"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "

Dear Mort,

Thank you for your program.  I was driving into my driveway finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.  Upon arriving home, your program had come as well.  Rather than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a disk.  Long story short, we'll be working this out together, getting connected, completing your action steps.  I can't wait to continue connecting.  After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner.  Thank you.

Greg Burke
Denver, CO

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"I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"

Dear mort,

I was reluctant to begin the  lone ranger program.  Wondering how I would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program alone.  Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new habbits used in your program, it is proven to work.  I could not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my husband.  Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program with me he felt it would not help.  So I did not tell him and I started the program.  After a few weeks, my husband had commented he seen a change in me.  I then took the opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness program.  He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference call scheduled and how things are going.  Even though he has not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our marriage.  I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to improve how to be a better you!

Thank you Mort for making us matter...

Sincerely & God Bless

JoAnn S. 

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"I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly,

it is truly amazing. "

Dear Mort,

Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to be true, but I gave it a shot.

I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been. After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

Sincerely,

Melissa K.

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In just the short amount of time we have been part of the Marriage Fitness Program, we have seen a dramatic impact on our marriage.  We have already told others, who have informed us in one way or another they are having marital issues, about the program.  The information we received makes so much sense and is not difficult to apply to day to day life.  It is comforting to know we are not alone with the problems we have experienced and we are being taught by someone who has been through the same issues and is living the principles being taught.  The teacher walks the walk.  Thank you for helping us start the process of saving our marriage, family, and our future.

Stephanie & Mike - Jarrettsville, MD

"Your information was outstanding and actually very simple!"

Mort,

I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories work, but they do!

I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To do my job I couldn't always attend to Q & A's live, but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a lifesaver.

Keep up the good work

Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois

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"We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"

Dear Mort,

If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG

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"WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight"

Although my husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice).  We are just now starting to gather momentum.  When Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to.  Mort is right, IT IS NOT EASY.  But we are not giving up.  WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.

Bonnie and Jim R.

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"[Mr. Fertel] gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems"

Mr. Fertel ,

I have thought long and hard about writing a testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program.  The problem was where to begin and when to stop writing about the success  I have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:

If the term “obstinate spouse” were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the whole page!!

We fit the pattern of couples married for a very long time, 24 years.  In these days odds are against that.  And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into a rut.  Same old routine day in and day out.  Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each other.  My husband started filling his time with church work 4 to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days).  I think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that was only after I complained and complained about never seeing him.  This was the real problem: he was so used to spending time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to 6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage mechanic.  No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank goodness.   I am not blameless either.  I spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some reason it took priority over what little time my husband was home.  So we tried regular marriage counselling.  After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship (chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of financial reasons around Christmas time.  My husband has not mentioned anything about going back.  Imagine spending your 24 th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day with his father!  No “Happy Anniversary” card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always remembered the date.

So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.  I read through the whole site.  And I couldn't believe how much sense his approach to marital problems made.  Yes, it would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us.  Within the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track.  I have read his book, am on the second reading now;  listened to all the CDs, poured through the notebook.  I can honestly say that there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the materials.

He gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems . It's been three full months. And guess what?  My husband has started joking with me again!  I don't remember how long it's been since that happened.  We talk!  He even is starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).

Hope is a wonderful thing;  it's worth all the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.

Susan D.

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"We credit you for helping save our marriage

every chance we get!"

Dear Mort,

We are 2 of your success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every chance we get!

We've continued in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18 months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.

We just had to invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get positive feedback!

THANK YOU MORT!

Penny and Jeff Mazin

"Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading before getting married.

It is really that powerful!"

I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .

Mort taught me how to transform my perception of love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an active process of consistently giving in small ways among other good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.

It is really hard for a person to understand how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in. Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.

I still have work to do to win back my obstinate wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely key but without his Q&A sessions and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.

Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading in high school or at least before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other product or person's services in my entire life.

Stephen B.

Fenwick, ON Canada

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"My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary … thanks to this program. "

    First and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel because his program was exactly what I needed!  This program was a last resort for me because I had done the talking and begging with my husband and it was not working.  I was not reaching him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger Track as a last resort.  At first, I was skeptical because I had never done anything like this before and did not believe this could really work. Once I read through the book and listen to audios I realized where I was going wrong and that I was not the only person going through this.  I started implementing Mr. Fertel's concepts and advice, with great difficulty.  I had zero hope, out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I began to see a slow change in my husband and myself.

   My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 … thanks to this program.  I have and still am implementing the process with my husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him see me as an exceptional wife.  I look forward to reviewing what you have taught me everyday and to make that loving close connection with my husband. I can't thank you enough.  THANK YOU THANK YOU!!   

Forever grateful,

Lillian H.

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"You have helped my husband and myself learn how to get over the pain"

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.

I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever.

Thank you,

M.S. and J.M.

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"It's time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. "

Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes” because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you one day. Good luck!

"Because of you we have slowly recovered the remnants of our lost family"

Good morning Mort,

I want you to know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.

I had the opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.

I too... like many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.

God Bless!

MAJ Sven O.

ADC Section Chief, RAOC

AZ Army National Guard

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"From the first week, things changed"

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Prior to starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my own emotional affair, not to mention the years of financial distress, the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse after all this we thought that it was over. I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the first week, things changed. After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very much for your great program, it saved us and our family.

T.F.

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"Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us"

Hi Mort:

I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.

We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of issues mostly about our blended families. We  even been seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it apart.

Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have been a blessing to us and our marriage!
 
Wes & Irma

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"My relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive"

I never imagined myself resorting to an internet self help program. But I tried everything else with my failing marriage and Mort's program seemed promising. I realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits that were killing my relationship and I was totally pushing my husband away. Things now are on the mend and on the upswing and my relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive.

VBL

New York City

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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do. Thanks)

(Jennifer: Yes! Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people! Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)

"After the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again. "

In all the years that we have been together I can honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of roommates.

We just couldn't understand where things went wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together, we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it, even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments that were no longer.

I found Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again.

No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a difference, but we started and continued working with the program after four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .

Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there when we were searching for that help.

Peter & Ruby – Long Beach, CA.

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"It is certain that his program works"

When we started the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.

Mort's program stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.

We both gained new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed to grow.

Our children have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.

Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.

Justin and Jan C.

Elgin , SC

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"Such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past"

Hi Mort,

I recently ordered and received your program.  My husband and I are amazed at your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long road trips. Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past.  We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge change in our relationship after implementing some of your ideas!

Thank you, Mort.  We will definitely recommend your course to friends and family who are struggling with their marriages.  It is the best we have found.

Best regards,

Sandra L. H.

Mammoth Lakes , CA  93546

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"To couples everywhere: believe in the advice that Mort has to offer"

From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .

Dear Mort,

I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.

I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort, my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and that it has really worked.

To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer, because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen. Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty

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"My wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum

change made to our relationship"

Mort,

Having recently completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.

To have our teenage kids advise us that we're "cree ping them out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving each other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a date"), we must be doing something right.

Celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning, considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple as it really was.

Heartfelt thanks.

Tom & Lil

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"It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes."

What meant the most to us was that Mort has been through a difficult situation in his own marriage and practices the techniques he teaches.  They worked…and it shows in the way he talks about his own marriage.  

It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes. While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well. I highly recommend his program for any marriage in need of an awakening.

ST in Altanta

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"In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's"

Dear Mort,

I would like to first commend you on your patients, understanding, and clarity.  I was looking for the ultimate answer to my marriage problems. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but you did it.

Your program is a no brainer if you just think about it…the CD's  explain  in full color what we have been doing to each other. I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can work together again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes the tv doesn't even get turned on.  I thank God every day that I found you. It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives forever. Thanks again.

Sincerely,

Pam W.

P.S. My husband even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even folded the clothes. BIG STEP.

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"It now seems so simple"

Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:05 AM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: God and Your program are awesome

I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery. I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from I love you but I'm not in love with you” and my wife wanting a separation to see below:

- Last night my wife bought me flowers and double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)

- She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had not contributed her share to the relationship

- She told me I was a wonderful man

- She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to her

Is God not awesome!!!!!

Thank you for everything.

If you ever need a testimony let me know!

T.E.

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"If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further."

The Marriage Fitness program by Mort Fertel has been a truly transformative experience.  If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further.  It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink of divorce (as we were). This program has even inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort and to our journey to marital success:

                                              Together 

There once was a couple named Robyn and Jeff

Their souls knew each other before they ever met.

They walked down the road of life's path

On their way from a distant and troubled past...

They started along their journey together and

Somehow lost their way - But with Mort, love and

Pat ience they began a whole new day... 

In making their dreams they always knew

Together - would come true...

And so now the journey of healing begins

Back to the path of love where their souls

Have always been...Together!"

Thank you Mort!!  Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski

- Members of The Marriage Fitness Program.  

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"How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug"

Mort,

I'm at a loss for words. How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug (not that you'd let me, LOL).

Mort, you didn't just help our marriage but you changed our whole family. We've been married for 15 years, have four children and were on the brink of divorce. The emotional pain I had inside was so bad it was almost a physical pain. The worst part is that you can't go through pain like that without it having an effect on your children. We tried to shield them as much as possible, but they knew something was wrong. To think of what we were putting them through emotionally, breaks my heart.

We too, tried everything from traditional marriage counseling to Venus and Mars and everything in between. Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our problems were just too big to overcome.

Then we found you. Mort, you honestly were our last ditch effort. I personally thought it was too much money to spend but you offered a money back guarantee and I had full intentions on collecting it. My husband and I decided to give your program a try but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't work and I continued to make plans for a new life without my husband. Then something happened. Not overnight, but it happened. I'm not even 100% sure of what it was, but it was working. I am blown away with how far we have come in just 10 weeks. Everything is different. My husband and I are more in love now than we were on our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn' t s tand being in the same room with him and today I know with all my heart that we will be together forever. Divorce will never be an option for us. Were gonna make it.

I've heard it said that people don't change. What a bold faced lie. My husband was the most stubborn person I knew. He hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every single program we ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once he wasn't being blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to create an environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You totally impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in 15 years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was working. He did a complete 180. We both did.

Knowing what I know now, I would have paid a million dollars for this program and I can't believe you charge so little for what you offer. You literally have every base covered and I know you put your heart and soul into it. This is not just a profession for you. It's not about making a buck. You have a God given gift and you're changing lives.

A few months ago I asked God for help. I didn't know what to do; there was nothing left to try so I left it in his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God, and thank you Mort.

Michelle

Vancouver , BC

P.S. Remember that hug I mentioned earlier? When you go home tonight, please give it to your wife. Tell her that Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks for helping you to become the man that you are. She should know that she played a huge role in saving a family she doesn't even know.

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"...and of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent"

Hi Mort.

It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from different back grounds and had different expectations from one another which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other. Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense, the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is not enough when there is so much to resolve.

One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice- needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent.

What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.

Valerie Kemmer

I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to him. Here are his words:

"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30 years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer

All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to us. VK

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"You have turned me and my life around."

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice. My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!

Julia Z.

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"I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"

We have been married 42 years, but after my husband retired and we spent more time together, our home became a battleground.   My husband seemed to be more satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the program, he responded so positively that the difference in our relationship is almost unbelievable.  Now I believe that by following through with Mort's program our "golden years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by arguments, resentments and anger..

Gillian S .

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"The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there."

September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial

Dear Mr. Fertel,

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was absolutely phenomenal.

First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the eyes of God as well.

Thank you for everything!

Anthony Schiro

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"We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program."

Hello Mr. Fertel,

Your program has helped the two of us so much we wanted to thank you.  We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program.  Thank you Mort Fertel !!!

Marianne and Scott B.

Cherry Hill ,  NJ

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"We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage."

Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that we had no other options and the Divorce process was already started. He gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage.

B.O.

New Jersey

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"As I began to change, he did, too!"

Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.

During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child, my husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the family together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced divorce with four kids under the age of 10!

I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and decided to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope, as I thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel love toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, but I did this program as a last resort just so that I could say that I "tried".”

Once I started the program, my anger began to soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding, rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!

Thank you, Mort!!

A.P.

Illinois

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"Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems."

I would recommend this program to anyone who want to enrich their marriage and especially if they are having marital problems. Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems. Every method he suggested was helpful. This program was hard but very useful. It is a whole new way of looking at things.

I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.

Barbara Harrison

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"Your program nailed down exactly what

was going wrong in our marriage"

Mr. Fertel,

I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.

Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage. After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with problems, etc., we were very tired.

I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.

We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective, not providing any real advice.

I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to separate.

The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings were real.

We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair, romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.

I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at this point.

I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that not much more could be done.

I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they are learning what we have...

Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.

D. Scott Martin

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"I want to say that it was worth every

penny and more."

Hi Mort,

I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth every penny and more.

My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left. We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling, instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me growing.

Thank you
Malissa Olveda

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"Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations."

Mort Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and has chosen to share with the world.  He is compassionate, versatile, humble, real and wise.

When I first purchased the program I was desperate for help and I knew just anything would not work.  Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations.  I adore how Mort approaches the answers with out history; that way you know the answer is not tainted or miss guided in the results.  And that is exactly what you get RESULTS .  My husband is immature, stubborn, insensitive, etc (human).  My husband is also spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what he wants, focused, etc (perfect man for me).  And I truly believe without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for me.   We both came from single parent home and obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to function.   With three girls there love life was looking doomed.  But now we all have hope for tomorrow. 

I was living in a TV Romance Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help and  What Am I Doing Wrong; What the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a promise of never ending drama.  Now I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated sources.  I can now freely give and appreciate everything I receive.  And believe me my husband is the type of man that only listens to other men.  No matter what they said.   If a man told him eating grass was manly he would want it for dinner every night.  So by the grace of God I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and genuine concern (Mort).   While also teach me how to love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get a lot more.  This program pulled me back from legal separations.   I was going to court in the morning and listening to Mort in the evening and then one morning I dismissed everything (a breakthrough).  Of course my marriage is not perfect yet but that is the great thing because now we have so much to look forward to and strive for.  LOVE is really obtainable and really can be kept for a life time.   I would say to anybody that wants to keep there marriage or are not sure if you want to be married you owe yourself the opportunity to try this program.  If you know you are going to lose you spouse because of your mistakes and/or theirs why not try it.  Worst case scenario you are able to walk from your marriage knowing you did all you can do to be the best spouse you can be if you do everything Mort asks you to do.

T. Mitchell

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"...your invaluable information has

found a place in my heart"

Mr. Fertel,

Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and your program.

Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.

Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was the right path to follow.

I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out", my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr. Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"

I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I made a covenant with God to love forever.

It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital redemption.

Sincerely Grant

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"I really wish I would have purchased your course."

Mort,

I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I really wish I would have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and I've lost all.

I held dear.

Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio

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"By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone"

My husband left me 5 ½ months ago after being very unhappy in our marriage for many years. He said I was a good person and friend but that he didn't love me anymore. We have been married for 17 years and like all marriages there were the ups and downs.

Needless to say, this has been the most devastating experience of my life. We have two beautiful children, 14 and 11, and it has been very difficult on them as well. My husband has always a wonderful father and husband but over the years, he started to work more and more and withdraw emotionally from me. We did not take the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me now we were just roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said because sometimes roommates don't like each other and he still considers me a friend.

I desperately tried to search for answers and solutions to this horrible situation. For the first three months I hardly talked to him; I was in so much pain. He, on the other hand, still wanted to help out with the house chores like shovelling snow, helping with the children and so on. It was very painful for me to be near him so I rejected any help at all. I knew I couldn't go for too much longer as it was affecting my whole life, my work, and my children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web site which said I could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness. I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some wonderful and inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of reconciliation because my husband did not want that.

By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone. I became interested in trying his boot camp as a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked the money back guarantee if he couldn't help me. I felt that I could always get my money back. It didn't take long for me to realize that I was receiving help immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions to talk personally with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had changed and was different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain that he has gone through and it was a very moving experience for both of us.

I listen to tapes everyday to and from work and every time I drive anywhere. …we are talking and taking part in family activities together. We went to play pool for the first time ever this past Friday night and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient and want things to move faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my husband from a place deep in my heart for perhaps the very first time in our married life. My husband hugs me when he leaves from our visits and his heart is slowly opening up to me again.

All of this would not have been possible, had I not found Mr. Fertel's program. Everything makes so much sense that I cannot get enough of this help.

Thank you, Mort. I thank God I found you.

Sincerely,

Nelda

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"I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she

had seen a change in me"

Dear Mort,

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.

Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after that she will want to do the program with me.

Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be restored.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho

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"...he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!"

Please pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded to say that after working the program…my husband caved and said he's seen how amazing I still am and it's always been me that he wanted. Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!

Thank you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional therapy!
Best,
Liz

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"We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness"

My husband and I; everything we did got on each other's nerves. Just the sight of him made me mad. We decided to get a divorce and we were waiting for the right time to tell the children.

As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew that I didn't want the typical counseling, dredging through the past -- because I know that it will always be there, but the fact of the matter is you can't change it and it really doesn't help to muddle through it over and over and try to change your feelings about it.

I can't tell you how much it meant to us to have a guideline through it all, we started changing our behavior. My husband's changes started immediately. My changes have been and still are developing much slower. We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.

Shannon and Greg

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"I am beginning to see the positive response from the love of my life."

Hi Mort,

Although I haven't taken any opportunity to personally contact you, use any of my one-on-ones or dial in live to the tele-seminars, you are truly a HUGE part of my every day life! I listen to you every morning and every afternoon on my 45 minutes commute! I have signed up for the after program, and will continue to stay plugged in. I am beginning to see the positive response from the love of my life. I am in this for the long haul and I am doing what I am doing for a life change - not a quick fix to my marriage. I understand everything you say, ask of me and believe in your concept. I do worry sometimes about being a doormat but I am slowly getting some great responses back from my love and I feel this door mat feeling will pass. I am committed for a year, as I change my ways and look to see the positive and at the end of the day, I will know I did the right thing - and at the end of the day - that is all I have right?

I have never spoken to you, or interacted with you, but I feel very close to you and your world! Thank you for the gifts you have given me with your ideas and ways. I am going to make it! And I am confident that my marriage will too. God willing :-)

Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong

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"You can participate at your own pace in the

privacy of your own home."

Hi Mort,

I have found your program to be most helpful for the following reasons:

1. You can participate at your own pace in the privacy of your own home.

2. Your personal and professional experience is radiant and gets results.

3. You're very well versed with intercultural barriers and traditions because you believe that ultimately "LOVE" is spoken in only one language!

4. You provide tools that work and that can be used immediately.

5. Your program is unique in that it is SAFE, provocative, inspiring, and inspires and best of all it gives you tools to GROW.

I have been to traditional therapy before and never have I seen so much offered!

Thank you.

Sheela K.

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"I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together

my shattered life."

As Mort Fertel would say "listen carefully.”

I was at a total loss in my marriage…spinning without a compass. My wife said she wanted out but I wanted to save the marriage. I could hardly function on a daily basis because of the stress. It seemed like my whole world was crumbling at the foundation and I was watching it fall apart. I purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to put back together my shattered life. His writings and talks helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to the kind of attitude I knew I needed to succeed in my situation.
 

Daniel

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"I am soooooooooooo glad I did"

Dear Mort,

I am so glad I signed up for the tele-boot camp.  I didn't have the money and I was very unsure about signing up.  But I am soooooooooooo glad I did. It was a great decision.   It was worth every penny.   My marriage has come alive again.

Thanks to you Mort.

Sincerely,
TL

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MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!!

Dear Mort,

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY (OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS! THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR HELP.

SINCERELY,

KARIN SHELDON

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"It saved my marriage."

I would recommend the Tele Boot Camp to anyone.  It saved my marriage.  We still have a lot of work ahead of us; however, at least now I know what is ahead of us, instead of wondering if it would be divorce.

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"In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us

how to build love on our own."

Hi Mort

My wife and I have been married 3 years and it was hard from the start. We've both been divorced before so this was not our first time trying to make a marriage work. This time was not going well either. My wife had 2 affairs, she left 4 times, and marriage counseling was a disaster. We were on the brink of divorce again. Then I surfed the net and found you.

I ordered Marriage Fitness, hired you for some 1-on-1 coaching, and then registered for the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp!. In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us how to build love on our own.

If anyone is reading this who needs marriage help, get it from Mort. You won't be sorry.

Thank you again Mort for saving our marriage and teaching us how to create love in our relationship.

Martin

Rosedale , Indiana

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"Mort taught me how to single-handedly

save my marriage"

Mort,

I would be more than happy to share my testimonial! Hope it helps, I would like my privacy protected so I will sign my testimonial with initials.

I discovered my husband was having an affair after 18 years of marriage. I confronted him about it and he denied it. Even after I gave him proof of the affair he still denied it. The more I spied on him, the more I confronted him, the more I confronted him,the more defensive he would get! I had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he own up to the affair and end it???

I asked him to end the affair and he said he did, I later found out that he was lying, he had not ended the affair. I asked him to leave our home but he refused. I told him that if he did not end the affair I would file for divorce. The affair continued! I did not know what to do!!! I prayed alot.

I finally got a lawyer and had the initial paperwork completed. I was devastated because I loved my husband and even with this affair going on he said he loved me and did not want a divorce. A divorce was the last thing I wanted.

I searched the internet for help. I prayed for guidance, I came across "Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed up for his emails first. I wanted to make sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and they did. Mort taught me how to re become a woman of moral character. He was encouraging, hard at times and motivating. I thought prior to the affair my marriage was save and in a good place but after going through the homework assignments I found many opportunities to first, fix myself and second, to restore my marriage. My husband and I have good days and bad days but things are much better because of the boot camp. I was in the Lone Ranger Track and at first I did not understand why I had to change if I was not the one having the affair! Mort taught me how to single-handedly save my marriage. I never thought I could do it, but I did.

Thanks Mort,

TS

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"I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!!"

Thank you Mort.

I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!! The points you make during your seminars are great - I liked your mix of the philosophical, religious, and practical life. It was a refreshing departure from much of the reading materials and the approaches of other therapists.

I thank you very much for tha t s upport and encouragement.

Vince

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"I owe it all to Mort!"

From: DMK
Sent: Friday, August 31, 2007 2:35 PM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: My experience with Marriage Fitness

Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Your program is outstanding and truly a god sent for me. I owe it all to Mort! Thank you for being there for me. You are the best. Keep up the great work that you are doing everyday.

DMK

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"I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp"

As a graduate student, I didn't think I could afford the Marriage Fitness bootcamp.  I went to the library and literally checked out and read about a quarter of the way through about twenty books on marriage.  After contemplation, I realized that I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp...my marriage and my sanity were too important to me! I signed up thinking that I might take advantage of the money-back guarantee, but with the sanity I gained in my own soul (I am on the Lone Ranger track), I wouldn't take a penny back.  Mort's multi-dimensional program to this day continues to strengthen my sanity when life throws me not only loops but roller coasters.  I have recommended Mort's program to many people going through everything from pre-nuptial to post-divorce situations.  If you don't gain anything else from his program, I believe you will absolutely at least gain back your sanity and self-confidence. The most important thing I have learned is that although you may have NO control over the other person, you have, with God's help, COMPLETE control over your reactions to situations.  Thank you, Mort! 

Jessica.A.

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" It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning. "

Mort,

John and I are more than happy to give our testimony and I would recommend your program to anyone having relationship difficulties. I'm including a picture too. Taken today.

We've been married 30 years and have 4 children. All of them are on their own now, but our marriage has been going downhill for at least that last 25 years. Your program has made us feel like newlyweds again! Neither of us have been this happy. And with the knowledge that we have gained through the years, applying your techniques and following your program, we are probably more happy than we were even when we first got married. We make love several times a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's good, and we enjoy doing things together that we never did before. It's even difficult to be around others because we don't want to miss a second apart.

We've been going fairly slow in the workbook, but we are getting things done! Counseling would have cost us so much more money and a divorce (which was imminent the day we ordered your program). It was well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this good, even in the beginning.

All I can do is say thank you and your wife for the insight and ideas you have given us.

Blessed Be,
Linda A.

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"We have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for granted anymore"

Hi Mort,

My Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness Program to couples having problems in their marriage whether being because of emotional or physical infidelity. My husband was emotionally unfaithful, and when I first found out about it I was devastated. I was very confused and thought this was the end of our marriage after being married for almost twenty five years. I found out about your program and decided that if we were going to try to save our marriage we needed to try out your marriage fitness program. It helped us see what was the real problem in our marriage, and how to handle our problems. We have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for granted anymore. We both thank God for your help and insight and we wish you the best in helping others with their marital problems.

Regards,
MB

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"Thanks for saving my family"

Mort, just wanted you to know things are great with Justin and me. Our relationship has improved so much. We are spending time together and enjoying each other's company. Learning that it is more important to pay attention to ourselves has made all the difference in the relationship. I sure have changed a lot of things I say and how I react to certain things. This whole 2 yrs has shown Justin and me a lot. He thanks you also. There was really no other way that he could have shown us both that he needed to grow. He didn't know how and just kept it all in until he exploded. He is such a wonderful person. I wish we could have known these things ahead of time. I have referred so many people to you. We continue to have fun and laugh at things now instead of letting everything consume us. Thanks for saving my family. Jan and Justin

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"I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril."

Dear Mort,

I can't tell you how important this experience has been in my life.  The most helpful part for me was the calm, focused, consistent way in which you addressed every issue at the exact time I needed it.  I am sure everyone that looks at your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most important things in your life is in peril.  I have been on the Lone Ranger Track since October and I am not done with the program yet.  I have restarted a couple of times because I needed to hear the lessons again and again.  One restart was recommended by you on our Laser session.  Again, at the exact time that I needed it. 

To the people in need who are reading this....Just get one of the programs.  If you didn't know in your heart that you needed it you wouldn't be here right now.

Thank you so much Mort.  I am forever grateful.   

Amy S.

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"Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way."

Dear Mort,

I have spent just about every free moment that I had over the past 2 1/2 months listening, reading and thinking about your program. I am in the Lone Ranger track and it has been a hard period for me. However, your program has been a comfort to me. It has helped me to see mistakes that I made in my marriage. It has also encouraged me and made me feel validated because there were things that I intuitively recognized, but was not sure if I was on the right path. After reading and hearing the materials my spirit would be encouraged and lifted. I have been able to remain calm and do what is right. Your program makes so much sense and is presented in such an organized and complete way. It has just been a real help to me. Thank you.

Sincerely,
Vicky

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" It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problem"

After going to a marriage counselor and feeling we were not getting much accomplished, we decided to try your Marriage Fitness Program. After participating in the 7-week Tele-Boot Camp, listening to the CDs, doing the recommended exercises etc, we have found it all to be extremely helpful and effective. It was a whole different approach to solving our marital problems and we feel we have made tremendous strides as a result of participating in your wonderful program. Thanks for your help in improving our marriage and for also giving us the valuable tools that were so desperately needed to make it all happen.

Nancy & Brian M

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"I began to actually re-discover what

we "used" to have."

My wife and I were high schools sweethearts and have been married for almost twenty-one years.  After two kids, separate jobs and the ever-increasing pace of life, we found ourselves totally frustrated with each other and on the verge of divorce.  No infidelity or anything; our relationship just seemed "stale" and more work than what it was worth.”

I spent over $250 on various marriage "help" books and we even attended professional marriage "counseling" to help resolve our conflicts and problems.  It wasn't working …we had become masters at blaming each other and resolving conflict by ignoring each other. 

I then came across Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness program.  I purchased the program and decided to take the CD's with me to listen to while driving on a business trip.  When I left for my trip, my wife and I gave each other the robotic, "Drive careful" and "see you soon" rhetoric, but we both could still feel the immense strain between us.  In actuality, I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving for the weekend.

Anyways, after the listening to the first CD, I found myself contemplating my role in our marriage.  I began to actually re-discover what we "used" to have.  Instead of feeling like I was in competition with my wife, I actually started remembering all the things that used to make her feel special...that I was no longer doing.  I called her immediately on the cell phone and told her my revelation.  I told her I couldn't wait to get back to see her and was already missing her.  She began to cry and told me how much she loved me and tha t s he was looking forward to my return.  That reaction alone had been a long time coming.

Upon my return, we listened to the CD's together.  Within a week, our marriage improved immensely.  Mort's perspective on concentrating on the marriage and each other; rather than the "problems"; was the most profound, yet common sense, solution…many of our "unsurmountable" problems simply dissolved.  It was our perspectives and lack of focus on each other that were actually "causing" the problems in our marriage.

Unfortunately, these bad habits had been learned over the last 10-15 years.  We also found if we were not diligent about practicing or focusing on the Marriage Fitness program, our bad habits would resurface (avoiding, ignoring, etc.) and our marriage would begin to slide.  "Plugging-in" each week with Mort gave us that "commitment" we were lacking.  After several weeks, we are not perfect, but "DIVORCE" is not even in our vocabulary.  I look forward to coming home.  My wife looks forward to my coming home.  We enjoy being with each other again.

How much do I believe in Mort Fertel 's approach?

For Chris tmas, I purchased 10-15 of Mort's materials for my family and friends.  I have already heard from a handful who wanted to express their gratitude for my thinking of them.  A co-worker, who has been through three marriages, told me he wished he'd had seen Mort's materials before his last divorce.  It is such a POSITIVE, common sense approach to rebuilding or sustaining ANY marriage.

Rob & Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR

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"your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage"

Hello, Mort!

Just talked with Adina to pass along the fantastic news...my husband this past Friday asked if he could move back to our home and is committed to reconciling our relationship and marriage!  He even has agreed, although we're both still a little tentative and "getting to know each other again", to in the coming months take a vacation somewhere tropical/exotic (we like those kinds of places) and - in a very private ceremony with only me, him, and our 6 y.o. daughter - renew our marriage vows.  We'll either do it there or at the church we got married in, although I would love it to be on a warm beach under an arch of flowers at sunset!

Thank you SO MUCH...your program very seriously was the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage and gave me the tools to work with as well as the understanding of why my husband was acting the way he did and why my "gut feel" was actually making the situation worse.  I will always be in your debt and will continue to strongly recommend the program to any friends or acquaintances who are in a period of marital difficulty or just want to make their marriage the best it can be!

Warm regards and huge thanks,

Christine V.

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"THANK YOU for our second chance! "

Hi Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you know that my husband and I have reconciled. I owe everything to you and your program. I did the lone ranger track and with sharing things with my husband we are more in tuned to each other than we ever were---even when we were dating. I learned a lot about myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect. I'm also doing your plug in program and WE are working real hard at our marriage. THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.

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"...the best thing we ever did"

The marriage fitness program is the best thing we ever did and while we realize we will never stop going through the marriage renewal process we credit our current happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.

Sincerely,

T & C

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"With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work"

We ordered Marriage Fitness, even though we are not married yet, because we have been in our relationship for 3 ½ years and were unsure if we wanted to be with each other or not. We figured love was just supposed to be there for us. With Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work. All of the ideas we have learned and all of the stories we have heard, brought us closer together. We are very excited what tomorrow will bring. We vowed to each other to use this all of the time . This was well worth the time and effort. We communicate in a much more positive way. This program has opened up our eyes on how important we are to one another. Without Marriage Fitness, we would both be single today.  Thanks Mort!!
 

Patty and Shane

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"He did find his love for me again and it had come back even stronger than every before"

Hi there Mort, I want to thank you for a wonderful job you have done for my marriage. My husband was having an affair about four months ago, which was going on for abour four months. I confronted him in the beginning of February and he admitted to me that he was having an affair. What broke my heart was that he said that he did not love me anymore and that he loved this other woman. We were married for twenty five years and I thought to myself that I am not going to throw that away and that I am going to fight for my marriage. My husband and I had a lot of tough years behind us and we also had money problems and there was always something there that kept us togethere in those hard times, so I was not going to let this problem break up our marriage and I was going to fight with all the strength that I had in my body to keep my marriage together. My husband had had many affairs before and I had always forgiven him, but this time it was different, because he had never told me that he had loved these other women, he also told me that he had no more feelings for me and that he sometimes wonders if he had ever loved me. Well, let me tell you, I fought and it was very tiring and stressful; I went through all the emotions; I was very insecure. We had sat down and had a very long talk and I told him that I do not believe him when he says that he does not love me anymore and that I know that he does not love this woman, it is only infatuation and he will still find out that he does love me. I do not know how long it will take I said to him, but it will happen. We started going away for the weekends, just the two of us and there was a time that he was still in contact with this other woman and then we would have a long talk again and so life went on. AND YES, HE DID FIND HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER BEFORE. Just last night he told me that his love for me gets stronger by the day and that when he is at work, he will send me a sms via cell phone, telling me that he cannot wait to hold me in his arms tonight and that he misses me when we are at work. Our love for one another has never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the day. On the 19th of July this year, we will be celebrating our 26th wedding anniversary. I know that the Lord is the one that did the most work in our marriage, because I was forever asking the Lord to help us and he answered my prayers. I never told him that I told you so, but deep in my heart I say that to myself, that I knew all along that his love for me was always there, he just had to find that out for himself and I thank the lord every day for the love that we have for each other.

God Bless you.
Sheree

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"We are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been"

Hi Mort,

Durward and I are excited and pleased with the program, and I am SO impressed with Durward's attitude, AND his complete co operation with attending the sessions.

He gave up ANY contact with the woman with whom he was having the affair, and has had NO contact of any sort with her since Dec. 22nd, when he told her that he would not contact her, and asked her NOT to contact him.

Durward is arranging his whole life to make time for the program… We are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have been.  Our sex life is more deep and frequent and satisfying than it has been since the first days of our marriage. And for the FIRST time EVER, Durward seems to be awake and aware of the life keeping services I have always provided, and which he always took for granted. I am stunned by the wonderful things he has done. He is headed home from California , and will be here Monday, and BOTH of us are missing each other, and can hardly wait to see one another. Thank you for helping us.

Barbara Anne Ashley              

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"Your course saved our marriage"

The advice and the concepts you asked us to apply for marriage renewal has changed my life, and even though I did the lone ranger track, I can say that your course saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage, our relationship had become unbearable for me, in the way we related on almost every level, both with regard to actions and "no action." I knew that I cared for my wife, but the relationship had become almost too difficult for me to continue. Even though we discussed what we each wanted from the relationship, we were not able to get our relationship back onto a course of treating eachother decently, much less romantically. Now, in just two months, there has been significant benefits, and a real opening up by each of us to each other's needs and desires, and I have not been this happy and content in years. I had gone to counseling, and invested substantial sums to try to solve our marriage problems, but the counseling was of little benefit, especially compared to the changes that were effected by your advice to learn how to love another, and I cannot express how valuable your course has been to my life and happiness. I have no doubt that I will review what you taught, and look forward to a very loving and close relationship with the companion I love.

J.B.

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"What I have learned from you and your program can not be measured"

What I have learned from you and your program can not be measured.  I feel like I am finally learning how to be the person and the spouse that I really want to be.  Your course is not just a marriage course.  It's a LIFE course.  I wish I could find a way to convince everyone I know to take your course just so they could benefit from the life values that you teach … I find myself wanting to share what I've learned from you and yet I have a difficult time articulating myself because I can't describe the magnitude of what I've learned.

I've been and still am in the Lone Ranger track of your program … things are improving.  And I'm optimistic that there is a light at the end of our tunnel.  I would and do recommend this program to anyone.  Thank you so much for your wisdom, insight, and constant sensitivity to such difficult and heart breaking issues.  You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself feeling better for having taken your advice.  Now that's constructive!

I look forward to continually learning more from you and your experience.  Thank you so much for such a wonderful program.  I surely would have been in a divorce by now if it weren't for Marriage Fitness!

Most Sincerely,
Susan

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"I don't know where our relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up."

Dear Mort,

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was a great experience for myself and my husband.  I don't know where our relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up.  I don't really believe in divorce but the way things were going, I was starting to consider it!  Today, we are both working together to fix our relationship and we are very glad we ran into this program when we did.  We have a son and we want what's best for him too, and nothing can make him happier than seeing his parents happy.  We know we have just begun to make changes, but we are grateful for your support and knowledge.  What we really find appealing is that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like.  Thank you for sharing your life story with us and allowing us to see where our marraige can be if we both make some simple changes.

Thanks again,
I.F.

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"We are more in love now than we were

when we got married! "

Hey Mort,

My husband and I hit rock bottom over the summer.

He has Chron's Disease and was misdiagnosed for years (15 to be exact). I begged and pleaded with him to go to another doctor but he refused since his mother and sister found the doctor he was going to.

Daily I would fix 3 meals a day for him and daily he would throw them out. As if that wasn't frustrating enough he was EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful to me yet would call his mom and sister daily and would ALWAYS end the call with “I LOVE YOU” then be a jerk to me. I had it!

I would sit and think of all the times that he would leave me and go running to be with his mom and sister including the day after we got married. He waited for me to jump in the shower and left to go on vacation with them, without ever saying a word to me. Needless to say there's a real bad history between me and his mom and sister. That issue is what drove me to my breaking point.

Confused and frustrated I turned to the internet looking for some kind of answer. Should I stay miserable or should I try to rebuild a totally destroyed marriage that I did. I e-mailed Mort and his response was that there is always hope. So, I signed up for the lone ranger course knowing that my husband wouldn't be on board with me. He thinks he's perfect. I started the program and followed the suggestions.

We are more in love now than we were when we got married! I know that it's a process that needs to continue to be worked on and we will but it TRULY saved us. I'm so happy that I made two very important decisions 1) Did Mort's program and 2) Decided to rebuild our marriage, I can't imagine my life with anybody else but Patrick.

                                                                         Sincerely,

  Lori A.                                                               

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" your program has made me a new man"

Hi Mort

Your program has made me a new man...and in return feeling so much better we still have work to do but it is amazing how you feel When you let go of past stuff I'm doing this as a lone ranger and I'm having a positive affect on my wife thanks Mort I've told so many people to go to your web site.

Chris W.

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"The program is simple but brilliant."

I just finished up with the teleboot camp and I have to say it works.  I was in the lone ranger track yet my actions definitely impacted my spouse and of course our marriage.  My spouse has severe unresolved issues from the past, but once Mort taught me to temporarily put that aside, I got to see the good side in my man once again.  It takes real personal work but it's well worth it. The program is simple but brilliant.  If you don't end up changing your marital situation, you still would've changed yourself - and that's the best success!!

thanx Mort

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"I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time."

Before I registered for your program, my husband and I were thinking of divorce especially I was. I had planned to at least separate for one year first and break off slowly because I have been a house wife for 26 years and I need to reestablish my ability to earn money. ..

The first week that I was listening to

your teleconference, I got it. I have

been doing small things that you

suggested. ..Ever since that time he is

no longer fighting to me. We are not

intimate yet but civil and respect one

another. The dynamic has changed to a

positive one. He recently gives me my

50th b'day present. .. I am making

myself stronger everyday and trying to

make our marriage stronger a little at a time. Thanks to your message and help of many of my friends and my church I am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a time. One day I called him to come home to eat lunch and he came. Before that time he would say he is too busy no matter what I cooked for him. I was so glad he come home and eats. He seems to stay home a lot longer than before. We do a lot of small talk.

Thanks to your program. I am grateful

that I sighed up, all your advice works.

Sometime one person can make a

different. I can see my future because I got the right tools that work on my belt and support from my family, and my church and your techniques.

I am ready to face our marriage toward

happier for all of us. I am ready to

fight for our lives for the rest of my

life to stay strong, for us as a unity.

Please do not use my name but you can

use my initial. Thanks again.

JT

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"WOW, was I surprised! "

Dear Mort,

I am writing to you for all of the couples out there that are wondering whether or not this would be beneficial program for them. I found myself wondering the same thing about 8 weeks ago when I read about the Tele-Boot Camp program. My marriage of 25 years was over, my husband had a 3 week affair and had left the house, our 2 daughters and me. He was unwilling to work on anything and had decided he wanted a divorce. I felt completely out of control,  the counseling didn't seemed to be helping. All I could see was everything I thought I new to be true about our marriage was wrong. I didn't know what to do, all I was sure of was I still loved my husband and I didn't want a divorce. I found Mort's program on the Internet and was sure nothing was going to help me or my situation. I joined the Tele-Boot Camp in the "Lone Ranger Track" meaning I did the program without my husband. I figured I had nothing to lose and everything to gain. I wasn't sure how this stranger was going to help when I couldn't, and I lived with this man for 25 years, WOW, was I surprised!

I listened to the Cd's, read the book, did the homework and followed the guidance that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences. I wasn't sure if this was going to work, but the amazing thing I started to notice was I no longer was feeling out of control, I found I was calmer, more focused and very excited at the subtle little changes that would periodically occur. At our final question and answer seminar I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that I had a positive yet small break through with my husband. I had invited him out to a movie and he went, then 2 days later he called to talk and later that day he invited me to go for a ride with him. This was so encouraging, the Memorial weekend was coming up and the best news was about to come. My husband and I spent very day together, boating, fishing, just being together!

I still have a long road ahead but I look forward to the work, the break through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband and myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage. Thank you Mort for the guidance, the encouragement and all of the support. I hope my story helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful about the program, I would recommend Tele-Boot Camp to all!!

Sincerely,

R.L. Michigan

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"Your program was very insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me"

Dear Mort……

I am not sure where to begin. Everything you have taught me seems so practical but something we forget over time.  Today I am applying the techniques even though I am a lone ranger, and I can se e change … I am a better man, a better Dad and a better spouse than I ever was before.  Your program was very insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me.  Your advice is absolutely right on the mark and has helped me tremendously.  And it seems that when I am struggling I get that one email or piece of advice from you that makes me think it all through a little more clearer.   Thanks for helping me out.

G . O

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"Thanks a million times over for getting us on the right track and for your help."

Mort,

Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill and I did not completely make it through all the program; we did complete all the tele conferences and the Q&A's and basically got through step 3 of the 4 part program. Our Notebook suffered as during the last 2 weeks of our program Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer so our focus completely changed.

The program did wonders and continues to do wonders. We fixed what we had broken due to lack of focus on each other and continue to practice everything we learned.

The program was fantastic as I could not - without your Q&A's make Bill understand what he was doing wrong without appearing extremely selfish. By the timie I received the program, I thought I was going crazy, then I went through all th Q&A's looking for answers and found them. I marked the one's he should difenetely listen to and explained that if these do not address our problems, nothing will. Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the first three steps of the program, we quickly got back on track and remain so.

Now to get through our next test! Thanks a million times over for getting us on the right track and for your help.

Natty & Bill B.

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"If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take"

Mort,

I would like to thank you for creating the Marriage Fitness Progam,  I did the Lone Ranger in February and before starting I was skeptical as to how much this program would help my marriage.   As I went through the program I realized that my way of behaving had a lot to do with the deterioration of my marriage.

I started listening to the CD's and once I started doing the exercises is when I realized that changes needed to be made. 

If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take, it really does help you see what you need to fix in yourself and teaches you how to approach your spouse in a loving way.

Thank you for giving me the tools to see what a great marriage I could have.

IAR

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"Our house is a home once again but a better

one than before"

Hello Mort,

I don't know if you'll be reading this or if your very nice assistant will.(Sorry, I forgot her name)

I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD news since I'm sure you like to hear about marriages that have been saved. My husband Curt had wanted a separation, got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation. Two months to the day before I could have been receiving divorce papers from his lawyer, Curt asked to move back home instead.

Our house is a home once again but a better one than before. Communication is more open, honest and we speak and listen lovingly to each other. What a testimony of God's faithfulness for us, our children and others who watched us through the past year's storm! You can even find us all together every Sunday at church! (A new church that is uplifting and offers hope instead of warnings of fire and brimstone).

I still have notes from our discussions. Looking back, many suggestions you made were just what our relationship needed.

Thank you again for your encouraging words.

Sincerely, a survivor and new person,

Samia B

Charlotte, NC

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"Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship"

Dear Mort,

One year ago I contacted you via your web site for help. My marriage had been marginal to say the least for several years. My husband told me the day before Thanksgiving that he didn't love me any more and thought I should move into our vacation house in another state. He was sure I would be happier there. I was in such horrific shock I just did what he asked. Once there I realized this was not what I wanted and I was going to do everything I could to save our marriage of 32 years. To add to the pain I discovered the day after Christmas he was seeing an old High School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately came back home. I had to give it one more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness program in the lone ranger track and began doing the things your program suggested. Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our relationship. He refused to go to any kind of counseling, so I just continued by myself in the Lone Ranger Track. As I worked the program he seemed to respond in kind and it wasn't long before things were better than ever.

Thank You Mort!

This past year has been the best year of our entire relationship. I would recommend this program to anyone who is having problems in their marriage.

It works!!!!!!!!!

Linda

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"I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program."

Dear Mort,

I wanted to thank you for your program and your support during our 1 on 1session.  Just wanted you to know that my husband and I are getting back

together.  It has been a long road and at one point I almost gave up and started to move on with my life without him.  Funny how that letting go was

just what he needed to find me again.  Anyways, we are making plans for our future and I will continue with your plugged in sessions since they have become

so valuable to me.  To be honest I wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn

the skills you advocate in your program.  Without that, I may have been hurtful and cruel, behaviours that benefit no one.  Thankfully I was able to stay loving to my husband throughout our difficulties and now I can see that our relationship will be stronger for it.

Thank you for being there.

Melody M.

Alberta Canada

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"Thank you, and the Mrs., for

sharing your wisdom with us."

I have to say this series has recharged my hope in my relationship. You simply have spelled it out.

For my husband, who has not had the opportunity of seeing, knowing, experiencing, or learning the tools and skills of a positive relationship, you have provided an easy to understand program and "To Do" list. I can't wait for him to get started.

Yes, I got through the series first, and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were my issues, and I cannot ask more of someone else than I am willing to do myself, and do first.

My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb". It made me think of everyone in my life from our children to co workers and how I interact with them. Am I sending them a clear message of my definition of our relationship? Some should be getting more, some need to be receiving less.

Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing your wisdom with us.

R.P.

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"All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU."

I don't know who gets these emails, but I surly hope someone can express my appreciation to Mort.

Today I got the second email Talk & Touch. I just had to share this. My wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been going through hell with the separation. Probably because I was doing all the wrong things!

This evening, I called my wife and we had a conversation. WOW was it wonderful. Just a very simple conversation, yes I slipped a couple of time and told her how much I love and miss her and wanted her to come back home but for the most part we just talked about things.

Because I honestly cannot remember the last time this happened, and I'm sure she cannot either, I'm betting that her jaw was on the floor. I didn't do this to put her jaw on the floor but I think she was shocked.

When I could tell that she was ready to end the conversation, I let her know that I understood and I tried to say goodnight. Rather than just ending it right then and there as she would have before, she took time to explain to me that she didn't rest well last night, the time change affects her in a negative way and she was tired. I told her no problem, good night, sweet dreams and I did slip in another "I Love You!"

All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU. I'm learning so much

David

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"Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give me hope"

Dear Mr. Fertel:

Please share with others how you give people, especially in the Lone Ranger Track, the strength and endurance to go on to reconcile their marriages. For the right reasons.

So many people, including therapists and well-meaning friends, have advised me to leave my marriage. I almost feel ridiculed by others in my dedication to my marriage and my spouse. Until I encountered you and your program.

Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give me hope. For the right reasons. You are helping me learn from this painful experience. When every one else almost "derails" me in my vision to learn the most I can about myself and reconcile my marriage. I feel inspiration and motivation from you to continue in my efforts.

I have to admit your amount of personal dedication is impressive. You provide an abundance of material that requires much effort to assimilate in a relatively short amount of time. But that is in accord with your belief in how hard one should work in their labors of love to protect their marriage.

You walk your talk. You are personally involved. I never imagined I'd have opportunities to actually speak with you. And you provide ongoing follow-up after the initial program.

Yours truly,

Dianne DF

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"After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family"

Mort,

Just wanted to take a minute and thank you for the inspiration and the success on repairing my marriage.  After a four month separation in different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family.  I would love to say it is peachy and rosy, but the fact of the matter is we have a long way to go.  I have you in my corner that can help the forward progression that I believe is most important in the healing process.  I was doing the lone ranger track and by the end of the program my wife was not only listening to the teleconferences she was participating in the Q and A.  Thanks again.

Randy and Stacy C.

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"...he actually said he loved me..."

Dear Mort,

I signed up for your e-mails 9 months prior to actually joining the boot camp. I would read the emails and save them and reread them and sometimes foward them to my husband. They were amazingly right on … Your message is extremely powerful and also very sincere. On one of the CD's the wife breaks down into tears and one can sence your empathy and sincerety. My husband has actually come a long way. We do the date nights as suggested and that is terrific. I tell him I love him, because I cannot hold that back. I told him there is no need for him to respond to that. But that I love him and I cannot just not say it. I'm sure you are not surprised to know he actually said he loved me while away for a two day business trip!

One of the Q&A's in our boot camp the wife asked about having sex. Your answer was soooo amazing. You said why not you are married go ahead and have sex. My husband and I kinda looked at eachother surprised. Laughed. Said why not? And we have been having sex. Such a silly thing, but so powerful.

I realize with my entire being that this program can work. It is not easy most of the time, but to hear the hope and the determination from your listeners on the Q&A is very moving. I am taking your "fast is slow and slow is fast" quite literally. Our problems have evolved over a decade, so I believe if we move ahead at our own pace, change will come.

Pat -married 34 years and still learning to put love first.

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"This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning."

Mort, your marriage bootcamp was amazing. It made us aware of what was really important. We were trying to fix things that were draining to us emotionally and you showed us that those things were not the issues. They were the result of what we had forgotten to do. This program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning. This truly is the way. Everyday is a new day and now we have the neccessary tools to rebuild our marriage and do it the right way this time.

J & J

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"We have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic"

Hey Mort... We just got off the phone for this months Q&A. I wanted to share this with you during the call but seems like a lot more people needed to talk than we did. We have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic. Things don't or didn't happen all at once and things will not stop happening ..This is our way of life now. Here is an example of some things that are happening - Our family was on a trip this past weekend in the mountains (this was a business/pleasure trip mixed) . 2 things happened that I hope I never forget. The first was that we stopped to get a hot beverage (tea and coffee) and before I knew what was happening he was fixing my tea the way I liked it and I was fixing his coffee the way he liked it. We were both thinking of the other person....That was a great feeling... The second thing that happened was that we were talking to one of his co workers ( this is the first time I had met him) and the conversation turned to how long each one of us had been married. We told him almost 15 for us. He said it was great to see that we still had that sparkle in both of our eyes.

Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help you have given us, the support and the knowledge that you are there for us. We are loving this...

T.M.

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"My husband even passed me a compliment "

Dear Mort:  I joined as the Lone Ranger because I felt I needed to do something .. .  I didn't realize what I  was getting myself into but became addictive after reading your daily emails.  The teleconferences, books, cds are of the utmost quality.  I found myself listening to the teleconferences over and over at the office instead of the local radio station.  While driving, your cd  has been plugged in. The workbook  replaced Dr. Phil McGraw.  I'm achieving positive results … with the tools that you have made available … After seven weeks, I feel great!  My husband even passed a compliment "Wow you look great!  Is that a new outfit"  I just said "Thanks, I feel like I look...great!".  Inside joke, I've had the outfit for years and he never acknowledged it before but what's inside the outfit is different!  I feel better now than I felt prior to taking your course.  Mort, your sincere approach is so felt when listening to these conferences.  For seven weeks, you've been my best friend.  I thank you for you!  I will be continuing with your next program.  Many thanks-Vicki M. , Petaluma, California 

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"This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet"

You won't find a better Marriage counseling program for the money anywhere.

This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if you are not married yet. The reason is this program comes from the heart of someone who understands loss and the value of relationshiips, someone who is sincere and genuinely cares about the people he is tring to help.

John B.

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"Marriage fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start on a different path."

Hi Mort,

Marriage fitness is exactly what we needed at exactly the right time.  We have been married 25 years and like many couples moved away from each other through the years.  We were ready to separate.  The issues and relationship problems seemed so big that we didn't know wha t s tep to take first to begin to fix things.  I felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I didn't have the equipment and I was already so tired I couldn't think of how to take the first step. 

Marriage fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start on a different path.  This program is positive and builds the relationship from day one.  I knew that if things were going to change we would have to begin to see each other differently and start to build the relationship again.  The way the program is designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the results quickly followed.  Somewhere in my heart I knew this was the answer, marriage fitness put it into action. 

Thanks!

Lisa

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"The boot camp deals with NOW and with moving forward which is something you CAN do..."

I am more than happy to offer a testimony for the Teleboot Camp!  In my opinion it is the best marriage course I've heard of or read about.  This course was my last ditch effort to stay in my marriage. I've had one foot out the door for the past 2-3 years, but because of two young children, I have been holding out and looking for miracles. My marriage has been a huge disappointment b/c we have developed horrific habits and treat each other badly.  In the 7 week course I have seen my husband make huge changes and he says the same about me.  We are now at a point where we kind of "like" each other again which is amazing.  The course and listening to Mort's phone conferences work so well because he is SO non-judgemental and only looks for solutions.  You are expecting to hear "i can't believe your husband does that" or "You realize what you did was wrong,....".... Instead the boot camp deals w/ NOW and w/ moving forward which is something you CAN do... you can't change the past so why make people feel guilty which is what a lot of counselors do.

I am also surprised at how much my husband took to Mort's advice.  He can be very difficult, judgemental and close minded... but he got into the course and actually did the assignments. We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to "do" the work and keep creating love... there's a light at the end of the tunnel. We are both committed to better ourselves for our marriage, our self-dignity and our children.

We just went out w/ another couple last weekend and when they started bickering we just said www.mortfortel.com ... then we laughed so hard b/c we know how ridiculous we used to look always bickering ourselves! We've come a long way and have a long way to go but at least we are speaking, connecting and are hopeful.  We went from threatening divorce every week to making plans to join a tennis league.  We could NOT have done this alone.  There was way too much animosity and resistance. 

Another huge plus is my kids are more relaxed... they changed as much and as fast as we did.  They went from uptight and anxious to happier and more peaceful......AND a girlfriend of mine wants to know what pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen me this positive (about everything) in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote down the Boot Camp website before she left my house! She was very suspicious that I was giving her a website but that it was just a pill I was taking!

To be honest my husband and I only put in about 40% effort and saw HUGE results..(like I said we were almost enemies so it was quite difficult to go from 0 to a 100). now we are excited to keep putting in more and more effort and take our marriage to the highest level possible.

So, thanks Mort for everything you have been a God-send to us and our children...No matter what happens I know I now have the information, skills and concepts to create love in my relationship. My husband and I are at a point where we are not as needy or desparate.   We are becoming 2 adults who would like to stay together for the right reasons and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre marriage anymore. We have raised the bar and now both  are more aware and accountable for our words and actions. I thought our marriage would just be mediocre at best and now am unwilling to accept that.  I'm striving for awesome and won't stop till I get there!

GS

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"It truly has changed my life! "

Dear Mort,

I write you this letter the day before our 25th wedding anniversary.  Three months ago I would have thought we would surely have been in the process of a divorce on this day.  On December 29 after receiving your emails for over two months, I finally decided that I would enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger Track.  It truly has changed my life!   I have found that my husband responds even though he is reluctant to the thought of renewing our marriage.  I have completed the boot camp and look forward to the continuing support through the Plugged-In program.  Showing patience that I didn't know I had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate many anniversaries to come. Thank you!

Sincerely,

Amy

Littleton, CO

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"We still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital environment ...and have a bright outlook for a happy future."

Are you thinking about registering for the boot camp? Here's my story.

We had been married for 17 years and our marriage was falling apart. We couldn't get through a conversation without criticism or attack. I heard Mort Fertel on the radio speaking about the principles of Marriage Fitness. After almost a year of traditional marriage counseling and making no improvement in our marriage, we decided to buy his book and try his program. What a difference in just a few short weeks. Then we heard about the Boot Camp. My husband and I signed up and very much looked forward to each session. Through Mort's guidance, we were able to make considerable progress. The weekly workbooks were especially helpful in helping give us ideas to reconnect and infuse positive energy into our marriage. For me, the bootcamp also taught me how my actions and behaviors were sabotaging our relationship. I had always thought that if only my husband changed, our marriage would improve. I now see that no progress could be made until I recognized and made an effort to change my behavior toward my spouse. Mort was always available to answer questions and held us accountable to our own behaviors. Six months ago, I was counting the days until the kids were grown to leave my marriage, I no longer do that. Even though every day is not perfect, I can now see a hopeful future with my husband. We still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook for a happy future.

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"She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose me!"

Hi Mort,

I just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn around and is starting to not only work on our marriage but really make some amazing changes. 

Thank you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you helping me through this and teaching me how to be the husband that me wife deserves then I may have never been able to bring her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose me!   

Keep up the good work and keep saving marriages.

Thanks again.

AP

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"Not only did it change our marriage,

it changed our entire way of life"

Dear Mort,

Today makes one month that my wife has been home after three months of separation. Thank you so much for your coaching and the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.  Not only did it change our marriage,it changed our entire way of life.  After two affairs and an emotional affair, I thought I had lost my wife forever, but thanks be unto God, we "found" Mort Fertel. Just as when one becomes a new creature in Christ, old things pass away and all things become new; such was the case when we completed the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.  Our old habits, fears, insecurities, and the manner in which we treated each ther passed away;  All things became NEW !  We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and our marriage our highest priority.  We strongly urge anyone needing help in any way with their marriage to enroll in the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.

It will change your life forever. It did ours!

Forever grateful, Mort!

R.M. & D.M.

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"...the BOOT CAMP was worth both

our time and money"

We thought the BOOT CAMP was worth both our time and money we invested and we recommend it to our friends.

Alan

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"Thanks"

Dear Mort,

Thanks for your help.

Patty

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"What did I get out of the program?

Real hope to my family"

I highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp.

I joined the program as the lone ranger about 8 weeks ago. My husband was very firm about moving out and filing for divorce without giving me much of specific reasons. In my sorrow and desperation, I contacted Mort and joined the boot camp.

What did I get out of the program?

Real hope to my family: My husband changed his moving out plan and joined me on the coaching session with Mort.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your extraordinary impact on my life and my family's life.

H.E.

California

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" I have never loved my husband more"

Hi Mort,

I'm happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was over.  I have been married four times and really wanted this to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone out.  We decided that we were done and divorce was the only answer.  Then my husband came across your program and signed up without telling me.  He then started talking about the program and got one of your CD's that I listened to half-heartedly.  When the program began I listened to your first seminar and was so blown away by what I was hearing.  I couldn't believe all the things that I could relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each session.  Only to leave angrier and angrier.  But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never loved my husband more and know that we are going to work through these things and stay on the track that we were always meant to be on.  I know that we will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh because we are worth it.  Your inspiration with the material provided has been a serious God send to both of us.  I thank you profusely for having the desire to help those that can' t s eem to help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together.  I can' t say thank you enough! 

Jennifer

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I have got to say that I must be ready for the principles that your program is built upon, because your program "appeared" to me over the internet when I was looking for some marital relationship guidance.  Everything you have said and sent me hits a core truth to me.  I am astounded by its clarity.

I think between the CD's from the 7 weeks worth of teleconferences and Q&A sessions, we can find our way to a "Put Love first" marriage, with time and consistent effort on our parts.  I know I am willing to "do" what it takes to create this environment in our relationship.

Thank you for your principles and teaching.

DL

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"...things are improving on a slow but steady pace"

Hi Mort,

I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for all your help.  I don't know if I would have made it this far without your words and inspiration.  It seems that every time I am down or off track i can open an e-mail or listen to a teleconference session and I feel renewed to continue the journey back into a my marriage.  This has been the toughest year of my life and with all the ups and downs it would have been easy to find a reason to throw in the towel.  Following your suggestions and working my way through the CD's and workbook have given me a clear path to follow.  I have found many things within me that needed iimproving and in fixing myself I have watched my marriage go from separation and talk of divorce to daily talk and touch charges from my spouse and weekly dates that are his idea as much as mine.  The best thing is that my husband was one of those obstinate ones who didn't think love should be so much work, so I have done all this following the Lone Ranger Track.  I won't say things are perfect, but things are improving on a slow but steady pace. One person really can make a difference in a marriage!

Thanks Mort your help has been invaluable!!

Sincerely

Heidi

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"Mort has valuable insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage. "

Mort,

Your Marriage Fitness program gave me a new perspective for my failing marriage. I registered as a last ditch effort to save my marriage.  My husband wanted a divorce.  I was out of hope, out of ideas, and searching for a way change my situation.  I registered for the lone ranger track, which in the beginning even brought heartache.  There I was wanting to save my marriage and my husband could care less. I wondered how a marriage could be saved when only one partner was unwilling to participate.  The 7 week fitness program changed not only that thought, but my perspective on how I could better my marriage and myself.  I have become a better wife and I can even say that my marriage is no longer failing.  There is laughter, love, jokes, and time spent together again.  My thoughts and my actions have changed my marriage's momentum, and I would encourage any couple to participate in the program.  Mort has valuable insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage.

LDW

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"Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. "

Hi Mort

Here is what my wife, Delores, wrote in a notebook after our last teleconference with you. I thought you'd like to read it:

As I listened to the final teleconference I cried uncontrollably. I had the same feeling at age nine when I left the courthouse when my father and mother divorced. As I clasped my mothers hand I knew I would not be able to stay connected to my father in the way I wanted to; which proved to be true. I never saw him again for 20 years. I spent 53 years of my life trying to connect to someone. For the first time someone had told me how I could connect. Mort had given me the tools to stay connected. If I would have let my spouse know how bad I needed to connect with him instead of shaming, belittling, and attacking his character, I am sure he would have turned around and connected with me years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. Delores

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" 'Mort was reading my mind' "

Dear Mort,

It was amazing how, from the very beginning of reading your website, ordering and receiving Marriage Fitness materials, participating in the boot camp program, hearing all that you had to say, participating in the Q & A's, reading everything that we read, and doing the exercises in the work book, pertained to exactly what we have gone through and are currently going through.  Brian described it like "Mort was reading my mind"! 

We tried a few sessions of marriage counseling about 4 years ago and it was as you described.  We came out angrier than we went in and at that time the decision was made that counseling wasn't for us.  We have struggled tremendously for these last 4 years, trying to do the best that we knew how to do with some improvement, until we came to the "final straw" in July of 2007.  This, as far as Lisa was concerned, was the breaking point and she was thinking divorce was the only answer.

In July of 2007, we reached out to the Internet and found your program.  What a God send!  Through Marriage Fitness, you helped us remember that we do have a deep passionate love for each other.  We just needed to figure out how to find that lost love and make it evident to each other again.  We lost our "connection" and we needed to learn to re-connect once again.  In our 23 years of marriage, we had 13 moves in a 17 year span, job changes, raising children, both of us traveling with our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc.  We were unable to show our love for each other in an effective manor any longer.  Over time, this pushed us further and further apart. 

We thank you so much for your program as it has shown us how to get back to where we were before "Life" got in the way. 

Mort, we can't thank you enough for the hard work and effort which you have put into your program.  You have taught us how to reconnect and rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for that.  We look forward to a long and healthy relationship in our marriage and a long relationship with Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness program. 

Sincerely,

Brian & Lisa

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"Thanks you for everything. Now there is hope. "

Mort:

I am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has an emotional affair with another woman. When I was told by my husband about his affair, I was so shocked. I found Marriage Fitness from internet and signed in January. After attending the live seminars and Q-A conferences, all of sudden, I found out there are lots of small things that I never pay attention to that have done big damage on my marriage. I tried the ways you taught in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts and when I almost gave up, my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me what went wrong in our marriage and what lead him to seek comfort from outside of marriage. 

Thanks you for everything. Now there is hope.

Jane

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"I would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before."

Dear Mort,

Now that my tele-boot camp is over I would like to tell you how helpful it was.

I was in the lone ranger track. My husband said he didn't love me or feel an emotional connection with me. He also said divorce would be our only option.

I sought therapy, read your book, and joined the tele-boot camp. You gave me advice that I sometimes didn't want to follow, but I did it anyway because I made a commitment to follow the program. I went from being a hysterical, scared woman, whose husband was having a year long affair to a confident wife whose husband has asked for a new beginning.

I would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than ever before. I am so grateful. Thank you and keep working with people like us!

D.B.D

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"Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are now on track to renewing our relationship with the help of Marriage fitness."

Mort,
I can't express the impact Marriage fitness has had on our Marriage. Getting back to the Basics of a relationship has been overwhelmingly rewarding. Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are now on track to renewing our relationship with the help of Marriage fitness. The trust is starting to come back,This program has given me hope that we can survive this and the struggles of what that type of stress and issues that it bring s… With the help of your program it has brought us back together,I thought it was over because of his affair .. . That he was not sure he wanted to give up he has chosen to stay with me and work out our issues. He has chosen to stay with me and rekindle what we once had. It has not been an easy task to start trusting and forgiving him for the infidelity,But he has great qualities as a person that I LOVE VERY MUCH and I know in our hearts we are now on the right track to becoming soul mates once again. I started out jus t receiving free e-mails and then 3 weeks into that we signed up for the boot camp and it was the one thing that has really helped in so many ways. I have already recommended this program to a few couples and feel very strongly that your program has helped me save what is very dear to me My Marriage and my soul mate and can not tell you how greatly this has impacted our lives. My gratitude is overwhelming and we can't thank you enough for giving us the tools to save our marriage
Ricki

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"We seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship"

When we signed up for the Bootcamp, our relationship was not going well.  I lacked trust in my partner and optimism about the future.  He, uncharacteristically, agreed to do this program with me with the hope of turning things around.   I honestly can' t say how much our improvement is due to the content of the Bootcamp, how much is due to us simply going through the process together, to the exercises or simply the change from focusing on our problems to focusing on strengths and improving those.  It is clear to me that men and women will always think differently from each other, but in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship.  It isn't perfect, but it is so much better.   It is kind of amazing to me how great it feels to do positive things for each other, and how that morphs into greater richness in the relationship.  Its like DUH, but it really does work so simply.  I'm very glad we did it.  Thanks, Mort!

TW

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