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"He
gave me a hug and a kiss (I
haven't gotten either in so
long) and told me how sorry
he is for the way he has been
acting"
Dear
Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed
you asking if your program
would work for my situation.
I bought the Marriage Fitness
Home-Flex program out of desperation
with the thought, "If
this doesn't work at least
I tried." My husband
was already looking for a
roommate and telling me who
will get what in the divorce.
We went to four marriage counseling
sessions before he said, "I
don't know why we are going,
I am done with you."
I am not sure why we went
either, we just ended up fighting
the whole time. So long
story short I followed your
program (in the Lone Ranger
Track), signed up for your
emails, and started applying
your ideas. There were
many days I felt like why
bother, he is done with me,
but I kept following the program.
Ten days ago he told me he
was leaving. I almost
gave up but didn't.
I kept following the program.
Two days ago my husband came
home from hiking (alone).
He gave me a hug and a kiss
(I haven't gotten either in
so long) and told me how sorry
he is for the way he has been
acting. He said he is
ready to work on our marriage.
I know we are on a long journey
now but at least now we are
on that journey together.
I know you probably hear it
all the time but you once
again saved a marriage that
would have dissolved without
you. Thank you so much
for all of your help.
Thanks again,
KS
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"I
did the lone ranger track and within
two weeks my husband ended his affair
"
Dear
Mort,
I
know you have heard it before, but
I want to say it again.... You saved
my marriage. My husband said
he "loved me but was not in
love with me anymore".
He was having an affair, during
a very hard pregnancy which I later
miscarried. I was not very
nice when I was pregnant and I was
depressed so he turned to someone
else. Needless to say losing
a baby and a marriage in a two week
time-span was unbearable.
So I turned to you. Counseling
had been a joke just telling us
how to communicate.
Your program told me what to do. I
followed the program exactly. I
did the lone ranger track and within
two weeks my husband ended his affair
and "rededicated his life to
me".
Thanks
so much,
Lisa
Blank
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"After
30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do
this sooner. "
Dear
Mort,
Thank you for your program. I was
driving into my driveway finalizing the
words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.
Upon arriving home, your program had come
as well. Rather than tell my wife
I'm outta here, I suggested we listen
to a disk. Long story short, we'll
be working this out together, getting
connected, completing your action steps.
I can't wait to continue connecting.
After 30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't
do this sooner. Thank you.
Greg Burke
Denver, CO
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"I
would strongly recommend this program
to everyone who does not want to give
up on their marriage"
Dear
mort,
I
was reluctant to begin the lone
ranger program. Wondering how I
would be able to make a difference in
my marriage doing the program alone.
Through your sincere mentoring, principles
and new habbits used in your program,
it is proven to work. I could not
beleive I started to receive positive
responses from my husband. Although
I had invitied my spouse to do the program
with me he felt it would not help.
So I did not tell him and I started the
program. After a few weeks, my husband
had commented he seen a change in
me. I then took the opportunity
to tell him I have been in the marriage
fitness program. He now continues
to ask if I have a teleconference call
scheduled and how things are going.
Even though he has not yet join me in
the program, I feel confident that my
continued efforts and your guidence will
bring more change and connection to our
marriage. I would strongly recommend
this program to everyone who does not
want to give up on their marriage and
who also wants to improve how to be a
better you!
Thank
you Mort for making us matter...
Sincerely
& God Bless
JoAnn
S.
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"I
keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming.
Everything has changed so quickly,
it
is truly amazing. "
Dear
Mort,
Words cannot express my gratitude for
you and your program. I ordered your program
out of desperation as a last ditch effort
to save my marriage. I wanted to be able
to say "at least I tried". I
found out that my husband was having an
affair, he was determined to get a divorce
and move out. There was nothing (according
to him) that I could say or do to change
his mind. He said that he was a train
that could not be derailed. The advertisement
for your program said that it addressed
all of the problems that we were having
and everything my husband was saying,
"I love you, but I'm not in love
with you" and "I'm checked out...it's
over". I thought your program would
be too good to be true, but I gave it
a shot.
I have been in the lone ranger program
for 6 weeks now and I could not have dreamed
of a better outcome. My husband and I
are more connected now than we have been
in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever
been. After two weeks of being in the
program, my husband came home one night
and asked me why I was being so nice.
He said that he didn't know what was going
on, but that he really liked it and appreciated
it. At that point he said that he hadn't
changed his mind YET, but that he really
liked it. From then on our relationship
blossomed. He started giving me touch
and talk without even knowing it. Now
he looks forward to spending time with
me as opposed to trying to get away from
me. Last night he said that he no longer
wanted a divorce and that he felt that
we were very connected and thought things
would work between us. I cannot pin point
what did it, but whatever it was it is
all thanks to you. I keep pinching myself
to see if I am dreaming. Everything has
changed so quickly, it is truly amazing.
You are a gift from God. THANK YOU, THANK
YOU, THANK YOU!
Sincerely,
Melissa K.
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In
just the short amount of time we have
been part of the Marriage Fitness Program,
we have seen a dramatic impact
on our marriage. We have
already told others, who have informed
us in one way or another they are having
marital issues, about the program.
The information we received makes so much
sense and is not difficult to apply to
day to day life. It is comforting
to know we are not alone with the problems
we have experienced and we are being taught
by someone who has been through the same
issues and is living the principles being
taught. The teacher walks the walk.
Thank you for helping us start the process
of saving our marriage, family, and our
future.

Stephanie
& Mike - Jarrettsville, MD
"Your
information was outstanding and actually
very simple!"
Mort,
I signed up for the lone ranger program.
Your information was outstanding. Actually
very simple once you explained everything
in detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts,
suggestions, and theories work, but they
do!
I have a long way to continue but it's
getting better thanks to you. To do my
job I couldn't always attend to Q &
A's live, but the audio files we had access
to on the members-only web site were a
lifesaver.
Keep up the good work
Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois
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"We
are no longer searching for lawyers and
affairs...we now spend our searching for
ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"
Dear
Mort,
If
anyone thinks that "it is the end,"
"it's hopeless"....then they
had better think twice. I actually sat
down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the
worst day of my life. By some miracle
I found your program. By some second miracle
my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen
to your program. By some other miracle
we both came to an epiphany about our
lives, our marriage and the true love
that was lying just beneath the surface
of our existence. We are no longer searching
for lawyers and affairs...we now spend
our searching for ways to grow and strengthen
our marriage and striving to be role models
for our two beautiful children. We could
not have been closer to divorce. There
were 3 affairs to contend with....but
still we are together and happy about
it. It is never too late, there is hope
for anyone who dares to try. To all those
marriages that are crumbling: Be brave,
be daring, be strong, be willing to jump
into an ice cold river to be swept away
by the warmth of love. Thank you Mort
Fertel for somehow finding answers for
all of us who were too blind to see the
light, too frightened to open our hearts
and too trapped to escape doom. From
GP and JG
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"WE
have both seen improvement, albeit slight"
Although my husband initially
sent me the link to Mort's site, I am
the one who ordered it, and then it was
like pulling teeth to get Jim interested
in working the program (not just in "theory"
but in practice). We are just now
starting to gather momentum. When
Jim and I drive to work he takes a CD
to listen to, when we go somewhere together
in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to
listen to. Mort is right, IT IS
NOT EASY. But we are not giving
up. WE have both seen improvement,
albeit slight. At this point we are still
trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls
it) to start working on it's own.
Bonnie and Jim R.

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"[Mr.
Fertel] gave the best advice I have
ever heard about marriage problems"
Mr.
Fertel ,
I
have thought long and hard about writing
a testimonial for the Marriage Fitness
Program. The problem was where to
begin and when to stop writing about the
success I have achieved (with Mr.
Fertel's help) but here goes:
If
the term “obstinate spouse” were in the
dictionary then my husband's picture would
take up the whole page!!
We
fit the pattern of couples married for
a very long time, 24 years. In these
days odds are against that. And,
like many long-married couples, we had
fallen into a rut. Same old routine
day in and day out. Somewhere along
the way we stopped trying to connect with
each other. My husband started filling
his time with church work 4 to 5 days
a week, not including actually going to
church on Saturday and Sunday (we're Catholic
so there are masses both days).
I think he realized that might have been
excessive and cut back, but that was only
after I complained and complained about
never seeing him. This was the real
problem: he was so used to spending time
away from me and getting what he should
have been getting from the me that he
only switched his focus to sports, visiting
his father 5 to 6 times a week (his father
is in excellent health, but they have
common interests), even spending hours
talking to his favorite garage mechanic.
No, there were no extra-marital affairs,
thank goodness. I am not blameless
either. I spent at least 8 hours
a day in the garden, often more, and for
some reason it took priority over what
little time my husband was home.
So we tried regular marriage counselling.
After paying a good deal of money to be
beaten up by the counsellor about my health
issues causing all the problems in our
relationship (chronic depression among
other biggies) we stopped because of financial
reasons around Christmas time. My
husband has not mentioned anything about
going back. Imagine spending your
24 th anniversary by yourself while your
husband declared he was going out to clean
the garage, and then went off to spend
the rest of the day with his father!
No “Happy Anniversary” card, absolutely
no mention at all, and he was the one
who had always remembered the date.
So,
during one of my many nights with insomnia,
I Googled marriage counselling and Mort
Fertel's name came up. I read through
the whole site. And I couldn't believe
how much sense his approach to marital
problems made. Yes, it would seem
“counter-intuitive” as he explains but
traditional counselling did absolutely
no good for us. Within the week
I signed up for the Lone Ranger track.
I have read his book, am on the second
reading now; listened to all the
CDs, poured through the notebook.
I can honestly say that there wasn't any
question or problem that wasn't covered
in the materials.
He
gave the best advice I have ever heard
about marriage problems .
It's been three full months. And
guess what? My husband has started
joking with me again! I don't remember
how long it's been since that happened.
We talk! He even is starting to
make physical contact again instead of
trying his hardest not to brush against
me (that was one of the worst things to
endure).
Hope
is a wonderful thing; it's worth
all the hard work to rebuild a successful
and loving marriage.
Susan
D.
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"We
credit you for helping save our marriage
every
chance we get!"


Dear
Mort,
We
are 2 of your success stories and we credit
you for helping save our marriage every
chance we get!
We've
continued in the Marriage Fitness program
and thank you from the bottom of our hearts
for your great work. We were married 28
years, separated 18 months, worked your
program 6 of those months, had phone sessions
with you, and now are back under the same
roof for three months. It isn't easy,
but we are determined to make our love
work for us.
We
just had to invite you to the party, knowing
you can't be here, but you get positive
feedback!
THANK
YOU MORT!
Penny
and Jeff Mazin
"Marriage
Fitness is a truly incredible program
that should be required reading before
getting married.
It is really that powerful!"
I
am a husband that is in the lone ranger
track that was hurt by an internet affair
that has tore apart my marriage and family
for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago
I discovered Mort Fertel's Marriage Fitness
program following weeks of urgent searching
for answers on how to rebuild my marriage
.
Mort
taught me how to transform my perception
of love from a passive impulsive feeling
which it truly is not, into an active
process of consistently giving in small
ways among other good habits. Also,
by understanding that there really is
something I can do in my relationship
on my own that can make a huge difference
in my marriage has given me tremendous
hope.
It
is really hard for a person to understand
how dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness
program is until you jump in. Since getting
involved in the Marriage Fitness program
I have been to Psychotherapists and
have found that they just don't hold
a candle to the practical solutions that
Mort's program offers.
I
still have work to do to win back my obstinate
wife's love but the encouragement that
I receive from the Marriage
Fitness program I participated
in, is keeping my outlook positive and
I am seeing my wife's guard coming down
slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency
in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal
marriage are absolutely key but without
his Q&A sessions
and laser sessions I would have
lost hope by now.
Marriage
Fitness is a truly incredible program
that should be required reading in high
school or at least before getting married.
It is really that powerful! I wish I would
have found out about Mort Fertel many
years ago. I have never felt so compelled
to offer my most sincere endorsement of any
other product or person's services in
my entire life.
Stephen
B.
Fenwick,
ON Canada
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"My
husband and I have just celebrated our
6 th anniversary … thanks to this program. "
First and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel
because his program was exactly what I
needed! This program was a last
resort for me because I had done the talking
and begging with my husband and it was
not working. I was not reaching
him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger Track
as a last resort. At first, I was
skeptical because I had never done anything
like this before and did not believe this
could really work. Once I read through
the book and listen to audios I realized
where I was going wrong and that I was
not the only person going through this.
I started implementing Mr. Fertel's concepts
and advice, with great difficulty.
I had zero hope, out of ideas and wanted
to change this situation ASAP. I began
to see a slow change in my husband and
myself.
My husband and I have just celebrated
our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 …
thanks to this program.
I have and still am implementing the process
with my husband. I use every opportunity
I have to connect with him and let him
see me as an exceptional wife. I
look forward to reviewing what you have
taught me everyday and to make that loving
close connection with my husband. I can't
thank you enough. THANK YOU THANK
YOU!!
Forever
grateful,
Lillian
H.
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"You
have helped my husband and myself learn
how to get over the pain"
Dear
Mort,
I just wanted to write you and tell you
that you have been a bigger and more inspiring
help than our marriage counselor that
we have been seeing for over a month.
I had an affair that lasted 9 months.
Why? Because I felt like I wasn't getting
the attention that I had thought that
I "required." My husband whom I never
stopped loving decided to forgive me but
in the process is still bitter and hurt.
You have helped him and myself learn how
to get over the pain and continue on with
a marriage that we both want to last forever.
Thank you,
M.S. and J.M.
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"It's
time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out.
"
Thank
you Mort! I got into the program
because of the testimonies of those
who took it and saved their marriages.
I also got in when I read that it
was highly recommended by Stephen
R. Covey, so I thought what do I
have to lose? I love Mr. Covey's
ideals, so if he thinks it's a good
buy, then I can trust that.
I was a lone ranger in the program…I
can honestly tell you that I'm a
much more loving person now. I'm
so much happier now and I have peace
of mind most of the time. I'm less
stressed. … This program not only
helped restore and renew my marriage,
but it has also helped me raise
my children with love. I'm a better
mom now … I'm so much a better person
because of it. …And your program
has helped me make a HUGE difference
and turn around in our marriage.
My husband has returned home and
he said that my happiness and our
children's happiness will be his
and he will never leave again. I
also like that you remind us over
and over about the most powerful
hand in a marriage....God. You are
right. My husband said he prayed
and fasted that day he listened
to the audios of teleseminar 2 and
3 and liked what he heard and decided
he wanted to do it with me. So,
we're doing the duo track slowly
but surely.
Thank you for your gift. I know
that God put you on the earth at
a time when I need you and your
talents. I truly believe that. I
was led to your website and I felt
in my heart the need to order the
materials. It was expensive for
my means, but my marriage was more
important than that. It is worth
every penny I pay you.
Thank you again. Keep saving souls,
marriages, families, children and
generations. The world has had enough
selfishness and divorces. It's time
for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out.
I highly recommend your program
to anyone who is willing to try.
Sincerely yours,
SL
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Hi.
I'm Mr. Fertel's assistant. My name is
Rebecca. People call the office all the
time and ask, “Does this program really
work?” Well, it's easy for me to say “yes”
because Adina (that's Mr. Fertel's other
assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails
so we personally received all the testimonials
on this web page. When we get them, we
just cut and paste them onto the web site.
I thought you'd like to know how these
stories got here. Keep reading. You'll
be amazed at how Mr. Fertel has changed
people's lives and how his program has
put families back together. I look forward
to getting an email testimonial from you
one day. Good luck!
"Because
of you we have slowly recovered the
remnants of our lost family"
Good
morning Mort,
I
want you to know we would be honored to
serve you in this way and share with others
the amazing ways our marriage has been
saved.
I
had the opportunity to speak with you
on the phone once... as an American serviceman
whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments
and the stress of the Global War on Terror.
I was a soldier serving in Iraq when my
wife gave up on me and betrayed our family
with an affair during my deployment. I
have learned, demonstrated and applied
the principles from Marriage Fitness...
and we have slowly recovered the remnants
of a lost family. My wife and two sons
thank you for this wonderful program.
I
too... like many others... owe you and
your wife a debt of gratitude.
God
Bless!
MAJ
Sven O.
ADC
Section Chief, RAOC
AZ
Army National Guard
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"From
the first week, things changed"
Dear
Mr. Fertel,
Prior
to starting your program, our 11 year
marriage was in ruins. We were divorcing,
fighting over the kids and who got to
keep the furniture and pets. We had gone
through my discovering my husbands 10
year affair, my own emotional affair,
not to mention the years of financial
distress, the stress of two jobs and three
kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse
after all this we thought that it was
over. I accidentally came across your
site one day while looking for something
pertaining to my upcoming divorce and
thought what would it hurt to give it
a try. My husband went along with it,
and from the first week, things changed.
After going through your program we are
closer than we have ever been and we are
finally a team. Thank you very much for
your great program, it saved us and our
family.
T.F.
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"Marriage
fitness is a working miracle for us"
Hi
Mort:
I
am happy to give you a testimonial to
Marriage Fitness as it has been so wonderful
for us.
We have only been married for 5 years
and have dealt with lots of issues mostly
about our blended families. We even
been seperated once for 5 months. We had
been fighting quite a bit and were at
the point of breaking up again when we
both decided we would put our energy and
resources in to saving our marriage instead
of breaking it apart.
Marriage fitness is a working miracle
for us…
This has been the best thing we could
have done. We are discovering a true connection
and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks
Mort, you have been a blessing to
us and our marriage!
Wes & Irma

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"My
relationship is slowly transforming
into something new and infinitely
more positive"
I
never imagined myself resorting to an
internet self help program. But I tried
everything else with my failing marriage
and Mort's program seemed promising. I
realized that I had some HORRIBLE habits
that were killing my relationship and I
was totally pushing my husband away.
Things now are on the mend and on the
upswing and my relationship is slowly
transforming into something new and infinitely
more positive.
VBL
New
York City
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Check
out our Facebook testimonials!

(Rick:
I just want to say thank you for your
emails. I thought my marriage could not
be fixed and with your help, it was. I
commend you, on what you do for people.
Keep doing what you do. Thanks)
(Jennifer: Yes! Thank
you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!!
Pay attention people! Listen to Mort.
Listen to your spouse, or significant
other.)
"After
the first CD we started to understand
where we went wrong and thankfully we
had someone helping us find our way
back to falling in love with each other
again. "
In
all the years that we have been together
I can honestly say…in the end it really
just became a life of roommates.
We
just couldn't understand where things
went wrong…we were still about to break
off our relationship because we stop talking
to each other, we stop doing things together,
we were only wrapped up in ourselves and
became very unhappy with it, even started
looking outside for the affection and
self fulfillments that were no longer.
I
found Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line
and I really liked what I was reading,
I can tell you that even after the first
CD we started to understand where we went
wrong and thankfully we had someone helping
us find our way back to falling in love
with each other again.
No,
it's not that easy and yes it is. No,
because one of us didn't really want to
and didn't think it would make a difference,
but we started and continued working with
the program after four weeks we started
talking all the time, we started doing
things again together and yes we are falling
back in love again, but every day we are
reminded that we could fall back into
roommates again if we don't continue with
the program long after were done with
the Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .
Thank
you Mort for waking us up and being there
when we were searching for that help.

Peter & Ruby – Long
Beach, CA.
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"It
is certain that his program works"
When
we started the program, we only did it
to prove to ourselves that we had done
everything we could to save the marriage.
Justin had already decided to end the
marriage. I was desperate to do whatever
i could…we then, at that point, started
searching for help and each time, we left
feeling worse. There was no intimacy at
all.
Mort's
program stopped the battles and taught
us a new way to look at things. It was
the first time we felt like there was
really some hope. We were so tired and
confused; we barely had enough mental
strength to go on. Mort's program gave
us tha t s trength.
We
both gained new insight to who we were
individually. We learned to be patient,
and open to the fact that we were changing.
Mor t s howed us how to respect and learn
each other's need for individuality and
how to give each other the space we needed
to grow.
Our
children have learned that marriage is
not to be taken for granted. It is precious.
They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage
is not perfect, but it is stable and for
the first time in yrs the lines of communication
are open so we can solve situations rationally.
Mort
gives you the tools you need to rebuild
your relationship. Thanks so much mort.
Justin
and Jan C.
Elgin
, SC
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"Such
common sense that doesn't dwell on either
communication skills or
hashing out the past"
Hi
Mort,
I
recently ordered and received your program.
My husband and I are amazed at your story
and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs
on long road trips. Your insight and approach
are refreshing--such common sense that
doesn't dwell on either communication
skills or hashing out the past.
We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already
seen a huge change in our relationship after
implementing some of your ideas!
Thank
you, Mort. We will definitely recommend
your course to friends and family who
are struggling with their marriages.
It is the best we have found.
Best
regards,
Sandra
L. H.
Mammoth
Lakes , CA 93546
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"To
couples everywhere: believe in the advice
that Mort has to offer"
From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22
AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .
Dear Mort,
I wanted to write to you and share with
you the successful reconciliation of my
marriage and the ongoing repair work that
we are undergoing to rebuild and strengthen
it.
I signed up for your program to repair
my marriage. After 2 months of applying
what I learned in your program, much prayer,
and much effort, my wife came back to
me. We discussed our issue, had real communication,
and continue to do so today. Our marriage
has never been better. I am so happy and
grateful that I received your advice,
and that it has really worked.
To couples everywhere, believe in the
advice that Mort has to offer, because
if you apply it, you too, can transform
your marriage. My wife did not want to
do it, or even try, but the changes I
made in myself and the application of
the advice Mort sent can make miracles
happen. Prayer and giving the situation
over to God is also a big key. Trust in
Him, and use Mort's principles, and no
marriage will really be over.
- Rusty
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"My
wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum
change
made to our relationship"
Mort,
Having
recently completed the Boot Camp, and
due primarily to me being out-of-town
for more than half of the 7-weeks, even
with me/us botching the schedule and the
workbook assignments, my wife and I are
ecstatic over the quantum change made
to our relationship, our newfound ability
to communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen
our marriage.
To
have our teenage kids advise us that we're
"cree ping them out" lately, due
to the amount of attention we have been
giving each other (not to mention the
thought of mom and dad "going on a date"),
we must be doing something right.
Celebrating
our 20th wedding anniversary yesterday
really took on a special meaning, considering
that a couple months ago (and for several
years leading up to it), I was miserable
in wanting to get back the feelings we
once had, but not knowing how to do it
. . . I cant believe it was as simple
as it really was.
Heartfelt
thanks.
Tom
& Lil
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"It's
one thing to have someone give wisdom
arbitrarily but quite another when someone
has walked in your shoes."
What
meant the most to us was that Mort has
been through a difficult situation in
his own marriage and practices the techniques
he teaches. They worked…and
it shows in the way he talks about his
own marriage.
It's one thing to have someone give wisdom
arbitrarily but quite another when someone
has walked in your shoes.
While each marital situation is different,
re-connecting after a disconnect has universal
principles and Mort teaches them well.
I highly recommend his program for any
marriage in need of an awakening.
ST in Altanta
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"In
less than a week my husband was looking
thru the material and willing to listen
to the CD's"
Dear
Mort,
I
would like to first commend you on your
patients, understanding, and clarity.
I was looking for the ultimate answer
to my marriage problems. When I found
you, I immediately signed up for the program.
I started out on the lone ranger track
but after I listened to the 1st CD and
read the book (all in one evening) I began
putting actions into motion. In less than
a week my husband was looking thru the
material and willing to listen to the
CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but
you did it.
Your
program is a no brainer if you just think
about it…the CD's explain
in full color what we have been doing
to each other. I can not Thank You enough
for opening our eyes. We can work together
again without arguing, we talk a lot more
and sometimes the tv doesn't even get
turned on. I thank God every day
that I found you. It was all the right
timing. You will be in our lives forever.
Thanks again.
Sincerely,
Pam
W.
P.S.
My husband even did the whole laundry
one week by himself. He even folded the
clothes. BIG STEP.
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"It
now seems so simple"
Sent: Thursday, March 22,
2007 10:05 AM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: God and Your program are awesome
I followed your program as the lone ranger.
I listened and used your suggestions.
It now seems so simple. In the beginning
I was very leery. I just wanted you to
know that everything has turned 180 degrees
from I love you but I'm not in love with
you” and my wife wanting a separation
to see below:
- Last night my wife bought me flowers
and double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)
- She sat down and told me she loved me
very much and was sorry she had not contributed
her share to the relationship
- She told me I was a wonderful man
- She told me she could not imagine me
not being in her life married to her
Is God not awesome!!!!!
Thank you for everything.
If you ever need a testimony let me know!
T.E.
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"If you are looking
for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in
making your marriage all that you
knew it could be - look no further."
The Marriage
Fitness program by Mort Fertel has
been a truly transformative experience.
If you are looking for a great teacher,
mentor, and coach in making your
marriage all that you knew it could
be - look no further. It is not
an easy journey but with Mort's help he
can help you restore love in your marriage,
even if you're on the brink of divorce
(as we were). This program has
even inspired our creativity together
in a poem we dedicate to Mort and
to our journey to marital success:
Together
There
once was a couple named Robyn and Jeff
Their
souls knew each other before they
ever met.
They
walked down the road of life's path
On
their way from a distant and troubled
past...
They
started along their journey together and
Somehow
lost their way - But with Mort, love and
Pat
ience they began a whole new day...
In
making their dreams they always knew
Together
- would come true...
And
so now the journey of healing begins
Back
to the path of love where their souls
Have
always been...Together!"
Thank
you Mort!! Sincerely, Jeffrey
& Robyn Sadowski
-
Members of The Marriage Fitness Program.
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"How
do you thank someone for changing your
whole world? I want to jump through
this computer screen and give you a
big hug"
Mort,
I'm
at a loss for words. How do you thank
someone for changing your whole world?
I want to jump through this computer screen
and give you a big hug (not that you'd
let me, LOL).
Mort,
you didn't just help our marriage but
you changed our whole family. We've been
married for 15 years, have four children
and were on the brink of divorce. The
emotional pain I had inside was so bad
it was almost a physical pain. The worst
part is that you can't go through pain
like that without it having an effect
on your children. We tried to shield them
as much as possible, but they knew something
was wrong. To think of what we were putting
them through emotionally, breaks my heart.
We
too, tried everything from traditional
marriage counseling to Venus and Mars
and everything in between. Nothing worked.
There wasn't a doubt in my mind that our
problems were just too big to overcome.
Then
we found you. Mort, you honestly were
our last ditch effort. I personally thought
it was too much money to spend but you
offered a money back guarantee and I had
full intentions on collecting it. My husband
and I decided to give your program a try
but in the back of my mind I knew it wouldn't
work and I continued to make plans for
a new life without my husband. Then something
happened. Not overnight, but it happened.
I'm not even 100% sure of what it was,
but it was working. I am blown away with
how far we have come in just 10 weeks.
Everything is different. My husband and
I are more in love now than we were on
our wedding day. 10 weeks ago I couldn'
t s tand being in the same room with him
and today I know with all my heart that
we will be together forever. Divorce will
never be an option for us. Were gonna
make it.
I've
heard it said that people don't change.
What a bold faced lie. My husband was
the most stubborn person I knew. He hated
counseling, "working on our problems"
and every single program we ever tried.
But Mort, he loved your program. For once
he wasn't being blamed or made to feel
defensive. You were able to create an
environment that was safe, non-threatening
and fun. You totally impressed him (and
that's no small feat). For the first time
in 15 years, he was asking me to do our
"homework". Why? Because it was working.
He did a complete 180. We both did.
Knowing
what I know now, I would have paid a million
dollars for this program and I can't believe
you charge so little for what you offer.
You literally have every base covered
and I know you put your heart and soul
into it. This is not just a profession
for you. It's not about making a buck.
You have a God given gift and you're changing
lives.
A
few months ago I asked God for help. I
didn't know what to do; there was nothing
left to try so I left it in his hands.
He gave me you. So, thank you God, and
thank you Mort.
Michelle
Vancouver
, BC
P.S.
Remember that hug I mentioned earlier?
When you go home tonight, please give
it to your wife. Tell her that Michelle
from Canada sends her heartfelt thanks
for helping you to become the man that
you are. She should know that she played
a huge role in saving a family she doesn't
even know.
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"...and
of course when something works- like
your program does- it becomes much more
valuable than the actual dollars spent"
Hi
Mort.
It won't be easy to express how significant
your program was to my husband and me.
He and I have always loved each other
but came from different back grounds and
had different expectations from one another
which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional
help since we weren't getting anywhere
and both continued to feel hurt by the
other. Traditional counseling was not
appealing to us because of the expense,
the roll of the dice whether you get a
counselor that is a good fit and the most
frustrating part- it just takes too long.
One hour a week is not enough when there
is so much to resolve.
One of the best things right from the
beginning was your incredible credentials
and the fact we didn't have to be in the
same city to work with someone like yourself
who has such a nationally ranked proven
track record. That made sure it wasn't
going to be a roll of the dice- needle
in the haystack- open the phone book -
which is what it would have normally been
to try to locate a professional. Your
program is so versatile it allows anyone
in the entire country to take advantage
of it in the privacy of their own home.
The combination of the book, audio tapes,
live seminars, group sessions, one on
ones creates an ideal dynamic for learning.
Regular counseling is over $100 an hour-
your program provided so much more for
under $500. And of course when something
works- like your program does- it becomes
much more valuable than the actual dollars
spent.
What can I say are some of the most significant
aspects of what your program did to help
us?... It provided a standard of how a
husband and wife should treat each other
so no matter what someone’s background
is they're both on the same playing field.
The program also sets the expectations
very high which is the epitome of real
love- to treat each other so well- to
me it is like heaven on earth. What a
beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize
positive healthy relationship habits-
and to try to forgive past hurts- to start
over- creates a new beginning. Every couple
that's going to get married should participate
in a program like yours that emphasizes
such important habits to be generous to
their mates and to try to always be a
great model for healthy loving behavior.
Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it-
handle so much hurt every day by those
of us that are struggling- and you exude
such caring concern to all of us. I am
so thankful for you. Your help was a critical
turning point in our marriage. You and
the program are an incredible blessing
that in my mind are divinely inspired.
I will never forget your kindness and
caring and the beautiful message of love
that is the basis of your program- for
us to be good to each other. My husband
and I are connecting again on a level
I have only dreamed of having in my life.
It would not have happened with out you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Please share my feedback with others so
they might get a glimpse of hope of what
you can do for them as well if they are
struggling.
Valerie Kemmer
I also asked my husband to provide input
on what the program meant to him. Here
are his words:
"He's made me realize little things are
important- don't take things for granted-
and it doesn't matter if your together
one day or for 30 years- you should appreciate
the one you love " Jeff Kemmer
All the best to you and your family Mort-
now and always. I hope you can continue
the powerful work you do to help everyone
who is struggling- learn to me good to
each other again. You are very dear to
us. VK
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"You
have turned me and my life around."
Dear
Mort,
I just wanted to say a simple "Thank
you". I have done your program as
a Lone Ranger, even though my husband
knew. You have turned me and my life around.
It is so hard to get practical, honest
support and advice. My husband has made
a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!
Julia Z.
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"I
went from being totally unhappy to being
in love with my husband again"
We
have been married 42 years, but after
my husband retired and we spent more time
together, our home became a
battleground. My husband seemed
to be more satisfied with the traditional
marriage counseling than I was, so I started
the loan ranger program, Following Mort
Fertel's suggested steps, I went from
being totally unhappy to being in love
with my husband again, and although he
expressed no interest in the program,
he responded so positively that the
difference in our relationship is almost
unbelievable. Now I believe that
by following through with Mort's
program our "golden years" can
truly be golden and not spoiled by
arguments, resentments and anger..
Gillian S .
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"The
value of what you provide is not comparable
to any other program out there."
September
29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial
Dear Mr. Fertel,
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was
absolutely phenomenal.
First, understand that I am not the type
of person to write in and give testimony.
It is with great pleasure that I do now.
The value of what you provide is not comparable
to any other program out there. I now
look at what I thought were “marriage
problems” and realize that they
are blessings. You have taught me the
values and principals I need to be the
best husband my wife could ever want.
My life is different. I’m confident
my marriage will continue to progress
into one of deep love not only for the
both of us but in the eyes of God as well.
Thank you for everything!
Anthony Schiro
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"We
went from apartment hunting and selling
our house to living a healthy, happy,
fun life together all because of
your program."
Hello
Mr. Fertel,
Your
program has helped the two of us so much
we wanted to thank you. We went
from apartment hunting and selling our
house to living a healthy, happy, fun life
together all because of your program.
Thank you Mort Fertel !!!
Marianne
and Scott B.
Cherry
Hill , NJ
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"We
finally have some positive energy back
in our Marriage."
Thank
God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that
we had no other options and the Divorce
process was already started. He gave us
the proper guidance/structure to get us
moving in the right direction. We finally
have some positive energy back in our
Marriage.
B.O.
New
Jersey
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"As
I began to change, he did, too!"
Before
I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's
Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage
was in the toilet.
During
my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child,
my husband sank into a deep depression,
leaving me to hold the family together.
I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived,
and I faced divorce with four kids under
the age of 10!
I
came across Mort Fertel 's website, and
decided to try the Lone Ranger Program.
I didn't hold out to much hope, as I thought
at the time that there was nothing that
would make me feel love toward my husband
again. I was the one leaning towards divorce,
but I did this program as a last resort
just so that I could say that I "tried".”
Once
I started the program, my anger began
to soften. I saw my husband as a person
needing love and understanding, rather
than as a self-absorbed man. As I began
to change, he did, too!
Thank
you, Mort!!
A.P.
Illinois
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"Mort's
method is a totally new way to look
at marital problems."
I
would recommend this program to anyone
who want to enrich their marriage and
especially if they are having marital
problems. Mort's method is a totally new
way to look at marital problems. Every
method he suggested was helpful. This
program was hard but very useful. It is
a whole new way of looking at things.
I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness
program.
Barbara Harrison
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"Your
program nailed down exactly what
was
going wrong in our marriage"
Mr.
Fertel,
I wanted to thank you for how your program
has helped thus far.
Your program nailed down exactly what
was going wrong in our marriage. After
having several children, moving, changing
jobs, dealing with problems, etc., we
were very tired.
I finally came to a realization that both
of us had withdrawn from the marriage.
When I voiced this to my wife, hoping
to bring about a change, that's when the
fighting began. Nothing physical, but
the pathway was started down a tough emotional
rollercoaster.
We went to traditional counseling, each
of us tried to show how the other was
wrong and score "points". The counselor
was also ineffective, not providing any
real advice.
I was referred to your program by a friend
when I told him I was at then end. I had
decided that my marriage was over and
we were going to separate.
The turnaround came when I scheduled a
vacation - the first since our honeymoon
six years ago. The week before we left,
there was the same fighting and problems
that we had. We were still "stuck in the
mud" as I call it. I even told my wife,
then night before we left that if she
wanted to go with me, she was going to
do what I said (everything) or I would
go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the
house and if she wouldn't allow me to
treat her like my Queen, she could simple
leave the Kingdom. As we look back now,
it is comical, but we know the feelings
were real.
We left on vacation armed with your program.
The amazing thing, other than getting
a little sick of each other at the end,
was that we had a great time and have
come home with a renewed marriage, love
affair, romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain
we will have problems in the future, but
it feels different than the times we simply
apologized and agreed to be on better
behavior. It is now effortless.
I am convinced that if we didn't leave
with your program, the vacation would
have been a failure and we likely would
be fully separated at this point.
I am certain that any given program does
not work for everyone, but if someone's
marriage fails after taking your program,
I would say that not much more could be
done.
I have recommended your program to other
friends and I know that they are learning
what we have...
Thanks again and we hope to gain strength
back in our relationship and look to you
to help us retain the best relationship
we can have.
D. Scott Martin
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"I
want to say that it was worth every
penny
and more."
Hi
Mort,
I bought your program a few months ago.
I want to say that it was worth every
penny and more.
My husband and I were done, I actually
packed up my apartment and left. We were
separated for 2 months. I thought we should
try counseling, instead I found your Web
site. I thought I would give it a try.
It was an eye-opening experience. The
way I feel everyday now, could never happened
with out you. I love him more than anything
and I learned so much. He has also listened
to your CD's and I see his love for me
growing.
Thank you
Malissa Olveda
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"Mort's approaches
are so non- offensive and lays no blame,
only giving resolutions and inspirations."
Mort
Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that
he has fully tapped into and has chosen
to share with the world. He is compassionate,
versatile, humble, real and wise.
When
I first purchased the program I
was desperate for help and I knew just
anything would not work. Mort's
approaches are so non- offensive and lays
no blame, only giving resolutions and
inspirations. I adore how Mort approaches
the answers with out history; that way
you know the answer is not tainted or
miss guided in the results. And
that is exactly what you get RESULTS
. My husband is immature,
stubborn, insensitive, etc (human).
My husband is also spotenanse, keeps me
young, strong willed, knows what he wants,
focused, etc (perfect man for me).
And I truly believe without Mort I would
have lost the perfect husband for me.
We both came from single parent home and
obviously had no clue as to how a happy
home was suppose to function.
With three girls there love life was looking
doomed. But now we all have hope
for tomorrow.
I
was living in a TV Romance Sitcom called
I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called
Friends Love Drama, Family Trying to Help
and What Am I Doing Wrong; What
the Matter With Me that caused me great
heart aches and a promise of never ending
drama. Now I live in a world were
I can appreciate any and everything, trust
my husband and my responses, smile, laugh
and be in love with out feeling paranoid,
foolish or obligated no re-enforcements
needed from any untrained contaminated
sources. I can now freely give and
appreciate everything I receive.
And believe me my husband is the type
of man that only listens to other men.
No matter what they said.
If a man told him eating grass was manly
he would want it for dinner every night.
So by the grace of God I found a man that
knows how to say small things that have
huge impacts, listen and hear at the same
time, speech with compassion and genuine
concern (Mort). While also
teach me how to love long term and receive
love in a ways that I know I am going
to get a lot more. This program
pulled me back from legal separations.
I was going to court in the morning and
listening to Mort in the evening and then
one morning I dismissed everything (a
breakthrough). Of course my marriage
is not perfect yet but that is the great
thing because now we have so much to look
forward to and strive for. LOVE
is really obtainable and really can be
kept for a life time. I would
say to anybody that wants to keep there
marriage or are not sure if you want to
be married you owe yourself the opportunity
to try this program. If you know
you are going to lose you spouse because
of your mistakes and/or theirs why not
try it. Worst case scenario you
are able to walk from your marriage knowing
you did all you can do to be the best
spouse you can be if you do everything
Mort asks you to do.
T.
Mitchell
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"...your
invaluable information has
found
a place in my heart"
Mr.
Fertel,
Thank you for the opportunity to express
my deepest regard for you and your program.
Almost three years ago my wife informed
me that she wanted "out" of
our marriage, that "she loved me,
but was not in love with me" and
as a matter of fact doubted she ever was.
We had tried traditional counseling to
no end, as she simply went long enough
to inform the therapist of our incompatibility
in order to justify her desire to leave.
I tried another popular rout that a friend
had found on the internet called "Stop
Your Divorce", and at first it proved
to be invaluable - but had no integrity
in the end.
Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance
from the Campus Crusades for Christ International,
during a discussion based solely on business,
he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're
in Pain, who have you recently lost?"
Believing that my general demeanor must
be based on the physical loss of a family
member or friend, as I am traditionally
an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed
minor details of my pending divorce, and
apologized to him for being distracted.
Without further personal inquiry he immediately
told me that I needn't worry, and gave
me your contact information. I didn't
ask any questions, I simply trusted God
had placed this Godly man into my life
and his advice was the right path to follow.
I initially did nothing but sign up for
your web site, the cost of yet one more
dead end cure to an already doomed marriage
just seemed daunting. But day after day
your inspirational mass messages seemed
to hit home just at the right times. Even
though they were meant for all whom where
on your e-mail list, I had finally found
a message that amalgamated with my own
faith driven desires to save my marriage,
stop the cycle of abandonment within my
wife's family and to "Put Love First"
no matter the cost. Because my wife was
outwardly "acting out", my friends
and family could not understand my devotion
to her and willingness to accept the blatant
apathy towards me and our two young girls
- but I had to try to "save her from
herself". What I didn't know, was
that I had to save myself first; if you
attempt to save a drowning person by confronting
them head on, they will pull you both
down. Your "Fast is slow and slow
is fast" concept seemed foreign to
me, as did the idea of letting go of the
issues, especially the Mr. Fixit in me.
The key to this program for me is the
idea of not engaging in these behavioral
changes in order to just save your marriage,
but to transform your love relationship
with your spouse for ever. Every night
my oldest daughter and I say our prayers
together, and at the end of each night
she says "Heavenly Father help me
let go of the dime". She gets this
line from a story heard from my Minister;
a little boy gets his hand stuck in this
precious family vase, the father sprays
his son's hand with WD 40 but the vase
stays trapped. His mother rubs her son's
hand with olive oil, yet again the hand
remains trapped. They call the fire department
for advice but once again nothing seems
to work. Finally the little boy says "daddy,
should I let go of the Dime?"
I am only in Phase 5 of your program,
taking care to absorb slowly all that
I can, and yet your invaluable information
has found a place in my heart. I find
integrity with what I'm doing and how
I am attempting to connect with my wife,
as opposed to manipulation, trickery or
conditional motives. For the first time
I am working towards true unconditional
love and understanding with the one person
for whom I made a covenant with God to
love forever.
It is my personal opinion that it behooves
anyone, not just those couples struggling
with a myriad of issues in their marriage,
to experience this "Boot Camp"
either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have
or as a couple. Thank you again for your
guidance and inspiration, I hope this
note reaches others who feel that there
is no hope in marital redemption.
Sincerely Grant
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"I
really wish I would have purchased your
course."
Mort,
I've read all your newsletters. My marriage
has all but disappeared into the hands
of attorneys and courts and violence that
has got me into so much trouble I can't
even talk about without crying. How did
it get this way. I must be stupid, she
told me, I'm with another man. Get it
though your thick head. Where did the
woman I married go...? I really wish I
would have purchased your course. I tried
to be frugal and spend all our money on
the bills for our home and the bear necessities.
Look where it got me I've lost my wife
and lost my home. I hope that this letter
will help others to find that extra effort
to purchase your course or try the seminars
or try something. I didn't and I've lost
all.
I held dear.
Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio
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"By
reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly
felt that perhaps there was hope but
more importantly I
did not feel alone"
My
husband left me 5 ½ months ago
after being very unhappy in our marriage
for many years. He said I was a good person
and friend but that he didn't love me
anymore. We have been married for 17 years
and like all marriages there were the
ups and downs.
Needless
to say, this has been the most devastating
experience of my life. We have two beautiful
children, 14 and 11, and it has been very
difficult on them as well. My husband
has always a wonderful father and husband
but over the years, he started to work
more and more and withdraw emotionally
from me. We did not take the time to reconnect
and it is apparent to me now we were just
roommates. Actually more than roommates
as he said because sometimes roommates
don't like each other and he still considers
me a friend.
I
desperately tried to search for answers
and solutions to this horrible situation.
For the first three months I hardly talked
to him; I was in so much pain. He, on
the other hand, still wanted to help out
with the house chores like shovelling
snow, helping with the children and so
on. It was very painful for me to be near
him so I rejected any help at all. I knew
I couldn't go for too much longer as it
was affecting my whole life, my work,
and my children. Then it seemed I found
an answer to my prayers. I found on the
Internet a man called Mort Fertel and
his web site which said I could sign up
for a daily newsletter on Marriage Fitness.
I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up
and started reading some wonderful and
inspiring messages. I had almost given
up hope of reconciliation because my husband
did not want that.
By
reading Mr. Fertel's words, I suddenly
felt that perhaps there was hope but more
importantly I did not feel alone. I became
interested in trying his boot camp as
a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt
and I also liked the money back guarantee
if he couldn't help me. I felt that I
could always get my money back. It didn't
take long for me to realize that I was
receiving help immediately. I took advantage
of the laser sessions to talk personally
with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that
I had changed and was different. I have
apologized for the hurt and deep pain
that he has gone through and it was a
very moving experience for both of us.
I
listen to tapes everyday to and from work
and every time I drive anywhere. …we are
talking and taking part in family activities
together. We went to play pool for the
first time ever this past Friday night
and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient
and want things to move faster, I remember
Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my
husband from a place deep in my heart
for perhaps the very first time in our
married life. My husband hugs me when
he leaves from our visits and his heart
is slowly opening up to me again.
All
of this would not have been possible,
had I not found Mr. Fertel's program.
Everything makes so much sense that I
cannot get enough of this help.
Thank
you, Mort. I thank God I found you.
Sincerely,
Nelda
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"I
followed your lone ranger program and
half way through my wife told me that
she
had
seen a change in me"
Dear
Mort,
I would like to thank you from the bottom
of my heart for your program.
Although we are not out of the woods,
we are not where we were. I followed your
lone ranger program and half way through
my wife told me that she had seen a change
in me and now her idea is to do the program
herself, lone ranger of coarse, which
is ok. I am pretty sure after that she
will want to do the program with me.
Again, I would like to express my sincere
thanks. It was a lot of prayer and your
program that gives me hope that our marriage
will be restored.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho
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"...he
moved back in, started telling me he
loves me, calls all the time, insists
on date night --- I see a beautiful
future again!"
Please
pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded
to say that after working the program…my
husband caved and said he's seen how amazing
I still am and it's always been me that
he wanted. Just like that, he moved back
in, started telling me he loves me, calls
all the time, insists on date night ---
I see a beautiful future again!
Thank
you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional
therapy!
Best,
Liz
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"We
are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel
and Marriage Fitness"
My
husband and I; everything we did got on
each other's nerves. Just the sight of
him made me mad. We decided to get a divorce
and we were waiting for the right time
to tell the children.
As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew
that I didn't want the typical counseling,
dredging through the past -- because I
know that it will always be there, but
the fact of the matter is you can't change
it and it really doesn't help to muddle
through it over and over and try to change
your feelings about it.
I can't tell you how much it meant to
us to have a guideline through it all,
we started changing our behavior. My husband's
changes started immediately. My changes
have been and still are developing much
slower. We are getting there, thanks to
Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.
Shannon and Greg
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"I
am beginning to see the positive response
from the love of my life."
Hi
Mort,
Although I haven't taken any opportunity
to personally contact you, use any of
my one-on-ones or dial in live to the
tele-seminars, you are truly a HUGE part
of my every day life! I listen to you
every morning and every afternoon on my
45 minutes commute! I have signed up for
the after program, and will continue to
stay plugged in. I am beginning to see
the positive response from the love of
my life. I am in this for the long haul
and I am doing what I am doing for a life
change - not a quick fix to my marriage.
I understand everything you say, ask of
me and believe in your concept. I do worry
sometimes about being a doormat but I
am slowly getting some great responses
back from my love and I feel this door
mat feeling will pass. I am committed
for a year, as I change my ways and look
to see the positive and at the end of
the day, I will know I did the right thing
- and at the end of the day - that is
all I have right?
I have never spoken to you, or interacted
with you, but I feel very close to you
and your world! Thank you for the gifts
you have given me with your ideas and
ways. I am going to make it! And I am
confident that my marriage will too. God
willing :-)
Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong
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"You
can participate at your own pace in
the
privacy
of your own home."
Hi
Mort,
I
have found your program to be most helpful
for the following reasons:
1.
You can participate at your own pace in
the privacy of your own home.
2.
Your personal and professional experience
is radiant and gets results.
3.
You're very well versed with intercultural
barriers and traditions because you believe
that ultimately "LOVE" is spoken
in only one language!
4.
You provide tools that work and that can
be used immediately.
5.
Your program is unique in that it is SAFE,
provocative, inspiring, and inspires and
best of all it gives you tools to GROW.
I
have been to traditional therapy before
and never have I seen so much offered!
Thank
you.
Sheela
K.
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"I
purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger
and got the tools I needed to put back
together
my shattered life."
As
Mort Fertel would say "listen carefully.”
I
was at a total loss in my marriage…spinning
without a compass. My wife said she wanted
out but I wanted to save the marriage.
I could hardly function on a daily basis
because of the stress. It seemed like
my whole world was crumbling at the foundation
and I was watching it fall apart. I purchased
Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got
the tools I needed to put back together
my shattered life. His writings and talks
helped me tremendously and opened my eyes
to the kind of attitude I knew I needed
to succeed in my situation.
Daniel
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"I
am soooooooooooo glad I did"
Dear
Mort,
I
am so glad I signed up for the tele-boot
camp. I didn't have the money and
I was very unsure about signing up.
But I am soooooooooooo glad I did. It
was a great decision. It was
worth every penny. My marriage
has come alive again.
Thanks
to you Mort.
Sincerely,
TL
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MY
HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING
THINGS TOGETHER!!!
Dear
Mort,
MY
HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES
IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING
OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND HAS OPENED COMUNICATION
BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES
A DAY (OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN
I FEEL THE NEED) TO CHAT-SOMETIMES
DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT
SIMPLE THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE
POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED TO
ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT
HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS LIKE NO OTHER
TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED
TO LISTEN BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP
TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS!
THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL
HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL COME! HE HAS
ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME
OUT ON THE TRUCK WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE
FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME
TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND
CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD BEFORE HE
LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED
US--BUT I WANT TO THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR
WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR
GROWTH BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU
HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF NEED--I
KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN
NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR HELP.
SINCERELY,
KARIN
SHELDON
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"It
saved my marriage."
I
would recommend the Tele Boot Camp to
anyone. It saved my marriage.
We still have a lot of work ahead of us;
however, at least now I know what is ahead
of us, instead of wondering if it would
be divorce.
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"In
a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage,
and, more importantly,
taught us
how
to build love on our own."
Hi
Mort
My
wife and I have been married 3 years and
it was hard from the start. We've both
been divorced before so this was not our
first time trying to make a marriage work.
This time was not going well either. My
wife had 2 affairs, she left 4 times,
and marriage counseling was a disaster.
We were on the brink of divorce again.
Then I surfed the net and found you.
I
ordered Marriage Fitness, hired you for
some 1-on-1 coaching, and then registered
for the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp!.
In a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage,
and, more importantly, taught us how to
build love on our own.
If
anyone is reading this who needs marriage
help, get it from Mort. You won't be sorry.
Thank
you again Mort for saving our marriage
and teaching us how to create love in
our relationship.
Martin
Rosedale
, Indiana
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"Mort
taught me how to single-handedly
save
my marriage"
Mort,
I would be more than happy to share my
testimonial! Hope it helps, I would like
my privacy protected so I will sign my
testimonial with initials.
I discovered my husband was having an
affair after 18 years of marriage. I confronted
him about it and he denied it. Even after
I gave him proof of the affair he still
denied it. The more I spied on him, the
more I confronted him, the more I confronted
him,the more defensive he would get! I
had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he
own up to the affair and end it???
I asked him to end the affair and he said
he did, I later found out that he was
lying, he had not ended the affair. I
asked him to leave our home but he refused.
I told him that if he did not end the
affair I would file for divorce. The affair
continued! I did not know what to do!!!
I prayed alot.
I finally got a lawyer and had the initial
paperwork completed. I was devastated
because I loved my husband and even with
this affair going on he said he loved
me and did not want a divorce. A divorce
was the last thing I wanted.
I searched the internet for help. I prayed
for guidance, I came across "Marriage
Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed
up for his emails first. I wanted to make
sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and
they did. Mort taught me how to re become
a woman of moral character. He was encouraging,
hard at times and motivating. I thought
prior to the affair my marriage was save
and in a good place but after going through
the homework assignments I found many
opportunities to first, fix myself and
second, to restore my marriage. My husband
and I have good days and bad days but
things are much better because of the
boot camp. I was in the Lone Ranger Track
and at first I did not understand why
I had to change if I was not the one having
the affair! Mort taught me how to single-handedly
save my marriage. I never thought I could
do it, but I did.
Thanks Mort,
TS
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"I
really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your
approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!!"
Thank
you Mort.
I
really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and
found your approach to be very realistic
and dead-on!!! The points you make during
your seminars are great - I liked your
mix of the philosophical, religious, and
practical life. It was a refreshing departure
from much of the reading materials and
the approaches of other therapists.
I
thank you very much for tha t s upport
and encouragement.
Vince
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"I
owe it all to Mort!"
From: DMK
Sent: Friday, August 31, 2007 2:35 PM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: My experience with Marriage Fitness
Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger
Track. Your program is outstanding and
truly a god sent for me. I owe it all
to Mort! Thank you for being there for
me. You are the best. Keep up the great
work that you are doing everyday.
DMK
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"I
couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp"
As
a graduate student, I didn't think I could
afford the Marriage Fitness bootcamp.
I went to the library and literally checked
out and read about a quarter of the way
through about twenty books on marriage.
After contemplation, I realized that I
couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's Bootcamp...my
marriage and my sanity were too important
to me! I signed up thinking that I might
take advantage of the money-back guarantee,
but with the sanity I gained in my
own soul (I am on the Lone Ranger
track), I wouldn't take a penny back.
Mort's multi-dimensional program to
this day continues to strengthen my sanity
when life throws me not only loops but
roller coasters. I have recommended
Mort's program to many people going through
everything from pre-nuptial to post-divorce
situations. If you don't gain anything
else from his program, I believe you will
absolutely at least gain back your sanity
and self-confidence. The most important
thing I have learned is that although
you may have NO control over the other
person, you have, with God's help, COMPLETE
control over your reactions to situations.
Thank you, Mort!
Jessica.A.
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"
It was well worth the money and the
time and effort. We've never had a relationship
this good, even in the beginning. "
Mort,
John
and I are more than happy to give our
testimony and I would recommend your program
to anyone having relationship difficulties.
I'm including a picture too. Taken today.
We've
been married 30 years and have 4 children.
All of them are on their own now, but
our marriage has been going downhill for
at least that last 25 years. Your program
has made us feel like newlyweds again!
Neither of us have been this happy. And
with the knowledge that we have gained
through the years, applying your techniques
and following your program, we are probably
more happy than we were even when we first
got married. We make love several times
a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's
good, and we enjoy doing things together
that we never did before. It's even difficult
to be around others because we don't want
to miss a second apart.
We've
been going fairly slow in the workbook,
but we are getting things done! Counseling
would have cost us so much more money
and a divorce (which was imminent the
day we ordered your program). It was well
worth the money and the time and effort.
We've never had a relationship this good,
even in the beginning.
All
I can do is say thank you and your wife
for the insight and ideas you have given
us.
Blessed
Be,
Linda A.
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"We
have reconnected in many ways and
do not take each other for granted anymore"
Hi
Mort,
My
Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage
Fitness Program to couples having problems
in their marriage whether being because
of emotional or physical infidelity. My
husband was emotionally unfaithful, and
when I first found out about it I was
devastated. I was very confused and thought
this was the end of our marriage after
being married for almost twenty five years.
I found out about your program and decided
that if we were going to try to save our
marriage we needed to try out your
marriage fitness program. It helped
us see what was the real problem in our
marriage, and how to handle our problems.
We have reconnected in many ways and
do not take each other for granted anymore.
We both thank God for your help and insight
and we wish you the best in helping
others with their marital problems.
Regards,
MB
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"Thanks
for saving my family"
Mort,
just wanted you to know things are great
with Justin and me. Our relationship has
improved so much. We are spending time
together and enjoying each other's company.
Learning that it is more important to
pay attention to ourselves has made all
the difference in the relationship. I
sure have changed a lot of things I say
and how I react to certain things. This
whole 2 yrs has shown Justin and me a
lot. He thanks you also. There was really
no other way that he could have shown
us both that he needed to grow. He didn't
know how and just kept it all in until
he exploded. He is such a wonderful person.
I wish we could have known these things
ahead of time. I have referred so many
people to you. We continue to have fun
and laugh at things now instead of letting
everything consume us. Thanks for saving
my family. Jan and Justin
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"I
am sure everyone that looks at your
website will understand how the mind
races and the heart aches when one of
the most important things in your life
is in peril."
Dear
Mort,
I can't tell you how important this experience
has been in my life. The most helpful
part for me was the calm, focused, consistent
way in which you addressed every issue
at the exact time I needed it. I
am sure everyone that looks at your website
will understand how the mind races and
the heart aches when one of the most important
things in your life is in peril.
I have been on the Lone Ranger Track since
October and I am not done with the program
yet. I have restarted a couple of
times because I needed to hear the lessons
again and again. One restart was
recommended by you on our Laser session.
Again, at the exact time that I needed
it.
To the people in need who are reading
this....Just get one of the programs.
If you didn't know in your heart that
you needed it you wouldn't be here right
now.
Thank you so much Mort. I am forever
grateful.
Amy S.
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"Your
program makes so much sense and is presented in such
an organized and complete way."
Dear
Mort,
I
have spent just about every free moment
that I had over the past 2 1/2 months
listening, reading and thinking about
your program. I am in the Lone Ranger
track and it has been a hard period for
me. However, your program has been a comfort
to me. It has helped me to see mistakes
that I made in my marriage. It has also
encouraged me and made me feel validated
because there were things that I intuitively
recognized, but was not sure if I was
on the right path. After reading and hearing
the materials my spirit would be encouraged
and lifted. I have been able to remain
calm and do what is right. Your program
makes so much sense and is presented in
such an organized and complete way. It
has just been a real help to me. Thank
you.
Sincerely,
Vicky
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"
It was a whole different approach to
solving our marital problem"
After
going to a marriage counselor and feeling
we were not getting much accomplished,
we decided to try your Marriage Fitness
Program. After participating in the 7-week
Tele-Boot Camp, listening to the CDs,
doing the recommended exercises
etc, we have found it all to be
extremely helpful and effective. It was
a whole different approach to solving
our marital problems and we feel we have
made tremendous strides as a result of
participating in your wonderful program.
Thanks for your help in improving our
marriage and for also giving us the valuable
tools that were so desperately needed
to make it all happen.
Nancy
& Brian M
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"I began
to actually re-discover what
we
"used" to have."
My
wife and I were high schools sweethearts
and have been married for almost twenty-one
years. After two kids, separate
jobs and the ever-increasing pace of life,
we found ourselves totally frustrated
with each other and on the verge of divorce.
No infidelity or anything; our relationship
just seemed "stale" and more work than
what it was worth.”
I
spent over $250 on various marriage "help"
books and we even attended professional
marriage "counseling" to help resolve
our conflicts and problems. It wasn't
working …we had become masters
at blaming each other and resolving conflict
by ignoring each other.
I
then came across Mort Fertel 's Marriage
Fitness program. I purchased the
program and decided to take the CD's with
me to listen to while driving on a business
trip. When I left for my trip, my
wife and I gave each other the robotic,
"Drive careful" and "see you soon" rhetoric,
but we both could still feel the immense
strain between us. In actuality,
I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving
for the weekend.
Anyways,
after the listening to the first CD, I
found myself contemplating my role in
our marriage. I began to actually
re-discover what we "used" to have.
Instead of feeling like I was in competition
with my wife, I actually started remembering
all the things that used to make her feel
special...that I was no longer doing.
I called her immediately on the cell phone
and told her my revelation. I told
her I couldn't wait to get back to see
her and was already missing her.
She began to cry and told me how much
she loved me and tha t s he was looking
forward to my return. That reaction
alone had been a long time coming.
Upon
my return, we listened to the CD's together.
Within a week, our marriage improved immensely.
Mort's perspective on concentrating on
the marriage and each other; rather than
the "problems"; was the most profound,
yet common sense, solution…many
of our "unsurmountable" problems simply
dissolved. It was our perspectives
and lack of focus on each other that were
actually "causing" the problems in
our marriage.
Unfortunately,
these bad habits had been learned over
the last 10-15 years. We also found
if we were not diligent about practicing
or focusing on the Marriage Fitness program,
our bad habits would resurface (avoiding,
ignoring, etc.) and our marriage would
begin to slide. "Plugging-in" each
week with Mort gave us that "commitment"
we were lacking. After several weeks,
we are not perfect, but "DIVORCE" is not
even in our vocabulary. I look forward
to coming home. My wife looks forward
to my coming home. We enjoy being
with each other again.
How
much do I believe in Mort Fertel 's approach?
For
Chris tmas, I purchased 10-15 of Mort's
materials for my family and friends.
I have already heard from a handful who
wanted to express their gratitude for
my thinking of them. A co-worker,
who has been through three marriages,
told me he wished he'd had seen Mort's
materials before his last divorce.
It is such a POSITIVE, common sense approach
to rebuilding or sustaining ANY
marriage.
Rob
& Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR
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"your
program very seriously was the only
thing that supported me in my efforts
to save my marriage"
Hello,
Mort!
Just
talked with Adina to pass along the fantastic
news...my husband this past Friday asked
if he could move back to our home and
is committed to reconciling our relationship
and marriage! He even has agreed,
although we're both still a little tentative
and "getting to know each other again",
to in the coming months take a vacation
somewhere tropical/exotic (we like those
kinds of places) and - in a very private
ceremony with only me, him, and our 6
y.o. daughter - renew our marriage vows.
We'll either do it there or at the church
we got married in, although I would love
it to be on a warm beach under an arch
of flowers at sunset!
Thank
you SO MUCH...your program very seriously
was the only thing that supported me in
my efforts to save my marriage and gave
me the tools to work with as well as the
understanding of why my husband was acting
the way he did and why my "gut feel"
was actually making the situation worse.
I will always be in your debt and will
continue to strongly recommend the program
to any friends or acquaintances who are
in a period of marital difficulty or just
want to make their marriage the best it
can be!
Warm
regards and huge thanks,
Christine
V.
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"THANK
YOU for our second chance! "
Hi
Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you
know that my husband and I have reconciled.
I owe everything to you and your program.
I did the lone ranger track and with sharing
things with my husband we are more in
tuned to each other than we ever were---even
when we were dating. I learned a lot about
myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect.
I'm also doing your plug in program and
WE are working real hard at our marriage.
THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.
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"...the
best thing we ever did"
The
marriage fitness program is the best thing
we ever did and while we realize we will
never stop going through the marriage
renewal process we credit our current
happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.
Sincerely,
T & C
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"With
Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand
what we needed to do to make our relationship
work"
We
ordered Marriage Fitness, even though
we are not married yet, because we have
been in our relationship for 3 ½
years and were unsure if we wanted to
be with each other or not. We figured
love was just supposed to be there for
us. With Marriage Fitness, it helped us
understand what we needed to do to make
our relationship work. All of the ideas
we have learned and all of the stories
we have heard, brought us closer together.
We are very excited what tomorrow will
bring. We vowed to each other to use this
all of the time .
This was well worth the time and
effort. We communicate in a much more
positive way. This program has opened
up our eyes on how important we are to
one another. Without Marriage Fitness,
we would both be single today. Thanks
Mort!!
Patty
and Shane
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"He
did find his love for me again and it
had come back even stronger than every
before"
Hi
there Mort, I want to thank you for a
wonderful job you have done for my marriage.
My husband was having an affair about
four months ago, which was going on for
abour four months. I confronted him in
the beginning of February and he admitted
to me that he was having an affair. What
broke my heart was that he said that he
did not love me anymore and that he loved
this other woman. We were married for
twenty five years and I thought to myself
that I am not going to throw that away
and that I am going to fight for my marriage.
My husband and I had a lot of tough years
behind us and we also had money problems
and there was always something there that
kept us togethere in those hard times,
so I was not going to let this problem
break up our marriage and I was going
to fight with all the strength that I
had in my body to keep my marriage together.
My husband had had many affairs before
and I had always forgiven him, but this
time it was different, because he had
never told me that he had loved these
other women, he also told me that he had
no more feelings for me and that he sometimes
wonders if he had ever loved me. Well,
let me tell you, I fought and it was very
tiring and stressful; I went through all
the emotions; I was very insecure. We
had sat down and had a very long talk
and I told him that I do not believe him
when he says that he does not love me
anymore and that I know that he does not
love this woman, it is only infatuation
and he will still find out that he does
love me. I do not know how long it will
take I said to him, but it will happen.
We started going away for the weekends,
just the two of us and there was a time
that he was still in contact with this
other woman and then we would have a long
talk again and so life went on. AND YES,
HE DID FIND HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND
IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER
BEFORE. Just last night he told me that
his love for me gets stronger by the day
and that when he is at work, he will send
me a sms via cell phone, telling me that
he cannot wait to hold me in his arms
tonight and that he misses me when we
are at work. Our love for one another
has never been this strong, even when
we first fell in love with one another
and the love between us just gets stronger
and stronger by the day. On the 19th of
July this year, we will be celebrating
our 26th wedding anniversary. I know that
the Lord is the one that did the most
work in our marriage, because I was forever
asking the Lord to help us and he answered
my prayers. I never told him that I told
you so, but deep in my heart I say that
to myself, that I knew all along that
his love for me was always there, he just
had to find that out for himself and I
thank the lord every day for the love
that we have for each other.
God Bless you.
Sheree
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"We
are closer and more involved in each
other's lives than we EVER have been"
Hi
Mort,
Durward
and I are excited and pleased with the
program, and I am SO impressed with Durward's
attitude, AND his complete co operation
with attending the sessions.
He
gave up ANY contact with the woman with
whom he was having the affair, and has
had NO contact of any sort with her since
Dec. 22nd, when he told her that he would
not contact her, and asked her NOT to
contact him.
Durward
is arranging his whole life to make time
for the program… We are closer
and more involved in each other's lives
than we EVER have been. Our sex
life is more deep and frequent and satisfying
than it has been since the first days
of our marriage. And for the FIRST time
EVER, Durward seems to be awake and aware
of the life keeping services I have always
provided, and which he always took for
granted. I am stunned by the wonderful
things he has done. He is headed home
from California , and will be here Monday,
and BOTH of us are missing each other,
and can hardly wait to see one another.
Thank you for helping us.
Barbara
Anne
Ashley
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"Your
course saved our marriage"
The
advice and the concepts you asked us to
apply for marriage renewal has changed
my life, and even though I did the lone
ranger track, I can say that your course
saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage,
our relationship had become unbearable
for me, in the way we related on almost
every level, both with regard to actions
and "no action." I knew that I cared for
my wife, but the relationship had become
almost too difficult for me to continue.
Even though we discussed what we each
wanted from the relationship, we were
not able to get our relationship back
onto a course of treating eachother decently,
much less romantically. Now, in just two
months, there has been significant benefits,
and a real opening up by each of us to
each other's needs and desires, and I
have not been this happy and content in
years. I had gone to counseling, and invested
substantial sums to try to solve our marriage
problems, but the counseling was of little
benefit, especially compared to the changes
that were effected by your advice to learn
how to love another, and I cannot express
how valuable your course has been to my
life and happiness. I have no doubt that
I will review what you taught, and look
forward to a very loving and close relationship
with the companion I love.
J.B.
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"What
I have learned from you and your program
can not be measured"
What
I have learned from you and your program
can not be measured. I feel like
I am finally learning how to be the
person and the spouse that I really
want to be. Your course is not
just a marriage course. It's a
LIFE course. I wish I could find
a way to convince everyone I know to
take your course just so they could
benefit from the life values that you
teach …
I find myself wanting to share what
I've learned from you and yet I have
a difficult time articulating myself
because I can't describe the magnitude
of what I've learned.
I've
been and still am in the Lone Ranger
track of your program …
things are improving. And I'm
optimistic that there is a light at
the end of our tunnel. I would
and do recommend this program to anyone.
Thank you so much for your wisdom, insight,
and constant sensitivity to such difficult
and heart breaking issues. You
tell it as you see it and the amazing
thing is that even if what you have
to say is hard to hear, I still find
myself feeling better for having taken
your advice. Now that's constructive!
I
look forward to continually learning
more from you and your experience.
Thank you so much for such a wonderful
program. I surely would have been
in a divorce by now if it weren't for
Marriage Fitness!
Most Sincerely,
Susan
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"I
don't know where our relationship would
be right now if we hadn't signed up."
Dear
Mort,
The
Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was
a great experience for myself and my
husband. I don't know where our
relationship would be right now if we
hadn't signed up. I don't really
believe in divorce but the way things
were going, I was starting to consider
it! Today, we are both working
together to fix our relationship and
we are very glad we ran into this program
when we did. We have a son and
we want what's best for him too, and
nothing can make him happier than seeing
his parents happy. We know we
have just begun to make changes, but
we are grateful for your support and
knowledge. What we really find
appealing is that you were once in our
boat so you know what it's like.
Thank you for sharing your life story
with us and allowing us to see where
our marraige can be if we both make
some simple changes.
Thanks
again,
I.F.
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"We
are more in love now than we were
when
we got married! "
Hey
Mort,
My
husband and I hit rock bottom over the
summer.
He
has Chron's Disease and was misdiagnosed
for years (15 to be exact). I begged
and pleaded with him to go to another
doctor but he refused since his mother
and sister found the doctor he was going
to.
Daily
I would fix 3 meals a day for him and
daily he would throw them out. As if
that wasn't frustrating enough he was
EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful to
me yet would call his mom and sister
daily and would ALWAYS end the call
with “I LOVE YOU” then be a jerk to
me. I had it!
I
would sit and think of all the times
that he would leave me and go running
to be with his mom and sister including
the day after we got married. He waited
for me to jump in the shower and left
to go on vacation with them, without
ever saying a word to me. Needless to
say there's a real bad history between
me and his mom and sister. That issue
is what drove me to my breaking point.
Confused
and frustrated I turned to the internet
looking for some kind of answer. Should
I stay miserable or should I try to
rebuild a totally destroyed marriage
that I did. I e-mailed Mort and his
response was that there is always hope.
So, I signed up for the lone ranger
course knowing that my husband wouldn't
be on board with me. He thinks he's
perfect. I started the program and followed
the suggestions.
We
are more in love now than we were when
we got married! I know that it's a process
that needs to continue to be worked
on and we will but it TRULY saved us.
I'm so happy that I made two very important
decisions 1) Did Mort's program and
2) Decided to rebuild our marriage,
I can't imagine my life with anybody
else but Patrick.
Sincerely,
Lori
A.
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"
your program has made me a new man"
Hi
Mort
Your
program has made me a new man...and in
return feeling so much better we still
have work to do but it is amazing how
you feel When you let go of past stuff
I'm doing this as a lone ranger and I'm
having a positive affect on my wife thanks
Mort I've told so many people to go to
your web site.
Chris
W.
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"The
program is simple but brilliant."
I
just finished up with the teleboot camp
and I have to say it works. I was
in the lone ranger track yet my actions
definitely impacted my spouse and of course
our marriage. My spouse has severe
unresolved issues from the past, but once
Mort taught me to temporarily put that
aside, I got to see the good side in my
man once again. It takes real personal
work but it's well worth it. The program
is simple but brilliant. If you
don't end up changing your marital situation,
you still would've changed yourself - and
that's the best success!!
thanx
Mort
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"I
am moving forward to a happier, healthier
marriage one small step at a time."
Before
I registered for your program, my husband
and I were thinking of divorce especially
I was. I had planned to at least separate
for one year first and break off slowly
because I have been a house wife for 26
years and I need to reestablish my ability
to earn money. ..
The
first week that I was listening to
your
teleconference, I got it. I have
been
doing small things that you
suggested.
..Ever since that time he is
no
longer fighting to me. We are not
intimate
yet but civil and respect one
another.
The dynamic has changed to a
positive
one. He recently gives me my
50th
b'day present. .. I am making
myself
stronger everyday and trying to
make
our marriage stronger a little at a time.
Thanks to your message and help of many
of my friends and my church I am moving
forward to a happier, healthier marriage
one small step at a time. One day I called
him to come home to eat lunch and he came.
Before that time he would say he is too
busy no matter what I cooked for him.
I was so glad he come home and eats. He
seems to stay home a lot longer than before.
We do a lot of small talk.
Thanks
to your program. I am grateful
that
I sighed up, all your advice works.
Sometime
one person can make a
different.
I can see my future because I got the
right tools that work on my belt and support
from my family, and my church and your
techniques.
I
am ready to face our marriage toward
happier
for all of us. I am ready to
fight
for our lives for the rest of my
life
to stay strong, for us as a unity.
Please
do not use my name but you can
use
my initial. Thanks again.
JT
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"WOW,
was I surprised! "
Dear
Mort,
I
am writing to you for all of the
couples out there that are wondering
whether or not this would be beneficial
program for them. I found myself wondering
the same thing about 8 weeks ago
when I read about the Tele-Boot Camp
program. My marriage of 25 years
was over, my husband had a 3 week affair
and had left the house, our 2 daughters
and me. He was unwilling to work on
anything and had decided he wanted a
divorce. I felt completely out of control,
the counseling didn't seemed to be helping.
All I could see was everything I thought
I new to be true about our marriage
was wrong. I didn't know what to do,
all I was sure of was I still loved
my husband and I didn't want a divorce.
I found Mort's program on the Internet
and was sure nothing was going to help
me or my situation. I joined the Tele-Boot
Camp in the "Lone Ranger Track"
meaning I did the program without my
husband. I figured I had nothing to
lose and everything to gain. I wasn't
sure how this stranger was going to
help when I couldn't, and I lived with
this man for 25 years, WOW, was
I surprised!
I
listened to the Cd's, read the book,
did the homework and followed the guidance
that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences.
I wasn't sure if this was going to work,
but the amazing thing I started to notice was
I no longer was feeling out of control,
I found I was calmer, more focused and
very excited at the subtle little changes
that would periodically occur. At our
final question and answer seminar
I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that
I had a positive yet small break through
with my husband. I had invited him out
to a movie and he went, then 2
days later he called to talk and later
that day he invited me to go for a ride
with him. This was so encouraging, the
Memorial weekend was coming up and the
best news was about to come. My husband
and I spent very day together, boating,
fishing, just being together!
I
still have a long road ahead but
I look forward to the work, the break
through's and hopefully the re-uniting
of my husband and myself in marriage,
but a healthier marriage. Thank you
Mort for the guidance, the encouragement
and all of the support. I hope my story
helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful
about the program, I would recommend
Tele-Boot Camp to all!!
Sincerely,
R.L.
Michigan
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"Your
program was very insightful - the CD series
and boot camp were eye opening for me"
Dear
Mort……
I
am not sure where to begin. Everything
you have taught me seems so practical
but something we forget over time. Today
I am applying the techniques even though
I am a lone ranger, and I can se e
change
… I
am a better man, a better Dad and a better
spouse than I ever was before. Your
program was very insightful - the CD series
and boot camp were eye opening for me.
Your advice is absolutely right
on the mark and has helped me tremendously.
And it seems that when I am struggling
I get that one email or piece of advice
from you that makes me think it all through
a little more clearer. Thanks
for helping me out.
G
. O
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"Thanks
a million times over for getting us
on the right track and for your help."
Mort,
Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill
and I did not completely make it through
all the program; we did complete all
the tele conferences and the Q&A's
and basically got through step 3 of
the 4 part program. Our Notebook suffered
as during the last 2 weeks of our program
Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer
so our focus completely changed.
The program did wonders and continues
to do wonders. We fixed what we had
broken due to lack of focus on each
other and continue to practice everything
we learned.
The program was fantastic as I could
not - without your Q&A's make Bill
understand what he was doing wrong without
appearing extremely selfish. By the
timie I received the program, I thought
I was going crazy, then I went through
all th Q&A's looking for answers
and found them. I marked the one's he
should difenetely listen to and explained
that if these do not address our problems,
nothing will. Between our sincere discussions,
those q&a's and the first three
steps of the program, we quickly got
back on track and remain so.
Now to get through our next test! Thanks
a million times over for getting us
on the right track and for your help.
Natty & Bill B.
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"If
anyone wants to turn their marriage
around and make it work, this is the
program to take"
Mort,
I would like to thank you for creating
the Marriage Fitness Progam, I
did the Lone Ranger in February and
before starting I was skeptical as to
how much this program would help my
marriage. As I went
through the program I realized that
my way of behaving had a lot to do with
the deterioration of my marriage.
I started listening to the CD's and
once I started doing the exercises is
when I realized that changes needed
to be made.
If anyone wants to turn their marriage
around and make it work, this is the
program to take, it really does help
you see what you need to fix in yourself
and teaches you how to approach your
spouse in a loving way.
Thank you for giving me the tools to
see what a great marriage I could have.
IAR
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"Our
house is a home once again but a better
one
than before"
Hello
Mort,
I don't know if you'll be reading this
or if your very nice assistant will.(Sorry,
I forgot her name)
I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD
news since I'm sure you like to hear
about marriages that have been saved.
My husband Curt had wanted a separation,
got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation.
Two months to the day before I could
have been receiving divorce papers from
his lawyer, Curt asked to move back
home instead.
Our house is a home once again but a
better one than before. Communication
is more open, honest and we speak and
listen lovingly to each other. What
a testimony of God's faithfulness for
us, our children and others who watched
us through the past year's storm! You
can even find us all together every
Sunday at church! (A new church that
is uplifting and offers hope instead
of warnings of fire and brimstone).
I still have notes from our discussions.
Looking back, many suggestions you made
were just what our relationship needed.
Thank you again for your encouraging
words.
Sincerely, a survivor and new person,
Samia B
Charlotte, NC
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"Within
less than three weeks he broke things
off with the girlfriend and began working
on our relationship"
Dear
Mort,
One year ago I contacted you via your
web site for help. My marriage had been
marginal to say the least for several
years. My husband told me the day before
Thanksgiving that he didn't love me
any more and thought I should move into
our vacation house in another state.
He was sure I would be happier there.
I was in such horrific shock I just
did what he asked. Once there I realized
this was not what I wanted and I was
going to do everything I could to save
our marriage of 32 years. To add to
the pain I discovered the day after
Christmas he was seeing an old High
School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately
came back home. I had to give it one
more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness
program in the lone ranger track and
began doing the things your program
suggested. Within less than three weeks
he broke things off with the girlfriend
and began working on our relationship.
He refused to go to any kind of counseling,
so I just continued by myself in the
Lone Ranger Track. As I worked the program
he seemed to respond in kind and it
wasn't long before things were better
than ever.
Thank You Mort!
This past year has been the best year
of our entire relationship. I would
recommend this program to anyone who
is having problems in their marriage.
It works!!!!!!!!!
Linda
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"I
wasn't sure this day would ever come
but now that it has I am glad I followed
your advice and gave myself the time
to learn
the
skills you advocate in your program."
Dear
Mort,
I
wanted to thank you for your program
and your support during our 1 on 1session.
Just wanted you to know that my husband
and I are getting back
together.
It has been a long road and at one
point I almost gave up and started
to move on with my life without him.
Funny how that letting go was
just
what he needed to find me again.
Anyways, we are making plans for our
future and I will continue with your
plugged in sessions since they have
become
so
valuable to me. To be honest
I wasn't sure this day would ever
come but now that it has I am glad
I followed your advice and gave myself
the time to learn
the
skills you advocate in your program.
Without that, I may have been hurtful
and cruel, behaviours that benefit
no one. Thankfully I was able
to stay loving to my husband throughout
our difficulties and now I can see
that our relationship will be stronger
for it.
Thank
you for being there.
Melody
M.
Alberta
Canada
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"Thank
you, and the Mrs., for
sharing
your wisdom with us."
I
have to say this series has recharged
my hope in my relationship. You simply
have spelled it out.
For my husband, who has not had the
opportunity of seeing, knowing, experiencing,
or learning the tools and skills of
a positive relationship, you have provided
an easy to understand program and "To
Do" list. I can't wait for him to get
started.
Yes, I got through the series first,
and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were my
issues, and I cannot ask more of someone
else than I am willing to do myself,
and do first.
My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb".
It made me think of everyone in my life
from our children to co workers and
how I interact with them. Am I sending
them a clear message of my definition
of our relationship? Some should be
getting more, some need to be receiving
less.
Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing
your wisdom with us.
R.P.
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"All
I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK
YOU."
I
don't know who gets these emails, but
I surly hope someone can express my
appreciation to Mort.
Today I got the second email Talk &
Touch. I just had to share this. My
wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been
going through hell with the separation.
Probably because I was doing all the
wrong things!
This evening, I called my wife and we
had a conversation. WOW was it wonderful.
Just a very simple conversation, yes
I slipped a couple of time and told
her how much I love and miss her and
wanted her to come back home but for
the most part we just talked about things.
Because I honestly cannot remember the
last time this happened, and I'm sure
she cannot either, I'm betting that
her jaw was on the floor. I didn't do
this to put her jaw on the floor but
I think she was shocked.
When I could tell that she was ready
to end the conversation, I let her know
that I understood and I tried to say
goodnight. Rather than just ending it
right then and there as she would have
before, she took time to explain to
me that she didn't rest well last night,
the time change affects her in a negative
way and she was tired. I told her no
problem, good night, sweet dreams and
I did slip in another "I Love You!"
All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU,
THANK YOU. I'm learning so much
David
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"Your
principles and convictions to the vision
of a better marriage give me hope"
Dear
Mr. Fertel:
Please share with others how you give
people, especially in the Lone Ranger
Track, the strength and endurance to
go on to reconcile their marriages.
For the right reasons.
So many people, including therapists
and well-meaning friends, have advised
me to leave my marriage. I almost feel
ridiculed by others in my dedication
to my marriage and my spouse. Until
I encountered you and your program.
Your principles and convictions to the
vision of a better marriage give me
hope. For the right reasons. You are
helping me learn from this painful experience.
When every one else almost "derails"
me in my vision to learn the most I
can about myself and reconcile my marriage.
I feel inspiration and motivation from
you to continue in my efforts.
I have to admit your amount of personal
dedication is impressive. You provide
an abundance of material that requires
much effort to assimilate in a relatively
short amount of time. But that is in
accord with your belief in how hard
one should work in their labors of love
to protect their marriage.
You walk your talk. You are personally
involved. I never imagined I'd have
opportunities to actually speak with
you. And you provide ongoing follow-up
after the initial program.
Yours truly,
Dianne DF
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"After
a four month separation in different locations,
I am now living back at the house with
my family"
Mort,
Just
wanted to take a minute and thank you
for the inspiration and the success on
repairing my marriage. After a four
month separation
in different locations, I am now living
back at the house with my family.
I would love to say it is peachy and rosy,
but the fact of the matter is we have
a long way to go. I have you
in my corner that can help the forward
progression that I
believe
is most important in the healing process.
I was doing the lone ranger track and
by the end of the program my wife was
not only listening to the teleconferences
she was participating in the Q and A.
Thanks again.
Randy
and Stacy C.
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"...he
actually said he loved me..."
Dear
Mort,
I
signed up for your e-mails 9 months prior
to actually joining the boot camp. I would
read the emails and save them and
reread them and sometimes foward them
to my husband. They were amazingly right
on … Your
message is extremely powerful and also
very sincere. On one of the CD's the
wife breaks down into tears and one can
sence your empathy and sincerety. My husband
has actually come a long way. We do the
date nights as suggested and that is terrific.
I tell him I love him, because I cannot
hold that back. I told him there is no
need for him to respond to that. But that
I love him and I cannot just not say it.
I'm sure you are not surprised to know
he actually said he loved me while away
for a two day business trip!
One
of the Q&A's in our boot camp the
wife asked about having sex. Your answer
was soooo amazing. You said why not you
are married go ahead and have sex. My
husband and I kinda looked at eachother
surprised. Laughed. Said why not? And
we have been having sex. Such a silly
thing, but so powerful.
I
realize with my entire being that this
program can work. It is not easy most
of the time, but to hear the hope and
the determination from your listeners
on the Q&A is very moving. I am taking
your "fast is slow and slow is fast"
quite literally. Our problems have evolved
over a decade, so I believe if we move
ahead at our own pace, change will come.
Pat
-married 34 years and still learning to
put love first.
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"This
program allowed us to stop and start
back at the beginning."
Mort,
your marriage bootcamp was amazing.
It made us aware of what was really
important. We were trying to fix things
that were draining to us emotionally
and you showed us that those things
were not the issues. They were the result
of what we had forgotten to do. This
program allowed us to stop and start
back at the beginning. This truly is
the way. Everyday is a new day and now
we have the neccessary tools to rebuild
our marriage and do it the right way
this time.
J
& J
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"We have been in your
program for over a year and we are doing
fantastic"
Hey
Mort... We just got off the phone for
this months Q&A. I wanted to share
this with you during the call but seems
like a lot more people needed to talk
than we did. We have been in your program
for over a year and we are doing fantastic.
Things don't or didn't happen all at
once and things will not stop happening
..This is our way of life now. Here
is an example of some things that are
happening - Our family was on a trip
this past weekend in the mountains (this
was a business/pleasure trip mixed)
. 2 things happened that I hope I never
forget. The first was that we stopped
to get a hot beverage (tea and coffee)
and before I knew what was happening
he was fixing my tea the way I liked
it and I was fixing his coffee the way
he liked it. We were both thinking of
the other person....That was a great
feeling... The second thing that happened
was that we were talking to one of his
co workers ( this is the first time
I had met him) and the conversation
turned to how long each one of us had
been married. We told him almost 15
for us. He said it was great to see
that we still had that sparkle in both
of our eyes.
Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help
you have given us, the support and the
knowledge that you are there for us.
We are loving this...
T.M.
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"My
husband even passed me a compliment
"
Dear
Mort: I joined as the Lone Ranger
because I felt I needed to do something
.. .
I didn't realize what I was getting
myself into but became addictive after
reading your daily emails. The
teleconferences, books, cds are of the
utmost quality. I found myself
listening to the teleconferences over
and over at the office instead of the
local radio station. While driving,
your cd has been plugged in. The
workbook replaced Dr. Phil McGraw.
I'm achieving positive results …
with the tools that you have
made available …
After seven weeks, I feel great!
My husband even passed a compliment
"Wow you look great! Is that
a new outfit" I just said
"Thanks, I feel like I look...great!".
Inside joke, I've had the outfit for
years and he never acknowledged it before
but what's inside the outfit is different!
I feel better now than I felt prior
to taking your course. Mort, your
sincere approach is so felt when listening
to these conferences. For seven
weeks, you've been my best friend.
I thank you for you! I will be
continuing with your next program.
Many thanks-Vicki M.
, Petaluma, California
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"This
program is sincere, uplifting, and can
help any relationship, even if you are
not married yet"
You
won't find a better Marriage counseling
program for the money anywhere.
This
program is sincere, uplifting, and can
help any relationship, even if you are
not married yet. The reason is this
program comes from the heart of someone
who understands loss and the value of
relationshiips, someone who is sincere
and genuinely cares about the people
he is tring to help.
John
B.
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"Marriage
fitness gave us the answers, and step
by step, the directions to start on
a different path."
Hi
Mort,
Marriage
fitness is exactly what we needed at
exactly the right time. We have
been married 25 years and like many
couples moved away from each other through
the years. We were ready to separate.
The issues and relationship problems
seemed so big that we didn't know wha
t
s tep
to take first to begin to fix things.
I felt like there was a mountain in
front of me and I didn't have the equipment
and I was already so tired I couldn't
think of how to take the first
step.
Marriage
fitness gave us the answers, and step
by step, the directions to start on
a different path. This program
is positive and builds the relationship
from day one. I knew that if things
were going to change we would have to
begin to see each other differently
and start to build the relationship
again. The way the program is
designed, it was easy to “just do it”
and the results quickly followed.
Somewhere in my heart I knew this was
the answer, marriage fitness put it
into action.
Thanks!
Lisa
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"The
boot camp deals with NOW and with moving
forward which is something you CAN do..."
I
am more than happy to offer a testimony
for the Teleboot Camp! In my opinion
it is the best marriage course I've
heard of or read about. This course
was my last ditch effort to stay in
my marriage. I've had one foot out the
door for the past 2-3 years, but because
of two young children, I have been holding
out and looking for miracles. My marriage
has been a huge disappointment b/c we
have developed horrific habits and treat
each other badly. In the 7 week
course I have seen my husband make
huge changes and he says the same about
me. We are now at a point where
we kind of "like" each other again which
is amazing. The course and listening
to Mort's phone conferences work so
well because he is SO non-judgemental
and only looks for solutions.
You are expecting to hear "i can't believe
your husband does that" or "You realize
what you did was wrong,....".... Instead
the boot camp deals w/ NOW and w/ moving
forward which is something you CAN do...
you can't change the past so why make
people feel guilty which is what a lot
of counselors do.
I
am also surprised at how much my husband
took to Mort's advice. He can
be very difficult, judgemental and close
minded... but he got into the course
and actually did the assignments. We
now are excited about what our marriage
can be if we continue to "do" the work
and keep creating love... there's a
light at the end of the tunnel. We are
both committed to better ourselves for
our marriage, our self-dignity and our
children.
We
just went out w/ another couple last
weekend and when they started bickering
we just said www.mortfortel.com
... then we laughed so hard b/c
we know how ridiculous we used to look
always bickering ourselves! We've come
a long way and have a long way to go
but at least we are speaking, connecting
and are hopeful. We went from
threatening divorce every week to making
plans to join a tennis league.
We could NOT have done this alone.
There was way too much animosity and
resistance.
Another
huge plus is my kids are more relaxed...
they changed as much and as fast as
we did. They went from uptight
and anxious to happier and more peaceful......AND
a girlfriend of mine wants to know what
pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen
me this positive (about everything)
in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote
down the Boot Camp website before she
left my house! She was very suspicious
that I was giving her a website but
that it was just a pill I was taking!
To
be honest my husband and I only put
in about 40% effort and saw HUGE results..(like
I said we were almost enemies so it
was quite difficult to go from 0 to
a 100). now we are excited to keep putting
in more and more effort and take our
marriage to the highest level possible.
So,
thanks Mort for everything you have
been a God-send to us and our children...No
matter what happens I know I now have
the information, skills and concepts
to create love in my relationship. My
husband and I are at a point where we
are not as needy or desparate.
We are becoming 2 adults who would like
to stay together for the right reasons
and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre
marriage anymore. We have raised the
bar and now both are more aware
and accountable for our words and actions.
I thought our marriage would just be
mediocre at best and now am unwilling
to accept that. I'm striving for
awesome and won't stop till I get there!
GS
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"It
truly has changed my life! "
Dear
Mort,
I
write you this letter the day before our
25th wedding anniversary. Three
months ago I would have thought we would
surely have been in the process of a divorce
on this day. On December 29 after
receiving your emails for over two
months, I finally decided that I would
enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger
Track. It truly has changed
my life! I have found
that my husband responds even though he
is reluctant to the thought of renewing
our marriage. I have completed the
boot camp and look forward to the continuing
support through the Plugged-In program.
Showing patience that I didn't know I
had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate
many anniversaries to come. Thank
you!
Sincerely,
Amy
Littleton,
CO
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"We
still have alot of work to do, but we
have a changed marital environment ...and
have a bright outlook for a happy future."
Are
you thinking about registering for the
boot camp? Here's my story.
We
had been married for 17 years and our
marriage was falling apart. We couldn't
get through a conversation without criticism
or attack. I heard Mort Fertel on the
radio speaking about the principles
of Marriage Fitness. After almost a
year of traditional marriage counseling
and making no improvement in our marriage,
we decided to buy his book and try his
program. What a difference in just a
few short weeks. Then we heard about
the Boot Camp. My husband and I signed
up and very much looked forward to each
session. Through Mort's guidance, we
were able to make considerable progress.
The weekly workbooks were especially
helpful in helping give us ideas to
reconnect and infuse positive energy
into our marriage. For me, the bootcamp
also taught me how my actions and behaviors
were sabotaging our relationship. I
had always thought that if only my husband
changed, our marriage would improve.
I now see that no progress could be
made until I recognized and made an
effort to change my behavior toward
my spouse. Mort was always available
to answer questions and held us accountable
to our own behaviors. Six months ago,
I was counting the days until the kids
were grown to leave my marriage, I no
longer do that. Even though every day
is not perfect, I can now see a hopeful
future with my husband. We still have
alot of work to do, but we have a changed
marital environment in which to do the
work and have a bright outlook for a
happy future.
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"She
made her choice, and because of Marriage
Fitness and your boot camp, she chose
me!"
Hi
Mort,
I
just wanted to let you know that my
wife has made a complete turn around
and is starting to not only work on
our marriage but really make some amazing
changes.
Thank
you for all your help and insight. If
it was not for you helping me through
this and teaching me how to be
the husband that me wife deserves then
I may have never been able to bring
her back to this marriage and our family.
She made her choice, and because of
Marriage Fitness and your boot camp,
she chose me!
Keep
up the good work and keep saving marriages.
Thanks
again.
AP
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"Not
only did it change our marriage,
it
changed our entire way of life"
Dear
Mort,
Today makes one month that my wife has
been home after three months of separation.
Thank you so much for your coaching
and the Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.
Not only did it change our marriage,it
changed our entire way of life.
After two affairs and an emotional affair,
I thought I had lost my wife forever,
but thanks be unto God, we "found" Mort
Fertel. Just as when one becomes a new
creature in Christ, old things pass
away and all things become new; such
was the case when we completed the Marriage
Fitness tele-boot camp. Our old
habits, fears, insecurities, and the
manner in which we treated each ther
passed away; All things became
NEW ! We learned to put love first
and to make our spouse and our marriage
our highest priority. We strongly
urge anyone needing help in any way
with their marriage to enroll in the
Marriage Fitness tele-boot camp.
It will change your life forever. It
did ours!
Forever grateful, Mort!
R.M. & D.M.
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"...the
BOOT CAMP was worth both
our
time and money"
We
thought the BOOT CAMP was worth both
our time and money we invested and we
recommend it to our friends.
Alan
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"Thanks"
Dear
Mort,
Thanks
for your help.
Patty
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"What
did I get out of the program?
Real
hope to my family"
I
highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness
Tele-Boot Camp.
I
joined the program as the lone ranger
about 8 weeks ago. My husband was very
firm about moving out and filing for
divorce without giving me much of specific
reasons. In my sorrow and desperation,
I contacted Mort and joined the boot
camp.
What
did I get out of the program?
Real
hope to my family: My husband changed
his moving out plan and joined me on
the coaching session with Mort.
Thank
you from the bottom of my heart for
your extraordinary impact on my life
and my family's life.
H.E.
California
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"
I have never loved my husband more"
Hi
Mort,
I'm
happy to give you a testimonial because
this has been a life-changing experience
for me. Before taking your course our
marriage was over. I have been
married four times and really wanted
this to work, but the light at the end
of the tunnel had long since gone out.
We decided that we were done and divorce
was the only answer. Then my husband
came across your program and signed
up without telling me. He then
started talking about the program and
got one of your CD's that I listened
to half-heartedly. When the program
began I listened to your first seminar
and was so blown away by what I
was hearing. I couldn't believe
all the things that I could relate to
and how they were being depicted. We
had spent thousand of dollars on counseling,
working out nothing through each session. Only
to leave angrier and angrier.
But at the end of your seven weeks,
I have never loved my husband more and know
that we are going to work through these
things and stay on the track that
we were always meant to be on.
I know that we will continue to
work at keeping our relationship fresh
because we are worth it. Your
inspiration with the material provided
has been a serious God send to both
of us. I thank you profusely for
having the desire to help those that
can' t s eem to help themselves and
will continue to reference your materials
in order to keep our relationship in
tune as we grow together. I can'
t say thank you enough!
Jennifer
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"Everything you have said and
sent me hits a core truth to me.
I am astounded by its clarity."
I
have got to say that I must be ready
for the principles that your program
is built upon, because your program
"appeared" to me over the internet when
I was looking for some marital relationship
guidance. Everything you have
said and sent me hits a core truth to
me. I am astounded by its clarity.
I
think between the CD's from the 7 weeks
worth of teleconferences and Q&A
sessions, we can find our way to a "Put
Love first" marriage, with time and
consistent effort on our parts.
I know I am willing to "do" what it
takes to create this environment in
our relationship.
Thank
you for your principles and teaching.
DL
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"...things
are improving on a slow but steady pace"
Hi
Mort,
I
wanted to take this opportunity to thank
you for all your help. I don't know
if I would have made it this far without
your words and inspiration. It seems
that every time I am down or off track
i can open an e-mail or listen to a teleconference
session and I feel renewed to continue
the journey back into a my marriage.
This has been the toughest year of my
life and with all the ups and downs it
would have been easy to find a reason
to throw in the towel. Following
your suggestions and working my way through
the CD's and workbook have given me a
clear path to follow. I have found
many things within me that needed iimproving
and in fixing myself I have watched my
marriage go from separation and talk of
divorce to daily talk and touch charges
from my spouse and weekly dates that are
his idea as much as mine. The best
thing is that my husband was one of those
obstinate ones who didn't think love should
be so much work, so I have done all this
following the Lone Ranger Track.
I won't say things are perfect, but things
are improving on a slow but steady pace.
One person really can make a difference
in a marriage!
Thanks
Mort your help has been invaluable!!
Sincerely
Heidi
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"Mort
has valuable insights, and proven
methods to restore love in a marriage.
"
Mort,
Your
Marriage Fitness program gave me a new
perspective for my failing marriage. I
registered as a last ditch effort to
save my marriage. My husband wanted
a divorce. I was out of hope,
out of ideas, and searching for a way change
my situation. I registered for
the lone ranger track, which in the
beginning even brought heartache.
There I was wanting to save my marriage
and my husband could care less. I wondered
how a marriage could be saved when only
one partner was unwilling to participate.
The 7 week fitness program changed
not only that thought, but my perspective
on how I could better my marriage and
myself. I have become a better
wife and I can even say that my marriage
is no longer failing. There is
laughter, love, jokes, and time
spent together again. My thoughts
and my actions have changed my marriage's
momentum, and I would encourage any
couple to participate in the program.
Mort has valuable insights, and proven
methods to restore love in a marriage.
LDW
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"Thanks
so much Mort. You did in 7 short weeks
what no one else could do in 53 years.
"
Hi
Mort
Here
is what my wife, Delores, wrote in a
notebook after our last teleconference
with you. I thought you'd like to read
it:
As
I listened to the final teleconference
I cried uncontrollably. I had the same
feeling at age nine when I left the
courthouse when my father and mother
divorced. As I clasped my mothers hand
I knew I would not be able to stay connected
to my father in the way I wanted to;
which proved to be true. I never saw
him again for 20 years. I spent 53 years
of my life trying to connect to someone.
For the first time someone had told
me how I could connect. Mort had
given me the tools to stay connected.
If I would have let my spouse know how
bad I needed to connect with him instead
of shaming, belittling, and attacking
his character, I am sure he would have
turned around and connected with me
years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You
did in 7 short weeks what no one else
could do in 53 years. Delores
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"
'Mort was reading my mind' "
Dear
Mort,
It
was amazing how, from the very
beginning of reading your website, ordering
and receiving Marriage Fitness materials,
participating in the boot camp program,
hearing all that you had to say, participating
in the Q & A's, reading everything
that we read, and doing the exercises
in the work book, pertained to exactly
what we have gone through and are
currently going through. Brian
described it like "Mort was reading
my mind"!
We
tried a few sessions of marriage
counseling about 4 years ago and it
was as you described. We came
out angrier than we went in and at that
time the decision was made that counseling
wasn't for us. We have struggled tremendously
for these last 4 years, trying
to do the best that we knew how
to do with some improvement, until
we came to the "final straw" in July
of 2007. This, as far as Lisa
was concerned, was the breaking point
and she was thinking divorce was the
only answer.
In
July of 2007, we reached out to the
Internet and found your program.
What a God send! Through
Marriage Fitness, you helped us remember
that we do have a deep passionate love
for each other. We just needed
to figure out how to find that
lost love and make it evident to each
other again. We lost our
"connection" and we needed to learn
to re-connect once again. In our
23 years of marriage, we had 13 moves
in a 17 year span, job changes, raising
children, both of us traveling
with our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc.
We were unable to show our love
for each other in an effective manor
any longer. Over time, this pushed
us further and further apart.
We
thank you so much for your program as
it has shown us how to get back to where
we were before "Life" got in the way.
Mort,
we can't thank you enough for the
hard work and effort which you have
put into your program. You have
taught us how to reconnect and rekindle
our relationship and we are grateful
for that. We look forward
to a long and healthy relationship in
our marriage and a long relationship
with Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness
program.
Sincerely,
Brian
& Lisa
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"Thanks
you for everything. Now there is hope.
"
Mort:
I
am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has
an emotional affair with another woman.
When I was told by my husband about
his affair, I was so shocked. I found
Marriage Fitness from internet and signed
in January. After attending the live
seminars and Q-A conferences, all of
sudden, I found out there are lots of
small things that I never pay attention
to that have done big damage on
my marriage. I tried the ways you taught
in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts
and when I almost gave up, my husband
finally opened his heart to me and told
me what went wrong in our marriage
and what lead him to seek comfort from
outside of marriage.
Thanks
you for everything. Now there is hope.
Jane
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"I
would recommend this program to anyone.
It really has made me see things more
clearly than ever before."
Dear
Mort,
Now
that my tele-boot camp is over I would
like to tell you how helpful it was.
I
was in the lone ranger track. My husband
said he didn't love me or feel an emotional
connection with me. He also said divorce
would be our only option.
I
sought therapy, read your book, and
joined the tele-boot camp. You gave
me advice that I sometimes didn't want
to follow, but I did it anyway because
I made a commitment to follow the program.
I went from being a hysterical, scared
woman, whose husband was having a year
long affair to a confident wife whose
husband has asked for a new beginning.
I
would recommend this program to anyone.
It really has made me see things more
clearly than ever before. I am so grateful.
Thank you and keep working with people
like us!
D.B.D
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"Our
marriage issues were infidelity by my
husband and we are now on track to renewing
our relationship with the help of Marriage
fitness."
Mort,
I can't express the impact Marriage fitness
has had on our Marriage. Getting back
to the Basics of a relationship has been
overwhelmingly rewarding. Our marriage
issues were infidelity by my husband and
we are now on track to renewing our relationship
with the help of Marriage fitness. The
trust is starting to come back,This program
has given me hope that we can survive
this and the struggles of what that type
of stress and issues that it bring s…
With the help of your program
it has brought us back together,I thought
it was over because of his affair ..
. That he was not sure he wanted
to give up he has chosen to stay with
me and work out our issues. He has chosen
to stay with me and rekindle what we once
had. It has not been an easy task to start
trusting and forgiving him for the infidelity,But
he has great qualities as a person that
I LOVE VERY MUCH and I know in our hearts
we are now on the right track to becoming
soul mates once again. I started out jus
t receiving
free e-mails and then 3 weeks into
that we signed up for the boot camp and
it was the one thing that has really helped
in so many ways. I have already recommended
this program to a few couples and feel
very strongly that your program has helped
me save what is very dear to me My Marriage
and my soul mate and can not tell you
how greatly this has impacted our lives.
My gratitude is overwhelming and we can't
thank you enough for giving us the tools
to save our marriage
Ricki
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"We
seemed to be able to take the ideas presented
in bootcamp and improve our relationship"
When
we signed up for the Bootcamp, our relationship
was not going well. I lacked trust
in my partner and optimism about the
future. He, uncharacteristically,
agreed to do this program with me with
the hope of turning things around.
I honestly can' t say how much our improvement
is due to the content of the Bootcamp,
how much is due to us simply going through
the process together, to the exercises
or simply the change from focusing on
our problems to focusing on strengths
and improving those. It is clear
to me that men and women will always
think differently from each other, but
in spite of that, we seemed to be able
to take the ideas presented in bootcamp
and improve our relationship.
It isn't perfect, but it is so much
better. It is kind of amazing
to me how great it feels to do positive
things for each other, and how that
morphs into greater richness in the
relationship. Its like DUH, but
it really does work so simply.
I'm very glad we did it. Thanks,
Mort!
TW
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