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"He
gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either in so long) and told
me how sorry he is for the way he has been acting"
Dear
Mort -
Just two months ago I emailed you asking if your program would work for
my situation. I bought the Marriage Fitness program
out of desperation with the thought, "If this doesn't work at least I
tried." My husband was already looking for a roommate and
telling me who will get what in the divorce. We went to four
marriage counseling sessions before he said, "I don't know why we are
going, I am done with you." I am not sure why we went either,
we just ended up fighting the whole time. So long story short
I followed your program (in the Lone Ranger Track), signed up for your
emails, and started applying your ideas. There were many days
I felt like why bother, he is done with me, but I kept following the
program. Ten days ago he told me he was leaving. I
almost gave up but didn't. I kept following the
program. Two days ago my husband came home from hiking
(alone). He gave me a hug and a kiss (I haven't gotten either
in so long) and told me how sorry he is for the way he has been
acting. He said he is ready to work on our
marriage. I know we are on a long journey now but at least
now we are on that journey together. I know you probably hear
it all the time but you once again saved a marriage that would have
dissolved without you. Thank you so much for all of your
help.
Thanks again,
KS
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"I
did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband ended his
affair "
Dear Mort,
I know you have heard it before, but I want to say
it again.... You saved my marriage. My husband said he "loved
me but was not in love with me anymore". He was having an
affair, during a very hard pregnancy which I later
miscarried. I was not very nice when I was pregnant and I was
depressed so he turned to someone else. Needless to say
losing a baby and a marriage in a two week time-span was
unbearable. So I turned to you. Counseling had been
a joke just telling us how to communicate. Your
program told me what to do. I followed the program exactly.
I did the lone ranger track and within two weeks my husband
ended his affair and "rededicated his life to me".
Thanks so much,
Lisa Blank
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"After
30 years, I'm only sorry we didn't do this sooner. "
Dear Mort,
Thank you for your program. I was driving into my driveway
finalizing the words that would tell my wife I'm leaving.
Upon arriving home, your program had come as well. Rather
than tell my wife I'm outta here, I suggested we listen to a
disk. Long story short, we'll be working this out together,
getting connected, completing your action steps. I can't wait
to continue connecting. After 30 years, I'm only sorry we
didn't do this sooner. Thank you.
Greg Burke
Denver, CO
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"I
would strongly recommend this program to everyone who does not want to
give up on their marriage"
Dear mort,
I was reluctant to
begin the lone ranger program. Wondering how I
would be able to make a difference in my marriage doing the program
alone. Through your sincere mentoring, principles and new
habbits used in your program, it is proven to work. I could
not beleive I started to receive positive responses from my
husband. Although I had invitied my spouse to do the program
with me he felt it would not help. So I did not tell him and
I started the program. After a few weeks, my husband had
commented he seen a change in me. I then took the
opportunity to tell him I have been in the marriage fitness
program. He now continues to ask if I have a teleconference
call scheduled and how things are going. Even though he has
not yet join me in the program, I feel confident that my continued
efforts and your guidence will bring more change and connection to our
marriage. I would strongly recommend this program to everyone
who does not want to give up on their marriage and who also wants to
improve how to be a better you!
Thank you Mort for
making us matter...
Sincerely &
God Bless
JoAnn S.
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"I
keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has changed so
quickly,
it is truly amazing. "
Dear
Mort,
Words cannot express my gratitude for you and your program. I ordered
your program out of desperation as a last ditch effort to save my
marriage. I wanted to be able to say "at least I tried". I found out
that my husband was having an affair, he was determined to get a
divorce and move out. There was nothing (according to him) that I could
say or do to change his mind. He said that he was a train that could
not be derailed. The advertisement for your program said that it
addressed all of the problems that we were having and everything my
husband was saying, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" and "I'm
checked out...it's over". I thought your program would be too good to
be true, but I gave it a shot.
I have been in the lone ranger program for 6 weeks now and I could not
have dreamed of a better outcome. My husband and I are more connected
now than we have been in 10 years. Maybe more than we have ever been.
After two weeks of being in the program, my husband came home one night
and asked me why I was being so nice. He said that he didn't know what
was going on, but that he really liked it and appreciated it. At that
point he said that he hadn't changed his mind YET, but that he really
liked it. From then on our relationship blossomed. He started giving me
touch and talk without even knowing it. Now he looks forward to
spending time with me as opposed to trying to get away from me. Last
night he said that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he felt that
we were very connected and thought things would work between us. I
cannot pin point what did it, but whatever it was it is all thanks to
you. I keep pinching myself to see if I am dreaming. Everything has
changed so quickly, it is truly amazing. You are a gift from God. THANK
YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!
Sincerely,
Melissa K.
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In just the short amount of time we have been part
of the Marriage Fitness Program, we have seen a dramatic impact on our
marriage. We have already told others, who have informed us
in one way or another they are having marital issues, about the
program. The information we received makes so much sense and
is not difficult to apply to day to day life. It is
comforting to know we are not alone with the problems we have
experienced and we are being taught by someone who has been through the
same issues and is living the principles being taught. The
teacher walks the walk. Thank you for helping us start the
process of saving our marriage, family, and our future.

Stephanie
& Mike - Jarrettsville, MD
"Your
information was outstanding and actually very simple!"
Mort,
I signed up for the lone ranger program. Your information was
outstanding. Actually very simple once you explained everything in
detail. Hard to believe that your thoughts, suggestions, and theories
work, but they do!
I have a long way to continue but it's getting better thanks to you. To
do my job I couldn't always attend to Q & A's live, but the
audio files we had access to on the members-only web site were a
lifesaver.
Keep up the good work
Kevin B
Joliet, Illinois
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"We
are no longer searching for lawyers and affairs...we now spend our
searching for ways to grow and strengthen our marriage"
Dear Mort,
If anyone thinks that
"it is the end," "it's hopeless"....then they had better think twice. I
actually sat down with a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings...the
worst day of my life. By some miracle I found your program. By some
second miracle my husband RELUCTANTLY decided to listen to your
program. By some other miracle we both came to an epiphany about our
lives, our marriage and the true love that was lying just beneath the
surface of our existence. We are no longer searching for lawyers and
affairs...we now spend our searching for ways to grow and strengthen
our marriage and striving to be role models for our two beautiful
children. We could not have been closer to divorce. There were 3
affairs to contend with....but still we are together and happy about
it. It is never too late, there is hope for anyone who dares to try. To
all those marriages that are crumbling: Be brave, be daring, be strong,
be willing to jump into an ice cold river to be swept away by the
warmth of love. Thank you Mort Fertel for somehow finding answers for
all of us who were too blind to see the light, too frightened to open
our hearts and too trapped to escape doom. From GP and JG
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"WE have both seen improvement, albeit
slight"
Although my
husband initially sent me the link to Mort's site, I am the one who
ordered it, and then it was like pulling teeth to get Jim interested in
working the program (not just in "theory" but in practice).
We are just now starting to gather momentum. When Jim and I
drive to work he takes a CD to listen to, when we go somewhere together
in the car, we take a CD of Mort's to listen to. Mort is
right, IT IS NOT EASY. But we are not giving up. WE
have both seen improvement, albeit slight. At this point we are still
trying to get the flywheel (as Mort calls it) to start working on it's
own.
Bonnie and Jim R.

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"[Mr. Fertel] gave the best advice I
have ever heard about marriage problems"
Mr. Fertel ,
I have thought long and hard about writing a
testimonial for the Marriage Fitness Program. The problem was
where to begin and when to stop writing about the success I
have achieved (with Mr. Fertel's help) but here goes:
If the term “obstinate spouse”
were in the dictionary then my husband's picture would take up the
whole page!!
We fit the pattern of couples married for a very
long time, 24 years. In these days odds are against
that. And, like many long-married couples, we had fallen into
a rut. Same old routine day in and day out.
Somewhere along the way we stopped trying to connect with each
other. My husband started filling his time with church work 4
to 5 days a week, not including actually going to church on Saturday
and Sunday (we're Catholic so there are masses both days). I
think he realized that might have been excessive and cut back, but that
was only after I complained and complained about never seeing
him. This was the real problem: he was so used to spending
time away from me and getting what he should have been getting from the
me that he only switched his focus to sports, visiting his father 5 to
6 times a week (his father is in excellent health, but they have common
interests), even spending hours talking to his favorite garage
mechanic. No, there were no extra-marital affairs, thank
goodness. I am not blameless either. I
spent at least 8 hours a day in the garden, often more, and for some
reason it took priority over what little time my husband was
home. So we tried regular marriage counselling.
After paying a good deal of money to be beaten up by the counsellor
about my health issues causing all the problems in our relationship
(chronic depression among other biggies) we stopped because of
financial reasons around Christmas time. My husband has not
mentioned anything about going back. Imagine spending your 24
th anniversary by yourself while your husband declared he was going out
to clean the garage, and then went off to spend the rest of the day
with his father! No “Happy Anniversary”
card, absolutely no mention at all, and he was the one who had always
remembered the date.
So, during one of my many nights with insomnia, I
Googled marriage counselling and Mort Fertel's name came up.
I read through the whole site. And I couldn't believe how
much sense his approach to marital problems made. Yes, it
would seem “counter-intuitive” as he explains but
traditional counselling did absolutely no good for us. Within
the week I signed up for the Lone Ranger track. I have read
his book, am on the second reading now; listened to all the
CDs, poured through the notebook. I can honestly say that
there wasn't any question or problem that wasn't covered in the
materials.
He gave the best advice I have ever heard about
marriage problems . It's
been three full months. And guess what? My husband
has started joking with me again! I don't remember how long
it's been since that happened. We talk! He even is
starting to make physical contact again instead of trying his hardest
not to brush against me (that was one of the worst things to endure).
Hope is a wonderful thing; it's worth all
the hard work to rebuild a successful and loving marriage.
Susan D.
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"We credit you for helping
save our marriage
every chance we get!"


Dear Mort,
We are 2 of your
success stories and we credit you for helping save our marriage every
chance we get!
We've continued
in the Marriage Fitness program and thank you from the bottom of our
hearts for your great work. We were married 28 years, separated 18
months, worked your program 6 of those months, had phone sessions with
you, and now are back under the same roof for three months. It isn't
easy, but we are determined to make our love work for us.
We just had to
invite you to the party, knowing you can't be here, but you get
positive feedback!
THANK YOU MORT!
Penny and Jeff
Mazin
"Marriage
Fitness is a truly incredible program that should be required
reading before getting married.
It is really that powerful!"
I am a husband that is in the lone ranger track
that was hurt by an internet affair that has tore apart my marriage and
family for the past 4 months. Seven weeks ago I discovered Mort
Fertel's Marriage Fitness program following weeks of urgent
searching for answers on how to rebuild my marriage .
Mort taught me how to transform my perception of
love from a passive impulsive feeling which it truly is not, into an
active process of consistently giving in small ways among other
good habits. Also, by understanding that there really is
something I can do in my relationship on my own that can make a huge
difference in my marriage has given me tremendous hope.
It is really hard for a person to understand how
dynamic a process the Marriage Fitness program is until you jump in.
Since getting involved in the Marriage Fitness program I have been to
Psychotherapists and have found that they just don't
hold a candle to the practical solutions that Mort's program offers.
I still have work to do to win back my obstinate
wife's love but the encouragement that I receive from the Marriage Fitness program
I participated in, is keeping my outlook positive and I am seeing my
wife's guard coming down slowly but surely. Endurance and consistency
in implementing Mort's habits of a phenomenal marriage are absolutely
key but without his Q&A sessions
and laser sessions I would have lost hope by now.
Marriage Fitness is a truly incredible
program that should be required reading in high school or at least
before getting married. It is really that powerful! I wish I would have
found out about Mort Fertel many years ago. I have never felt so
compelled to offer my most sincere endorsement of any other
product or person's services in my entire life.
Stephen B.
Fenwick, ON Canada
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"My
husband and I have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary …
thanks to this program. "
First
and foremost Thank god for Mr. Fertel because his program was exactly
what I needed! This program was a last resort for me because
I had done the talking and begging with my husband and it was not
working. I was not reaching him. I sign up on The Lone Ranger
Track as a last resort. At first, I was skeptical because I
had never done anything like this before and did not believe this could
really work. Once I read through the book and listen to audios I
realized where I was going wrong and that I was not the only person
going through this. I started implementing Mr. Fertel's
concepts and advice, with great difficulty. I had zero hope,
out of ideas and wanted to change this situation ASAP. I began to see a
slow change in my husband and myself.
My husband and I
have just celebrated our 6 th anniversary Nov.3 …
thanks to this
program. I have and still am implementing the process with my
husband. I use every opportunity I have to connect with him and let him
see me as an exceptional wife. I look forward to reviewing
what you have taught me everyday and to make that loving close
connection with my husband. I can't thank you enough. THANK
YOU THANK YOU!!
Forever grateful,
Lillian H.
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"You have helped my husband and
myself learn how to get over the pain"
Dear Mort,
I just wanted
to write you and tell you that you have been a bigger and more
inspiring help than our marriage counselor that we have been seeing for
over a month.
I had an affair that lasted 9 months. Why? Because I felt like I wasn't
getting the attention that I had thought that I "required." My husband
whom I never stopped loving decided to forgive me but in the process is
still bitter and hurt. You have helped him and myself learn how to get
over the pain and continue on with a marriage that we both want to last
forever.
Thank you,
M.S. and J.M.
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"It's
time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. "
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Thank you Mort! I got into the program because of
the testimonies of those who took it and saved their marriages. I also
got in when I read that it was highly recommended by Stephen R. Covey,
so I thought what do I have to lose? I love Mr. Covey's ideals, so if
he thinks it's a good buy, then I can trust that.
I was a lone ranger in the program…I can honestly tell you
that I'm a much more loving person now. I'm so much happier now and I
have peace of mind most of the time. I'm less stressed. …
This program not only helped restore and renew my marriage, but it has
also helped me raise my children with love. I'm a better mom now
… I'm so much a better person because of it. …And
your program has helped me make a HUGE difference and turn around in
our marriage. My husband has returned home and he said that my
happiness and our children's happiness will be his and he will never
leave again. I also like that you remind us over and over about the
most powerful hand in a marriage....God. You are right. My husband said
he prayed and fasted that day he listened to the audios of teleseminar
2 and 3 and liked what he heard and decided he wanted to do it with me.
So, we're doing the duo track slowly but surely.
Thank you for your gift. I know that God put you on the earth at a time
when I need you and your talents. I truly believe that. I was led to
your website and I felt in my heart the need to order the materials. It
was expensive for my means, but my marriage was more important than
that. It is worth every penny I pay you.
Thank you again. Keep saving souls, marriages, families, children and
generations. The world has had enough selfishness and divorces. It's
time for ALL MARRIAGES to seek you out. I highly recommend your program
to anyone who is willing to try.
Sincerely yours,
SL
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Hi. I'm Mr. Fertel's
assistant. My name is Rebecca. People call the office all the time and
ask, “Does this program really work?” Well, it's
easy for me to say “yes” because Adina (that's Mr.
Fertel's other assistant) and I manage Mr. Fertel's emails so we
personally received all the testimonials on this web page. When we get
them, we just cut and paste them onto the web site. I thought you'd
like to know how these stories got here. Keep reading. You'll be amazed
at how Mr. Fertel has changed people's lives and how his program has
put families back together. I look forward to getting an email
testimonial from you one day. Good luck!
"Because of you we have slowly
recovered the remnants of our lost family"
Good morning
Mort,
I want you to
know we would be honored to serve you in this way and share with others
the amazing ways our marriage has been saved.
I had the
opportunity to speak with you on the phone once... as an American
serviceman whose marriage was destroyed by long deployments and the
stress of the Global War on Terror. I was a soldier serving in Iraq
when my wife gave up on me and betrayed our family with an affair
during my deployment. I have learned, demonstrated and applied the
principles from Marriage Fitness... and we have slowly recovered the
remnants of a lost family. My wife and two sons thank you for this
wonderful program.
I too... like
many others... owe you and your wife a debt of gratitude.
God Bless!
MAJ Sven O.
ADC Section Chief, RAOC
AZ Army National Guard
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"From the first week, things changed"
Dear Mr. Fertel,
Prior to
starting your program, our 11 year marriage was in ruins. We were
divorcing, fighting over the kids and who got to keep the furniture and
pets. We had gone through my discovering my husbands 10 year affair, my
own emotional affair, not to mention the years of financial distress,
the stress of two jobs and three kids, plus verbal and emotional abuse
after all this we thought that it was over.
I accidentally came across your site one day while looking for
something pertaining to my upcoming divorce and thought what would it
hurt to give it a try. My husband went along with it, and from the
first week, things changed. After going through your program we are
closer than we have ever been and we are finally a team. Thank you very
much for your great program, it saved us and our family.
T.F.
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"Marriage fitness is a
working miracle for us"
Hi Mort:
I am happy to give you a testimonial to Marriage
Fitness as it has been so wonderful for us.
We have only been married for 5 years and have dealt with lots of
issues mostly about our blended families. We even been
seperated once for 5 months. We had been fighting quite a bit and were
at the point of breaking up again when we both decided we would put our
energy and resources in to saving our marriage instead of breaking it
apart.
Marriage fitness is a working miracle for us… This has
been the best thing we could have done. We are discovering a true
connection and growing love, respect and trust.....Thanks Mort, you
have been a blessing to us and our marriage!
Wes & Irma

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"My
relationship is slowly transforming into something new and infinitely more positive"
I never imagined myself resorting to an internet
self help program. But I tried everything else with my failing marriage
and Mort's program seemed promising. I realized that I had some
HORRIBLE habits that were killing my relationship and I was
totally pushing my husband away. Things now are on the mend
and on the upswing and my relationship is slowly transforming into
something new and infinitely more positive.
VBL
New York City
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(Rick: I just want to say thank you for your
emails. I thought my marriage could not be fixed and with your help, it
was. I commend you, on what you do for people. Keep doing what you do.
Thanks)
(Jennifer: Yes!
Thank you, Mort, but I thank my husband more!!!! Pay attention people!
Listen to Mort. Listen to your spouse, or significant other.)
"After
the first CD we started to understand where we went wrong and
thankfully we had someone helping us find our way back to falling in
love with each other again. "
In all the years that we have been together I can
honestly say…in the end it really just became a life of
roommates.
We just couldn't understand where things went
wrong…we were still about to break off our relationship
because we stop talking to each other, we stop doing things together,
we were only wrapped up in ourselves and became very unhappy with it,
even started looking outside for the affection and self fulfillments
that were no longer.
I found Marriage
Fitness Tele-Boot Camp on line and I really liked what I
was reading, I can tell you that even after the first CD we started to
understand where we went wrong and thankfully we had someone helping us
find our way back to falling in love with each other again.
No, it's not that easy and yes it is. No, because
one of us didn't really want to and didn't think it would make a
difference, but we started and continued working with the program after
four weeks we started talking all the time, we started doing things
again together and yes we are falling back in love again, but every day
we are reminded that we could fall back into roommates again if we
don't continue with the program long after were done with the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp .
Thank you Mort for waking us up and being there
when we were searching for that help.

Peter & Ruby
– Long Beach, CA.
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"It is certain that his program works"
When we started
the program, we only did it to prove to ourselves that we had done
everything we could to save the marriage. Justin had already decided to
end the marriage. I was desperate to do whatever i could…we
then, at that point, started searching for help and each time, we left
feeling worse. There was no intimacy at all.
Mort's program
stopped the battles and taught us a new way to look at things. It was
the first time we felt like there was really some hope. We were so
tired and confused; we barely had enough mental strength to go on.
Mort's program gave us tha t s trength.
We both gained
new insight to who we were individually. We learned to be patient, and
open to the fact that we were changing. Mor t s howed us how to respect
and learn each other's need for individuality and how to give each
other the space we needed to grow.
Our children
have learned that marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is
precious. They are so proud of us. As yet, our marriage is not perfect,
but it is stable and for the first time in yrs the lines of
communication are open so we can solve situations rationally.
Mort gives you
the tools you need to rebuild your relationship. Thanks so much mort.
Justin and Jan C.
Elgin , SC
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"Such common sense that
doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the past"
Hi Mort,
I recently
ordered and received your program. My husband and I are
amazed at your story and have so enjoyed listening to the CDs on long
road trips. Your insight and approach are refreshing--such common sense
that doesn't dwell on either communication skills or hashing out the
past. We LOVE the LOVE approach and have already seen a huge
change in our relationship after implementing some of your
ideas!
Thank you,
Mort. We will definitely recommend your course to friends and
family who are struggling with their marriages. It is the
best we have found.
Best regards,
Sandra L. H.
Mammoth Lakes ,
CA 93546
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"To couples everywhere: believe in the advice that
Mort has to offer"
From: Rusty
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Mort Fertel
Subject: Success story. . .
Dear Mort,
I wanted to write to you and share with you the successful
reconciliation of my marriage and the ongoing repair work that we are
undergoing to rebuild and strengthen it.
I signed up for your program to repair my marriage. After 2 months of
applying what I learned in your program, much prayer, and much effort,
my wife came back to me. We discussed our issue, had real
communication, and continue to do so today. Our marriage has never been
better. I am so happy and grateful that I received your advice, and
that it has really worked.
To couples everywhere, believe in the advice that Mort has to offer,
because if you apply it, you too, can transform your marriage. My wife
did not want to do it, or even try, but the changes I made in myself
and the application of the advice Mort sent can make miracles happen.
Prayer and giving the situation over to God is also a big key. Trust in
Him, and use Mort's principles, and no marriage will really be over.
- Rusty
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"My
wife and I are ecstatic over the quantum
change made to our
relationship"
Mort,
Having recently
completed the Boot Camp, and due primarily to me being out-of-town for
more than half of the 7-weeks, even with me/us botching the schedule
and the workbook assignments, my wife and I are ecstatic over the
quantum change made to our relationship, our newfound ability to
communicate, and mutual desire to strengthen our marriage.
To
have our teenage kids advise us that we're "cree ping
them out" lately, due to the amount of attention we have been giving
each other (not to mention the thought of mom and dad "going on a
date"), we must be doing something right.
Celebrating our
20th wedding anniversary yesterday really took on a special meaning,
considering that a couple months ago (and for several years leading up
to it), I was miserable in wanting to get back the feelings we once
had, but not knowing how to do it . . . I cant believe it was as simple
as it really was.
Heartfelt
thanks.
Tom &
Lil
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"It's
one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite another
when someone has walked in your shoes."
What meant the
most to us was that Mort has been through a difficult situation in his
own marriage and practices the techniques he teaches. They
worked…and it shows in the way he talks about his own
marriage.
It's one thing to have someone give wisdom arbitrarily but quite
another when someone has walked in your shoes.
While each marital situation is different, re-connecting after a
disconnect has universal principles and Mort teaches them well. I
highly recommend his program for any marriage in need of an awakening.
ST in Altanta
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"In less than a week my husband was
looking thru the material and willing to listen to the CD's"
Dear Mort,
I would like to
first commend you on your patients, understanding, and
clarity. I was looking for the ultimate answer to my marriage
problems. When I found you, I immediately signed up for the program. I
started out on the lone ranger track but after I listened to the 1st CD
and read the book (all in one evening) I began putting actions into
motion. In less than a week my husband was looking thru the material
and willing to listen to the CD's. He is kind of hard to impress but
you did it.
Your program is
a no brainer if you just think about it…the CD's
explain in full color what we have been doing to each other.
I can not Thank You enough for opening our eyes. We can work together
again without arguing, we talk a lot more and sometimes the tv doesn't
even get turned on. I thank God every day that I found you.
It was all the right timing. You will be in our lives forever. Thanks
again.
Sincerely,
Pam W.
P.S. My husband
even did the whole laundry one week by himself. He even folded the
clothes. BIG STEP.
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"It
now seems so simple"
Sent: Thursday, March 22,
2007 10:05 AM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: God and Your program are awesome
I followed your program as the lone ranger. I listened and used your
suggestions. It now seems so simple. In the beginning I was very leery.
I just wanted you to know that everything has turned 180 degrees from I
love you but I'm not in love with you” and my wife wanting a
separation to see below:
- Last night my wife bought me flowers and
double stuffed oreos (My Favorite)
- She sat down and told me she loved me very much and was sorry she had
not contributed her share to the relationship
- She told me I was a wonderful man
- She told me she could not imagine me not being in her life married to
her
Is God not awesome!!!!!
Thank you for everything.
If you ever need a testimony let me know!
T.E.
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"
By listening and applying the marriage
fitness program, we were able to start working on re-connecting … "
Dear Mr. Fertel,
Words cannot express my gratitude I have for your
help and the Marriage Fitness program. Less then 6 months ago my wife
was ready to ask for a separation and we probably were headed for
divorce after 30 years of marriage. I heard the: "I need my
space" and "I love you but I am not in love with you".I am not saying
we are completely out of the woods yet, but we are now on the right
trail to repair and in time create a more loving marriage then we ever
had before.
Prior to getting the free emails and then the
course I was doing all of the wrong things, the begging, pleading,
trying to be right and justifying my actions and condemning
hers. Our "problems" were both our faults and
though neither one of us wanted to first admit it
we came to that realization in phase 2 of the workbook. … By
listening and applying the marriage fitness program, we were able to
start working on re-connecting …
This is not a quick fix or easy program. It
requires time and effort and makes you look at yourself as much as what
you think your problems are. I found the reflection I seen in the
mirror was not a happy one so how could my wife. By reading, listening
and doing the exercises in the workbook I was able to change that
reflection and it has become evident to my wife and we have been
working more on rebuilding our marriage then tearing it apart. That
reflection is starting to look happy and enjoyment has returned to
the time we spend together rather then tolerance.
Thank you Mr. Fertel, you have no idea the
desperation I was in when I found your program, it truly has made a
difference in both my life and our marriage.
Warm Regards
Don E
Virginia
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"If
you are looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in
making your marriage all that you knew it could be - look no
further."
The Marriage
Fitness program by Mort Fertel has been a
truly transformative experience. If you are
looking for a great teacher, mentor, and coach in making your
marriage all that you knew it could be - look no
further. It is not an easy journey but with Mort's help he
can help you restore love in your marriage, even if you're on the brink
of divorce (as we were). This program has even
inspired our creativity together in a poem we dedicate to Mort
and to our journey to marital success:
Together
There once was a
couple named Robyn and Jeff
Their
souls knew each other before they ever met.
They walked down the
road of life's path
On their way from a
distant and troubled past...
They started along
their journey together and
Somehow lost their way
- But with Mort, love and
Pat ience they began a
whole new day...
In
making their dreams they always knew
Together - would come
true...
And so now the journey
of healing begins
Back to the path of
love where their souls
Have always
been...Together!"
Thank you
Mort!! Sincerely, Jeffrey & Robyn Sadowski
- Members of The
Marriage Fitness Program.
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"How do you thank someone for
changing your whole world? I want to jump through this computer screen
and give you a big hug"
Mort,
I'm at a loss
for words. How do you thank someone for changing your whole world? I
want to jump through this computer screen and give you a big hug (not
that you'd let me, LOL).
Mort, you didn't
just help our marriage but you changed our whole family. We've been
married for 15 years, have four children and were on the brink of
divorce. The emotional pain I had inside was so bad it was almost a
physical pain. The worst part is that you can't go through pain like
that without it having an effect on your children. We tried to shield
them as much as possible, but they knew something was wrong. To think
of what we were putting them through emotionally, breaks my heart.
We too, tried
everything from traditional marriage counseling to Venus and Mars and
everything in between. Nothing worked. There wasn't a doubt in my mind
that our problems were just too big to overcome.
Then we found
you. Mort, you honestly were our last ditch effort. I personally
thought it was too much money to spend but you offered a money back
guarantee and I had full intentions on collecting it. My husband and I
decided to give your program a try but in the back of my mind I knew it
wouldn't work and I continued to make plans for a new life without my
husband. Then something happened. Not overnight, but it happened. I'm
not even 100% sure of what it was, but it was working. I am blown away
with how far we have come in just 10 weeks. Everything is different. My
husband and I are more in love now than we were on our wedding day. 10
weeks ago I couldn' t s tand being in the same room with him and today
I know with all my heart that we will be together forever. Divorce will
never be an option for us. Were gonna make it.
I've heard it said that people don't change. What a
bold faced lie. My husband was the most stubborn person I knew. He
hated counseling, "working on our problems" and every single program we
ever tried. But Mort, he loved your program. For once he wasn't being
blamed or made to feel defensive. You were able to create an
environment that was safe, non-threatening and fun. You totally
impressed him (and that's no small feat). For the first time in 15
years, he was asking me to do our "homework". Why? Because it was
working. He did a complete 180. We both did.
Knowing what I
know now, I would have paid a million dollars for this program and I
can't believe you charge so little for what you offer. You literally
have every base covered and I know you put your heart and soul into it.
This is not just a profession for you. It's not about making a buck.
You have a God given gift and you're changing lives.
A few months ago
I asked God for help. I didn't know what to do; there was nothing left
to try so I left it in his hands. He gave me you. So, thank you God,
and thank you Mort.
Michelle
Vancouver , BC
P.S. Remember
that hug I mentioned earlier? When you go home tonight, please give it
to your wife. Tell her that Michelle from Canada sends her heartfelt
thanks for helping you to become the man that you are. She should know
that she played a huge role in saving a family she doesn't even know.
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"...If
you want to save your marriage, he's the
ONLY person who can help you do it."

"...and
of course when something works- like your program does- it becomes much
more valuable than the actual dollars spent"
Hi Mort.
It won't be easy to express how significant your program was to my
husband and me. He and I have always loved each other but came from
different back grounds and had different expectations from one another
which wasn't good. I knew we needed professional help since we weren't
getting anywhere and both continued to feel hurt by the other.
Traditional counseling was not appealing to us because of the expense,
the roll of the dice whether you get a counselor that is a good fit and
the most frustrating part- it just takes too long. One hour a week is
not enough when there is so much to resolve.
One of the best things right from the beginning was your incredible
credentials and the fact we didn't have to be in the same city to work
with someone like yourself who has such a nationally ranked proven
track record. That made sure it wasn't going to be a roll of the dice-
needle in the haystack- open the phone book - which is what it would
have normally been to try to locate a professional. Your program is so
versatile it allows anyone in the entire country to take advantage of
it in the privacy of their own home. The combination of the book, audio
tapes, live seminars, group sessions, one on ones creates an ideal
dynamic for learning. Regular counseling is over $100 an hour- your
program provided so much more for under $500. And of course when
something works- like your program does- it becomes much more valuable
than the actual dollars spent.
What can I say are some of the most significant aspects of what your
program did to help us?... It provided a standard of how a husband and
wife should treat each other so no matter what someone’s
background is they're both on the same playing field. The program also
sets the expectations very high which is the epitome of real love- to
treat each other so well- to me it is like heaven on earth. What a
beautiful thing. Your focus to emphasize positive healthy relationship
habits- and to try to forgive past hurts- to start over- creates a new
beginning. Every couple that's going to get married should participate
in a program like yours that emphasizes such important habits to be
generous to their mates and to try to always be a great model for
healthy loving behavior. Plus Mort- I don't know how you do it- handle
so much hurt every day by those of us that are struggling- and you
exude such caring concern to all of us. I am so thankful for you. Your
help was a critical turning point in our marriage. You and the program
are an incredible blessing that in my mind are divinely inspired. I
will never forget your kindness and caring and the beautiful message of
love that is the basis of your program- for us to be good to each
other. My husband and I are connecting again on a level I have only
dreamed of having in my life. It would not have happened with out you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Please share my feedback with others so they might get a glimpse of
hope of what you can do for them as well if they are struggling.
Valerie Kemmer
I also asked my husband to provide input on what the program meant to
him. Here are his words:
"He's made me realize little things are important- don't take things
for granted- and it doesn't matter if your together one day or for 30
years- you should appreciate the one you love " Jeff Kemmer
All the best to you and your family Mort- now and always. I hope you
can continue the powerful work you do to help everyone who is
struggling- learn to me good to each other again. You are very dear to
us. VK
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"You have turned me and my life
around."
Dear Mort,
I just wanted to say a simple "Thank you". I have done your program as
a Lone Ranger, even though my husband knew. You have turned me and my
life around. It is so hard to get practical, honest support and advice.
My husband has made a total 360 turn about... Thank you. !!!
Julia Z.
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"I
went from being totally unhappy to being in love with my husband again"
We have been married 42 years, but after my husband
retired and we spent more time together, our home
became a battleground. My husband seemed to be more
satisfied with the traditional marriage counseling than I was, so
I started the loan ranger program, Following Mort Fertel's
suggested steps, I went from being totally unhappy to being in love
with my husband again, and although he expressed no interest in the
program, he responded so positively that the difference in our
relationship is almost unbelievable. Now I believe that by
following through with Mort's program our "golden
years" can truly be golden and not spoiled by
arguments, resentments and anger..
Gillian S .
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"The value of what you provide is not
comparable to any other program out there."
September 29, 2006
To: Mort Fertel
From: Anthony Schiro
Subject: Testimonial
Dear Mr. Fertel,
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was absolutely phenomenal.
First, understand that I am not the type of person to write in and give
testimony. It is with great pleasure that I do now. The value of what
you provide is not comparable to any other program out there. I now
look at what I thought were “marriage problems” and
realize that they are blessings. You have taught me the values and
principals I need to be the best husband my wife could ever want. My
life is different. I’m confident my marriage will continue to
progress into one of deep love not only for the both of us but in the
eyes of God as well.
Thank you for everything!
Anthony Schiro
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"We went from apartment
hunting and selling our house to living a healthy, happy,
fun life together all because of your program."
Hello Mr.
Fertel,
Your program has
helped the two of us so much we wanted to thank you. We went
from apartment hunting and selling our house to living a healthy,
happy, fun life together all because of your
program. Thank you Mort Fertel !!!
Marianne and Scott B.
Cherry Hill , NJ
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"We finally have some positive energy
back in our Marriage."
Thank God we found Mort Fertel . We felt that we
had no other options and the Divorce process was already started. He
gave us the proper guidance/structure to get us moving in the right
direction. We finally have some positive energy back in our Marriage.
B.O.
New Jersey
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"As I began to change, he did, too!"
Before I took the plunge into Mort Fertel 's
Marriage Fitness Program, my marriage was in the toilet.
During my pregnancy with a Down Syndrom child, my
husband sank into a deep depression, leaving me to hold the family
together. I resented him. Our marriage nose-dived, and I faced divorce
with four kids under the age of 10!
I came across Mort Fertel 's website, and decided
to try the Lone Ranger Program. I didn't hold out to much hope, as I
thought at the time that there was nothing that would make me feel love
toward my husband again. I was the one leaning towards divorce, but I
did this program as a last resort just so that I could say that I
"tried".”
Once I started the program, my anger began to
soften. I saw my husband as a person needing love and understanding,
rather than as a self-absorbed man. As I began to change, he did, too!
Thank you, Mort!!
A.P.
Illinois
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"Here
is hope for all you lone rangers out there..."

"Mort's method is a totally new way
to look at marital problems."
I would
recommend this program to anyone who want to enrich their marriage and
especially if they are having marital problems. Mort's method is a
totally new way to look at marital problems. Every method he suggested
was helpful. This program was hard but very useful. It is a whole new
way of looking at things.
I'm so glad I got into the Marriage Fitness program.
Barbara Harrison
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"Your
program nailed down exactly what
was going wrong in our marriage"
Mr. Fertel,
I wanted to thank you for how your program has helped thus far.
Your program nailed down exactly what was going wrong in our marriage.
After having several children, moving, changing jobs, dealing with
problems, etc., we were very tired.
I finally came to a realization that both of us had withdrawn from the
marriage. When I voiced this to my wife, hoping to bring about a
change, that's when the fighting began. Nothing physical, but the
pathway was started down a tough emotional rollercoaster.
We went to traditional counseling, each of us tried to show how the
other was wrong and score "points". The counselor was also ineffective,
not providing any real advice.
I was referred to your program by a friend when I told him I was at
then end. I had decided that my marriage was over and we were going to
separate.
The turnaround came when I scheduled a vacation - the first since our
honeymoon six years ago. The week before we left, there was the same
fighting and problems that we had. We were still "stuck in the mud" as
I call it. I even told my wife, then night before we left that if she
wanted to go with me, she was going to do what I said (everything) or I
would go alone. I claimed I was "King" of the house and if she wouldn't
allow me to treat her like my Queen, she could simple leave the
Kingdom. As we look back now, it is comical, but we know the feelings
were real.
We left on vacation armed with your program. The amazing thing, other
than getting a little sick of each other at the end, was that we had a
great time and have come home with a renewed marriage, love affair,
romance, intimacy, etc. I am certain we will have problems in the
future, but it feels different than the times we simply apologized and
agreed to be on better behavior. It is now effortless.
I am convinced that if we didn't leave with your program, the vacation
would have been a failure and we likely would be fully separated at
this point.
I am certain that any given program does not work for everyone, but if
someone's marriage fails after taking your program, I would say that
not much more could be done.
I have recommended your program to other friends and I know that they
are learning what we have...
Thanks again and we hope to gain strength back in our relationship and
look to you to help us retain the best relationship we can have.
D. Scott Martin
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"I
want to say that it was worth every
penny and more."
Hi Mort,
I bought your program a few months ago. I want to say that it was worth
every penny and more.
My husband and I were done, I actually packed up my apartment and left.
We were separated for 2 months. I thought we should try counseling,
instead I found your Web site. I thought I would give it a try. It was
an eye-opening experience. The way I feel everyday now, could never
happened with out you. I love him more than anything and I learned so
much. He has also listened to your CD's and I see his love for me
growing.
Thank you
Malissa Olveda
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"Mort's
approaches are so non- offensive and lays no blame, only giving
resolutions and inspirations."
Mort
Fertel is a man blessed with a gift that he has fully tapped into and
has chosen to share with the world. He is compassionate,
versatile, humble, real and wise.
When I first purchased
the program I was desperate for help and I knew just anything would not
work. Mort's approaches are so non- offensive and lays no
blame, only giving resolutions and inspirations. I adore how
Mort approaches the answers with out history; that way you know the
answer is not tainted or miss guided in the results. And that
is exactly what you get RESULTS
. My husband is immature,
stubborn, insensitive, etc (human). My husband is also
spotenanse, keeps me young, strong willed, knows what he wants,
focused, etc (perfect man for me). And I truly believe
without Mort I would have lost the perfect husband for
me. We both came from single parent home and
obviously had no clue as to how a happy home was suppose to
function. With three girls there love life was
looking doomed. But now we all have hope for
tomorrow.
I was living in a TV Romance
Sitcom called I am Right He is Wrong with spinoffs called Friends Love
Drama, Family Trying to Help and What Am I Doing Wrong; What
the Matter With Me that caused me great heart aches and a promise of
never ending drama. Now I live in a world were I can
appreciate any and everything, trust my husband and my responses,
smile, laugh and be in love with out feeling paranoid, foolish or
obligated no re-enforcements needed from any untrained contaminated
sources. I can now freely give and appreciate everything I
receive. And believe me my husband is the type of man that
only listens to other men. No matter what they
said. If a man told him eating grass was manly he
would want it for dinner every night. So by the grace of God
I found a man that knows how to say small things that have huge
impacts, listen and hear at the same time, speech with compassion and
genuine concern (Mort). While also teach me how to
love long term and receive love in a ways that I know I am going to get
a lot more. This program pulled me back from legal
separations. I was going to court in the morning
and listening to Mort in the evening and then one morning I dismissed
everything (a breakthrough). Of course my marriage is not
perfect yet but that is the great thing because now we have so much to
look forward to and strive for. LOVE is really obtainable and
really can be kept for a life time. I would say to
anybody that wants to keep there marriage or are not sure if you want
to be married you owe yourself the opportunity to try this
program. If you know you are going to lose you spouse because
of your mistakes and/or theirs why not try it. Worst case
scenario you are able to walk from your marriage knowing you did all
you can do to be the best spouse you can be if you do everything Mort
asks you to do.
T.
Mitchell
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"...your
invaluable information has
found a place in my heart"
Mr. Fertel,
Thank you for the opportunity to express my deepest regard for you and
your program.
Almost three years ago my wife informed me that she wanted "out" of our
marriage, that "she loved me, but was not in love with me" and as a
matter of fact doubted she ever was. We had tried traditional
counseling to no end, as she simply went long enough to inform the
therapist of our incompatibility in order to justify her desire to
leave. I tried another popular rout that a friend had found on the
internet called "Stop Your Divorce", and at first it proved to be
invaluable - but had no integrity in the end.
Then one day during lunch with a new acquaintance from the Campus
Crusades for Christ International, during a discussion based solely on
business, he stopped me in my tracks and said "You're in Pain, who have
you recently lost?" Believing that my general demeanor must be based on
the physical loss of a family member or friend, as I am traditionally
an extreme optimist, I quickly disclosed minor details of my pending
divorce, and apologized to him for being distracted. Without further
personal inquiry he immediately told me that I needn't worry, and gave
me your contact information. I didn't ask any questions, I simply
trusted God had placed this Godly man into my life and his advice was
the right path to follow.
I initially did nothing but sign up for your web site, the cost of yet
one more dead end cure to an already doomed marriage just seemed
daunting. But day after day your inspirational mass messages seemed to
hit home just at the right times. Even though they were meant for all
whom where on your e-mail list, I had finally found a message that
amalgamated with my own faith driven desires to save my marriage, stop
the cycle of abandonment within my wife's family and to "Put Love
First" no matter the cost. Because my wife was outwardly "acting out",
my friends and family could not understand my devotion to her and
willingness to accept the blatant apathy towards me and our two young
girls - but I had to try to "save her from herself". What I didn't
know, was that I had to save myself first; if you attempt to save a
drowning person by confronting them head on, they will pull you both
down. Your "Fast is slow and slow is fast" concept seemed foreign to
me, as did the idea of letting go of the issues, especially the Mr.
Fixit in me. The key to this program for me is the idea of not engaging
in these behavioral changes in order to just save your marriage, but to
transform your love relationship with your spouse for ever. Every night
my oldest daughter and I say our prayers together, and at the end of
each night she says "Heavenly Father help me let go of the dime". She
gets this line from a story heard from my Minister; a little boy gets
his hand stuck in this precious family vase, the father sprays his
son's hand with WD 40 but the vase stays trapped. His mother rubs her
son's hand with olive oil, yet again the hand remains trapped. They
call the fire department for advice but once again nothing seems to
work. Finally the little boy says "daddy, should I let go of the Dime?"
I am only in Phase 5 of your program, taking care to absorb slowly all
that I can, and yet your invaluable information has found a place in my
heart. I find integrity with what I'm doing and how I am attempting to
connect with my wife, as opposed to manipulation, trickery or
conditional motives. For the first time I am working towards true
unconditional love and understanding with the one person for whom I
made a covenant with God to love forever.
It is my personal opinion that it behooves anyone, not just those
couples struggling with a myriad of issues in their marriage, to
experience this "Boot Camp" either alone (The Lone Rander) as I have or
as a couple. Thank you again for your guidance and inspiration, I hope
this note reaches others who feel that there is no hope in marital
redemption.
Sincerely Grant
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"I really wish I would have purchased
your course."
Mort,
I've read all your newsletters. My marriage has all but disappeared
into the hands of attorneys and courts and violence that has got me
into so much trouble I can't even talk about without crying. How did it
get this way. I must be stupid, she told me, I'm with another man. Get
it though your thick head. Where did the woman I married go...? I
really wish I would have purchased your course. I tried to be frugal
and spend all our money on the bills for our home and the bear
necessities. Look where it got me I've lost my wife and lost my home. I
hope that this letter will help others to find that extra effort to
purchase your course or try the seminars or try something. I didn't and
I've lost all.
I held dear.
Thanks for all the letters.
Giorgio
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"By reading Mr. Fertel's words, I
suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more importantly I did not feel alone"
My husband left
me 5 ½ months ago after being very unhappy in our marriage
for many years. He said I was a good person and friend but that he
didn't love me anymore. We have been married for 17 years and like all
marriages there were the ups and downs.
Needless to say,
this has been the most devastating experience of my life. We have two
beautiful children, 14 and 11, and it has been very difficult on them
as well. My husband has always a wonderful father and husband but over
the years, he started to work more and more and withdraw emotionally
from me. We did not take the time to reconnect and it is apparent to me
now we were just roommates. Actually more than roommates as he said
because sometimes roommates don't like each other and he still
considers me a friend.
I desperately
tried to search for answers and solutions to this horrible situation.
For the first three months I hardly talked to him; I was in so much
pain. He, on the other hand, still wanted to help out with the house
chores like shovelling snow, helping with the children and so on. It
was very painful for me to be near him so I rejected any help at all. I
knew I couldn't go for too much longer as it was affecting my whole
life, my work, and my children. Then it seemed I found an answer to my
prayers. I found on the Internet a man called Mort Fertel and his web
site which said I could sign up for a daily newsletter on Marriage
Fitness. I thought it couldn't hurt to sign up and started reading some
wonderful and inspiring messages. I had almost given up hope of
reconciliation because my husband did not want that.
By reading Mr.
Fertel's words, I suddenly felt that perhaps there was hope but more
importantly I did not feel alone. I became interested in trying his
boot camp as a Long Ranger. I felt it couldn't hurt and I also liked
the money back guarantee if he couldn't help me. I felt that I could
always get my money back. It didn't take long for me to realize that I
was receiving help immediately. I took advantage of the laser sessions
to talk personally with Mr. Fertel. My husband told me that I had
changed and was different. I have apologized for the hurt and deep pain
that he has gone through and it was a very moving experience for both
of us.
I listen to
tapes everyday to and from work and every time I drive anywhere.
…we are talking and taking part in family activities
together. We went to play pool for the first time ever this past Friday
night and it was fun. Whenever I get impatient and want things to move
faster, I remember Mr. Fertel's words. I am speaking to my husband from
a place deep in my heart for perhaps the very first time in our married
life. My husband hugs me when he leaves from our visits and his heart
is slowly opening up to me again.
All of this
would not have been possible, had I not found Mr. Fertel's program.
Everything makes so much sense that I cannot get enough of this help.
Thank you, Mort.
I thank God I found you.
Sincerely,
Nelda
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"I
followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me
that she
had seen a change in me"
Dear Mort,
I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program.
Although we are not out of the woods, we are not where we were. I
followed your lone ranger program and half way through my wife told me
that she had seen a change in me and now her idea is to do the program
herself, lone ranger of coarse, which is ok. I am pretty sure after
that she will want to do the program with me.
Again, I would like to express my sincere thanks. It was a lot of
prayer and your program that gives me hope that our marriage will be
restored.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Michael M
Idaho
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"...he
moved back in, started telling me he loves me, calls all the time,
insists on date night --- I see a beautiful future again!"
Please pass on to Mort that I am simply astounded
to say that after working the program…my husband caved and
said he's seen how amazing I still am and it's always been me that he
wanted. Just like that, he moved back in, started telling me he loves
me, calls all the time, insists on date night --- I see a beautiful
future again!
Thank you! I'm so glad I never went to traditional
therapy!
Best,
Liz
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"We are getting there, thanks to Mort
Fertel and Marriage Fitness"
My husband and
I; everything we did got on each other's nerves. Just the sight of him
made me mad. We decided to get a divorce and we were waiting for the
right time to tell the children.
As a degreed behavioral counselor, I knew that I didn't want the
typical counseling, dredging through the past -- because I know that it
will always be there, but the fact of the matter is you can't change it
and it really doesn't help to muddle through it over and over and try
to change your feelings about it.
I can't tell you how much it meant to us to have a guideline through it
all, we started changing our behavior. My husband's changes started
immediately. My changes have been and still are developing much slower.
We are getting there, thanks to Mort Fertel and Marriage Fitness.
Shannon and Greg
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"I am beginning to see the positive
response from the love of my life."
Hi Mort,
Although I haven't taken any opportunity to personally contact you, use
any of my one-on-ones or dial in live to the tele-seminars, you are
truly a HUGE part of my every day life! I listen to you every morning
and every afternoon on my 45 minutes commute! I have signed up for the
after program, and will continue to stay plugged in. I am beginning to
see the positive response from the love of my life. I am in this for
the long haul and I am doing what I am doing for a life change - not a
quick fix to my marriage. I understand everything you say, ask of me
and believe in your concept. I do worry sometimes about being a doormat
but I am slowly getting some great responses back from my love and I
feel this door mat feeling will pass. I am committed for a year, as I
change my ways and look to see the positive and at the end of the day,
I will know I did the right thing - and at the end of the day - that is
all I have right?
I have never spoken to you, or interacted with you, but I feel very
close to you and your world! Thank you for the gifts you have given me
with your ideas and ways. I am going to make it! And I am confident
that my marriage will too. God willing :-)
Warmly,
Tricia Armstrong
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"You
can participate at your own pace in the
privacy of your own home."
Hi Mort,
I have found
your program to be most helpful for the following reasons:
1. You can
participate at your own pace in the privacy of your own home.
2. Your personal
and professional experience is radiant and gets results.
3. You're very
well versed with intercultural barriers and traditions because you
believe that ultimately "LOVE" is spoken in only one language!
4. You provide
tools that work and that can be used immediately.
5. Your program
is unique in that it is SAFE, provocative, inspiring, and inspires and
best of all it gives you tools to GROW.
I have been to
traditional therapy before and never have I seen so much offered!
Thank you.
Sheela K.
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"I
purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to
put back together
my shattered life."
As Mort Fertel
would say "listen carefully.”
I was at a total loss in my
marriage…spinning without a compass. My wife said she wanted
out but I wanted to save the marriage. I could hardly function on a
daily basis because of the stress. It seemed like my whole world was
crumbling at the foundation and I was watching it fall apart. I
purchased Mort's program as a Lone Ranger and got the tools I needed to
put back together my shattered life. His writings and talks helped me
tremendously and opened my eyes to the kind of attitude I knew I needed
to succeed in my situation.
Daniel
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"I am soooooooooooo glad I did"
Dear Mort,
I am so glad I
signed up for the tele-boot camp. I didn't have the money and
I was very unsure about signing up. But I am soooooooooooo
glad I did. It was a great decision. It was worth
every penny. My marriage has come alive again.
Thanks to you
Mort.
Sincerely,
TL
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MY
HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING THINGS
TOGETHER!!!
Dear Mort,
MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES
IN GETTING THINGS TOGETHER!!! HE IS COMING OUT OF HIS DEPRESTION AND
HAS OPENED COMUNICATION BACK UP 100%! HE IS CALLING ME 2-3 TIMES A DAY
(OR ALLOWING ME TO CALL HIM WHEN I FEEL THE NEED) TO
CHAT-SOMETIMES DEEP TALKS OTHER TIMES JUST CHATTING ABOUT SIMPLE
THINGS! HE HAS COME TO THE POINT WHERE HE CAME HOME AND TALKED
TO ME-I SAT AND LISTENED--AND HE POURED OUT HIS HEART TO ME. IT WAS
LIKE NO OTHER TIME IN OUR 13 YRS--MAYBE I REALLY NEEDED TO LISTEN
BETTER!! I KNOW NOW TO STOP TALKING AND LET HIM TALK WHEN HE WANTS!
THERE ARE AREAS OF COURSE WE WILL STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH-THAT WILL
COME! HE HAS ASKED ME FOR OUR 13TH ANIVERSARY TO COME OUT ON THE TRUCK
WITH HIM FOR A WHILE-HE FEELS STRONGLY THIS WILL GIVE US THE TIME
TOGETHER TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDSHIP AND CLOSENESS WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD
BEFORE HE LEFT 6 MONTHS AGO. I KNOW GOD HAS HELPED US--BUT I WANT TO
THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAAGEMENT AND IDEAS FOR GROWTH
BOTH IN SELF AND A COUPLE! YOU HAVE MENT ALOT TO ME IN MY TIME OF
NEED--I KNOW I WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE I MEET IN NEED TO GO TO YOU FOR
HELP.
SINCERELY,
KARIN SHELDON
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"It saved my marriage."
I would
recommend the Tele Boot Camp to anyone. It saved my
marriage. We still have a lot of work ahead of us; however,
at least now I know what is ahead of us, instead of wondering if it
would be divorce.
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"In
a matter of weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us
how to build love on our own."
Hi Mort
My wife and I
have been married 3 years and it was hard from the start. We've both
been divorced before so this was not our first time trying to make a
marriage work. This time was not going well either. My wife had 2
affairs, she left 4 times, and marital counseling was a disaster. We
were on the brink of divorce again. Then I surfed the net and found
you.
I ordered
Marriage Fitness, hired you for some 1-on-1 coaching, and then
registered for the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp!. In a matter of
weeks, you saved our marriage, and, more importantly, taught us how to
build love on our own.
If anyone is
reading this who needs marriage help, get it from Mort. You won't be
sorry.
Thank you again
Mort for saving our marriage and teaching us how to create love in our
relationship.
Martin
Rosedale , Indiana
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"Mort
taught me how to single-handedly
save my marriage"
Mort,
I would be more than happy to share my testimonial! Hope it helps, I
would like my privacy protected so I will sign my testimonial with
initials.
I discovered my husband was having an affair after 18 years of
marriage. I confronted him about it and he denied it. Even after I gave
him proof of the affair he still denied it. The more I spied on him,
the more I confronted him, the more I confronted him,the more defensive
he would get! I had no clue what to do. Why wouldn't he own up to the
affair and end it???
I asked him to end the affair and he said he did, I later found out
that he was lying, he had not ended the affair. I asked him to leave
our home but he refused. I told him that if he did not end the affair I
would file for divorce. The affair continued! I did not know what to
do!!! I prayed alot.
I finally got a lawyer and had the initial paperwork completed. I was
devastated because I loved my husband and even with this affair going
on he said he loved me and did not want a divorce. A divorce was the
last thing I wanted.
I searched the internet for help. I prayed for guidance, I came across
"Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel" I signed up for his emails first. I
wanted to make sure his ideas aligned with my beliefs..and they did.
Mort taught me how to re become a woman of moral character. He was
encouraging, hard at times and motivating. I thought prior to the
affair my marriage was save and in a good place but after going through
the homework assignments I found many opportunities to first, fix
myself and second, to restore my marriage. My husband and I have good
days and bad days but things are much better because of the boot camp.
I was in the Lone Ranger Track and at first I did not understand why I
had to change if I was not the one having the affair! Mort taught me
how to single-handedly save my marriage. I never thought I could do it,
but I did.
Thanks Mort,
TS
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"I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp
and found your approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!!"
Thank you Mort.
I really enjoyed your tele-boot camp and found your
approach to be very realistic and dead-on!!! The points you make during
your seminars are great - I liked your mix of the philosophical,
religious, and practical life. It was a refreshing departure from much
of the reading materials and the approaches of other therapists.
I thank you very
much for tha t s upport and encouragement.
Vince
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"I
owe it all to Mort!"
From: DMK
Sent: Friday, August 31, 2007 2:35 PM
To: MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Subject: My experience with Marriage Fitness
Mort--I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Your program is
outstanding and truly a god sent for me. I owe it all to Mort! Thank
you for being there for me. You are the best. Keep up the great work
that you are doing everyday.
DMK
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"I couldn't afford NOT to
take Mort's Bootcamp"
As a graduate student, I didn't think I
could afford the Marriage Fitness bootcamp. I went to the
library and literally checked out and read about a quarter of the way
through about twenty books on marriage. After contemplation,
I realized that I couldn't afford NOT to take Mort's
Bootcamp...my marriage and my sanity were too important to me!
I signed up thinking that I might take advantage of the money-back
guarantee, but with the sanity I gained in my own soul
(I am on the Lone Ranger track), I wouldn't take a penny
back. Mort's multi-dimensional program to
this day continues to strengthen my sanity when life throws me not only
loops but roller coasters. I have recommended Mort's program
to many people going through everything from pre-nuptial to
post-divorce situations. If you don't gain anything else from
his program, I believe you will absolutely at least gain back your
sanity and self-confidence. The most important thing I have learned is
that although you may have NO control over the other person, you have,
with God's help, COMPLETE control over your reactions to
situations. Thank you, Mort!
Jessica.A.
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" It was
well worth the money and the time and effort. We've never had a
relationship this good, even in the beginning. "
Mort,
John and I are more
than happy to give our testimony and I would recommend your program to
anyone having relationship difficulties. I'm including a picture too.
Taken today.
We've been married 30
years and have 4 children. All of them are on their own now, but our
marriage has been going downhill for at least that last 25 years. Your
program has made us feel like newlyweds again! Neither of us have been
this happy. And with the knowledge that we have gained through the
years, applying your techniques and following your program, we are
probably more happy than we were even when we first got married. We
make love several times a day (not sure if that is TMI), and it's good,
and we enjoy doing things together that we never did before. It's even
difficult to be around others because we don't want to miss a second
apart.
We've been going
fairly slow in the workbook, but we are getting things done! Counseling
would have cost us so much more money and a divorce (which was
imminent the day we ordered your program). It was well worth
the money and the time and effort. We've never had a relationship this
good, even in the beginning.
All I can do is say
thank you and your wife for the insight and ideas you have given us.
Blessed Be,
Linda A.
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"We
have reconnected in many ways and do not take each other for
granted anymore"
Hi Mort,
My Husband and I highly recommend the Marriage
Fitness Program to couples having problems in their marriage whether
being because of emotional or physical infidelity. My husband was
emotionally unfaithful, and when I first found out about it I was
devastated. I was very confused and thought this was the end of our
marriage after being married for almost twenty five years. I found out
about your program and decided that if we were going to try to save our
marriage we needed to try out your marriage fitness
program. It helped us see what was the real problem in our
marriage, and how to handle our problems. We have reconnected in many
ways and do not take each other for granted anymore. We both
thank God for your help and insight and we wish
you the best in helping others with their
marital problems.
Regards,
MB
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"Thanks for saving my family"
Mort, just wanted you to know things are
great with Justin and me. Our relationship has improved so much. We are
spending time together and enjoying each other's company. Learning that
it is more important to pay attention to ourselves has made all the
difference in the relationship. I sure have changed a lot of things I
say and how I react to certain things. This whole 2 yrs has shown
Justin and me a lot. He thanks you also. There was really no other way
that he could have shown us both that he needed to grow. He didn't know
how and just kept it all in until he exploded. He is such a wonderful
person. I wish we could have known these things ahead of time. I have
referred so many people to you. We continue to have fun and laugh at
things now instead of letting everything consume us. Thanks for saving
my family. Jan and Justin
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"I am sure everyone that looks at
your website will understand how the mind races and the heart aches
when one of the most important things in your life is in peril."
Dear Mort,
I can't tell you how important this experience has been in my
life. The most helpful part for me was the calm, focused,
consistent way in which you addressed every issue at the exact time I
needed it. I am sure everyone that looks at your website will
understand how the mind races and the heart aches when one of the most
important things in your life is in peril. I have been on the
Lone Ranger Track since October and I am not done with the program
yet. I have restarted a couple of times because I needed to
hear the lessons again and again. One restart was recommended
by you on our Laser session. Again, at the exact time that I
needed it.
To the people in need who are reading this....Just get one of the
programs. If you didn't know in your heart that you needed it
you wouldn't be here right now.
Thank you so much Mort. I am forever
grateful.
Amy S.
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"Your program makes so much sense and is presented
in such an organized and complete way."
Dear Mort,
I have
spent just about every free moment that I had over the past 2 1/2
months listening, reading and thinking about your program. I am in the
Lone Ranger track and it has been a hard period for me. However, your
program has been a comfort to me. It has helped me to see mistakes that
I made in my marriage. It has also encouraged me and made me feel
validated because there were things that I intuitively recognized, but
was not sure if I was on the right path. After reading and hearing the
materials my spirit would be encouraged and lifted. I have been able to
remain calm and do what is right. Your program makes so much sense and
is presented in such an organized and complete way. It has just been a
real help to me. Thank you.
Sincerely,
Vicky
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" It was a whole different approach to solving our
marital problem"
After going to a marriage counselor and feeling we
were not getting much accomplished, we decided to try your Marriage
Fitness Program. After participating in the 7-week Tele-Boot Camp,
listening to the CDs, doing the recommended exercises etc, we have found it
all to be extremely helpful and effective. It was a whole different
approach to solving our marital problems and we feel we have made
tremendous strides as a result of participating in your wonderful
program. Thanks for your online marriage help in improving our marriage and for also
giving us the valuable tools that were so desperately needed to make it
all happen.
Nancy & Brian M
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"I began
to actually re-discover what
we "used" to have."
My wife and I
were high schools sweethearts and have been married for almost
twenty-one years. After two kids, separate jobs and the
ever-increasing pace of life, we found ourselves totally frustrated
with each other and on the verge of divorce thinking about when to divorce. No infidelity or
anything; our relationship just seemed "stale" and more work
than what it was worth.”
I spent over
$250 on various marriage "help" books and we even attended professional
marriage "counseling" to help resolve our conflicts and
problems. It wasn't working …we had become masters
at blaming each other and resolving conflict by ignoring each
other.
I then came
across Mort Fertel 's Marriage Fitness program. I purchased
the program and decided to take the CD's with me to listen to while
driving on a business trip. When I left for my trip, my wife
and I gave each other the robotic, "Drive careful" and "see you soon"
rhetoric, but we both could still feel the immense strain between
us. In actuality, I believe we BOTH were glad I was leaving
for the weekend.
Anyways, after
the listening to the first CD, I found myself contemplating my role in
our marriage. I began to actually
re-discover what we "used" to have. Instead of feeling like I
was in competition with my wife, I actually started remembering all the
things that used to make her feel special...that I was no
longer doing. I called her immediately on the cell phone and
told her my revelation. I told her I couldn't wait to get
back to see her and was already missing her. She began to cry
and told me how much she loved me and tha t s he was looking forward to
my return. That reaction alone had been a long time coming.
Upon my return,
we listened to the CD's together. Within a week, our marriage
improved immensely. Mort's perspective on concentrating on
the marriage and each other; rather than the "problems"; was the most
profound, yet common sense, solution…many of our
"unsurmountable" problems simply dissolved. It was our
perspectives and lack of focus on each other that were
actually "causing" the problems in our marriage.
Unfortunately,
these bad habits had been learned over the last 10-15 years.
We also found if we were not diligent about practicing or focusing on
the Marriage Fitness program, our bad habits would resurface (avoiding,
ignoring, etc.) and our marriage would begin to slide.
"Plugging-in" each week with Mort gave us that "commitment" we were
lacking. After several weeks, we are not perfect, but
"DIVORCE" is not even in our vocabulary. I look forward to
coming home. My wife looks forward to my coming
home. We enjoy being with each other again.
How much do I
believe in Mort Fertel 's approach?
For Chris tmas,
I purchased 10-15 of Mort's materials for my family and
friends. I have already heard from a handful who wanted to
express their gratitude for my thinking of them. A co-worker,
who has been through three marriages, told me he wished he'd had seen
Mort's materials before his last divorce. It is such
a POSITIVE, common sense approach
to rebuilding or sustaining ANY marriage.
Rob &
Lisa Thomas
Springfield, OR
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"your
program very seriously was the only thing that
supported me in my efforts to save my marriage"
Hello, Mort!
Just talked with Adina to pass along the fantastic
news...my husband this past Friday asked if he could move back to our
home and is committed to reconciling our relationship and
marriage! He even has agreed, although we're both still a
little tentative and "getting to know each other again", to in the
coming months take a vacation somewhere tropical/exotic (we like those
kinds of places) and - in a very private ceremony with only me, him,
and our 6 y.o. daughter - renew our marriage vows. We'll
either do it there or at the church we got married in, although I would
love it to be on a warm beach under an arch of flowers at sunset!
Thank you SO MUCH...your program very seriously was
the only thing that supported me in my efforts to save my marriage and
gave me the tools to work with as well as the understanding of why my
husband was acting the way he did and why my "gut feel" was actually
making the situation worse. I will always be in your debt and
will continue to strongly recommend the program to any friends or
acquaintances who are in a period of marital difficulty or just want to
make their marriage the best it can be!
Warm regards and huge thanks,
Christine V.
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"THANK YOU for our second chance! "
Hi Mort,
I just wanted to thank you and let you know that my husband and I have
reconciled. I owe everything to you and your program. I did the lone
ranger track and with sharing things with my husband we are more in
tuned to each other than we ever were---even when we were dating. I
learned a lot about myself as well, turns out I'm not perfect. I'm also
doing your plug in program and WE are working real hard at our
marriage. THANK YOU for our second chance! L.A.
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"...the best thing we ever did"
The
marriage fitness program is the best thing we ever did and while we
realize we will never stop going through the marriage renewal process
we credit our current happiness and marriage to Mr. Fertel.
Sincerely,
T & C
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"With Marriage Fitness, it
helped us understand what we needed to do to make our relationship work"
We ordered Marriage Fitness, even though we are not
married yet, because we have been in our relationship for 3
½ years and were unsure if we wanted to be with each other
or not. We figured love was just supposed to be there for us. With
Marriage Fitness, it helped us understand what we needed to do to make
our relationship work. All of the ideas we have learned and all of the
stories we have heard, brought us closer together. We are very excited
what tomorrow will bring. We vowed to each other to use this all of the
time . This was
well worth the time and effort. We communicate in a much more positive
way. This program has opened up our eyes on how important we are to one
another. Without Marriage Fitness, we would both be single
today. Thanks Mort!!
Patty and Shane
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"He did find his love for me again
and it had come back even stronger than every before"
Hi there Mort, I want to thank you for a
wonderful job you have done for my marriage. My husband was having an
affair about four months ago, which was going on for abour four months.
I confronted him in the beginning of February and he admitted to me
that he was having an affair. What broke my heart was that he said that
he did not love me anymore and that he loved this other woman. We were
married for twenty five years and I thought to myself that I am not
going to throw that away and that I am going to fight for my marriage.
My husband and I had a lot of tough years behind us and we also had
money problems and there was always something there that kept us
togethere in those hard times, so I was not going to let this problem
break up our marriage and I was going to fight with all the strength
that I had in my body to keep my marriage together. My husband had had
many affairs before and I had always forgiven him, but this time it was
different, because he had never told me that he had loved these other
women, he also told me that he had no more feelings for me and that he
sometimes wonders if he had ever loved me. Well, let me tell you, I
fought and it was very tiring and stressful; I went through all the
emotions; I was very insecure. We had sat down and had a very long talk
and I told him that I do not believe him when he says that he does not
love me anymore and that I know that he does not love this woman, it is
only infatuation and he will still find out that he does love me. I do
not know how long it will take I said to him, but it will happen. We
started going away for the weekends, just the two of us and there was a
time that he was still in contact with this other woman and then we
would have a long talk again and so life went on. AND YES, HE DID FIND
HIS LOVE FOR ME AGAIN AND IT HAD COME BACK EVEN STRONGER THAN EVER
BEFORE. Just last night he told me that his love for me gets stronger
by the day and that when he is at work, he will send me a sms via cell
phone, telling me that he cannot wait to hold me in his arms tonight
and that he misses me when we are at work. Our love for one another has
never been this strong, even when we first fell in love with one
another and the love between us just gets stronger and stronger by the
day. On the 19th of July this year, we will be celebrating our 26th
wedding anniversary. I know that the Lord is the one that did the most
work in our marriage, because I was forever asking the Lord to help us
and he answered my prayers. I never told him that I told you so, but
deep in my heart I say that to myself, that I knew all along that his
love for me was always there, he just had to find that out for himself
and I thank the lord every day for the love that we have for each other.
God Bless you.
Sheree
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"We
are closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have
been"
Hi Mort,
Durward and I are
excited and pleased with the program, and I am SO impressed with
Durward's attitude, AND his complete co operation with attending the
sessions.
He gave up ANY contact
with the woman with whom he was having the affair, and has had NO
contact of any sort with her since Dec. 22nd, when he told her that
he would not contact her, and asked her NOT to contact him.
Durward is arranging
his whole life to make time for the program… We are
closer and more involved in each other's lives than we EVER have
been. Our sex life is more deep and frequent and satisfying
than it has been since the first days of our marriage. And for the
FIRST time EVER, Durward seems to be awake and aware of the life
keeping services I have always provided, and which he always took for
granted. I am stunned by the wonderful things he has done. He is headed
home from California , and will be here Monday, and BOTH of us are
missing each other, and can hardly wait to see one another. Thank you
for helping us.
Barbara
Anne
Ashley
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"Your course saved our marriage"
The
advice and the concepts you asked us to apply for marriage renewal has
changed my life, and even though I did the lone ranger track, I can say
that your course saved our marriage. After 9 years of marriage, our
relationship had become unbearable for me, in the way we related on
almost every level, both with regard to actions and "no action." I knew
that I cared for my wife, but the relationship had become almost too
difficult for me to continue. Even though we discussed what we each
wanted from the relationship, we were not able to get our relationship
back onto a course of treating eachother decently, much less
romantically. Now, in just two months, there has been significant
benefits, and a real opening up by each of us to each other's needs and
desires, and I have not been this happy and content in years. I had
gone to counseling, and invested substantial sums to try to solve our
marriage problems, but the counseling was of little benefit, especially
compared to the changes that were effected by your advice to learn how
to love another, and I cannot express how valuable your course has been
to my life and happiness. I have no doubt that I will review what you
taught, and look forward to a very loving and close relationship with
the companion I love.
J.B.
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" We
learned so much, and with your help were able to
reconnect"
Hi Mort
Alex and I
have completed the marriage fitness program last week.
We are
implementing your secrets, we found the program very
fulfilling.
We are
celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary August
16. I was 18 and he was 21 years old when we got
married. We have twin boys 23 and
a daughter 25 years old and we are proud
grandparents 3 times. Both grandaughters are just over 2
years old and a grandson 3 weeks old.
I'm glad I
found your program back in
February, for us it was a matter
of reconnecting, yes we were roommates with not much
conversation. Alex and I did the dual track.
Alex signed up for the program, I received all of your
e-mails which I couldn't wait to read.
We learned
so much, and with your help were able to reconnect.
We read
our marriage mission statement every day, and do the
7 secrets. and I love the poem "The Beauty of Love" yes there
is a more beautiful thing than young love, Old love, I want to be Old
Love with my husband.
I'm hoping
someday to have the opportunity to thank you in person.
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"We have been back together
for over two years now"
Mort I just
wanted you to know my husband and I where separated for 6 months. I got
your cds by myself and listened to them. When I knew who I was my
husband came home. He listened to the cds and it related a lot to him
and his feelings. We have been back together for over two years now.
Thank you for such wonderful advice :) God Bless
DKM
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"What I have learned from you and
your program can not be measured"
What I have learned from you and your
program can not be measured. I feel like I am finally
learning how to be the person and the spouse that I really want to
be. Your course is not just a marriage course. It's
a LIFE course. I wish I could find a way to convince everyone
I know to take your course just so they could benefit from the life
values that you teach …
I find myself wanting to share what I've learned from you and yet I
have a difficult time articulating myself because I can't describe the
magnitude of what I've learned.
I've been and still am in the Lone
Ranger track of your program …
things are improving. And I'm optimistic that there is a
light at the end of our tunnel. I would and do recommend this
program to anyone. Thank you so much for your wisdom,
insight, and constant sensitivity to such difficult and heart breaking
issues. You tell it as you see it and the amazing thing is
that even if what you have to say is hard to hear, I still find myself
feeling better for having taken your advice. Now that's
constructive!
I
look forward to continually learning more from you and your
experience. Thank you so much for such a wonderful
program. I surely would have been in a divorce by now if it
weren't for Marriage Fitness!
Most Sincerely,
Susan
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"I don't know where our
relationship would be right now if we hadn't signed up."
Dear
Mort,
The
Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp was a great experience for myself and
my husband. I don't know where our relationship would be
right now if we hadn't signed up. I don't really believe in
divorce but the way things were going, I was starting to consider
it! Today, we are both working together to fix our marriage and we are very glad we ran into this program when we
did. We have a son and we want what's best for him too, and
nothing can make him happier than seeing his parents happy.
We know we have just begun to make changes, but we are grateful for
your support and knowledge. What we really find appealing is
that you were once in our boat so you know what it's like.
Thank you for sharing your life story with us and allowing us to see
where our marraige can be if we both make some simple changes.
Thanks
again,
I.F.
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"We
are more in love now than we were
when we got married! "
Hey Mort,
My husband and I
hit rock bottom over the summer.
He has Chron's
Disease and was misdiagnosed for years (15 to be exact). I begged and
pleaded with him to go to another doctor but he refused since his
mother and sister found the doctor he was going to.
Daily I would
fix 3 meals a day for him and daily he would throw them out. As if that
wasn't frustrating enough he was EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful to me
yet would call his mom and sister daily and would ALWAYS end the call
with “I LOVE YOU” then be a jerk to me. I had it!
I would sit and
think of all the times that he would leave me and go running to be with
his mom and sister including the day after we got married. He waited
for me to jump in the shower and left to go on vacation with them,
without ever saying a word to me. Needless to say there's a real bad
history between me and his mom and sister. That issue is what drove me
to my breaking point.
Confused and
frustrated I turned to the internet looking for some kind of answer.
Should I stay miserable or should I try to rebuild a totally destroyed
marriage that I did. I e-mailed Mort and his response was that there is
always hope. So, I signed up for the lone ranger course knowing that my
husband wouldn't be on board with me. He thinks he's perfect. I started
the program and followed the suggestions.
We are more in love now than we were when we got
married! I know that it's a process that needs to continue to be worked
on and we will but it TRULY saved us. I'm so happy that I made two very
important decisions 1) Did Mort's program and 2) Decided to rebuild our
marriage, I can't imagine my life with anybody else but Patrick.
Sincerely,
Lori
A.
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" your program has made me a new man"
Hi Mort
Your program has made me a new man...and in return
feeling so much better we still have work to do but it is amazing how
you feel When you let go of past stuff I'm doing this as a lone ranger
and I'm having a positive affect on my wife thanks Mort I've told so
many people to go to your web site.
Chris W.
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"The program is simple but brilliant."
I just finished up with the teleboot camp and I
have to say it works. I was in the lone ranger track yet my
actions definitely impacted my spouse and of course our
marriage. My spouse has severe unresolved issues from the
past, but once Mort taught me to temporarily put that aside, I got to
see the good side in my man once again. It takes real
personal work but it's well worth it. The program is simple but
brilliant. If you don't end up changing your marital
situation, you still would've changed yourself - and that's
the best success!!
thanx Mort
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"I am moving forward to a happier, healthier
marriage one small step at a time."
Before I registered for your program, my husband
and I were thinking of divorce especially I was. I had planned to at
least separate for one year first and break off slowly because I have
been a house wife for 26 years and I need to reestablish my ability to
earn money. ..
The first week that I was listening to
your teleconference, I got it. I have
been doing small things that you
suggested. ..Ever since that time he is
no longer fighting to me. We are not
intimate yet but civil and respect one
another. The dynamic has changed to a
positive one. He recently gives me my
50th b'day present. .. I am making
myself stronger everyday and trying to
make our marriage stronger a little at a time.
Thanks to your message and help of many of my friends and my church I
am moving forward to a happier, healthier marriage one small step at a
time. One day I called him to come home to eat lunch and he came.
Before that time he would say he is too busy no matter what I cooked
for him. I was so glad he come home and eats. He seems to stay home a
lot longer than before. We do a lot of small talk.
Thanks to your program. I am grateful
that I sighed up, all your advice works.
Sometime one person can make a
different. I can see my future because I got the
right tools that work on my belt and support from my family, and my
church and your techniques.
I am ready to face our marriage toward
happier for all of us. I am ready to
fight for our lives for the rest of my
life to stay strong, for us as a unity.
Please do not use my name but you can
use my initial. Thanks again.
JT
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"WOW, was I surprised! "
Dear
Mort,
I
am writing to you for all of the couples out there that are
wondering whether or not this would be beneficial program for them. I
found myself wondering the same thing about 8 weeks ago when I
read about the Tele-Boot Camp program. My marriage of 25 years
was over, my husband had a 3 week affair and had left the house, our 2
daughters and me. He was unwilling to work on anything and had decided
he wanted a divorce. I felt completely out of control, the
counseling didn't seemed to be helping. All I could see was
everything I thought I new to be true about our marriage was wrong. I
didn't know what to do, all I was sure of was I still loved my
husband and I didn't want a divorce. I found Mort's program on the
Internet and was sure nothing was going to help me or my situation. I
joined the Tele-Boot Camp in the "Lone
Ranger Track" meaning I did the program without my husband. I
figured I had nothing to lose and everything to gain. I wasn't sure how
this stranger was going to help when I couldn't, and I lived with this
man for 25 years, WOW, was I surprised!
I
listened to the Cd's, read the book, did the homework and followed the
guidance that Mort gave us in the weekly Tele-conferences. I wasn't
sure if this was going to work, but the amazing thing I started to
notice was I no longer was feeling out of control, I found I
was calmer, more focused and very excited at the subtle little changes
that would periodically occur. At our final question
and answer seminar I spoke with Mort to let Mort know that I had a
positive yet small break through with my husband. I had invited him out
to a movie and he went, then 2 days later he called to talk
and later that day he invited me to go for a ride with him. This was so
encouraging, the Memorial weekend was coming up and the best news was
about to come. My husband and I spent very day together, boating,
fishing, just being together!
I
still have a long road ahead but I look forward to the work,
the break through's and hopefully the re-uniting of my husband
and myself in marriage, but a healthier marriage.
Thank you Mort for the guidance, the encouragement and all of the
support. I hope my story helps re-assure any one who may be doubtful
about the program, I would recommend Tele-Boot Camp to all!!
Sincerely,
R.L.
Michigan
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"Your program was very insightful - the
CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me"
Dear
Mort……
I
am not sure where to begin. Everything you have taught me seems so
practical but something we forget over time. Today I am
applying the techniques even though I am a lone ranger, and I can se e change … I am a better man, a better Dad and a
better spouse than I ever was before. Your program was very
insightful - the CD series and boot camp were eye opening for me.
Your advice is absolutely right on the mark and has helped me
tremendously. And it seems that when I am struggling I get
that one email or piece of advice from you that makes me think it all
through a little more clearer. Thanks for helping
me out.
G
.
O
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"Thanks a million times over for
getting us on the right track and for your help."
Mort,
Hi, sorry I didn't respond sooner. Bill and I did not completely make
it through all the program; we did complete all the tele conferences
and the Q&A's and basically got through step 3 of the 4 part
program. Our Notebook suffered as during the last 2 weeks of our
program Bill was diagnosed with prostrate cancer so our focus
completely changed.
The program did wonders and continues to do wonders. We fixed what we
had broken due to lack of focus on each other and continue to practice
everything we learned.
The program was fantastic as I could not - without your Q&A's
make Bill understand what he was doing wrong without appearing
extremely selfish. By the timie I received the program, I thought I was
going crazy, then I went through all th Q&A's looking for
answers and found them. I marked the one's he should difenetely listen
to and explained that if these do not address our problems, nothing
will. Between our sincere discussions, those q&a's and the
first three steps of the program, we quickly got back on track and
remain so.
Now to get through our next test! Thanks a million times over for
getting us on the right track and for your help.
Natty & Bill B.
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"If anyone wants to turn their
marriage around and make it work, this is the program to take"
Mort,
I would like to thank you for creating the Marriage Fitness
Progam, I did the Lone Ranger in
February and before starting I was skeptical as to how much
this program would help my marriage. As
I went through the program I realized that my way of behaving
had a lot to do with the deterioration of my marriage.
I started listening to the CD's and once I started doing the exercises
is when I realized that changes needed to be made.
If anyone wants to turn their marriage around and make it work, this is
the program to take, it really does help you see what you need to fix
in yourself and teaches you how to approach your spouse in a
loving way.
Thank you for giving me the tools to see what a great marriage I could
have.
IAR
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"Our
house is a home once again but a better
one than before"
Hello Mort,
I don't know if you'll be reading this or if your very nice assistant
will.(Sorry, I forgot her name)
I just thought I'd pass on some GOOD news since I'm sure you like to
hear about marriages that have been saved. My husband Curt had wanted a
separation, got it, and refused to discuss reconciliation. Two months
to the day before I could have been receiving divorce papers from his
lawyer, Curt asked to move back home instead.
Our house is a home once again but a better one than before.
Communication is more open, honest and we speak and listen lovingly to
each other. What a testimony of God's faithfulness for us, our children
and others who watched us through the past year's storm! You can even
find us all together every Sunday at church! (A new church that is
uplifting and offers hope instead of warnings of fire and brimstone).
I still have notes from our discussions. Looking back, many suggestions
you made were just what our relationship needed.
Thank you again for your encouraging words.
Sincerely, a survivor and new person,
Samia B
Charlotte, NC
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"Within less than three weeks he
broke things off with the girlfriend and began working on our
relationship"
Dear Mort,
One year ago I contacted you via your web site for help. My marriage
had been marginal to say the least for several years. My husband told
me the day before Thanksgiving that he didn't love me any more and
thought I should move into our vacation house in another state. He was
sure I would be happier there. I was in such horrific shock I just did
what he asked. Once there I realized this was not what I wanted and I
was going to do everything I could to save our marriage of 32 years. To
add to the pain I discovered the day after Christmas he was seeing an
old High School girlfriend. I packed up and immediately came back home.
I had to give it one more try. I joined your Marriage Fitness program
in the lone ranger track and began doing the things your program
suggested. Within less than three weeks he broke things off with the
girlfriend and began working on our relationship. He refused to go to
any kind of counseling, so I just continued by myself in the Lone
Ranger Track. As I worked the program he seemed to respond in kind and
it wasn't long before things were better than ever.
Thank You Mort!
This past year has been the best year of our entire relationship. I
would recommend this program to anyone who is having problems in their
marriage.
It works!!!!!!!!!
Linda
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"I
wasn't sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I
followed your advice and gave myself the time to learn
the
skills you advocate in your program."
Dear Mort,
I wanted to thank you for your program and your
support during our 1 on 1session. Just wanted you to know
that my husband and I are getting back
together. It has been a long road and at
one point I almost gave up and started to move on with my life without
him. Funny how that letting go was
just what he needed to find me again.
Anyways, we are making plans for our future and I will continue with
your plugged in sessions since they have become
so valuable to me. To be honest I wasn't
sure this day would ever come but now that it has I am glad I followed
your advice and gave myself the time to learn
the skills you advocate in your program.
Without that, I may have been hurtful and cruel, behaviours that
benefit no one. Thankfully I was able to stay loving to my
husband throughout our difficulties and now I can see that our
relationship will be stronger for it.
Thank you for
being there.
Melody M.
Alberta Canada
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"Thank
you, and the Mrs., for
sharing your wisdom with us."
I
have to say this series has recharged my hope in my relationship. You
simply have spelled it out.
For my husband, who has not had the opportunity of seeing, knowing,
experiencing, or learning the tools and skills of a positive
relationship, you have provided an easy to understand program and "To
Do" list. I can't wait for him to get started.
Yes, I got through the series first, and alone. Maybe 'the issues' were
my issues, and I cannot ask more of someone else than I am willing to
do myself, and do first.
My favorite chapter is "Love is a Verb". It made me think of everyone
in my life from our children to co workers and how I interact with
them. Am I sending them a clear message of my definition of our
relationship? Some should be getting more, some need to be receiving
less.
Thank you, and the Mrs., for sharing your wisdom with us.
R.P.
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"All I can say is Thank
You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU."
I
don't know who gets these emails, but I surly hope someone can express
my appreciation to Mort.
Today I got the second email Talk & Touch. I just had to share
this. My wife left me 2+ weeks ago. I have been going through hell with
the separation. Probably because I was doing all the wrong things!
This evening, I called my wife and we had a conversation. WOW was it
wonderful. Just a very simple conversation, yes I slipped a couple of
time and told her how much I love and miss her and wanted her to come
back home but for the most part we just talked about things.
Because I honestly cannot remember the last time this happened, and I'm
sure she cannot either, I'm betting that her jaw was on the floor. I
didn't do this to put her jaw on the floor but I think she was shocked.
When I could tell that she was ready to end the conversation, I let her
know that I understood and I tried to say goodnight. Rather than just
ending it right then and there as she would have before, she took time
to explain to me that she didn't rest well last night, the time change
affects her in a negative way and she was tired. I told her no problem,
good night, sweet dreams and I did slip in another "I Love You!"
All I can say is Thank You, Thank YOU, THANK YOU. I'm learning so much
David
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"Your principles and convictions to
the vision of a better marriage give me hope"
Dear Mr. Fertel:
Please share with others how you give people, especially in the Lone
Ranger Track, the strength and endurance to go on to reconcile their
marriages. For the right reasons.
So many people, including therapists and well-meaning friends, have
advised me to leave my marriage. I almost feel ridiculed by others in
my dedication to my marriage and my spouse. Until I encountered you and
your program.
Your principles and convictions to the vision of a better marriage give
me hope. For the right reasons. You are helping me learn from this
painful experience. When every one else almost "derails" me in my
vision to learn the most I can about myself and reconcile my marriage.
I feel inspiration and motivation from you to continue in my efforts.
I have to admit your amount of personal dedication is impressive. You
provide an abundance of material that requires much effort to
assimilate in a relatively short amount of time. But that is in accord
with your belief in how hard one should work in their labors of love to
protect their marriage.
You walk your talk. You are personally involved. I never imagined I'd
have opportunities to actually speak with you. And you provide ongoing
follow-up after the initial program.
Yours truly,
Dianne DF
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"After a four month separation in
different locations, I am now living back at the house with my family"
Mort,
Just wanted to take a minute and
thank you for the inspiration and the success on repairing my
marriage. After a four month separation in different locations, I
am now living back at the house with my family. I would love
to say it is peachy and rosy, but the fact of the matter is we have a
long way to go. I have you in my corner that can help the
forward progression that I
believe
is most important in the healing process. I was doing the
lone ranger track and by the end of the program my wife was not only
listening to the teleconferences she was participating in the Q and
A. Thanks again.
Randy and Stacy C.
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"...he actually said he loved me..."
Dear Mort,
I signed up for your e-mails 9 months prior to
actually joining the boot camp. I would read the emails and
save them and reread them and sometimes foward them to my husband. They
were amazingly right on …
Your message is extremely powerful and
also very sincere. On one of the CD's the wife breaks
down into tears and one can sence your empathy and sincerety. My
husband has actually come a long way. We do the date nights as
suggested and that is terrific. I tell him I love him, because I cannot
hold that back. I told him there is no need for him to respond to that.
But that I love him and I cannot just not say it. I'm sure you are not
surprised to know he actually said he loved me while away for a two day
business trip!
One of the Q&A's in our boot camp the wife
asked about having sex. Your answer was soooo amazing. You said why not
you are married go ahead and have sex. My husband and I kinda looked at
eachother surprised. Laughed. Said why not? And we have been having
sex. Such a silly thing, but so powerful.
I realize with my entire being that this program
can work. It is not easy most of the time, but to hear the hope and the
determination from your listeners on the Q&A is very moving. I
am taking your "fast is slow and slow is fast" quite literally. Our
problems have evolved over a decade, so I believe if
we move ahead at our own pace, change will come.
Pat -married 34 years and still learning to put
love first.
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"This
program allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning."
Mort,
your marriage bootcamp was amazing. It made us aware of what was really
important. We were trying to fix things that were draining to us
emotionally and you showed us that those things were not the issues.
They were the result of what we had forgotten to do. This program
allowed us to stop and start back at the beginning. This truly is the
way. Everyday is a new day and now we have the neccessary tools to
rebuild our marriage and do it the right way this time.
J
& J
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"We
have been in your program for over a year and we are doing fantastic"
Hey
Mort... We just got off the phone for this months Q&A. I wanted
to share this with you during the call but seems like a lot more people
needed to talk than we did. We have been in your program for over a
year and we are doing fantastic. Things don't or didn't happen all at
once and things will not stop happening ..This is our way of life now.
Here is an example of some things that are happening - Our family was
on a trip this past weekend in the mountains (this was a
business/pleasure trip mixed) . 2 things happened that I hope I never
forget. The first was that we stopped to get a hot beverage (tea and
coffee) and before I knew what was happening he was fixing my tea the
way I liked it and I was fixing his coffee the way he liked it. We were
both thinking of the other person....That was a great feeling... The
second thing that happened was that we were talking to one of his co
workers ( this is the first time I had met him) and the conversation
turned to how long each one of us had been married. We told him almost
15 for us. He said it was great to see that we still had that sparkle
in both of our eyes.
Thank you Mort. We appreciate the help you have given us, the support
and the knowledge that you are there for us. We are loving this...
T.M.
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"My
husband even passed me a compliment "
Dear
Mort: I joined as the Lone Ranger because I felt I needed to
do something .. .
I didn't realize what I was getting myself into but became
addictive after reading your daily emails. The
teleconferences, books, cds are of the utmost quality. I
found myself listening to the teleconferences over and over at the
office instead of the local radio station. While driving,
your cd has been plugged in. The workbook
replaced Dr. Phil McGraw. I'm achieving positive results … with the
tools that you have made available …
After seven weeks, I feel
great! My husband even passed a compliment "Wow you look
great! Is that a new outfit" I just said "Thanks, I
feel like I look...great!". Inside joke, I've had the outfit
for years and he never acknowledged it before but what's inside the
outfit is different! I feel better now than I felt prior to
taking your course. Mort, your sincere approach is so felt
when listening to these conferences. For seven weeks, you've
been my best friend. I thank you for you! I will be
continuing with your next program. Many thanks-Vicki M. , Petaluma,
California
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"This
program is sincere, uplifting, and can help any relationship, even if
you are not married yet"
You won't find a better Marriage counseling program
for the money anywhere.
This program is sincere, uplifting, and can help
any relationship, even if you are not married yet. The reason is this
program comes from the heart of someone who understands loss and the
value of relationshiips, someone who is sincere and genuinely cares
about the people he is tring to help.
John B.
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"Marriage
fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start
on a different path."
Hi
Mort,
Marriage fitness is
exactly what we needed at exactly the right time. We have
been married 25 years and like many couples moved away from each other
through the years. We were ready to separate. The
issues and relationship problems seemed so big that we didn't know wha t s tep to take first to begin to fix
things. I felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I
didn't have the equipment and I was already so tired I couldn't think
of how to take the first
step.
Marriage
fitness gave us the answers, and step by step, the directions to start
on a different path. This program is positive and builds the
relationship from day one. I knew that if things were going
to change we would have to begin to see each other differently and
start to build the relationship again. The way the program is
designed, it was easy to “just do it” and the
results quickly followed. Somewhere in my heart I knew this
was the answer, marriage fitness put it into action.
Thanks!
Lisa
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"The
boot camp deals with NOW and with moving forward which is something you
CAN do..."
I am more than happy to offer a
testimony for the Teleboot Camp! In my opinion it is the best
marriage course I've heard of or read about. This course was
my last ditch effort to stay in my marriage. I've had one foot out the
door for the past 2-3 years, but because of two young children, I have
been holding out and looking for miracles. My marriage has been a huge
disappointment b/c we have developed horrific habits and treat each
other badly. In the 7 week course I have seen my
husband make huge changes and he says the same about me. We
are now at a point where we kind of "like" each other again which is
amazing. The course and listening to Mort's phone conferences
work so well because he is SO non-judgemental and only looks for
solutions. You are expecting to hear "i can't believe your
husband does that" or "You realize what you did was wrong,...."....
Instead the boot camp deals w/ NOW and w/ moving forward which is
something you CAN do... you can't change the past so why make people
feel guilty which is what a lot of counselors do.
I
am also surprised at how much my husband took to Mort's
advice. He can be very difficult, judgemental and close
minded... but he got into the course and actually did the assignments.
We now are excited about what our marriage can be if we continue to
"do" the work and keep creating love... there's a light at the end of
the tunnel. We are both committed to better ourselves for our marriage,
our self-dignity and our children.
We
just went out w/ another couple last weekend and when they started
bickering we just said www.marriagemax.com
... then we laughed so hard b/c we know how
ridiculous we used to look always bickering ourselves! We've come a
long way and have a long way to go but at least we are speaking,
connecting and are hopeful. We went from threatening divorce
every week to making plans to join a tennis league. We could
NOT have done this alone. There was way too much animosity
and resistance.
Another
huge plus is my kids are more relaxed... they changed as much
and as fast as we did. They went from uptight and anxious to
happier and more peaceful......AND a girlfriend of mine wants to know
what pill I'm on... she said she hasn't seen me this positive (about
everything) in 2 years! Needless to say she wrote down the Boot Camp
website before she left my house! She was very suspicious that I was
giving her a website but that it was just a pill I was taking!
To
be honest my husband and I only put in about 40% effort and saw HUGE
results..(like I said we were almost enemies so it was quite difficult
to go from 0 to a 100). now we are excited to keep putting in more and
more effort and take our marriage to the highest level possible.
So,
thanks Mort for everything you have been a God-send to us and our
children...No matter what happens I know I now have the information,
skills and concepts to create love in my relationship. My husband and I
are at a point where we are not as needy or desparate. We
are becoming 2 adults who would like to stay together for the right
reasons and aren't willing to settle for a mediocre marriage anymore.
We have raised the bar and now both are more aware and
accountable for our words and actions. I thought our marriage would
just be mediocre at best and now am unwilling to accept that.
I'm striving for awesome and won't stop till I get there!
GS
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"He
moved back in"
Mort,
It's been two years since I joined the
Tele- Boot Camp as a lone ranger and then
continued with plugged in. I then retreated
and sort of gave up on my marriage when
we became legally separated and he moved
in with the other women! But just as you
had predicted, things don't grow in dirty
soil and the rational "lies"
crept up to haunt them both. He moved
back in but did not reconcile with me.
Here is hope now for all you lone rangers
out there. Two years and guess what he
is listening to your tapes and paid for
me to become plugged in. He keeps repeating
everything you have said on the tapes
so its absorbing. Of course same issues
and yes he has not taken action on what
he is learning but this is a miracle nevertheless.
Thank you and I hope I have encouraged
someone out there in the same position
as I!
M.S.
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"It
truly has changed my life! "
Dear Mort,
I write you this
letter the day before our 25th wedding anniversary. Three
months ago I would have thought we would surely have been in the
process of a divorce on this day. On December 29 after
receiving your emails for over two months, I finally decided
that I would enroll in the boot camp on the Lone Ranger
Track. It truly has changed my life!
I have found that my husband responds even though he is reluctant to
the thought of renewing our marriage. I have completed the
boot camp and look forward to the continuing support through the
Plugged-In program. Showing patience that I didn't know I
had, I am hopeful that we will celebrate many anniversaries to
come. Thank you!
Sincerely,
Amy
Littleton, CO
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"We still have alot of work
to do, but we have a changed marital environment ...and have a bright
outlook for a happy future."
Are
you thinking about registering for the boot camp? Here's my story.
We
had been married for 17 years and our marriage was falling apart. We
couldn't get through a conversation without criticism or attack. I
heard Mort Fertel on the radio speaking about the principles of
Marriage Fitness. After almost a year of traditional marriage
counseling and making no improvement in our marriage, we decided to buy
his book and try his program. What a difference in just a few short
weeks. Then we heard about the Boot Camp. My husband and I signed up
and very much looked forward to each session. Through Mort's guidance,
we were able to make considerable progress. The weekly workbooks were
especially helpful in helping give us ideas to reconnect and infuse
positive energy into our marriage. For me, the bootcamp also taught me
how my actions and behaviors were sabotaging our relationship. I had
always thought that if only my husband changed, our marriage would
improve. I now see that no progress could be made until I recognized
and made an effort to change my behavior toward my spouse. Mort was
always available to answer questions and held us accountable to our own
behaviors. Six months ago, I was counting the days until the kids were
grown to leave my marriage, I no longer do that. Even though every day
is not perfect, I can now see a hopeful future with my husband. We
still have alot of work to do, but we have a changed marital
environment in which to do the work and have a bright outlook for a
happy future.
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"She made her choice, and
because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose me!"
Hi
Mort,
I
just wanted to let you know that my wife has made a complete turn
around and is starting to not only work on our marriage but really make
some amazing changes.
Thank
you for all your help and insight. If it was not for you
helping me through this and teaching me how to be the
husband that me wife deserves then I may have never been able to bring
her back to this marriage and our family. She made her choice, and
because of Marriage Fitness and your boot camp, she chose
me!
Keep
up the good work and keep saving marriages.
Thanks
again.
AP
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"Not only did it change our marriage,
it changed our entire way of life"
Dear
Mort,
Today makes one month that my wife has been home after three months of
separation. Thank you so much for your coaching and the Marriage
Fitness tele-boot camp. Not only did it change our
marriage,it changed our entire way of life. After two affairs
and emotional neglect, I thought I had lost my wife forever, but
thanks be unto God, we "found" Mort Fertel. Just as when one becomes a
new creature in Christ, old things pass away and all things become new;
such was the case when we completed the Marriage Fitness tele-boot
camp. Our old habits, fears, insecurities, and the manner in
which we treated each ther passed away; All things became NEW
! We learned to put love first and to make our spouse and our
marriage our highest priority. We strongly urge anyone
needing help in any way with their marriage to enroll in the Marriage
Fitness tele-boot camp.
It will change your life forever. It did ours!
Forever grateful, Mort!
R.M. & D.M.
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"...the BOOT CAMP was worth
both
our
time and money"
We
thought the BOOT CAMP was worth both our time and money we invested and
we recommend it to our friends.
Alan
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"Thanks"
Dear
Mort,
Thanks
for your help.
Patty
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"What did I
get out of the program?
Real
hope to my family"
I
highly recommend Mort's Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp.
I
joined the program as the lone ranger about 8 weeks ago. My husband was
very firm about moving out and filing for divorce without giving me
much of specific reasons. In my sorrow and desperation, I contacted
Mort and joined the boot camp.
What
did I get out of the program?
Real
hope to my family: My husband changed his moving out plan and joined me
on the coaching session with Mort.
Thank
you from the bottom of my heart for your extraordinary impact on my
life and my family's life.
H.E.
California
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" I have never loved my
husband more"
Hi
Mort,
I'm
happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing
experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was
over. I have been married four times and really wanted this
to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone
out. We decided that we were done and divorce was the only
answer. Then my husband came across your program and signed
up without telling me. He then started talking about the
program and got one of your CD's that I listened to
half-heartedly. When the program began I listened to your
first seminar and was so blown away by what I was
hearing. I couldn't believe all the things that I could
relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent
thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each
session. Only to leave angrier and
angrier. But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never
loved my husband more and know that we are going to
work through these things and stay on the track that
we were always meant to be on. I know that we
will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh
because we are worth it. Your inspiration with the material
provided has been a serious God send to both of us. I thank
you profusely for having the desire to help those that can' t s eem to
help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order
to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together. I can'
t say thank you enough!
Jennifer
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"Everything you
have said and sent me hits a core truth to me. I am astounded
by its clarity."
I
have got to say that I must be ready for the principles that your
program is built upon, because your program "appeared" to me over the
internet when I was looking for some marital relationship
guidance. Everything you have said and sent me hits a core
truth to me. I am astounded by its clarity.
I
think between the CD's from the 7 weeks worth of teleconferences and
Q&A sessions, we can find our way to a "Put Love first"
marriage, with time and consistent effort on our parts. I
know I am willing to "do" what it takes to create this environment in
our relationship.
Thank
you for your principles and teaching.
DL
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"...things are improving on a slow
but steady pace"
Hi Mort,
I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for
all your help. I don't know if I would have made it this far
without your words and inspiration. It seems that every time
I am down or off track i can open an e-mail or listen to a
teleconference session and I feel renewed to continue the journey back
into a my marriage. This has been the toughest year of my
life and with all the ups and downs it would have been easy to find a
reason to throw in the towel. Following your suggestions and
working my way through the CD's and workbook have given me a clear path
to follow. I have found many things within me that needed
iimproving and in fixing myself I have watched my marriage go from
separation and talk of divorce to daily talk and touch charges from my
spouse and weekly dates that are his idea as much as mine.
The best thing is that my husband was one of those obstinate ones who
didn't think love should be so much work, so I have done all this
following the Lone Ranger Track. I won't say things are
perfect, but things are improving on a slow but steady pace. One person
really can make a difference in a marriage!
Thanks Mort your help has been invaluable!!
Sincerely
Heidi
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"Mort has valuable
insights, and proven methods to restore love in a marriage. "
Mort,
Your
Marriage Fitness program gave me a new perspective for my failing
marriage. I registered as a last ditch effort to save my
marriage. My husband wanted a divorce. I
was out of hope, out of ideas, and searching for a way change
my situation. I registered for the lone ranger track, which
in the beginning even brought heartache. There I was wanting
to save my marriage and my husband could care less. I wondered how a
marriage could be saved when only one partner was unwilling to
participate. The 7 week fitness program changed not
only that thought, but my perspective on how I could better my marriage
and myself. I have become a better wife and I can
even say that my marriage is no longer failing. There is
laughter, love, jokes, and time spent together
again. My thoughts and my actions have changed my marriage's
momentum, and I would encourage any couple to participate in
the program. Mort has valuable insights, and proven
methods to restore love in a marriage.
LDW
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"Thanks so much Mort. You
did in 7 short weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. "
Hi
Mort
Here
is what my wife, Delores, wrote in a notebook after our last
teleconference with you. I thought you'd like to read it:
As
I listened to the final teleconference I cried uncontrollably. I had
the same feeling at age nine when I left the courthouse when my father
and mother divorced. As I clasped my mothers hand I knew I would not be
able to stay connected to my father in the way I wanted to;
which proved to be true. I never saw him again for 20 years. I spent 53
years of my life trying to connect to someone. For the first time
someone had told me how I could connect. Mort had given me the
tools to stay connected. If I would have let my spouse know how bad I
needed to connect with him instead of shaming, belittling, and
attacking his character, I am sure he would have turned around and
connected with me years ago. Thanks so much Mort. You did in 7 short
weeks what no one else could do in 53 years. Delores
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"
'Mort was reading my mind' "
Dear Mort,
It was amazing
how, from the very beginning of reading your website, ordering
and receiving Marriage Fitness materials, participating in the boot
camp program, hearing all that you had to say, participating in the Q
& A's, reading everything that we read, and doing the
exercises in the work book, pertained to exactly what we have
gone through and are currently going
through. Brian described it like "Mort was
reading my mind"!
We tried
a few sessions of marriage counseling about 4 years ago and it
was as you described. We came out angrier than we went in and
at that time the decision was made that counseling wasn't for
us. We have struggled tremendously for these
last 4 years, trying to do the best that we knew how
to do with some improvement, until we came to the "final
straw" in July of 2007. This, as far as Lisa was concerned,
was the breaking point and she was thinking divorce was the only
answer.
In July of 2007, we
reached out to the Internet and found your program. What a
God send! Through Marriage Fitness, you helped
us remember that we do have a deep passionate love for each
other. We just needed to figure out how
to find that lost love and make it evident to each other
again. We lost our "connection" and we needed to
learn to re-connect once again. In our 23 years of marriage,
we had 13 moves in a 17 year span, job
changes, raising children, both of us traveling with
our jobs, loss of loved ones, etc. We were unable to
show our love for each other in an effective manor any
longer. Over time, this pushed us further and further
apart.
We thank you so much
for your program as it has shown us how to get back to where we were
before "Life" got in the way.
Mort, we can't thank
you enough for the hard work and effort which you have put
into your program. You have taught us how to reconnect and
rekindle our relationship and we are grateful for
that. We look forward to a long and healthy
relationship in our marriage and a long relationship with
Mort, his staff, and Marriage Fitness program.
Sincerely,
Brian & Lisa
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"I learned that simple changes in my
behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens the heart of
the even the world's toughest critic"
Mort Fertel gives very
effective and thought provoking presentations that pertain to any
couple facing marital challenges. Even as a Lone Ranger,
Mort's program provides tools that make it easy to achieve positive
relationship results immediately. I learned that simple
changes in my behavior, recommended in Mort's program, ultimately opens
the heart of the even the world's toughest critic. I highly
recommended the "Marriage Fitness Program” it encouraged me
to focus on the positive aspects of my relationship and carved years of
“couple therapy” spent rehashing old issues out of
my life … a novel concept that really works!
Regards,
Linda
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"I'm more successful in
all areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program"
To all who are considering the Marriage Fitness
program, do it. There is nothing more important in life than
to have a successful marriage but there's been no guide to proactively
do it. No "before-you-buy-into-it" program that can help you
in advance. And until Mort Fortel, no comprehensive
"after-market" program either. To be honest, his program
should be modified and then purchased for all pre-nuptial preparation
classes. A raw, honest owners manual for future
couples. You're porbably reading this because your marriage
is in trouble. Mort's program taught me that I could change,
and gave me concrete ways to do it. I knew that no matter
what became of my marriage, I would become a better
me, not a different person ,
a better me.
I was able to implement change
immediately. I was ACOA, ADD and a terribly innattentive
husband. I was able to discover things about myself, through
serious self-reflection that enbaled me to discover that ACOA can be
overcome and the ADD was a misdiagnosis. I was depressed (spouse depressed causes failed marriage) and
feeling lost for years, not knowing how to turn my marriage
around. I learned, from Mort's non-judgemental
truth, not that I needed to change, I already knew
that, I learned that I COULD IN FACT CHANGE, and he offered
easy and concrete ways to do so.
I'm self-confident in ways I never was
before. I know a better me today, I'm more successful in all
areas of my life because of Mort's marriage Fitness program.
For me, it's been more of a "Person Fitness Program". IF your
spouse doesn't want you at the end of the program, somebody
will, because you will have learned all of the skills that make you
someone anyone would love to spend more time around.
Thanks Mort.
Sincerely,
Michael C
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"He
came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he didnt want a divorce"
Dear Mr. Fertel,
…My husband
of 12years had renewed a "friendship" with a college friend(a girl)
back in December. This quickly went from a facebook contact, to
continuous calls and text, emails, to a planned visit back to
his hometown to visit her and his highschool buddies. He asked for a
divorce on March 3rd stating that he just didnt want to be married
anymore, and that he probably did want to date other people. I knew
exactly who he wanted to date(he had a crush on this girl back in
college and now she wanted to be more than friends since her recent
divorce). I was devastated and at first became clingy, and smothering.
Then I started your advice…Well, he went on his trip on the
6th of April. He arrived there about 530pm and immediately went to her
house, took her to dinner and visited with her(he called me for about 1
minute to tell me he had arrived safely). The next day he hung out with
friends until about 11pm(he called me at 1030pm to tell me how his
night had been and sounded so excited and happy). He talked for about 3
minutes that time…At 0300am I recieved a call from him. He
wanted to tell me that he had gone to his friends house after hanging
with his friends. He said that it felt so wrong being there with her
and that he just had to leave. He wanted me to know that he loved me,
wished he was home with me and he missed me. He stopped being in
contact with her the next morning, called me and texted constantly over
the next 6 days. He came home wearing his wedding ring again, said he
didnt want a divorce,didnt want an open marriage, didnt want to be with
anyone but me, and wanted me to have a new wedding ring. I
wanted to let you know that your advice worked and I want to thank you
for giving me the strength to save my marriage. I thought you would
like to know you saved another marriage. Thanks again.
Anonymous
wife
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"Thanks you for everything.
Now there is hope. "
Mort:
I
am a Lone Ranger Track. My husband has an emotional affair with another
woman. When I was told by my husband about his affair, I was so
shocked. I found Marriage Fitness from internet and signed in January.
After attending the live seminars and Q-A conferences, all of sudden, I
found out there are lots of small things that I never pay attention to
that have done big damage on my marriage. I tried the ways you
taught in the seminars, after my weeks' efforts and when I almost gave
up, my husband finally opened his heart to me and told me
what went wrong in our marriage and what lead him to
seek comfort from outside of marriage.
Thanks
you for everything. Now there is hope.
Jane
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"I would recommend this
program to anyone. It really has made me see things more clearly than
ever before."
Dear
Mort,
Now
that my tele-boot camp is over I would like to tell you how helpful it
was.
I
was in the lone ranger track. My husband said he didn't love me or feel
an emotional connection with me. He also said divorce would be our only
option.
I
sought therapy, read your book, and joined the tele-boot camp. You gave
me advice that I sometimes didn't want to follow, but I did it anyway
because I made a commitment to follow the program. I went from being a
hysterical, scared woman, whose husband was having a year long affair
to a confident wife whose husband has asked for a new beginning.
I
would recommend this program to anyone. It really has made me see
things more clearly than ever before. I am so grateful. Thank you and
keep working with people like us!
D.B.D
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"Our marriage issues were infidelity
by my husband and we are now on track to renewing our relationship with
the help of Marriage fitness."
Mort,
I can't express the impact Marriage fitness has had on our Marriage.
Getting back to the Basics of a relationship has been overwhelmingly
rewarding. Our marriage issues were infidelity by my husband and we are
now on track to a renew marriage with the help of Marriage
fitness. The trust is starting to come back,This program has given me
hope that we can survive this and the struggles of what that type of
stress and issues that it bring s…
With the help of your program it has
brought us back together,I thought it was over because of his affair .. . That he was not
sure he wanted to give up he has chosen to stay with me and work out
our issues. He has chosen to stay with me and rekindle what we once
had. It has not been an easy task to start trusting and forgiving him
for the infidelity,But he has great qualities as a person that I LOVE
VERY MUCH and I know in our hearts we are now on the right track to
becoming soul mates once again. I started out jus t receiving free
e-mails and then 3 weeks into that we signed up for the boot
camp and it was the one thing that has really helped in so many ways. I
have already recommended this program to a few couples and feel very
strongly that your program has helped me save what is very dear to me
My Marriage and my soul mate and can not tell you how greatly this has
impacted our lives. My gratitude is overwhelming and we can't thank you
enough for giving us the tools to save our marriage
Ricki
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"We seemed to be able to
take the ideas presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship"
When
we signed up for the Bootcamp, our relationship was not going
well. I lacked trust in my partner and optimism about the
future. He, uncharacteristically, agreed to do this program
with me with the hope of turning things around. I
honestly can' t say how much our improvement is due to the content of
the Bootcamp, how much is due to us simply going through the process
together, to the exercises or simply the change from focusing on our
problems to focusing on strengths and improving those. It is
clear to me that men and women will always think differently from each
other, but in spite of that, we seemed to be able to take the ideas
presented in bootcamp and improve our relationship. It isn't
perfect, but it is so much better. It is kind of
amazing to me how great it feels to do positive things for each other,
and how that morphs into greater richness in the
relationship. Its like DUH, but it really does work so
simply. I'm very glad we did it. Thanks, Mort!
TW
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"It
breathed life into our relationship.
It saved our marriage! "
Dear
Mort,
It
is hard to find the words to describe the impact that you and the
Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp had on our marriage. Our marriage was
on its last breath. We hadn't talked, wanted to touch or felt close in
years. But the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp turned our marriage
around. It breathed life into our relationship. It saved our marriage!
You
helped me see that there was hope when things seemed hopeless. I can
honestly say I do not know where Don and I would be today without your
help.
Practicing
“marriage fitness” is a way of life for us now. We
are very optimistic about our future together. Thanks so much for
giving us the tools we need to make our marriage and lives happier than
we could ever imagine.
Sincerely,
Laurie
S.
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"We are making progress."
Dear
Mort,
We're
only in the 3rd week of your Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp and I
already have exciting news to share with you. See the email below that
my husband sent me. He hasn't sent anything nice like this in a very
long time. Thank you Mort.
-----
Original Message -----
From:
B.H.
To:
Doris
Sent:
July 26, 2005 3:36 PM
Subject:
Thank you
I
do want you to know that I have noticed the little and bigger things
you've been doing to help our relationship. I do know you're
sincere in your feelings and what you want from me.
I feel
a lot better about things and hope my attitude has shown as
much. I know I do love you and I want things to work as well.
We
are making progress.
Brian
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"He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN!"
I just want to
start off by thanking Mort for all of his help! Thank you is not even
enough, how do you thank someone for changing your life?! I don't know
what I would have done if I didn't find his web site. He is amazing and
has a talent for working with you and being caring about what he does.
His tips and advice are not that hard to follow, it actually has made
me a happier and a more positive person. Knowing he has been where we
all are makes it easy to trust in him and his program.
A little background about my situation: We have both been married
before, each of our spouses cheated on us and made it hard for us to
trust others in relationships. Even though we have gone through that
and so much more, we still have so much trust and love for each other.
We both have children, mostly grown. (He also had a child with his
ex-wife that died a month after he was born). He has three children, I
have one. About a year after we met …
we started to have some problems and
couldn't get over them, or didn't know how to 'fix' them… always
had a hard time understanding each other or learning to fight in the
'right way', our biggest problem being the silent treatment.
I just finished the boot camp and was on the lone ranger track. There
are a couple of CD's that actually brought me to tears because they fit
my situation SO wel l…
He started dating awhile ago and told me
later on after one of our trips together, that he was 'seeing someone'.
I cried for three days …
Over the years we started to take each
other for granted. I had an epiphany before I ordered Mort's program,
my life passed before my eyes and I realized that he was the most
important person in my life. I prayed for help (This I don't do often
at all), but the next day I found Mort Fertel online. After being in
his program and implementing the steps I needed to, he is now not
seeing this other person! ...
He said he WANTS TO DATE ME AGAIN! I
loved hearing this, we are going out more often now and talking more, I
think things are on the right track to being together again, maybe
more. I just hope that down the road I can go through the workbook and
CD's again...this time with our new found relationship. I've also
learned to be more positive and act on those feelings.
Thank you Adina and Rebecca for being patient and answering all of my
emails. I appreciate your help!
Thank you Mort for renewing the relationship that I knew, but didn't
realize that I wanted!
Jody
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"It's been a whirlwind of a
year starting horribly and ending on a definite up-swing"
Mort,
I
really can't thank you enough for the wisdom, support and
guidance your program provided us.
It's
been a whirlwind of a year starting horribly and ending on a definite
up-swing. We continue to practice the principles you set
forth in M arriage Fitness and taught us in the boot camp and I believe
implementing those practices truly saved our marriage.
Keep
up the excellent work!
Christine
P.
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"I
would recommend his product to anyone in
crisis or just wanting to
enhance their Marriage."
From:
John T. Lowe II
Sent:
Monday, February 05, 2007 12:06 PM
To:
MortFertel@MarriageMax.com
Mort,
I
would say with all honesty that your product is great. It's easy to
use, very down to earth, and a great tool that you can use anytime even
if times aren't bad. My wife and I went through Counseling and it was
thousands of dollars. Marriage is the most important agreement you will
ever have in your life, and Mort's program shows you how to treat it
that way even if you don't feel like it sometimes. I would recommend
his product to anyone in crisis or just wanting to enhance their
Marriage.
John
Lowe, Haslet, TX
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"
Thank you for being a shining example of
excellence and integrity."
Dear Mort,
I just want to
say thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wisdom and
straightforwardness. Your answer lifted a huge weight off of
my heart. I asked you about my husband watching pornography
and feeling uncomfortable that he still watches it especially after
he'd tried several times in the past to get me interested in engaging
in sex with other people, etc. I just want to relate to you
that previous counselors we've had would say things like its ok to
fantasize about other people, it's harmless. I never felt
this was ok, but felt outnumbered when a respected
female counselor sided with my husband and told me that it was healthy
to fantasize about other people... I started feeling that
maybe I wasn't being open-minded enough. I was so pleased to
hear you say that its no t s omething that I need to accept and that
this is one area that you don't relate to the average person in - that
pornography doesn't have a place in any marriage. Thank you
so much. I know that I have the right to feel and believe
what I want regardless of what other people may think and believe, but
it really is nice to know there is someone out there whose opinion I
respect that also feels this way. It gives me strength and it
just validates for me even more that I've found the right
resource in you and the Marriage Fitness
program. Thank you for being a shining example of excellence
and integrity. I appreciate so much the work you are doing.
Z.B.
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"You were able to
accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage counselors failed
to do in 2 years."
Dear
Mort,
We
just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do. My wife and I have
been together for 7 years, spent the past 4 years in constant turmoil,
and the past 2 years with 3 different marriage counselors. We have
spent literally thousands of dollars trying to get a grip on our
relationship, only to watch it plummet faster.
I
found your website after a tremendous argument during which she and I
both agreed that it was over and we were wasting our time. I have been
married twice and she has been married 4 times, so failed relationships
are nothing new to us. Somehow, practice doesn't make it any easier.
You
were able to accomplish in 1 1/2 hrs what 3 marriage
counselors failed to do in 2 years. Your assessments
made us realize that maybe it wasn't ALL "their" fault after all, and
your straight-forward but gentle approach in the
tele-conferences lit the path to a recovery that we didn't think was
possible.
There
is no way that we can begin to express to you all that you
have done for us, so we will only tell you "thank
you". We will continue to tell friends and family in relationship
trouble about your programs.
JL
& GL.
Martinsville
, IN
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"Within
hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital
dilemma that were based on my past attitudes"
Hi Mort ,
I participated in the Lone Ranger Track. Within
hours, I obtained many insights into my contribution to our marital
dilemma that were based on my past attitudes. I instituted changes to
my outlook and behaviour that have improved our relationship, but have
more importantly resulted in more self-discovery and self-improvement.
My sense of purpose is much stronger, as is my understanding of our
situation. I highly recommend full participation in the Boot Camp for
anyone!
Thx
mj
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"...really transformed my marriage
and now my wife and I are better connected with each other"
Dear Mort
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for
the valuable lessons. I was on the Lone Ranger Track, the instructions
really transformed my marriage and now my wife and I are better
connected with each other which is the key element in a happy
marriage. Minor things still remain and we are working on them.
I believe Marriage Fitness is a very effective
program .. .
And the best part is that most of the time what appears to be a problem
in life turns out to be a very positive thing, including a problem marriage.
Marriage Fitness Program provided that it is based
on strong belief in God, is very helpful in repairing the damage to
emotional feelings through misunderstanding or ignoring your spouse' s
needs as the closest person to you.
Yours truly
K.C.
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"This program is life changing and I am
so happy to have been able to participate"
Hi Mort,
I just wanted to give you some feedback on how this program has worked
for me.
I did the lone ranger track of the boot camp as my husband and I are
separated. It has been amazing for me. My
husband is having an affair and I was just so hurt and betrayed by it
all. Until I started this program I was depressed all the
time and really hating life. I didn't think there could ever
be any way to fix my marriage ever. One night after
a fight with my husband I did a search on the internet
for marriage counseling. I came across the
Marriage Fitness website. I signed up immediately.
What did I have to lose since there was a money back
guarantee. After the first week I started to feel
better. As I went through the program my relationship with my
husband has changed also. We are learning to communicate
better and slowly falling back in love again. I have learned
so much from this program and I feel I am finally fixing myself and
becoming the person I used to be …
This program is life changing
and I am so happy to have been able to participate. I
complete the entire program and even signed up for the Plugged In (continuation) program.
It has been so worthwhile. Thank you Mort!!!!
Sincerely,
Joy W.
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"I feel secure in my marriage, and my
husband says he's never been happier"
Please cancel my subscription to the plugged in
program. It's just amazing that I can no longer relate to the
callers! Results from implementing the Marriage Fitness
instructions got us living together again, and the continuation program
kept me going during trying times. I feel secure in my
marriage, and my husband says he's never been happier.
Marriage Fitness is effective. Mort Fertel is a genius. Thank
you, Mort!
O.G.
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"This
program is brain food for the sole. You will find this information no
where else"
Dear Mort Fertel and
Marriage Max,
I joined the Marriage
Max program a little over two months ago with huge apprehension. The
cost seemed very high compared to other web sites cost and my situation
seemed hopeless at best. Realizing the Steven Covey Principles
were integrated through your teachings got my attention quickly. Steven
is a hero of mine. As convincing as that was, it was
your own battles you, our teacher, actually went through yourself. That
made is personable for me. I first learned that Mort Fertel
is an extrodianary man, intelligent, thoughtful and wise. But
it is the presense of YOU, the student that makes or brakes your
success. Mort gives you work to do, but it is work you WANT
to do and have to do…I've learned to
love in an action sense, not as a noun. My personal
integrity has improved, my work performance went to a
new level. My character is still being developed and always will,
but I now have the tools to know how. I
also have learned that love is a process, not just something
that happens, Rather, it's something that you DO. My long term
happiness is on the rise because my new found wisdom has
been sewn into my fabric of life. I won't take things for
granted, I'll have a better marriage, relationship with my kids, my
family and my work. There is not one single thing about this program
that you don't need. This program is brain
food for the sole. You will find this information no where else. One
word of warning. If you really don't want to change yourself and your
relationships, this is not for you.
John
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"I
have not felt this much peace and happiness in a long time"
Mr. Fertel,
Thanks for the wonderful Program.I was 16 and my
husband 18 when we
visited the justice of the peace;
and had a baby a month and half later.I never realized that a
good marriage just did not come with the certificate.I feel so
privileged to come
across such a professional in marriage instruction. Your program makes
me wonder where my common sense could have been 20+years.I
have
not felt this much peace and happiness in a long time: just hearing
what I should have known but not slowing down enough to listen to
that still small voice inside.I guess that is why God sent you along.
I am so proud of my marriage mission statement I read every
morning carefully pronouncing all the words. God Bless you and
your family.
Carla
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"My wife has moved back home 2 weeks
ago, and we are heading in a better direction. "
My wife moved out in April and wanted a divorce:
married 18+ years: wasn't like I didn't see it
coming
In June, my 15 year old son left me this note one
morning:
Dad:
Now that you are reading this, I might be on my way
to go skating, but I felt like I needed to remind you
that the measure of a man is not how he conducts
himself when life is good, but rather how he is when life is hell.
I love you and always will. We will get through
this.
Much love,
Jake
I knew I need professional help if I was to be the
man he needed to see, and I needed to be.
The Old Testament says" God hates
divorce".
I broke that down:
God: the greatest power in the universe
Hates: the worst emotion I can imagine
Divorce: The end of a marriage, and the end of a
family, as I have known it.
I figures if He hates, it, He would make a
way OUT of it.
A lot of prayers and a lot of
fasting by others changed her attitudes.
A lot of prayers and Marriage Fitness
changed mine.
My wife has moved back home 2 weeks ago, and we are
heading in a better direction.
My son reminded me that when
life is hell: still do the right thing!
There is a lot of marriage "fixing" info out
there;
Your's caught my eye when you explained " the best
thing you can give your children is a great marriage"
I'd say "thanks" but that would be not nearly
sufficient.
Neil
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"...your approach provides
a specific path to healing the relationship in a respectful and
measured way"
Mort,
Your program is the most constructive and poignant
course for Marriage and personal development I have ever seen. After
considerable time and research including reading or attending
counseling from well respected names such as John Gottman, Gary
Chapman, David Wood, and others, your approach is simply the be st… your
approach provides a specific path to healing the relationship in a
respectful and measured way and, perhaps most importantly, gives hope
that reconciliation is possible. I know the personal growth and
understanding I have achieved could not have been done without your
course.
Thank you.
M.U.
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"Life lessons I plan to never forget"
Mort -
My husband and I have been married for 13
years. I became resentful, had high expectations,
we stopped communicating, we stopped putting forth extra
effort in our marriage. We tried to be friends, we tried to
be content, we tried to have more...but never were in sync and one
day...he decided to move out, it was a shock, I was hurt. And
then I found your program online. I signed up for your
emails. The day he moved out, I signed up for your tele-boot
camp. Your program is so thorough. Each step is
outlined and every question is answered. Reading, listening,
completing the workbook and calling in re-energized me. Each
step seemed to keep me going and as much as I doubted pushing that
flywheel....you were right....fast is slow and slow is fast.
I have your quotes tacked up in my house, in my calendar, on the fridg,
in the car, as reminders.
I am in the lone ranger track and have seen a
tremendous change …t
hat change has calmed me, my children,
my other relationships and most importantly my connection with my
husband. You are so right that one person can transform a
marriage …we have
learned to enjoy each others company again. I am confident
that the lessons I have learned, the process of keeping our connection
new and exciting.
I want to thank you for helping me with my marriage
.. .
These are life lessons I plan to never forget.
Thank you.
Mary
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"God Bless You abundantly!"
Thursday, December 21, 2006
To: mortfertel@marriagemax.com
Subject: Thank-you/on
the road to success
Dr. Mort,
Your site is the only
site that appealed to me as far as valuable information. Because of the
information you have given we are both happier in just one short week!
We used to be
uninhibited when it came to sex and fulfilling each others desires and
pleasuring one another was a real turn on. We talked about
how it used to be. We did need to bring some change into our
relationship. The change was not just the toys, or the
experience. The time we spent together, the plan and
discussing our desires for each other and also our marriage came into
play.
God Bless You
abundantly!
E and
D
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"This program saved my marriage.
Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my
marriage around. "
My husband told me he
wanted a divorce. He basically blurted it out one night, then
started sleeping in the guest room. I was completely shocked
and surprised. He wanted to separate right away-- I didn't
understand the urgency, why the push to leave "all the sudden" when
we'd been married for 12 years. He said he felt no urgency,
that he'd been thinking about it for months, even years. He said he had
no feelings for me anymore and was just "done". The problem
was, he kept it all inside. He didn't share his thoughts and
feelings with
me .
Completely
devastated, I started searching for answers, fixes, anything to put my
marriage back together. I found Mort Fertel's marriage
fitness website. I showed it to my husband. He said
it all sounded like some marketing scheme and he wasn't interested in
"fixing" anything. So, I signed up anyway-- for the Lone
Ranger track.
The day I received my
kit in the mail, my husband was talking about actually filing for
divorce. I began implementing the techniques immediately.
After being in the
program two weeks, he stopped talking about the separation.
He was being nice back. After four weeks, he agreed
not to file, and to try to work things out. But he refused to
do the Marriage Fitness thing and he was against counseling.
He said he was going to read a couple books on marriage that
his mom gave him. By the sixth week he told me he wanted to
stay married to me, but wasn't ready to be intimate or move back into
our bedroom.
We're getting to know
each other again... slowly. We're building a friendship that
perhaps wasn't there in the beginning. He thinks we got
married too young, too fast. This program saved my marriage.
Without it, I had no idea what to do or how to start turning my
marriage around.
Thank you Mort.
Thank you.
~ TS
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"Honestly,
I never would have believed it myself. I thought for sure by
now my marriage would be over. "
I found you exactly how you said I might, scanning the internet for
help. I needed a focus because I was drowning in
the pain of what I thought was the inevitable. You
helped me see a new vision of what I wanted in my
marriage. Within 2 weeks of starting your program, my husband
said he wasn't sure about a divorce and he wasn't sure about what he
was doing. I hung in there, just as you said and things are on
a positive track now. Honestly, I never would have believed
it myself. I thought for sure by now my marriage would be
over.
My next vision is to complete the program again, this time with my
husband. Thank you Mort, for everything! I still
love getting your inspirational emails and hope to see you in a
workshop in person someday. Your perspective and program are
right on; putting love first makes all the difference.
Teri R .
Gilbert, Az
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"Within
1 week we had had the
most incredible connection.
"
Dear
Mort,
Thank
you so much for all you've done over the past 7 weeks by investing your
time, personal energy & creative talents into our marriage. You
not only helped save our marriage, but you showed us what we were
missing in our lives to make our marriage incredible! We know now what
it takes to make it work and have realized, it's actually fun &
exciting to behave in this alternative manner! We thank god
for leading us to your website & connecting us with you. You
are truly blessed with an awesome talent!
7
weeks ago my husband and I were through . We had a huge fight in the
car in the M cDonald's parking lot as we were waiting in the drive thru
to have our order taken. Being that there have been many more
arguments and close calls to our marriage that have built over
the 19 years we've been together, he screamed at me in a
manner I've never seen in him before, got out of the car, and
told me he had had enough! He exclaimed we're through, that
he was DONE! And he slammed the door in my face.
With
the baby in the back seat and me left in the drive thru, i pulled out
of line and to the side of the parking lot and just cried as he started
walking up the thru-way away from me. After finally getting
in the car so I could take him to work, We both talked and
cried all the way there (30 min) of how I was wrong, he was wrong,
still making each other extremely mad. Hours went by, no
phone calls, no emails. As I waited for his call,
email, text message, whatever...I researched marriage
counselling online and found your website. Finally I
gave in and I emailed him at work and I told him
about you & sent him the link to your site. I told
him I loved him and that I didn't want to end our marriage, no
matter how mad we we're and explained that I wanted to give it once
last shot. He Instant messaged me on the computer and told me to hold
on, he'd check out the website. He came back and said. He
didn't want to spend the money, we didn't have it! We made
the decision that WE WE'RE WORTH IT!, Plus you're money back
guarantee helped to instill in him that if he didn't think it was
working, we had nothing to lose. So he messaged me back and
said "Fine. Sign us up."
Within
1 week we had had the most incredible connection. Something I swear we
hadn't felt in over 10 years!.....The 2nd week had even more great
ideas. Neither of us was wrong, come to find out!
We we're BOTH just not meeting each other's needs. I honestly
didn't think I was part of the problem, however, This program helped me
realize that not only did my husband have a problem that was believe it
or not "somewhat easy" to get started to correct but I too had things
that we're sabotaging our marriage. We both put forth the
effort 110% because you made it fun and non-threatening, no one was
getting blamed, there was no finger pointing! No matter how
wrong one of us was about any particular marital issue, we we're made
to take responsibility for ourselves ! You helped to put laughter back
into our lives, You helped us to analyze our own faults and be
responsible for them & you helped us to begin to trust each
other again even after we had reason to never trust again. I
couldn't believe how helpful you could be in the 10 minute laser
coaching sessions! Those 10 minutes each week were a new way to
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