"After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "

Dear Mort,

Thank you for your program.  I was driving into my driveway finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.  Upon arriving home, your program had come as well.  Rather than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a disk.  Long story short, we'll be working this out together, getting connected, completing your action steps.  I can't wait to continue connecting.  After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner.  Thank you.

Greg Burke
Denver, CO

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"I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage"

Dear mort,

I was reluctant to begin the  lone ranger program.  Wondering how I would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program alone.  Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new habbits used in your program, it is proven to work.  I could not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my husband.  Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program with me he felt it would not help.  So I did not tell him and I started the program.  After a few weeks, my husband had commented he seen a change in me.  I then took the opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness program.  He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference call scheduled and how things are going.  Even though he has not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our marriage.  I would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to improve how to be a better you!

Thank you Mort for making us matter...

Sincerely & God Bless

JoAnn S. 

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"I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly,

it is truly amazing. "

Dear Mort,

Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to be true, but I gave it a shot.

I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been. After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

Sincerely,

Melissa K.

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In just the short amount of time we have been part of the Marriage Fitness Program, we have seen a dramatic impact on our marriage.  We have already told others, who have informed us in one way or another they are having marital issues, about the program.  The information we received makes so much sense and is not difficult to apply to day to day life.  It is comforting to know we are not alone with the problems we have experienced and we are being taught by someone who has been through the same issues and is living the principles being taught.  The teacher walks the walk.  Thank you for helping us start the process of saving our marriage, family, and our future.

Stephanie & Mike - Jarrettsville, MD

"Your information was outstanding and actually very simple!"

Mort,

I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories work, but they do!

I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To do my job I couldn't always attend to Q & A's live, but the audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a lifesaver.

Keep up the good work

Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois

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"We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"

Dear Mort,

If anyone thinks that "it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3 affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong, be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG

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"We are more in love than we have ever been!"

Dear Mort:

At the time that I started getting your emails, my husband and I had been
split up six months. In that period, we had tried twice to reconcile, and failed.
I didn't hold much hope of us reconciling at that point...But I cried myself
to sleep at night because I was still so much in love with my husband. We are
in our fifties Mort, we are not spring chickens. I must have burned the good
Lord's ears with all of my tears and my pleas for my marriage. Anyway, I
found you on the internet, and started reading intently, shouldering my own part
in our break up, and doing some deep thinking.

Then you began making suggestions...To make a long story short, it took one
month following your suggestions, and my husband called me up for a date on
my birthday!! He stayed with me for three days. In a week, he was back here
again, and he told me he didn't want to live without me anymore. Two months
later and we are more in love than we have ever been. Your advice worked for us.

...by the way, my husband never knew about your program. So you're right:
one person in the marriage can follow the advice, and the love it inspires reaches
both people.

I am one thankful woman. I love my husband more than my own life. We lost a
business, our house, but we did not lose each other.

Thank you so much for being inspired, I believe, by God!! bettyann

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"WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight"

Although my husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice).  We are just now starting to gather momentum.  When Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to.  Mort is right, IT IS NOT EASY.  But we are not giving up.  WE have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's own.

Bonnie and Jim R.

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"[Mr. Fertel] gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems"

Mr. Fertel ,

I have thought long and hard about writing a testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program.  The problem was where to begin and when to stop writing about the success  I have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:

If the term “obstinate spouse” were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the whole page!!

We fit the pattern of couples married for a very long time, 24 years.  In these days odds are against that.  And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into a rut.  Same old routine day in and day out.  Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each other.  My husband started filling his time with church work 4 to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days).  I think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that was only after I complained and complained about never seeing him.  This was the real problem: he was so used to spending time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to 6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage mechanic.  No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank goodness.   I am not blameless either.  I spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some reason it took priority over what little time my husband was home.  So we tried regular marriage counselling.  After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship (chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of financial reasons around Christmas time.  My husband has not mentioned anything about going back.  Imagine spending your 24 th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day with his father!  No “Happy Anniversary” card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always remembered the date.

So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.  I read through the whole site.  And I couldn't believe how much sense his approach to marital problems made.  Yes, it would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us.  Within the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track.  I have read his book, am on the second reading now;  listened to all the CDs, poured through the notebook.  I can honestly say that there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the materials.

He gave the best advice I have ever heard about marriage problems . It's been three full months. And guess what?  My husband has started joking with me again!  I don't remember how long it's been since that happened.  We talk!  He even is starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).

Hope is a wonderful thing;  it's worth all the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.

Susan D.

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"We credit you for helping save our marriage

every chance we get!"

Dear Mort,

We are 2 of your success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every chance we get!

We've continued in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18 months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.

We just had to invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get positive feedback!

THANK YOU MORT!

Penny and Jeff Mazin

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"one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home"

My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 9 years. In early August he decided he was done.  He began staying at a friend’s house and he refused to do any therapy or even talk to a mediator.  He was “no longer in-love,” “things could never change” and “I have feelings for someone else” so he moved out of our house in October.   

I found Marriage Fitness and was hesitant to try because, my life was spiraling in the wrong direction and wasn’t sure if this would really work. My therapist was telling me to move on because my husband had chosen his path.  As I began to receive emails about the little things being said, it made sense to try.  Luckily, we have two children, so I did get to see my husband almost every day.  After my husband responded in a positive way, I thought this was the path I needed to go.

There were many times I felt that this program was not going to work, especially in the lone-ranger track but then I would listen to the conference calls and question and answer sessions being inspired by Mort…Then one day it clicked, my husband said he was going to move back home and six weeks later, my world changed again.  We were able to have a wonderful family Christmas!! This program worked for me and showed me what really matters in my life. 

I knew that I needed to reconnect with my husband, but did not know how.  Thank you Mort for leading me in the right direction!

Sincerely,

L. S.

Louisville, Ky

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"Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading before getting married.

It is really that powerful!"

I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .

Mort taught me how to transform my perception of love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an active process of consistently giving in small ways among other good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.

It is really hard for a person to understand how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in. Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.

I still have work to do to win back my obstinate wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely key but without his Q&A sessions and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.

Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required reading in high school or at least before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other product or person's services in my entire life.

Stephen B.

Fenwick, ON Canada

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"My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary … thanks to this program. "

    First and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel because his program was exactly what I needed!  This program was a last resort for me because I had done the talking and begging with my husband and it was not working.  I was not reaching him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger Track as a last resort.  At first, I was skeptical because I had never done anything like this before and did not believe this could really work. Once I read through the book and listen to audios I realized where I was going wrong and that I was not the only person going through this.  I started implementing Mr. Fertel's concepts and advice, with great difficulty.  I had zero hope, out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I began to see a slow change in my husband and myself.

   My husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 … thanks to this program.  I have and still am implementing the process with my husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him see me as an exceptional wife.  I look forward to reviewing what you have taught me everyday and to make that loving close connection with my husband. I can't thank you enough.  THANK YOU THANK YOU!!   

Forever grateful,

Lillian H.

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"You have helped my husband and myself learn how to get over the pain"

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for over a month.

I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last forever.

Thank you,

M.S. and J.M.

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"It's time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. "

Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes” because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has put families back together. I look forward to getting an email testimonial from you one day. Good luck!

"Because of you we have slowly recovered the remnants of our lost family"

Good morning Mort,

I want you to know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.

I had the opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this wonderful program.

I too... like many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.

God Bless!

MAJ Sven O.

ADC Section Chief, RAOC

AZ Army National Guard

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"From the first week, things changed"

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Prior to starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my own emotional affair, not to mention the years of financial distress, the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse after all this we thought that it was over. I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the first week, things changed. After going through your program we are closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very much for your great program, it saved us and our family.

T.F.

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"Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us"

Hi Mort:

I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.

We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of issues mostly about our blended families. We  even been seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it apart.

Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you have been a blessing to us and our marriage!
 
Wes & Irma

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"My relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive"

I never imagined myself resorting to an internet self help program. But I tried everything else with my failing marriage and Mort's program seemed promising. I realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits that were killing my relationship and I was totally pushing my husband away. Things now are on the mend and on the upswing and my relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive.

VBL

New York City

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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do. Thanks)

(Jennifer: Yes! Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people! Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)

"After the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again. "

In all the years that we have been together I can honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of roommates.

We just couldn't understand where things went wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together, we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it, even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments that were no longer.

I found Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in love with each other again.

No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a difference, but we started and continued working with the program after four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .

Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there when we were searching for that help.

Peter & Ruby – Long Beach, CA.

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"It is certain that his program works"

When we started the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.

Mort's program stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on. Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.

We both gained new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each other the space we needed to grow.

Our children have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect, but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.

Mort gives you the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.

Justin and Jan C.

Elgin , SC

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"We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer."

Mort,

I have been meaning to write this email to thank you for your program … My husband was feeling unloved and he turned to someone else. Instead of playing the victim,God showed me forgiveness and you gave me the tools to really grow and change . Being manipulative would not have made this marriage work and perseverance was what I really needed. When my husband moved in with the other woman he expected me to really hate him and treat him terrible. Instead you made me feel like it was okay to have him over the house. I didnt use the kids against him, I used the talk and touch charges, I took care of myself, got into a closer relationship with God,lost weight, and my husband started to fall in love with me again. We were seperated for the entire summer which gave me a chance to see how much I wanted to be married to this man. By the end of the summer, he broke off the affair and moved back in. We utilized your worksheets and eventually found a counselor who could help us deal with some of the issues we could finally discuss. Traditional counseling drove us apart and was leading us to divorce.

We are now happier than we have ever been and believe this affair has brought us closer.  Thank you Mort for your program and for helping to save my marriage. God lead me to your program. I will continue to recommend you to others.

Tracey B

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"One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic"

Hi Mort,

I am grateful for the opportunity to give feedback. I began the Marriage Fitness Teleboot Camp in the single track as I was separated from my husband for two weeks (this was after 6 mths of separation a year earlier, and was told just before xmas he was never coming back, though he wanted to stay married but live seperately?). He had left because of long standing issues that he couldn't see being resolved, in spite of being a practicing psychologist, who is well regarded, a conference speaker, author of four books, lecturer and speaker at conferences.  He had diagnosed himself as a narcissist and myself as borderline personality disorder, both according to him, being mild.  I had been working on the issues about myself that he had problems with and was making progress, though it wasn't fast enough for him and he could only see me as a problem/disorder.  I had also attempted for two years to get on his wave length and so read psychology books/internet sites/blogs on narcissism and codependancy/personality disorders. He seemed not interested in dealing with issues in himself.  I found the more I looked at the issues we both had (especially after two years of trying to understand him from a psychological perspective) the more negative I felt.  We had also spent six months with a marriage counsellor without things changing much (I think because we were still focussing on the problems).

I realised I needed to have a more positive/different approach and discovered your program on the internet.  I began with the teleconferences as the materials arrived later, my thinking changed and I had hope that things could be turned around.  Seeing the change in me, my husband decided to come back, though no guarantees of staying.  He was intrigued with the material and also found it positive.  We have really only listened to the teleconferences and some CD's but they have had a huge impact.  We are both going to do the workbook and we are following your practical suggestions of putting love first by connecting through regular activities such as date night, talking etc.

I believe you have a program that is full of wisdom which anyone can follow and understand.  It is sensible, practical, hopeful and solid.  It does require commitment and work but it is all doable. One person making positive changes has an impact on the marriage. Slow and steady but a definite change in the dynamic.  I thank God and you for your commitment, wisdom and work in bringing such a well developed/comprehensive program to those who are struggling in their marriage. I highly recommend it. JS, Australia

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"Such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past"

Hi Mort,

I recently ordered and received your program.  My husband and I are amazed at your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long road trips. Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past.  We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge change in our relationship after implementing some of your ideas!

Thank you, Mort.  We will definitely recommend your course to friends and family who are struggling with their marriages.  It is the best we have found.

Best regards,

Sandra L. H.

Mammoth Lakes , CA  93546

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"To couples everywhere: believe in the advice that Mort has to offer"

From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .

Dear Mort,

I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.

I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort, my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and that it has really worked.

To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer, because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen. Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty

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"My wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum

change made to our relationship"

Mort,

Having recently completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.

To have our teenage kids advise us that we're "cree ping them out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving each other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a date"), we must be doing something right.

Celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning, considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple as it really was.

Heartfelt thanks.

Tom & Lil

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"It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes."

What meant the most to us was that Mort has been through a difficult situation in his own marriage and practices the techniques he teaches.  They worked…and it shows in the way he talks about his own marriage.  

It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another when someone has walked in your shoes. While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well. I highly recommend his program for any marriage in need of an awakening.

ST in Altanta

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"In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's"

Dear Mort,

I would like to first commend you on your patients, understanding, and clarity.  I was looking for the ultimate answer to my marriage problems. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but you did it.

Your program is a no brainer if you just think about it…the CD's  explain  in full color what we have been doing to each other. I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can work together again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes the tv doesn't even get turned on.  I thank God every day that I found you. It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives forever. Thanks again.

Sincerely,

Pam W.

P.S. My husband even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even folded the clothes. BIG STEP.

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"It now seems so simple"

I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery. I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from I love you but I'm not in love with you” and my wife wanting a separation to see below:

- Last night my wife bought me flowers and double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)

- She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had not contributed her share to the relationship

- She told me I was a wonderful man

- She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to her

Is God not awesome!!!!!

Thank you for everything.

If you ever need a testimony let me know!

T.E.

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"Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time.  I am not sure I could have done it without you. "

I wanted to thank you for your support during my recent separation from my husband of 30 years.  I wanted to share my happy ending with you.
 
We have always had what everyone thought was the "perfect marriage" and so did I.  We had our ups and downs, but we were caring, giving, and loving with each other. My husband, however, after turning 50 seemed to think he had missed out on something, and left me for another woman.  I was devastated, and did not see it coming as we had always been best friends, had a great sex life, and had worked together in our family medical office.  He had become unhappy in life, and our children had recently moved away from our small town, so we moved to a larger city.  He had gastric bypass, lost 150 pounds, and for the first time in a long time had more female attention than he was used to.  I was stressed with the move, a new job, had taken on 17 UC and FM offices as Medical Director, and we were living in an apartment with our college age children trying to figure out where we wanted to buy a home.  He met a woman during this vulnerable time, and despite a wonderful 2 weeks in Maui, when we returned, he moved out to live with her.  That is when I found your program.
 
I started it on my own, and then got him to listen to some of the CD's.  We talked.  We e-mailed.  We worked together at an UC and no one there ever knew we had separated.  We love each other, and he was miserable and sad, and felt very guilty for his actions, but due to that, he did not attend our counseling session with you either.  I did not give up.  You kept my faith up that things could get better.  I loved him through his crisis, and reminded him of our strengths and history. I gave him cards, brought him Starbucks when he was working, made him treats with notes left on his desk at work, and sent him a postcard to the office (didn't want to send it to her house) when I went to visit my brother in CA saying I wish you were here.  He would call me on the phone and we would talk for hours, and he would e-mail me jokes or funny things to read.  And so it began.  
 
After 2 1/2 months, he begged my forgiveness, I begged his, and we reaffirmed our love, and he came back home.  The children were angry with him, but we loved them through this and talked openly with them about how all relationships have problems, but it is how we handle those problems that make us who we are, and allow us to reap the benefits of our efforts.  We told them that the most important thing is that we did not give up on each other, and now we were stronger than before.
 
My husband and I have been back together for 5 months.  We renewed our vows with our children officiating at our 30th anniversary 8/9/10, we have purchased our dream home, have coordinated our schedules to have 3 days off per week together when we rock climb, ski, hike, or relax.  We have finished our medical thriller, "The Clones of Harvest Home," and Catherine Coulter and her agent are assisting us with the publishing process.  We have taken a 2 1/2 week vacation to Maui, and have been even closer than before we split up.  As I said, we have been each other's best friend since we were 19, and continue to be, but our trials have taught us so much about each other.  We are very in love, and know that we will have some ups and downs, but know that we are soul mates, and will be together forever.
 
Thank you for helping us have the strength to get through this most difficult time.  I am not sure I could have done it without you.  I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else that we were done.  If I had not reached out to him, his pride would not have let him come back I am sure.  So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful philosophy and program.  We are forever indebted.
 
I have recommended your program to several of my patients, and co-workers, and I hope they will take advantage of what you offer, and reap the benefits as well.  Happy holidays.
 
Gratefully,
 
Debby Salter, M.D.  
 
(you may use this testimonial if you would like to - I would be honored)

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"He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores.

We are making plans for the future! "

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to thank you for helping me save my marriage. 

We have been married 6 ½ years.  My husband travels for work.  As a result, more than 50% of our married life has been spent apart.  This has really taken a toll on us.  I have to wonder if any two people have been as hateful and volatile as we became!  We've been to marriage counseling 4 times in the last 6 years, and it didn't help a bit.  We were the couple that made others jealous, but behind closed doors we could be worst enemies.  When we weren't fighting, we were ignoring and avoiding each other, which was easy to do with him gone so much. 

Three months ago my husband told me he was done.  He couldn't handle the fighting anymore and wanted to move out.  He said he didn't love me like a husband should love his wife.  He said he just didn't care enough to try anymore.  He said he wanted a divorce.  Normally I was the one in our marriage who threw that word around.  But when he said it, my world came crashing down.  It was the first time he had ever said something like that and I knew he was serious. 

After the initial shock wore off, I decided not to just give up and let the divorce happen.  I got online and found your program.  With the money back guarantee I figured I had nothing to lose.  My husband had made it clear that he was done trying so I went with the Lone Ranger program. 

It was really difficult, especially in the beginning.  For all the positive things I did, he was still very negative.  I would drive 5 hours to see him, take him homemade food, and he would kick me out.  But I persevered.  It has been 3 months, and my husband now says he is in love with me!  He makes me coffee every morning and he helps with the chores. We are making plans for the future!

I owe it all to you.  Thanks for everything!

HMD

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"Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing."

Dear Mort,

I want to thank you for developing the

tele-fitness boot camp and making it so

accessible both in cost and ease of use.

My marriage had been on a downward

trajectory for a year and despite my

needs, wants and intentions, I couldn't

seem to turn it around. My husband and I saw two marriage counselors together, and each saw individual counselors and again things just got progressively worse. Over the year, my husband moved out of our marital bed, eventually moved out of the house, and had an affair.

I started the tele-boot camp the week my husband moved out. Within 2 weeks of starting, the momentum of my marriage started changing. I learned to change my focus from my feelings and my reaction to my husband's behavior to of my intentions and my desired outcome.

Your program helps you stay focused

despite the results that you initially

get. Conventional wisdom and advice

tells you to use tough love to get what

you want, to make demands, to not accept bad behavior. The problem is that this

advice is ineffective. You taught me

how to love unconditionally, how to

become the person I wanted to become so

that my spouse would be crazy not to

love me. By changing myself despite

what my husband was doing, I learned how to become lovable again instead of being cold, disappointed, bitter and disillusioned.

Within two months my husband moved back

in, ended the affair, and is working on

building our marriage. He has

re-engaged with family life, reached out to our extended family to build bridges and is focusing on meeting my needs.

The reason your program is so different

from anything that is out there is

because you help people achieve their

desired outcome. In addition to not

judging them for wanting their desired

outcome, you encourage them and admire

them for their strength of conviction

and moral compass.

Once I started your program, I blocked

out all other noise with regards to

rebuilding my marriage. You are my

mentor and my support system. Whenever

I have a bad day with my husband and

lose focus, I re-read your book, listen

to your CDs, or tune into a

tele-conference. I would have spent

thousands of dollars with my therapist

and I still would not have achieved my

desired outcome.

From the bottom of my heart - thank you.

YOUR PROGRAM turned my marriage around.

I know I would have survived had my

marriage failed, but I didn't want to

survive - I wanted to stay married. I

wanted my old, loving, kind and caring

husband back, and he's coming.

I couldn't recommend your program more.

Sincerely,

jw

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" Thank you from the bottom of my heart"

Hi Mort

I am thrilled at how much your program has helped me and turned things around. I have been a “lone ranger” and it really has worked for me.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart– I feel really connected to you and your passion to “fix” what I broke.

Kind regards

Darrell

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"I thank God and I thank Mort for restoring my life "

I never thought I would be in that situation being married for 3 in a half years, and then I was there. It was friends, in laws, other women, and everything and anything. I was like how can this be. Did I marry the right person? When we rehash everything like everyone told me it only made it worse like reliving a bad dream.
I googled marriage counselor and Mort came up. I put in my email. I thought all hope was lost. I got the emails step by step. I was in a marriage where I was sad and didn't want it to end in divorce. I could not keep up with everything that was going on outside or compete, but what Mort showed was how to make my home a place we both wanted to be. I won with Mort's plan because I never quit. I focused on each part of his program one at a time. I kept working .. . I saw the layers of coldness just peel off. Mort's way is different and that's why it works! I always felt the traditional way didn't work, but I didn't know anything else. As I was going through the process, in a couple of weeks I noticed I began to feel better about myself. The program was working us. We are in sync again, and We make love!!! Do you hear me? I can say I thought it was over before, but my marriage was worth fighting for. Don't focus on all the outside interferences if you follow the program they disappear. I thank God and I thank Mort for restoring my life.

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"I am happy to report that we are doing very well now. We are connecting daily. We spend time together, enjoy each other."

Dear Mort

I am happy to write a testimony, since the program turned our lives around. I believe God is using Mort's program to help us.

We've been married for 14 years. In the last three years things started to go wrong. It became unbearable in the last year. There was constant fighting,the smallest thing would get a snappy remark, there was a huge emotional distance, and no spending any fun time together. He

felt controlled, I felt left out and overwhelmed. Over time, it got worse. He was spending almost all his time on hobbies, tv, computer. I was complaining, felt left out. I made discussions without him, controlling our budget tightly, thinking I was responsible, but I was selfish and controlling.

Then came the heart breaking experience when he said he does not love me anymore. Through all this, I knew that I loved him deeply, but I was not willing to live an empty life without love and full of negativity. Then I found Mort Fertel,signed up in the lone ranger track and started to apply the new habits, started growing personally. It was hard. I learned about myself and improved and grew as a person. I had my doubts that I could make a big difference all alone, since he had no interest to participate in the program or any other.

I am happy to report that we are doing very well now. We are connecting daily. We spend time together, enjoy each other. We are close again. We laugh, have fun , talk for hours, hold each other, share in each other's daily lives, emotions,and passions. The emotional and physical distance is gone. He is responding to the new relationship habits and applying most of the steps in the program, without even doing the program formally! ( I don't know how , but he does!) I grew personally.I am a better person.

I am now also the wife he deserves, and he is responding very positively to that!

We still have a long way to go, but now both of us are happier, there is momentum in our relationship and we have a loving marital environment.

There is still some big challenges ahead, but I know we will get through that too, with God's help and Mort Fertel. Now we are connecting, we are happy,we build our Marriage and our love daily, and our children will get the greatest gift: Happily married parents and a model for how to be successful in their own future relationships.

I recommend this program...

Thank you

U.B

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" By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting … "

Dear Mr. Fertel,

Words cannot express my gratitude I have for your help and the Marriage Fitness program. Less then 6 months ago my wife was ready to ask for a separation and we probably were headed for divorce after 30 years of marriage.  I heard the: "I need my space" and "I love you but I am not in love with you".I am not saying we are completely out of the woods yet, but we are now on the right trail to repair and in time create a more loving marriage then we ever had before.

Prior to getting the free emails and then the course I was doing all of the wrong things, the begging, pleading, trying to be right and justifying my actions and condemning hers. Our "problems" were both our faults and though neither one of us wanted to first admit it we came to that realization in phase 2 of the workbook. … By listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting …

This is not a quick fix or easy program. It requires time and effort and makes you look at yourself as much as what you think your problems are. I found the reflection I seen in the mirror was not a happy one so how could my wife. By reading, listening and doing the exercises in the workbook I was able to change that reflection and it has become evident to my wife and we have been working more on rebuilding our marriage then tearing it apart. That reflection is starting to look happy and enjoyment has returned to the time we spend together rather then tolerance.

Thank you Mr. Fertel, you have no idea the desperation I was in when I found your program, it truly has made a difference in both my life and our marriage.

Warm Regards

Don E

Virginia

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"If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further."

The Marriage Fitness program by Mort Fertel has been a truly transformative experience.  If you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no further.  It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink of divorce (as we were). This program has even inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort and to our journey to marital success:

                                              Together 

There once was a couple named Robyn and Jeff

Their souls knew each other before they ever met.

They walked down the road of life's path

On their way from a distant and troubled past...

They started along their journey together and

Somehow lost their way - But with Mort, love and

Pat ience they began a whole new day... 

In making their dreams they always knew

Together - would come true...

And so now the journey of healing begins

Back to the path of love where their souls

Have always been...Together!"

Thank you Mort!!  Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski

- Members of The Marriage Fitness Program.  

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"I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your program"

Dear Mort:

Thank you so much for your program!

I was very unsure initially, but my desperation overcame my skepticism. I clung to the Marrige Boot Camp Program and when we had a rough day, I'd listen to a disk again... I've memorized some of them!

Your program gave me something to think about, something to do, and a practical, common-sense approach to an area of life that I had always found capricious and confusing.

I started on the Lone Ranger Track, but my husband has noticed such significant changes in me and my behaviour, that he is now joining in, so I m starting the Program over on the Duo Track with him.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I didn't think our marrige was going to last, before we found your Program; at least, not happily.

But now, thanks to you, we are rediscovering "us".

Take care,

R+G

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"How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug"

Mort,

I'm at a loss for words. How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug (not that you'd let me, LOL).

Mort, you didn't just help our marriage but you changed our whole family. We've been married for 15 years, have four children and were on the brink of divorce. The emotional pain I had inside was so bad it was almost a physical pain. The worst part is that you can't go through pain like that without it having an effect on your children. We tried to shield them as much as possible, but they knew something was wrong. To think of what we were putting them through emotionally, breaks my heart.

We too, tried everything from traditional marriage counseling to Venus and Mars and everything in between. Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our problems were just too big to overcome.

Then we found you. Mort, you honestly were our last ditch effort. I personally thought it was too much money to spend but you offered a money back guarantee and I had full intentions on collecting it. My husband and I decided to give your program a try but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't work and I continued to make plans for a new life without my husband. Then something happened. Not overnight, but it happened. I'm not even 100% sure of what it was, but it was working. I am blown away with how far we have come in just 10 weeks. Everything is different. My husband and I are more in love now than we were on our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn' t s tand being in the same room with him and today I know with all my heart that we will be together forever. Divorce will never be an option for us. Were gonna make it.

I've heard it said that people don't change. What a bold faced lie. My husband was the most stubborn person I knew. He hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every single program we ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once he wasn't being blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to create an environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You totally impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in 15 years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was working. He did a complete 180. We both did.

Knowing what I know now, I would have paid a million dollars for this program and I can't believe you charge so little for what you offer. You literally have every base covered and I know you put your heart and soul into it. This is not just a profession for you. It's not about making a buck. You have a God given gift and you're changing lives.

A few months ago I asked God for help. I didn't know what to do; there was nothing left to try so I left it in his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God, and thank you Mort.

Michelle

Vancouver , BC

P.S. Remember that hug I mentioned earlier? When you go home tonight, please give it to your wife. Tell her that Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks for helping you to become the man that you are. She should know that she played a huge role in saving a family she doesn't even know.

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"...If you want to save your marriage, he's the ONLY person who can help you do it."

"...and of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent"

Hi Mort.

It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from different back grounds and had different expectations from one another which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other. Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense, the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is not enough when there is so much to resolve.

One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice- needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable than the actual dollars spent.

What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.

Valerie Kemmer

I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to him. Here are his words:

"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30 years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer

All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to us. VK

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"You have turned me and my life around."

Dear Mort,

I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice. My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!

Julia Z.

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"I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"

We have been married 42 years, but after my husband retired and we spent more time together, our home became a battleground.   My husband seemed to be more satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the program, he responded so positively that the difference in our relationship is almost unbelievable.  Now I believe that by following through with Mort's program our "golden years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by arguments, resentments and anger..

Gillian S .

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"The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there."

September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial

Dear Mr. Fertel,

The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was absolutely phenomenal.

First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the eyes of God as well.

Thank you for everything!

Anthony Schiro

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"We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program."

Hello Mr. Fertel,

Your program has helped the two of us so much we wanted to thank you.  We went from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy, fun life together all because of your program.  Thank you Mort Fertel !!!

Marianne and Scott B.

Cherry Hill ,  NJ

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"We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage."

Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that we had no other options and the Divorce process was already started. He gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage.

B.O.

New Jersey

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"As I began to change, he did, too!"

Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.

During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child, my husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the family together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced divorce with four kids under the age of 10!

I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and decided to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope, as I thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel love toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, but I did this program as a last resort just so that I could say that I "tried".”

Once I started the program, my anger began to soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding, rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!

Thank you, Mort!!

A.P.

Illinois

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"Here is hope for all you lone rangers out there..."

"Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems."

I would recommend this program to anyone who want to enrich their marriage and especially if they are having marital problems. Mort's method is a totally new way to look at marital problems. Every method he suggested was helpful. This program was hard but very useful. It is a whole new way of looking at things.

I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.

Barbara Harrison

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"Your program nailed down exactly what

was going wrong in our marriage"

Mr. Fertel,

I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.

Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage. After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with problems, etc., we were very tired.

I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.

We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective, not providing any real advice.

I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to separate.

The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings were real.

We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair, romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.

I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at this point.

I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that not much more could be done.

I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they are learning what we have...

Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.

D. Scott Martin

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"Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own"

I just had to thank you and express how grateful I am to have had your extremely effective advice.  I've been in your program for a couple of months now and went from having no hope to feeling like I have the perfect marriage!   Your perspective has made me realize I CAN fix my marriage on my own.  I'm amazed that by changing myself, my husband has changed as well!  I didn't have to force him or even tell him, it just worked!  You are truly a marriage genius!  Thank you so much for showing me how to fix my marriage on my own.  It just took those changes for it to be this good again.  We're both much happier than we've ever been in years and I owe it all to you!  I'll recommend you to anyone I know that wants help with their marriage.  Thanks again. 

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'I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations"

After being married 25 years (with the normal ups and downs) I had just thought we were in another 'down' period and was waiting for my husband's mood and interest to pick back up. Then I found out from a misdirected text message that he had a mistress - and I was in shock. I didn't talk to him about his affair because I really didn't know whether I wanted to get out of the marriage or stay in. When the two of us were alone, he hadn't been very nice to me for months. So I went into research mode and  spent days on the internet and  learned that he had all the symptoms of a midlife crisis including dramatic weight loss... I also went into tremendous soul-searching and decided that my life WITH him would be better than my life WITHOUT him. So I decided to do what I could to save my marriage. But I hadn't a clue what to do - until I found the Mort Fortel website and signed up for the Lone Ranger track. Things got worse before they got better. My husband was definitely trying to provoke our becoming even further apart emotionally by constant criticism, eye rolling, avoiding all physical contact except occasional hand-holding, asking me to start sleeping in another bed room due to snoring. My only comfort was the fact that he was still hiding… his cheating… My greatest comfort through this pain has been Mort Fortel's advice  because it gave me an action plan. It forced me to soul search and realize that I had contributed to our problems and needed to fix myself  in order to fix 'us'. I'm changing myself into a much more attractive and caring wife  by following Mort's advice on a daily basis and slowly but surely it seems to be working! The eyeballs have stopped rolling, my husband is actually talking to me again and occasionally mentions something we'll be doing together a few months from now - which he hadn't done for months. If not for Mort Fortel's program, I know I would have done and said all the wrong things that would have driven my husband further away and right into her arms... I feel like I've gained back some control in a situation that was totally out of control by following Mort's recommendations step-by-step. Thank you, Mort!

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 "Thank you!

Thank you very much! Once again I would like to thank Mort for the fantastic program, I am seeing amasing changes in our relationship already, without
god and Mort's help it was impossible.
 
Kind regards

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"I want to say that it was worth every

penny and more."

Hi Mort,

I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth every penny and more.

My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left. We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling, instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me growing.

Thank you
Malissa Olveda

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"...the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new direction…began to alter and uplift my morale and outlook"

After reading almost every article and book on marriage issues, I signed up for the Marriage Fitness program on the Lone Ranger Track without much of an expectation. I seemed to have identified all the issues impeding my relationship with my spouse but motivating her to engage had become impossible. However the Marriage Fitness program approach took me a new direction…began to alter and uplift my morale and outlook. We have not reached a point of true connection but the ice is beginning to melt.

GB

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"I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks."

Mort,

I can't say enough about your program.  My spouse had moved out, was not speaking to me or answering my calls, and was beginning a relationship with another man.  I was convinced we were through.  Using the principles I learned in your lone ranger program, I was able to reconnect with her.  Matter of fact, she is laying beside me right now as I type this.  I highly recommend the Marriage Fitness program for all couples even if your relationship is not on the rocks.

Bryan

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"IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised"

Mr. Mort

I thank you so much again for your program, this is the second email that i have sent you… it has worked wonders with my husband.. as I told you in my last email,  My husband does not even know that I am doing your program.  However again he is saying things yesterday and today, that.. did I know that he was crazy about me, and missed me so very much (we have had to be apart because he is in California and i am in Colorado as I also told you in my last email to you.   I needed to come here to take care of some business, and because of some unforeseen matters, I need to stay here until i find a job to save enough money to go back to California to get a home for just my  husband and I.   its a long story but would be happy to tell you one day if your were interested.  I just want to shout it out to all the world about your program,  its DOES work with only one spouse taking the program, it doesn't require both husband and wife for the program to work.  Did you hear me... :)_  IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DO THE PROGRAM FOR IT TO WORK...   just like you promised.   My husband just told me tonight that he thinks the time apart from each other has been good for him to realize that he was ''getting to comfortable with me'' as far as things like sex, hugs, kisses and just paying attention to me.  Hallelujah! Praise God,..  I am on my knees praising God and being thankful that I found and was given your program.!   

Thank you and God bless you Mort.   I have a lot more to my success story if you ever want to know it..  

Thank you ,,, thank you ..thank you... blessings to you Mr. Mort..

My marriage is become a success...! just like you promised

I want the whole world to know that it is never, ever too late to help your marriage....!

Thank you Jesus!♥♥

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"Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations."

Mort Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and has chosen to share with the world.  He is compassionate, versatile, humble, real and wise.

When I first purchased the program I was desperate for help and I knew just anything would not work.  Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations.  I adore how Mort approaches the answers with out history; that way you know the answer is not tainted or miss guided in the results.  And that is exactly what you get RESULTS .  My husband is immature, stubborn, insensitive, etc (human).  My husband is also spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what he wants, focused, etc (perfect man for me).  And I truly believe without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for me.   We both came from single parent home and obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to function.   With three girls there love life was looking doomed.  But now we all have hope for tomorrow. 

I was living in a TV Romance Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help and  What Am I Doing Wrong; What the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a promise of never ending drama.  Now I live in a world were I can appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses, smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated sources.  I can now freely give and appreciate everything I receive.  And believe me my husband is the type of man that only listens to other men.  No matter what they said.   If a man told him eating grass was manly he would want it for dinner every night.  So by the grace of God I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and genuine concern (Mort).   While also teach me how to love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get a lot more.  This program pulled me back from legal separations.   I was going to court in the morning and listening to Mort in the evening and then one morning I dismissed everything (a breakthrough).  Of course my marriage is not perfect yet but that is the great thing because now we have so much to look forward to and strive for.  LOVE is really obtainable and really can be kept for a life time.   I would say to anybody that wants to keep there marriage or are not sure if you want to be married you owe yourself the opportunity to try this program.  If you know you are going to lose you spouse because of your mistakes and/or theirs why not try it.  Worst case scenario you are able to walk from your marriage knowing you did all you can do to be the best spouse you can be if you do everything Mort asks you to do.

T. Mitchell

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"...your invaluable information has

found a place in my heart"

Mr. Fertel,

Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and your program.

Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.

Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was the right path to follow.

I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out", my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr. Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"

I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I made a covenant with God to love forever.

It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital redemption.

Sincerely Grant

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"I really wish I would have purchased your course."

Mort,

I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I really wish I would have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and I've lost all.

I held dear.

Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio

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"By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone"

My husband left me 5 ½ months ago after being very unhappy in our marriage for many years. He said I was a good person and friend but that he didn't love me anymore. We have been married for 17 years and like all marriages there were the ups and downs.

Needless to say, this has been the most devastating experience of my life. We have two beautiful children, 14 and 11, and it has been very difficult on them as well. My husband has always a wonderful father and husband but over the years, he started to work more and more and withdraw emotionally from me. We did not take the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me now we were just roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said because sometimes roommates don't like each other and he still considers me a friend.

I desperately tried to search for answers and solutions to this horrible situation. For the first three months I hardly talked to him; I was in so much pain. He, on the other hand, still wanted to help out with the house chores like shovelling snow, helping with the children and so on. It was very painful for me to be near him so I rejected any help at all. I knew I couldn't go for too much longer as it was affecting my whole life, my work, and my children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web site which said I could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness. I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some wonderful and inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of reconciliation because my husband did not want that.

By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone. I became interested in trying his boot camp as a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked the money back guarantee if he couldn't help me. I felt that I could always get my money back. It didn't take long for me to realize that I was receiving help immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions to talk personally with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had changed and was different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain that he has gone through and it was a very moving experience for both of us.

I listen to tapes everyday to and from work and every time I drive anywhere. …we are talking and taking part in family activities together. We went to play pool for the first time ever this past Friday night and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient and want things to move faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my husband from a place deep in my heart for perhaps the very first time in our married life. My husband hugs me when he leaves from our visits and his heart is slowly opening up to me again.

All of this would not have been possible, had I not found Mr. Fertel's program. Everything makes so much sense that I cannot get enough of this help.

Thank you, Mort. I thank God I found you.

Sincerely,

Nelda

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"I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she

had seen a change in me"

Dear Mort,

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.

Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after that she will want to do the program with me.

Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be restored.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho

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