough.

Cathy C.

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"Changing many lives"

Thank you! 

We have had amazing progress in our marriage due to the MF Boot Camp!  What I thought was practically hopeless at the time, God has redeemed. We are so thankful for Mort's insights and we pray for him, his family and his marriage. I believe God is using this program to change many lives!  Thank you!

Blessings,
 
  Melissa A.

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"I don't know where our relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up."

Dear Mort,

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was a great experience for myself and my husband.  I don't know where our relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up.  I don't really believe in divorce but the way things were going, I was starting to consider it!  Today, we are both working together to fix our marriage and we are very glad we ran into this program when we did.  We have a son and we want what's best for him too, and nothing can make him happier than seeing his parents happy.  We know we have just begun to make changes, but we are grateful for your support and knowledge.  What we really find appealing is that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like.  Thank you for sharing your life story with us and allowing us to see where our marriage can be if we both make some simple changes.

Thanks again,
I.F.

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"We are more in love now than we were

when we got married! "

Hey Mort,

My husband and I hit rock bottom over the summer.

He has Chron's Disease and was misdiagnosed for years (15 to be exact). I begged and pleaded with him to go to another doctor but he refused since his mother and sister found the doctor he was going to.

Daily I would fix 3 meals a day for him and daily he would throw them out. As if that wasn't frustrating enough he was EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful to me yet would call his mom and sister daily and would ALWAYS end the call with “I LOVE YOU” then be a jerk to me. I had it!

I would sit and think of all the times that he would leave me and go running to be with his mom and sister including the day after we got married. He waited for me to jump in the shower and left to go on vacation with them, without ever saying a word to me. Needless to say there's a real bad history between me and his mom and sister. That issue is what drove me to my breaking point.

Confused and frustrated I turned to the internet looking for some kind of answer. Should I stay miserable or should I try to rebuild a totally destroyed marriage that I did. I e-mailed Mort and his response was that there is always hope. So, I signed up for the lone ranger course knowing that my husband wouldn't be on board with me. He thinks he's perfect. I started the program and followed the suggestions.

We are more in love now than we were when we got married! I know that it's a process that needs to continue to be worked on and we will but it TRULY saved us. I'm so happy that I made two very important decisions 1) Did Mort's program and 2) Decided to rebuild our marriage, I can't imagine my life with anybody else but Patrick.

                                                                         Sincerely,

  Lori A.                                                               

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" your program has made me a new man"

Hi Mort

Your program has made me a new man...and in return feeling so much better we still have work to do but it is amazing how you feel When you let go of past stuff I'm doing this as a lone ranger and I'm having a positive affect on my wife thanks Mort I've told so many people to go to your web site.

Chris W.

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"The program is simple but brilliant."

I just finished up with the teleboot camp and I have to say it works.  I was in the lone ranger track yet my actions definitely impacted my spouse and of course our marriage.  My spouse has severe unresolved issues from the past, but once Mort taught me to temporarily put that aside, I got to see the good side in my man once again.  It takes real personal work but it's well worth it. The program is simple but brilliant.  If you don't end up changing your marital situation, you still would've changed yourself - and that's the best success!!

thanx Mort

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"I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time."

Before I registered for your program, my husband and I were thinking of divorce especially I was. I had planned to at least separate for one year first and break off slowly because I have been a house wife for 26 years and I need to reestablish my ability to earn money. ..

The first week that I was listening to

your teleconference, I got it. I have

been doing small things that you

suggested. ..Ever since that time he is

no longer fighting to me. We are not

intimate yet but civil and respect one

another. The dynamic has changed to a

positive one. He recently gives me my

50th b'day present. .. I am making

myself stronger everyday and trying to

make our marriage stronger a little at a time. Thanks to your message and help of many of my friends and my church I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time. One day I called him to come home to eat lunch and he came. Before that time he would say he is too busy no matter what I cooked for him. I was so glad he come home and eats. He seems to stay home a lot longer than before. We do a lot of small talk.

Thanks to your program. I am grateful

that I sighed up, all your advice works.

Sometime one person can make a

different. I can see my future because I got the right tools that work on my belt and support from my family, and my church and your techniques.

I am ready to face our marriage toward

happier for all of us. I am ready to

fight for our lives for the rest of my

life to stay strong, for us as a unity.

 

Please do not use my name but you can

use my initial. Thanks again.

 

JT

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"WOW, was I surprised! "

Dear Mort,

I am writing to you for all of the couples out there that are wondering whether or not this would be beneficial program for them. I found myself wondering the same thing about 8 weeks ago when I read about the Tele-Boot Camp program. My marriage of 25 years was over, my husband had a 3 week affair and had left the house, our 2 daughters and me. He was unwilling to work on anything and had decided he wanted a divorce. I felt completely out of control,  the counseling didn't seemed to be helping. All I could see was everything I thought I new to be true about our marriage was wrong. I didn't know what to do, all I was sure of was I still loved my husband and I didn't want a divorce. I found Mort's program on the Internet and was sure nothing was going to help me or my situation. I joined the Tele-Boot Camp in the "Lone Ranger Track" meaning I did the program without my husband. I figured I had nothing to lose and everything to gain. I wasn't sure how this stranger was going to help when I couldn't, and I lived with this man for 25 years, WOW, was I surprised!


I listened to the Cd's, read the book, did the homework and followed the guidance that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences. I wasn't sure if this was going to work, but the amazing thing I started to notice was I no longer was feeling out of control, I found I was calmer, more focused and very excited at the subtle little changes that would periodically occur. At our final question and answer seminar I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that I had a positive yet small break through with my husband. I had invited him out to a movie and he went, then 2 days later he called to talk and later that day he invited me to go for a ride with him. This was so encouraging, the Memorial weekend was coming up and the best news was about to come. My husband and I spent very day together, boating, fishing, just being together!

I still have a long road ahead but I look forward to the work, the break through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage. Thank you Mort for the guidance, the encouragement and all of the support. I hope my story helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful about the program, I would recommend Tele-Boot Camp to all!!

Sincerely,

R.L. Michigan

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"Your program was very insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me"

Dear Mort……

 

I am not sure where to begin. Everything you have taught me seems so practical but something we forget over time.  Today I am applying the techniques even though I am a lone ranger, and I can se e change I am a better man, a better Dad and a better spouse than I ever was before.  Your program was very insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me.  Your advice is absolutely right on the mark and has helped me tremendously.  And it seems that when I am struggling I get that one email or piece of advice from you that makes me think it all through a little more clearer.   Thanks for helping me out.

 

G . O

 

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"Thanks a million times over for getting us on the right track and for your help."

Mort,

Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill and I did not completely make it through all the program; we did complete all the tele conferences and the Q&A's and basically got through step 3 of the 4 part program. Our Notebook suffered as during the last 2 weeks of our program Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer so our focus completely changed.

The program did wonders and continues to do wonders. We fixed what we had broken due to lack of focus on each other and continue to practice everything we learned.

The program was fantastic as I could not - without your Q&A's make Bill understand what he was doing wrong without appearing extremely selfish. By the timie I received the program, I thought I was going crazy, then I went through all th Q&A's looking for answers and found them. I marked the one's he should difenetely listen to and explained that if these do not address our problems, nothing will. Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the first three steps of the program, we quickly got back on track and remain so.

Now to get through our next test! Thanks a million times over for getting us on the right track and for your help.

Natty & Bill B.

 

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"If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take"

Mort,

I would like to thank you for creating the Marriage Fitness Progam,  I did the Lone Ranger in February and before starting I was skeptical as to how much this program would help my marriage.   As I went through the program I realized that my way of behaving had a lot to do with the deterioration of my marriage.

I started listening to the CD's and once I started doing the exercises is when I realized that changes needed to be made. 

If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take, it really does help you see what you need to fix in yourself and teaches you how to approach your spouse in a loving way.

Thank you for giving me the tools to see what a great marriage I could have.

IAR

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"Our house is a home once again but a better

one than before"

Hello Mort,

I don't know if you'll be reading this or if your very nice assistant will.(Sorry, I forgot her name)

I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD news since I'm sure you like to hear about marriages that have been saved. My husband Curt had wanted a separation, got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation. Two months to the day before I could have been receiving divorce papers from his lawyer, Curt asked to move back home instead.

Our house is a home once again but a better one than before. Communication is more open, honest and we speak and listen lovingly to each other. What a testimony of God's faithfulness for us, our children and others who watched us through the past year's storm! You can even find us all together every Sunday at church! (A new church that is uplifting and offers hope instead of warnings of fire and brimstone).

I still have notes from our discussions. Looking back, many suggestions you made were just what our relationship needed.

Thank you again for your encouraging words.

Sincerely, a survivor and new person,

Samia B

Charlotte, NC

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"Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship"

Dear Mort,

One year ago I contacted you via your web site for help. My marriage had been marginal to say the least for several years. My husband told me the day before Thanksgiving that he didn't love me any more and thought I should move into our vacation house in another state. He was sure I would be happier there. I was in such horrific shock I just did what he asked. Once there I realized this was not what I wanted and I was going to do everything I could to save our marriage of 32 years. To add to the pain I discovered the day after Christmas he was seeing an old High School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately came back home. I had to give it one more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness program in the lone ranger track and began doing the things your program suggested. Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship. He refused to go to any kind of counseling, so I just continued by myself in the Lone Ranger Track. As I worked the program he seemed to respond in kind and it wasn't long before things were better than ever.

Thank You Mort!

This past year has been the best year of our entire relationship. I would recommend this program to anyone who is having problems in their marriage.

It works!!!!!!!!!

Linda

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"I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program."

Dear Mort,

I wanted to thank you for your program and your support during our 1 on 1session.  Just wanted you to know that my husband and I are getting back

together.  It has been a long road and at one point I almost gave up and started to move on with my life without him.  Funny how that letting go was

just what he needed to find me again.  Anyways, we are making plans for our future and I will continue with your plugged in sessions since they have become

so valuable to me.  To be honest I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program.  Without that, I may have been hurtful and cruel, behaviours that benefit no one.  Thankfully I was able to stay loving to my husband throughout our difficulties and now I can see that our relationship will be stronger for it.

Thank you for being there.

Melody M.

Alberta Canada

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"Thank you, and the Mrs., for

sharing your wisdom with us."

I have to say this series has recharged my hope in my relationship. You simply have spelled it out.

For my husband, who has not had the opportunity of seeing, knowing, experiencing, or learning the tools and skills of a positive relationship, you have provided an easy to understand program and "To Do" list. I can't wait for him to get started.

Yes, I got through the series first, and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were my issues, and I cannot ask more of someone else than I am willing to do myself, and do first.

My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb". It made me think of everyone in my life from our children to co workers and how I interact with them. Am I sending them a clear message of my definition of our relationship? Some should be getting more, some need to be receiving less.

Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing your wisdom with us.

R.P.

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"All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU."

I don't know who gets these emails, but I surly hope someone can express my appreciation to Mort.

Today I got the second email Talk & Touch. I just had to share this. My wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been going through hell with the separation. Probably because I was doing all the wrong things!

This evening, I called my wife and we had a conversation. WOW was it wonderful. Just a very simple conversation, yes I slipped a couple of time and told her how much I love and miss her and wanted her to come back home but for the most part we just talked about things.

Because I honestly cannot remember the last time this happened, and I'm sure she cannot either, I'm betting that her jaw was on the floor. I didn't do this to put her jaw on the floor but I think she was shocked.

When I could tell that she was ready to end the conversation, I let her know that I understood and I tried to say goodnight. Rather than just ending it right then and there as she would have before, she took time to explain to me that she didn't rest well last night, the time change affects her in a negative way and she was tired. I told her no problem, good night, sweet dreams and I did slip in another "I Love You!"

All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU. I'm learning so much

David

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marriages"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marraiges"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marraiges"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marraiges"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marraiges"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"Marriage Fitness saved our marriage"

Things have been busy to say the least, we just welcomed a newborn baby Katelyn.  We are sleep deprived at the moment…Marriage Fitness saved our marriage.  It brought a baby into the world because of our new found love.  Many thanks to Mort.  I rave about him to all I know. 
 
The Meachum Family :)

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"...our kids that have their family back together"

Dear Mort, I rarely believe the things I read on the internet, so when I found you in a google search for marriage advice, I was skeptical.  Then, I figured… what have I got to lose?  So, I signed up...  My husband wanted nothing to do with it, so I took your advice and just stayed on the path on my own, working on mending what I had all but given up on.  I had moved out of the house and was starting to move on with my life, but something kept pulling me back to my ex and our 15 year marriage.  We reconciled almost a year ago, after we had both gone outside our marriage and we have never been stronger.  Thank you so much for your help.  You took things that should have been obvious to us, but had been forgotten along the way and made us refocus on those things that we needed to do.  It started with him saying, “No, it is over.  There is nothing we can do. I do love you, but I cannot do this anymore”...  It was tough because, at first, he didn’t respond.  Because you told me to expect that, it was easier to deal with, easier for me to keep going.  I don’t know if it would have worked without that guidance you provided.  I am certainly glad I gave it a shot and that you gave me the courage to keep working at it and believing I could turn it around.  So are our kids that have their family back together.  Thanks again and again!

Thanks so much!
Heather 


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"My husband and I reconciled…"

I benefitted from Mr. Fortel's counsel very much. I bought his books and the CD's to listen to in the car as well. I found his advice practical and easy to apply. My husband and I reconciled… and I have incorporated the principles I learned into our daily lives. I will defintely continue to refer to the materials that I have!
 
Thank you,
Diana

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"I recommend this programme to every couple facing  problems in their marraiges"

        

This programme was truely an eye opener for me.I joint the programme in the Lone Ranger Track.I was depressed ,almost lost all my hopes and on the verge of thinking i made a mistake marrying my husband and maybe divorce is the only option.I thought my problem was unique and so maybe it did'nt have much of solutions.And like most of the people in a bad marriage i was busy focussing on the mistakes my husband is making ,how my needs are not being met ,my frustrations ,my expectations etc.And here is how this programme has completely changed my outlook of the problem.Just by following the simple principles…has actually led to an ease in pain and frustrations i had...It actually has started changing the momentom of my marriage.My husband only talked about divorce few weeks back.I had built in huge walls of guilt around me that stopped me from doing what is right and i was letting my husband's idea of divorce win over our situation.But now its what my heart wants.I get up everyday saying to myself i want to be a good human and i am his wife ,i love him and so i will do what is right without having second thoughts.And the confidence to do what is right and to follow my heart comes from Mort's programme.

Its been a very systematic approach on addressing the problem by actually keeping the problem aside for sometime till you create a postive energy in your marriage and then tackle these issues.I am working on my marriage ,following everything that has been suggested and i do see changes and i am hopeful i will be succefully leading my life with my soulmate.Patience,consistency and persistence in doing what is right will hepl me win my husband back.And i am positive.

Thank you Mort for the support ,strength,advices and making me revise those simple human principles that everybody should follow so to have a wonderful marriage.I recommend this programme to every couple facing problems in their marraiges and also to couples who are not at present facing any but just so as they are aware when they are on the wrong track..

Keep up the good work of God , Mort . God bless you

Regards ,
R. N.

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"Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give me hope"

Dear Mr. Fertel:

Please share with others how you give people, especially in the Lone Ranger Track, the strength and endurance to go on to reconcile their marriages. For the right reasons.

So many people, including therapists and well-meaning friends, have advised me to leave my marriage. I almost feel ridiculed by others in my dedication to my marriage and my spouse. Until I encountered you and your program.

Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give me hope. For the right reasons. You are helping me learn from this painful experience. When every one else almost "derails" me in my vision to learn the most I can about myself and reconcile my marriage. I feel inspiration and motivation from you to continue in my efforts.

I have to admit your amount of personal dedication is impressive. You provide an abundance of material that requires much effort to assimilate in a relatively short amount of time. But that is in accord with your belief in how hard one should work in their labors of love to protect their marriage.

You walk your talk. You are personally involved. I never imagined I'd have opportunities to actually speak with you. And you provide ongoing follow-up after the initial program.

Yours truly,

Dianne DF

 

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"After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family"

Mort,

Just wanted to take a minute and thank you for the inspiration and the success on repairing my marriage.  After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family.  I would love to say it is peachy and rosy, but the fact of the matter is we have a long way to go.  I have you in my corner that can help the forward progression that I believe is most important in the healing process.  I was doing the lone ranger track and by the end of the program my wife was not only listening to the teleconferences she was participating in the Q and A.  Thanks again.

Randy and Stacy C.

 

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"...he actually said he loved me..."

Dear Mort,

 

I signed up for your e-mails 9 months prior to actually joining the boot camp. I would read the emails and save them and reread them and sometimes foward them to my husband. They were amazingly right on Your message is extremely powerful and also very sincere. On one of the CD's the wife breaks down into tears and one can sence your empathy and sincerety. My husband has actually come a long way. We do the date nights as suggested and that is terrific. I tell him I love him, because I cannot hold that back. I told him there is no need for him to respond to that. But that I love him and I cannot just not say it. I'm sure you are not surprised to know he actually said he loved me while away for a two day business trip!

 

One of the Q&A's in our boot camp the wife asked about having sex. Your answer was soooo amazing. You said why not you are married go ahead and have sex. My husband and I kinda looked at eachother surprised. Laughed. Said why not? And we have been having sex. Such a silly thing, but so powerful.

 

I realize with my entire being that this program can work. It is not easy most of the time, but to hear the hope and the determination from your listeners on the Q&A is very moving. I am taking your "fast is slow and slow is fast" quite literally. Our problems have evolved over a decade, so I believe if we move ahead at our own pace, change will come.

 

Pat -married 34 years and still learning to put love first.

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"This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning."

Mort, your marriage bootcamp was amazing. It made us aware of what was really important. We were trying to fix things that were draining to us emotionally and you showed us that those things were not the issues. They were the result of what we had forgotten to do. This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning. This truly is the way. Everyday is a new day and now we have the neccessary tools to rebuild our marriage and do it the right way this time.

J & J

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"We have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic"

Hey Mort... We just got off the phone for this months Q&A. I wanted to share this with you during the call but seems like a lot more people needed to talk than we did. We have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic. Things don't or didn't happen all at once and things will not stop happening ..This is our way of life now. Here is an example of some things that are happening - Our family was on a trip this past weekend in the mountains (this was a business/pleasure trip mixed) . 2 things happened that I hope I never forget. The first was that we stopped to get a hot beverage (tea and coffee) and before I knew what was happening he was fixing my tea the way I liked it and I was fixing his coffee the way he liked it. We were both thinking of the other person....That was a great feeling... The second thing that happened was that we were talking to one of his co workers ( this is the first time I had met him) and the conversation turned to how long each one of us had been married. We told him almost 15 for us. He said it was great to see that we still had that sparkle in both of our eyes.

Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help you have given us, the support and the knowledge that you are there for us. We are loving this...

T.M.

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" [Marriage Fitness] had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately"


After 32 years of marriage, my wife told me that she had found a man whom she loves and wanted a divorce and was leaving immediately.  I was stunned.  Fortunately I read about your program and signed up for the lone ranger course.  It is two months later and we have not yet separated…I can attribute the fact that  there is a chance  at reconciliation directly to your Marriage Fitness program.  It had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately.  Just as important, it pointed out the attitudes in both of us  that almost guaranteed us going from soul mates to roommates to the very edge of divorce.  Your one on one consultations have been simply invaluable… 
Your help has been invaluable.

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"Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you."

Hi Mort

I would really like to take this opportunity to thank you very very much from the deepest place in my heart for all your emails, the Audios and the Marriage Fitness program. Yor really helped me save my marriage and keeping the momentum to make sure we do not get back from where we were.

My husband came back home permanently in March 2011, 9 months after our major fight. It was a long wait but like you say that we expect quick fixes to our problems and it does not work as it took some time for our marriage problems to be at a  state where it looks like nothing will ever work.

It was a long wait but it was worth it. He kept on coming to see the kids and will sleep over and leave again and it really used to tear me into pieces. I kept all your emails (even to date) and would read them all over again each time I felt down or thought things will never get better.

Its been 6 months since he has been back, and we handle our differences much better than we used to and they are far and far in between. I still apply your teachings in order to keep the momentum of our marriage. We are so happy now, he brings me to work and fetches me almost every day, something he last did in 2003. We go out almost every Friday night. My children are also themselves now as the separation was affecting them very badly and their teachers were noticing that they were affected and things might not be well back home.

You are right in that you can single handedly change your marriage situation and get to see the chances you what to see in your partner. But the most important thing is to be patient and it can take longer than expected

Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you. I have been telling my friends about you and one of my friends recently subscribed to your website and is now receiving your emails.

Kind Regards
M.N.


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 "I'm happy to say we will be celebrating our ten year anniversary next month"

Dear Mort,

The below text was written in the shipping deliver comments of Christine Slaughter ‘s order:

Thank you so much for this great gift book.  My husband and I seperated after 8 years of marriage.  We both ended up doing the Lone Ranger Track and working with MaryAnn (one of your great counselors) to figure out where we went wrong.  I'm happy to say we will be celebrating our ten year anniversary next month and are happier than ever. This book is a gift to my husband for our 10 year anniversary!  :)
CS

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"I am extremely grateful to you and your team as I never thought we would be where we are today"

Dear Mort,

After receiving your email, my husband Kevin Ringrose agreed to try your programme and to my delight it changed our relationship for the best within
weeks. I am extremely grateful to you and your team as I never thought we would be where we are today.

Thank you so so much

Warmest wishes

Sherry r.

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"I cannot begin to express the love and connection we have both felt again."

Dear Mort,
I am writing to thank you for your wonderful Marriage Fitness program and to extend a testimonial of my experience.  My precious, beautiful wife and I recently completed the program and I cannot begin to express the love and connection we have both felt again.  She has provided her testimonial as well in a separate email.  We were planning on surprising the other with the testimonial when we discovered that we both had the same idea- I suppose that just part of our connection now! 
 
So, to Mort - Thank you so very much  and to my amazing wife....I love you with all my soul.
 
Sincerely,
 
Brian

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"your Marriage Fitness program...had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately"

Dear Mort,
   After 32 years of marriage, my wife told me that she had found a man whom she loves and wanted a divorce and was leaving immediately.  I was stunned.  Fortunately I read about your program and signed up for the lone ranger course.  It is two months later and we have not yet separated
I can attribute the fact that there is a chance  at reconciliation directly to your Marriage Fitness program.  It had down to earth, extremely practical suggestions that can be initiated immediately.  Just as important, it pointed out the attitudes in both of us  that almost guaranteed us going from soul mates to roommates to the very edge of divorce.  Your one on one consultations have been simply invaluable  Your help has been invaluable.

 

                                                        Gratefully, BB

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"It is because of your unremitting vision of how to be loving in a marriage that makes your program so successful"

Thank you for saving my marriage.  My wife and I are closer than ever.  We look forward to our RG's and DN's.  We have fun ALWAYS! Thank you for opening my eyes to a new world, a new way of seeing, a new birth if you will.  I wake up counting blessings, I have over 300 written gratitude blessings in my journal and can honestly say that gratitude, goodness and generosity permeate my cells.  I appreciate the work that you have placed in front of me!  It is because of your unremitting vision of how to be loving in a marriage that makes your program so successful, and I really admire you for that.  Thank you MORT FERTEL --- A.A

 

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"you guys helped me to turn my life around"

Very good program, you guys helped me to turn my life around.  Going through the program and implementing the positive changes got my family back together.  I still keep reviewing the material...  I  recommend this program strongly to all my friends.  Thanks again for all your help.

H.H

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"My husband even passed me a compliment "

Dear Mort:  I joined as the Lone Ranger because I felt I needed to do something .. .  I didn't realize what I  was getting myself into but became addictive after reading your daily emails.  The teleconferences, books, cds are of the utmost quality.  I found myself listening to the teleconferences over and over at the office instead of the local radio station.  While driving, your cd  has been plugged in. The workbook  replaced Dr. Phil McGraw.  I'm achieving positive results with the tools that you have made available After seven weeks, I feel great!  My husband even passed a compliment "Wow you look great!  Is that a new outfit"  I just said "Thanks, I feel like I look...great!".  Inside joke, I've had the outfit for years and he never acknowledged it before but what's inside the outfit is different!  I feel better now than I felt prior to taking your course.  Mort, your sincere approach is so felt when listening to these conferences.  For seven weeks, you've been my best friend.  I thank you for you!  I will be continuing with your next program.  Many thanks-Vicki M. , Petaluma, California 

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"My husband came back home permanently"

Hi Mort

 

I would really like to take this opportunity to thank you very very much from the deepest place in my heart for all your emails, the Audios and the Marriage Fitness program. Yor really helped me save my marriage and keeping the momentum to make sure we do not get back from where we were.

 

My husband came back home permanently in March 2011, 9 months after our major fight. It was a long wait but like you say that we expect quick fixes to our problems and it does not work as it took some time for our marriage problems to be at a  state where it looks like nothing will ever work.

 

It was a long wait but it was worth it. He kept on coming to see the kids and will sleep over and leave again and it really used to tear me into pieces. I kept all your emails (even to date) and would read them all over again each time I felt down or thought things will never get better.

 

Its been 6 months since he has been back, and we handle our differences much better than we used to and they are far and far in between. I still apply your teachings in order to keep the momentum of our marriage. We are so happy now, he brings me to work and fetches me almost every day, something he last did in 2003. We go out almost every Friday night. My children are also themselves now as the separation was affecting them very badly and their teachers were noticing that they were affected and things might not be well back home.

 

You are right in that you can single handedly change your marriage situation and get to see the chances you what to see in your partner. But the most important thing is to be patient and it can take longer than expected

 

Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you. I have been telling my friends about you and one of my friends recently subscribed to your website and is now receiving your emails.

 

Kind Regards

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"This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet"

You won't find a better Marriage counseling program for the money anywhere.

This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet. The reason is this program comes from the heart of someone who understands loss and the value of relationshiips, someone who is sincere and genuinely cares about the people he is tring to help.

 

John B.

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"Marriage fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start on a different path."

Hi Mort,

Marriage fitness is exactly what we needed at exactly the right time.  We have been married 25 years and like many couples moved away from each other through the years.  We were ready to separate.  The issues and relationship problems seemed so big that we didn't know wha t s tep to take first to begin to fix things.  I felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I didn't have the equipment and I was already so tired I couldn't think of how to take the first step. 

Marriage fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start on a different path.  This program is positive and builds the relationship from day one.  I knew that if things were going to change we would have to begin to see each other differently and start to build the relationship again.  The way the program is designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the results quickly followed.  Somewhere in my heart I knew this was the answer, marriage fitness put it into action. 

Thanks!

Lisa

 

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"The boot camp deals with NOW and with moving forward which is something you CAN do..."

I am more than happy to offer a testimony for the Teleboot Camp!  In my opinion it is the best marriage course I've heard of or read about.  This course was my last ditch effort to stay in my marriage. I've had one foot out the door for the past 2-3 years, but because of two young children, I have been holding out and looking for miracles. My marriage has been a huge disappointment b/c we have developed horrific habits and treat each other badly.  In the 7 week course I have seen my husband make huge changes and he says the same about me.  We are now at a point where we kind of "like" each other again which is amazing.  The course and listening to Mort's phone conferences work so well because he is SO non-judgemental and only looks for solutions.  You are expecting to hear "i can't believe your husband does that" or "You realize what you did was wrong,....".... Instead the boot camp deals w/ NOW and w/ moving forward which is something you CAN do... you can't change the past so why make people feel guilty which is what a lot of counselors do.

I am also surprised at how much my husband took to Mort's advice.  He can be very difficult, judgemental and close minded... but he got into the course and actually did the assignments. We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to "do" the work and keep creating love... there's a light at the end of the tunnel. We are both committed to better ourselves for our marriage, our self-dignity and our children.

We just went out w/ another couple last weekend and when they started bickering we just said www.marriagemax.com ... then we laughed so hard b/c we know how ridiculous we used to look always bickering ourselves! We've come a long way and have a long way to go but at least we are speaking, connecting and are hopeful.  We went from threatening divorce every week to making plans to join a tennis league.  We could NOT have done this alone.  There was way too much animosity and resistance. 

Another huge plus is my kids are more relaxed... they changed as much and as fast as we did.  They went from uptight and anxious to happier and more peaceful......AND a girlfriend of mine wants to know what pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen me this positive (about everything) in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote down the Boot Camp website before she left my house! She was very suspicious that I was giving her a website but that it was just a pill I was taking!

To be honest my husband and I only put in about 40% effort and saw HUGE results..(like I said we were almost enemies so it was quite difficult to go from 0 to a 100). now we are excited to keep putting in more and more effort and take our marriage to the highest level possible.

So, thanks Mort for everything you have been a God-send to us and our children...No matter what happens I know I now have the information, skills and concepts to create love in my relationship. My husband and I are at a point where we are not as needy or desparate.   We are becoming 2 adults who would like to stay together for the right reasons and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre marriage anymore. We have raised the bar and now both  are more aware and accountable for our words and actions. I thought our marriage would just be mediocre at best and now am unwilling to accept that.  I'm striving for awesome and won't stop till I get there!

GS

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" [I] encourage anyone I know who is getting married to seek this program"

My husband and I seperated at the end of October 2010. There wasn't any drugs, alcohol or infidelity in our marriage. We just became like roommates. We had felt distant from each other for quite some time. He became extremely shut down in June of last year. I got scared and the more we talked and I pushed for counseling the more he shut down and pushed away. I was scared that this was the end. He just didn't even seem to care. So I made my mind up to try everything possible to "get him back" so to speak and nothing seemed to work. I reached out and got nothing back from him. He said he knew I was trying but he wasn't and he didn't know why. He said he didn't think he loved me the way he should. Finally in October, I just didn't know what else to do. Felt as though I had done all I could do without him wanting to go to counseling. So after one of our many uncomfortable talks, I asked him if he wanted to leave. He didn't say no and he didn't say yes. But I could tell he wanted out. So I asked him to leave. He came home that night from work, we told the kids, and he left and said he was done. I assumed we would try to work things out after he left and he repeatedly said he was done. It wasn't until about a month later that I was online looking up info on separation, divorce etc. as I had done many times but this time came across Mort Fertel. At first I was hesitant to order the Cd's. Money has been extremely tight and we were going into Christmas and just didn't think I should spend the money. I thought about it for a day or two and decided my marriage was worth ordering the CD's and they could be returned if I didn't feel they fit our situation. Well, I couldn't wait to get the CD's. When I received the materials and cd's through email, I literally sat and read/listened the whole thing. I knew that this was great info and it all made sense. I just didn't know how to get my husband to listen to them. He was still very shut down and distant. We did things together because of the kids and we were always respectable to each other. I listened to these CD's as well as went to counseling for myself. I believe the combination of both helped me become stronger and work on myself. I ordered the lone ranger package and worked through it on my own. I still wasn't seeing hope from my husband but felt as though I needed to everything possible for my marriage and if it was truly over, I could say I did everything I could to work things out. I had to be able to walk away from my marriage if it came to that with a sense that I tried. After going through the holidays my husband seemed to have a hard time with the holidays. He was breaking down a lot which is extremely rare. It wasn't until my daughter and him talked and he broke down. She asked him if he would go to the counselor that I have been seeing and he said he would, he promised. He made the appt. and went. He still didn't open up to me about the appt. except to say the counselor was a nice guys, easy to talk to, and that it wasn't so bad. I also at this point talked to him about these CD's and asked him if he would at least listen to the first one. I knew if he listened to the first one he would listen to them all. When he came to the house after his appt. with the counselor he took the CD's with him when he left. I still felt like I didn't have anything left to do at this point. My hope was gone. I made the decision to make an appt. with an attorney to see what my options were. It was very upsetting because I didn't want the marriage to get to this point but didn't know what else to do. I called on Monday and had an appt for Thursday of that week. I was crying when I got off the phone and then my counselor called me to tell me about the appt. with my husband. He said he was sorry that he didn't have good news. He said my husband wanted the marriage over. I was a mess. But I felt as though I saw it coming and was glad at that point that I had made the appt. with the attorney. I text my husband and told him I had talked to the counselor and he basically said he was done and that I needed to move on. I asked him to not come by the house that night to see the kids because I emotionally couldn't handle it at that point. I told him I could see he was done and it was time for me to move on and take the next step. He text back and said he dumped his anger and resentments at the counselors office. Then he said he had listened to the first CD. I was furious. I thought why are you even bothering to listen to the CD's if he was done. I text back and said let me clarify what the counselor said. I listed everything he said....my husband didn't want marriage counseling. He didn't want to work things out. etc. After I listed everything the doctor said, I said, I have reached out to you and have gotten nothing in return. I said I can see you are done. I will let you go. He never responded. I took it as I was right. He was done. It was until the next day around noon, he text me and asked if we could talk. I text back very bitter and said there isn't anything to talk about. He is done. He text back and said he really wanted to sit down and talk to me. He also said he had been listening to these CD's and they made sense. He said we were only doing, maybe, 15% of what Mort was saying to do. He said it was all doable things. He said it was worth giving it a try to work on our marriage. That was last week. I canceled my appt. with the attorney and my husband and I sat down and talked on Saturday. We are going to work through this program and seek counseling one on one and together. I am further along in the healing process then he is because I have been doing this program and seeking counseling but he has seen the changes in me and says he likes what he sees. He is still very guarded and has walls up so to speak but I think we will be able to work through our differences. Thank you Mort for making this program. Every person entering marriage should be given this CD's. I think we all go into marriage thinking our marriage is different and we will never get to "this" point. We were on cruise control in our marriage. His biggest complaint was I didn't put him first. The kids, house, family friends, house all came before him. I see now that you have to work at your marriage and nurture you marriage and spouse regardless of your kids. I see that without our relationship we wouldn't have kids or be where we are with our house, jobs, life in general. You have to put your spouse first and "work" on your marriage. I have told all of my married friends about this program and I will encourage anyone I know who is getting married to seek this program so they have the tools and maybe won't get to this point in their marriage. Thank you Mort Fertel for a wonderful program!!!

 

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"Thank you for helping us create an environment to heal all of the old wounds and pain I created as a result of selfishness and foolishness, and for giving us the tools to create the kind of marriage we should have had all these years."

Mr. Fertel.....

My wife and I have been married for 29 years.  Almost ten years ago, our marriage began a downhill slide that nearly ended in divorce.  There were many issues -- job loss, career decisions made unilaterally, finances, pornography, flirtations, sex. We were desperate, and were ready to "call it quits".

Last December,  I had what you describe as an "emotional affair" online with a high school classmate.  It was the culmination of a long period of time when I was not connected to my marriage and my wife.  She discovered that I had been "chatting" with this woman, and we had a major blow-up.  One morning in my desperation I "googled" counselors and found your website.  I completed the online marriage quizzes and am embarrassed to say that I failed miserably.  However, that was the beginning of a complete change in direction for me and our marriage.  All I can say is that you must have been sent by God to me and my marriage.  It has been nothing short of miraculous. You have truly been a blessing to us, and have made an ENORMOUS difference in me and the way I view my marriage, in my wife and how she "sees" me, and how we communicate with each other.

We have purchased and listened to your CD's, and have just completed our second reading of your book.  We have applied your techniques and can say, beyond a shadow of a doubt, you have transformed our lives!  We both read and print off your emails as they come, and are consistently amazed that the words we read are exactly what we need at that moment, or reflect the feelings we have felt in the recent past.  It is to the point now where we both look forward to them arriving in my in-box because it inspires us to be better people, a better couple, and better parents to our children.

All I/we can say is THANK YOU from the bottom of our hearts. Thank you for bringing me back to my wife from the brink of disaster, thank you for helping my wife find the ability to forgive, thank you for helping us see WE can have a marriage we can be proud of for our family and ourselves.  Most of all, thank you for helping us create an environment to heal all of the old wounds and pain I created as a result of selfishness and foolishness, and for giving us the tools to create the kind of marriage we should have had all these years.  We will both be forever grateful.

 L.W.

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"Mort Fertel's program was exactly as he advertised and both my husband and I gained much"

 Your program turned our marriage around. We have stopped the divorce proceedings and we have agreed to stay married and continue to work on ourselves and our marriage. We are still living in separate states but a house, two teenagers, and jobs dictate that situation right now. Presently, we fly back and forth to spend time together, but are working on a way to reunite our family permentantly. Back in July, I was desperate to find the right program and I hoped it to be true and not a sales pitch program. Mort Fertel's program was exactly as he advertised and both my husband and I gained much insight about ourselves and our marriage that we never thought of previously.

Thank you for being a person of integrity and sharing your passion for saving relationships with this program.
 
Best Regards,
Cheryl B. 

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"Mort's program helped me envision what I could do to try to create positive energy"

I went through the Lone Ranger track of the Tele-Boot Camp and it really helped me take a personal inventory and understand the actions that led to problems in our marriage. I would recommend Mort's programs in a heartbeat to anyone wanting to improve their relationship with the spouse, especially those who aren't yet "in trouble." If I had only known about Mort's program a few years ago, my wife and I might not have had the difficulty we had. We're on the path now to reconciliation and connection, and that is all I ever hoped for. Mort's program helped me envision what I could do to try to create positive energy that leads to a better environment in which to discuss the why's of our marriage breaking down. It gave me hope and courage to try to fix things and helped me see how I contributed to the state of our relationship.
 
Things are not perfect but are much better than they were, and I'm more hopeful than ever that we will work through the remaining issues. Thank you, Mort and MarriageMax.
 
Sincerely,
A Friend
( I would prefer to remain anonymous, but Mort is welcome to use my comments as a testimonial as long as my name is not used)

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"our relationship has improved"

 ... It has been a lot of work, but very rewarding. Even my son has noticed changes in me, but I'm still working on my fixing and focusing on my wife's needs... our relationship has improved because of changes in me over the past 2 months.
These changes are entirely due to the Marriage Fitness course.
Thanks for your continued help and do not use my name if you reproduce my email.

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"... very much worth my time and effort "

I decided on the program after the wife had confessed to me that she had a few affairs 0ver the last few years, and that she didn'T WANT TO BE MARRIED anymore.  The news hit me like a ton of bricks because I still love her, and realized I did not want to lose her.. It was a wake-up call for me, as I realized that I had been neglecting her for years and I made my mind up to do anything possible to win her love back. Im started on marriage fitness about 7 weeks ago, and commited myself to become the best possible husband... I am beginning to make some progress on reconnecting with my spouse, and restoring our marriage, and I am feeeling confident that we will again feel profouund love that has been missing for several years. I still have a long ways to go, and I know that I must be persistant in applying all of the principals I have learned in Marriage Fitness. In the end it will be very much worth my time and effort.  JPS.

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"... our kids that have their family back together"

Dear Mort, I rarely believe the things I read on the internet, so when I found you in a google search for marriage advice, I was skeptical.  Then, I figured… what have I got to lose?  So, I signed up...  My husband wanted nothing to do with it, so I took your advice and just stayed on the path on my own, working on mending what I had all but given up on.  I had moved out of the house and was starting to move on with my life, but something kept pulling me back to my ex and our 15 year marriage.  We reconciled almost a year ago, after we had both gone outside our marriage and we have never been stronger.  Thank you so much for your help.  You took things that should have been obvious to us, but had been forgotten along the way and made us refocus on those things that we needed to do.  It started with him saying, “No, it is over.  There is nothing we can do. I do love you, but I cannot do this anymore”...  It was tough because, at first, he didn’t respond.  Because you told me to expect that, it was easier to deal with, easier for me to keep going.  I don’t know if it would have worked without that guidance you provided.  I am certainly glad I gave it a shot and that you gave me the courage to keep working at it and believing I could turn it around.  So are our kids that have their family back together.  Thanks again and again!

Thanks so much!
Heather

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" [Marriage Fitness] empowered me when I was weak"

I started the program in November or December 2011, after I found out about my husband's infidelity (which had been going on since 2009, first with different women, and since 2010 with a "steady" mistress, who divorced her own husband to be with mine). I've worked on saving my marriage all this time using the Marriage Fitness program…

I appreciate the program because it empowered me when I was weak, and it encouraged me when I was down. The insights I've gained from the program have helped me get through the pain.

You may use any portion of this email that you find suitable for advertising purposes, but please don't use my last name.

Thank you.

Victoria

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"Mort is awesome!!"

Mort is awesome!! Everything I read touches, inspires, encourages and has strengthened my marriage. Thank him for me, please!
 
 Lots going on in my life, moving, changes, mostly for the good. Just need to concentrate on things at hand for now. Always, working on my marriage which is my most important asset on earth!  Again, thank you!

JE

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"The Marriage Fitness
Program is our blueprint to stay on
track through our lifetime together."

We are so grateful to Mort for helping
save our marriage. The Marriage Fitness
Program is our blueprint to stay on
track through our lifetime together.
We plan to continue counseling; all is
going extremely well. We are continuing
to review Mort's book & workbook and we
feel that Plugged-in is basically a
repetition of this material (no
offense).
Happy Holidays and Blessings to Mort,
his family, and staff. You can be
certain that we will be recommending you
to anyone in need.
Gratefully,
EMM

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"...a program of profound substance that will transform yourr outlook forever"

The marriagemax program should come with a warning "This is not a gimicky infommercial made in china product, but a program of profound substance that will transform yourr outlook forever"
I am currently in the lone ranger track and this program has given me the tools and most importantly the wisdom to see that I can transform myself and save my marriage.  The program will shake you to the core.  It will put you in charge of your own destiny and with some hard work and patience hopefully lay the foundation for a future life that rests on firm ground.  I'm  not out of the woods yet but I can now see and Ican now hope and I now know that i'm going to get there.
Thanks Mort.  
J.W.

 

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"He moved back in"

Mort, 
It's been two years since I joined the Tele- Boot Camp as a lone ranger and then continued with plugged in. I then retreated and sort of gave up on my marriage when we became legally separated and he moved in with the other women! But just as you had predicted, things don't grow in dirty soil and the rational "lies" crept up to haunt them both. He moved back in but did not reconcile with me. Here is hope now for all you lone rangers out there. Two years and guess what he is listening to your tapes and paid for me to become plugged in. He keeps repeating everything you have said on the tapes so its absorbing. Of course same issues and yes he has not taken action on what he is learning but this is a miracle nevertheless. Thank you and I hope I have encouraged someone out there in the same position as I!

M.S.

 

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"Mort's program completely helped"

I think the program is great, I have just gotten my marriage to a point now where I feel I utilize the principles and use the workbooks/books instead of the plugged-in.   So I am in a good place/back on track--  Mort's program completely helped get me there.
thanks!

JB

 

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"It truly has changed my life! "

Dear Mort,

 

I write you this letter the day before our 25th wedding anniversary.  Three months ago I would have thought we would surely have been in the process of a divorce on this day.  On December 29 after receiving your emails for over two months, I finally decided that I would enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger Track.  It truly has changed my life!   I have found that my husband responds even though he is reluctant to the thought of renewing our marriage.  I have completed the boot camp and look forward to the continuing support through the Plugged-In program.  Showing patience that I didn't know I had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate many anniversaries to come. Thank you!

 

Sincerely,

 

Amy

Littleton, CO

 

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"We still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital environment ...and have a bright outlook for a happy future."

Are you thinking about registering for the boot camp? Here's my story.

We had been married for 17 years and our marriage was falling apart. We couldn't get through a conversation without criticism or attack. I heard Mort Fertel on the radio speaking about the principles of Marriage Fitness. After almost a year of traditional marriage counseling and making no improvement in our marriage, we decided to buy his book and try his program. What a difference in just a few short weeks. Then we heard about the Boot Camp. My husband and I signed up and very much looked forward to each session. Through Mort's guidance, we were able to make considerable progress. The weekly workbooks were especially helpful in helping give us ideas to reconnect and infuse positive energy into our marriage. For me, the bootcamp also taught me how my actions and behaviors were sabotaging our relationship. I had always thought that if only my husband changed, our marriage would improve. I now see that no progress could be made until I recognized and made an effort to change my behavior toward my spouse. Mort was always available to answer questions and held us accountable to our own behaviors. Six months ago, I was counting the days until the kids were grown to leave my marriage, I no longer do that. Even though every day is not perfect, I can now see a hopeful future with my husband. We still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook for a happy future.

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"She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose me!"

Hi Mort,

I just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn around and is starting to not only work on our marriage but really make some amazing changes. 

Thank you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you helping me through this and teaching me how to be the husband that me wife deserves then I may have never been able to bring her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose me!   

Keep up the good work and keep saving marriages.

Thanks again.

AP

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"Not only did it change our marriage,

it changed our entire way of life"

Dear Mort,

Today makes one month that my wife has been home after three months of separation. Thank you so much for your coaching and the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.  Not only did it change our marriage,it changed our entire way of life.  After two affairs and emotional neglect, I thought I had lost my wife forever, but thanks be unto God, we "found" Mort Fertel. Just as when one becomes a new creature in Christ, old things pass away and all things become new; such was the case when we completed the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.  Our old habits, fears, insecurities, and the manner in which we treated each ther passed away;  All things became NEW !  We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and our marriage our highest priority.  We strongly urge anyone needing help in any way with their marriage to enroll in the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.

It will change your life forever. It did ours!

Forever grateful, Mort!

R.M. & D.M.

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"...the BOOT CAMP was worth both

our time and money"

We thought the BOOT CAMP was worth both our time and money we invested and we recommend it to our friends.

Alan

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"Every marriage needs to go through your boot camp."

Mort,

Your marriage fitness boot camp not only brought my wife
and I back together (as she had left me with one of my sons for four months),
but has given us practical day to day relationship skills that
I have not been able to find elsewhere. After 19 years of marriage
we are now connecting like never before. With those tools and the
on-going support you provide we have been able to turn the corner and stay together.
You helped change our marriage from a statistic
back to a marriage and family again and we are very thankful
for what you do. Every marriage needs to go through your boot camp.

Thank you,

Tim and Kim H., Arizona

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"Everybody that is in a relationship should do the program"

Dear Mort I am pleased to send you a testimonial. 
Not long after we got married (2 years after courtship) things started to deteriorate.
I have now been married for 20 years and up to now, never felt i had a good marriage. 
I had good periods but too many bad ones. 
Anyways, when I registered in the telebooth camp, it had been the worst year of my marriage.
I (the one that was always afraid to be left) was preparing myself for seperation. 
Thats not what I wanted but I was so hurt and fed up of my relationship that even if it scared me like hell,
I'd rather live alone that be that unhappy in my marriage.  I had even spoken to my kids about an eventual separation. 
Not quite 3 months ago, I thaught i could never love my husband again, I had never
felt that "emptyness of love" for so long towards him before.  I resented him, could
not even look at him without feeling terrible....  Your programm was my last attemp to save my marriage. 
I stared it the 27 of June .  I remember feeling verry frustrated many times … 
Often I would have remarks like" Oh I guess that comes from you stuped book...
-refering to my programm-  I would cry alot because I was trying so hard I was
doing all the work and it felt so unfair that again I was the one working for this relationship.. 
Anyways now even if there are still big issues to settle (which I can't wait to
see 6 months from now how WE will work them out) I am amazed to see that in 2 months 

I learned to love him again and I enjoy beeing with him.  I know I have to keep working and beeing supported,
but I have hope.  Last week it was the first time my husband refered to the programm without putting it down. 
I'M still not where I want to be with him but there is a very big improvement
P.S.  MANY THANK Mort and I am sticking with the programm because I know the support is important not to fall back in our old habbits.
 
Christel
PS Everybody that is in a relationship should do the program and yes the loneranger track works. 
I am still in it only by myself.

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I am just so exited and so glad that I took the time to cool off and get back in your program

I dont know  if you are going to receive this email or not, Im sure you receive hundrends of  emails a day from people just like me.
My name is Clair Grisson.  I actually did your lone ranger program in January after my husband told me he no longer was in love with me after 15 years and 3 kids later, it broke me down really bad.  I joined your program... didnt take it serious.. didnt listen to your
advise because I had so much anger and hatred for him for doing this to us and walking out.... plus our situation is not like a regular couple.  My husband is in the Navy... 19 yrs in and 1 year away from retirement.  So the last two years we knew it would be challenging because he would have to do it away in Va while I stayed in NJ with the kids... the house... etc... so we figured it would be too much to move everyone around for two years to only come back to NJ.  So after 6 months away in VA I guess he figured we grew apart and wanted to end the marriage.  All of our conversations were me yelling, cursing him out.. screaming ... at the top of my lungs not realizing I was pushing him further and further away from me.  So after a few months that gone by... and after several hours of
praying... I went back and did the lone ranger track.. listenend to the cds that I stuffed underneath my mattress and started applying your tactics.  Well this is amazing because after a  month .. and just a few minutes ago he said to me over the phone..
that maybe we can start to work on fixing our marriage.  I was floored! I didnt know what else to say but I love you and I will talk to you tomorrow. You are amazing. Though I know this is just the beginning and this is a long process we have to go thru to get back to the way
we were before... I couldnt believe it.. so I reapplied to start receiving you emails again and when is is ready I dont want to pressure him I am going to enroll in your Duo program and see if we can do the counseling together this time.  Im sorry I know Im typing fast and making alot of errors but I am just so exited and so glad that I took the time to cool off and get back in your program.  I am thankful for the day in January 2012 that I found you on the website and just wanted to say...
Thankyou. CH

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"We are so grateful to your program"

Hi Mort,
 
This note is long overdue. We completed the program last
year and watned to thank you with the note below. You can post to your website if you want!
 
Hi Mort,

My husband and I completed the Marriage Max
program and it changed our lives. 
We wanted to write to thank you for giving us the right tools to have a strong marriage.
Before your program, we were in therapy and not getting anywhere.
We are so grateful to your program. We felt very connected to the program and now most of all, to each other.

Thank you so much,
Tom and Keri Ann

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"Thanks"

Dear Mort,

Thanks for your help.

 

Patty

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"What did I get out of the program?

 

Real hope to my family"

I highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp.

I joined the program as the lone ranger about 8 weeks ago. My husband was very firm about moving out and filing for divorce without giving me much of specific reasons. In my sorrow and desperation, I contacted Mort and joined the boot camp.

What did I get out of the program?

Real hope to my family: My husband changed his moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with Mort.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your extraordinary impact on my life and my family's life.

H.E.

California

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" I have never loved my husband more"

Hi Mort,

 

I'm happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was over.  I have been married four times and really wanted this to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone out.  We decided that we were done and divorce was the only answer.  Then my husband came across your program and signed up without telling me.  He then started talking about the program and got one of your CD's that I listened to half-heartedly.  When the program began I listened to your first seminar and was so blown away by what I was hearing.  I couldn't believe all the things that I could relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each session.  Only to leave angrier and angrier.  But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never loved my husband more and know that we are going to work through these things and stay on the track that we were always meant to be on.  I know that we will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh because we are worth it.  Your inspiration with the material provided has been a serious God send to both of us.  I thank you profusely for having the desire to help those that can' t s eem to help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together.  I can' t say thank you enough! 

Jennifer

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  "Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.  I am astounded by its clarity."

I have got to say that I must be ready for the principles that your program is built upon, because your program "appeared" to me over the internet when I was looking for some marital relationship guidance.  Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.  I am astounded by its clarity.

I think between the CD's from the 7 weeks worth of teleconferences and Q&A sessions, we can find our way to a "Put Love first" marriage, with time and consistent effort on our parts.  I know I am willing to "do" what it takes to create this environment in our relationship.

Thank you for your principles and teaching.

DL

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"...things are improving on a slow but steady pace"

Hi Mort,

 

I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for all your help.  I don't know if I would have made it this far without your words and inspiration.  It seems that every time I am down or off track i can open an e-mail or listen to a teleconference session and I feel renewed to continue the journey back into a my marriage.  This has been the toughest year of my life and with all the ups and downs it would have been easy to find a reason to throw in the towel.  Following your suggestions and working my way through the CD's and workbook have given me a clear path to follow.  I have found many things within me that needed iimproving and in fixing myself I have watched my marriage go from separation and talk of divorce to daily talk and touch charges from my spouse and weekly dates that are his idea as much as mine.  The best thing is that my husband was one of those obstinate ones who didn't think love should be so much work, so I have done all this following the Lone Ranger Track.  I won't say things are perfect, but things are improving on a slow but steady pace. One person really can make a difference in a marriage!

Thanks Mort your help has been invaluable!!

 

Sincerely

Heidi

 

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"Mort has valuable insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage. "

Mort,

 

Your Marriage Fitness program gave me a new perspective for my failing marriage. I registered as a last ditch effort to save my marriage.  My husband wanted a divorce.  I was out of hope, out of ideas, and searching for a way change my situation.  I registered for the lone ranger track, which in the beginning even brought heartache.  There I was wanting to save my marriage and my husband could care less. I wondered how a marriage could be saved when only one partner was unwilling to participate.  The 7 week fitness program changed not only that thought, but my perspective on how I could better my marriage and myself.  I have become a better wife and I can even say that my marriage is no longer failing.  There is laughter, love, jokes, and time spent together again.  My thoughts and my actions have changed my marriage's momentum, and I would encourage any couple to participate in the program.  Mort has valuable insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage.

LDW

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"Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. "

Hi Mort

Here is what my wife, Delores, wrote in a notebook after our last teleconference with you. I thought you'd like to read it:

As I listened to the final teleconference I cried uncontrollably. I had the same feeling at age nine when I left the courthouse when my father and mother divorced. As I clasped my mothers hand I knew I would not be able to stay connected to my father in the way I wanted to; which proved to be true. I never saw him again for 20 years. I spent 53 years of my life trying to connect to someone. For the first time someone had told me how I could connect. Mort had given me the tools to stay connected. If I would have let my spouse know how bad I needed to connect with him instead of shaming, belittling, and attacking his character, I am sure he would have turned around and connected with me years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. Delores

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" 'Mort was reading my mind' "

Dear Mort,

It was amazing how, from the very beginning of reading your website, ordering and receiving Marriage Fitness materials, participating in the boot camp program, hearing all that you had to say, participating in the Q & A's, reading everything that we read, and doing the exercises in the work book, pertained to exactly what we have gone through and are currently going through.  Brian described it like "Mort was reading my mind"! 

We tried a few sessions of marriage counseling about 4 years ago and it was as you described.  We came out angrier than we went in and at that time the decision was made that counseling wasn't for us.  We have struggled tremendously for these last 4 years, trying to do the best that we knew how to do with some improvement, until we came to the "final straw" in July of 2007.  This, as far as Lisa was concerned, was the breaking point and she was thinking divorce was the only answer.

In July of 2007, we reached out to the Internet and found your program.  What a God send!  Through Marriage Fitness, you helped us remember that we do have a deep passionate love for each other.  We just needed to figure out how to find that lost love and make it evident to each other again.  We lost our "connection" and we needed to learn to re-connect once again.  In our 23 years of marriage, we had 13 moves in a 17 year span, job changes, raising children, both of us traveling with our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc.  We were unable to show our love for each other in an effective manor any longer.  Over time, this pushed us further and further apart. 

We thank you so much for your program as it has shown us how to get back to where we were before "Life" got in the way. 

Mort, we can't thank you enough for the hard work and effort which you have put into your program.  You have taught us how to reconnect and rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for that.  We look forward to a long and healthy relationship in our marriage and a long relationship with Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness program. 

Sincerely,

Brian & Lisa

 

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"I learned that simple changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens the heart of the even the world's toughest critic"

Mort Fertel gives very effective and thought provoking presentations that pertain to any couple facing marital challenges.  Even as a Lone Ranger, Mort's program provides tools that make it easy to achieve positive relationship results immediately.  I learned that simple changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens the heart of the even the world's toughest critic.  I highly recommended the "Marriage Fitness Program” it encouraged me to focus on the positive aspects of my relationship and carved years of “couple therapy” spent rehashing old issues out of my life … a novel concept that really works! 

 

Regards,

Linda

 

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"I'm more successful in all areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program"

To all who are considering the Marriage Fitness program, do it.  There is nothing more important in life than to have a successful marriage but there's been no guide to proactively do it.  No "before-you-buy-into-it" program that can help you in advance.  And until Mort Fortel, no comprehensive "after-market" program either.  To be honest, his program should be modified and then purchased for all pre-nuptial preparation classes.  A raw, honest owners manual for future couples.  You're porbably reading this because your marriage is in trouble.  Mort's program taught me that I could change, and gave me concrete ways to do it.  I knew that no matter what became of my marriage,  I would become a better me,  not a different person , a better me.

 

I was able to implement change immediately.  I was ACOA, ADD and a terribly innattentive husband.  I was able to discover things about myself, through serious self-reflection that enbaled me to discover that ACOA can be overcome and the ADD was a misdiagnosis.  I was depressed (spouse depressed causes failed marriage) and feeling lost for years, not knowing how to turn my marriage around.  I learned, from Mort's non-judgemental truth,  not that I needed to change,  I already knew that,  I learned that I COULD IN FACT CHANGE, and he offered easy and concrete ways to do so.

 

I'm self-confident in ways I never was before.  I know a better me today, I'm more successful in all areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program.  For me, it's been more of a "Person Fitness Program".  IF your spouse doesn't want you at the end of the program,  somebody will, because you will have learned all of the skills that make you someone anyone would love to spend more time around.

Thanks Mort.

 

Sincerely,

 

Michael C

 

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"He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce"

Dear Mr. Fertel,

 

…My husband of 12years had renewed a "friendship" with a college friend(a girl) back in December. This quickly went from a facebook contact, to continuous calls and text, emails, to a  planned visit back to his hometown to visit her and his highschool buddies. He asked for a divorce on March 3rd stating that he just didnt want to be married anymore, and that he probably did want to date other people. I knew exactly who he wanted to date(he had a crush on this girl back in college and now she wanted to be more than friends since her recent divorce). I was devastated and at first became clingy, and smothering. Then I started your advice…Well, he went on his trip on the 6th of April. He arrived there about 530pm and immediately went to her house, took her to dinner and visited with her(he called me for about 1 minute to tell me he had arrived safely). The next day he hung out with friends until about 11pm(he called me at 1030pm to tell me how his night had been and sounded so excited and happy). He talked for about 3 minutes that time…At 0300am I recieved a call from him. He wanted to tell me that he had gone to his friends house after hanging with his friends. He said that it felt so wrong being there with her and that he just had to leave. He wanted me to know that he loved me, wished he was home with me and he missed me. He stopped being in contact with her the next morning, called me and texted constantly over the next 6 days. He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce,didnt want an open marriage, didnt want to be with anyone but me, and wanted me to have a new wedding ring. I wanted to let you know that your advice worked and I want to thank you for giving me the strength to save my marriage. I thought you would like to know you saved another marriage. Thanks again.

 

Anonymous wife 

 

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"Thanks you for everything. Now there is hope. "

Mort:

 

I am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has an emotional affair with another woman. When I was told by my husband about his affair, I was so shocked. I found Marriage Fitness from internet and signed in January. After attending the live seminars and Q-A conferences, all of sudden, I found out there are lots of small things that I never pay attention to that have done big damage on my marriage. I tried the ways you taught in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts and when I almost gave up, my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me what went wrong in our marriage and what lead him to seek comfort from outside of marriage. 

Thanks you for everything. Now there is hope.

Jane

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"Both of us speak highly of your program to others"

Mort,

Our marriage was "good" for everyone to look at, we did things together, helped others, volunteered, etc ; but, it was completely falling apart - He drank entirely too much, developed health problems, worked out of town every week and did hurtful & unmoral things.  I hurt and tried to not care, but it didnt work and  by that time I was having to travel for work and wishing i could put all of me into everything  else.  Needless to say, I knew i loved him, (he knew he loved me too, but, ashamed & not knowing how to fix things)  We decided to try one more time, we agreed to go to a counselor for 3 times to decide,  before we even went to first appt, i had found your site & signed up for emails.  We had to cancel counseling twice, and so the actual 2nd time we went, I was determined she wasnt "good".  Then I showed him your emails, told him your idea of NOT talking about our problems…then he agreed to do "marriage fitness"  Now, we aren't exactly all "caught up"  we have very hectic life styles that needed calmed down, however, we did listen to the weekly seminars (wasnt doing workbook as needed - which would have helped much more i think) and things began to change, we were getting along and enjoying each other again.  He got a different job, working on his drinking, and we are kind of "restarting the program"  in the correct order now.  Both of us speak highly of your program to others and thank God for you and what you do to help others.  You just know how to make everyone understand what we need to understand.  I am so glad the counselor put off "bad vibes" and we decided to do your program cause even though we arent through the whole program yet, our relationship is improving daily.

Thank you,

Jason & Edy

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"We are planning our future together"

From Marsha;
My husband & I after 36 yrs of marriage have been seperated for 1-1/2 yrs. I had no feelings for him & did not want to get back together., but I promised I would give him a chance, so when he asked me to do your program I didnt think it would make a difference. Boy was I wrong! You said so many things that hit home for me,and as I saw changes in him I felt changes in me. Now we work every day to put love first. We are planning our future together which for me, is amazing.

From Russell:
Hi Mort
As Marsha stated we have been married for quite a while. High school sweet hearts in fact. I am a very outgoing problem solving person and over time started to be very controlling of  Marsha. I never meant to be that way. I always figured out the best solution to the problem and kept talking till she just gave up and did it my way. I always just thought my idea was finally making good sense to her.Marsha was always very quiet and did not want to cause any waves.( We are going to have buisiness meetings to keep our minds open)  When she told me she was leaving me, it was like I was an old dog on the porch naping and someone kicked the poop out of me. I searched the net trying to find help, and found you. I am so happy that I did and am working every day to put Marsha first in my mind and life. I feel kinda like a teenager again. At first I thought $400.00 was a lot to pay, but in fact it is a very very small price to pay for the road that you have put us on.
 Thanks so much for your help,and I look foward to the plugged in program soon.
We have already told people about your program and feel that even people who think they have a good marriage would benefit from the program.
Russ  


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"We are planning our future together"

From Marsha;
My husband & I after 36 yrs of marriage have been seperated for 1-1/2 yrs. I had no feelings for him & did not want to get back together., but I promised I would give him a chance, so when he asked me to do your program I didnt think it would make a difference. Boy was I wrong! You said so many things that hit home for me,and as I saw changes in him I felt changes in me. Now we work every day to put love first. We are planning our future together which for me, is amazing.

From Russell:
Hi Mort
As Marsha stated we have been married for quite a while. High school sweet hearts in fact. I am a very outgoing problem solving person and over time started to be very controlling of  Marsha. I never meant to be that way. I always figured out the best solution to the problem and kept talking till she just gave up and did it my way. I always just thought my idea was finally making good sense to her.Marsha was always very quiet and did not want to cause any waves.( We are going to have buisiness meetings to keep our minds open)  When she told me she was leaving me, it was like I was an old dog on the porch naping and someone kicked the poop out of me. I searched the net trying to find help, and found you. I am so happy that I did and am working every day to put Marsha first in my mind and life. I feel kinda like a teenager again. At first I thought $400.00 was a lot to pay, but in fact it is a very very small price to pay for the road that you have put us on.
 Thanks so much for your help,and I look foward to the plugged in program soon.
We have already told people about your program and feel that even people who think they have a good marriage would benefit from the program.
Russ  


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"We are planning our future together"

From Marsha;
My husband & I after 36 yrs of marriage have been seperated for 1-1/2 yrs. I had no feelings for him & did not want to get back together., but I promised I would give him a chance, so when he asked me to do your program I didnt think it would make a difference. Boy was I wrong! You said so many things that hit home for me,and as I saw changes in him I felt changes in me. Now we work every day to put love first. We are planning our future together which for me, is amazing.

From Russell:
Hi Mort
As Marsha stated we have been married for quite a while. High school sweet hearts in fact. I am a very outgoing problem solving person and over time started to be very controlling of  Marsha. I never meant to be that way. I always figured out the best solution to the problem and kept talking till she just gave up and did it my way. I always just thought my idea was finally making good sense to her.Marsha was always very quiet and did not want to cause any waves.( We are going to have buisiness meetings to keep our minds open)  When she told me she was leaving me, it was like I was an old dog on the porch naping and someone kicked the poop out of me. I searched the net trying to find help, and found you. I am so happy that I did and am working every day to put Marsha first in my mind and life. I feel kinda like a teenager again. At first I thought $400.00 was a lot to pay, but in fact it is a very very small price to pay for the road that you have put us on.
 Thanks so much for your help,and I look foward to the plugged in program soon.
We have already told people about your program and feel that even people who think they have a good marriage would benefit from the program.
Russ  


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"we are living happily together"

Mort,

Thank you so much! 

My wife and I had been to at least 10 different marriage counselors individual therapists since 2008 and our relationship continually deteriorated, ultimately culminating in our separation.  We always found ourselves asking "How can we solve this with one hour of talking per week?" and "Why doesn't anyone have any practical advice for us?"  Neither one of us thought we could get over the hurt caused over 15 years that could best be summarized as "Marriage: you're doing it wrong!" 

We complete the course with our last teleconference tonight and are happy to report that we are living happily together with our four children, who I'm sure would thank you too if they knew the good you have done.  One day, before they marry, we'll make sure they take your course first!

Thanks again.

- T.E.

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"There are no words of Thanks that could be enough"

Mr. fertel, i have been following your cds and listening to everything you have told me and I wanted you to know that as I type this I am in south dakota, where I have spent a wonderful weekend with my husband. we found that we love each other dearly and are going to work things out. We know it is gooing to take work on both of our parts, but we agreed to leave the past behind us and just move forward. I will keep following your teachings and let you know how it goes. THANK YOU. There are no words of Thanks that could be enough. Robbie B.

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"...he moved back home this weekend!!"

I can't tell you how grateful I am to this program.  My husband moved out in February and after listening to the seminars and applying the lessons, he moved back home this weekend!!  Mort has truly transformed our lives.  I have recommended his program to several others who are having marital problems.  I hope they find the same strength that we did.

-R.I

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"It no longer feels like WORK. It feels like LOVE!!"

Mort,
Let me tell you our story.
My husband and I had been together for 16 years.  Most of those years were mediocre to poor.  We didn't really fight, but we also didn't really love. 
We had been going to the same counselor on and off for several years.  We began seeing her again last August when we decided that we would give it one last try before throwing in the towel.  We actually discussed that we should move on while we were both still young enough to have other 'options'. 
Not much changed over the next few months until one day I got home early and witnessed my husband NOT answer his cell phone when there was an unusual ring tone.  Without too much detail, after asking many times and becoming quite the snoop, I did find out 3 months later that he was having an emotional affair since June with an old girlfriend.
We continued going to counseling, but separately.  Most of the time I actually felt worse after leaving her office.  She encouraged us to separate and he moved out in February.
Our therapist continued to encourage us to have little to no contact, but the longest we could go without any communication was 3 days and it was a very LONG 3 days.
In early September I came across your website when looking for marriage help online. I began forwarding them to my husband and something clicked for us. It turns out that we had both been copying your emails into one file so that we could read them all together over and over.
We began to spend more time together and implemented some of your exercises. We soon canceled our future appointments with our therapist and decided to try your program.
The result - he moved back home this past weekend after living away from home for 9 1/2 months.  We're only one week into committing to share our lives together but we can really see a transformation in our relationship. For the first time in a long time we are truly SHARING our lives.
I asked him recently ,"what if things start getting crappy again?" He replied, "That means that we need to try harder." That was the best thing I've heard in a long time.
Mort, my husband and I are now truly CONNECTING our lives. Probably more than ever before. I thank God that I came across your website and you for touching our hearts in a way that made sense to us. I beleive we would not be where we are today if not for you.
I have passed the link to your site onto several people that are having marital problems. They all seem to be inspired by our success and were happy to have some hope for a new approach to their old problems.
Our next steps will be to continue working through the workbook and signing up for the Plugged In program. We know that we still have some work to do, but we're doing it with open hearts and open minds. It no longer feels like WORK. It feels like LOVE!!
 
R.I.

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"I would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before."

Dear Mort,

Now that my tele-boot camp is over I would like to tell you how helpful it was.

I was in the lone ranger track. My husband said he didn't love me or feel an emotional connection with me. He also said divorce would be our only option.

I sought therapy, read your book, and joined the tele-boot camp. You gave me advice that I sometimes didn't want to follow, but I did it anyway because I made a commitment to follow the program. I went from being a hysterical, scared woman, whose husband was having a year long affair to a confident wife whose husband has asked for a new beginning.

I would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before. I am so grateful. Thank you and keep working with people like us!

D.B.D

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"Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are now on track to renewing our relationship with the help of Marriage fitness."

Mort,
I can't express the impact Marriage fitness has had on our Marriage. Getting back to the Basics of a relationship has been overwhelmingly rewarding. Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are now on track to a renew marriage with the help of Marriage fitness. The trust is starting to come back,This program has given me hope that we can survive this and the struggles of what that type of stress and issues that it bring s… With the help of your program it has brought us back together,I thought it was over because of his affair .. . That he was not sure he wanted to give up he has chosen to stay with me and work out our issues. He has chosen to stay with me and rekindle what we once had. It has not been an easy task to start trusting and forgiving him for the infidelity,But he has great qualities as a person that I LOVE VERY MUCH and I know in our hearts we are now on the right track to becoming soul mates once again. I started out jus t receiving free e-mails and then 3 weeks into that we signed up for the boot camp and it was the one thing that has really helped in so many ways. I have already recommended this program to a few couples and feel very strongly that your program has helped me save what is very dear to me My Marriage and my soul mate and can not tell you how greatly this has impacted our lives. My gratitude is overwhelming and we can't thank you enough for giving us the tools to save our marriage
Ricki

 

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"We seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship"

When we signed up for the Bootcamp, our relationship was not going well.  I lacked trust in my partner and optimism about the future.  He, uncharacteristically, agreed to do this program with me with the hope of turning things around.   I honestly can' t say how much our improvement is due to the content of the Bootcamp, how much is due to us simply going through the process together, to the exercises or simply the change from focusing on our problems to focusing on strengths and improving those.  It is clear to me that men and women will always think differently from each other, but in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship.  It isn't perfect, but it is so much better.   It is kind of amazing to me how great it feels to do positive things for each other, and how that morphs into greater richness in the relationship.  Its like DUH, but it really does work so simply.  I'm very glad we did it.  Thanks, Mort!

TW

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"It breathed life into our relationship.

It saved our marriage! "

Dear Mort,

It is hard to find the words to describe the impact that you and the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp had on our marriage. Our marriage was on its last breath. We hadn't talked, wanted to touch or felt close in years. But the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp turned our marriage around. It breathed life into our relationship. It saved our marriage!

You helped me see that there was hope when things seemed hopeless. I can honestly say I do not know where Don and I would be today without your help.

Practicing “marriage fitness” is a way of life for us now. We are very optimistic about our future together. Thanks so much for giving us the tools we need to make our marriage and lives happier than we could ever imagine.

Sincerely,

Laurie S.

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"We are making progress."

Dear Mort,

We're only in the 3rd week of your Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp and I already have exciting news to share with you. See the email below that my husband sent me. He hasn't sent anything nice like this in a very long time.  Thank you Mort.

----- Original Message -----

From: B.H.

To: Doris

Sent: July 26, 2005 3:36 PM

Subject: Thank you

I do want you to know that I have noticed the little and bigger things you've been doing to help our relationship.  I do know you're sincere in your feelings and what you want from me.

I feel a lot better about things and hope my attitude has shown as much.  I know I do love you and I want things to work as well.

We are making progress.

Brian

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"He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN!"

I just want to start off by thanking Mort for all of his help! Thank you is not even enough, how do you thank someone for changing your life?! I don't know what I would have done if I didn't find his web site. He is amazing and has a talent for working with you and being caring about what he does. His tips and advice are not that hard to follow, it actually has made me a happier and a more positive person. Knowing he has been where we all are makes it easy to trust in him and his program.

A little background about my situation: We have both been married before, each of our spouses cheated on us and made it hard for us to trust others in relationships. Even though we have gone through that and so much more, we still have so much trust and love for each other. We both have children, mostly grown. (He also had a child with his ex-wife that died a month after he was born). He has three children, I have one. About a year after we met we started to have some problems and couldn't get over them, or didn't know how to 'fix' them… always had a hard time understanding each other or learning to fight in the 'right way', our biggest problem being the silent treatment.

I just finished the boot camp and was on the lone ranger track. There are a couple of CD's that actually brought me to tears because they fit my situation SO wel l… He started dating awhile ago and told me later on after one of our trips together, that he was 'seeing someone'. I cried for three days Over the years we started to take each other for granted. I had an epiphany before I ordered Mort's program, my life passed before my eyes and I realized that he was the most important person in my life. I prayed for help (This I don't do often at all), but the next day I found Mort Fertel online. After being in his program and implementing the steps I needed to, he is now not seeing this other person! ... He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN! I loved hearing this, we are going out more often now and talking more, I think things are on the right track to being together again, maybe more. I just hope that down the road I can go through the workbook and CD's again...this time with our new found relationship. I've also learned to be more positive and act on those feelings.

Thank you Adina and Rebecca for being patient and answering all of my emails. I appreciate your help!

Thank you Mort for renewing the relationship that I knew, but didn't realize that I wanted!

Jody

 

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"I recommend your program to all of my clients... because it works!!!"

Thank you so much for doing what you do! It is divinely inspired!

Last year my husband and I weren't speaking. We had resigned ourselves to co-habitating. When I read your first few emails I was in the state of mind that I wasn't going to be the one to make the first move because I was tired of always being the one to initiate the "fence mending"! I purchased the CDs, listened intently to every word and the lights went on!! I believed everything you were saying and have always believed it but somewhere along the line, things had gone off the rails. Then I asked him if he'd like to go to Starbucks. I think he was expecting to have a big "problem" conversation but instead I followed your guidelines. …The next morning, it was a Sunday, the flood gates opened. We had a beautiful conversation and we connected and cried together. We are more connected than ever. We still have to focus on each other and we do get distracted - 2 businesses, 4 kids and so on but we are prioritizing each other, we recognize when things have slipped a little and get back on track.

I am so thankful for your program because I don't know where we'd be without it.

I recommend your program to all of my clients experiencing distance or debacle in their relationships because it works!!

Do you offer training for people looking to practice your approach? I am a Life Coach and I would LOVE to be able to offer your programs and strategies to my clients in a comprehensive way.

Thanks so much!

Putting love first,

Sherri P.

 

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"We will celebrate 34 years this May, thanks to you and this great program!"

Dear Mort,

I really do not know where to begin.  We have never spoke or had any one on one counseling with you. When our marriage was falling apart this past holiday season, I was looking for someone or something to help answer all those awful questions that were filling my head.  I found your website while scanning the internet for answers. I found hope in those first words I read and really thought that I could get my husband to sit down with a book and a teleconference instead of regular counseling. I was also ready to try the Lone Ranger program. He agreed to give us 7 weeks to turn things around.  I ordered your program and I think I read the whole book that first night.  We began meeting to work on the material  in the program two times a week.  He had moved out and works out of town most weeks.  By  week 4 we were back in the same house and by week 7 we were on the road to recovery.  Everything is not fixed but everything is much better and we both are working on things everyday.  We will celebrate 34 years this May, thanks to you and this great program.  While I was scared we could not put things back together in 7 weeks, I really needed to focus on each day we did have together.  As we went through the program we both learned a lot about ourselves and even though we had been married for a very long time we really did not know much about each other now.  Our busy lives, jobs, responsibilities, our grown children and grand children took away from us. Well, we are back on track!!!    Oh, it is work everyday not to let the old stuff creep back in but the new stuff is so much better.  Thanks again for having such a great program.  Thank you for the everyday common sense approach to making a relationship work.  Thank you for making it affordable.  We will use what we learned for the rest of our lives.  When we celebrate our 50th, I'll drop you another line of thanks!

Sincerely, Kim and Mark

 

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"It's been a whirlwind of a year starting horribly and ending on a definite up-swing"

Mort,

I really can't thank you enough for the wisdom, support and guidance your program provided us.

It's been a whirlwind of a year starting horribly and ending on a definite up-swing.  We continue to practice the principles you set forth in M arriage Fitness and taught us in the boot camp and I believe implementing those practices truly saved our marriage. 

Keep up the excellent work!

Christine P.

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"I would recommend his product to anyone in

crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage."

From: John T. Lowe II

Sent: Monday, February 05, 2007 12:06 PM

To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com

Mort,

I would say with all honesty that your product is great. It's easy to use, very down to earth, and a great tool that you can use anytime even if times aren't bad. My wife and I went through Counseling and it was thousands of dollars. Marriage is the most important agreement you will ever have in your life, and Mort's program shows you how to treat it that way even if you don't feel like it sometimes. I would recommend his product to anyone in crisis or just wanting to enhance their Marriage.

John Lowe, Haslet, TX

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" Thank you for being a shining example of

excellence and integrity."

Dear Mort,

I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wisdom and straightforwardness. Your answer lifted a huge weight off of my heart.  I asked you about my husband watching pornography and feeling uncomfortable that he still watches it especially after he'd tried several times in the past to get me interested in engaging in sex with other people, etc.  I just want to relate to you that previous counselors we've had would say things like its ok to fantasize about other people, it's harmless.  I never felt this was ok, but felt outnumbered when a respected female counselor sided with my husband and told me that it was healthy to fantasize about other people... I started feeling that maybe I wasn't being open-minded enough.  I was so pleased to hear you say that its no t s omething that I need to accept and that this is one area that you don't relate to the average person in - that pornography doesn't have a place in any marriage.  Thank you so much.  I know that I have the right to feel and believe what I want regardless of what other people may think and believe, but it really is nice to know there is someone out there whose opinion I respect that also feels this way.  It gives me strength and it just validates for me even more that I've found the right resource in you and the Marriage Fitness program.  Thank you for being a shining example of excellence and integrity.  I appreciate so much the work you are doing.

Z.B.

 

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"The solution is not to run from each other but to run to each other"

Dear Mort,
 
I want to thank you so much for the Marriage Fitness program.  About a year ago, my wife asked me to move out.  We saw a few therapists but were not impressed and our situation did not improve.  I found your website through Google searching.  I was skeptical at first but kept returning to the website over the course of several weeks.  Finally, I discussed Marriage Fitness with my wife, and we decided to try it.  This was the best decision we could have made for our marriage.  We have consistently implemented the principles and practices that you recommended and now, a year later, we are happy and looking forward to the rest of our lives together again.  When we encounter problems now, we know that the solution is not to run from each other but to run to each other - for it was through connecting and rebuilding our love in an active way that we solved our marital problems (and all of our other problems as well).  I am eternally grateful to you.  
 
Sincerely,
 
Jose

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"marriage in tip top shape"

I have thoroughly enjoyed the marriage fitness program and have learned a tremendous amount of insight into my marriage and myself.  I would love to thank Mort for all of his assistance with getting my marriage back on track.  We are doing very well and planning our romantic retreat for this summer.  If I ever need of further assistance, I will not hesitate to call.  I have highly recommended his programs to several friends/coworkers to make sure their marriage is in tip-top shape.

Joy

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"The relationship that I have with my husband now is the best that we've had in the last 4 years"

I am not sure where to begin. On March 10th my husband of 14 years (18 with
dating) told me that he wanted a divorce, I was devastated.  I wanted to crumble.  I begged and begged but all it did was cause more fighting.  I asked him to consider for the children and he just wanted out. We kept fighting for the next couple of days which tore me apart especially when it happened in front of our children, which hurt even more. I somehow find you and you email address and it was the day that changed my life and my marriage.  I read each word and took each of them to heart.  I started to implement them one by one. I could not believe how they worked. While I know that the trouble in our relationship is not one sided, I made the decision to change my habits, not so much for him but for me and it has been such a gratifying experience. I truly love myself more now than I ever have.  Every little step in the last six weeks has been so worth it.  I could start to see him change a little and come back around to our relationship.  Thanks to all if the words of wisdom that you provided my husband told me that he loved me for the first time in 9 months. I am truly blessed to have come in contact with you. I don't know if I would still have a marriage if it was not for you and my friends at work that held me together.  The relationship that I have with my husband now is the best that we've had in the last 4 years and I can't thank you enough.

With the upmost gratitude,
S.A.

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"You were able to accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed to do in 2 years."

Dear Mort,

We just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do. My wife and I have been together for 7 years, spent the past 4 years in constant turmoil, and the past 2 years with 3 different marriage counselors. We have spent literally thousands of dollars trying to get a grip on our relationship, only to watch it plummet faster.

     

I found your website after a tremendous argument during which she and I both agreed that it was over and we were wasting our time. I have been married twice and she has been married 4 times, so failed relationships are nothing new to us. Somehow, practice doesn't make it any easier.

You were able to accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed to do in 2 years. Your assessments made us realize that maybe it wasn't ALL "their" fault after all, and your straight-forward but gentle approach in the tele-conferences lit the path to a recovery that we didn't think was possible.

There is no way that we can begin to express to you all that you have done for us, so we will only tell you "thank you". We will continue to tell friends and family in relationship trouble about your programs.

JL & GL.

Martinsville , IN

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"Within hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital dilemma that were based on my past attitudes"

Hi Mort ,

 

I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Within hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital dilemma that were based on my past attitudes. I instituted changes to my outlook and behaviour that have improved our relationship, but have more importantly resulted in more self-discovery and self-improvement. My sense of purpose is much stronger, as is my understanding of our situation. I highly recommend full participation in the Boot Camp for anyone!

 

Thx

mj

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"...really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better connected with each other"

Dear Mort

 

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the valuable lessons. I was on the Lone Ranger Track, the instructions really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better connected with each other which is the key element in a happy marriage. Minor things still remain and we are working on them.

 

I believe Marriage Fitness is a very effective program .. . And the best part is that most of the time what appears to be a problem in life turns out to be a very positive thing, including a problem marriage.

 

Marriage Fitness Program provided that it is based on strong belief in God, is very helpful in repairing the damage to emotional feelings through misunderstanding or ignoring your spouse' s needs as the closest person to you.

 

 

Yours truly

K.C.

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"This program is life changing and I am so happy to have been able to participate"

Hi Mort,
 
I just wanted to give you some feedback on how this program has worked for me.
 
 
I did the lone ranger track of the boot camp as my husband and I are separated.  It has been amazing for me.  My husband is having an affair and I was just so hurt and betrayed by it all.  Until I started this program I was depressed all the time and really hating life.  I didn't think there could ever be any way to fix my marriage ever.  One night after a fight with my husband I did a search on the internet for marriage counseling.  I came across the Marriage Fitness website.  I signed up immediately.  What did I have to lose since there was a money back guarantee.  After the first week I started to feel better.  As I went through the program my relationship with my husband has changed also.  We are learning to communicate better and slowly falling back in love again.  I have learned so much from this program and I feel I am finally fixing myself and becoming the person I used to be   This program is life changing and I am so happy to have been able to participate.  I complete the entire program and even signed up for the Plugged In (continuation) program.  It has been so worthwhile.  Thank you Mort!!!!
 
Sincerely,
 
Joy W.

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"Even if you are the only one working on your marriage, you can make the difference "

Hi Mort,

 

When I realized my marriage was in real trouble I desperately began my search to fix it. I came across the Marriage Fitness program on the Internet. What really stood out to me is that I could do it on my own, as my husband was not going to be a willing participant. After reading the testimonials and what you had to offer, I signed up for the Lone Ranger track. I was skeptical at first, as the idea of putting love first, was much different then the concept I had been approaching my marriage with, which was love must be tough. I have to say that the program has been eye opening and nothing like any other concept I have been taught. It really is true that one person can make the difference in their marriage.

  

Thank you Mort for all the great advice, words of wisdom, and for teaching me… . Thank you for helping me to become a better person, and wife. I am truly grateful.

 

I would highly recommend Marriage Fitness for anyone needing to repair and restore their marriage or even for those who may just need a marriage boost.  Even if you are the only one working on your marriage, you can make the difference.

 

Sincerely,

 

Christine (Please just use my first name)

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"I feel secure in my marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier"

Please cancel my subscription to the plugged in program.  It's just amazing that I can no longer relate to the callers!  Results from implementing the Marriage Fitness instructions got us living together again, and the continuation program kept me going during trying times.  I feel secure in my marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier.  Marriage Fitness is effective.  Mort Fertel is a genius. Thank you, Mort!

O.G.

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"I have the confidence now that I did not have before"

I just wanted you to know that my husband and I were going through a very difficult time.  I reached out to you...and to my amazement you were there with some great advise.  I never told him about your email's to me and I followed your advise to the letter.  I am happy...very happy to tell you that our marriage is back on track and I will continue throughout my life with him to follow your advise.  There are still hurt feelings and some things to over come, but I have the confidence now that I did not have before....YOU!  Thank you very much…I will certainly pass your name along to whom ever needs you in the future.  God Bless you..and thanks.
 
A very grateful Sheila!

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"Your program is amazing"

Mort - 
I’d like to tell you that my personal journey in your program has changed my life in so many ways.  Not only is my marriage on it’s way to recovery, my other relationships are showing improvement as well.  You are right that when you have love and it’s going well, everything else around you will fall into place.
I actually just completed the program, so I am a “newbie”, however, I was pleasantly surprised to start seeing some results recently.  Now, it took a lot of patience and a lot of change on my part, but I am getting what I want from my spouse....  Naturally, I am a very positive, up-beat person, but I had become a naggy, negative Nancy  that was making his life miserable.  I had begun to despise him and everything he did upset me.  We were very hateful to one another and it was beginning to affect our girls (they are 10 & 5). Neither of us wanted to affect them, but we were both stubborn and unwilling to change.  When I was searching the web for answers because it had gotten to the point that we were through, I came across your website and signed up to receive your daily emails.  These were very encouraging and I tried to implement them, but wasn’t really willing to just overlook all our problems and start to be nice (this is not easy when someone is not giving you the same in return).  It was about a month or so when those emails stopped and I really thought I needed to look into it further.  I’m a financial advisor, so the cost concerned me, but the emails had already proved this was different, so I went for it and got my workbook, book and CD’s really quick.  I dove right in because I needed answers and I really took to the heart the information in the CD’s.  I listened to them every day going to and from work (even throughout the day between meetings), then I would do the workbook throughout the day and in the evenings when the kids were in bed.  My husband was curious what I was doing, but never wanted to join me (and that’s OK)…
I have listened to all the CD’s twice (including the bonus CD), I’ve read the book and completed the workbook.  It is only now that I can truly say that I am seeing some changes.  I am going to therapy once a week (again this is by myself) and I am focused on fixing me.  I feel it in my heart, I can see it in my husband’s eyes and my girls are so thankful that our home is no longer hostile.  My husband and I have always been in love, but we have never in our 14 years together put love first.  We still have a long way to go before it’s always first for both of us, but I have patience, Will and hope for our future together.  Thank you, Mort!  Your program is amazing and I look forward to plugging in to continue our progress.

K. Yates

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"Your advice about choices, integrity and moving slowly are incredibly valuable"

Dear Mort,

I can’t tell you how helpful your program has been.  It has made a huge impact in my life.  You have guided me back to the person and wife I always was before the stresses of life, work, raising children, helping aging parents, etc had gotten in the way.  

Your advice is not only good for marriages – good or bad – but it has also given me the wisdom I have always prayed for that allows me to guide those I love through their turmoils. You have made me a stronger and more confident person, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. 

My efforts seem to be having a huge affect on my relationship and things, for the most part, are looking up.  I come to my 24th wedding anniversary this coming month with a bit of apprehension but also with a renewed sense of hope.  I know now that I will be ok with whatever God has in store for us.  I have made good, positive choices, and I have no regrets.

Although I know it is going to take my husband some more time to get over whatever it is that is still keeping him from giving 100% to our marriage, I am willing to keep going on my path.  Life without my husband is simply unfathomable to me. 

Your advice about choices, integrity and moving slowly are incredibly valuable.  But the most important thing I learned is this:  I am not trying to get my husband to fall back in love with me, I am not trying to make this situation go away, I am giving him the space he needs to decide that the vows he took 24 years ago were real and permanent. 
 
Thank you again for your guidance and wisdom.  You have been a blessing during a very dark time.

Sincerely,
Jean M. 

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"You are truly changing lives"

Dear Mort,
 
I have been waiting 3 years to write this email to you.
 
After several significant milestones in the last several months, including sincere foregiveness, intimacy and plans to add to our family I feel I can say my marriage has been officially reconciled.
 
You were right all along.  I never gave up, prayed a lot and kept implementing what you teach in the program.  There was no one magic thing that made my wife change her mind, but many, many actions on my part and hers.
 
I am very thankful to have come accross your program.  Y
ou are truly changing lives for the better.   Thank you, thank you! 
 
 
 
Chris C.

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"I know it is very difficult to follow the steps outlined in the Marriage Fitness Program but they work"

Though I am still working through the issues in our marriage and still trying to reconnect with my spouse; I can honestly say there has been some improvements.  I restarted the program on my own a few weeks ago because it took a while to wrap my head around the ideas Mort suggested plus my emotions were running on high.
 
Since starting the program on 17 September and restarting the phases  on 7 October, my husband has moved back in our bedroom without me asking. We talk more… we have been on a couple of dates - a couple were arranged and other times it was just having dinner out because I did not make dinner at home that day.  We are also intimate again…

For other couples having marital issues, I know it is very difficult to follow the steps outlined in the Marriage Fitness Program but they work...
   
I hope that me sharing this information will help someone else.
 
JD 

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"Mort has a heart for this, give him your ear"

I found Mort on line when I was in a lot of pain from my husband leaving me. I thought I have to learn something about myself, why this would happen to me again in yet another marriage. Mort helped me think about things in a different way. In some ways what God or Jesus would do and how they would think of marriage and its importance. Evil is in this world and the one thing that is not wanted by evil is two people to be joined by God there is power in loving someone, anyway evil can it will try destroy a marriage. Listening to Mort not only opened my eyes to a different view but also gave me peace I didn't have before just in his voice. If your looking for answers Mort might have some for you if you still have question Mort keeps trying. I know he has heard all our stories over and over again and he has his own but Mort has a heart for this give him your ear.

Tanis R.

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'I am very delighted and overwhelmed for the positive response"

I would like to thank you for the generous support and encouragement since the first day I requested for your help.  I am very delighted and overwhelmed for the positive response I received from you, I must say again thank you for helping me save my perishing marriage.  Each day brings joy into my life again like the old times, you helped me realize that to be in the best and healthy marriage I need to go through rough times, feel the pain in the process.

Thank you a million times, may you live for many and many years to help all those who think on divorcing their wives/husbands to help them realize what incredible think they are missing by doing that.

Regards,
MARIA

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"This program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no where else"

Dear Mort Fertel and Marriage Max,

 

I joined the Marriage Max program a little over two months ago with huge apprehension. The cost seemed very high compared to other web sites cost and my situation seemed hopeless at best. Realizing the Steven Covey Principles were integrated through your teachings got my attention quickly. Steven is a hero of mine. As convincing as that was, it was your own battles you, our teacher, actually went through yourself. That made is personable for me. I first learned that Mort Fertel is an extrodianary man, intelligent, thoughtful and wise. But it is the presense of YOU, the student that makes or brakes your success. Mort gives you work to do, but it is work you WANT to do and have to do…I've learned to love in an action sense, not as a noun. My personal integrity has improved, my work performance went to a new level. My character is still being developed and always will, but I now have the tools to know how. I also have learned that love is a process, not just something that happens, Rather, it's something that you DO. My long term happiness is on the rise because my new found wisdom has been sewn into my fabric of life. I won't take things for granted, I'll have a better marriage, relationship with my kids, my family and my work. There is not one single thing about this program that you don't need.  This program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no where else. One word of warning. If you really don't want to change yourself and your relationships, this is not for you.

 

John

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"Inspiration"

I cannot tell you how you inspired me. My husband and I are back together and we know we are going to make it. We have been married for 35 years this year and another four. We are in love and have realized how to communicate again and loving to listen to each other. Thank you.

Leona

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" Tools to rebuild our romance "

Dear Mort:

I want to thank you for helping save my marriage and greatly improve my own quality of life.  Before your program, my wife and I were on a continuous cycle where, while we knew that we loved each other, we also knew that we were not in love with each other – no matter how hard we tried.  Resentment built, marriage and individual therapy raised marital agendas and individual suspicions, and frankly we tried to stick it out for the sake of our two young children.  I read your book and its lessons really resonated with me.  So much so that, in a very dark moment for our marriage, I asked my wife to forego traditional therapy – again – and to try your program.  The results were wonderful, in an unexpected way.

I recognized that your program is not a magic bullet and not a quick fix.  That part gave you credibility with us both.  What I underestimated was that by focusing on “fixing my own fixing” and “putting love first” I learned so much about myself, all in the context of making my marriage exceptional; not simply making myself happy.  I learned that individual happiness is a byproduct of a solid marriage and that, as a result, my marriage had to be our first second and third priority.  Marriage is hard work, but building the good habits and exercises you teach has transformed my outlook and hope on the future.  We both feel loved through giving love and affection, which sounds like common sense but the vision and tools to do it right was exactly what was missing until I focused on your lessons in the plain, inspiring but sometimes blunt manner in which you teach them.

Thank you for giving us the tools to rebuild our romance.  The work now belongs to us, but the beautiful part is that I can see that the work of creating love is not a painful or foreboding task, but rather can be simply beautiful.

-Dan


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"Bless you for being a blessing to us."

Mort….last night, my wife and I were listening to Teleconference 5. And, as you know I started as a Lone Ranger. Ann said she is getting more from your Marriage Fitness than she ever got from any counseling. We have come a long way in 5 weeks. Bless you for being a blessing to us.

S & A
Abingdon, Md.


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"my estranged husband is "begging" me to get the program"

Good Morning Mort,

...this is the second time in 5 years that I sign up for your program...5 years ago my husband was leaving me and I did the lone ranger and it worked however he has many issues and we find ourselves in another "midlife crisis" scenario so this time knowing what you had done for me before I signed up again but haven't done anything with it...until now. Now my estranged husband is "begging" me to get the program so he can do it and make our marriage stronger and better than ever. Thank you so much...I'm sure you have heard it thousands of times but here goes again...you are a lifesaver! Your program is amazing and I hope my husband gets from it what I did because I am a better person/spouse because of it.

Happy New Year!
Susan
Timmins, Ontario, Canada
(home of Shania Twain ;)  )

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"we appreciate what you do"

Dear Mort,
Words can't begin to describe my appreciation and the positive impact you've had on my marriage.  My wife and I have reconnected in ways that we haven't in years.  Not only did we find your advice insightful and honest, we also found your self-paced Marriage Fitness Program easy to follow yet profoundly effective.  And you offer so many marriage counseling options and various price ranges that you've effectively eliminated any excuse not to get started.  What I like most about your program, Mort, is YOU. After reading your book, listening to countless CD's while driving to and from work, and dialing into your teleconferences over the past seven weeks it's more than evident that you truly and sincerely care about people, their marriages, and their happiness. There's a reason your successful - - you honestly want to help.  My wife and I would love to meet you and thank you in person some day (we live only an hour away), but until that happens, please know how much we appreciate what you do and how thankful we are for the marriage program you established.

My best to you and your family.

Sincerely,

Bill

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"Mort's course gave me hope and direction"

I found the program was very helpful to me.  When my family was facing certain breakup, I felt helpless and desperate.  Mort's course gave me hope and direction -- and for that alone, I am profoundly grateful.  My relationship has definitely improved and I'm hopeful it will make a complete recovery.  Fingers crossed.  D.B."

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"I just wish I would have came across this program years ago"

Dear Mort,
I think that more than two months went by since I send you my first testimony.  I wanted to write a second one because I am just amazingly overwhelmed by the transformation that occurred and keeps on occurring in Yves and I’s relationship.  When I started the program, I kept being persistent even though at times I would cry my heart out because of the hurt and rejections.  But I kept fighting by acknowledging my feelings and then refocusing and acting towards my values: regaining love and a connection at the core with my husband (which honestly I was very skeptical of regaining).  I kept loving and giving to hopefully feel real love again for my husband.  And boy, for a while did I have to fake it to make it (like you advise in your program).  It is actually true that eventually, the more I kept giving, the more I would feel It was the right thing to do because it would make me feel good about myself.  It took a load of persistence but we made it through.  Everything I wrote in my marriage statement (another of your strategy) is actually happening!!!  I can now let go of the past and all the hurt because each day we are strengthening our connection and becoming more and more soul mates. (I still can’t believe that we are achieving this).  I found back my gift from heaven: my husband.  Our kids are noticing the changes and its having a wonderful influence on them.  My eldest son (15) is also connecting with his father in a wonderful way.  Last night, he, who is not the affectionate type, gave my husband and I a goodnight kiss on the forehead.  I feel that we seriously gave the best gift ever to our sons.  We showed them that by choosing to make good changes about ourselves, we can greatly influence the ones we love to do so.  We are also showing winning habits for maintaining love in a relationship.  The most important: we are teaching them that the best thing you can do in your marriage is to put your partner first; even before your kids!- that was a big part of my fixing.  I just wish I would have came across this program years ago.  I could have been a better wife a long time ago and would have saved lots of hurt and despair.  I am happy to say that I have the most wonderful husband and a marvelous father for choosing to do his own fixing and being the best model he can be for his sons.
I sincerely thank you for creating this unique program that really differs from original counseling.  It should be presented to every couple that gets married.  Lots of separation and divorce could be avoided.
Thanks a million times
Christel

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"Thank you Mort for being there when I needed answers"

Dear Mort,

 

I want to thank you for your program.  I know you have probably heard this a million times, but my marriage is an extremely damaged, broken relationship.  Jon and I love each other very much, but we started off our relationship on an unsteady foundation and it has crumbled from there.  We are currently separated and my husband is living with another woman and back to dealing with issues by drinking and doing drugs.  I know you wonder how this could be a testimonial to your program, but today I feel like we had a breakthrough.  My husband admitted to me that he was back to using cocaine . . . this is something that he never would have confided in me 2 months ago.  I believe that your program has shown me the things about myself that I needed to fix in order to get him to open up to me.  I feel that he is crying out for help and I am now able and willing to do whatever I can to be there for him.  Our marriage is a long way from being healed, but I believe that the Marriage Boot Camp helped me to see and admit to the issues in my own life that were contributing to the problems in my marriage. I honestly believe that if I continue to live by the lessons that I have learned from your program that I can save my husband and my marriage.  Thank you Mort for being there when I needed answers.  I believe that God led me to you and your Marriage Fitness Program.  

 

Bless you and keep up the good work,
Kathy
S.

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                                      "Happy Marriage"

I am in the Marriage Fitness Lone Ranger Track.  This program has taught me to be the change I want to see in my marriage, and my spouse has noticed.  The behaviors addressed in Marriage Fitness are vital to a loving marriage.  While I'm not surprised the program is working, I was surprised by 2 other aspects of the program:
1) I think this program can help any marriage improve, even healthy marriages, so I would recommend it to couples looking to strengthen an already happy marriage.
2) Many of the lessons in the program can be applied to interpersonal relationships in general; with friends, relatives, co-workers, etc.
 
I do not regret at all enlisting in the program, but I do regret not doing it sooner.
 
Matt S.
 
PS - I do have one item of constructive feedback for Mort.  The program does not address an area I struggle with, and I suspect many others struggle with as well.  One of my struggles is how to avoid seeing other women (at the store, at a restaurant, at the gym, etc) and being intrigued by them? ...especially when my current marriage is not going well.  How do I keep focus on my spouse when I see many other attractive people all around? 

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        "Mort Fertel's wisdom and guidance has been absolutely life-changing"

 …I would like to provide feedback about the full program since I started Marital Fitness in the late summer. Mort Fertel's wisdom and guidance has been absolutely life-changing. I have found such inspiration, empowerment, and excitement for life and love in the midst of a terribly heartbreaking time in my marriage. So please pass along my gratitude to him for that…I have continued to review and re-review all the rich resources I have gotten from the Marital Fitness program…Mort's program is actively present in my life, my pursuit to restore my marriage, and my enduring intention to be the best wife I can be.

All the best,
Erika


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"I have not felt this much peace and happiness in a long time"

Mr. Fertel,

   Thanks for the wonderful Program.I was 16 and my husband 18 when we
visited the justice of the peace;
 and had a baby a month and half later.I never realized that a
good marriage just did not come with the certificate.I feel so privileged to come
across such a professional in marriage instruction. Your program makes
me wonder where my common sense could have been  20+years.I have
not felt this much peace and happiness in a long time: just hearing
what I should have known but not slowing down enough to listen to
that still small voice inside.I guess that is why God sent you along.
I am so proud of my marriage mission statement I read every
morning carefully pronouncing all the words. God Bless you and
your family.
                                                                                   Carla

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"Our family of four is whole"

Mort,

 

Just wanted to drop you a note to say, “Thank you.” Several years ago my wife and I sought your help and counsel after what was thought to be a failed marriage. We had filed for divorce and had  current and past failures as heavy baggage that was crushing us with emotional pain and unforgiveness. Now, with your help and God’s intervention, our family of four is whole, and has been for some time. We will ever be grateful for you, as we look back to an ugly past and see you as help from God.

 

Gratefully,

 

Marty M.

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" ...lighted our situation and gave me great hope"

My wife and I just finished listening to this evenings Q&A with Mort.  Mort mentioned my question that I emailed and discussed the flaws in my logic in a very humorous way that left my wife in hysterics and me feeling humbled.  It was exactly what I needed to hear.  Please pass on to Mort (if possible) that I apologize for my short sightedness and I am sincerely grateful for his message.  I will take it to heart and will be a better husband because of it. 

To see my wife laugh uncontrollably (albeit at me rather than with me) made my heart swell with joy.  It lighted our situation and gave me great hope.  Perhaps more importantly it gave me pause to consider that I have much to learn.  Please thank Mort for the lesson, tell him the message was well received and honestly appreciated.

Sincere Regards,
BB

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" I am very happy I came across his website and would recommend him and his practice to anyone I know"


Things have turned around in my marriage…I think Mort is a very wise man who has unconventional things to say which has helped change my thinking in a lot of areas of my marriage AND my life for the better.  I am very happy I came across his website and would recommend him and his practice to anyone I know. 

Please give him my best for a Happy, Healthy and Prosperous New Year to him and his family.  And please tell him thank you for all the great advice.  It really does work.  Persistence and patience pays off.

Kind regards,
R

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"Your program guided us and inspired me"

Thank you so much.
 
Please let Mort know I am canceling because the program was very successful for me.  And I still refer back to it.  I share about the program all the time. 
 
My husband and I reconciled in July 2012.  Your program guided us and inspired me through the journey.  It truly has been a process.  Our daughter had cancer in 2009. He had an affair for many months in 2011-2012.  Because of your program I never gave up on our marriage even when he put us $45,000 in debt in to a ugly divorce. He came to me and asked for forgiveness and started working very hard to put us back together.  We have a 10&8 year old girls and a 2 year old boy.  And last June we went to Europe and we came back pregnant with another boy.  My husband feels like he's been given a extra gift from God.  Since he had basically kicked me our girls and our 6 week old baby out in 2011. 
 
We work hard everyday towards meeting each other's needs.  We date every week and have instituted your other programs to our daily life.  We have been married almost 16 years friends for 23 since we were 17.  

Thank you for everything. Please let me know if I can offer anything else.

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"We are in love again!"

Dear Mort

I would like to thank you for your CD’s and email assistance.  I don’t know where to start but would really be able to recommend your CD and support to any couple.  I was the lone ranger, as you call it, and started off alone.  It was amazing to see how everything just fell into place.  My husband starting to love me again and started to neglect the  other women at the office.  It was not an easy journey, a learned a great deal of myself, and of our marriage.  I had neglected my spouse, I was so busy with my own personal studies and heart patient child that I only did the basics around the house.

We are in love again, I am listening to him, we support each other with things around the house, we cycle together, we have date nights. It is just amazing.

Thank you for your help, I thought being in South Africa, far from America,  would be shooting in the dark, requesting a CD.  I was wrong, and can only say thank you for much, for giving my marriage a second chance.

Kind regards

Nicky

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"positive changes in my marriage"

The Marriage Fitness Program saved my marriage and made me a better person. I signed up for the Lone-Ranger-Program and it is amazing that it only takes one person to change the marriage around. By applying the suggested principles I saw positive changes in my marriage. I recommend this program to all.  Thank you Mort Fertel.    

D.H.

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"I owe so much to your program"

Hi Mort,
I am happy to give my opinion on Marriage Fitness…  I am in the lone ranger track and have listened to the cd's several times and they allow me to continue to be positive in the face of his negative and cruel treatment.  I realize he is in a midlife crisis and his affair is part of that.  He is in denial about both… this program has allowed me to improve myself and I am continually working on my "fixing."  This week, I had 3 people tell me they admired my resolve to save my 13 year marriage in spite of his unwillingness to cooperate and that they were proud of me and my ability to stay positive.  These comments came unsolicited and made me feel great and I owe so much to your program.  I encourage everyone to enroll in this program.  Please use my initials only.  Thanks.
HH

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"I would recommend it anyone who is looking for a healthy long lasting solution"

The marriage fitness program improved my marriage and I would recommend it anyone who is looking for a healthy long lasting solution. 

ER

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" Thank you, I recomment your program every chance I get"

Dear Mort,

I was in the Lone Ranger Track, and my husband and I reconciled.  He is now listening to the CDs and as of April 10th (my birthday) our marriage has been transformed.  We will continue to use the materials we already purchased and work the program together now.
 
Thank you!  I recommend your program every chance I get.
 
Sincerely,
 
~Leslie

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'We have found love again, and it is amazing."

Hi Mort,

I was thinking today about what an amazing, difficult, beautiful year this has been for me and I realized that I should take a minute to thank you because you had a big part in helping me through one of the most difficult times of my life…

I ordered your program a year ago and it has been an amazing, life transforming product. My husband and I will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary on May 30, 2012. This time last year it felt like we were not going to make it, never mind being happier than we ever have been in our marriage. We have come a VERY long way in the past year and we owe a great deal of our success to your program. It sounds like an infomercial cliché but it is true.

In January of last year my husband had a short lived affair, which was devastating to me. It was the story you hear a million times… he fell out of love with me, I lost interest in him, we were living like roommates and doing what we had to to look after the house and kids but not doing what we needed to to keep our marriage alive. After I found out about the affair we did what we could to salvage our relationship. We went to counselling, and while it helped me, my husband found it very discouraging and came out of our sessions feeling worse and more frustrated than when we went in. After searching the internet late one sleepless night, I found your website and I signed up for the free emails. Your approach was different than anything else I found. Without fail, email after email arrived; and they all seemed to be giving me the advice I needed to hear at the right time. It was like you knew exactly what was happening in our lives and you sent me the answers I needed when I needed them. After receiving them for a short time I realized that your program “may be helpful”.

My husband and I listened to the cds both together and on our own and I can’t explain how much they have helped. It seemed so strange to think about not working on our HUGE problems and putting love first, but that was exactly what we needed to do. (Don’t get me wrong, I did all the wrong things first… like yelling, crying, giving ultimatums and threats. They did nothing but make things worse). At the time it felt like the last thing I would want to do is be kind and loving to the person who has hurt me so deeply. But once I found your website and started receiving your emails I changed the way I acted and reacted to what we were going through. It was amazing to see how it worked. It all makes sense now, a year later looking back. We have found love again, and it is amazing. It has been a long and difficult journey but it has been worth it. Thank you so much to you and your wife sharing your story and the lessons you have learned. They have helped make our marriage one to be very proud of.

Joanne

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"Keep doing what you are doing."

Dear Mort,
    i have to say that your program has been the main reason our marriage is still in existance & is thriving today. We have survived "the affair" and are stronger than ever. We were both eager participants in your program from the start as we wanted to stay married. We both enjoy the workbook info you send as it's right on target.
     Our whole life has changed for the better as we both have retired from working outside the home. We both turned 66 years old in 2011 & are now on a fixed income. We have traveled out west to our national parks & have had a wonderful time together. Jan & Feb we spent in Venice, Fl in a rented home via vacationrentals.com & avoided the dreariness of the north & winter cold even though it was a mild winter up here in Hollywood, MD for me it was still cold. FL truly is the sunshine state and it was paradise for me with the beautiful flowers warmth & dazzling sunshine - my husband JJ (Joseph)enjoyed it also as he is intent on exercising outdoors- he walks 5- 10 miles every day just for the exercise & sunshine vitamin D.
      Be assured that i recommend your program to a great deal of people who i come in contact with. JJ & I are recovering alcoholics of 29 & 24 yrs continuous sobriety who still go to AA 2 or 3 times a week & frequently hear of problem marriages. I usually share your "how do i know if i married the right person" information & i know many of them go on to research your program for help.
      I think it also helps us to spread your words to others as then we have to practice what we preach. AA teaches us to be responsible for our actions as we don't change until we are held accountable. We both had to accept responsibility for what happened to us & change how we treated each other. I know it was a rude awakening for JJ to hear about emotional affairs & how they lead to physical affairs & how the emotional affair cuts your wife/ husband out of your life eventually. He was surprised to hear that we had to be completely transparent with each other as befor he felt i didn't have to know everything he did .
    Thank you for all your help in reconstructing our lives together. Keep doing what you are doing.
      Sincerely, Mary Armstrong

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" I am amazed at what the program has done to help me begin new"

I purchased the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp program with some trepidation.  We were already nearly four months into our second separation, we weren't talking, and we needed a miracle.  I didn't for one minute think the Marriage Fitness program could work a miracle in my life, but it seemed to offer specific, practical advice.  The money-back guarantee finally persuaded me to purchase the program.  When the CDs, comprehensive workbook, and copy of Marriage Fitness arrived in the mail, I was surprised that it appeared to be such a well-integrated program. 

 

The Boot Camp sessions began, and I attended as a lone ranger.  But I was so entrenched in my viewpoint about what went wrong in our marriage that I resisted implementing the program for the first three weeks.  Finally, I booked a private session with Mort Fertel.  While I was waiting for my private session, I implemented the program He returned my call -- the very last day of my seven-week lone ranger boot camp -- and his voice sounded kinder than I have heard it in a long time another miracle. 

 

So, does Mort Fertel's program work?  Yes.  I am amazed at what the program has done to help me begin new, loving habits, to which my husband is slowly responding.  For the first time in my life, I understand exactly what twenty steps I can take to create love and respect   Without this program, my husband and I would not be talking at all.  So, I absolutely recommend Mort Fertel's program.

 

S.V.

San Diego, CA

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"I am so very grateful to Mort for the work that he does for all of us troubled souls."

My testimonial is that Marriage Fitness is the only way to reconcile a bad marriage.  I tried for the last 12 years to win my husband back and failed every time.  I can honestly say that this time it is working!  I am so excited, we are getting closer every week and I hope and pray he will move back in soon.  I am so very grateful to Mort for the work that he does for all of us troubled souls.  Please accept my sincere thanks and praise for a wonderful program.  I really can’t say thank you enough times.
Angela

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"This guy's message is the most sound advise I have received in years"

Hi Mort,  a number of weeks ago,  I received an email from you asking me what I thought of your program.  I was not able to respond at the time because I could not find the words.  Last night ,  a friend of mine mentioned the unexpected separation of her brother and sister-in-law,  and I found myself suggesting your program to her,  to suggest to her brother.  Below is the email i just sent out to her.  For the purpose of you wanting to know what I think of your program,  this email says it just about as best as I can ,  at this point in time in my life. 

Life has been difficult on a number of different fronts,  my marriage being the most critical.  Your message has helped me find the strength, patience ,  and fortitude to carry on

Thank you Mort.  Your message has helped point me in the right direction,  and hopefully,  will also help influence my 5 teenage daughters lives as well. 

Sincerely,

Nancy N. 
Begin forwarded message:


Hi Antonette,  nice to see you last night.  I am sorry to hear about your brother.   Here is a link to that guy I was talking about…

I can not do the program justice by trying to describe it.   All I can say is  I have learned a lot listening to this program.  It has helped me learn and grow,  and look at my own "fixings".  This program has taught me some valuable life lessons ,  that I now share with my  5 girls…

This guy's message is the most sound advise I have received in years,   and for the comparatively insignificant cost of ... I think $400.00,   when you REALLY think of what is at steak when a marriage fails,  one would be very irresponsible not to do this bare minimum.   It certainly is a lot less painful,  and , in my opinion,  much more effective,  than going to marriage counselling where you pay anywhere from $100 - $400 an hour.    Anyone in a marriage crisis should be responsible enough to get  some help,  and in my opinion,  most people in a marriage crisis do not need to VENT about all their troubles.   What they need to hear is..... What exactly they need to be doing to be a good spouse!!  What does a good marriage look like?  What are they doing wrong?.   They need to download the information into their heads that they are missing. 

And , this program ,  the very least,  it might not save your marriage,  but it makes you a better person.  It helps you work on your own failings.  It encourages you to be the better person you are suppose to be.  And ,  at the end of the day.....no matter what happens,  you will be able to move on with a clearer conscience because  you will know that you have tried,  you have made a "herculean" effort to save the most important thing in your life,  your marriage and your family.  

Below ,  is one of his weekly emails he sends out.  This is just the one I received this morning so I thought ,  in light of our conversation last night,  I would forward it on to you.  I hope this might help...even getting the small version of 6 tapes is good....i think about $100.  please feel free just to forward this email on to your brother , if you think it might help.  Also,  it in case you were wondering, it is not a religious based program.

Love ya Antonette,  wish you and your family a wonderful and safe holiday,    xoxo  

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'This program is so very valuable a
program to any marriage both healthy and unhealthy"

This program has been a blessing to me and an answer to
prayer in a most troubled situation involving health issues
both mental and physical, and infidelity in a 38 year old marriage.
  I wish I had signed up when
I first saw the information on google.  I was practically
paralized by the situation I was/am in.  This program gave
me strength and hope to think and act.  My faith in God
has never waivered, but I found solace when Mr. Fertel
said "it could only be me to fix the problems in me and
those problems in the world. "  I found this program
"ordained".  I pray that my spouse might somehow find
the joy and light in the program.  I do not know if that
will ever be, but I know that Mr. Fertels program is
valuable way beyond the time and cost.  I felt direction
and focus in a chaiotic world.  I felt hope.  There are so few things
we actually remember in life of all the occurences that
happen, but I will never forget Mr. Fertel and this program.
In fact, I have signed up to continue on learning, growing
and loving with this program.  This program is so very valuable a
program to any marriage both healthy and unhealthy.  In that
very respect with our nation having a divorce rate of 50 percent
it is extraordinarily valuable to our nation.  I pray that Mr.
Fertel can continue every day reaching as many as he can. 
I will gladly talk to anyone in doubt about taking this program.
Sincerely,
Vickie C

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"My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are heading in a better direction.  "

My wife moved out in April and wanted a divorce: married 18+ years:  wasn't like I didn't see it coming

 

In June, my 15 year old son left me this note one morning: 

 

Dad:

 

Now that you are reading this, I might be on my way to go skating, but I felt like I needed to remind you

that the measure of a man is not how he conducts himself when life is good, but rather how he is when life is hell.

 

I love you and always will. We will get through this. 

 

Much love,

Jake

 

I knew I need professional help if I was to be the man he needed to see, and I needed to be.

 

 

The Old Testament says" God hates divorce".

 

I broke that down:

 

God: the greatest power in the universe

 

Hates: the worst emotion I can imagine

 

Divorce: The end of a marriage, and the end of a family, as I have known it.

 

 

I figures if He hates, it, He would make a way OUT of it.

 

A lot of prayers and a lot of fasting by others changed her attitudes.

 

A lot of prayers and Marriage Fitness changed mine.

 

My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are heading in a better direction. 

  

My son reminded me that when life is hell: still do the right thing!

 

 

 

There is a lot of marriage "fixing" info out there; 

 

Your's caught my eye when you explained " the best thing you can give your children is a great marriage"

 

I'd say "thanks" but that would be not nearly sufficient.

 

Neil  

 

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"...your approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and measured way"

Mort,

 

Your program is the most constructive and poignant course for Marriage and personal development I have ever seen. After considerable time and research including reading or attending counseling from well respected names such as John Gottman, Gary Chapman, David Wood, and others, your approach is simply the be st… your approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and measured way and, perhaps most importantly, gives hope that reconciliation is possible. I know the personal growth and understanding I have achieved could not have been done without your course.

 

Thank you.

 

M.U.

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"Life lessons I plan to never forget"

Mort -

 

My husband and I have been married for 13 years.  I became resentful, had high expectations, we stopped communicating, we stopped putting forth extra effort in our marriage.  We tried to be friends, we tried to be content, we tried to have more...but never were in sync and one day...he decided to move out, it was a shock, I was hurt.  And then I found your program online.  I signed up for your emails.  The day he moved out, I signed up for your tele-boot camp.  Your program is so thorough.  Each step is outlined and every question is answered.  Reading, listening, completing the workbook and calling in re-energized me.  Each step seemed to keep me going and as much as I doubted pushing that flywheel....you were right....fast is slow and slow is fast.  I have your quotes tacked up in my house, in my calendar, on the fridg, in the car, as reminders.

 

I am in the lone ranger track and have seen a tremendous change …t hat change has calmed me, my children, my other relationships and most importantly my connection with my husband.  You are so right that one person can transform a marriage …we have learned to enjoy each others company again.  I am confident that the lessons I have learned, the process of keeping our connection new and exciting.

 

I want to thank you for helping me with my marriage .. .  These are life lessons I plan to never forget. 

  

Thank you.

Mary

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"God Bless You abundantly!"

Thursday, December 21, 2006
To: mortfertel@marriagemax.com
Subject: Thank-you/on the road to success

 

Dr. Mort,

 

Your site is the only site that appealed to me as far as valuable information. Because of the information you have given we are both happier in just one short week!

 

We used to be uninhibited when it came to sex and fulfilling each others desires and pleasuring one another was a real turn on.  We talked about how it used to be. We did need to bring some change into our relationship. The change was not just the toys, or the experience. The time we spent together, the plan and discussing our desires for each other and also our marriage came into play. 

 

God Bless You abundantly!

E and D          

     

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 "We are working on our relationship every day and I see my husband putting more enthusiasm and vigor into meeting my needs"

I wanted to leave. Or I wanted him to leave. My husband was so neglectful, mean, harsh, overbearing, never happy, nagging.....exactly the way most men would describe their wives, that was my husband. … we hit some very hard times. I was raped in our home by someone I knew, with my husband just outside in the back yard. That in itself took a mighty toll on our relationship, then add the addictions, loss of work, moving across the country, and the mental state I was in, and you've got a lot of work to do to save a marriage.  
 

I was going to move out the next morning, when I  came across the MF information online. I opened the email and read the information. Then I read it again. I decided Momma is always right with the statement that you will never have to ask yourself "what if" if you exhaust all of your resources, try everything you can. So, this was my last ditch effort. I didn't have much hope as I had asked my husband to read a couple of books five years ago and he hadn't even cracked open one yet. I had even bought the books for him, twice!
 
Our marriage is now back on track. Our communication lines are more open and clearer. We share much more intimate, quality time together. He is willing to meet my needs in the ways I need them met and not how he thinks they should be met. I have been able to become completely dedicated to our relationship and devoted to him, BECAUSE he is meeting my needs. We have a level of intimacy that goes beyond, I believe, what others have. When we are "in sync" there is a sence of euphoric peacefulness, blissful freedom, and the passion goes far beyond the bedroom.
 
We didn't go through the program "together" however, and it wasn't easy to get him to listen to the information. He didn't do the exercises in the workbook either. I would leave the door to my office open and the volume just loud enough he could turn the tv down and hear it. I would work on the exercises in the workbook in the same room, writing as he watched TV, and I would leave it where he could easily find it. I knew he couldn't resist finding out what I wrote in that workbook!  I kept on with the gift giving...one night I brought home a bucket with various hand tools and "man" things, all from the dollar store. I think I spent less than $15 including the bucket. I presented it to him and said that I was crazy in love with him still, I woulod do anything for him and I was trying to sweep him off his feet with this romantic gesture. I explained that the bucket of tools was the equivelant of  him bringing me a boquet of flowers.
 
We are working on our relationship every day and I see my husband putting more enthusiasm and vigor into meeting my needs. We are thankful for the MF program and for Mort for putting it all together and sharing it! Bobbi O

 

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"This program is the best help I could have found"

Thanks so much! This program is the best help I could have found, next to my Bible. Please tell Mr. Fertel that I truly appreciate him.

God bless you all,
Cher B.

 

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"Nothing else compares to this program"

You can tell Mort he has saved another marriage!  I think I signed up for the duo track but needed the Lone Ranger one, I still used it and it has proven to be what I needed. Nothing else compares to this program. I’m so happy I found it!
 
Take care!
Jeni

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"Thanks, thanks, and ever thanks"

Your Marriage Fitness program has made all the difference in my marriage. I have read several books over the years, all which I feel are a piece of the puzzle in helping me improve my marriage and myself; however, your program is definitely a "game changer." Among many things, I realized that I was not connecting and opening up with my husband. We have had our trials over the years, including affairs (emotional and physical) and separations, and currently my husband is struggling with some personal growth issues... However, I feel more hopeful than ever because of your program…This September will be our 20-year anniversary and I have my heart, hope and focus set on a renewal of vows with the love of my life. I continue to learn from all of your resources (book, workbook, CDs, e-mail) on a consistent basis, realizing that it will take discipline and time. Thanks, thanks, and ever thanks for sharing yourself, your knowledge and your compassion.
Lone-ranger track so far,
Mary H.

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"many of our issues have started to melt away"


Thank you so much for your Marriage Fitness program.  We started about a year and a half ago and we had so much charge built up between us it was hard to have any kind of pleasant conversation or feel happy about marriage.  When we set the intent to try to learn to improve our marriage we were attracted to your website on the internet and felt good about starting the program.  Listening to the first CD's gave us such a feeling of hope because finally someone was laying down a mental framework that we could use to understand why we had problems, and more importantly, catch the vision that we could be in a different place and how to get there.  This was like a revelation for us and felt so empowering.  Especially with the personal power and responsibility to be free to become the person and spouse we want to become regardless of external circumstances.  We realize it is a journey but our marriage is in a much different place now and the "emotional bank" we both have is starting to be filled with more peaceful and satisfying memories.  Thank you so much for what you shared to help us.  Especially on not doing things sexually that you don't want to do and not being a people pleaser, as built-up resentment was driving a big wedge between us.  So many of our issues have started to melt away as we focus on evolving and building something better.
You have been influential in our lives and we really appreciate it.  In so many places where we used to have stress and anxiety we now feel a sense of personal empowerment and security.  This makes all the difference.
We feel complete with the plugged-in program at this point so we are cancelling our membership, but just to let you--this also was extremely valuable to us in further integrating what we had learned from the Marriage Fitness program and providing further insight and solution for some of our challenges.
So again, a heartfelt THANK YOU and blessings,
D A W

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"This program saved my marriage. Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my marriage around. "

My husband told me he wanted a divorce.  He basically blurted it out one night, then started sleeping in the guest room.  I was completely shocked and surprised.  He wanted to separate right away-- I didn't understand the urgency, why the push to leave "all the sudden" when we'd been married for 12 years.  He said he felt no urgency, that he'd been thinking about it for months, even years. He said he had no feelings for me anymore and was just "done".  The problem was, he kept it all inside.  He didn't share his thoughts and feelings with me .

 

Completely devastated, I started searching for answers, fixes, anything to put my marriage back together.  I found Mort Fertel's marriage fitness website.  I showed it to my husband.  He said it all sounded like some marketing scheme and he wasn't interested in "fixing" anything.  So, I signed up anyway-- for the Lone Ranger track.

 

The day I received my kit in the mail, my husband was talking about actually filing for divorce.  I began implementing the techniques immediately.

 

After being in the program two weeks, he stopped talking about the separation.  He was being nice back.  After four weeks, he agreed not to file, and to try to work things out.  But he refused to do the Marriage Fitness thing and he was against counseling.  He said he was going to read a couple books on marriage that his mom gave him.  By the sixth week he told me he wanted to stay married to me, but wasn't ready to be intimate or move back into our bedroom.

 

We're getting to know each other again... slowly.  We're building a friendship that perhaps wasn't there in the beginning.  He thinks we got married too young, too fast.  This program saved my marriage. Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my marriage around.

 

Thank you Mort.  Thank you.

 

~ TS

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"timeless patience and encouragement"

Dear Mort ,
 
Thanks for your advice and I tried some of your methods it showed some progress on my husband's part who used to be very obstinate and refuse to do anything, By learning to forgive the past grudges and the hurt and trying to give more love at least i can see some improvement in his part in wanting to make our marriage work. and you emphasize go looking at present not dewelling the past and think positively also helps as we will not end up quarrelling and hurt each other with abusive words.
 
 
I am very gratefully for your timeless patience and encouragement all these while. We are slowly working ways to fix back our marriage. Thousand of words can't describe my gratefulness and help you render to restoring my marriage and heal my emotional hurt during these 10 months. I slowly see hope. Thank you very much Mort.
 
May God Blessed you and your family with infinite happiness, good health and joy.
 
Warmest Regards,
Yvonne

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"I started to see the changes"

Sorry for the delay in sending in my testimonial.  And yes, please just print my initials only.
 
“I can say that when I first read the marriage max reviews about Mort Fertel, I was very skeptic.  I wasn’t really sure if this is going to work.  It’s a lot of money for me and I was very scared.  I took a leap of faith and did it.  I figured I would only lose $400.00…and there’s money back guarantee...
 
Here’s what I can say, and this is really my experience…upon realizing my own “fixing” and I started to apply Mort’s suggestions, I started to see the changes on both parties (by the way, I signed up for the lone ranger).  In a couple of weeks, changes were noticeable and we were both a little happier.  All in all, the changes were good.  I was into the program only 3 weeks when we went away on vacation before the children started school…and my husband said “this is one of the best vacations I’ve had in a long time” – which made me tear up a bit because I know I am in the right path.  All I can say is to give it a shot.  And if you really do your best in following his steps, the results are surprising. “
 
Thank you, Mort Fertel.
 
RF

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"The programme was a lifeline which stopped me from “drowning"

Hi Mort
I found Marriage Fitness Program as a result of scouring the internet for answers. I was very angry and hurt – my husband had been emotionally and possible unfaithful with one of my closest friends for over a year. The double betrayal was destroying me and my behaviour was just making the situation worse. I enrolled on the Lone Ranger programme and found the advice was invaluable and just by following some simple advice from Mort I was able to see a difference immediately and it gave me the support emotionally and mentally to cope with having to see the other woman on a daily basis. Our marriage problems are nowhere near fixed but I feel that we are on the right path and making progress. The programme was a lifeline which stopped me from “drowning”. I would wholeheartedly recommend it.
Sophie (UK)

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"It's helped to keep me sane"

Hi Mort,  This programme has been like a lifeline to me. I don't know what i would have done without it.  It's helped to keep me sane.  Some days are better than others, but this and God are my grounding. Anyone who's a skeptic and are looking for something, what have you got to lose?  Try this. Thanks again.
MD

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 "Well, My wife moved back into the house"

Hi Mort. I think it's time to say Thank you for all your help over the last
five months. My wife Nancy & I have been married for 26 years & this past January she sat me down & said she wanted a divorce & that she had made  plans to move out. We have 3 beautiful children, ages 26,24 & 21. All of which are own their on & out of the house at this time. To say the least, I was shocked when she asked for the divorce. 2 months later, in March 2013 she moved out & was living 3 hours away on her own. We  did not have much verbal conversation during this time. The separation was not due to infidelity, we have been true to each other thru our marriage & also during our separation. We were just not connected. Then one day I found Marriage Fitness online.did some research, looked at some of the  testimonials & decided I needed help to put my marriage back together. It would be sickening if we divorced & never  knew why! -I ordered the program, listened to the tele-conferences , took lots of notes & began & educate myself. I did my best to follow the systematic program, sometimes questioning myself but thru your teachings  knew I needed to pursue & "ruin her story"  Well, My wife moved back into the house October 6th, happy as ever & said to me she was " blown away by the change in me".  She never thought in a million years that we would ever get back together again. Now, we both listen to the CD's together "That's what I was going to ask",  when we are in the car & discuss the certain situations & problems the couples have & analyze them. We both feel like Marriage Counslers! Thank you for your abundance of help.
James & Nancy M

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"Honestly, I never would have believed it myself.  I thought for sure by now my marriage would be over. "

        I found you exactly how you said I might, scanning the internet for help.  I needed a focus because I was drowning in the pain of what I thought was the inevitable.  You helped me see a new vision of what I wanted in my marriage.  Within 2 weeks of starting your program, my husband said he wasn't sure about a divorce and he wasn't sure about what he was doing. I hung in there, just as you said and things are on a positive track now.  Honestly, I never would have believed it myself.  I thought for sure by now my marriage would be over.

   My next vision is to complete the program again, this time with my husband.  Thank you Mort, for everything!  I still love getting your inspirational emails and hope to see you in a workshop in person someday.  Your perspective and program are right on; putting love first makes all the difference.

 

Teri R .

Gilbert, Az

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"the relationship we have now is better and stronger than it ever was."

Dear Mort,

This email is probably way over due but about 3 years ago I was on the verge of divorce and ruining not only my life but 2 beautiful children's as well and I searched and searched for answers on how to save my marriage and after an exhaustive search, stumbled upon your site. As probably a lot of people you've helped, I decided to get the free emails you had and the information you had in there was so powerful and eye-opening I knew you were the right guy to help me. I very shortly thereafter got your TeleBoot Camp package and thank god the information was brilliant. I even had a chance to speak with you briefly for 5 minutes or so. I'm the guy that told you I was leaving the country to go to England for 10 days because I just couldn't take what was happening in our house. I believe you were a little taken aback that I was abandoning my home during that stage but you still gave me brilliant advice to stay in touch every night by calling home and making sure I speak to my wife as well as my children. It was tough but it was done and I think it along with so much else you provided in your package was pivotal in saving my marriage. Long story short…we ended up getting separated…drew paperwork for child custody and all that nasty stuff BUT just like you said, work on yourself and your wife will only return when she's ready…never sooner. And it happened and we mended our relationship by starting to date again even while she was living somewhere else. It was crazy but the relationship we have now is better and stronger than it ever was. Date nights every weekend…annual trips just the two of us without the kids and a bunch of other things you nailed. Thank you so much for all your help. 

Sincerely,

Mikk S.

PS. The reason for this testimonial 3 years later is because I just recently figured out how to market through the internet and decided there's no better product I'd rather be an affiliate of then yours. As such, I'm one of your newest affiliates and hopefully I get a chance to repay you even today for what you were able to do for me in 2008. Thank you. 



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"Our 2 little girls thank you & my husband thanks you."


I just wanted to THANK YOU for your Marriage Fitness program. I bought it months ago, listened to them by myself and saw some improvement but I was reluctant to really put anything to work because my husband was so disengaged in our marriage. About four months ago, we started marriage counseling and we reconnected at first but it really wasn't helping. Then a week ago, we hit rock bottom and I thought our marriage was over. My husband begged me to let him stay. He said he'd go to counseling himself, continue marriage counseling and finally listen to your CDs.

The next morning when he got to work he emailed me to tell me after half an hour of listening to you he was excited. He knew we're going to make it. He's been more attentive, loving, passionate. Tonight he told me that he's learned more from you in 2 cd’s than he has in four months of counseling.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Our 2 little girls thank you & my husband thanks you.

Jennifer
Baltimore MD

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"...anyone seeking to fix or enhance their marriage"

Mort Fertel's system for dealing with marriage problems is truly exceptional. There are too many clinicians who subscribe to a particular theory or belief and they actually get lost in their own philosophy. Mort's wisdom is clearly a product of his own thinking and his powerful empathy. His words emanate from his heart and they will ring true to you in a powerful way. At first you may just have to trust him, but you will soon experience the truth of his advice. I am so happy that I found him and I would recommend his program to anyone seeking to fix or enhance their marriage. You will see the fruits of this program spill over into all of your relationships and really improve your quality of life.
Forever grateful,
HW

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" No longer lonely in Louisiana"

Mort,
Last year at this time I was hopeless in my marriage.  I didn't think my husband and I would make it together another month let alone a year. 
I hesitantly signed up for your marriage fitness course in January 2013 and hoped for the best. Mort, I just want to let you and everyone else  know how much your program has truly saved my marriage.  It has been tough, but slowly - day by day, month by month -- it has transformed into a beautiful, fulfilling, friendship, and relationship.  We have grown together in more ways than I ever imagined but had always longed for.  Thank you Mort for your guidance that has saved my marriage and family.  I strongly recommend
your program to anyone looking to save or enrich their marriage.   THANK
YOU! Mort!

H. Gardner, No longer lonely in Louisiana Sent from my iPhone

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"Marriage Fitness is what enabled us to get out of our downward spiral"

Mort, my wife and I have been married for 30 years. We have had our struggles in the past few years, and I recently found
out she had an affair 4 years ago with a neighbor. The shock, hurt, etc., was devastating to me and I confronted her with the
'news" and my knowledge of her affair. Was not a good time to say the least. I searched for where to turn next and wanted
to save our marriage. My wife agreed to the Duo- Track program and we began the journey.
 
I can not say it has been all wonderful, yet we have made significant progress in renewing our relationship…We were diligent with the tele-seminasr to keep us focused, read your book as we went along, completed CD's, and only
have the workbook to complete. By far the best start to fixing what has taken years to erode, to put the problems aside and
to implement the simple habits to mend challenges.
 
My wife and I remain extremely optimistic with our continued journey and although there are always bumps along the way, I strongly
believe Marriage Fitness is what enabled us to get out of our downward spiral and ignite the changes needed…and
enjoy our relationship again.
 
I would highly recommend your program for couples struggling with their relationships......
 
Many sincere thanks,
 
Jim (please do not use my last name)

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"I appreciate the support"


The Marriage Fitness Program have been excellent and have been a wonderful experience for myself and my wife.  My wife and I have reconciled and have been back together…have put many of the principles from marriage fitness into practice and find them to be beneficial, especially the section on understanding personal traits that may be attractive that over time can exhibit in a negative manner and how to handle that situation.  This has been a long journey…and I appreciate the support that has been there along the way.  The program dovetails very well with my Catholic faith and other reading and support I have done from that area as well. I continue to work on personal development from my faith life.
 
Best Regards,
Bruce R.

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"our marriage is really improving!"

Rebecca,

I thought Mort’s program was SUPERB and would highly recommend it to anyone having problems with their marriage.  I went through the original course and then the follow on… I use many of the techniques ALL of the time!  Yes, it’s much better than counseling (something I have tried with NO success).

Again, a phenomenal program!

Sincerely,

Vince

p.s. BTW…our marriage is really improving!  That is the ultimate barometer to the course, in my opinion.  Tell Mort that he has really made a difference in our lives!

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"This approach has been successful in restoring (even if it is just baby steps) our marriage"

Dear Mort,
Although I have fallen behind on the course requirements (I am about 1/2 complete with the course), I already see a difference in my marriage.  I am in the Lone Ranger Tract, but my wife is supportive of my LONE RANGER attempts to improve our marriage.  My compliments regarding your marriage fitness program  is not complete yet since I've not finished yet, but at this point I can tell you emphatically that your focus toward taking positive steps to renew my marriage is paying dividends, along with molding a 'soul connection' with my spouse.  
I've moved away from a focus on solving our problems (reference - a surprising solution to improving a marital situation) and instead I've moved toward the positive steps… I know that moving my focus away from solving our problems toward finding positivity has worked.  I am not nearly as impetuous as before, and I've taken some necessary steps (one of which is wearing a rubber band on my arm) to remind me that "shooting from the hip" has not worked in my marriage as I try to relate/interact with my spouse.  Instead, I step back from situations which previously have seen me "shooting from the hip", I've breathed deeply, and responded more positively than previously in my marriage.
This approach has been successful in restoring (even if it is just baby steps) our marriage.  Just yesterday, when we were preparing for our son's celebration party (he has recently received his Masters in Fine Arts), an argument began between the 2 of us.  My purpose in stating this is that BOTH OF US, instead of YELLING at each other, talked calmly to each other.  I complimented Eva on this, she acknowledged in a positive way that she agreed, so I can genuinely state a real BABY STEP in the right direction has occurred.
At this point in time therefore, we're headed in the right direction in our marriage.  I'll be more than glad to send further updates, as they occur, if this would be helpful to you in promoting marriage fitness.
Sincerely,
Moving in the right direction,
Steve

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         “Take small steps they make a big difference.”

Rebecca,


What a great program and service to people in need of an awakening and clarity for life.

Please express my gratitude to the entire staff and Mr. Fertel for the thorough and thoughtful nature of the program. When people like Mort invest in a work such as this it gives me hope that there is both moral clarity in the world and a strong desire by some in society to shine a light so that others can see. My heart and soul have been blessed. I am on the road to expressing myself and my love to my spouse in a healthy non-manipulative way that fills my heart with true joy.

My hope is that others will be enriched by me starting a-new life with a healthy process and new knowledge and disciplines in place. I trust that the things I have learned and put into action will serve me in marriage and in life.

“Take small steps they make a big difference.”

(PS: You are welcome to use my testimonial but please use only my first name)

Thank you and keep up the good work.

monte

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"Thank you for saving my marriage – you are a miracle worker"

Dear Mort,

 

As you know, when I first contacted you I was in a desperate state.  I had been in a bad marriage for 27 years and several weeks ago my husband and I had yet another horrible fight that proved to be “the last straw” in our relationship.  Although the next day when things calmed down and I could see and think more clearly, re-evaluate the previous night's events and apologize, my husband was “done” and had completely shut down.  The situation was so bad that he actually sought out an attorney to file for divorce and was planning to move out.  I did all the things I knew I shouldn't do – I begged, I pleaded, I cried; I wrote letters and e-mails and tried to “talk” but this just pushed my husband further away.  I was facing losing the man I love and didn't know what else to do.  And then I found your program.

 

Mort, after just over one week on your program I am ecstatic to say that my husband and I are back together and completely committed to making our marriage work.  He is no longer moving out and divorce proceedings have been halted.  I couldn't believe it!  After following your advice and implementing the tools you gave me, I saw an amazing transformation and have re-connected with my husband on a much deeper level.  I know this is just the first step, and am looking forward to completing your program and making my marriage better, happier and more loving.

 

Thank you for saving my marriage – you are a miracle worker!

 

With heartfelt thanks,

 

Ann A .

 

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"Within 1 week we had had the

most incredible connection. "

Dear Mort,

Thank you so much for all you've done over the past 7 weeks by investing your time, personal energy & creative talents into our marriage. You not only helped save our marriage, but you showed us what we were missing in our lives to make our marriage incredible! We know now what it takes to make it work and have realized, it's actually fun & exciting to behave in this alternative manner!  We thank god for leading us to your website & connecting us with you. You are truly blessed with an awesome talent!

7 weeks ago my husband and I were through . We had a huge fight in the car in the M cDonald's parking lot as we were waiting in the drive thru to have our order taken.  Being that there have been many more arguments and close calls to our marriage that have built over the 19 years we've been together, he screamed at me in a manner I've never seen in him before, got out of the car, and told me he had had enough!  He exclaimed we're through, that he was DONE! And he slammed the door in my face. 

With the baby in the back seat and me left in the drive thru, i pulled out of line and to the side of the parking lot and just cried as he started walking up the thru-way away from me.  After finally getting in the car so I could take him to work, We both talked and cried all the way there (30 min) of how I was wrong, he was wrong, still making each other extremely mad.  Hours went by, no phone calls, no emails.  As I waited for his call, email, text message, whatever...I researched marriage counselling online and found your website.  Finally I gave in and I emailed him at work and I told him about you & sent him the link to your site.  I told him I loved him and that I didn't want to end our marriage, no matter how mad we we're and explained that I wanted to give it once last shot. He Instant messaged me on the computer and told me to hold on, he'd check out the website.  He came back and said. He didn't want to spend the money, we didn't have it!  We made the decision that WE WE'RE WORTH IT!, Plus you're  money back guarantee helped to instill in him that if he didn't think it was working, we had nothing to lose.  So he messaged me back and said "Fine. Sign us up."

Within 1 week we had had the most incredible connection. Something I swear we hadn't felt in over 10 years!.....The 2nd week had even more great ideas.  Neither of us was wrong, come to find out!  We we're BOTH just not meeting each other's needs.  I honestly didn't think I was part of the problem, however, This program helped me realize that not only did my husband have a problem that was believe it or not "somewhat easy" to get started to correct but I too had things that we're sabotaging our marriage.  We both put forth the effort 110% because you made it fun and non-threatening, no one was getting blamed, there was no finger pointing!  No matter how wrong one of us was about any particular marital issue, we we're made to take responsibility for ourselves ! You helped to put laughter back into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each other again even after we had reason to never trust again.  I couldn't believe how helpful you could be in the 10 minute laser coaching sessions! Those 10 minutes each week were a new way to rejuvenate last minute  problems, you may not have covered yet  & I couldn't believe how much you put behind each persons questions & concerns on the Q&A, you  made everyone's questions have answers that would benefit all of us! I felt like every single teleconference was catered for us like you had hidden camera's within our household all week and then tailored the teleconference for us.  It covered EVERYTHING!.....God has given you such an incredible talent.  You have no idea, how thankful we are that he created you!

Thanks,

DL & JL
Buffalo, NY

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"...still together and enjoying a relationship like we haven't had in many many years"

Hi Rebecca,
I have very much enjoyed the program and am happy to say that the Marriage Fitness program has saved my marriage. In Feb of 2012 my husband told me that he thought we should divorce when we were just shy of our 25 yearn anniversary. I was fortunate to find Mort's book, then the main program.
Here we are now in almost July of 2013 ...still together and enjoying a relationship like we haven't had in many many years. I can't thank Mort enough!
 
Michele C.


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"changing the marriage paradigm"

Mort,
Outstanding.  Just outstanding!
You really tell it like it is!
One of the biggest lies marrieds
tell themselves is that it's okay to act single.  What a crock.
Thank you for your insight and rigorously high standards.
No one, absolutely no one gets to the heart of the problem and solutions to marriage issues like you do.  Your creating a forward movement and trend that's changing the marriage paradigm.  You are amazing. A prophet, if I might refer to you, because you do fit the requirements.  A lot people are uncomfortable with your truth.
I for one cheer you on and can't wait to hear more from you!
Deana and Tim

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"No words can express just how much I really do appreciate"

Hi Mort.
I write this mail to say thank you for the love and support and encouragement when all seemed so bleak. I have never been one for the 'counsellor's couch' but I must say you have helped me immensely. No words can express just how much I really do appreciate. So with these few words I say.. THANK YOU!

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"We are working on the relationship that everyone wants but does not know how to get it. "

Your program gave me hope when I had lost it. After going to a marriage counselor and a pastor, your program was what kept us together and gave us the tools to make the changes in ourselves that we needed to improve our marriage. After 39 years together, I can truthfully say that I am happier in my relationship with my husband than I have ever been due to the tools of your program. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I know that there still will be rough roads and disagreements, but I feel that we can get through them. We are working on the relationship that everyone wants but does not know how to get it.   I have referred your program to several other friends and hope that they take the chance to a great program. THANK YOU!  CJ

(I would prefer to use my initials only thanks)

 

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"Just know that [the program] helped me to get beyond this mountain of hurt. "

Hi Mort,

 

I was involved in your tele boot camp a few months ago. I was in the lone ranger track. At the time I joined I thought, "What am I doing. This is crazy! Now I am joining a bunch of strangers on some online thing!" But I was searching for answers. I was in individual therapy, I was buying books, and my husband and I were separated with no communication and lack of any motivation on either side. I was devastated and had no where to turn. I really felt we were on our way to a divorce. My husband moved out, he was having an affair, and our life was spiraling out of control.

Anyway, after being in your boot camp for almost 7 weeks, you and I had a 10 minute phone conversation and you said something that really helped me break my wall. You said that you had pegged me as someone who was a very capable business person, strong personality, but very hurt and confused. When one has a capable and strong personality they are really thrown for a loop because they are usually in control and now they are so out of control that they can't understand anything that is going on because it makes no sense to them. You said to me, "Nancy, you're RIGHT, your husband has done a horrible thing, something he should not have ever done, he is not communicating with you, you don't know what is going on with him, but are YOU going to be RIGHT and live the rest of your life on your own with your family broken up or are YOU going to do the RIGHT THING and try to save your marriage and your family?"

I think I actually laughed for the first time, believe it or not, but I was so hurt and lonely and confused and you reached through the phone to give me a swift kick in the rear! Here I wanted hugs and sympathy but you knew at that time to shake me up and get to the core of what I needed to do.

I finally realized that I had to find a way to get over the pain and the hurt and the betrayal such an act does to your soul and find someplace to start to heal myself and my family. I was ready at that moment to give it one more try and to really and truly start using some of your methods.

Long story short, after 6 months of separation, little or no marriage communication and being ready to finally file for divorce, my husband and I are back together, he is living at home once again and he seems truly remorseful and is starting to change himself. I see a different look in his eyes that was not there before and a willingness to try on his part. I am now in great hopes that we can save our marriage and our family.

I know you read hundreds of emails a day, and you may not read this one, but thats OK, I just wanted to take a moment and thank you for your program and your persistence. Just know that it helped me to get beyond this mountain of hurt.

Thank you.

Best wishes,
Nancy A.

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"You  not only changed my marriage, you changed my life"

You  not only changed my marriage, you changed my life. i was very unhappy and complainer with my marriage. in 5 years marriage i was discourage and finally gave up i left my husband twice, when i start receving your free marriage counseling online emails i start changing and want to give one more chance for my marriage. i told my husband about this program you provide, this time he said no more counseling we already tried three of them and didn't help us. then I sign up for lone ran ger program and I start changing all my question s got answer am getting the wisdom. you are my miracle God send you in my life i really  susggest this program 100%.
God bless you and your family
p.s please edit my writing. also if you want detail or  if you have questions i am willing to provide.
thanks

 

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"I was able to get my marriage back on tract and overcome all the termoral"

 Hello Rebecca,
I am happy to say that found Mort's program on the internet and he helped me more than anyone will ever know. I have been with my husband 21 years and 11 of those years as a married couple. We always had a great relationship and I never realized how many people looked up to us until we were falling apart. Our lives had changed do to several overwhelming circumstances that put a huge strain on our marriage. Thanks to Mort and the marriage fitness program I was able to get my marriage back on tract and overcome all the termoral that had come between us. It helped be through the hardest time in my life. Thanks Mort

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"In just seven weeks my focus changed to be more positive, loving and self-aware."

Dear Mort,

I feel the Marriage Fitness program was exactly the support I needed to start up
what I learned by reading Marriage Fitness.

Your motivating seminars were full of inspiration and guidance, they gave us the knowledge and skills we needed to turn our marriage around in the right direction.

In just seven weeks my focus changed to be more positive, loving and self-aware. The results exceeded my expectations; I now look forward to my marriage growing stronger.

I know the journey is just beginning but I have the boot camp and your dedication to thank for getting our marriage this far, the rest is up to us.

Sincerely,
J.B., Toronto, Canada

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"The end results are that we are staying together"

We really loved and learned a great deal from using Mort Fertel's program for couples!! My boyfriend is very quiet & withdrawn type man where I'm a talkaholic type gal, so we were unable to straighten out many important issues, until I found Mort's marriage counseling online. The end results are that we are staying together,  Thank You Mort

                                                        Tina I .

 

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"Not only was the program absolutely worth while, it   was fun to do!"

Not only was the program absolutely worth while, it was fun to do!
It breaks down the barriers too remind you "why & how" you fell in love with each other in the first place, and shows you how to recapture those momnets and feelings, and most importantly, to take it forward.

M.A.C.

Ft.Lauderdale, FL

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"I found the boot camp gave us the

support we needed"

Dear Mort

When my wife started to your Marriage Fitness program it was sort of in disguise
and then opened up to me what she was reading and linked me to your website
and the marriage boot camp and the free online marriage counseling and what I thought. After briefly looking over I
was interested in trying it out.

I thought the weekly seminars were informative and motivating and the
post reports the following day were a good recap or review for those who
need a second chance.

The homework assignments were really good for the reason that it got you
to read and use the book in many different ways and forced us to really work
out our differences right from week one.

I found the boot camp gave us the support we needed, the Q & A sessions
helped people open up and direct you in the right way to a positive way. But
that is just the beginning and their is alot more work ahead of us , with
all your help and support.

thank you for putting our marriage in the right direction and its nice to
know you are their for some support if needed

Thank you

J.S. , Toronto, Canada

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"We have been to 3 different therapists together. None of them has helped me as much as your book alone. "

Mort,

I am finding your program to be eye-opening and extremely helpful in me making positive changes. My wife has noticed a change for the better.

We have been to 3 different therapists together. None of them has helped me as much as your program alone.

Thanks much.

RR

Ellicott City , MD

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"I am confident that our marriage will

survive and become great."

Mort,

Although I am using guidance and assistance from several sources to work on changing myself and to attempt to establish a great marriage, your philosophy and program has been extremely helpful and important in my efforts.

After the last 27 years of a progressively dying relationship, I nearly finished its destruction in trying to change Mary and using problem solving counseling over the past 4 years.  Your program provided critical information and advice.

Prior to your online marriage retreat program, I had great intent in my past efforts but ultimately ended up reacting to Mary's negativity and my intent and efforts ended in failure. Your program provides detailed action steps. 

Mary separated, filed for divorce including consent to divorce and for months was completely adverse to any contact except for the briefest phone discussions limited to logistics matters as to our daughter.  As bleak as that picture is, due mainly to steps that I have been able to implement from your program, we have begun regular talking and sharing times and these beginnings have allowed us to have some pleasant experiences together again. 

Although Mary is still very volatile and hostile at times, insight from your program allows me to recognize and accept that as a natural result of the harm I caused in misguided/unguided prior renewal efforts.  I have hope and your program has given me the information and motivation to be patient.  It is working.

I only regret that I did not know of your program far sooner.  It almost certainly would have prevented the worst errors in my prior renewal efforts that now are greatly delaying the great marriage.  Seeing where things are now compared to where they started, however, I am confident that our marriage will survive and become great. 

  

Thank you for undertaking this calling and recognizing the need for a new approach for marriage renewal.  I am humbled in hearing and realizing how troubled so many other marriages are.  I do not know how you can bear dealing with the pain of so many desperate and wounded souls but I am grateful that you do. 

Paul

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"It is amazing how quickly things have turned around "

Hi Mort,
I just wanted to let you know that since our last conversation, my marriage situation has improved remarkably.   Thank you for your book, CD’s, teleconferences, and your 1-on-1 sessions.  During those 8 months when my husband was having an emotional affair and I was so lost and angry and frustrated, you and your staff (David) helped me to stay the course and continue to work on my marriage.   Without your help, I am sure I would not be where I am today—happily married.   After 8 long months, my husband finally admitted to the affair and ended it.  It is amazing how quickly things have turned around.  

For everyone out there having marital troubles, listen to Mort and follow his advice.  It really works—it is hard but doable, and with results. 

Thank you

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"My marriage is not only going to survive, we are stronger because of what we have gone through, and I truly believe that I have won back my marriage. "